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-1

That's some bullshit right there though, imagine if you just left your girl for any younger and prettier girl coming your way. If you commit at least be loyal, what the fuck? If you want out, leave, but leave and then fuck another guy. Too much to ask apparently.
/r/askTRP14/11/16 12:31 PM
1

The thing is, the guy who has the woman he wants will always be happier. The only thing you got over him is that you're not in a position to get hurt a lot more. Min/Max.
/r/askTRP14/11/16 12:03 PM
2

What if they know you like them and they're just teasing you? Or just feel comfortable? Or are just friendly? Or all these things people say when asked what "x touching" means.
/r/askTRP12/11/16 04:01 PM
3

A guy in another thread said "treat every gun as if it is loaded". If it doesn't fire, cool.
/r/askTRP11/11/16 08:52 PM
1

Yeah, whatever works best for you.
/r/askTRP10/11/16 08:03 PM
1

Well yeah, if you don't really want it it won't happen. Whatever you want.
/r/askTRP10/11/16 07:35 PM
1

Go to a nutritionist, calculate your body fat and metabolism, have a diet and workout program to suit your needs. Math, it WILL happen if you stick to it.
/r/askTRP10/11/16 07:27 PM
1

Hire a nutritionist and do a workout program to take you to 78-80kg, 10% bf. I think lean is much better, especially when you choose your clothes and possible accessories right. Plus you look better naked, more agile, better stamina, and can sustain your volume easier without supplements and too much workout.
/r/askTRP10/11/16 07:23 PM
1

It's easy to find your ideal lean muscle weight for your height, you're as tall as Chris Hemsworth. So 91kg lean muscle it is, his Thor body was 100kg I think. Possibly around 10% bf.
/r/askTRP10/11/16 07:12 PM
0

That's too thin I think, even with 10% bf. I think 82-85kg with 10% bf is your ideal lean muscle body.
/r/askTRP10/11/16 07:06 PM
11

I have this feeling that quite a few of the recent posts are just trolls.
/r/askTRP10/11/16 09:25 AM
1

lol
/r/askTRP10/11/16 09:09 AM
4

Some people can control their impulses and insticts. I for one, would not fuck every woman that is willing to spread her legs for me no matter what my "spread your genes" instincts say. So there must be women that are also in control. The road doesn't change. Improve yourself, then improve yourself more.
/r/askTRP09/11/16 04:32 AM
1

I recently read an old thread about a woman that was considering leaving her husband so she can get alphas again, and what another woman told her was that she shouldn't do it, not because of the man itself and consideration of his or her feelings or whatever, but because it's most likely that it will not work out and she won't find someone better. If the chances were good, she'd be gone. She just didn't want to take the risk to keep her ass safe and provided for if she stayed, or she just left h…
/r/askTRP08/11/16 02:20 PM
2

That's what women are attracted to, suck it up.
/r/askTRP08/11/16 08:01 AM
2

Yeah...that's the thing. This whole thing is retarded, but it's the way it has to be. You do what you must, not what you want. Or you change what you want to what you must. The alternative is crying in a corner, because a woman will not fall in love with another woman. She's the one that has to do those things.
/r/askTRP08/11/16 07:57 AM
1

That's why I ask, so I can get it.
/r/askTRP08/11/16 06:55 AM
1

Well, not like a "well, I am waiting! Why didn't YOU contact ME?!" argument. More like a chill "I've done my part, you didn't" kind of answer while not expecting an aswer from her as to why.
/r/askTRP08/11/16 12:42 AM
1

That's not what I asked, I asked WHEN you meet up and if SHE asks why have you not contacted her, why can't you turn that question back to her. For one there is a time limit, tic tac. Yeah I know what you'll say, abundance, don't focus on one girl, but again that's not what I asked. There are limitations and some things just don't work that way. I understand TRP way is to move on.
/r/askTRP07/11/16 11:25 PM
1

I am not the OP, and my situation is a bit different although I can't and won't mention details. So it's her fault there is no contact, she won't do anything to contact first and if SHE asks you can't tell her that? Well, I am fucked. I can't possibly see how I can win this unless my SMV fucking explodes like a super nova.
/r/askTRP07/11/16 06:07 PM
1

Yes, she did nothing wrong. But if she mentions it first, shouldn't you respond in a "well, why didn't YOU contact me?" way?
/r/askTRP07/11/16 05:42 PM
2

I don't think 6 inches is big, so I think it's possible. I wouldn't say anal, but that's the idea. Do something so she feels it, don't whine about it.
/r/askTRP07/11/16 07:59 AM
23

And you came here to ask that? In the den of "treat women like holes"? hahaha
/r/askTRP07/11/16 07:57 AM
4

Nothing. It's as big a deal as you'll make it.
/r/askTRP07/11/16 07:51 AM
1

Hold, shouldn't she know it's her fault we didn't have contact in the first place?
/r/askTRP07/11/16 07:46 AM
2

Not exactly that, but there are times I avoid hearing some butthurt love songs while in the past I liked them. It's like if things are going good, they don't apply to you. And if they apply to you, it's the last thing you should be hearing. So there's never a good time to hear them, so they're pointless. I don't see how women would be attracted to someone who listens to such a song and is crying his eyes out. Now that I think of it, I also pass on playing video games for this reason. I am like, …
/r/askTRP06/11/16 09:21 PM
1

