notsoslootyman Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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2	"Describe yourself in 3 words" - I've been asked that - is this a shit test or what? I'm going through these responses and seeing everything women complain about having to put up with. You're the first sane response. People, it's such a a benign question. Get creative and use it to show your personality instead of your unwashed ass.	/r/seduction	29/02/24 05:19 AM
1	Sex for women is too emotional to accept a one night stand I had to upvote this just so other people can see how the comments take this down. I'm so proud of this sub.	/r/seduction	28/08/23 06:21 PM
4	Old school tip: the Knee test This is a good middle timing technique. Break that touch barrier after you warm them up verbally. Start with hands and arms at a distance. Then move into their proximity by bumping knees or sitting hip to hip. Each small step increases intensity. If finessed naturally, it will be noticed and responded to. Remember, if you're pursuing, let them respond by allowing you in, pulling away, or pushing you out subtly. The knee test is a perfect example. You advance the knee. They can respond with pulli…	/r/seduction	14/04/23 11:14 PM
2	Should I (a beginner) be friendly when talking to girls? That alpha stuff is just the male version of horoscopes. It is nonsense. More specifically, it's a rabbit foot superstition. You're confident because you think you have a special technique that gets the girls. The confidence is the thing working not the idiology that tells you to be abrasive. Pick up artists are the same thing. What works for me is to start neutral, act natural, and learn to let your conversation take you to a date. I start neutral to keep women at ease. Treat them as a normal p…	/r/seduction	02/10/22 04:20 AM
1	How do you deal with someone who’s being cold and closed off? If I'm looking to open someone up I lead with charm and humor. A lot of women are on guard for players and fuckboys. If you're looking for hookups, you'll just have to reconcile that even if a woman finds you physically attractive, that's not enough. Move on. There's plenty of women looking for fun with a hot guy. They will want to be seen and take up your time on purpose. Slow to warm is workable. Closed off is a polite no.	/r/seduction	27/09/22 08:38 AM
1	Why do women have little to no respect for men that are unable to attract a woman? That's not new nor exclusive to you. You are not some alien, unrelatable being. You're just human. Why would you want to dick measure over who is more lonely? Why can't we just believe each other? We, WE are lonely. You laughed at me. How are you better than the way you think women act?	/r/seduction	21/09/22 05:24 AM
1	Why do women have little to no respect for men that are unable to attract a woman? That's good.	/r/seduction	21/09/22 05:07 AM
1	Why do women have little to no respect for men that are unable to attract a woman? I don't think you should have a positive mindset. That's not an accurate summary of my words. I am not surprised you think what I say has any basis in reality. I don't think we see reality in the same way at all anymore. I think you're bitter and scapegoating women. I don't think you're a wrong for feeling how you do, nor do I think you are a bad person. I do know what loneliness feels like. I don't talk to my family. I had to walk away to find better, kinder people. I'm now grappling with the r…	/r/seduction	21/09/22 05:04 AM
5	Why do women have little to no respect for men that are unable to attract a woman? This isn't about women, it's about you. Women aren't some foreign species of hive minded creatures. They are individuals with different personalities and ways of life. I can excuse a bad family as being just that. But for you to tell me that literally your entire class of women treat you with disrespect is exceptionally strange. This situation is impossible to randomly walk into. There may be a few bullies in any group. Stumbling onto 30 unconnected people that ALL treat you bad for NO reason ju…	/r/seduction	16/09/22 05:37 PM
10	The single most effective way to improve your overall confidence is to take on a leadership role, no matter how small. Stepping outside of your comfort zone and leading others will yield results in other areas of your What would you say was the driver for your change in demeanor? I was young and exploring my ambition. I was actively looking to be tested. All of the new experiences from this job allowed me explore parts of myself that I didn't know existed. Was it having people under you? This was definitely new and definitely something that changed me. As management, you're the center of attention and social coordination. I learned to see people as more than people but tools performing a function. I really un…	/r/seduction	15/09/22 03:20 AM
