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| 8 | Wonder if she got picked at the end of the day 🤡There’s a thin line between lefties and conservatives’ behavior. They prove that everyday on social meida | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/21 06:53 AM |
| 26 | Wonder if she got picked at the end of the day 🤡It’s weird because I see a lot of Muslim tiktokers on my FYP constantly saying that it’s such a feminist religion and that men are supposed to be providers and have to fund their families without any help from the wife and whatever she makes is her own money. They also mention Mahr and other benefits for women. But I feel that isn’t the reality for a lot of Muslim women, I’m not Muslim but I am South Asian, and I feel overall if men are providers there’s an unsaid understanding that women will b… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/21 06:51 AM |
| 1 | When you follow a financial literacy page and then they start posting this shit... Unfollowed!Minority Mindset is an Indian (Punjabi to be specific) guy who gives financial advice on YouTube. I’m surprised he’s even dwelling into relationship advice at all. And I’m honestly kind of disappointed | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/21 02:05 PM |
| 3 | When you follow a financial literacy page and then they start posting this shit... Unfollowed!It might be a social media manager but it still reflects on him. Unfollowed either way :/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/21 01:16 AM |
| 67 | When you follow a financial literacy page and then they start posting this shit... Unfollowed!Exactly. It’s been a dialogue floating around with pickmes on tiktok, idk who the original quote is from | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/21 08:48 PM |
| 10 | When you follow a financial literacy page and then they start posting this shit... Unfollowed!Same! :( a lot of his recent takes on IG have been shitty | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/21 08:47 PM |
| 4 | Not wanting my SO to post photos of us and not wanting to post photos of him- is this okay?You really get it!! I’m thankful to have witnessed an amazing relationship between my parents (my dad literally ran away from his potential arranged marriage set ups to marry my mom because they were from different parts of India). I’m their only child, but my dad tells me stories of how differently women are treated in India and how his sisters were forced into unhappy marriages and I cannot imagine half of what goes on in the desi community. I was raised very sheltered but still pretty cultura… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/21 12:26 AM |
| 6 | Not wanting my SO to post photos of us and not wanting to post photos of him- is this okay?Thank you. ❤️ I appreciate that. I’ve seen so many posts hinting that if I’m being kept offline he’s telling people he’s single and I just find that scary… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/21 12:22 AM |
| 3 | Not wanting my SO to post photos of us and not wanting to post photos of him- is this okay?3.5 months! Yeah, I agree, I think I’m just being super paranoid due to a shitty past relationship where the person hid me off of his social media and turns out told everyone he’s single. I wouldn’t post anything but maybe I’ll suggest that to him next time he would like to post something. I think it could be a good solution for mow | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/21 12:21 AM |
| 5 | Not wanting my SO to post photos of us and not wanting to post photos of him- is this okay?It’s been 3.5ish months! It was still a little early for me but I don’t know. We’re 100% exclusive, had the talk and all but the love bombing is definitely something I’ll keep in mind. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/21 12:19 AM |
| 15 | So let's choose wisely...I love her content! It’s a shame she gets so much hate | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/21 08:27 PM |
| 8 | Run from men who use phrases like “Have no Expectations’This is such a common trope among south Asian men😒 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/21 04:23 AM |
| 13 | In a world full of disappointing pickmeishas, I’m thankful for creators like her. Been watching her journey since law school and I love how open she is about having high standards on tiktok, a platform where that isn’t usually welcomed.She is! And she’s an Ivy League alum lawyer! 🥰 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/21 11:45 PM |
| 5 | In a world full of disappointing pickmeishas, I’m thankful for creators like her. Been watching her journey since law school and I love how open she is about having high standards on tiktok, a platform where that isn’t usually welcomed.mahamaven on tiktok, youtube, Instagram | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/21 11:45 PM |
| 4 | What in the pickme hell did I just readShe couldn’t have gotten some non-related dick on tinder ffs? And what’s with promoting this ideology that sex > therapy? 😡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/21 04:53 PM |
| 2 | Be a queen ladies, a real king will follow.I agree. Don’t even get me started on Charles 🤮 It’s beyond me how William and Harry tolerated Camilla & Charles in their lives. As for the criticism of female politicians, I’m all for listening to criticism of their policies but I hear more criticism of their personal lives and outright lies about them. A favorite of theirs for Kamala is that she “slept her way up to the top”, an excuse that would never be used for a man. Hillary Clinton is repeatedly made to answer for Bill’s affair with Monic… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/21 05:42 PM |
