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This makes sense ngl. I still think people who fuck around, like this should date each other because they deserve each other. Leave the rest of us alone lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 12:54 PM
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overweight?? Ngl y’all just hate black women
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 12:48 PM
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Most of us are dating men our age. Being a chad at 30 is an exception to the rule
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 12:46 PM
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Most Black women are just like other women. We are not a different species so please shut the fuck up
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 11:46 AM
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How do u know he meant black women and not just rappers or hood chicks in general ?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 11:45 AM
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I thought you meant rappers and hood chicks, I hope you didn’t take this as a chance to shit on black women as a whole
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 11:45 AM
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Oh then I can’t really trust the integrity of the data for black women bc there are different versions of “overweight”…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 11:58 AM
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How did they classify average ? Because average seems to be overweight.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 12:46 PM
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I just realized this was self reported. I wonder if they self reported their height and weight, or self reported them being overweight or non overweight Regardless, race doesn’t seem that important unless you’re a black woman or an Asian male. You can be pretty and non overweight and you’re still behind unattractive non black women for most men
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 12:20 PM
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People here always say the reason black women are considered undesirable is because many are overweight or obese. However, this chart proves that even as a fit black woman you’ll be considered less attractive than a fat Latina, Asian, or white woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 08:42 AM
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Huh? You need decent social skills to be a doctor. Way more than tech and likely finance. (Incoming med student here)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 08:19 AM
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Why do you wanna get treated like a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 07:57 AM
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If she was hotter you would’ve dated her?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 12:47 AM
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So you don’t date women because they don’t frequent the gym or like being at sports bars?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 10:12 PM
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Why wouldn’t u sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 09:35 PM
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Why would u sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 09:34 PM
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Why wouldn’t u have dated her
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 09:28 PM
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Women don’t chase the top 10% of men, you’re on the internet too much. And, I mean even if women chased the top 80% of men you wouldn’t be chosen, as 5’3 is 2nd percentile for men. So you’re bitter for the wrong reason. Redpill is misogynistic and berates natural female preferences. It’s biological what women want and look for— you don’t need to become a misogynist to get that. Do good men accept good women who are deformed looking? Nope. Yet those women don’t become man hating incels …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 12:48 AM
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So you’re redpill because you hate that women have preferences?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 08:19 PM
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Now do this with body weight but with men. It’s just biology. 5’4 isn’t attractive on men
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 08:19 PM
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The black community is a mess. Y’all really want things to be like that?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 12:47 AM
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Here’s the thing, women are asked for one night stands 100x times more than you are asked for your money. So putting that in her bio probably does filter out a lot of guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 02:03 PM
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A lot of women join apps and quit within a few weeks later, leaving disgusted and will likely never return
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 11:59 PM
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Beyoncé is more than above average
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 01:56 AM
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The average man is overweight which is not attractive. Sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 06:12 AM
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Stop acting like men and ultra simple. They shit talk too.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 12:26 PM
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Yea eating is the hardest part. And I don’t like junk food. But I guess you can just date girls who went from chubby to skinny. They definitely need cardio
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 01:06 AM
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Not if your metabolism is super fast. But I’m really skinny so.. I did cardio sports my whole life and enjoy having endurance but it didn’t get me the results I wanted
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 10:58 PM
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But if she’s trying to gain weight/muscle doing cardio doesn’t make sense …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 08:46 PM
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Where can women find men outside of dating apps?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 09:02 PM
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What if she does weights and doesn’t run?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 08:34 PM
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I see male 7s with 5s all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 08:31 PM
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That’s the issue. The app is too much about hookups. If we women want hookups we can just let strangers solicit us
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 08:30 PM
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I’m sure many guys would fuck girl who just wants to lie there and say nothing but they’d probably shit talk her after too!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 01:52 AM
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And you think all of us women need more than that reason to fuck a guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 09:42 PM
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If your hot rich celeb crush told you to do the same you wouldn’t?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 08:23 PM
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Lemme see and I’ll judge
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 11:41 AM
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To what you said about black men I am a black girl, I think most black men prefer women with an ass like meg the stallion, however, it’s very rare for a woman to have an ass like that with no stomach. That’s why many black men are with “chubby” women, which they actually consider thick. Famous black men can get the women with the ass and no stomach bc those women get surgery. Like I said, I’m thin (not a stick, I have curves), and I know from experience most black men will take the “thick” woman…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 03:22 PM
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Women don’t have fetishes like that because we aren’t sexually obsessed nor porn addicts for the most part. I think many regular weight men prefer chubby women. Because I’m skinny and don’t get much love
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 10:38 PM
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I see average couples every day lmao. And the 600 pound life men either live off the woman’s disability money or have a feeder fetish.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 10:19 PM
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No it isn’t. Men care more about looks than women. Women care about looks but weigh personality, career, etc. so men will never find value in an ugly girl in the way a woman could value an ugly man. I have seen way more Jay Z and Beyoncé’s than Aaron Taylor Johnson’s and Sam Taylor Johnson’s
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 05:52 PM
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I’ve seen plenty of ugly dudes in relationships though? Ugly girls only date ugly men
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 02:59 PM
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Getting pumped and dumped isn’t a privilege it’s actually emotionally damaging for women. And sex with strangers is painful for most of us
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 02:39 PM
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Only if the the man is black actually
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 01:15 PM
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Hot guy >>>>> hot girl >> above average girl >>> average girl = above average guy >>>>> average guy > ugly guy = ugly girl
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 01:09 PM
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Ok I will make them equal. I just feel like ugly men with money (rappers for example) are more privileged than ugly women with money. And I honestly think being used for sex and having your emotions constantly fucked with, is worse than being denied sex. Ugly women are dating ugly men
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 01:08 PM
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Bc we can’t find a good man until then? It’s hard
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 01:06 PM
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From my close friends (10) all want a husband material guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 01:06 PM
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Also men just care less, emotionally, in the beginning. Women get super attached quick in most situations. I watch a lot of shows like Love Island and have seen this reflected in real life
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 01:04 PM
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Ugly men can buy sex, they can acquire money to buy a hot girl. Ugly women with money are still seen as useless. Sex isn’t a prize to women
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 01:03 PM
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Hot girls do date broke hot guys tho
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 01:02 PM
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I’ve seen a lot of Jay Z and Beyoncé type couples. not nearly as many Aaron Taylor-Johnson and Sarah Taylor Johnson’s
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 01:01 PM
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Oh so have I, but hot girls can get commitment from average guys pretty easily. Ugly girls can’t
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 12:59 PM
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At least ugly guys can obtain money. Ugly girls can’t do anything except get expensive plastic surgery which probably won’t even work and work out which only does so much
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 12:59 PM
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I think we have different definitions of ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 12:58 PM
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I can tell you don’t know any “giga chads” .
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 12:56 PM
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No thanks I want a husband
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 04:33 AM
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Nah ugly girl gets cheated on any by every guy that can cheat on her. Ugly guy can get money at least and buy a hot chick. Ugly women have it the hardest bc womens value is solely based on looks
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 04:32 AM
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Bro hot guys don’t even need money they can just bum off average women
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 04:29 AM
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My bad
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 03:44 AM
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Hot guy >>>>> hot girl >> above average girl >>> average girl = above average guy >>>>> average guy > ugly guy > ugly girl
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 02:12 AM
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Women want to settle down young. Men don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 01:12 AM
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I envy men in a lot of ways. Not sure how this is odd
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 12:55 AM
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Yea and it’s not even close
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 12:54 AM
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I’m a darkskin black woman with coily hair. You don’t see me crying about men not wanting me. Many men dislike darkskin but Some don’t. Honesty we will attract super genuine people or opportunistic ones. The latter is easy to weed out early
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 09:37 PM
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Just because she’s popular doesn’t mean she’s pretty though
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 07:55 PM
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It’s your looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 07:53 PM
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Girl
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 02:14 PM
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I qualify for a guy with options . So I’m not worried
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 01:41 PM
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Your point makes no sense. There are more tall men than black, so more tall men to chose from. Tall men still want women as equally as black
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 04:03 AM
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No we won’t, clearly most of the women here just want someone taller than them. They will be fine with average height and below men. Women like me who have a hard set requirement are in the minority and can find a tall guy. (Though I just want 5’11 or higher) Almost every woman “desires” tall men (like most men desire a woman with a WHR of 0.6-0.7) but many don’t have hard requirements for one.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 01:24 AM
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Because it makes it seem like tall men are hard to get.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 01:16 AM
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This statistic is just a scare tactic for women with preferences. only about 12% of men in the US are black but I have no issues finding a black man to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 01:12 AM
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Taller than us in heels. So 5’9 and up
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 12:53 AM
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After 6’1 the difference is negligible. Over 6’7 it becomes detrimental… The only thing that would make me drop my height requirement is if all tall men died or disappeared. I don’t think I could ever be satisfied with someone I wasn’t attracted to and that’s not something any partner deserves… someone feeling like they were hard settled on
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 12:52 AM
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I’m attracted to being one with someone I really like and pleasing them with my body I guess… I don’t get aroused by seeing them naked
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 04:45 AM
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Hands, face, voice… are attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 01:14 AM
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As a woman I wish I could get horny for just looking or even from being kissed by a stranger… never works unless I have an emotional connection
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 01:11 AM
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Skirts below the knee. And no honey the entire south is like this
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 09:08 PM
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No we fucking can’t 💀😭😭 I saw dudes literally came to class with shirts that had the entire sides cut out. Never got in trouble. Meanwhile girls couldn’t even show shoulders or thighs
