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Debatenotmepleaseokay/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 02:23 AM
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The thing is that men do need women, they live typically 7 years longer when in a committed long term relationship, amongst other biological benefits. Women only typically live longer by 2 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 03:26 PM
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Not really….
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 10:54 PM
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😂
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 05:54 PM
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You’ve been so patient with OP and have made really good point that they keep dodging bc it dismisses their core argument. They’re engaging disingenuously and are just trying to prove their point without really understanding what you wrote. Typical TRP men tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 05:33 PM
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Women know what the average American man is. They just don’t want to date them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 11:40 PM
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Have you ever date a woman in her 30s? Also, what you’re saying is that men date younger women bc they’re easier to manipulate into doing what men want. Which is by definition predatory and thus you’re implying that men are predators.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 01:07 PM
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So just sex then, not just reproduction. This is inherently untrue as women in this age group are typically inexperienced and not sure of what they want. That’s why there is a huge swath of young men that date older women, 35+, bc they’re more experienced, adventurous, and straight to the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 02:45 AM
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Prime in terms of what? Reproduction? Bc that’s about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 02:34 AM
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100% There’s real no benefit to get married for women where in contrast men live 7 yrs longer if they’re married.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 09:00 PM
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Money and power are resources for women to select on for reproduction. It’s the same any other species, such as the Bower bird which uses shiny things and their nest construction to attract mates. Shiny things are superficial and seem like that should be not valued as a virtue for reproduction but it is linked to successful reproduction. Male birds that spend more time on making more elaborate nests and accumulating more shiny things have more energy to produce it than those who don’t and thus f…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 05:53 PM
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Men have parasitic relationship with youth and sex. What’s the difference?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 04:58 AM
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Statistics are the only thing that trickle down to the individual level bc it’s the individuals that aggregate into statistics at the population level. I bet if you ask your cohort of female friends how many of them have been sexually assaulted at some point in their lives, it’ll prob be a lot of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 05:04 AM
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What you watched on documentaries doesn’t negate the statistics that men commit the majority of all crimes other infanticide. Sure women are sometimes capable, but not as capable as men - hence why men make up the majority of people on death row and the total prison population WORLD WIDE. They are the main perpetrators of GENOCIDE, WARS, MURDER, RAPE, MASS SHOOTINGS, SERIAL KILLERS, etc etc etc. Men are by far WAY more dangerous and capable of causing wide scale violence. If it was just, anyone …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 03:58 AM
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If anyone can do anything in the right circumstances than tell me what is it that women are 500 to 600% more likely to get murdered by the male partners? Why is that men account for the MAJORITY of every single crime other infanticide - from war/genocide/murder/robberies/slavery/pedophilia/extortion etc etc etc. If it anyone was capable of anything in the stats should reflect the population and women would be doing crimes at the proportionality of their occurrence in the population. That’s how s…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 03:17 PM
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What? Statistical likelihoods are used ALL the time from designing safety device measures to predicting market outcomes to how likely an animal is going to mate with another with a certain phenotype. What you’re saying is that the statistical likelihood that a woman is going to get murdered by her male partner is 500 to 600% more likely that a male getting murdered by his female partner is negligible and that’s absolutely asinine.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 03:13 PM
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Women feel the same way. The difference is that we are most likely to be killed by our male romantic partners than just be nagged by them 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 06:48 PM
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Im not the one trying to make an argument for why we should fetishize youth, you are
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 09:48 PM
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Sounds like you’re making a slippery slope for people who prefer teenagers.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 05:15 PM
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🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 03:09 AM
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Fetishizing youth is objectifying.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 12:38 AM
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I can’t stop it, bc it’s the objective truth that you keep denying because doing so feeds into your narrative. There’s more proof for the validity of my statement than there is for your emotional dribble.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 11:29 PM