I don't care about her flaws. The only way is if I find someone better, how on earth I don't know.
/r/askTRP06/11/16 08:34 PM
1

Well, if they think with that bullshit they're going to attract men, let alone compete with attractive feminine women, they're pretty much insane.
/r/askTRP06/11/16 06:36 PM
1

I understand the point of abundance mentality, I can't feel it. She just destroys all other women.
/r/askTRP06/11/16 06:21 PM
3

So what if a girl likes you? Why is she better, you want the other one. What is this "I'll only like you if you like me back" mentality I'll never know. Then go get all the ugly girls that like you, hey at least they like you so its better.
/r/askTRP06/11/16 08:44 AM
2

And how much is a kg of beef or chicken? Or eggs? I think it's much better, especially eggs are easy to take with you and eat or have them already cooked in your home. If I am to overpay for protein, I'd rather buy expensive fish or meat for the same price.
/r/askTRP05/11/16 07:10 PM
1

It's just supplement to save time if you can't eat immediately after working out. As long as you take just what you need to SUPPLEMENT the amount of protein you have planned for the day, it's the same and you just save time and overpay for protein.
/r/askTRP05/11/16 06:19 PM
1

I can't understand it one bit. It still seems like just a brainwashing technic to me, a means to achieve an end but it doesn't reflect reality. Repeat to yourself that she's not that great, and you eventually will believe it. But what if she is?
/r/askTRP05/11/16 06:15 PM
6

Yes. Perfect 10, classy not slutty beauty, faithful, non smoker, nice character and personality, nice family, polite, unbelievable smile, takes care of herself, unbelievably feminine... Which is why I can't understand the abundance mentality for the life of me.
/r/askTRP05/11/16 06:10 PM
1

Closer to understanding the abundance mentality, that she's not that special and can be replaced. TRP way.
/r/askTRP05/11/16 02:15 PM
1

Because they'll end up the same for stupid reasons, alone and miserable. You have nothing to prove, they have nothing to prove. Men and women will always get together and be happy, to focus on those who are unhappy to prove a point is just stupid. So you'll end up old farts that will realise feminism and MGTOW failed, will stay a minority that will characterize failures, as much as independent feminists are considered unhappy failures no matter their career. If you like being alone, that's fine.…
/r/askTRP05/11/16 02:01 PM
1

I am above 6.5. That's how I know it looks small, I was very surprised when I measured it that I was supposedly above average.
/r/askTRP05/11/16 01:47 PM
1

But it doesn't matter what is more important, what matters is that a woman can tear you a new one anytime she wants to. You don't want a woman's pity. Comfort, reassurance? That's weak. You can only be so confident before it turns into a joke, because you need to be able to back up your attitude.
/r/askTRP05/11/16 10:31 AM
1

That's the point, a meh is not enough. It shouldn't happen if it was adequate and average. I don't think boobs are the same, because a dick has a job to do and stimulates more than the mind. You need a properly sized and shaped dick to be comfortable and fuck right in many positions. You want a dick that your woman is proud to have, not change the subject and you look the other way when it comes up. Or lie. It's like when you know you are good looking, noone can bring you down because they say "…
/r/askTRP05/11/16 10:15 AM
1

The thing is, if 6.5 is small how can you comfort average guys. What is small and adequate is not dictated by averages, it's dictated by the reaction of the women. A woman would not be impressed by a 6.5 dick. Also adequate is such a stupid concept, the real question is if a woman had to choose over a small/average/big dick in the same person and skill level, what would she choose? That's how you define what women want, not what they settle for.
/r/askTRP05/11/16 10:02 AM
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I don't know about the rest, but I know one thing. MGTOW is even more retarded than extreme feminism.
/r/askTRP05/11/16 09:53 AM
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6-6.5 looks small and thin, I doubt 5-5.5 is the average range.
/r/askTRP05/11/16 08:09 AM
1

What I got from TRP is that you must never show weakness. Is there any situation where being jealous will work in your favor? If not, you don't. You just make it part of your personality never to be jealous, because you have abundance mentality, you have options and you couldn't care less.
/r/askTRP04/11/16 02:45 PM
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Where do you guys find these women? Crazy.
/r/askTRP04/11/16 04:14 AM
1

Ah, I just love reading all the brutal "go kill yourself you pathetic sack of crap" answers. Maybe one day I will understand, I am closer than a month ago. I think.
/r/askTRP04/11/16 04:08 AM
1

Maybe it's their past. They were not wanted when they were younger and it's still in them.
/r/askTRP04/11/16 02:57 AM
10

I don't know, most men look like creeps even to me. Imagine if whales, old and ugly women hit on you all the time...how long would you last until you told each and everyone of them to fuck off.
/r/askTRP03/11/16 08:50 PM
1

Yay, I am in the 20%.
/r/askTRP03/11/16 07:35 PM
1

I don't understand how doing what you suggest in the end would make her go from 'meh' to 'eww'. I don't mean stalk her or bother her or anything. I just don't understand how you can be so absolute when it comes to her not seeing you differently even if you change for the better. Unless you say this to reinforce what TRP suggests, so it's like "this is the right thing to do, and if that helps you or makes you act that way then that's what you should be thinking". Also, we're talking about someone…
/r/askTRP01/11/16 06:39 PM
1

