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The two sides have different goals, but atleast they have goals. That OP was giving motivation to guys that don't do 'anything'. They don't work out, and they don't have hobbies that naturally work their bodies. They don't have a mortgage and they don't even have their own place. They don't have a career, and they don't have a business, they just have a dead end job. They don't talk to girls at all, regardless if its lame PUA tactics or quality enjoyable interactions between the sexes. It's tryi…
/r/MGTOW26/11/14 11:57 PM
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At 5'5" you will need a body. I have a friend thats about 5'5" but has a top tier body, like almost fitness magazine quality (not total lean body builder), and he has the hottest girlfriend I have ever seen in my life. A french blonde girl who moved to the US as a kid. She is flatout amazing. The dude is 5'6" max but does have hair. Also, my 3year college gf eventually left me (6'4" skinny fat at the time) for her 5'7" max lab partner in med school. He was cooler, soon to be a doctor like her, a…
/r/TheRedPill26/11/14 08:43 AM
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You have to make sure youre not confusing relationships with hookingup or casual sex. Which one are you looking for? A beta CAN get a gf. Girls like dinner dates, brunch, trips, and going out with groups of guys and girls and looking the part. Will this beta make her wet while they walk up the stairs to his apartment? Probably not. Will this beta be able to keep her mind so fixated that shes not likely to want to fuck an alpha that she comes in contact with at work or social circle? Probably not…
/r/askTRP26/11/14 08:15 AM
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Is this not exactly the male version of what we chastise women for? With the possible exception that you are providing for yourself and probably her, while women do this to men that are providing for them. I would think long and hard, and then step back for weeks or months, and think again. I wouldnt act on this right away. People have a lot of vices, and few are really all that rewarding beyond temporary pleasure. Ive been with about 30 women. Some were boring in bed. Some were ok. Some were go…
/r/askTRP26/11/14 07:18 AM
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"If it flies, floats, or fornicates youre better off just renting it."
/r/MGTOW25/11/14 04:29 AM
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So you believe women want to and prefer to ride the CC instead of landing one of the CC riders as a LTR? Ive seen some or know of some of them. Most girls would be very happy to land them as LTRs if they could. But for logistics or timing reasons, life moved on. True if she was a 9.9, yes she could have snagged the future doctor like she tried, so you can argue shes not that good, but some of that shit is a circlejerk because that doctor later ended up dating a girl not much different than her. …
/r/askTRP24/11/14 02:14 AM
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I didnt really mean sexually awake as a positive slut euphemism. I meant it more to explain shes a living sexual being. If a woman has sex inside an ltr for a few years, do you believe shell be able to go YEARs without sex after? If you met a woman that went years without sex that wasnt a virgin, what would you think in todays society? I would 100% prefer to find the girl for whom im the second or third, sure. Who wants her to have more? But if youre not getting married to your college girlfrien…
/r/askTRP24/11/14 02:07 AM
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This brings the whole mateguarding debate to mind, which isnt easily answered ever. Some argue top tier guys dont give a fuck, while others argue top tier guys are top tier partially by fighting for whats theirs. My current rookie mind would tell me 2 things.. if she wants to go, then go. I dont think you do yourself or the relationship any favors stopping someone from doing something they want to do. HOWEVER, a quality girl would personally worry about the nature and risk of this hotel room pho…
/r/askTRP24/11/14 01:54 AM
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Im no superstar, but im a pretty high achiever. My advice would be to do something quality with this 'fondle my tits' time. Read trade magazines or books. Hell, write trade articles. Or get into sales and or customer followup. Bring in or expand business. Something to advance your skillset and career. If thats too much 'work focus' then use this offtime to advance your hobbies if work will allow. Plan the next hike, road trip, weekend away, whatever. Be interesting, because playing with your OWN…
/r/askTRP24/11/14 01:34 AM
