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Nobody ever stops to ask the obvious question. If she’s so great, why is she still single because they don't want to date? People can be good people and still be single.... Late bloomer, content, many friends etc. Also i mean why would a women want to date a man in this generation. Look at this post for example. In this generation, you'll get called bitter, old, expired. Men tell you to settle young. But it doesn't matter if you either settle young, after years and after you "expired" all he nee…
/r/Divorce_Men05/04/25 09:40 AM
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But this doesn't mean that a woman automatically wants to be objectivied as soon as a rich guy tries to hit her up.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 01:30 PM
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Not every woman is a gold digging leach
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 01:00 PM
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Yes, absolutely ALL WOMEN are the same. NOT. Some women like to be objectivied, and some just don't. Why is this such a hard concept for some man.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 12:59 PM
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Juts sounds like you and your friends just attract bad women. I mean, you are what you attract
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 06:03 AM
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Yes I guess that's kinda true
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 06:14 PM
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Like these are the only options, lol. Don't play dumb
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 06:10 PM
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No, not al men think like this, just how not all women want a successful, interesting (like being interesting is hard?) And tall men. Stop generalizing
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 05:02 PM
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I literally don't understand how you all only think a women his high value when they are young and hot, its like a woman is just a prize to you or something, and not a human being. I genuinely think people like you don't even truly understand what love is, like a human being is so complex and so much deeper. If you only see value in her age and appearance and you ignore what's inside, you probably don't even have a great personality and can't even love on a deeper level. Women don't go for men w…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 01:32 PM
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Men are literally shit on vaginas online. Have you never heard roast beef? Or these pictures were they show different ages with Donuts. And how older you are, how bigger the hole of the donut(vagina) etc etc
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 08:52 AM
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Umh, yes and? I'm clearly not a feminist silly.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 05:28 AM
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There is. Promiscuousy is unhealthy and a red flag
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 05:27 AM
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Such men are not necessarily bad Yes, they are. They are most likely promiscuous. No non promiscuous person expects sex on the first date. Men and women should avoid promiscuous people if you want something long term. That's why I said it's a good thing he leaves at the first date and shows his true intentions. Men like that won't stay with you for a long time. They grow bored fast even if you give them what they want. Also have you thought about maybe she's new to dating? A virgin? Shy? Inexper…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 05:26 PM
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If a man leaves because he didn't get sex the first date. That would only be a good thing. You will be able to weed out the bad ones easily.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 05:14 PM
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When I was 18, I was sitting at home drawing in a color book while drinking hot chocolate
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 05:48 AM
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But then still, no, i have nothing in common with a 40 year old especially if I'm 18😂
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 06:47 PM
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I was still in school at 18 😂 so no. Also, i would see it as a big red flag when a 40 year old would date a 18 year old. Plus we would be at completely different life stages. He's at the age he just wants to relax at home while I'm full of energy and want to explore, and I'll still end up being a caregiver or widow very young. I would rather not go through that and rather have me some cats,wine, and friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 05:48 PM
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Yeah, I'll pass, I don't want to be a caregiver or a widow too soon, and then on top of that, taking care of children.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 05:17 PM
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Same, it literally makes me feel depressed when I read things like this. I know there are good men out there, but things like this sometimes make me doubt it. And also, like you said, it makes me not want them. I feel like if you hate on older women like this, you won't even get a girlfriend in the first place. Who wants to waste her youth on someone who will be disgusted by her once she's old
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 08:23 AM
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Date wise. I've been on dates, and I've been in the talking stage with men. But nothing serious. They also don't know I'm a virgin so it has nothing to do with it
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 08:32 PM
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Yes, im a virgin. I'm not gonna go and waste it with the wrong guy. Plus, 3 months isn't even that long, especially if you are single and not participating in the hookup culture
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 08:28 PM
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Yeah no you are just a weirdo
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 07:06 PM
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That's just because you hang around these types of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 05:49 PM
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Promiscuousy is unhealthy for everyone. The more promiscuous, the more likely to divorce, the more likely to be less satisfied, more likely to cheat etc etc etc. Promiscuousy should not be seen as normal https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/abs/10.1080/00224540903536162
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 05:28 PM
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Im I the only one who doesn't have this problem that often? I almost immediately make it clear from the beginning that I won't sleep with them within 3 months,(wont tell them exactly how long, Just that they shouldn't expect me to sleep with them in like a week), and I rarely had a man who had a problem with that. (Minus some expectations) I think a lot of women are terrible at choosing men
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 02:07 PM
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Thankfully, I've never met a red pill man in real life or heard someone talk about it in real life. It's not known here
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 09:20 AM
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I don't know if you are really this dense or not, haha. But when you tell them you don't want anything serious and then they leave. It probably means that they want to find someone who does want something serious 😭 Like not everyone wants to have a friend's with benefits. A lot of people who are dating are dating to find something serious. And they probably appreciate youre honestly, because knowing up front what you want will save them lots of time
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 08:30 AM
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I don't see a problem with age difference if both parties are above 25. But if the man actively only goes for 25 years old, then yes I would see it as a red flag. But then i also feel like the women is old enough to know better.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 04:51 PM
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I just want to comment on the older women being jealous of younger women dating older successful men. First of all, the most common age difference is only like 2-3 years. There aren't that many "successful" men with many younger women, unless you're like rich rich or a famous actor or something. Also the bigger the age difference, the more likely to divorce, etc. And yes, i do agree that there are jelous women.but most of the times it's a valid reason when older women judge these men. Because it…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 04:37 PM
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Yall genuinely think women are like robots with no true emotions or something😶‍🌫️
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 05:57 AM
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Promiscuousy is very unhealthy. We should not recommend promiscuousy for any gender. This will only cause trouble later in life when you can't even be satisfied with one person anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 06:24 AM
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Yes, exactly like that, too. You think i was gonna disagree with you huh? 😋 But no that's also absolutely true.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 06:29 AM
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Yeah, it's the samen when men lie about the women only going for the top 20% men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 06:27 AM
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exactly lol, they go for these promiscuous party makeup girls, and then they get hurt, and they say all women are the same while actively choosing those type of women
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 08:50 AM
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But also, you are way too online
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 09:03 AM
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This is only for women who don't like you lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 09:00 AM
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I don’t think I’m asexual, I still get spontaneous need to have sex. You should look up what A sexual means because this can also happen even if you are A sexual.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 08:12 AM
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Have you like tried toys ? I don't think sex is just designed for men, like why do we have a clitoris ? But also if you fake a orgasm and don't tell you're husband then what do you expect. Update i just read your posts. Aren't you just A sexual?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 06:04 AM
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Nice guys end up usually not being nice. That's why I don't self proclaimed nice guys
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 05:53 PM
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Therefore, the woman who we are mocking is the woman that we don’t want to be with because they are liberal woman. But like why? I genuinely don't understand. If a lady is happy, why do you feel the need to bring her down and make her feel bad? Just let them live😭 i don't understand this logic i never want to make someone purposely sad. It just makes me feel like it's maybe some kind of cope
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 08:56 AM
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I feel like I attract way better and nicer man than when I'm wearing full face of makeup and dressing feminine.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 05:52 AM
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Yeah but women aren't allowed mistakes didn't you know ?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 09:46 AM
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Dating app and real life are different.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 10:59 AM
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we also have statistics showing that around 60% or so young men are single in America But isn't this the same for women ? As of 2021, a record 52% of American women were either unmarried or separated, according to a report by Wells Fargo Economics. Single women also have single men outnumbered: A Census Bureau analysis of 2019 data found that for every 90 unmarried men in the US, there were 100 unmarried women. : https://www.businessinsider.com/american-women-swearing-off-marriage-dating-single-…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 08:52 AM
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Yes, but it's not because of guns. They use more lethal methods regardless the availability of gun I said things LIKE guns. I know it's not ONLY guns. They use more aggressive ways than women . That's why I said things LIKE guns. Not only guns. it's that the communication is not acted upon, especially if it's indirectly stated. Yes, because this is not asking for help. You're friends/family aren't professionals
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 08:47 AM
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The only reason they came up with those 20% and 5% is because of an article from a man who got his data from polling 27 male Tinder users, and then peterson talked about it and it blew up. https://medium.com/sexography/80-of-women-choose-only-the-top-20-of-attractive-men-is-a-big-fat-incel-lie-90e764b6a76 I mean, there are literally plenty of below average or average men in relationships. Just look outside in the real world. It's so much different than the online world they claim But yes, I do t…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 08:36 AM