150	The single most effective way to improve your overall confidence is to take on a leadership role, no matter how small. Stepping outside of your comfort zone and leading others will yield results in other areas of your I took a leadership roll in a job once and hated it. It was a terrible company that was highly exploitative. That being said, it completely changed my perspective on everything. Having the opportunity to be the center of all decisions forced me to work on some neglected pieces of my personality. I was a super quiet door mat. I allowed myself to change into a decisive public speaker. I failed in public and worked it out in public. This experienced gave me a level of confidence that I never knew c…	/r/seduction	14/09/22 07:39 PM
2	My gf cheated on me. Here's what I learned 1) LDR. If both of you are going off to college or anywhere where you're apart, end it now for your sake. A lot of people have no object permanence. They will cheat when they can't see and feel their partner. 2) They party, drink, or do drugs. #1 recipe for disaster. If they put themselves in these situations, they WILL cheat. Some people lose themselves to intoxicants. Even someone who loses their inhibitions should mind their drink and drug if it means keeping fidelity. Cheaters will get drunk…	/r/seduction	12/09/22 01:53 AM
-1	Girl always expects me to pay for her in dates Your argument was incoherent.	/r/seduction	12/09/22 12:41 AM
0	Girl always expects me to pay for her in dates This conversation was about dating traditions about sex and payments not child labor and spousal abuse.	/r/seduction	12/09/22 12:19 AM
1	Girl always expects me to pay for her in dates Your opinion is my old opinion. I was very harsh on traditional and religious people. It was a response born from poor attitudes on their side of the fence. It was a mistake that I regret.	/r/seduction	11/09/22 10:29 PM
3	Girl always expects me to pay for her in dates should the man use all his hard earned money on the women just because he has a penis between his legs? In my original response I said "The question is who are you." You and I want a woman willing to be equals by paying our way together. That's who we are. Not everyone has to be us. Not everyone who is unlike us is wrong, or a cheapskate. These are just not values that mesh. If traditional people bother you then don't mix. It's just that simple. Pass this no sex and money girl up. There's plenty…	/r/seduction	11/09/22 09:59 PM
7	Girl always expects me to pay for her in dates Traditional women expect men to pay. They are not void of basic morals nor self respect in doing so. I am not the kind that fits within that framework but it is rude to say these ladies are somehow dating wrong for living how their values align. No man is a simp for agreeing either. They simply live differently than us.	/r/seduction	11/09/22 09:41 PM
6	Girl always expects me to pay for her in dates It could be she is a traditional girl. She may prefer a slow start to weed out some of the bad stock. Are you a traditional guy? Is she worth waiting for? It's okay to part ways for a difference in values. The question is who are you?	/r/seduction	11/09/22 09:27 PM
-1	Shit tests - what are they? When are they being asked? And how do you pass? I don't like that name. You're getting to know them. Everyone has standards. Dating can be hazardous. Testing is a necessary aspect to sort out each other's interests and intentions. I do applaud your breakdown of the different styles. That's an accurate group of questions and a wide range of tactics depending on your intentions. These are some basic questions that any newbies should be preparing for. Wit and charm take practice.	/r/seduction	09/09/22 05:21 PM
0	Shit tests - what are they? When are they being asked? And how do you pass? Gross	/r/seduction	09/09/22 05:04 PM
2	Who should text first after a first date? Reciprocity That's definitely good to watch for. Thanks	/r/seduction	04/09/22 02:15 AM
5	I had a few one night stands this year and realized I am a relationship guy Sometimes your ideas of what you want are not actually what you want. Relationships are where the good stuff is at imo, better sex, better self esteem, and meaningful connections.	/r/seduction	03/09/22 07:07 PM