Or if the guy improved himself he'd be a valid candidate able to compete. Which would be much harder if he was of no interest to her in the first place.
/r/askTRP01/11/16 06:05 PM
1

Well yeah...result wise they're not different. Yet if she would, it means there is attraction and if she wouldn't it means there is not. The difference is that potentially there is hope. Maybe I got the beta orbiter definition wrong, my impression was that it's a person that is of no sexual interest to her yet he's still around her. And by "would date him" I don't mean a free dinner. If she's attracted to someone, I wouldn't call him a beta in that sense. Women are not attracted to betas, right?…
/r/askTRP01/11/16 05:51 PM
-2

What if she's a 10 and doesn't need verification? Also if she does that, is she aware of it?
/r/askTRP01/11/16 04:17 PM
-1

How is he a beta orbiter if she would date him? How is he beta if she would date him? Also, add to the above that she also has a boyfriend, what would your answer be?
/r/askTRP01/11/16 04:14 PM
1

As I see it you strive to be the best on everything, including that. Some people want that, that's what they'll do. The others will just have the option to do it with the benefits that come with it.
/r/askTRP01/11/16 03:01 AM
0

Why not? She's still the one = oneitis.
/r/askTRP31/10/16 03:10 PM
0

But she's still oneitis.
/r/askTRP31/10/16 02:36 PM
3

Bluepill love is superior. But it doesn't work, so you must adapt to what women respond to.
/r/askTRP31/10/16 01:02 PM
1

You can see her faults but you don't give a shit, that can happen.
/r/askTRP31/10/16 12:52 PM
1

Dude... This is not open to debate.
/r/askTRP30/10/16 10:45 PM
4

I lol'd.
/r/askTRP30/10/16 12:17 PM
0

How do you guys know for a fact he's not an 8? Overweight does not mean fat necessarily, it could be mostly muscle. Also what's the problem with height? Zac Efron's height is 5'8", and if Alexandra Daddario can see him sexually, who is a perfect 11, that settles it. I am not saying he is an 8, probably isn't, but your objections make no sense compared to what you actually know.
/r/askTRP30/10/16 11:27 AM
1

No, black people are not more masculine than white people. Black men do better than other minority groups due to more masculine physical traits and culture, but are still a minority. The OP mentioned the issue as a thing between minorities, never mentioned white guys. So no, white guys are not neutral, they have the highest potential, have the lion's share, and don't share the other people's ridiculous fixation about who gets the most white women. They need no approval and no validation from thi…
/r/askTRP22/10/16 10:18 AM
2

Rating should be done from the top. If she can't match widely accepted 10s, she's not a 10. If there are hotter women between her but cannot match a 10, she's not 9. And so on. A scale of 10 are not enough numbers.
/r/askTRP20/10/16 01:07 PM
1

Funny I saw this quote just now "When it is obvious that the goals cannot be reached, don't adjust the goals, adjust the action steps." Confucius
/r/askTRP19/10/16 10:55 PM
0

What I meant was that there is no difference between his oneitis and the next random girl, both can screw him over. Why not take the risk with the one he already likes a lot?
/r/askTRP19/10/16 10:54 PM
1

This is something to think about, but it's not a reason to give up. It's not like you're going back to a cheater. There are difficulties, there are risks, but also since she's your oneitis the "price" is greater. Besides, as I said, if you're really changed, you should be open to any outcome anyway, which makes the choice of the girl trivial as far as that is concerned. What matters is who you like the most.
/r/askTRP19/10/16 10:51 PM
1

Yes but you're not like that anymore, so things may go different. It might aswell be with someone you really like. If you change, then all that won't apply anymore. You still like her but this time you actually have a chance. I am not arguing to change people's minds, I am trying to understand. I can't understand.
/r/askTRP19/10/16 10:34 PM
1

So you have one you see as perfect and one that you don't. Both can screw you over, you might aswell give it a try with the one you actually want. I don't see how one is bad and one is good, you're still open to all outcomes. And if they don't matter to you as a trp guy, what's the difference? I am trying to understand why people are so negative about this. Ok I get it, don't run after her. But if you happen to meet or she approaches you, why not? What is the actual benefit other than confirming…
/r/askTRP19/10/16 10:00 PM
-1

Maybe he will not awake in a nightmare though.
/r/askTRP19/10/16 09:47 PM
3

You are wrong, being a whore is not a good thing. There is nothing subconscious about it, you don't want something bad for your daughter.
/r/askTRP19/10/16 07:20 PM
1

2-3 years to show seems way too much. You must've taken it really slow, or I underestimate the importance of muscle mass. Or both.
/r/askTRP19/10/16 06:53 PM
1

How overweight were you? I plan on 10% bf until summer.
/r/askTRP19/10/16 06:31 PM
1

Seeing how high end alpha males, the rich and attractive and famous, end up with women way below them, I'd say it's possible.
/r/askTRP19/10/16 03:32 PM
4

Even her face she can change. Hair? So many products to improve, hairstyle can be improved. Skin products. Teeth, fix everything that can be fixed.
/r/askTRP19/10/16 04:21 AM
7