| 3 | Decline alcohol on a first date!That sounds so good! 🤤Now I need to go to the grocery store lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/21 04:39 PM |
| 7 | Decline alcohol on a first date!Yes! Not just romantically involved men, it’s also so important to surround yourself with female & male friends that don’t pressure you to drink alcohol. I was kind of shocked to see how many people in college think it’s weird or “regressive” to not drink. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/21 04:38 PM |
| 3 | Decline alcohol on a first date!Hope you like it ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/21 03:58 PM |
| 16 | Decline alcohol on a first date!Unrelated but Cranberry juice + club soda is a great mix, haha! My mom’s boss who is a man actually doesn’t drink and recommended this “mocktail” to her, as she doesn’t drink either. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/21 02:33 PM |
| 65 | Decline alcohol on a first date!I don’t drink unless I’m in the company of my parents or my best friend. And that too, it would be a simple glass of champagne or something light. Many men think I’m prudish but what they don’t know is that I was roofied in college. Thankfully my best friend was present at the same party and saved me from what could’ve been the most traumatizing experience of my life. I absolutely refuse to be in the same situation again. This society will not protect us women so we have to protect ourselves | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/21 02:31 PM |
| 6 | Be a queen ladies, a real king will follow.People supporting the Royal family and bashing her reeks of internalized misogyny to me. Even if you hate Meghan, look at what they did to Diana, Fergie and Wallis. People, especially the wives, are just their commodities to use. Being South Asian myself, the in-law situation is very common. I know of so many women (my mother included) who’ve had the absolute worst in laws that also question everything from your skin color to your profession to the way you were raised. I guess that’s why I feel … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/21 01:52 PM |
| 28 | Be a queen ladies, a real king will follow.He benefited more from this relationship, if anything. I was always a fan of Meghan since I started Suits, and she had a good friendship with a Bollywood fav of mine, Priyanka Chopra. I couldn’t care less about Harry. I’m glad he’s being supportive and all now, but so much damage is done. Meghan looks so broken since she married into that wretched family and the UK is vilifying her to no end. Let’s not forget another LVM Piers Morgan made it his life mission to ruin her name because she never co… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/21 07:57 PM |
| 31 | Ain't it StrangeThere’s a strange magnitude of tiktoks telling young ladies that starting an onlyfans will make them financially secure while young men are taught to trade stocks and invest in real estate | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/21 04:19 AM |
| 2 | Our fav guy just dropped another gem 😂https://instagram.com/nerd_obsessed?igshid=m2ibztmidf97 It seems to be a personal account but here :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/21 10:33 PM |
| 107 | Our fav guy just dropped another gem 😂He is and idk I haven’t grown up around many desi guys besides my dad and he’s the biggest feminist I know lol (even more than my mom I would say). Maybe me being an only child has something to do with it. But I think seeing how women were treated in his motherland made him and my mom place emphasis on financial independence and education. But I’m starting to realize most desi and arab men aren’t like that? Especially on tiktok, they’re literally misogynistic and rant about women not being able … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/21 07:24 AM |
| 5 | Our favorite guy just dropped another gem 😂Isn’t it? Being Indian myself, there was a time where people wouldn’t even look at members of my family when they talked because of their thick accent. Glad to see how normalized accents are as a whole now :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/21 04:27 AM |
| 197 | The BarI love him! He makes some of the best feminist content on tiktok and despite being gay, men still ask if women have picked him 😭😭😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/21 05:14 PM |
| 481 | Sorry if this doesn’t fit but this had such FDS energy to meMen learnt the term gold digger and ran with it. When I was a senior in high school, a guy asked what kind of guy I would want as a husband and when I listed my qualifications and preference for him having a white collar job in order to match my professional accomplishments, I was labeled a ‘gold digger’. Men have no qualms in using women for sex or only dating women they find attractive, yet when a woman has a preference, all hell breaks loose | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/21 08:39 AM |
| 28 | Would you consider her a pickme ? I feel like I understand her message but it seems like she’s using this for validation given the men in her comments...My thoughts exactly. The comment section made me feel like I was a terrible person for even thinking that.The funny thing is she’s Indian and in our culture, it’s really common for men to want to pay for things but I found this whole video so weird | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/21 07:09 PM |