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 08:19 PM
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Have you seen US dress codes?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 05:16 PM
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So what I’m hearing is hot women won’t fuck you. How often do you work out and how tall are u?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 12:17 PM
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Eh. For Men is more like 70% looks 20% personality 10% status.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 12:13 PM
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All your posts are you whining about not getting coochie
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 12:08 PM
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You hate women bc they won’t fuck you. Jfc
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 11:48 AM
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Men are way more shallow about looks than women…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 11:00 AM
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I have a big height preference, but even I wouldn’t pay for this 🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 11:00 AM
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Sounds like you were the common denominator then and learned to work on yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 05:57 AM
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If STDs didn’t exist I wouldn’t be super mad about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 07:08 PM
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Ghetto?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 12:36 PM
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Most women don’t want The Rock.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 02:13 AM
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Then marry your financial equal
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 01:05 AM
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Np!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 01:55 AM
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Post what you look like
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 12:26 AM
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Sir what
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 11:12 PM
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OP if you’re black or mixed and have naturally coily or curly hair don’t follow this stupid advice and fry your naturally beautiful hair to fit in standards you weren’t biology meant for. Your hair looks better natural and not stringy and short bc u burnt it off
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 10:52 PM
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And men are more willing to marry pretty women, especially those that fit Eurocentric beauty standards
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 05:07 PM
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I was gonna argue with you but then I looked this up. “In that year, 45-year-old married men had an average income of 85.2 thousand U.S. dollars, compared to 45-year-old unmarried men, who had an average income of 49.8 thousand U.S. dollars.” https://www.statista.com/statistics/916588/us-economy-average-income-married-unmarried-men-age/
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 04:24 PM
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Most men don’t have enough assets to talk like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 04:06 PM
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It’s not 50% anymore. It’s just under 40% I hate when ppl don’t know that stats update.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 03:55 PM
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I mean yea, but our beauty standards today have been exacerbated by the things I mentioned. I have no issue with women having to be more beautiful than men, I do have an issue with how extreme beauty standards have become. Women looked normal and realistic 10+ years ago Men are now rating average women below average
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 01:45 AM
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I would be concerned if I was getting marriage proposals “all day” lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 12:07 AM
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Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 12:00 AM
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True but that’s only because of social media, surgery, and makeup that has been normalized for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 11:14 PM
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https://theconversation.com/amp/childbearing-hips-dont-make-the-difference-in-childbirth-15685
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 08:33 PM
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As a woman, I agree that body/height > face but the face cannot be ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 06:55 PM
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Wide hips don’t indicate fertility or even easier labor/birth
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 06:52 PM
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What u look like
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 03:52 PM
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Male faces matter a lot. I know more than a few that would benefit from cosmetic surgery
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 01:57 PM
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Then they should go outside and touch grass? OLD is horrible for 90% of ppl on it
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 04:01 PM
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Biologically we don’t want to have sex with random men because that poses danger to us.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 03:36 PM
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If mens standards are “just as bad” why are 92% of the patients that undergo cosmetic procedures women ?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 03:35 PM
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Forgot pregnancy and unrealistic beauty standards
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 11:26 AM
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If you were a woman you wouldn’t care about sex nearly as much
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 11:25 AM
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Their personality is the deciding factor
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 12:43 AM
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A 5/10 means average. So a slightly chubby guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 11:29 PM
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If you’re a man you can’t decide who we find dateable based on looks
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 09:16 PM
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The main problem is I apparently look like a high schooler and I’m 21. would look older with more meat on my Bones
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 10:45 PM
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I’m glad that more body types have more representation now at least
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 07:18 PM
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I guess It’s unfortunate I was born in 2000. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 05:12 PM
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But some men would chose Meg the stallion over Margot Robbie even though Margot has an objectively more attractive face
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 12:21 PM
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As a skinny (not thin, but skinny) woman honestly I see fat girls with buff, tall men all the time. Girls that clearly have never worked out their life. In fact, it’s very rare for me to see a woman that is as skinny as me and that is with an attractive guy, which leads me to believe that in order to date one I need to gain weight (but ONLY in my butt, thighs, and arms). However, just from looking at magazines and music videos from 10 years ago, I believe that my body type would have been more d…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 12:16 PM
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Personality!! At least I know I’m not ugly
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 07:57 PM
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I’ll trade pregnancy (esp as a black woman bc it’s killing us like crazy) periods, and cramps for all the shit you complain about. I barely like sex and certainly never want for it
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 03:43 AM
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They’re getting shat on and gang banged behind the scenes
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 03:36 AM
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So you believe that if a woman is average she shouldn’t be treated like a queen? If I can’t get treated well in a relationship what’s the point of dating? A LOT of us are perfectly fine with being single now. But We might have different definitions of what being treated like a queen means though… Those requirements seem reasonable though.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 03:31 AM
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Tf us black ppl have to do with that statement ?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 03:13 AM
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What effort should they be putting in?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 03:08 AM
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You have biological privileges. You will never have to worry about getting pregnant. You will never have a period or cramps monthly. You are less susceptible to STDs. You are stronger, faster, taller. Chances are sex is almost never painful or never has been.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 03:05 AM
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Because all humans are naturally drawn to attractiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 04:15 AM
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I’m not a gold digger at all. But I’m going to become a doctor, and I have a lot of money, so I don’t need for anything financially
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 04:14 AM
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Yes, and I’m glad things are changing for Asian men but now they have worry more about fetishization. Also depends on where you live. And it’s unfortunate! even though we have a lot more representation than when I was growing up, the portrayal of black women in the media has gotten worse over the years - but it is what it is. Just have to vet harder
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 12:09 AM
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I’m a woman. We prefer money and good looks over just good looks but money alone will only attract a certain type of woman
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 11:25 PM
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Amazing what the media can do right? I’m a black woman but I don’t really feel the same about our situation
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 11:24 PM
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You guys only go for one type of girl
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 09:56 PM
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Well We women prefer u to be good looking
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 09:48 PM
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Confidence is VERY attractive. But it only helps if the guy is already above average cute (Jack Harlow for example)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 02:44 AM
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If a man can do the same thing in five Why arent we seeing this in the study? Why are men bringing an extra SHIFT Of work into a woman’s life?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 12:02 PM
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I will take self reporting study over anecdotal nonsense
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 12:01 PM
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None of those jobs are 24/7
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 03:13 AM
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Hold up what? You realize EVEN IF SHE WANTED A BIO KID, many men are willing to impregnate women they barely kno? And sperm banks exist? She could get one easier than adopting one dumb fuck… so your mindset is weird asf. Plus Many people are related by blood and still don’t fw each other. Adopted kids were picked and chosen. Speaking like they’re less than “bio” kids it’s hella insulting.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 07:17 PM
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Probably 60-70%
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 05:16 PM
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However I’d wager that 80-90% of the men responding to black women only want sex, based on my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 04:26 PM
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Kinda like how they say the mother mortality rate is fine if you don’t count black women. They don’t even see us as something the care about. We are the most disrespected group in America and men DONT CARE but want us to cry for them bc they cant get sex
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 04:21 PM
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Yup. When I said I get a lot of likes, some dude in the comments immediately asked if I was light skin. As if being darkskin (which I am) means there’s no possible way I can get attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 04:08 PM
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Actually the percentages on the chart can’t be compared. If you read the study black women even get more responses than white men
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 04:04 PM
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Yup and she’s very sweet, great body, cooks well and every day, making great money, and styles herself well. The only probably is she sleeps with them too quickly but she loves sex so it’s hard for her to abstain. Black women have to VET way harder
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 04:01 PM
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We have it way easier when it comes to sex. But unless we look like Beyoncé or Naomi Campbell we struggle more than white, Latino, and black men when it comes to finding an actual relationship UNLESS we approach. All my black friends are in situationships or have baby daddies. And people say it’s because we choose thugs or fuckboyes etc. no. Even most educated black men date out or aren’t interested in commitment, or are just outright unattractive bc they don’t take care or their looks. I will a…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 03:42 PM
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I’m above avg face below avg body(skinny). Dark skin,
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 12:42 PM
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The chart doesn’t take into account that black women still get more responses than white men, the most popular group of men
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 10:44 AM
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I’m a black woman (average looking and thin) I will say, I still will get 99+ likes in less than 24 hours as OP mentioned in this post. So while we are “struggling” compared to other groups it’s still not like what men face.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 09:14 AM
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Why did you omit the fact that black women get less responses on this post? You only mention white, Latina, and Asian women as if black won women don’t exist and are also being ignored. Men have race preferences too, clearly.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 09:07 AM
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I have a friend with an n count between 10-20. She’s a black woman who only has sex with black men. The last 5 men she’s had sex with disappeared after fucking her and pretending to want a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 08:56 AM
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If I’m going to a party with friends I want men there. If I’m hosting a party I want women there
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 12:00 AM
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100% social media has ruined us.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 11:56 PM
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I’m a woman with dark skin and coily hair. I think we have it just as hard as short men do. Get over it and be confident
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 06:41 PM
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Why do men prefer a skinny woman with slightly wider hips over another skinny woman with narrower hips? Hip has has nothing to do with the side of your inner pelvic girdle . It’s simple, a smaller hip yo waist ratio LOOKS better. It’s aesthetically better. And I have narrow ass hips and can admit this. I’m not hurt hurt about the would works. We don’t need to justify our aesthetic attractions
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 06:03 PM
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Do you really think most men prefer the former rather than the latter? It seems really subjective but idk.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 05:57 PM
2