38	hair flick behind the ear. It CAN be a sign. Unconsciously, people fidget when they are attracted. Girls messing with their hair is a classic example. The smart ones do it on purpose. Hair can be used as a viel to hide. Removing the veil can be an invitation to be seen. This is a useful trick for repeating interactions where it's less likely to be a coincidence.	/r/seduction	03/09/22 06:00 PM
2	Who should text first after a first date? I haven't seen that flick. I'll give it a watch. Thanks for the recommendation.	/r/seduction	03/09/22 05:49 PM
2	Who should text first after a first date? What's the door test?	/r/seduction	03/09/22 05:43 PM
4	Who should text first after a first date? A NEW HAND TOUCHES THE BEACON	/r/seduction	03/09/22 02:20 AM
125	Who should text first after a first date? The interested person should text first. Don't play games. Are you interested? Did the date go well? Let your date know.	/r/seduction	03/09/22 02:18 AM
3	What do you say when a girls asks you about your previous relationships/experience and your a virgin? Virgin slayers exist in both sexes. You are a prize to some. You can be honest if that interests you. If you are not interested then everyone else saying to avoid it is not a bad option. I can be playful but I feel it's disrespectful to outright lie about sex related things. It's a bad habit that can really add unnecessary problems.	/r/seduction	28/08/22 04:15 PM
11	What do I say when women ask me, “how many girls have you slept with”? The only award worthy of Cyrano is for you to pass along his words with a twinkle in your eye.	/r/seduction	28/08/22 04:46 AM
12	What do I say when women ask me, “how many girls have you slept with”? "That's the kind of question I expect the asker to answer first." It tells them that I'm willing to share with an equal, vulnerability for vulnerability. We live in a glorious time where the scales are balancing for the sexes. This information can be a problem for anyone nowadays.	/r/seduction	28/08/22 04:25 AM
209	What do I say when women ask me, “how many girls have you slept with”? .5? She was missing her legs but could spin like a top.	/r/seduction	28/08/22 04:13 AM
229	What do I say when women ask me, “how many girls have you slept with”? If you're asking for references I'm assuming you're offering a job.	/r/seduction	28/08/22 04:10 AM
4	What is your opinion on the phrase: "She is not yours, its just your turn" I've never heard the phrase. To me it is a warning to territorial men. (She is not yours) She's a person, not property to be taken and owned. She has agency and is choosing you and can unchoose you just as quick. (It's just your turn) Since I've never heard it before I may be missing some cultural context. I don't think in the traditional slut/prude dichotomy. I don't know or care if it paints women as whatever.	/r/seduction	24/04/22 03:38 PM
1	Still pushing after rejection. Should I stop? She told you a no before you met. After you met she said that you would make a good work contact, which is also a no. Congrats, you made a friend. Friends are great. Move your interest and attention to someone interested in you.	/r/seduction	20/04/22 06:16 PM
29	[deleted by user] This is the way.	/r/seduction	25/02/22 02:41 AM
32	[deleted by user] You're buying into that "real man" nonsense. Beat that clit like it owes you money. Her neighbors better be calling a priest after you eat her out. If she is crying, laughing, and levitating while you're lowering her matress resale value then it don't matter what the boys think. You really want that ego boost, talk to her friends. They're perception of you comes from her. If she is satisfied then they will be patting you on that back more than your boys. Has cuck replaced gay in the youth lexico…	/r/seduction	25/02/22 02:41 AM
2	My friend said I should treat women harsher…? It depends on you goals. If you want to get laid and be unscrupulous then take your friend's advice. If you want to experience a your first real relationship with honest virginial sex then stay the course. You're on the right path. You're right about your approach sorting out the kind of people you want. It doesn't feel good to treat women like trash to get laid. It also scares some women. Not worth it	/r/seduction	08/12/21 05:50 PM
0	How to be confident when dick size crushes self-esteem? Truthfully, huge size doesn't matter to many women. Yes there are size queens but that's not every woman. There are women that prefer smaller than you even. You're average so find a girl that likes average. Also, when in doubt, you have fingers, a tongue, large toys, and even a fist if she's into it.	/r/seduction	15/09/21 02:51 AM