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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
0	If We Assume She Was A Victim...		notmylinkedinname	/r/MensRights	09/04/13 04:47 AM

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3	My daughter's mother just left with her after a big fight. We are unmarried. She didn't tell me where she was going. What should I do? Excellent advice, if OP can convey the danger to the therapist. Mandated reporter, and all that.	/r/MensRights	16/04/13 04:26 AM
5	My daughter's mother just left with her after a big fight. We are unmarried. She didn't tell me where she was going. What should I do? Now is not the time to salvage the relationship. Crazy is understood. Now is the time to save the child.	/r/MensRights	16/04/13 04:25 AM
2	My daughter's mother just left with her after a big fight. We are unmarried. She didn't tell me where she was going. What should I do? Without a custody order, in most states, she can do what she's doing with no consequences. See above comment re: file custody first and file restraining order first.	/r/MensRights	16/04/13 04:22 AM
12	My daughter's mother just left with her after a big fight. We are unmarried. She didn't tell me where she was going. What should I do? Couldn't agree more. Don't react, don't answer her calls. Even if you think you're not reacting, she could perceive (or fabricate) an unpleasant reaction. Texts are good, but yes or no answers are best when possible. Difficult to misinterpret when (not if) she drags those records into court. Whomever files first has a significant advantage. It is with deep regret that I make this suggestion, but in most states if you file a restraining order (protection from abuse, relief from abuse, your local …	/r/MensRights	16/04/13 04:21 AM
3	My daughter's mother just left with her after a big fight. We are unmarried. She didn't tell me where she was going. What should I do? File first. Call the police. Not that they'll do anything, even with a custody order, but it's at least documented that way. Lawyer up. If you can't afford to lawyer up, call Legal Aid and get their assistance before she does. Conflcit of interest means if you "retain" them first, they can't represent her. My thoughts and hopes are with you, experience says you have an uphill battle.	/r/MensRights	16/04/13 04:17 AM
6	4-year-old boy tries to kiss a female classmate on the playground without asking the girl first. Dad tells him that he can't do that "because that is rape" and then writes a blog post patting himself My wife concurs, this is idiocy. Nevermind that there's a massive gulf between a "nonconsensual" playground kiss and rape. Nevermind that children at that age are entirely egocentric, and their world does not generally include how other people feel - that's why we teach them. Even if the author was spot on, his four year old will not remember a thing five minutes, much less five years, from the conversation.	/r/MensRights	16/04/13 03:24 AM
1	If We Assume She Was A Victim... Touché. I certainly could have chosen a better sub, but it is still relevant. Our society presumes that a victim or alleged victim is entitled to recompense from someone, no matter the cost to them, and no matter if that money could have gone towards fixing the mess of a system and a society we currently have. Do you have any idea how much change we could effect in the judicial system with $28MM? Or how much change could be effected in the law with that amount of money put towards lobbying? Yes,…	/r/MensRights	09/04/13 07:01 AM
2	Men, stop doing this to yourselves... It's both. Men (people) handle this sort of thing in different ways. Some mock or use humour to lessen their own pain. Wrong though it may be, it's frequently effective. Some use it to claim status, which seems to me to be a worse offence.	/r/MensRights	09/04/13 05:11 AM
1	If We Assume She Was A Victim... ...And the alleged abuse (this is a civil verdict, so the standard of evidence is shockingly low) started at 9... And she is blessed enough to live to 89... (generous but I'll go with it) And that she is so damaged by the alleged abuse that she can never work or function in society for her entire life... And that she annually earns the median salary of men of $47,715 (crappy source, but it's late and I'm exhausted)... Her actual damages if she started working at the median salary reference above…	/r/MensRights	09/04/13 05:05 AM