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"This has actually been explained before, it's because men use things like guns. " Which is BS, men kill themselves more in every country on Earth regardless of gun laws Although females attempt suicide at a higher rate, they are more likely to use methods that are less immediately lethal. Males frequently die by suicide via high mortality actions such as hanging, carbon-monoxide poisoning, and firearms : https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gender_differences_in_suicide#:~:text=Although%20females%20…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 07:58 PM
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But then , women still try to commit more suicide than men like i said. Men use more violent, assured methods because they actually want to die. Women don't Do you have any source of this being true, or are you just saying this ?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 11:06 AM
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That's not what I'm saying don't put words in my mouth. He said : And yet men kill themselves 3x more than women. I'm just stating that women actually try to commit more suicide than men. It's just that they "fail more" because they use less dangerous methods
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 10:56 AM
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Thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 06:31 AM
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Men do ask for help, they just don't receive it. But like how, how can a professional turn down someone? That makes no sense. If they pay ? I'm so confused about this. Update : This is what I just found though men with health problems are more likely than women to have had no recent contact with a doctor regardless of income or ethnicity. Just curious can you show me where you found this : And 80% of men who killed themselves reached out to mental health professionals before killing themselves. …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 06:05 AM
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And yet men kill themselves 3x more than women. This has actually been explained before, it's because men use things like guns. Plus the fact that women are more likely to seek help and get therapy etc
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 05:54 AM
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Promiscuous women are usually narcissistic
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 08:40 AM
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I WISHED my life was like this
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 02:22 PM
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People absolutely do come to you like that. Are you a women ? I do agree with the part that if in a social setting, then yes, people talk faster to women than men, but this is also rarely for average women. what i meant is if I decide to sit inside all day, nobody is going to come for me or knock on my door for a talk. If I dont socialize, nobody will care about me. I can speak from personal experience. I got depressed at the age of 15, and I still am. I ghosted people and didn't talk to people.…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 12:13 PM
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Imagine that starting from day 1, you always have social abundance, because females are innately valued and thus inherently welcome into social groups. As long as you're not utterly unbearable to be around, you'll always have a highly active social life filled with countless adventures / fun experiences, and you'll always have many close friends who care about you and support you in every aspect. Regardless of if you're an introverted homebody or extroverted party girl, you're guaranteed to have…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 11:54 AM
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This is just promiscuous women behavior. They get jelous when you get attention, and then they start thinking, " Maybe he was a good option" and they want you as a plan b
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 05:49 AM
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My opinion still stands, a man who openly bashes older women and only goes for a certain age aren't actual good men. Just like women who only look for men with money aren't actual good women. They will never truly love you
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 12:28 PM
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Yeah, because you dated creeps 💀 obviously they aren't good material
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 05:52 AM
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while most women in their 20s easily exceed 20-35+ regardless of looks. ( if shes a party chick its 50+ ). This is not true 💀 the average body count of women is around 7. Young men are trying to date women who are dating/ having sex with 5+ other dudes at the same time Again, not true. You're on Twitter too much. They have dating profiles on multiple apps and LIE constantly across them. How would you even know this ?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 05:45 AM
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Of course they should stop to. But they are probably calling creep behavior out right now as this post is about age
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 05:34 AM
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Exactly this, I don't see anything wrong with an age difference. But yes, as soon as I hear him talk bad about older women, I just automatically dislike them and I think men that hate on older women aren't genuinely even good people and they wouldn't genuinely love you, they just want youre youth.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 06:53 PM
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Do you not realize how many red pil men claim that a man is as loyal as his options? It wouldn't matter if you started dating him young. Once you're old and a nice young thing wants to fuck him, hes gonna take the change no matter how good you were
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 04:11 PM
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Because a woman atleast get sex and physical intimacy. The corresponding man gets nothing. Zilch. This is actually laughable, THIS is the reason why it's so much harder to be a man ? Literally? I know graving sex can be a burden. But come on to say your life is so much harder because this is ridiculous
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 03:55 PM
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Women are truly priveleged beyond belief and have it way easier than men. Literally the only thing a woman needs to do is “just don’t be fat”. That’s it. So we have it so much easier just because we have more access to sex ? That's it ? How is a man's life so much harder ? Like we just discussed, it doesn’t matter what men tell women It absolutely does because it is how reality works. Do you know how many man leave/cheat on their older wife's with younger ones?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 03:48 PM
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Just for him to reach his peak, then a nice young thing just has to seduce him, and bam, it's over
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 03:44 PM
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Women need to exercise their options and choose well in their 20s and 30s Literally, what I just said, why would a woman willingly waste her youth just like that when every day they are being told they expire and will be worthless? There are too many risks, and you will just set yourself up for failure in the future when your husband cheats on you when he reaches his prime with a young thing while you're alone feeling ugly and depressed when they have life so easy and so many options. Yall life …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 03:26 PM
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I get that it's harder as you get older. But I'm talking about the point that men keep yelling at women they'll be expired. It literally won't do anything positive and only makes women dislike men more. Why would a woman willingly date or mary a man that says that ? No one in their right mind would do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 03:14 PM
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Get it, you are a rage baiter
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 03:09 PM
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do you think that's weird? It's not nice to hear that you will expire when you hit a certain age, and I certainly don't believe it helps and makes women getting married young. It only scares them in not wanting to get married and have children because of the fear of getting old and dumped.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 03:07 PM
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So this bothered me a lot, too, to the point i got kinda depressed. But I learned to let it go. And I realized there are men out there who don't think like this. Just be careful who you choose
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 03:03 PM
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As a woman with women, women, friends, and family. We absolutely care about men being players or not. I feel only promiscuous women would not really care. And you probably attract a lot of promiscuous women, and that's why you think all women think like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 02:23 PM
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I know my life would probably also suck as a man, too. But atleast it's a little less pressure
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 09:24 PM
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The 20% women liking the 80% of men isn't really true. The person that made the article, He got his data from polling 27 male Tinder users. https://medium.com/sexography/80-of-women-choose-only-the-top-20-of-attractive-men-is-a-big-fat-incel-lie-90e764b6a76
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 09:23 AM
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There’s some consensus online that women chase the top 20% of men. Who are the types that guys chase and what percentage of women is it? For curious people: this is not true. The person that made the claim that 80% of women going for 20% of the men. He got his "proof/data" from polling 27 male Tinder users. It's just been take out of proportion by a lot of redpill people, since peterson talked about it https://medium.com/sexography/80-of-women-choose-only-the-top-20-of-attractive-men-is-a-big-fa…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 04:06 PM
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There’s some consensus online that women chase the top 20% of men. Who are the types that guys chase and what percentage of women is it? For curious people: this is not true. The person that made the claim that 80% of women going for 20% of the men. He got his "proof/data" from polling 27 male Tinder users. It's just been take out of proportion since peterson by a lot of red pill men since peterson talked about it. https://medium.com/sexography/80-of-women-choose-only-the-top-20-of-attractive-me…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 04:06 PM
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This is just what men talk about online all the time. All I'm saying is that it's not that weird that some people think that men literally fuck everything. I know this isn't true, I'm not generalizing. I just understand how some people may think all men are like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 10:27 AM
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To be honest A LOT of men on here and other social media platforms talk a lot about how men and women cheating is different because the man can just fuck a women but hate her. And putting women in different categories, like fuckeble and marriage material etc. Or the talk about how ugly women still can get laid, but ugly men can't. And that men are faithful as their options, etc. And then the fact that men do fuck animals I know it's not every man and i know women can do this to but not as often.…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 09:51 AM
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Well I guess it depends on the person. I'm very lonely and never even had sex and I can't imagine myself sleeping with someone I don't find attractive at all. I hope you're at a better place now !
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 07:51 AM
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No that's not what's happening, lol. Like I said I'm just genuinely curious why you would sleep with someone you find "disgusting"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 07:48 AM
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The why do yall even sleep with them ? Just curious because I would be able to sleep with someone I don't find attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 04:56 AM
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The toxic habits are traveling, getting drunk with friends, having an ex partner, turning down a guy she wasn't interested in once, not liking to cook etc. Basically, being young and not submitting to a man because she wants to enjoy her life a little before she starts a family. Women aren't allowed to do this. Didn't you know ?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 09:03 AM
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I mean promiscuous, like having lots of different bed partners. If he's been "promiscuous" with a few I don't care. But yes if he has been a hoe, then I definitely dont want him
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 02:57 PM
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As long as he's not promiscuous i really don't care lol. Especially If they were young. It's normal to make mistakes or to explore when you're still young.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 02:31 PM