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I just believe its a point system, and not an automatic disqualifier. Raging slut party girl, yes of course pass, thats damaged by anyones count. However, CC rider by circumstance? Consider the whole picture. This girl WAS your unicorn in college. If I hadnt left, shed be a well educated rich irl that loved her guy. Republican conservative, almost sounded like a rpwoman when i think back. But her bf left her for no real reason other than being immature. She tried hard to date a guy in her medica…
/r/askTRP24/11/14 01:25 AM
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I understand. My work has me answering texts constantly, and it feels disingenuous to gloss over theirs. But the truth is, as another stated, if you were engrossed with your work you wouldnt multitask. Top tier professionals dont multitask, atleast not on bullshit. An NFL quarterback that wants to be the BEST is reading notes on the bus, not texting his wife. A surgeon is working his whole shift under pressure, and then taking care of his personal needs in the few hours he has, and reading journ…
/r/askTRP24/11/14 12:20 AM
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Honest question.. in the world now with paternity tests, prenups OR kids without the actual legal marriage, AND women earning as much or more than many men, how does this change things? I generally agree that id prefer a cute conservative girl that just happens to love me, but at the same time my EX was that girl from 19 to 23. I was her second after her hs bf from 15 to 19. Then she rode the CC from 23 to 30yrs old (probably at around 15 now, were pretty open). At the same time she is finishing…
/r/askTRP24/11/14 12:11 AM
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First off, women are always pissed they cant find their own hair ties or pins, so that one I honestly attribute to accidents. Ive had gfs leave them at my house as we drive off to a hiking trip and they hate their hair for the next 8 hours. Furthermore, spending the night at someone elses house is an exciting decently rare thing. In college i was constantly losing my favorite clothes. Why? Because you wear them out because they get you laid. And then you wake up somewhere new, do the best you ca…
/r/askTRP23/11/14 11:54 PM
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Im a rookie still learning this myself. Just like a lot of guys, i have streaks of quality game that seems to come naturally when things are going great, only to have it snowball into lameness as i lose my footing (frame) piece by piece. Some of the strongest attractions Ive built have been ones in which I was genuine yet reserved/busy. Its almost cliche these days to say 'be busy doing your own thing!' but god damn its true. Two of my most devoted girlfriends in my 20s BOTH had me stand them up…
/r/askTRP23/11/14 10:59 PM
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Patrice Oneal talks often about how women become something instantly when they get with a guy that is something already. This woman potentially could have been a nobody, but instead she gets to be something special and travel around the world with him. If they were to split up, who exactly would she be?
/r/askTRP23/11/14 02:17 AM
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You're talking about stretching around. I'm talking about depth. And while yes depth does increase when they are arroused fully, it's still not often enough, or not something that's always possible due to nerves or feelings or who knows what.
/r/askTRP19/11/14 09:26 PM
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I assume this is a half troll post but I'll bite. First off, I can promise you she DOES like yours more than 9" because I'm at about 8 and for most girls I cant go all out because it DOES cause them pain. At 9"s youd be pretty much having 'careful' sex constantly to not punch her straight in the cervix or whatever else causes them pain down there. So odds are she enjoys your 6"s going all out more than she does the previous large dudes. Second, if shes had two 9" dudes out of 3 this chick should…
/r/askTRP19/11/14 04:11 AM
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Ya, if you've had semi flirty conversations with dozens of girls, asked most of them out, gone on tons of dates, escalated on those dates and its still not working for you.. I totally understand, theres something wrong and you should just get it out of the way. I have a feeling that's not your problem.
/r/askTRP15/11/14 07:52 PM
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People have sex with people in highschool, a small group. They do it in the frat/sorority system, an even smaller group. They do it in small college towns. And they do it in their own small towns. It sounds like you're in a big enough town that this doesn't even matter. Would I go CHEATING on a girl in a small college town? Probably not. Would I keep several girls as possible candidates while I focused on one after the other? Absolutely. No problem with that, or shame. Its normal.