All of those are European countries I think Halle Berry or Sofia Vegara’s body type is what you’re referring to? As opposed to Kendal Jenner or Winnie Harlow’s body (who are skinny)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 05:29 PM
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Sorry, I was mainly referring to women in America, personally what women in other countries look like doesn’t matter to me because I’ll never live there. Im aware that most black women are thick as I went to a black college, but the highest desired women in this country don’t seem to be black or thick. Slim thick, as in with a small waist and larger hips sure, but not with a huge ass like those that have become popular for the 5 years. &… Hard disagree on European women being more gorgeous but w…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 05:18 PM
1

They tower over us and make us feel protected. Longer legs, arms, and torsos, are attractive on both men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 05:13 PM
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To give you an honest answer since she won’t, tall men are more attractive. That’s it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 02:12 PM
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Most women are not thick so it’s kinda funny that every guy some how prefers this same body type. When I watch music videos from 2010 or earlier the girls are shaped like me, now it’s completely different. The bodies in music videos are unattainable for 90% of women without surgery or extensive working out all the time. I think the huge ass thing is a trend and I already see it fizzling out. Bbls are on the decline.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 01:29 PM
3

Work on that then find a woman who wants a SAHD
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 03:54 AM
1

Are you attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 02:50 AM
0

Currently I can’t fund it but I’m going to school to be a doctor and I have a lot of money for my age, so I really don’t care about the amount of money a guy makes like most girls do. But just from talking to most guys they want a SAHM or to work too It’ll be hard to find a woman who doesn’t want kids
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 08:03 PM
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I am seeking one… men don’t want to do that shit
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 06:35 PM
1

This sounds lazy. My mom cooked every night and cleaned everyday and didn’t let us sit on tv and video games and tablets all day.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 04:59 PM
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Raising kids WELL is hard asf. It’s one of the hardest jobs ever. Please don’t diminish being a SAHM like that
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 04:47 PM
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Tf are u talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 12:34 AM
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Both people having sex are at fault. Only one can give birth, which can ruin or end their life. People say use birth control like it’s free for everyone. It’s not. Plan B bills are like $30-$50. Even still, free birth control mean Jack if safe sex isn’t taught and emphasized. I think promiscuity is a net negative in society but I think people having kids they don’t want is even worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 12:32 AM
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The US population doesn’t need to get larger.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 11:42 PM
1

1-2 a day
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 09:40 PM
0

I’m 5’6. I’m attracted to men 5’10+, but would maybe date a guy below 5’10 if his face was very attractive and specially my type.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 06:19 PM
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There’s nothing wrong with it tbh. But men feel like they have to or they’ll lose her, which is settling imo I kinda forgot what we are even talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 06:13 PM
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Are you 5’10? I want tall sons. I’ve seen the man with that surgery and they aren’t proportional. I like men with large feet and hands, as well as arms and torsos that fit their body. I also like men that aren’t 100k in debt bc they wanted longer calves
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 06:10 PM
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Lmao no. Is that a joke? https://media-cldnry.s-nbcnews.com/image/upload/rockcms/2021-07/210723-lil-nas-x-industry-baby-video-ac-450p-549179.jpg Middle is the body type i prefer
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 06:05 PM
-1

“Marry me or leave” is a common thing
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 06:04 PM
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Lil nas X in his Industry baby video is a good example. I wouldn’t date a man that had limb lengthening personally. But I think other girls would
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 05:47 PM
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6’2 and I prefer a skinny but lean body type. Face and hair matter of course but I’m really attracted to body. That’s just me though
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 05:42 PM
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Bc women force men to marry them, or men think that’s the best way to get them to stay. It’s better to date a fat woman than not and risk being single in ur 30s when you start getting ugly
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 05:38 PM
3

Why white specifically?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 05:35 PM
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Because marriage benefits them. Well actually, being in a long term relationship benefits them the most. That’s why many hate the idea of marriage, bc it actually gives the woman some leverage
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 05:28 PM
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Height and body type.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 05:26 PM
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They’re there for the clout above all else actually
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 01:20 PM
2

Not all are charming.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 12:33 PM
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There’s plenty of sub 5/near 5 rappers with 8+ girls. They have money AND confidence
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 12:30 PM
2

Damn bro u just got bad luck huh
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 08:20 PM
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eh I’ve met many black and Hispanic girls that act and think exactly like valley girl white women. But I think I see what you’re saying a bit more clearly now Btw u shouldn’t seriously date someone u don’t wanna marry!! Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 02:33 AM
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I’ll agree to disagree with you on that :) 🤔 with that in mind I have another question. does a white girl from a trailer park have a higher social status in your culture than a black/Mexican girl who’s a lawyer & from an nice neighborhood?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 02:21 AM
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Right but you didn’t “take care of yourself” you got cosmetic procedures
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 12:42 AM
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Most people cannot afford that. If you wanna compare top teir 30 yr olds to top tier 20 yr olds the latter is always what women prefer
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 09:21 PM
3

Which is a small minority . Also taking care of urself doesn’t stop balding
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 08:23 PM
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This is odd because the government is made up of mostly men. So what you’re saying just doesn’t add up, unless you’re saying you’re your own problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 02:33 PM
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No bc men on dating sites act different
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 11:52 AM
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Most men do not look good at 30. Most are balding and out of shape.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 03:20 AM
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This is beautiful
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 03:01 AM
5

How do u decipher btn the smashers and the relationshipers
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 03:00 AM
1

Thanks for the honesty! But there is no difference between thinking a human being is low class for marriage and thinking they are low class as a person. It’s the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 09:49 AM
1

Ok, so the other women are considered low status in your culture
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 10:26 PM
1

Why do y’all only prefer to date white or Asian women?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 10:32 AM
1

And if they don’t say in the field where are they going? Industry?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 12:41 PM
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You keep bringing that up like that applies to most careers.. Why does having a degree and more money mean that you have long hours and high pressure forever? Do you realize there are doctors working three days a week making 200k per year? People with a PhD working 40 hours a week making six figures? Why does being more educated and having a degree automatically mean that you work long hours? Acquiring the education will be more grueling than working a regular 9-to-5 but after you get your degre…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 12:30 PM
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Source? This tells a different story: https://www.brookings.edu/blog/social-mobility-memos/2016/08/19/the-most-educated-women-are-the-most-likely-to-be-married/amp/ Successful, educated women are also less likely to divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 12:21 PM
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Less money doesn’t mean a completely different tax bracket. And nah. The high earning women who have a small dating pool have a small dating pool because of their standards, not because men don’t want them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 09:39 PM
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I don’t get what the figure has to do with this. It’s just showing that men make more than women?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 08:16 PM
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You’re the only one who mentioned working hours. Earnings are proportional to level of education… as i stated earlier. See the first figure here for proof: https://www.northeastern.edu/bachelors-completion/news/average-salary-by-education-level/
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 07:26 PM
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Question, are u Asian or white ?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 07:23 PM
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No one said u shouldn’t care about looks. But you want to find an actual lasting relationship focus on less superficial things as well too.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 07:12 PM
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https://www.theatlantic.com/sexes/archive/2013/04/college-graduates-marry-other-college-graduates-most-of-the-time/274654/ Scroll down to the first figure & look at who these men marry
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 07:10 PM
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I don’t have a problem it’s just not normal
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 06:33 PM
1