I think of all the women I'd enjoy being with, and they're a lot. One has better tits, better ass, better face, she's taller/shorter, prettier, blablabla. Every other hot woman I'd fuck and I'd enjoy an aspect of her. They're all different, but all good. All sexy. Awesome. So why is it so bad for a woman to be attracted to different people and other men at times? She may have a moment she likes hairy dudes, coloured dudes, bigger dudes, unintelligent brutes, older dudes, younger dudes, intellect…
/r/askTRP18/10/16 09:40 PM
1

Huh...So Ross was right after all.
/r/askTRP18/10/16 09:18 PM
3

We're not superior, we're different. No matter what social movements say, some things won't change. They can't brainwash their way into our minds so we find fat attractive, they can't brainwash us to think unhealthy is attractive, they can't brainwash us to think sluts=studs. They have to make a choice, just as we have to become what they want, they have to become what we want. 3 threesomes are 6 men.
/r/askTRP18/10/16 05:41 PM
1

As I said, a decent woman would not make a mistake in choosing a partner so consistently. In which case her number is the last thing you should worry about.
/r/askTRP18/10/16 02:50 PM
1

It hardly takes 20 dudes to understand something is wrong, it must make sense depending on her age. Because if the 20 dudes were meant to just be fucked and were just an impulse of the moment and were three threesomes involved, then that's not decent at all. Men and women are not the same, hoes will never get the respect studs get. You can't change what men like and value the most by forcing "equality" down our throat.
/r/askTRP18/10/16 02:44 PM
8

It's not the number, it's the intention. A decent girl would have a zero to low number count, she would have high standards and wouldn't make bad choices so consistently to get that number high.
/r/askTRP18/10/16 02:28 PM
0

She'll find out eventually, why lie. It will backfire.
/r/askTRP18/10/16 01:50 PM
1

True. If a woman stopped taking care of herself, started using drugs or w/e but still loved you, you'd leave her. You didn't fell in love with a fat smelly junky that hates life, sits in the house and eats snacks all day. It makes sense you also keep the traits she found attractive in you in the first place, and improve them and add more things she likes.
/r/askTRP17/10/16 08:36 PM
2

I'd say you have to earn respect, since you can't be independent yet. Good grades, workout, pull your weight in the house...don't give them anything to use against you. Since you do way more than them, you can then tell them to stfu in a polite way since you're better than them and about to move out soon anyway.
/r/askTRP17/10/16 08:18 PM
2

I don't see how you're attracted to women with poor hygiene that don't even care about themselves, but whatever floats your boat.
/r/askTRP17/10/16 08:14 PM
1

A woman I like.
/r/askTRP17/10/16 07:58 PM
1

What I got from TRP is that you have to do what you must and not what you want. Or change what you want to be the same with what you must, so it comes out naturally. If that's what women want then that's what you gotta do. Oh well.
/r/askTRP17/10/16 03:15 PM
2

I wanted to understand abundance mentality for women, that she's not special, so I googled stuff and it came up among others. I still don't understand. Whenever I compare other women to her, she just keeps winning.
/r/askTRP17/10/16 03:07 PM
1

That's like a formula 1 driver teaching kart drivers how to drive. He couldn't care less. Kart drivers will just improve their own skills and will stay with their kart in their local track. And if a few finally upgrade to formula 1, they're all too good and rich to give a shit.
/r/askTRP16/10/16 11:34 PM
1

So it's possible, good to know. I don't care about food, I can give up everything for several months as long as I have the energy to workout a lot. Stretch marks and skin tightening is my main concern, which is why I'll go for 8-9 months deadline even though I'd be willing to do it in 3 since it's possible.
/r/askTRP16/10/16 07:40 PM
1

You think losing 2% bf per month is possible?
/r/askTRP16/10/16 07:26 PM
5

"All we have to decide is what to do with the time that is given us." ― J.R.R. Tolkien
/r/askTRP16/10/16 06:37 PM
1

Well, the OP mentioned brothels. That's what is happening in brothels. Escorts are better I guess, but I don't know how replacing 20 smelly men with a couple of smelly old rich guys is so much better. At the very least I'd like to be sure or fool myself enough, that she's clean and healthy and a proffessional.
/r/askTRP16/10/16 11:45 AM
1

Not all men have the same potential. Some people can't reach the top and be treated like a king no matter how much they try, like some women can't become supermodels no matter how much they try. Genetics matter.
/r/askTRP16/10/16 01:18 AM
1

Well, the idea that the same woman was fucked by twenty smelly men just before you got in is not very attractive to some people. Some people don't care, they'd fuck transexuals if they're horny enough, they'll have threesomes with other men...Some care.
/r/askTRP16/10/16 01:16 AM
0

Well if she's willing to cheat and he's willing to get a cheater, they probably deserve each other. I don't like either kind.
/r/askTRP16/10/16 12:57 AM
3

Well, most men do look creepy. You can see it in the gym for example, all those average guys thinking they're the shit because their body is good, but you can tell that if they hit on a hot woman, they won't look good. Some things just are, I think TRP gives way too many hopes on average men. If you're a 5, you'll get 5s and maybe a 6 easier. You won't suddenly be able to pull 9s or even 7s just because you lift and managed to grow the balls to talk to a woman.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/16 07:18 PM
1