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pumping and dumping women, ghosting them after sex, I' So, become a terrible person? Also promiscuousy isn't healthy at all for all genders. This is terrible advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 08:10 AM
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Because sex will feel painful
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 05:21 PM
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Umhh, we know?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 08:13 AM
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It is factually true that promiscuous behavior is bad for male and female.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 03:10 PM
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That's what i was thinking, then their only will be something else to complain about
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 11:36 AM
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Oh come onnnnnn, this is not realistic at all. Look around in the real world. Average men are in relationships with Average women. You really must hang around the wrong people.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 07:12 AM
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Why do man care so much about the wall for women, just let them live damn
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 10:53 AM
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So I look extremely young for my age (39) I hope i have this problem, tho when I'm older haha. The situation is completely fucked because women my age don't even consider me I think if you dated when you were actually younger then you wouldn't have this problem now haha. But also, what is too young for your sister ? What about 28-30 year old ? Or maybe specify on your profile that you are really 39 but just look younger. I don't know if it works because I have no experience with dating aps, but …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 03:11 PM
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I mean, I personally don't find that age difference creepy, I like someone now who is 35, and I'm 25. But yeah, it's really not that easy unless you are a rich man or just lucky. Don't wait too long, and regret it later.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 01:13 PM
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With older men, women mean like 2-3 years age difference (the most common age difference in relationships) Like ages 21-26 Good luck with finding a 21 year old , I hope you are rich cause otherwise you will have a good wake-up call Also, I personally don't think 21 and 30 is creepy necessarily, and I think other women can agree with me on that. We call men creepy that are like 35+ who go after freshly 18 year olds. A lot of the times these men only want a women for her looks and don't really car…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 01:02 PM
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So are you just mad that some women don't want to sleep with you ?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 07:41 AM
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Well, I googled it, and I don't know where you get that from.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 10:53 AM
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I want to clarify that i am a traditional Guy who believes in low bodycount, good father figure You literally aren't lol, you are just a simple man whore. You should try to remain having a low bodycount yourself. Promiscuousy isn't healthy for you or your future relationships Imagine the typical, fully tatted up, hot, 60 bodycount, no father figure, believes in feminism 22 year old women that takes drugs and does onlyfans. More baggage then a Plane. Also nice made up typical women lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 10:33 AM
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Are women genuinely uncapable of love? Absolutely not, lol. I can't wait to find my life partner and love him the rest of my life I've seen this topic on Twitter, too, and it annoys me so much when they say women don't love. Like, yeah, they do love lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 08:58 AM
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As a virgin but not a religious person, I would never lose my virginity to someone with a promiscuous past. To many risks later in life. And the thought of someone wanting me more because im a virgin (unless they are virgin themselves)turns me of so much
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 02:30 AM
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Every time this gets brought up, women insist this is some “girl code Because it is, my friend gets really flirty if she is drunk. She asks me before she gets drunk(I don't drink) to not let her go home with any random dude, etc. So yes, even if they are mutually interested. If it seems like it's getting to a hook up. I'll get her away
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 03:03 PM
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-Meanwhile, women are allowed to be as neurotic and anti-social as they please Only if you are above average hot lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 08:03 AM
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Dude I'm almost 25 and still a virgin lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 05:50 AM
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If it was for themselves, they could simply dress up sexy at home They already do this they would wear sexy clothes during sleepovers They already do this
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 03:10 PM
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This proves it's not only about money like the red pill makes it out to be
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 08:57 AM
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Same hahah
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 07:43 AM
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It's only easier for women if you're young.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 03:21 PM
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It's because women seek for help, men don't
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 03:20 PM
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Is it correct to say that the majority of women are actually attracted to "players" and "fuck boys" hence why they are "fuck boys" because they are highly promiscuous? Almost only promiscuous women like promiscuous men And there are plenty of promiscuous men and women out there. would prefer a non promiscuous man would be the equivalent of saying that they desire a man who is not desirable. They are many desirable ones who arent promiscuous. They just have self-control, and now the risk of promi…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 06:32 AM
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I think it's mostly men who want that, to be honest. I rarely see women talk about it
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 08:14 AM
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I've never done this, and luckily, I don't know any people who do this
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 02:53 PM
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For example I have seen plenty of women flirting to have work advantages or getting out if work simply because they are woman In fantasy land right? The question is have you done it conciously?, ever a thought cross your mind that " hey maybe if I tease him a little bit sexually I'll get the work done No and I never will
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 02:00 PM
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women can't be lonely, This is so stupid lol. Women can be lonely too that getting sex is real easy You think because you can have sex you can't be lonely?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 09:14 AM
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Well as long as not all of them are promiscuous, I don't really see a problem
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 03:50 PM
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I am, and I have friends that still are virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 03:23 PM
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plus, you won't find a 21-year-old who's a virgin anyway. Believe me, there are.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 05:34 AM
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It would literally ruin me to share a man. I would rather be single than share a man. For me sex is something you do with someone you love. It would gross me out if he just slept with other women like that. I wouldn't feel good enough, I would lose respect for him, I would feel jealous etc etc. Never ever will I share a man I rather die.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 10:04 AM
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Sure bud
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 03:30 PM
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And if this is something you experienced a lot. You probably just have a terrible taste in women and friends
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 03:22 PM
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You must live in a fantasy world, plenty of women who don't do shit like this
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 03:12 PM
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He is a teacher. He's super kind to everyone and doesn't judge anyone. He's someone who would just have a conversation with homeless people, etc He's not afraid to talk about his emotions. And he loves very deeply. He likes geeky stuff, and I like that because I'm geeky too, like reading manga watching anime, etc. And he's really smart. He's not promiscuous, neither I'm I, so I like that. And yes, he's tall, but that is not the reason I fell for him, lol. Even if he was short, I would still fall…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 08:36 AM
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No, this mostly only happens in fantasy land
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 05:59 AM
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It's not like that at all lol, they are in happy, loving relationships, and some even with children
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 08:47 AM
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Most women are not like this with lonely men. Not even close. That's not true. It's just not true, lol. This whole post is just not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 08:46 AM
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I feel like a lot of you live in a fantasy world. Literally just looking around me in real life : I have many coworkers who are in relationships with men who are not rich, who aren't the most handsome, just average men, who dont expect the men to be rich etc I have friends who are in relationships with average men, I have family who are dating average men. And I'm not only talking about short relationships. I'm genuinely just curious in what kind of place yall live in. Or is it really just in yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 07:11 PM
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Which makes me wonder: are women really even attracted do men if they truly think men's bodies are gross? do they even like them? Yes <3
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 03:59 PM
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Finding a woman who not only doesn't post her ass on IG, Oh come onnnn, you know there are plenty of women who don't do this 💀 Me and none of my friends, and my friends friends do this.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 08:07 AM
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A lot of men want 50/50, but then they mean only the bills. But that's it. Women do more house chores, taking care of the children, etc, even when they work themselves. So it's almost never 50/50 anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 09:30 AM
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,"well if you guys were better at friendships like women you would not be lonely." "If you guys were more invested in the relationships with your family as women are, you would not be lonely" They usually only say this if there it's a men complaining about women, etc. I've rarely seen a comment like that if it's a really serious topic
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 06:05 AM
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There are so many assumptions, lol. I haven't even been on a date with him. I have zero interest in him. And I made this clear to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 01:26 PM
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Do you ever consider if the woman are actually happy Yes of course
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 11:09 AM
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I don't know, man, if we have a really good connection, then maybe, but I just prefer if he had experience living on his own.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 10:47 AM
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I told him that I was interested In someone else and by actively trying to avoid them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 10:45 AM
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I'm not saying it's impossible, I'm just saying it's not that common.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 10:44 AM
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If he actually has savings, then maybe I can see through it. But I prefer someone who has experienced living alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 10:33 AM