/r/askTRP15/11/14 07:51 PM
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Jesus. The only person this will work on is an extremely needy girl that will mirror what she expects. PS, what this almost means is that YOU are extremely needy (by definition really since you need them to adhere to your ultra strict rule or you next). The only saving grace is that you NEXT them, instead of verbalizing this neediness to them. If you DO manage to find the above girl, and it works for a while, there will come a moment when she calms down (because girls have more validation in eve…
/r/askTRP15/11/14 09:44 AM
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First, I think theres varying definitions of the CC. To some people, they make it seem like quality girls go around giving dudes blowjobs in the bathroom, doing new frat guys every week, fucking every guy that owns a motorcycle, and fucking one out of every 5 guys that go up to her on the dancefloor on a girls night out. That's a rare CC rider imo. Ive seen them, they exist, for a while. But still rare. What happens more often is that women get caught up in little short term relationships with g…
/r/askTRP15/11/14 09:19 AM
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This is the right answer. But honestly, whats the point. Too few girls in the world?
/r/askTRP15/11/14 08:54 AM
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Sad but true. Shes not your special unicorn. She still wants it like the other girl, except you are way too much in your head.
/r/askTRP15/11/14 08:53 AM
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I dated a girl for 4 years in college. Had a pretty terrible break up. Years later, after not talking for atleast 5 years, we reconnected somehow. We are pretty damn real friends and I WOULD NOT fuck her. Shes still good looking, even more successful, and has matured into a decent chick. But seeing her at 18-22, and now seeing her at 30, I just cant do it. Shes a nice girl, but while I don't CARE about her as much as a sister, I almost see her like that. I have fucked way worse women recently, b…
/r/askTRP15/11/14 08:50 AM
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Youre a good friend. Remind him that you've read about this all over the internet, and EVERYONE believes its never the same, and only leads to more drama. He needs to get out while he still has some self confidence left. Be honest with him. Also, at 20, theres nothing wrong with pointing someone in the direction of the redpill. What, is he going to ruin your career? I tell people about the ideas of redpill all the time. Obviously I only tell men, and even then only the men I think need help and …
/r/askTRP15/11/14 08:46 AM
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I'm not big on the prostitute route yet at all because you haven't actually tried yet, so I don't think you need to resort to those measures at this point. I agree with a lot of what GLL says, Im a avid follower. I also wouldn't worry about betabux because while in college betabux is 'I had to buy her a burrito and a soda to fuck her.. I wish I was alphafucks and saved $7.' Who cares. Just don't go over board and start buying gifts of any kind, or paying for an event ticket for her that's over $…
/r/askTRP15/11/14 08:39 AM
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I agree 100%. Find the slightly less cute girl (which in reality when you look back in 10 years will actually have been the cuter girl) that wants to go with you, and make her night. Shell kiss you. Shell giggle and be happy about everything. Who knows, you might even see her after. Do something pleasant and memorable, not something prone to be a royal pain in the ass like taking some 'taken' girl.