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The reason why women grifters exist is because they exist in capitalism and are utilizing their resources to generate capital. It’s a by product of the patriarchy. If capital was removed as a means of living then less women would be incentivized to use their bodies to make a living, as living would no longer be measured in capital.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 04:44 PM
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There are evil men that aren’t in the 1%. Just bc some men have benefited more than other men in capitalism doesn’t mean that all men aren’t benefiting. It’s not just monetary, it’s structural. Regardless of how much money a man makes in male centric spaces where patriarchal norms persist, men have better access to resources and opportunities than women (see gender pay gap), men dominate conversations, when a man speaks they’re listened to as having authority while women are disregarded, men car…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 04:39 PM
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Have everyone has the power to speak up for injustice, including all men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 04:34 PM
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Again making excuses for the patriarchy. You don’t know the power of your voice until you use it to stand up for someone who is not getting equal access to resources or opportunities. By staying silent you remain complicit and are apart of the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 02:01 PM
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The thing you’re missing is that the 1% is male dominated (90%) and was allowed to est themselves so by utilizing captialism, a male created system, to reinforce the patriarchy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 02:41 AM
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You’re having to go smaller and smaller in differences to try to prove your point. The men at my job got promotions before I did, even though my quality of work was higher. I was often excluded in conversations that were led by a man to let other men know about up coming opportunities at work. Whenever I spoke up about the misalignment btw my male coworkers and myself, I was told I was opinionated rather than having my voice heard. When I tried to speak up in meetings I was constantly interrupte…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 02:39 AM
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Men having issues with rejecting the patriarchy and their role in it, no matter how small, is the same thing as white people participating in racist systems that benefit them while they have friends that are POCs. If you’re unwilling to reject the patriarchy as a man, than you have no place to complain about how men lack emotional support and are have feelings of isolation. These two things are result of the patriarchy. As for the classism, it’s anything but that. You have very little knowledge …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 12:52 AM
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The thing is that a male working as a stocker still makes more money than his female coworker working the same job. That’s the problem. It doesn’t matter what part of society you’re in, women are never treated equal. So the poor dude thinking he’s not participating in the patriarchy bc he works as a stocker means he’s not doing the reflective work to ensure that the women in his sphere of influence are receiving the same pay and access to resources as he has, no matter how meager. He doesn’t nee…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 11:48 PM
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Here’s the thing capitalism is a reinforcing system of the patriarchy, as capitalism exploits already existing patriarchal structures while the patriarchy provide unpaid domestic labor, gender wage gaps, and submissive labor force to prop up capitalism. Here’s a few readings: https://www.thegazelle.org/issue/199/capitalism-patriarchy-inseperable https://libcom.org/article/patriarchy-pillar-capitalism-and-will-fall-it Not labeling capitalism as patriarchal is harmful bc it doesn’t place the burde…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 11:43 PM
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The patriarchy is defined as a social system that benefits men by making society male centric which then interns relegates women’s role to being subordinate. The patriarchy was defined by men for men, so yes patriarchy = men’s fault. That being said, it doesn’t mean that just bc you’re born into it means you’re guilty for it, if you’re male. But if you participate in it and continue the norms that it pushes, yes, you are apart of the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 11:36 PM
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It seems like a problem of the patriarchy tbh. It’s the patriarchy that has established these norms, as the male driven system has told men to suck it up. Men are victims of the patriarchy as well. In feminist spaces, which are inclusive and accepting, men are encouraged to be emotionally intelligent and to proactively communicate their emotions and needs without condemnation or stigma as long as what is expressed in nonviolent or threatening to others within that space. Not sure why more men ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 09:11 PM
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Sounds like a male friendship thing versus a dating thing
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 07:49 PM
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Prove it w/ receipts, bc men, a ruling class, slut shamed women from the dawn of modern civilization via religious doctrine.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 11:44 PM
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My ex was obsessed with how much sex I had with my previous partners bc he was afraid he was getting less than them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 04:41 PM
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Slut shaming originated with men. Religious doctrines are the first document that contain slut shaming and they were all written by men, and the slut shaming was targeted at women only. You got some revisionist history that can easily be fact checked by Google.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 04:40 PM