Ok. Successful men still statistically date women within their tax bracket
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 06:32 PM
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Following a passion doesn’t pay the bills. Last time I checked the average man (in my country) makes 40k and gas is nearly $5. The math ain’t mathing if most men prefer these women who make no money and do nothing about the bills that need to be paid. I follow my passions and pursue a career. People that can’t do both have poor time management
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 04:37 PM
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Educated/class and money are HIGHLY correlated so you didn’t really disprove my point. If you’re educated and are making $0 money that indicates you’re either not hard working or are making poor choices. The likelihood of having a degree and not making money is low. A lot of educated men care if women is likely to mooch off them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 04:07 PM
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Women don’t weigh it as highly as men but it’s still a big factor in choosing who we date. I would say they are equally important, but one can help make up for the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 04:04 PM
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High educated men definitely care lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 01:59 PM
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Women are attracted to both. Stop deluding yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 01:58 PM
6

This sounds like fat woman wanting a fit 6’5 guy. The expectations are contradictory
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 12:42 AM
4

So you’re not attracted to personality? That’s the first issue
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 11:22 PM
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So u want her to not be shallow but also be very attracted to u while requiring shallow traits?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 11:15 PM
5

Is this a joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 11:08 PM
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Why are women who feel the same way prosecuted for saying this ?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 11:07 PM
2

THIS is why women are wearing makeup, fake hair editing their pics etc. to compete with the inflated beauty standards bc social media has inflated themso much that man are barely attracted to natural women with body hair and no makeup any more.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 11:31 AM
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Why do you know a lot of guys whose first time was with a prostitute?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 07:54 PM
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As a girl in my early 20s , I don’t find 99% of 45 yr old men attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 10:38 PM
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If people don’t like you in your 20s most likely you’re not going to be desirable in your 30s. That’s the point
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 10:37 PM
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No. Most people (male and female)get less attractive past their mid 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 10:34 PM
1

I’ve worked remote and didn’t consider it freedom
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 07:34 AM
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You’ve solved gender disparity!!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 11:24 PM
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Lol. At least you can quit a job
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 11:23 PM
1

Which point was disproven? we need sex to repopulate you aren’t owed sex porn doesn’t make you not sexless
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 02:22 PM
1

How was I beaten?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 01:22 PM
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Ok
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 03:34 AM
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you made a comment on repopulation personal which is all that needs to be said
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 01:23 AM
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Smallest
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 12:23 AM
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Not care, but consider her for a LTR
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 09:44 PM
1

And most of your friends / most men feel the same?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 09:38 PM
1

And that’s why you made an entire incel-esque post about nothing
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 09:37 PM
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Would u consider a LTR with a woman who fucks u on the first date ?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 09:26 PM
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That last part is exactly why you’re sexless
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 09:19 PM
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Sex is important for our species. I’m not sure who said it wasn’t important. But you’re not owed shit Watching porn doesn’t make you not sexless.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 09:08 PM
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As a black woman, living around mostly black people- you will get approached all the time and eventually get accustomed to it. I have never been approached in public (so like, outside of school or work) by Asian or Hispanic men and maybe 1 or 2 times from white men. I don’t think they approach girls nearly as much as black men do. So it depends on the culture of ur community
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 04:00 PM
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So the unattractive part is wanting it but not being able to have it. I agree
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 10:08 PM
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I don’t worry about STDs because I don’t have unprotected sex with strangers. Those who do or have- should worry. Especially those that STD test don’t work on. Also HPV could give men throat cancer, forgot abt that one too
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 10:03 PM
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Absolute cap. It’s clear you know nothing about women. He could be saving himself for marriage?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 10:02 PM
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YUP! It’s a real issue. Speaking of that my Pap smear is overdue . Get ur Pap smear ladies!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 09:15 PM
1

Glad to see someone here is educated.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 09:07 PM
1

But you’re not unattractive bc you have no experience. You have no experience because you don’t have attractive qualities. Do you think a 31 yr old virgin that looks and acts like Chris Hemsworth would struggle?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 09:05 PM
1

Um that’s a huge red flag
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 09:02 PM
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You do realize you can’t get tested for HPV right? Because you’re male. And that shit can give women cervical cancer. The “fear” of STDs is because it affects your health. So I’m always wary of men saying they didn’t get an STD after fucking a bunch of women, especially after going raw on a bunch of them because “they seemed clean” lol. Honesty dating a man who had sex with 100 random girls while using a condom is more appealing than a man who had sex with 20 random girls raw.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 09:00 PM
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So why do you lie? Did you start getting rejected ?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 08:56 PM
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It dont sound like you like women. So you only want curvy IG models with round faces that wear heels everyday? Good luck
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 05:22 PM
1

Actually there has been research on the aging thing
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 09:18 AM
4

Hire a fucking maid?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 02:01 PM
1

Ok
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 07:28 PM
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Stop being a lazy fuck and look it up on YouTube. It’ll take you directly to the video . Idiot
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 07:13 PM
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Just type it on YouTube bro
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 07:06 PM
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Ok
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 07:06 PM
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Ok I and all black women are combative . Thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 06:58 PM
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Eh, I’m not combative or masculine at all. I’m real life I wouldn’t even waste one second arguing with you. Goodbye
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 06:51 PM
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But none of that was racially charged. He said black women were combative, masculine, had low facial symmetry etc. he didn’t say anything about black men specifically, just general shit that applies to all men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 05:47 PM
1

What did he say about BLACK men specifically?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 05:42 PM
2

Ok!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 05:38 PM
1

What shit did he say abt black men?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 05:33 PM
1

Angeline Jolie Is super skinny though. Is she below avg ??
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 05:32 PM
1

Maybe Your truth but not mine or anyone else I know
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 05:30 PM
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Thanks for your take. Though, None of my friends find dating apps hard. I wish people would stop comparing Asian male struggles to black female struggles in the dating world bc they’re really not the same The avg Black woman gets more matches than the avg white man does on these apps
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 03:51 PM
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Your entire argument is that black women have the least desirability in the dating world on average, yet you claim you can’t think of any real reasons for it. “It is what it is” A little confusing. Why start the argument with no mention of the reason for your stance. For example, Someone in the comment gave their opinion. They said they think most black women (in America) follow a culture that is ghetto, ratchet, and baby mama oriented which decreases desirability though bad stereotypes and beha…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 03:34 PM
1

Not sure what rules you’re talking about, but anyway you’re coping out of saying what you really mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 03:21 PM
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Cop out answer as expected well at the end of the day beauty is in the eye of the beholder. That’s my main take above all else People, no matter the race, can find someone to date them if they take care of themselves and have a positive outlook
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 03:17 PM
1

So what’s your take then?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 03:09 PM
1

So are we just talking about black women in America?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 03:06 PM
1

Most black men marry black women. I don’t have a source for my personal life but I’m pretty sure I know more black people than you. If you argue that black men think black women are the least attractive I would also like a source of that
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 03:05 PM
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Which most black men don’t think is true
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 03:02 PM
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So I’m imaging the racism ppl have towards black women? Or are you saying it has no part in the way that black women are treated in the dating world or even outside of that?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 03:01 PM
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What factors
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 03:01 PM
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I agreed that black women have less facial symmetry than other races? Point to me to where I agreed with that
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 02:44 PM
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You don’t even know how to use the term phenomenon
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 02:33 PM
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Not only did I never say black men don’t want black women— or any men for that fact. I never said I was undesirable because I’m not. The conversation was never about me babe
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 02:31 PM
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I’m already in a relationship but thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 02:31 PM
2

Hold up, When did I say black men don’t want ME specifically?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 02:05 PM
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Because his target demographic was black women in the black community. So obviously he’s going to be exposed more to people within his community dumbfuck Everyone who called him was a fucking idiot anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 11:36 AM
1