There is just one small article "There's this one girl...".
/r/askTRP14/10/16 10:00 PM
1

Yours was not a unicorn cause she had and wanted casual sex. But what if she didn't and just wasn't interested? What if she was a 10/10 but she had a boyfriend. You changed your view easy, what if you don't have something like that to bring her down in your eyes? How do you get over that?
/r/TheRedPill13/10/16 08:58 PM
0

Not niceness and loyalty, what if she's objectively more attractive and more feminine?
/r/askTRP13/10/16 08:14 PM
2

It's not like you're hiring a doctor. Who do you think will be more pleasant to the customers and you, and get the job done? The attractive girl.
/r/askTRP13/10/16 03:23 AM
2

The difference between races is variety, and their averages. Black men may not have variety in hair/colour etc on average, but they are more masculine. Now Asians and Indians/Pakistanis also have a lack of variety in how they look, but their average is not so masculine. Same with hispanics I guess. It makes sense why women would be attracted more to masculine men than not so masculine men. Oh, and also culture. If you compare the stereotypes of black men hanging out and others hanging out, you'l…
/r/askTRP12/10/16 02:03 AM
1

If you are an average or below average looking white guy you can also forget about hot blondes, or hot non blondes for that matter.
/r/askTRP12/10/16 01:43 AM
3

I can name a few reasons why that happened, but I am still a little surprised about how easy it was. For one, the women were not 10/10 themselves.
/r/askTRP11/10/16 04:04 PM
1

Yeah, I guess you're right. You gotta do what you gotta do.
/r/askTRP10/10/16 05:00 PM
2

I agree with this. You can look good with clothes, but go to the beach and that's a whole other story.
/r/askTRP09/10/16 02:08 AM
1

So your argument is that it is of high risk, not that it's not true. I didn't find this forum looking to convince others of my ways, I found it while trying to learn things, and I did learn things. But some things make no sense to me, so I argue about them to see how others see things.
/r/askTRP09/10/16 01:12 AM
1

Thanks, but that's not helping me. I want to understand how these people view things, because I agree with them otherwise. I'll keep searching I guess, but I think I might be running out of material because I keep seeing same articles and comments while browsing.
/r/askTRP08/10/16 06:23 PM
1

It is the greatest because it's what makes you the most happy, that's what you want. What else would you want from life, travelling around the world? Skydiving? Making money? Do it with her, it's all much better. It's not about basing your entire happiness, it's about what motivates you. Family is family, friends are friends, pets are pets, it's not the same kind of happiness. The risk is there, but so is the potential. You can't give up on your dream just because you might not make it. TRP help…
/r/askTRP08/10/16 06:00 PM
1

Not girls, a girl. It's not that other things don't provide happiness, it's that they can't reach that potential and also it's a different kind of happiness.
/r/askTRP08/10/16 05:43 PM
1

So it's not that it's not the greatest motivation, it's because it has a risk. So you have to convince yourself something else is more important so that motivates you instead. Brainwashing. What do you mean "at least family"? I agree about discipline, you can have both though. Discipline can be boring while motivation pushes you forward.
/r/askTRP08/10/16 04:52 PM
0

Like what? Career? Money? They're just the means to an end. What can offer more happiness than being with the girl you like? I read and listen a lot, and I agree with many things. I understand the changes must be made to walk the road, but I don't see how the destination changes.
/r/askTRP08/10/16 04:48 PM
1

I don't want to brainwash myself into believing something, I am looking for valid reasons why it is so.
/r/askTRP08/10/16 01:14 PM
1

Yeah, I've read about it, listened about it. I don't get it. I get why other things are important to get the girl, I don't get how they offer a higher happiness "ceiling".
/r/askTRP08/10/16 12:16 PM
1

The only thing that motivates me is the girl I like.
/r/askTRP08/10/16 11:56 AM
2

Well, the best up to now. How on earth can you think of anyone better until that better actually shows up! You don't want that other girl, doesn't matter if she's more attractive or less attractive. And even if you settle temporarily, why should you give up your dream? I agree though, your road is the same either way. To be attractive you have to act other than how you want and feel like. It's so fucked up.
/r/askTRP07/10/16 08:27 PM
2

Wanting the best you can get is bad for you, and settling for something worse is not? I think the only way to get over it is if you find unnatractive traits, good luck with that, or find someone else, good luck with that. Or if she gets married so you know the ship has sailed.
/r/askTRP07/10/16 07:57 PM
1

What if you don't have a confidence problem? What if hotter women , according to others, already show interest or hit on you? It makes no difference, you don't want anyone else. I don't understand this abundant mentality, when that abundancy is what she won in the first place, else you wouldn't feel that way.
/r/askTRP07/10/16 07:54 PM
2

Why low N count is impossible? She can be young and has long term relationships only.
/r/askTRP07/10/16 04:09 PM
1

You guys need to get over this race thing. You're the ones creating an issue out of it and then white people are accused of racism. Just be the best you can be, that's all you can control.
/r/askTRP07/10/16 06:54 AM
0

Haven't you seen any movies? Of course it's possible.
/r/askTRP07/10/16 05:52 AM
0