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A) never seen this happen from high school to being in my 40s as a woman B) they can’t preselect what they don’t know C) not true, most women have less sexual partners than their male partners. D) not true in all cases
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 04:38 PM
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Depends on how old the woman is. I knew a woman who took my friends virginity at 27 and now they’re married.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 04:37 PM
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Virgins aren’t made fun of, well in any of the circles that I (41f) run in, throughout hs to now. Incels are made fun of, well bc they’re, incels. They believe they have a right to a woman’s body and should be able to have sex with whoever they want but can’t bc womeeeeeeeen.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 04:36 PM
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That’s what male comedians would tell me who bombed frequently - jealous boys go play with your toys
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 01:15 PM
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lol they laugh with me because I laugh at my own jokes
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 01:14 PM
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lol they laugh with me because I laugh at my own jokes
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 01:14 PM
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Yeah, that’s prob the reason. My lady friends are all educated and successful
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 01:13 PM
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Maybe it’s more the people that you associate with, bc in my circles it’s not like that
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 01:47 AM
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Dude is just jealous that women laugh at him
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 11:51 PM
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No, ask the men who are married to fat women who were fat when they met them and when they got married.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 11:50 PM
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lol “elbowed their way in” And I never bombed, soooooo there goes the whole not being funny part
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 11:49 PM
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Here’s the thing fat women get laid because men still find them attractive enough to have sex with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 09:58 PM
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As a once female comedian, I can tell you that it’s a boy’s club riffled with sexism. Men were able to establish what it was like to be a comedian back in the day and then they gatekeep it as most club owners and bookers are male.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 06:01 PM
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The dating market of people 50 and younger. People in their 60s date ffs.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 03:23 PM
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TBH this dude prob has a small d*ck, it’s the energy he’s giving off /s
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 01:04 PM
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You got to be kidding me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 01:02 PM
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I didn’t down play it - it’s just not even close to being equal - the stats prove it
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 07:07 PM
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Dude you trying down play the reality of women
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 07:01 PM
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Approximately 1 in 7 women have been raped. Approximately 1 in 71 men have been raped. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rape_by_gender Numbers don’t lie, but your feelings do
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 06:58 PM
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I doubt if you ask a few random men they will say that’s a concern. If you ask a few random women, they will all say it’s a concern
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 06:57 PM
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It happens, yes. Not denying it. But even unreported it doesn’t come close.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 06:47 PM
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It might not be 22% but it’s way more 0.01%. Your refusal to believe doesn’t the change the reality women exist in. https://laist.com/news/dating-app-cover-up-tinder-hinge-corporate-owner-keep-rape-under-wraps
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 06:46 PM
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I got sharp ass claws
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 05:43 PM
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One study showed 22% of women were raped on tinder apps in Spain. https://www.cambridge.org/core/journals/spanish-journal-of-psychology/article/abs/match-made-in-heaven-or-hell-understanding-the-high-incidence-of-tinder-rapes-in-spain/B577C1C11945531F4BF9D5DFD40DC0DD
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 05:43 PM
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Sure but not at the same frequency where men are inherently worried about it like women are.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 05:40 PM
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Paranoia? No. If it was paranoia, there would have been nothing there.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 04:24 PM
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He had absconded from where he was supposed to be. I didn’t know until I ran a reverse phone number look up on him after it felt off and found he had used a fake name. Used his real name and the first thing to pop up was a warrant for his arrest and his sex offender page. Dating as a woman is dramatically worse. Sure we get more dates but at least men don’t have to fear that they might get raped or killed by their date.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 01:32 PM
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Idk I accidentally dated a sex offender for a few months…..