OK? So does the KKK? What’s your point
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 11:36 AM
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I have a big issue with obesity in the black community. That I do agree with Kevin Samuels on. I do not agree that thin black women are undesirable bc of their “facial symmetry”
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 11:35 AM
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Cap. No sane woman gets engaged to get divorced. Y’all I love making excuses for women that you find attractive. I’m using your own argument against you. If you measure desirability by marriage statistics your argument is in shambles
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 11:33 AM
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I mean look at the likes on the comments. No one even agrees with your hateful Eugenics bullshit anyway. Beauty is ultimately subjective. And if you think racism has nothing to do with who people choose to date especially in America you’re fucking delusional. Stop calling made up bullshit a “phenomenon” lol as a biology major working in research I’m cringing to the max rn
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 11:32 AM
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Show me where black men find us unattractive I’ll wait. We aren’t uglier than any race period
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 11:30 AM
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Sounds like you have a hypothesis. Do a study on facial symmetry between races and come to a conclusion. It should be easy enough to measure and pretty reliable with a large sample size. Unfortunately I don’t think the FDA will approve the study but good luck . Prove that uneven facial symmetry is why black women get less responses on dating apps. I will argue it’s racism, but you go ahead with your hypothesis. Kevin samuels was a hater, he did not like black women. In fact, most people seem to …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 06:16 AM
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Maybe to you JLO can’t keep a man. Is she undesirable ? The marriage argument is not valid to determine desirability, most black ppl are cohabiting. The point is Kevin kept attacking black women instead of letting us be. Before the 1980s black women were married at higher rates than white women. Were white women less desirable then?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 05:24 AM
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I never said he hated black women. But his facial symmetry comment is not backed by evidence and has nothing to do with marriage so it is a hateful comment. He has said many other hateful things about women in general. He also divorced two black women and was only 56, so I have reasons to believe he was bitter abt it
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 01:51 AM
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Consensually letting ur partner hit u to put u in ur place? The fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 01:31 AM
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look it up. He literally said black women are the least desirable and have the worst facial symmetry His target was black women. He mostly spoke about black women and compared us to other women. He listed statistics on how often we get married but never stats for other women. He often compared us to “Maria, Becky, and Ling” or whatever the fuck names he used to make a point in saying they can get educated and also get a man but we can’t. He constantly berated us. Called us masculine. Go watch hi…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 01:27 AM
1

Which is exactly why it’s not needed in the first place
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 11:08 AM
1

But then gallons of blood are being discarded which means resources were wasted to retrieve, transport, and test it in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 03:33 AM
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People need blood. No one is trying to jump through a hundred hoops just for a minority demographic that for the most part doesn’t practice safe sex despite their astronomical risk for STDs. It’s not perfect but it is what it is For gay/bi men: 1 in 6 overall. 1 in 2 if black 1 in 4 if Hispanic Compared to only 1% in general population
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 03:16 AM
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Testing blood samples just for them to be positive and discarding them is way more work than denying them in the first place
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 01:07 AM
2

Not sure what 6 months will do when HIV symptoms can lie dormant for 10-15 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 08:15 PM
2

Why tf would I lie? I’m volunteering there you think I would lie on their questionnaire ?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 08:12 PM
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I wouldn’t say it’s a law, just a precautions. They test all samples, but preventing high risk blood from being donated is easier in the long run than testing everything and having to discard a lot of it
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 12:33 PM
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I literally volunteer at a blood drive… you will be denied if you have sex with bi or gay men that have had sex with men
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 12:31 PM
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No, but having gay sex increases the likelihood of stds
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 02:08 AM
8

It doesn’t matter if he’s completely clean, someone that has sex with men who have sex with men can’t give blood.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 02:08 AM
3

A lot of people are racist about who they date. Dating is rooting in misogyny, sexism, fat phobia, racism, ageism, homophobia, xenophobia and more. Because that’s who people are.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 10:47 PM
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If he cheats on me, it could be with a man, which would put me at a higher risk. Also, I would not be able to give blood anymore if I have sex with a man who has had sex with men
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 10:45 PM
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Not to mention the elevated risk of STDs, and the fact that I wouldn’t be able to give blood anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 10:42 PM
1

This is absolute cap. Just because you’re not into black girls doesn’t mean we struggle with dating
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 11:45 AM
2

Because dating men is more stress than it’s worth
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 03:28 AM
3

What else should a woman be offering ?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 04:46 PM
1

Women are valued for having jobs and responsibility that is, if they’re adults.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 02:11 AM
1

Men put more effort into hot women than ugly ones. People don’t want to work hard for subpar rewards
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 03:01 PM
2

The GPA of the avg college student is probably terrible so.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 01:42 PM
2

Eh and realize it’s not always mistakes. Shit happens for a reason. And some things are just out of your control. I would say getting ran through is a mistake but that’s my Personal take
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 01:37 PM
0

Well not everyone is going to considered attractive . Why complain about what you can’t change. My skin is very dark which practically repels a good amount of men, no matter my facial features or body type. I’m not sitting around crying and wondering if things could be different. Make the best out of what u got
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 02:30 AM
2

Most likely that same woman is unhappy with her choice too…. In fact I would argue women who settle and the most unhappy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 11:16 PM
0

30s is still youth if you actually take care of yourself and don’t eat a bunch of junk and sit around accomplishing nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 11:14 PM
0

And most of those men who did that and are now broke would switch places with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 11:13 PM
1

Mental illness is a cop out. Some people are mentally normal- no imbalances and do atrocious things when horny or feeling like they need to maintain power over something
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 04:12 AM
1

Violence and pure evil.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 03:37 AM
2

🧢
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 11:52 AM
11

In our homophobic society it’s just common sense to assume that there are more gay/bisexual men that are not out of the closet yet
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 11:49 AM
2

Rape of animals and children is not always due to mental illness. Thats a cop out.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 11:52 PM
2

What’s the point of saying this? You’re hyper focusing on the wrong thing here
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 11:52 PM
1

Yea, I learn about in history class and read a novel about the fire in the past
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 04:51 PM
1

Nope
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 11:50 PM
1

Nope
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 11:50 PM
1

Lol white ppl. You wouldn’t last a day
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 11:50 PM
1

Still had 10x the privilege of my grandparents
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 11:34 PM
1

The Great Depression was 29-33… it was not 30-60s.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 11:30 PM
1

I find it very hard to believe 5 white ppl in America were making “well under”. $1k (and I mean 1k today, which was less back then technically due to inflation) per year. But ok. My grandparents were dirt poor, despite being a very very disadvantaged and Marginalized group ( black in the south in the 30s), they managed to make it work and send 3 of their 6 kids to college 2 of which finished. It might’ve just been a work ethic thing I suppose, but my grandma took care of the kids and grandpa wor…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 11:13 PM
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My black grandparents were making like 1k per year. Poorer than you ever know. And gma almost never worked They had 6 kids
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 08:50 PM
2

Are we only discussing America ?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 08:42 PM
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Didn’t know y’all were talking about mediaeval times. I know nothing of that. I thought this discussion was about the last 200 years or so.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 08:41 PM
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Bc last time I checked women are working just as much as men if not more so how exactly do most of us expect to be provided for?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 07:45 PM
1

Which women weren’t ?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 07:44 PM
4

What’s your definition of providing? Buying dinner ?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 07:39 PM
0

All women were expected to be provided for.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 07:39 PM
1

Are you married?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 03:30 PM
0

I only worship god. I have seen people in relationship worship eachother and it’s 99% of the time toxic. My parents have been married 25+ years and do not worship eachother. That’s not how long term relationships work. It’s about respect and knowing your role. Love is a bonus. Lust is short lived And it depends on your definition of high value, I find different people have differing opinions on what it is. From what I see, there are few high value people period. I don’t consider myself one of th…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 02:44 PM
3

NO ONE in a relationship should be worshiping the other person. No ONE who is high value should settle for less than high value.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 02:29 PM
4

You will never have to get pregnant so shut the fuck up about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 05:29 PM
1

Hell no
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 03:02 PM
0

You sound like your friend is your lover
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 02:08 AM
1

The plot is stupid. Porn sick men are not desirable. End of discussion
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 11:16 PM
1

Ok so let’s say there’s a one way mirror between them she doesn’t know him and he scheduled to come watch her through her assistant.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 07:36 PM
1

But why would I want to date a sicko who likes watching people get shot? Or someone perv who likes watching other people fuck? It’s disgusting to me both ways. So what exactly is your issue with it if it’s not cheating?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 05:01 PM
1

Which brings me back to my original question that wasn’t even directed at you. “If your boyfriend visited A cam girl in real life and jerked off to her while she is naked and masturbating (for free, no touching) would you have an issue with it?” I would 100% have an issue with this. The only difference here is porn is behind a screen. You don’t need intimacy to cheat. My biggest issue though is the blatant disregard of scientific evidence. If you have scientific or medical background, this is a …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 03:22 PM
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Ok then replace the world addict with drug user. Say they’re on cocaine (let’s say it’s just been legalized) but they are not addicted. Still won’t date them. And yes I would break up with someone who is addicted to porn or even “watches it” for hours per day and somehow is not an addict. But you already have stated that it’s selfish to do so. No one can make anyone do shit. We are discussing preferences here?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 03:15 PM
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Sorry I don’t play video games, so I’m not really sure how that works, but i do know that you’re shooting at is a cartoon not a real person. When you watch porn it is a video of real people having real sex. It’s not the same thing as whatever the fuck you’re talking about. Also no one is actually dying or getting hurt when they’re being “shot“ in a fucking video game, but in porn people are actually having sex or being penetrated. Again, your idiotic analogy and pitiful attempt to justify degene…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 03:12 PM
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Last time I checked there are no real people in call of duty, your analogy would only work if the boyfriend in question was only watching animated porn of fake people and not real porn. If the boyfriend was say, watching videos on the dark web of people getting shot and having their head cut off then yes I would not date him
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 02:42 PM
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Ok I guess if I don’t want to date a republican or a drug addict I am controlling bc that’s their own beliefs and own body and I should be ok with it even though that doesn’t align with my interest or values. See how stupid you sound
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 02:42 PM
0