/r/askTRP15/11/14 08:32 AM
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Totally agree, not worth risking going to prom with. Already has a bf in her mind that's cooler than you, so even if she goes with you, even if its half decent because she plays along, it wont be that memorable at all. If you manage to kiss her, itll be like a 5 second kiss before she goes 'omg I cant'. You're not a player, and shes not a full blown slut, so you're not going to emotionally and physically seduce her. I agree with RED1, if you WANT to waste your time, take her on dates you can lin…
/r/askTRP15/11/14 08:31 AM
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I like your entire post except for the 'tell her you changed your mind'. That's just a weird butt hurt display of emotion, or atleast that's how shell see it at this point. I do think however 'forgetting' to give it to her would work well, however you need to do that. If she has your number or facebook, rest assured she will contact you as she sees youre not offering and she still needs them. From there its up to you really depending on the technicalities of your situation. If it was me, and she…
/r/askTRP15/11/14 08:25 AM
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I wouldn't even go straight into dating other girls. Some of the BEST times in my life, where I made the most career progress or progress in my hobbies, were when I didn't have a gf, didn't have a 'plate', and best of all WASNT EVEN LOOKING. Somehow during that time I even landed a random FWB, did her a few times, and told her "hey this is really interfering with work.. its been nice.. bye". I literally gave up a decent f-buddy because the knock it out of the park performance at work I was doing…
/r/askTRP15/11/14 05:45 AM
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I think that's way too long personally. I was with a girl for 4 years, lived with her for almost 3, and it was CRAZY emotional on both sides. When it totally fell apart I had no job, had to move back home with my parents (I was 23), and she ended up instantly with her medical school lab partner I thought she was into the whole time. That shit stung like no other. I was a mess for the first month for sure. Then I found a job, and forgot to talk to her often. Eventually I felt fine. It probably to…
/r/askTRP15/11/14 05:42 AM
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I get like this often, especially after a breakup or on the brink of a breakup. Its mostly about your mental state, and not about actual women. Whenever I feel needy/depressed about a relationship, I turn to the manosphere/pua/seduction stuff to try and save it or fix myself for next time. And it drives me NUTS. Every example you hear of how to get women, makes you think of how easy women are, thus how easy the woman you care about must be also. It's a dumb logic loop and you can get STUCK in it…
/r/askTRP15/11/14 02:58 AM
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This post has made me lose respect for /seduction.
/r/seduction14/11/14 10:56 PM
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Join a fraternity that has a house on campus. Most don't 'haze' these days and overall its a decent good time, and if you pick the right one, even cheap rent. Quick way to get girls to come to parties, right at your house, with your room 30 feet away. Then theres the other social events they put on. Cant hurt. And finally, you will form many more lifelong college male friends that way also, so even from a guy perspective its a good thing.
/r/askTRP14/11/14 05:18 AM
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Also agree. Dont delete. Put them in a 'girls' folder (I now have a damn archive) and move on. I usually forget I even have it unless Im cleaning out a computer before formatting. I looked through my girls folder for the first time in probably 7 years recently. It was amazing. I looked great, they looked great, and we looked so happy. I looked back in fondness, but not in hurt at all for a single one.
/r/askTRP14/11/14 03:07 AM
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It was mostly a response to common advice to lift, said in jest, but its still true. Tim Cook with muscles would win over Tim Cook without muscles. You can always point to guys who are alphas without muscles.. except when you compare them to similar guys WITH muscles. I'm not saying be huge, but I think its safe to say Tim Cook doesn't lift at all. You took the point wrong considering I was saying exactly that he doesnt need muscles and we still know hes not some beta loser at work. I was saying…
/r/TheRedPill14/11/14 01:52 AM
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Thanks. Thats a good point.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/14 12:24 AM
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Can someone please explain the solution to the real problem is. Im a believer that all male orbiter 'friends' are trying to fuck your woman if given the chance. BUT, what is the solution? I have a hard time believing that 'telling' your LTR to remove them from her life is the way to go. What does that solve? She no longer texts them, she just sees them at work? She doesn't go out for girls nights out, she just goes to work lunches with them behind your back? If a woman wants attention, its every…
/r/TheRedPill13/11/14 11:57 PM
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Thank god you are young and none of this really matters. This is a godsend and I'll tell you why. My #1 regret is not getting with many more cute girls from my school when I was your age. Instead I dated one chick for 2 years in HS, and then 3 years in college. F' me. Unless you're religious and wanted to marry her, you have lost nothing. What you have gained is a GOOD lesson. Just hope you are smart enough, and strong enough, to remember it. Swingers is a good movie for you to see right now. It…
/r/askTRP13/11/14 11:18 PM