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 12:19 PM
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Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 06:26 PM
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Maybe it’s not just your physical form?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 03:09 AM
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The break up, tbh, was a mutually agreed upon decision. I call it being broken up with because he initiated it first.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 03:45 AM
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Depends on how high you can count, I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 03:43 AM
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Ooooooo like a year ago for “research sake”. Waste of money for obvious results, lesson learned!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 03:42 AM
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And they never did 😂 I did
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 03:41 AM
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Spiritually vapid?? Can an atheist be such a thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 03:40 AM
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I can spell it out if you’d like. I was being abbreviated for the sake of replying to everyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 03:39 AM
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Nope. I did it because that’s what I wanted to do at the time. No STIs and no regrets. Pussy ain’t blown out yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 03:38 AM
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The lil’ boost I needed today - thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 03:37 AM
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I said a reductionist view- meaning A LOT of sad men come here and state bs like “if you’re over 30 your a LVW, no HVM wants you when they can date HVW in their 20s”
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 03:36 AM
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I am learning so much!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 03:35 AM
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It ain’t a fail if you learn something from it and let that help you become a better person.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 03:35 AM
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My personal definition or the definition that’s spouted frequently here?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 03:34 AM
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Ah okay…. Yeah that doesn’t jive with my reality. Plane tickets, dinners, giving me all their free time, showing me off, etc etc sure seems like I’m the adored one.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 03:27 AM
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Hmmmm, interesting. Bc where I live, in one of the top cities to live if you’re single, there’s a lot of women just like me and/or more impressive.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 03:26 AM
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💯
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 03:24 AM
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Never had a STI and not down for just a nut.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 03:24 AM
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I don’t even have tinder, lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 03:23 AM
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Outlier = statistical chance of being left to probability alone 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 03:22 AM
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I’ve been in 3 - 8yr, 3 yr, and 2 yr. My BC is probably higher than a uno deck. Don’t know bc I stopped counting way before that bc I don’t care
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 03:22 AM
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It’s not that I don’t want a LTR - it’s that I am not into what’s being offered as a LTR. My longest relationship was 8 years, then 3, and 2. I have specific requirements of what I want and if they don’t match them I don’t want them. And the point of this post is that soooo many sad men come here and say “any woman over 30 is low value”, “any woman with a body count over 1 is a slut and is low value”, etc. Can’t stand someone being like “yall are dumb and there’s proof in the pudding?” Do you qu…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 03:20 AM
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Explain plz like I’m 5 🥹
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 03:15 AM
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Haha, weight and height: 5’8” 140 lbs - toned/muscular
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 03:14 AM
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Whole list disproving that what people in here tout as facts don’t apply to all situations.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 03:13 AM
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Those aren’t single digits - when I say outlier I mean 2% chance or something of the accord. I know I am def not the majority but I am not a unicorn either.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 03:13 AM
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I think you’re 100% right. It’s a rarity but it’s not that rare - all depends on where you look. Where I live, one of the top places to live if your single, there’s soooo many women just like us. There aren’t many women like us outside of the city limits.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 03:11 AM
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I am def not a Carrie Bradshaw 😂. I am very clear and direct with what I want and expect from my relationships. I am too old to be playing game and don’t have the time for it. I never decided to settle down because I wasn’t interested in what was being offered.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 03:10 AM
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I could keep them if I wanted to, but didn’t want what they were offering. Been broken up with once and been proposed to a couple of times. It was never about me not being able to keep them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 03:08 AM
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Meaning sexually exclusive or a relationship. Not just DTF, as I don’t do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 03:07 AM
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Only been broken up with once. Been proposed to a couple of times and turned them down.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 03:06 AM
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Funny how I’ve been proposed to a few times with me turning them down.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 03:06 AM
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Meaning dating them either to sexually exclusive or in a relationship. Not just sleeping with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 03:04 AM
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But I don’t want a ring on my finger….