Lower your standards maybe.
/r/askTRP06/10/16 10:06 PM
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mgtow is stupid. Why on earth would you stay away from women? Some people...
/r/askTRP06/10/16 09:58 PM
1

And also other productive people can multiply their fortune for them. Why should they start in a position of unequal opportunity anyway, don't you have to earn it? To be productive? Why be given a corp worth billions? Get a house, get a car, get a set amount of money, sentimental value and all that. That's it, you earn the rest like everybody. You see now why I don't even care about those people that talk like that? They're hypocrits. They don't want meritocracy, what they're doing is live in a …
/r/askTRP06/10/16 07:06 PM
1

How can you share the person you love is beyond me.
/r/askTRP06/10/16 05:16 PM
1

The problem are the people who don't work, yet they inherit the work of their ancestors. The descendants are not nearly as productive, yet they have thousands upon thousands working harder than them for a fraction of their income. If you are pro productiveness inheritance should have a limit, you have to work for the rest and not ride the coattails of your fathers/grandfathers.
/r/askTRP06/10/16 05:11 PM
2

Out of all the fantasies I've had, I wouldn't do 99% in real life given the chance. Fantasy is fantasy. Maybe your best course of action is something similar to the scene below. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=za4aQbCg7dM
/r/askTRP06/10/16 01:16 PM
1

I see. What do you mean she's well trained? Unless it's exactly what you just followed with, so nevermind.
/r/askTRP06/10/16 05:35 AM
1

No, nothing sexual. She chose to keep in touch with that guy and not the other.
/r/askTRP06/10/16 05:24 AM
1

Let's say you're at a party and you spend 5h having fun with her, but when you ask for her number she refuses, but she offers it to the fat ugly guy that talked to her for 5 minutes. Why?
/r/askTRP06/10/16 03:55 AM
1

Your answer was closer to what I wanted to know. Why would they not believe they're friends though? Is it because she knows he likes her, or is it because she likes him? And how is this different than other guys that are friendzoned, as if she and her boyfriend don't know most guys would want to be with her anyway first chance they get. Doesn't that automatically mean that the other guy is different in that he can be a potential romantic partner unlike the friendzoned guys? Can't that "potential…
/r/askTRP06/10/16 03:39 AM
6

You can stop being cheap and hire a lawyer so you know exactly your options.
/r/askTRP03/10/16 09:32 PM
3

Or be a hot female and gather 2k stalkers in a month.
/r/askTRP03/10/16 01:27 AM
1

Well, a good amount of it is cardio, it's not as much as it sounds. I already talked to a nutritionist and go to the gym with specific goals and program. I just want to know if other people think my goal is possible in 8-10 months.
/r/askTRP03/10/16 12:23 AM
1

How many months you think are enough to go from 30% to 10% body fat? With great, calculated calories diet and 2h a day working out, 6/7 days a week.
/r/askTRP02/10/16 11:41 PM
1

They may be cold blooded hypocrits, but they're not hateful.
/r/askTRP02/10/16 08:55 PM
1

And that's how killers are born.
/r/askTRP02/10/16 08:54 PM
0

As you can see, some TRP people are scum. They have no morals, double standards, they use knowledge in a bad way. TRP is a tool, it does not dictate your morals and goals. You're already a scum I guess for cheating, but it's never too late to do the right thing and not be a scum from now on. Don't waste her time, she should decide what to do with it. So you have to decide, are you a scum or are you not? The answer is obvious either way.
/r/askTRP02/10/16 12:26 PM
1

Be with the woman I love. I drove expensive cars, lived in luxry... Out of all the things, nothing comes close. But hey, it's "oneitis" so you can't have that, right? Well fuck you, that's what I want and everything else are just the way to get there.
/r/askTRP02/10/16 11:27 AM
1

There are people that are cynical and have no conscience and ethics. You don't have to agree with them. You can use a hammer to build or to wreck. TRP provides a hammer.
/r/askTRP02/10/16 01:10 AM
1

Well, leagues still have their ups and downs and most men could agree one is more attractive than the other, but not enough to deny someone having a subjective opinion about it.
/r/askTRP01/10/16 11:02 PM
1

I think they're on the same league, which makes it subjective. So your personal taste makes them worse, only you know why. If two women are not on the same league, personal taste doesn't matter.
/r/askTRP01/10/16 10:53 PM
1

You realise mgtow is the male equivalent to hardcore feminists right? That's where you're headed, think about it.
/r/askTRP01/10/16 10:48 PM
3

You should do what you'd want her to do in your place.
/r/askTRP01/10/16 10:21 PM
3

Well, if it doesn't exist there are a whole lot of pointless songs out there.
/r/askTRP01/10/16 06:10 PM
1

No, I don't mean like she's attracted. I mean like she's acting like she doesn't remember, yet she mirrors details. How can she remember and mirror minor things yet forget major things?
/r/askTRP30/09/16 04:50 PM
2

You will imagine Mike Tyson is in their place in front of you, and if you are in a situation where you'd be forced to hit him even though you'd know he'll destroy you, then you can defend yourself against both men and women.
/r/askTRP30/09/16 01:42 AM
3