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I totally agree. I actually had this argument with my blue collar friends as I was still in the group but had moved on to corporate sales. They were saying my field was full of wimpy loser beta men compared to their construction and so forth friends. And I said "come on, you're telling me joining a corporation of thousands of men, rising to the top faster than others by outselling them, and doing so by convincing other men to do things (spend their money) on what you tell them to.. being so good…
/r/TheRedPill13/11/14 06:24 PM
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I could barely read this shit also. My opinion boils down to this.. if you cant 'dominate her' mentally, as in be the person she looks up to as #1, then not only are you in for a world of hurt deep down, but you're also wasting her time and your time. One thing that TRP has opened by eyes to is that women lust after a guy that maintains frame and never lets them out of that lustful desire they have for a 'high quality alpha guy'. If I cant produce that in her, and I can see that Im not, Im not e…
/r/TheRedPill13/11/14 03:31 AM
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I had this problem also. It was like my own version of anti-slut defense. In my mind Id be thinking "wtf is she doing? she just met me.. ". But at the same time it was because the girls I was getting with were average, the easy pulls. Maybe those don't turn us on as much. It's sad to admit but Ive still never actually had sex with a girl that when the first time I saw her I thought "omg, what an amazing looking girl. wow" Its always the "eh that's my type.. I could probably get her. Lets try" Sa…
/r/TheRedPill12/11/14 05:41 AM
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Dont text back and she will is good advice. When you double up on texts later hoping "well, im sure shell respond now to TWO missed texts", youre often right, she will. But it will be at a cost. And that cost is her reduced attraction and she gets this feeling that youre lame, needy, not busy, so forth. The unique tone is you just being insane and trying to make it easier on yourself to know messages are hers to not get your hopes up. Honestly, it will fuck you up in some weird pavlov dog kind o…
/r/seduction09/11/14 11:28 PM
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They dont try. Theyve either excluded themselves from the market or simply dont try.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/14 09:25 PM
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The other way I see it is that money allows you to DO things and women like the idea of being with someone different, interesting, exciting, that does cool things. Having money lets you get that motorcycle, go to the racing schools, do trackdays, buy tires, hell even enter an amateur race. How many guys do you know race motorcycles? Substantially fewer than those that just ride motorcycles. Same goes for cars, boats, weekend trips, vacations, and so on. Honestly though, you can do exciting thing…
/r/seduction07/11/14 09:08 AM
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There are 300million people in the US. Almost 100 people died today in traffic accidents. Died. Bled out and took their last breath. So you better believe that the same day several people broke the speed limit while not paying attention and killed someone, a few others also acted irresponsibly of their partners feelings. I read this here and it made me feel tons better. "You might as well get angry for the tide coming in." Lifes a bitch. People are tempted and are often weak. Do yur best and enj…
/r/TheRedPill07/11/14 07:43 AM
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95% of women arent aware of anything outside themselves.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/14 05:47 AM
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The world is full of examples like this. I work in high dollar sales and customers think they have leverage with issues because they're spending big money, but seem to forget its low margin. It's interesting to watch the various ways men have of saying no to others. Some handle it likes bosses, some say no but illicit sympathy at the same time to make their lives easier, some deflect to others, and some just cant say no and end up costing the company. My favorite was when I heard a middle of the…
/r/TheRedPill07/11/14 03:04 AM
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Damn I just can't see it unless you just scream sex appeal but lack all other relationship parameters. Either way, Id say good for you.
/r/seduction07/11/14 02:28 AM
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This is actually 100% backwards. Women have a different standard for this than men. Reality is, for casual sex, you have to be something damn special to a woman. You have to really turn her on. Most good girls dont think theyll do someone on the first night, be the guys fuck buddy, and continue being his fuck buddy even when she knows hes seeing other women, UNLESS he is so good to her and gets to her on such a level she cant help herself. OR, maybe shes a nympho that wants some from anyone. The…
/r/seduction07/11/14 02:01 AM
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Ive always considered myself lucky in this department but then realized even more it doesnt matter that much. Ive had several experiences where after I finish and start going partially limp, a woman can keep going (shes on top) and she seems to enjoy just as much as when its hard and much bigger. So hell with it. The article is right, women enjoy sex that stimulates the clit anyway, so get her on top, or losition yourself right (youre working out right???) so that it doesnt marter if its 5 6 or …
/r/seduction06/11/14 08:42 PM
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Dont get needy, and be something impressive so they know going on a random date with the next guy probably wont deliver the same good feelings as simply seeing you again.