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 03:03 AM
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Grouping all women into being selfish is naivety and willful ignorance at its best.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 01:49 AM
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lol what?? Say that to all the single women at bars trying to hook up with a dude that they meet at bars.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 01:47 AM
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Yeah it’s weird as a 39 year old woman have many suitors in their late 20s - probably has something to do with me not wanting kids and I am not needy/dramatic
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 08:39 PM
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Lolol you’re such a reductionist when it come what it take to get an education, find a job, climb through the cracks and then has financial control to provide for a family. You think washing dishes is harder than someone studying at 1AM for an organic chemistry test right after working til 11PM delivering pizzas? You’re outta of your mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 03:22 PM
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Omg this. I’ve been on so many dates recently where the dude was cute but sooooo boring. I can’t bring myself to date boring so I just end it with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 02:40 PM
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I also think in addition to them being overweight the majority of men are boring, even the in shape ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 01:27 PM
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Know so many women who prefer men with a bit of meat on their bones.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 01:40 PM
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And the short fat men?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 01:40 PM
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I was being sarcastic.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 12:22 AM
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As a woman I only want be seen when I am heard and to be left alone with my fucking machine.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 10:46 PM
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While not all professions have formal education, there are a lot of professions that require specific education. Stating your profession is akin to stating you have an education, which is what you think is a red flag. So, no I do not agree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 10:45 PM
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Someone who is humble, polite, engaging, waits for you to finish your sentence, thinks about perspective, does not make unfounded assumptions, and gives away right away when it doesn’t matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 10:39 PM
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Stating your profession implies you have education. When I state I am a professional ecologist it implies I have either a masters or PhD. If a dude finds that to be a red flag, he’s short sighted, profoundly stupid, and weak in character - none of the things I would want to be associated with in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 10:37 PM
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Congratulations! You should be proud of that accomplishment
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 10:35 PM
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Hahahaha Cry me a river
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 10:34 PM
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If she came up and propositioned you, you wouldn’t turn it down.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 10:29 PM
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Omg yes, this. A bunch of incels in this thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 10:28 PM
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I am not going to openly rate another’s woman body. Just as I wouldn’t openly rate a man’s.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 10:26 PM
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An attempt to degrade other women is not a good look. The way a woman dresses and puts herself together is just as important as she appears naked. While not my type she could be an 8/10 in someone else’s eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 08:00 PM
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Ah. Why would they know and why would they care?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 01:01 AM
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Yes. A person with a higher N count might be a better lover because they know what they want, are kinky in the bedroom, and are good lovers. I’ve told everyone of my partners that I don’t know the exact number but it’s in X range. None of them have cared. One said they were intimidated but that I created a safe space for them to explore their desires and they have never been sexually satisfied before. After a few months of dating that intimidation fell because of how satisfied they were in the r…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 12:15 AM
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I am pansexual woman and have a high n count based on the average population. Couldn’t care less and does not effect who I date or who chooses to date me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 05:14 AM
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I date guys who are only nice and funny in addition to being attractive. Won’t date an attractive person who is not nice or funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 05:11 AM
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I am not shy about my N count and it has never deterred anyone. No mature person gives a flying hoot about this.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 05:10 AM
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Lol like $80,000 is a lot of money. That’s median income where I live.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 05:08 AM
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You chose classically Hollywood leading handsome men vs nerds (don’t who the 1st guy is) who get chicks bc they’re nice/funny. As a 38F, who dates way up (50) and way down (25), by these shitty pictures alone - I’d pick Hamm every single time. Plus I know he has a huge dick and that’s a plus no matter the age.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 10:20 PM
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The younger guys are average attractive while the older guys are very attractive. It’s like comparing apples to oranges here.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 09:29 PM
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Interesting! When is the end date? Year 15?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 02:11 AM
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So y’all aren’t dating but have been only having sex with each other for 14 years?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 02:06 AM