Why is it pointless?
/r/askTRP29/09/16 09:46 PM
1

I see. Well, I guess you gotta do what you gotta do.
/r/askTRP28/09/16 07:18 PM
1

I see. I agree they understand they have control over you. But when she sees other, arguably more attractive, women hit on you in front of her, or she sees other women like you, how does that mean you have limited options or are of low SMV? She can see the options!
/r/askTRP28/09/16 06:47 PM
1

I don't mean longterm. I mean when you're already part beta, like when you're with her and you're in a "oh, my love, my darling..." phase and she's like "wtf" and you then realise it, you can't just switch like you're a split personality. I don't mean fake it, I agree with you. You have to develop yourself so it's just natural and it's you.
/r/askTRP28/09/16 04:40 PM
-2

I think TRP as a useful tool to get a unicorn. What can I say, I just want one woman.
/r/askTRP28/09/16 03:13 PM
0

If your point is that white women prefer black men, the answer is no. If your point is that we should care if some white women find black men attractive, the answer is no.
/r/askTRP28/09/16 02:05 PM
1

I don't think they're stereotypes, there are features not availiable to everyone. Having more to choose from raises the potential, which is why the top models and sexiest lists are white. They're an insane combination of physical qualities and colour combinations that are not availiable to the other races. Here's hoping people won't take what I said as racist.
/r/askTRP28/09/16 01:46 PM
1

Well at first you can't help it, so if you change it later it will look that you're just trying too hard.
/r/askTRP28/09/16 10:45 AM
1

I want a filet mignon but not all are filet mignons. If you find another, ok, it will make you forget the one before anyway. But if you don't, why not try for the filet mignon you already met. You met hundreds of women, thousands, yet out of all those "same" women, only 3 made you feel that way. Yes it's subjective, you can tell just by seeing that not all men around her feel this way. To some it's just another pretty girl. Who cares, she's still better for you than all other women you met. Othe…
/r/askTRP27/09/16 09:57 PM
1

Do women feel attracted to men that they see are alphas when it comes to others but threat them like betas? Or if they display traits from both sides, which side prevails?
/r/askTRP27/09/16 06:24 PM
1

So you don't know or you don't want to say? In many questions people give straight answers, I don't see how is this one different.
/r/askTRP27/09/16 06:12 PM
1

But what do women think about that person? Is it attractive to women? Because she's seeing both things she likes and thinks she doesn't like.
/r/askTRP27/09/16 06:06 PM
1

Hey, if you know something share it with us!
/r/askTRP27/09/16 06:00 PM
2

It's not that I need to, I want to A LOT. Like I don't need to eat filet mignon to live, I can live with bread and water. What's the point of being able to afford filet mignon if you still live with bread and water? Because man, you already met the hundreds of girls and they didn't make you feel that way. If they're similar or "better", why didn't the same happen with them? It's one thing to not be with her because she's not attracted to you, you have to improve to increase your chances. But fin…
/r/askTRP27/09/16 05:05 PM
1

Why? What's the point of being in the position to get what you want if you're not supposed to get it?
/r/askTRP27/09/16 03:25 PM
1

Theory, because you dealt in absolutes. I like the idea that there is hope, even if it's damn hard to achieve. Like ok, you declared yourself below her level, it's not like you can't become above her level potentially. Nothing comes to mind, but there must be examples of beta losers who drastically change and then women that ignored them don't anymore.
/r/askTRP27/09/16 02:42 PM
0

As I said, it matters not if he said it or someone else did, it's true. What I am saying is the way things are, if you have any idea about geopolitics. Not even Trump knows the "facts", he'll know if he wins. And when he knows them he'll do what is in his country's interests, not what he promised to the voters. Obama promised that he will recognize the Armenian genocide, but he broke that promise because the relations with Turkey are more important. He got a reality check, he won't lose billions…
/r/askTRP27/09/16 12:00 PM
0

Yes, he has the power to change everything, or so I've heard. It still doesn't matter unless he's crazy, once he really knows what is at stake about some things, because now he doesn't and he can't know, then he will change, say as far as international relations go. Everybody gets a reality check, so many classified things, it's a different world. "In politics, nothing happens by accident. If it happens, you can bet it was planned that way." Franklin D. Roosevelt I don't know if he actually said…
/r/askTRP27/09/16 04:28 AM
3

"She's not adorable, she's manipulative and petty. She's not beautiful." Why is she not beautiful? If he doesn't think she's beautiful and great what's the point? As I see it he's living the dream.
/r/askTRP27/09/16 03:54 AM
1

The president is a "figurehead", it's the political/military/economic bureaucrats that inform and advice him and his team so they can make a decision. These bureaucrats are not going away when the government changes, and they tend to give a reality check to whoever is in the office. If something does happen it won't be because one man said so, it'll be because that's what the country's interests dictate, say war. Imagine things that are in motion for decades changing because someone has a 4 year…
/r/askTRP27/09/16 03:35 AM
1

Probably is good enough I guess. I agree with you, what is important is improvement in all levels, you'll cross that bridge when you get to it :)
/r/askTRP26/09/16 11:13 PM
1

Oh, I agree with you. What I asked was because you seperated "beta blocking(she considers you beta?)" from other rejection reasons, as if there's no coming back after that specifically. Or did you mean "beta block" as in your current beta self will prevail so you won't improve in half a year?
/r/askTRP26/09/16 10:42 PM
1