/r/seduction05/11/14 07:45 PM
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If youve seen her more than once, amd havent kissed her, its 95% too late. Ask her to do something CLEARLY romantic/sexual (whatever your goals or age is). Shell either not go at all for that, worse than ever, OR be glad you finally grew some balls and she'll give you 1 more chance to make a move. Next time kiss them on the first date.
/r/seduction05/11/14 04:03 AM
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Be careful not to go extreme.. again. Dont put off girls until you look like a model. Theres nothing wrong with spinning a few plates and they fall for you more and more everytime they see you because you look hotter, your job is going well, and youre happier with yourself. Youre building up your body over the next # months, do the same for your social skills. I honestly worry you take a year doing this body sculpting, and without any practice you give it a week or two or four and wtf happens th…
/r/seduction04/11/14 08:23 AM
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I feel like you are mixing up 'mentality' with reality. Yes you need to think and act like those things dont matter, so that you can maximize the positive aspects you do have... but don't fool yourself into assigning such skewed ratios to those items. You extrapolate to make yourself feel better, but in reality those things do matter, and you are competing against them too. Do you really know many shy quiet timid rich abercrombie models? No because being that good looking with trust fund money m…
/r/seduction03/11/14 11:15 PM
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Find something cool you want to do/go to, something you will want to do either way, with her or without her (sure maybe youll ask another girl, or go with guy friends, or go alone, doesnt matter dont tell her). Invite her to it again. People get sick, or fake being sick. Whatever. It would have been nice if she said she would text you when shes better. Oh well, shes either dumb, not that into you, or playing hard to get because someone fooled her into thinking thats attractive. So you ask again,…
/r/seduction03/11/14 10:56 PM
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I think she means "make it happen". If a guy wants something, he'll make it happen. Sometimes making it happen includes asking for things, like plans to see each other, or for her number, and so on. But the main point is, he has a goal, isnt afraid, and cares enough to follow through.
/r/seduction03/11/14 08:40 PM
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Im nowhere near old enough to answer this post (30) but Ive had a good run and I relate a lot to this guy. I feel like I could be a duplicate someday. Heck, most people would dream of being so lucky to have secure finances, a decent career/early retirement, and several cool hobbies, along with a non insane home life, and a well raised daughter. You have so much to be thankful for and enjoy it seems. The only thing I notice is.. 1.. youre thinking about her past and her 'slutty' days. Yes or no, …
/r/MarriedRedPill03/11/14 08:27 PM
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Oneitis about a kiss and flake is different than having oneitis for your years long crush or exgf. Ive had multiday trips with new girls that consisted of friday to sunday sex, and as soon a I got back in my car to finally drive home I was checking for text messages from my ex and putting my emotional well being on the hook depending on what those few texts said. Its not always as simple as GFTOW (go fuck 10 other women). Ive done that too (different girl years later) and at the end all that hap…
/r/TheRedPill03/11/14 06:22 PM
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I'm a tall white guy dating an Asian girl 4 years younger, on our 3rd and final year probably. When we started and she was head over heels crazy about me (I was a top performer nationwide at work also) she would sometimes talk about how her dad asked about her and her sisters liking white guys. She'd talk about how Asian guys just don't do it for her and list off some traits. I thought that was bullshit. 'Bruce lee? Or those muscular cooler Asian guys? No? Come on...' And shed just shrug and say…
/r/TheRedPill31/10/14 10:34 PM
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Whenever I start wondering why a woman dumped me or cheated or who knows what and what that means about me.. I remind myself that even Steve McQueen got cheated on. Rich, good looking, famous, liked, racecar driver, motorcycle racer, successful actor, loved by women, the guy many people look up to as the example of cool, got cheated on by his wife that he stole from a famous director a few years earlier. If Steve McQueen can get cheated on, anyone can get cheated on. Its not about you as a whole…
/r/seduction21/10/14 04:06 AM
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