Both sides are biased. One side has factual scientific evidence to prove their point while the other side uses emotions and pseudoscience to create their argument
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 02:05 PM
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So the proven scientific answer isn’t enough for you…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 02:04 PM
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Question. if your boyfriend visited A cam girl in real life and jerked off to her while she is naked and masturbating (for free, no touching) would you have an issue with it?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 02:03 PM
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You Are fucking delusional
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 02:01 PM
1

Watching a funny YouTube video does not release dopamine in the same way that sexual arousal does.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 02:00 PM
2

I’m about to be med student and would 100% take doing med school over taking care of a fucking kid all day and cooking and cleaning (+ more) for 3 people daily. STAM is 24/7 job
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 01:12 PM
1

Being a housewife with 1 kid is hard work tf are you talking about ?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 01:22 AM
1

I, not anyone else, has to do shit no matter what their preferences are lol. This post is idiotic.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 01:20 AM
2

Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 12:45 PM
2

Rappers? Most are not married.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 12:44 PM
1

Statistically This is not common. Your personal anecdotes don’t really mean much
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 12:43 PM
1

Statistically it’s just not likely someone that fucked 100 ppl has no STDs
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 09:33 PM
1

If we didn’t care about him being desirable we’d all date fat incels
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 05:49 PM
1

Sounds like some boring ass people with boring lives… I have more interesting things I like to do besides the same routine sit down eat food. Be creative. Routine is boring
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 03:00 PM
1

Who the fuck is going out in a dinner date every single week ?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 01:41 PM
2

Not true. And When did I say that?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 05:47 AM
6

Yes, yes we do.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 05:06 AM
1

As if you have much to lose
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 05:06 AM
1

The good thing is no one is interested in marrying you
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 04:22 AM
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I’m not mad I just wish pitiful men would stop tryna make excuses for their issuesz
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 04:21 AM
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You’re a fucking incel it’s hilarious seeing how hard you’re tryna defend yourself in the comments. Go get tested
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 03:17 AM
5

As if someone like you is paying 3k on any girlfriend per year.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 03:16 AM
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Most do. We want a man who is desired enough to not have to pay for sex. A man who can go months without sex with no issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 03:15 AM
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They play with women’s emotions and promise sweet nothing by lying. Women don’t like that, but physical attraction causes them to overlook the issues. Eventually they realize the dude is fucking trash
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 11:56 AM
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Most women don’t want fuck boys and man whores no matter how much y’all try to justify it
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 03:47 AM
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Higher likelihood of hpv tho. Which they can’t get tested for
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 03:46 AM
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Ok, sorry for assuming it was a complete unattraction. I was just curious. We all have our preferences The way your worded that comment seems like borderline fetishization on your friends part.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 07:28 PM
2

Right but 4c hair being long is very hard impossible and all to maintain. I say this as someone with long 4b hair when straight but very short when in the most natural state.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 07:27 PM
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You could have just said not attracted to Indian and black or mixed women, would’ve been a shorter comment
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 06:21 PM
2

So the type 4 hair has to be long ?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 06:20 PM
1

Are African and Jamaica woman or Russian and Italian women not exotic? I think you just mean Olive skinned women, not exotic women
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 12:53 PM
1

Which races
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 12:51 PM
2

What texture of natural hair is your preference? Don’t lie to look better
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 12:47 PM
1

Thank you so much! I’ve done some research but I really prefer clinical aspect of things
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 12:38 PM
2

You should care about your Market value
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 03:13 AM
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So you’re dating a pornstar? I don’t have a man. And I’m 21 with over tens of thousands to my name still in undergrad working towards med school so I think I’m doing ok. From your post history it seems like you sit on Reddit for multiple hours a day. 30+ year old men creeping after women my age are just weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 01:41 AM
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Ok but high n count men are not valued unless they are rich or super attractive is the point
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 01:40 AM
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You’re girlfriend is not a 9+ and you’re a creep. And a lot of women don’t have sex with dozens of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 01:32 AM
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You disagree that a man with an N count of 1000 is more likely to cheat than one with an N count of 3? Really?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 05:54 PM
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Is there someone wrong with a man having a low N?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 05:52 PM
1

Definitely not true. As one of those women with friends like this as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 05:48 PM
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I don’t want a man. If one comes in cool if one doesn’t I’m cool
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 02:34 PM
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Most men in my community do not want skinny women that look like that. They’ll take a Doja cat or Meg the stallion over that So your man cheats on you?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 01:27 PM
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Way hotter women than Alessandra have been cheated on or dumped. Plenty of fat women have men who love them. Not even guy is attracted to the same body type
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 01:13 PM
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How is Angelina Jolie the crazy one in that relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 12:54 PM
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Most women aren’t hot, and plenty of hot women get abandoned abs cheated on. Most men are content with their looksmatch. What you’re saying is the equivalent of me saying women can’t be happy if the man isn’t a millionaire… which is just so untrue
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 12:53 PM
3

I think most of them will fold eventually
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 01:53 PM
1

I’m 22. If it’s a girl or guy around my age with higher than 8 then I consider it high.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 03:24 AM
2

Thought so
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 07:56 PM
4

I’m glad you got it 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 07:56 PM
5

How’s your relationship with your father and mother?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 02:50 PM
3

Clearly you haven’t been on the other side of things.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 08:49 PM
2

Do what math? You made it seem like women are hypocritical about hair when most men are literally obsessed with it
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 06:13 AM
1

Exactly so what’s your point ?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 05:45 AM
2

Are men not the same fucking way?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 05:11 AM
2

90% of people aren’t skinny fat. 90% of skinny people are skinny fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 12:53 AM
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looks. We want to marry the hot guy and fall in love with him easily if he’s charming. We only want the rich guys money and probably will never fall in love with him truly.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 12:46 AM
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Why exactly? It’s just a description of sexual behavior. You seem extremely close minded and old fashioned.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 01:15 AM
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I have no interest in casual sex at all bc I’m demisexual. But of the women who do and don’t want a relationship with the man they’re fucking (rare), a relationships either falls into their lap or does not happen until they become intentional about it. Majority women want the chad their fucking to date them. That’s why they get so jealous if he’s seen with another girl
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 04:08 PM
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Ofc you don’t play “sex games” because your end goal is sex. Our end goal is not sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 03:58 PM
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You make it seem as if a woman picking and chosing who she fucks (while men sling dick at any and everything) is a bad thing. We can chose who we want and sex isn’t owed to you or anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 02:27 PM
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Some men would. Russel Wilson and Ciara didn’t have sex till marriage. It’s best to not make blanket statements. Sex is not owed to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 11:57 AM
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It doesn’t take months 🤣. I can build an emotional connection in a week or 2. But usualy it takes a few weeks. The personality I like is just rare. I don’t have to be in love with the guy. What are fake demisexuals?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 02:26 AM
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I’m demisexual meaning I don’t/can’t have sex with any man unless there’s an emotion connection, therefore I will never have sex with a guy just bc he is physically attractive. However, if this wasn’t my “sexuality,” I would have sex with those men bc good sex is fun. Unfortunately I’m unable to have that easily. And okc I’ll acknowledge the not wanting to be seen in public with thing. From this standpoint, I will agree that most of the time it’s bc she doesn’t fit the conventional beauty standa…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 01:57 AM
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Well there’s men I would fuck and not date for pure looks if I wasn’t (according to twitter) demisexual. But that doesn’t mean the guy I would date is ugly or less attractive. He need to be attractive me to and have other desirable personality traits and values. That’s most women’s perspective. And when I discuss dating I assume long term because there’s no point in it (from my standpoint) if you’re don’t wanna be with them long term.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 01:38 AM
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You really think the reasons I listed are not that common? Oh and I forgot to put age in there
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 01:27 AM
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You said never and I gave you example of multiple things that some men have not committed to a woman over, even if they found her physically attractive. Most of the things I mentioned have nothing to do with being a bad person.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 01:21 AM
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Incorrect. Many men will fuck but not date a girl because of her race, religion, political background, ethnicity, sexual history, mental or physical disability, family status, inability to cook, education or other things that have nothing to do her physical attractiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 01:17 AM
0