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Doesn’t answer the question of how you define “a lot”
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 09:08 PM
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You’re saying this as a collective which is categorically impossible.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 09:07 PM
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Trying to tickle yourself is impossible and completely reliant on another party making you tickle.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 09:06 PM
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Define “a lot” bc I have given “a lot” of BJs and never been turned down.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 09:02 PM
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Wow. So, many assumptions and none of it is based in reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 09:01 PM
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Source or assumption?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 08:58 PM
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Please, rewrite in coherent English
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 08:57 PM
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It takes an average of 15 mins to orgasm for a man. It takes women an average of 30 mins. Most women are left unsatisfied.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 08:56 PM
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Also because more men are self isolating to their rooms and the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 08:55 PM
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Damn, you’re daft, being a female and slut shaming. High body counts are relative and are stupid to use as a moniker for intelligence.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 08:53 PM
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Bc happiness is more complex than just sexual satisfaction
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 08:48 PM
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Women in the 50s weren’t allowed to be sexual creatures and were property of their husbands. Of course they wouldn’t care about sexual compatibility and if they acknowledged it they’d be slut shamed. Forced morality and ignorance is the reason why they never mention it. Plus they were just worried about marrying a man that didn’t beat them and were good providers, attraction/love/sex were all second thoughts if thought at all. Now women are allowed to be in touch with their sexual satisfaction a…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 08:41 PM
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Sources?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 11:37 PM
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I have been with people who I was not physically attracted to because they were nice, funny, and interesting. Nice is a prerequisite to me dating someone. Someone can’t just be one thing they have to be a combination of things. Being attractive won’t get you any further by itself if the person is not kind.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 02:20 PM
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The weird ideas of women are typically born from a place of misogyny. People with misogynistic ideas tend to be hostile to women if they’re left alone and don’t get what they want. Sure they seem like nice folks in social settings but I wouldn’t trust them if I were by myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 03:21 PM
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Source for what the majority of women are saying?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 03:16 PM
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I am not an outlier if I know many many other women who think the same way I do. I think the women who you are referring to are actually the minority. What does “at base think men are strong” mean? I evaluate individuals when evaluating my attractiveness to a certain trait. A man who is able to be sensitive, kind, and vulnerable is a man who I think is strong. I find men who find niceness as a weakness to be the weak ones full of fear for arbituary make believe social statuses. Sure there are wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 03:13 PM
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No trait is an island, they are all pieces of a larger puzzle. You can’t effectively evaluate niceness by itself. Even in the studies I bet attractiveness also factored in the outcome. If you could isolate niceness, I would pick the nice person over the asshole every single time.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 03:05 PM
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Sorry that you experienced that! It must be very frustrating to put yourself out there and get rejected for being who you are. That woman has misplaced values and couldn’t see past her own short-sightedness. I wouldn’t take as the litmus test for how all women behave. I personally find niceness as a turn on and a wonderful attribute in someone. When my friends and I talk about the men we date we gush over how nice, considerate, and thoughtful our dates are. The more nice, thoughtful, and conside…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 02:52 PM
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Above her? In what way?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 02:47 PM
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This is categorically not true and is leaning hard on personal preference, which is different for everyone. I personally seek out niceness in addition to other attributes. It shows humility, thoughtfulness, a high emotional intelligence, and vulnerability. Which are all 🔥in my books. It can be the lynch pen in my decision of dating them or not. If they’re not nice, I chose to walk the other way. If I find that they’re faking being nice, I’ll run the other way because that’s sociopathic as hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 02:45 PM
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They have to demonize what they see as competition to make themselves feel better about not being able to obtain what they desire. It’s a sign of emotional weakness and a lack of a spine. And yes! Thank goodness that most men aren’t like this. I have yet to run into a real life incel in the wild. I have had the pleasure of conversing with a red pill dude over a dating app though. It gave me the heebie-geebies so bad that I unmatched with him. It made me fear for my safety if I had met up with hi…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 02:40 PM
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As a female (38F) who is single, above average attractiveness, and successful, there is some truth when it comes to not wanting to be in relationships in my late 20’s and early 30’s. During this time I wanted to experience fun and adventure, wanted to focus on growing my emotional intelligence, and didn’t want to worry about having to ask someone for permission to do what I wanted to do. That being said throughout my dating life I have searched and chosen men who were nice in addition to their o…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 02:35 PM
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