| 21 | Mom praising son-in-law for the bare minimum 👏🏻My mom is always so shocked that my cousins’ husbands are so actively involved in childcare and my cousins can leave for a few days without worrying...like that’s bare minimum? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/21 06:13 PM |
| 2 | if a man uses the term “simp”, cut him off. men lose it when they see a woman genuinely being loved.LVM have the most to say about Russell, I’ve noticed this! I think it comes from a place of knowing they could never be half of him | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/21 05:08 AM |
| 6 | Since you joined FDS, what are the ‘pink-flags’ or little LVM behavior you started picking up on that you didn’t notice before or would let slide?Men that don’t take into account my dietary preferences or belittle them. (I’m vegetarian and my ex would constantly encourage me to try meat & I almost felt as if I was a bad person or that I inconvenienced him for not doing it.) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/21 10:10 PM |
| 2 | Smh!!!!! Stuff like this is why I will probably never date until my kids grow up.I’ve seen some of his videos and he blames the mother for being trash and says it will affect her finding another man if he child doesn’t have a good relationship with their father. Like wtf? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 08:34 PM |
| 1 | I'm so sick of all these 'dating coaches' tbh. Also if you've burnt tf out of your dopamine receptors with porn are you really going to be motivated to do much else anyway?I can’t stand that POS | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 08:32 PM |
| 17 | Just say you’re a broke lvm and go.I also grew up thinking men were generally courteous enough to pay for dates until I went to college LOL. If we’re splitting a check, that’s not a date | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/21 04:57 PM |
| 37 | Just say you’re a broke lvm and go.Agreed! Even if I go to lunch with a male friend, he usually insists on paying (absolutely platonic relationship and neither of us have any interest in each other). But yet other men have told me “no man would do that without expecting something in return”. That’s their mentality. It’s like they don’t understand being courteous applies to all women, not just women you find attractive | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/21 04:53 PM |
| 107 | Just say you’re a broke lvm and go.I really hope it is | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/21 06:57 AM |
| 142 | Just say you’re a broke lvm and go.He did a part two and kept humiliating her. https://vm.tiktok.com/ZMeRH1fRw/ She looks way too above his standard to tolerate this shit | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/21 06:50 AM |
| 25 | LV Men: women are psycho, also LV men when women break up with them:My college had a clause that they would call my parents if I reported a sexual assault whereas they wouldn’t call the assaulter’s parents. It makes me sick to my stomach. I’m so sorry that that person is out there not being punished for what he did. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/10/20 03:38 AM |
| 16 | LV Men: women are psycho, also LV men when women break up with them:He has a ton of mental issues. He repeatedly threatened suicide, told lies about me sleeping with him (thank god I never did!), tried to coerce me into other sexual acts when I refused sex, cheated on me and verbally abused me. We were only 17-18 at that time. Can’t imagine what he’s like nowI | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/10/20 05:59 PM |
| 15 | LV Men: women are psycho, also LV men when women break up with them:Possibly but I found it so ironic that “the crazy psycho ex girlfriend” is usually shows smashing and vandalizing the man’s car whereas in my case it’s the opposite | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/10/20 05:56 PM |
| 41 | LV Men: women are psycho, also LV men when women break up with them:I live with my parents and some extended family members have been staying with us while their home is being renovated. I’m not too worried about myself at home and I don’t have any other friends in this small city. So no chance of leaving home but definitely making use of that garage from now! I worked at the DA’s office and I saw domestic abuse get pardoned with a “stay out of trouble for six months and the charges will get dropped” punishment so this doesn’t even surprise me. Even our criminal… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/10/20 05:49 PM |
| 170 | LV Men: women are psycho, also LV men when women break up with them:Long story short: I dated a terribly gross LVM in high school up until my first year of college when I moved away and his mother called me a whore for moving away to college. We had a nasty breakup and recently I’ve moved back home after graduation before I start law school next year and to avoid having to back out on a busy street I usually park on the road. I moved homes since he knew me and it’s been four years since we broke up. Yet guess who’s license plate I saw when we ran the cameras? In… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/10/20 05:00 PM |
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