Are you male?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 08:32 PM
2

In some weird way I understand the druig thing. His mannerisms were very masculine and attractive. I liked how he flirted with Mikarri and stood his ground. He has a face you just want to look at even though he’s not conventionally attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 08:31 PM
2

I’m darkskin and black men, particularly light skin men really like me because I’m slim and pretty.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 06:39 PM
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Most black women aren’t on dating sites. The majority who are are on their because they’re looking for something specific such as non black men
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 06:32 PM
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It’s definitely not 1% more like 15% bit then again only 35% of women have a bachelors. And how many of those are slim ? Even less than 35%
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 06:30 PM
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I’m sorry but the answer is always Chris hemsworth, or Chris evans. Top tier.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 06:27 PM
1

Are we forgetting the millions of religious ppl on earth that don’t do it for finances or romance but for God?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 01:50 PM
1

Interest as in hold a conversation with a semi attractive woman
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 02:30 AM
1

They will settle eventually or stay single
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 12:51 AM
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almost every guy watches porn. Porn addicts are completely different. And most men on this sub are probably porn addicts. Im glad you felt the need to brag about your social life and friends to a stranger on the internet. I really care a lot about that
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 12:50 AM
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And y’all wonder why you’re so fucked in the head and can’t even interact with people irl.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 10:55 PM
1

No one gets excited about average or below average men/women. They take what they can get
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 10:04 PM
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Some Chads do. Porn is objectively bad especially for children that have very easy access to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 09:51 PM
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So what if she did it once and didn’t like it bc it sucked or it ruined the relationship then what’s the issue
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 02:33 AM
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And light skin and hair texture
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 07:30 PM
4

No ones forcing you to be a fucking slob lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 07:28 PM
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You’re gripping it too hard and watching too much porn
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 06:05 PM
2

Stress ?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 06:01 PM
2

MGK is extremely attractive. Pete, hell no.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 04:07 PM
2

Guess I always disagree with this argument bc I grew up UMC with UMC friends and all their moms worked full time after they turned like 3-4, and I plan on staying UMC and working full time most of my working life, as do most of my female friends who are getting phd, md, jd, in IT etc. if the right man comes along and can provide the life they want sure, but it’s slim pickings at our age
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 07:15 PM
1

Well in this economy women being stay at home moms is occurring less and less. This isn’t going to be the norm anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 06:35 PM
2

I understand your analogy, but I don’t value sex like I value money. Men do. I could go my entire life without sex and be fine. I think about sex maybe once a month, but the thought is always better than the real thing anyway. So I guess that’s the disconnect.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 12:14 AM
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Whatever you said. There are men who can do this but most of them don’t do reality doesn’t match what you’re saying. Women and men are different sure but nowe are both human and most value companionship and carrying on our genes.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 03:59 AM
1

True, but having an amazing attractive and loyal companion is probably preferable to most people than either option!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 07:45 PM
1

True, but having an amazing attractive and loyal companion is probably preferable to most people than either option!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 07:45 PM
1

True, but having an amazing attractive and loyal companion is probably preferable to most people than either option.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 07:45 PM
1

True, but having an amazing attractive and loyal companion is probably preferable to most people than either option.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 07:45 PM
1

No one said it was the only thing but it’s a factor, as it should be.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 03:02 PM
8

Once you have sex you’ll understand
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 06:37 AM
9

Those men are not fulfilling their loneliness by fucking onlyfans chicks when their wife is not in the mood, they are fulfilling a sexual urge. that is my whole point. Sex is not fulfillment of being unwanted. I’m sorry you dont get it. And no, not all of them cheat.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 06:34 AM
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If that’s true, why do most (85%) billionaires and/or rich, attractive successful men marry and have a family instead of a hoarding a bunch of concubines? Sure, they may cheat, but they want to come home to the wife and kids. Sure, some may marry/date a younger woman every 5 years but they’re not fucking a new bitch every week, which is what you claim men want. Most men want a damn family aka “legacy” and companionship too. What you claim would happen and what does happen isn’t lining up.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 06:28 AM
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I mean, rawdogging a bunch of people is the best way to get an STD. Again, you’re thinking like a sexless person and not like the person in the scenario. Bc most of you incel/virgin types just severely lack perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 06:13 AM
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Love isn’t enough for a marriage and children. Love doesn’t pay the bills… Sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 06:10 AM
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People who don’t have any or have minimal access to sex don’t really understand it, I guess. But shit gets boring and MOST humans seek fulfillment through social bonding.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 06:01 AM
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Imagine you’re a man who 99% of women only speak to for sex. Almost every woman you meet is willing to have sex with you, but none are interested in talking to you outside of that, they don’t even find you particularly attractive. They don’t cuddle or anything, they leave right after. They abort all kids you accidentally have except for child support/manipulation. You have to try 10x harder to start a family with someone who will stick around. Most men here think this would be some uptopia, that…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 05:29 AM
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Finding a woman, no- finding a human being that genuinely doesn’t care about their partner having any money despite the economy we’re in and the astronomical price it takes to raise kids these day is a so rare and valuable❤️ good luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 03:20 AM
3

And he’s clearly not. So why even mention that
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 12:19 PM
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Why haven’t you communicated to your partner of 1.5 years that you don’t want to get married? I’m a woman and the answer is no, I would not. And I would be pissed if I found out someone wasted a year and a half of my life too
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 02:47 AM
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Society is homophobic, racist, misogynistic, and transphobic. Water is wet
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 01:58 AM
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Please. Society get declines each year as committed 2 parent homes decline. Most men also want to be with someone long term, and I don’t know why that is a feminine thought only. Of course women care about commitment more, because promiscuity does not fulfill OR benefit most of us. My point is if you want to be with a party animal then go ahead but I honestly don’t think party animal women are getting wifed up until they settle down 🤷🏾‍♀️it doesn’t matter what you want personally you’re just an …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 11:11 AM
1

In my culture “wifing someone up” means cuffing not necessarily marrying.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 01:14 AM
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Watch this video for me: https://youtu.be/wxOZ2LftOT4 The short dude went too far.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 07:52 PM
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If you wanna wife a “party animal” go ahead, it’s your life
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 04:26 PM
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It’s not irrelevant. Women just don’t like roided up gladiators
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 03:02 PM
2

Afghan war was after 9/11
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 05:04 AM
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I don’t have male friends that I tell stuff like that to, and never will. I stopped discussing details with female friends when I turned 19 because it’s between me and my person. Y’all are weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 10:52 PM
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There are women that discuss the details of their sex life with straight male friends? The fuck? That’s very weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 12:01 AM
1

Divorce does, sure in many circumstances the man, woman or both are very negatively affected. But the discussion is about happy marriage or just marriage in general, not their downfall.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 03:24 PM
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But they’ll swear marriage destroys a man financially. No he gets to build a legacy with his wife and his children.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 12:11 PM
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You made a false statistic up and I tried to find evidence but there is none. I don’t have homework outside of my university and work. Group tf up. You’re miserable and bitter and I feel sorry for you
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 12:07 PM
1

Couldn’t seen to find any sources or statistics on this, care to share them? All I found was an article stating maternal martial status has little to nothing to do with infant mortality rate. Maternal marital status as a risk factor for infant mortality: https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/7867772/ Did you find anything linking martial status and maternal mortality rate?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 06:14 AM
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Unmarried women have a shit ton of kids walking around, if you didn’t know. Mentally Ill men get married every damn day. Usually their illness or sickness manifests later in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 06:07 AM
1

Lottery odds vs happy marriage odds are completely different
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 05:40 AM
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Unmarried men die quicker. Unmarried women live longer. No it’s not a coincidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 05:40 AM
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Plenty of women do, if he’s older to an extent. There are not PLENTY of women in their early 20s who want the elderly approaching them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 04:00 AM
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His comment indicated she couldn’t pinpoint his age, honestly nothing in it proves she was even into him. It could his projection of the situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 08:27 PM
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I said most for a reason. It’s funny how Middle Aged and elderly men in the comment think we want them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 06:13 PM
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I can assure you almost no women my age want man in his late 30s much less 60s. You men are delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 01:25 AM
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Only creeps find Immaturity attractive. Stay in your lane old man
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 07:01 PM
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Because it’s creepy and disgusting? He even mentioned having kids that age. A 23 yr old is much less mature in comparison to a 60 year old man. I’m 22 and always grossed out when an old man tries to flirt with me. Leave us alone unless you’re looking for a sugar baby
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 06:51 PM
3

Black men still do it
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 05:02 PM
1

We don’t live in an era of equality in any way shape or form…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 05:00 PM
1