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why didn't you just reject him at first interaction? Why do you think this ? I've never given him my number or anything. I made it pretty clear that I'm not interested. But he keeps trying via my neighbor ( my neighbor and him are friends), and she keeps trying to get me to come over to talk because she knows he likes me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 10:31 AM
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For me personally, I don't care.I mean, I looooveee money (who doesn't). But if he's a good person and he's kind to me, I don't care. It's also because I don't want children, so I don't feel the need to be rich for my future children. But it does kinda turn me off if he still lives at home at the age of like 25+ And as long as he does not make less than around 40k, because I also don't want to be poor. I make that amount, so it's fine if he makes the same amount. That would be enough to life com…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 10:23 AM
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Precisely, people pretend that big age cap relationships between man and women are super common. But it's not that common. It's usually only rich men who are able to get the younger ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 10:08 AM
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is generally younger women who are most concerned about older men trying to date them and saying please stop because it's creepy and unwanted. Yesss, I have a 45 year old man who is going after me right now. He already has 3 children and is divorced. Like there is no way I would be interested in that 😅 like what does he even want from me if he already has his childeren. It's creepy and weird to me. We don't even have anything in common
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 10:04 AM
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You see many rock/alternative type of men paint their nails black. Nothing gay about that. I think it looks dope (black nails)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 04:05 PM
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Because now the shorter ones can't even get a change. I feel like its a little unfaur. What if they are really good guys?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 07:20 PM
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Yeah, it's getting a little ridiculous
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 07:19 PM
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Its crazy to me that they even have a height filter
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 06:14 PM
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baby haters, You don't automatically hate children if you don't want them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 10:19 AM
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But for my sisters who haven’t settled down, and some female friends I had, all of the sudden are having issues when they literally had no issues getting boyfriends for the longest time. Suuureeeeee... 😂 This sounds so made up. You're probably just one of these red pill men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 07:53 AM
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But like, what about friends ? Don't you have friends ?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 06:09 AM
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Not everyone is the same. I recently met a man whom I'm super attracted to. But I can't imagine sleeping with him on the first date. Big no no
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 09:44 AM
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That men are less emotional.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 08:33 AM
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Yeah lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 10:20 AM
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I haven't had sex since 1999
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 08:21 AM
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Yes true, even tho I personally do find older men more attractive. I won't ever date one, and I will be weirded out if he older men actually tried to get with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 08:15 AM
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Because women get shamed for their bodycount.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 10:12 AM
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No I actually think so. He has never had a real long-lasting relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 08:26 AM
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Leo will end up alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 07:03 AM
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Getting pushed/begged/pressured into sex is damaging. It makes you resent the person doing it. It makes sex not enjoyable. It destroys trust, respect and emotional intimacy and connection. Having your boundaries and consent violated like that messes you up Exactly, how do they not get this ?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 07:47 PM
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She wants more sex because she is being treated nice. Because he respects her, not just simply because she wanted someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 07:44 PM
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Female beauty standards are basically "don't be fat" and learn how to apply makeup. Come on, you and I both know it's not just that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 08:49 AM
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No absolutely not
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 05:08 PM
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Same
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 05:28 PM
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Really ? I guess it's just not for me. I would rather be with one person for the rest of my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 11:25 AM
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If getting laid is your only goal in life ...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 11:20 AM
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It's not a compliment, because we don't want fuckboys
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 11:18 AM
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Like I have no problem with the age gap if the woman is like 25. Although still not recommended. But I just can't imagine as a 40+ year old to like a 18 year old. I'm only 24, and for me, 18 years old are still like children to me, lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 07:14 AM
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This would literally be perfect to me omg
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 07:03 AM
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Yes, for both men and women. Although not necessarily till marriage because not everyone wants to marry. And because of the risk of not being sexual compatibility
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 05:35 AM
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What about virgins
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 01:13 PM
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I refuse to sleep someoen in just a few dates. We have to be in an actual relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 01:06 PM
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Not true. This is literally a WOMAN telling you she likes sex. Not every women is the same plenty of women like sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 03:03 PM
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The comments on the post where shaming the women lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 06:50 PM
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if you say sex isnt a big deal... id say you're a liar. I'm a 24f virgin, I'm not lying if I say sex isn't a big deal to me lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 07:29 PM
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Men constantly talk about how it's different, and then they say for the reasons I mentioned above. They don't understand it works the same for men. Just some other links for you https://ifstudies.org/blog/does-sexual-history-affect-marital-happiness https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/full/10.1177/0192513X231155673
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 04:56 AM
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Of course they should if they want to. I never said they shouldn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 04:47 AM
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Yes, and this post isnt even about that. It's about promiscuously affects both women and men the same
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 04:44 PM
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That isn’t true. So many women date married men Yes, promiscuous women or gold diggers
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 04:39 PM
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how much are you willing to give up to find a virgin man He doesn't need to be a virgin, especially at my age. I understand there Is a big change he isn't a virgin anymore. I just don't want a promiscuous man. some of them cannot be developed without promiscuity. Examples such as charm, confidence ( You can have these without being promiscuous.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 01:43 PM
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but if I met my ideal woman I’d be crazy about her just like a high school kid. How would you know this. You can't see In the future. Don’t shoot the messenger, blame biology. It is the same for women and men
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 01:10 PM
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This, I would never date a promiscuous men. No matter how hot he is
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 01:06 PM
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Only promiscuous women want promiscuous men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 10:21 AM
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Fair !
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 05:37 AM
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prefer a man who makes more than me Just curious, but why
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 04:42 AM
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Let me guess, you're single?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 04:48 PM
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Yeah but not for a one night stand 🤡
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 04:49 AM
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Why do men think women have no hobbies 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 07:10 AM
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But an honest question : Do you not have like feelings like remorse or love? I think if you live like that, you will end up alone and unfulfilled. And also I don't think it's that easy to just find a younger gf, unless your rich.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 02:38 PM
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They will look like their age, just like women
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 12:38 PM
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So, the majority of men ? They age just like women (lookwise) Doesn't mean they let themselves go, lol. They just look their age.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 05:41 AM
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What if you have children with this person
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 05:17 AM
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men look their best in their 30s and 40s This is only with rich men and actors. Look around you in the normal life.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 05:07 AM
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Maybe it would be nice to give some credit to men experience Like I said, of course, there are exceptions. But it's just annoying when men instantly assume all women think like that
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 07:50 PM
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Most women lose attraction for men who evens open up a little or show some vulnerability No, just no. This is something men make themselves believe 100%. (And yesss of course there are exceptions) If you don't believe me just read this: (this is just 1 of many.) https://www.reddit.com/r/BlatantMisogyny/comments/133n5ay/omg_i_cant/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android_app&utm_name=androidcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 07:27 PM
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You can be the perfect "high value" women and they still cheat on you... Woman can't win
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 07:42 PM
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how much she hates him and all men and all men are shit and men aint' shit and men are worthless pieces of shit ad nauseam ad infinitum. To be honest, you prove a point to these women. You don't actually sound that nice. And YOU sound very single and bitter Where you perhaps raised without a mother ?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 07:36 AM
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Yeah, some have really weird red flags 😳
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 07:26 AM
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You better be a virgin yourself then
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 06:29 PM
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Aah, then I understand!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 02:03 PM
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OK, I get that. but I wonder, do you keep the same standard for yourself? I understand, especially at my age, that there is a big change they had sex before. As long it isn't extreme, i'm fine with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 01:49 PM