What if you beta block yourself and improve in half a year and are not so beta anymore?
/r/askTRP26/09/16 10:08 PM
1

Putting it on hold and trying again in the future after personal improvement is out of the question?
/r/askTRP26/09/16 09:42 PM
1

I do agree with what you said about absolutes, this ironically pisses me off aswell. The thing is, I am here just a few days and people are doing this all the time, like it's a rule and you have to take it for granted and they respond based on that. And I am like "hold on, you don't know the girl I like has fucked 54 guys or is a compulsive cheater, why do you respond to me based on that assumption?". I also agree with the last part, what I am saying is use that knowledge on what women respond t…
/r/askTRP26/09/16 12:17 PM
1

You just do it. "But I...", no ifs and buts, just do it. The goal is to be productive, always do something that will make you improve. You set your priorities and goals, but you work on them and work hard. Others are productive 8h a day? Jokes on them, you are productive 16h a day, your pace is faster. "But I have so much distance to run and it's overwhelming and...", well yeah, and the way to close the distance and overtake others is to never, never stop being productive (body, mind, you name i…
/r/askTRP26/09/16 11:40 AM
2

hahaha
/r/askTRP26/09/16 11:02 AM
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Sometimes they don't give a fuck that you don't give a fuck though. What then.
/r/askTRP26/09/16 03:50 AM
1

I think it's possible to overall outvalue her exs, and while idealizations are hard to compete with, if she's mature enough it's a non issue as she knows its idealization already, right? Like people here know that some men are attracted to the idea of a girl they have in their mind and not the girl itself, some women may also be aware of this. I am not trolling, why would you think I am trolling? If you don't want to respond, it's ok.
/r/askTRP26/09/16 12:46 AM
2

Here's how I see things. You can't expect a woman to spend her youth waiting for you. If she's decent, then her past relationships were most likely decent, that's comforting. I guess. Her past made her who she is, as yours made you who you are. You most likely have things in your past she'd rather were different. What matters is who she is now. If things in the past were different maybe you'd never meet her. Just take people's word for it, apparently it's not a big deal. They are right about oth…
/r/askTRP26/09/16 12:29 AM
1

Is the last sentence true or you're just being dramatic? EVERY girl? Is there a law that you can't be better than all her exs?
/r/askTRP26/09/16 12:06 AM
1

Well not neediness, "wantiness". If he just wanted to fuck he'd go for the other girl that likes him, but she has nowhere near the same effect on him, the most she can do is give him a few laughs and an erection. Validation...it doesn't mean noone likes the guy, hell, even women others consider more attractive may like him and hit on him, but he just likes the other one. Many women may have rejected him, but his ego didn't make him feel the need to validate himself then. So what you're saying is…
/r/askTRP25/09/16 11:50 PM
1

I basically agree with what you say about how to behave, women do respond to certain things more than others and TRP can help. I don't mean to fake it either, but to mature and develop and improve in a way that it will come naturally. And yes the attraction is subjective, not all men feel that way. That's irrelevant though, because you know it already and you don't care. What do you mean your ego is playing games?
/r/askTRP25/09/16 09:53 PM
1

Good point.
/r/askTRP25/09/16 09:19 PM
2

That's not the point. I am not saying she's suddenly not a female and that you shouldn't improve in ways TRP suggests. What I am saying is that to someone she is special by default, if anything because the previous 300 women he met had no such effect on him. You can't just eliminate all that and equalize all women to an average and use it as an argument for someone to forget.
/r/askTRP25/09/16 09:11 PM
1

Thanks, I will read this one aswell.
/r/askTRP25/09/16 04:48 PM
1

So TRP is all about getting laid? I guess I am too romantic for TRP :P Yeah ok, when in Rome do as the Romans do.
/r/askTRP25/09/16 02:54 PM
1

What do you mean, I see it how it is. I already chose it among 1000 cars. I think it's a better argument to say there can be, maybe, some women out there that can make you feel the same way or better. But saying that there are millions and you just need to open your eyes and she's nothing different than the average woman you meet everyday and already rejected and had no impact on you, that's misleading and it's basically brainwashing someone to forget by planting an idea that just isn't true.
/r/askTRP25/09/16 02:47 PM
1

Some people say they're stuck for years, so it is happening even if it's not supposed to work. Is it obsession if you see a Ferrari as a Ferrari, no matter if you can have it or not? Are there Ferrari's or are they an illusion? That's the question. Because some people are trying to put down someone's love interest as if it's nothing special, which is brainwashing, cause a Ferrari IS a special car, in a way.
/r/askTRP25/09/16 02:13 PM
1

I'll read this, thanks.
/r/askTRP25/09/16 02:06 PM
3

Why would you feel the need to "steal their women"? They don't feel the need to steal yours and brag about it. Why do you consider "your" women and yourself inferior to them? Why do you care if they feel superior to you? Cause they don't care about what you think. Besides, there are no collective "achievements". Just because a white guy managed to get a super model it doesn't mean I or all white people can. Why would I feel happy about another guy dating a super model, it's all him. So no, you d…
/r/askTRP25/09/16 12:34 AM
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