Why would you even consider flirting with a 23 year old.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 04:59 PM
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Some people do. Most do not. Men start balding, getting beer bellies, women get fatter and wrinklier. Etc
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 06:01 PM
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I have gotten “wet” over some men’s character and that’s the only thing I that has been able to get me from from attracted to “wet”
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 02:16 AM
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He was ugly to you but he was her type And were not talking about men who buy women bc that is literally 1% of the population
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 11:54 PM
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Looks will still make or break a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 10:57 PM
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Most people look the best in their 20s. Male or female. Not sure why this is such a huge debate
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 10:40 PM
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No sane woman will have a man’s child without something to gain or security. Don’t try to tell us what we want or how we operate.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 08:41 PM
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Friends tend to hang out less when they themselves are married and starting families.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 06:50 PM
3

Those women get hundreds of thousand per year for having the athlete’s kid. You’re delusional if you think they would do it without the monetary benefit.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 06:45 PM
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Ok incel
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 02:34 AM
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This just in: people who lots of sex aren’t lonely. Your inceldom is showing
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 01:44 AM
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Your poor wife. Jfc. Don’t have daughters.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 04:32 PM
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Why? Or rather, how?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 01:12 PM
1

You must be 9+?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 05:54 AM
2

I wish I was asexual. Being attracted to men is just the worst.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 05:45 AM
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Pause
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 05:37 AM
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Most women or men get attached tho
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 01:10 AM
1

You can do that in a relationship too? Men think FWB is the answer to their problems bc they want sex without putting any effort in. Two ppl fucking involves the chance of potential drama, no matter the circumstances.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 09:07 PM
1

Getting a FWB ≠ no drama. Good luck with that
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 05:15 PM
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In the long run yes but they get short term benefits from it. That’s why I said it’s detrimental to both. Women get zero benefits
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 11:46 PM
1

Men get to fulfill their ultimate sexual desire without any real commitment (marriage)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 11:21 PM
1

Men clearly benefit from it more.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 10:58 PM
1

By how they act? How they look, how they smell. How they carry themselves. Body type, height, financial status..
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 06:25 PM
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Bc we are women and are attracted to men and can tell which men almost no woman would want
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 04:32 AM
1

We can tell which men are not wanted by women and which have internal issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 04:19 AM
1

It would be concerning but I wouldn’t flat out reject him like I would a man in his 20s with high n count (20+)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 04:14 AM
1

No they don’t. Like we have established, Brad Pitt virgin is desired.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 03:37 AM
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The point is he isn’t undesirable because he’s a virgin, he’s undesirable because he’s not attractive in any way.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 03:26 AM
2

Well because he’s unattractive. Unattractive men aren’t desired…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 05:57 PM
1

If he looks like brad Pitt and is a virgin, that is something women desire. Because we KNOW he could get it, but chooses not to put of respect for himself…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 05:15 PM
2

Hookup culture is damaging to both men and women, but moreso for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 05:13 PM
1

Terrible analogy. This due implied women struggle to find sex if they’re not top 10-20%
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 11:32 PM
2

Huh? the bottom 20% of women can find sex within in hours
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 11:11 PM
1

But there’s no benefit to being a FWB long term, someone usually catches feelings. I think most women feel they’re too old for that type of situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 04:48 AM
1

No but it’s better than hooking up with random dudes that don’t gaf about u.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 02:50 AM
2

I don’t have sexual desire without having romantic feelings for a man. It just never happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 02:47 AM
1

What if she’s tried casual sex and didn’t like it?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 02:09 PM
1

So you admit that I’m right and you’re arguing just argue?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 12:08 PM
1

Porn is a overall degeneracy of society . Period
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 08:08 AM
1

Race and police brutality are related let’s not act like it’s la la land and you just randomly brought this up after seeing my avatar isn’t white.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 08:07 AM
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I’m a Woman. and yes men are way more hung up on looks than women are. If a guy is ugly, him having money or being nice is usually enough. Not for men
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 08:06 AM
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Most will not outright make fun of u. They just won’t be like “HES HOT” and you can tell
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 01:06 AM
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Men do this shit all the time tho
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 12:52 AM
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I stopped reading after you turned this in a political race baiting debate and implied police brutality isn’t an actual problem. Good day sir
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 11:45 PM
1

“I Agree that addiction is a bad thing, but when does something become an addiction? If I watch porn twice a week, is that an addiction? Nope but “you people” you claim it is tho, right?” Look it up. I’m not explaining something so obvious to you. “Social media encourages the degeneration of a society but y’all don’t seem to have a problem with it.” The world was better before social media
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 06:13 PM
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“I’m not sure what prom has to do with any of this, but whatever.” And that’s the fucking problem. Do actual research into the industry that you so strongly support
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 06:11 PM
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It’s not healthy to be addicted to anything. It encourages the degeneration of society. You people will not defend any other type of addiction Again Porn, is not “not hurting anyone” many sex workers are raped, trafficked. and exploited through prom
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 05:11 PM
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Not irl in my dating life, I’ve spoken to some online. They’re more sad and sick in the head, than icky
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 01:59 PM
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I mean it would be pretty easy to tell early on. I’m not one of those women that battles with leaving a man at the sight of the first red flag. Im out quick. But I haven’t encountered men like that yet so. 🤷🏾‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 01:34 PM
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Porn isn’t keeping them out of my way. They wouldn’t be in my way regardless. The law stops criminals, not porn. If anything porn reinforces their fantasies. Addiction of any kind isn’t healthy. Porn also reinforces unrealistic expectations of what a woman or man should be doing during sex. Limp dick. Low libido.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 01:33 PM
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I don’t really care. I don’t date or interact with porn addicts. Just feel bad for the people you people trick into dating you. They’ll be devastated when they realize u have limp dick and/or would rather watch porn then have sex with them, and also sad when they figure out u can’t really function 1 day without watching hours of strangers fucking. On a more serious note, the porn industry exploits sex workers and many women and even men are sexually abused or trafficked. Porn is an overall negat…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 01:28 PM
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Found the porn addicts
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 02:48 AM
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Too damn many
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 02:46 AM
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Like, I enjoy looking at them, and would be happy to get asked out by them. The first thing I think about is relationship, not sex. I start thinking about sex once I know about their personality and their life values.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 01:45 AM
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Wow I’m a woman and ur so right. I couldn’t even put it into words before. I don’t fantasize fucking attractive men ever but I do admire them
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 11:52 PM
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White men on Reddit think we chase them. Holy shit y’all are delusional
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 10:37 PM
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Well it’s extremely stupid for an educated black woman, knowing that black men on her level are extremely rare, to only want a black men… Not sure why bw don’t just date outside of their race more often. I know that black men are the typical default preference but i’ll never understand why. But again, I haven’t seen anyone chase after black men and most of my friends are educated bw… Based on the way you’re talking it doesn’t seem like you’re an educated black man. And at the end of the day, mos…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 08:55 AM
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No, majority prefer black men 99% of my friends do. However, none of us are chasing them bc… we’re women and don’t need to. Also some of my friends are open to dating out.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 08:43 AM
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Is black not ethnic?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 08:41 AM
2

We don’t compete for y’all. Imaging thinking black women are chasing black men …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 08:38 AM
2

What is this shit
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 08:54 PM
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A lot of women can keep a man post sex…. They just want the man every other woman wants
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 01:21 AM
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So paying on the first date for a woman you genuinely like is a dumb decision?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 05:01 PM
2

Right but most women can’t just not work and expect a man to come sweep them off their feet and have all the financial power. It doesn’t matter what you prefer if it’s not beneficial for the woman in emergencies. Most people won’t just give up their careers either just bc they’re in a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 02:20 PM
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Bc every man just wants dirty condom sex with sketchy illegal hookers for the rest of their life. Right
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 02:17 PM
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To what extent does the height of a man affect his attractiveness? A lot, can’t find short men attractive What is your minimum cutoff point for height? 5’9. For reference I’m 5’5 ish What range of height is the most attractive on a man to you? 6’2-6’6 What is the height of the shortest man you have dated/hooked up with? 6’2 but I’ve liked a guy who was 5’9 before What is the height of the tallest man you have dated/hooked up with? 6’2 What is the height of the most physically attractive man you …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 03:23 AM
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Ofc it’s worth it lol. Men benefit from marriage tremendously but suffer tremendously during divorce so it’s balanced. (Single women live longer, but single men die earlier) a 20 year age gap increases the likelihood of divorce by 95%.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 02:20 PM
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Don’t get married. Or you’re going to be divorced multiple times
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 02:08 PM
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Unruly hair?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 01:22 AM
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Well then be manipulative and a liar. Just don’t pretend like that’s not what you’re doing
/r/seduction13/03/21 11:47 PM
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