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and leave his dna inside her This is not true. https://www.aap.com.au/factcheck/male-dna-living-forever-in-women-after-sex-is-short-on-evidence/
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 01:14 PM
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Yes, and : maybe this is in the video, then I'm sorry but could not watch the video right now. Why woman divorce more I looked it up and this is the most common reason woman leave : because men are usually socialised to have lower emotional intelligence than women, this can lead to female partners feeling unsupported and doing much of the emotional labour in the relationship. Women also tend to gain fewer emotional benefits from marriage, which could make single life seem more appealing. While m…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 10:56 AM
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I understand not wanting a hoe, because i wouldn't want a man hoe either but come, some sex is okay . They like sex just like men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 10:03 AM
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There’s a reason why the meme “I like medium ugly men” floats around on the internet. Women don’t want competition. They don’t want the Chad that every other woman out there is throwing themselves at. This 100%
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 07:12 AM
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No, they are not
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 03:31 PM
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Why
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 01:15 PM
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Why always the hate on tattoos so much? 🤣 It's just a style
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 07:18 AM
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Or he is just a good person......
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 07:14 AM
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I’d take what they have to say with a grain of salt. Like what I said, men make themselves believe it. These are literally women saying they want men to open up. There is no reason for them to lie about it, in a group mostly full of women. And its not just feminist saying that. Just look around, and you see it. You rarely see women talk about it. It's always the man that say it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 11:41 AM
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that women automatically lose attraction for a guy if he is emotionally vulnerable, cries or shows weakness. Even being completely "themselves" with their partner, This is something men make themselves believe 100%. It's attractive when a men shows emontial vulnerability. Just ask in groups with women, and they tell you. (Of course, there are exceptions.) Here is actually an example: just read the comments https://www.reddit.com/r/BlatantMisogyny/comments/133n5ay/omg_i_cant/?utm_source=share&utm…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 04:50 AM
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Sameee, never having sex on the first few dates
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 06:05 AM
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I’ve heard multiple women say that they are prone to thinking something is wrong with a guy, or that he’s lame, if he’s not talking to/hooking up with other women. I truly doubt this
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 10:22 AM
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Read his comments on his profile. He sounds so scary 😨 This man does not like women
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 10:59 AM
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That doesn't make u worthless what
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 12:22 PM
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Look at his other post haha
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 09:51 AM
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Because they are 2 different things, lol. They don't cost as much as children. They don't live as long as children. They don't need 24/4 attention like children. They don't cry like children. You don't have to wake up for them at night. Etc And you probably don't see both because having a child is so much (more) work. So they don't have time for an animal
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 09:24 AM
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Boring her to death with foreplay isn't exactly ideal, I never heard a woman say foreplay is boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 05:12 AM
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First of all, I am, I don't know how to prove that to you, lol. Like I said its a It's a nice outlet to be overly sexual without much risk of heartbreak. Second of all, why does it matter if im a virgin or not this case ? I was talking about how I think there is nothing wrong with being a 25 year old virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 03:09 PM
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I don't have OF. And I also don't get paid, lol. I have a normal job. And also, why are you so salty? lol. What did I do to you
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 02:42 PM
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I think it's less common, yes, Especially for men. But I just think it's kinda rude how people assume something must be wrong with you. Cause there are just people that wanna wait for the one person
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 02:32 PM
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I'm 100 percent a virgin, haven't even touched dick or been touched. Why i post nudes ? It's a nice outlet to be overly sexual without much risk of heartbreak or getting a bad reputation.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 02:28 PM
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There is literally nothing wrong with being a virgin at the age of 25, lol. Some men and women just want to wait for someone they want to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 02:21 PM
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I legit never see that. Or never heard any woman talk about that. So you don't know either what the mean ?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 02:07 PM
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Like, its just a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 01:55 PM
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I honestly don't know what men mean by being the leader in a relationship. What is there to lead in a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 01:53 PM
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They make it sound like we are at war
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 01:51 PM
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I also don't understand what they Mean, what is there to lead in a relationship? I truly don't understand
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 01:13 PM
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No, you are being delusional. At least in the Netherlands. It's normal to have a double income family. Nobody cares who makes more, as long as it's enough to get by. (Again, of course, there are exceptions) Women tend to lose respect for men after said men expresses emotional vulnerability Cleary NOT cause they are divorcing you for not showing any emontial vulnerability. Women will tend to see men that does housework and child rearing as something lesser than a significant other. And this also …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 11:48 AM
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such as finances. No, it's easier for a woman to leave because Their financial situation won’t leave them stuck in a marriage they no longer want to be in or feel safe in. Because the make money themselves. Most women don't care,(of course there are exceptions)as long as you both work. This is something men make themselves believe I looked it up and these are the most common reason woman leave : because men are usually socialised to have lower emotional intelligence than women, this can lead to …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 07:47 AM
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Yes, they absolutley do. No, most women don't care lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 07:05 AM
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FINALLY somebody said it. I couldn't care less about it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 07:03 AM
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Depends. If I dated a man who excepted me to cook and clean and take care of the kids, I would expect him to pay, open doors, etc. My husband doesn’t have those expectations, so neither do I. Absolutely, I agree with this 💯
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 06:36 PM
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I'd say that you should probably expect it not to last forever Yeah I always keep that in mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 06:16 AM
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Maybe,I don't know. It's just something I always said I wanted. But I also don't think both are the same. You change. Your partner probably changes to. You experience different things together. So it probably wouldn't feel the same forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 07:52 PM
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Why do you think that? I just always want one person in my life cause I think a break up would ruin me. and I don't think I can have sex with someone I don't love.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 07:35 PM
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Please don't scare me like this, lol 😅 I'm still a virgin, and I'm 24. But the reason for me is that I just want to wait for a life partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 06:51 PM
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I see so many things about women with tattoos. Why do they get judged so hard? lol. Women with tattoos can be just like Tiffany ( maybe except the church part)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 03:37 PM
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Just google it if you don't believe me. Men are more likely to leave their partner when they get sick.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 10:16 AM
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How is that cap. If they stay with u while you are sick. Then why would they leave when you lose your job. That's way less worse than being sick
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 07:19 AM
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No, women stay with you when you are sick. So they also stay with you when you lose your job. Of course if you lose your job you should look for a new one.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 04:57 AM
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Yeah, but I'm talking about love. If you give her love.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 02:58 PM
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And at least, women stay with you when you are really sick
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 01:48 PM
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Please, men, dont think this is true. Cause it is not. If you are a good man and you treat her right, she will truly love you. Even if you lose some things. Woman love deeply. Of course, there are exceptions, but the majority isn't like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 01:44 PM
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An anecdote about your mum doesn't change the reality that most men aren't going to want to get into a relationship with an older woman. I also said I see it all around me, coworkers, friends, other family members, online. And of course it's harder to find someone when you're older. But that's just for everyone. If your perception of women's worth is directly tied to their sexual attractiveness, then that's a pretty unhealthy view. No, that's not how I think. A lot of men say women worth goes do…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 10:08 AM
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I feel like men are trying so hard to make women feel like they are not worth anything, and nobody want them when they are older. But that is just not true. I see it all around me, woman finding love when they are Older. There are many older good men who are single and ready to commit to women their age. My mother included, she found a partner at 55.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 09:28 AM
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Men still fuck 40 year old woman and older, so they are good.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 08:34 AM
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Yeah, i can agree to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 08:00 AM
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I have one more question tho, and I'm curious about your answer, So you think people that don't want children need to have children? But they are probably going to be terrible parents. What if it ruins the children's lives ? You don't care about things like that ? No. The world is vastly more dangerous for men Yeah and who mostly murders man 💀 men
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 07:33 AM
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Its not, the world ist any more dangerous than it was 100 years ago. In fact its MUCH less dangerous. That here is the prime example of you being selfish It's still a dangerous world, especially if you are a woman. The world is absolutely not dying It's warming up Its not, you just have to be smarter This is bulshit. I'm lucky I have a house, but I see people struggling all around me, and not because they aren't smart. But there is just not enough housing. And I also don't think it's worth going…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 07:26 AM
4

Wait, are you really saying not having children is selfish? How !?! It's more selfish to HAVE children to bring a child to a dangerous world . To bring a child to this world that has to work the rest of their lives. To bring a child to a world that is dying. Where it's difficult to get housing. And so many more reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 07:16 AM
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What do you mean ?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 01:55 PM
2

Agreed.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 05:55 AM
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I'm glad you found a good man. That's hard these days. Do you want the virgin or the whore? You can’t have both Recently, someone asked the same question on here. And the answers were weird, lol. They wanted a virgin that wanted sex on the first or second date. That's only possible if she is a young virgin. Most older virgins are not gonna have sex with you on the first date because they have already waited so long. And if you do have sex on the first date then they also call that a red flag. Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 05:53 AM
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I don't mind baldness. it can look really good on men. The only thing I don't really like about his face are his teeth, his teeth are kinda weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 05:36 PM
1

😆😆😆
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 05:23 PM
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Is that you 😝? Again I don't think he's ugly. But also not my cup of tea. I would give him a 4
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 05:18 PM
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He's not my cup of tea. I say around 5 or 6. I'll give a guy like Adam driver a 10 (Not his old look tho)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 05:12 PM
1

Sorry to disappoint you, But i don't like andrew. Im scared of him, lol. But i still think he's a good looking man
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 05:11 PM
1

Only look wise
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 05:09 PM
1

Well then, it's me personally. Cause I think he has a good face. Yeah, with the hair maybe a little less, but even then, he was good looking for me
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 05:00 PM
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Na man I would choose brian. True love over everything. Also andrew face is not a 4 what 😅 Its more like a 7/8
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 04:57 PM
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They probably just didn't enjoy it, but they were scared to lose someone they loved if they stopped doing it. And maybe they just trust you a lot and know you wouldn't mind, and you would push them for not doing these things. So maybe take it as a compliment that they feel like you wouldn't be mad about it, and they feel they can be honest with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 12:12 PM
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Consider the idea that she didnt like what she did with the ex boyfriend and therefore doesnt want to do it again ? This this this, I truly believe this is the reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 12:10 PM
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Of course, women can do wrong. But it just does not make sense in this case. But like I said, maybe he's just extremely unlucky.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 07:22 AM
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I was thinking the same, unless he's just really unlucky
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 06:15 AM
15

Yeah like wtf, and saying men that don't watch Tate are lazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 03:11 PM
3

I wish you luck in finding the one 🙏
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 04:48 PM
1

Facts, not some, but a lot of men, haha. I
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 03:43 PM
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I'm sorry, I don't believe that to he honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 01:10 PM
12

Tbh I think this is where a lot of women have a blind spot on how guys behave. I would bet upwards of 80% of those men who claim to have a high n count but want a low n count woman are actually low n count dudes who want to come off as a Chad. If confronted with this knowledge they will deny deny deny because they want to appear as a Chad. But then it's not really women's fault for thinking that men sleep around and still want a virgin if they lie to us haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 10:46 AM
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Sorry I'm not English, I think this is what women tell themselves to to blame men. What do you Mean ? That men want a virgin, but they themselves sleep around ? You say this is not true ? I wasn't blaming man for anything I think ?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 10:30 AM
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To be honest, I think a lot of women don't want a man who has a lot of different bed partners. I don't necessarily want a virgin, but I would also not want someone with like 200+ bed partners. But that's because I don't sleep around either.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 10:16 AM
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This is what I have always been saying. The vast majority of the guys out here saying they want a woman with a low body count is because they themselves have a low body count. Which tbh how is that unreasonable? I don't think there is anything wrong with that, Cause same i have no experience and I would also prefer someone with a lower bodycount. The vast majority of the guys out here saying they want a woman with a low body count is because they themselves have a low body count But this is not …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 10:13 AM
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Yeah they'll judge you positively. Plenty of guys would be happy to hear that and have you stay and home while he works. I truly believe only the andrew tate type of man think like that. That want like a lil submissive slave that can't think for herself. Or maybe its different in America or something. But here it's normal to both have a job. And also you both need a job if you want a house. If there is a man interested in you, and he finds out that you never had a job. They will most likely lose…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 07:07 AM
3

Wait what do you mean ? Leave where
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 09:08 AM
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They will judge, does not matter if your hot as fuck, at least where I'm from. But maybe men more. But that's something I don't know.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 08:12 AM
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If you are a 25 year old woman without a job. People still judge you. Where in the word did you get the idea from that they wouldn't
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 08:08 AM
1

Amd also celebs ar so much different than man in your regular life.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 07:16 PM
1

Yeah cause it's not ok for a 50 year old to date a 19. They would probably go lower if it was illegal. She probably has some kind of daddy issues. No Young woman that is in the right mind would Date a 50 year old at the age of 19
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 07:14 PM
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But of course I prefer no children. But if he's a really good men and he makes me happy, then yes, I would date a man with children
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 05:08 PM
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Depends on how many children for me personally. Not more than two and preferably only one. As I don't want children myself. But I can see myself loving his children like they are my own if he's a good man and his children aren't terrible.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 05:07 PM
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Well, let's hope it's just a healthy relationship and she is just a normal happy girl ! If they really like each other I'm sure they can work things out when she is in Germany
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 04:37 PM
1

She probably has some mental issues(or just a rare occasion) But also, I think she said in this post that it still happens. But just not as much as men think.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 04:20 PM
1

I'm at work for the moment, so I don't really have the time for that. But of course, i was curious about what privileges we have. But like i said, im at work, so i can't spend my time right now on a discussion. And I'm not English, so I would not know how to explain it anyway. These discussions never work anyway cause you believe what you believe, and I believe what I believe But these where also not all the reasons why i think Andrew tate fans are scary, just a few examples
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 10:33 AM
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Andrew Tate fans are toxic and scary. I will never think differently about it. I hope there are still some good men that don't think like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 10:26 AM
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Things like that we should obey. That a man can fuck around while in a relationship. That we are not real women if you don't want children. That we are used if you had sex. Etc. It's just hurtful and unfair
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 10:02 AM
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Well, I get triggered because he legit scares me. The things he says about us woman. It makes me scared that men actually agree with him. I'm scared i won't find someone who truly loves me because he's poisoning so many men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 03:30 PM
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Just a question: Why are you against casual sex ? Personally, I don't do casual sex either, and a big change I would not date someone that has hundreds of different bed partners. But I also don't care if you do, it's your life you do what you want. Why does it matter to you? (Genuinely not trying to be mean just curious)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 01:52 PM
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I have no problem with age differences. As long it's not like a 50 year old that likes a 18 year old. Cause then you just know that they would Date literal childeren if it was allowed. And yes that would be weird like what does a 50 year old have in common with a 18 year old.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 07:26 AM
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Well, to be honest, they have a point.I don't think it's weird women say that. Especially if this post is true. If a man can't love someone and just see you as a sex object, then yes, literally the only you can give is your money.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 12:35 PM
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Probably brainwashed by Andrew tate or someone like him
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 06:18 AM
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Edit : it's not true, only for the andrew tate kind of man. But you don't want these kind of man in your life anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 05:11 AM
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I wish I was a lesbian
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 04:51 AM
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I hate seeing posts like this. Really makes my trust for men go down even more. Please tell me this isn't true and we aren't just sex objects to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 04:50 AM
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Well I will be going to a therapist soon. So hopefully I can get over this fear and find someone good.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 03:16 PM
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Based on what ? Because you had a girl once that cheated? Get your head out of your ass and you will see it all. Who cheat more ? Man Who are more likely to leave their spouse when they get sick ? Men Who r&pe more ? Men Who murder more ? Men Who are the most mass shooters ? Men Who are the most serials killers ? Men Who are more likely to be a pedophile? Men Who are the least loyal? Men When both work in a household and have kids, who still does most of the chores and taking care of the childer…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 12:07 PM
1

Why more than woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 11:29 AM
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Disgusting creatures
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 10:01 AM
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Absolutely I agree with you. There are 2 reasons I'm still a virgin at the age of 24. One of them is just that I wanna wait for the one and I'm just not someone that wants to fuck people I don't love. But the biggest reason is because I'm terrified of being used by a man. Because for some reason they get so turned on by the fact that you are a virgin. So I've let a lot of good man go just simply because I'm scared to love someone and once they had their fun they will just leave. I just wanna be …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 10:00 AM
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For me, I personally understand not wanting someone with a super high body count. I would not want a man who slept with hundred of different women. But it's just that men always want virgins, but then they have slept with like hundred of different woman I think it's unfair how a man can just sleep around and he will gain respect for it. But when it's a woman she is a hoe.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 04:57 PM
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Yeah but if you look into that, that's mostly because of the MAN
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 07:38 AM
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In my opinion, no. Like what does the fuck does height matter if he has a great personality and is a good person.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 10:16 AM
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Like i said , it makes no sense. You are this type of men that wants a virgin but himself has a body count of 300. You really think if you have a virgin woman in front of you she wants sex with you if she finds out that you have a bodycount over 300? No of course not. You are just a walking soa. Like I understand you don't want someone that's young but already has so many bodycounts. But it should not be different from men and woman. But it's also good you say it so openly cause then us woman ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 08:30 AM
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Cause sex is sex for men and woman. Let me guess you think it's different because woman can choose who they fuck ? That's always the only argument they use but that makes no sense
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 07:21 AM
1

Of course it would be easier, but necessarily needed.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 07:12 PM
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Sounds like you are the one that's sexualising. Like I get that you won't feel comfortable is she's like wearing bootty shorts and just a bra. But like come on man the TOP OF THE BOOBS. Like they are boobs you are cleary the one thats sexualing that. It's not always easy to fully cover them especially in the summer. You know how sweaty it gets. But as you said. You are fine being single.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 05:42 PM
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But like showing some boobs is not being a hoe. Are we talking about just the top of the boobs ? Especially if you have big boobs : they just show more easy and t-shirts aren't always comfortable. You only want her to wear turtlenecks or something? Like they are just boobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 05:36 PM
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You are saying woman belong to the streets because some of their boobs are showing. While you are literally showing ur dick. Makes no sense
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 05:31 PM
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Hahah i know right. I think it's funny how he says that they are for the streets while he's literally showing of his dick and he's literally begging for a girlfriend on reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 05:27 PM
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Jokes on you I work in Healthcare. You are probably only taking about maybe 1 or 3 woman. You are exaggerating for sure
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 05:23 PM
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You are full of shit : older women. Most of them are single, lonely and miserable. You just made this up. Of course there are exceptions but majority is thriving. Woman also life longer without a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 05:16 PM
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They reason a lot of men say woman need a man more, is because more and more woman stay to choose single BECAUSE we are finding out that life is so much easier without them. And it scares them, so they are trying to scare us in wanting them badly
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 05:11 PM
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You are literally showing ur dick on here bruh
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 05:04 PM
15

Yeah this is why you are lonely haha
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 05:02 PM
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