notyourmama827 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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-9	Walk away wife syndrome - an observation I walked away from the "coupling" can't really call that shit a marriage .....I didn't go after anything but my freedom. I turned down alimony, child support and 35k. I did not get any part of any of his money. I did get freedom . I got all of my insecurities that went with it. That's what I got by walking away.	/r/Divorce_Men	25/04/25 05:10 PM
7	What’s the best first step to leaving your wife? Please find a lawyer. Find one that you like and feel comfortable with. A good lawyer can really be your best asset.	/r/Divorce_Men	03/03/25 05:49 PM
1	Fathers are essencial, why keeping them away? This is true.	/r/Divorce_Men	04/02/25 06:26 PM
9	I loved my wife and the life we had, I’m doubtful I’ll find another woman like her. She cheated. Love doesn't include cheating . It doesn't matter the gender, you don't cheat on someone that you love. I hope you find peace .	/r/Divorce_Men	09/01/25 11:58 PM
3	How did your kids react to your divorce? How are they now? The kids have been tramatized from divorce to remarriage . X wanted and facilitated the divorce. Bit by bit through shitty legal práctices had my kids taken away. That last sentence is an unbelievable 4 years. Last week my oldest said my wife is no more to them , than a homeless bum would be. There has been a lot of stress and dispariging behavior from x. Currently I am not speaking to either of my kids 15 and 20. I think it's best for my mental health because they're saying a lot of things that…	/r/Divorce_Men	31/12/24 06:27 PM
3	Wife wants M-F, I want 50/50. How to get her to agree? Lawyer up in the beginning and protect YOUR rights as a father. Her "agreement" is of no consequence. Besides what if she "agrees" and then changes her mind? Agreements basically should be rulings . Also if you have 50/50, nobody pays cs as you would both be supporting the kids. Also, 100 percent you do not want "social services" in your state involved. I know what subreddit I'm on ......don't shoot the messinger please and thank you. Edit for spelling.	/r/Divorce_Men	09/12/24 04:32 PM
2	Memories My husband has those little shutterfly photo books. Yeah , on film they looked like a perfect family but I know they weren't. His x gave him those. I think about those "happy memory" times especially when I match up the" photo smiles " to the woman who told him to outsource sex but give her the money too...... Those memories hold a lot of pain for my husband.......he's holding the photo books for his kids because they aren't adults yet.	/r/Divorce_Men	19/11/24 04:24 PM
6	Am I an asshole for saying this: Do you ever go through your garbage and reclaim your trash? This reeks of seeking greener pastures. She shouldn't get to have her cake and eat it too. A divorce is a sign that you dislike someone enough to legally untangle yourself from someone.	/r/Divorce_Men	14/11/24 03:32 PM
8	You think you have it bad….until Fatal attraction from the 80s . Glenn Close made an excellent "crazy" lady.	/r/Divorce_Men	23/10/24 02:44 PM
2	My ex hates my guts Just remember that ypu are too pretty for prison.	/r/Divorce_Men	02/10/24 06:06 PM
1	How do you all deal with the anxiety and resentment? It takes a very strong man .	/r/Divorce_Men	02/10/24 06:02 PM
6	She want alimony included in prenup That's a huge bright red flag . Tacky too.	/r/Divorce_Men	02/10/24 05:45 PM
3	Ex trying to back out… They sure can do that. The court can say or do anything as it wishes. Especially since appeals court is usually slow . In most places it works the way you wrote.	/r/Divorce_Men	21/09/24 05:06 PM
3	It never ends Every 6 months or so for my guy. It's been almost 5 years and this crap is still happening . He has 5 years before he's totally kid free. We will celebrate . So by the time we are all done it should be 9 or so years of harassment. I hope you have a better sittuation and I guess 2029 will be a good year for us.	/r/Divorce_Men	17/09/24 06:03 PM
1	How do I spend more? You need to "save it for an attorney " day. The best thing a man can do in a divorce is find a decent attorney.	/r/Divorce_Men	17/09/24 03:02 PM
4	It has begun. Make sure that you find a good lawyer. One that is for YOU. A good lawyer is worth more than you'll ever know.....	/r/Divorce_Men	20/08/24 04:14 PM
3	Child's passport Since your daughter is 18, she's considered an adult in the US. I would also recomend that you obtain some POA agreement . In the event that something may happen to your daughter medically . It would mean that you have a decision making ability for her instead of whatever state that you live in. Most of the time it's medical and general . Legal and durable as well. It's something that most people don't think of but it's important if it's truly needed. Power of attorney on young adults usually la…	/r/Divorce_Men	16/08/24 05:20 AM
14	It's disheartening, but it seems that most affairs happen between colleagues. The corporate environment has strained and broken many marriages. Is it really unreasonable for a man in an already rocky marriage to feel uneasy about his wife starting a new job? Never try to keep someone who really doesn't want to be with you.	/r/Divorce_Men	09/08/24 01:42 AM
6	What was your final straw? Statistically she will do the same thing to him as well. Cheaters always cheat.....	/r/Divorce_Men	08/08/24 03:58 PM
1	I’m done!!!!!! With the spousal support!!! There's at least 4 but most likely really 5 more years to go. That light at the end of the túnel is a shadow.	/r/Divorce_Men	03/08/24 03:54 PM
1	Gray divorce in NJ. NJ is even worse than parts of Nevada.	/r/Divorce_Men	19/07/24 06:03 PM
1	Who initiated the separation/divorce? You or the wife? She did . She moved to a different state and got away with 6 weeks residency, instead of 6 months bc of kids. She filed in a different city and county as well. She had made contact with an attorney months before.	/r/Divorce_Men	19/07/24 05:58 PM
2	Have you filed and represented yourself? My husband does. He can't find an attorney to go against his x and win. He has spent about 100k in legal fees and cannot get decent representation in court. He is located in the US and it's in a very odd "legal" área. Currently he pays cs and still does not get to see his daughter. My husband's sittuation is one for an epic novel. I have not ever heard of any other man who has had these issues. Be very careful when representing yourself . Be sure to read the rules of court for your area. Learn y…	/r/Divorce_Men	19/07/24 05:16 PM
3	What is your attorneys hourly rate and how much have you paid already? The last one was 425 per hour in northern Nevada. 7.5k retainer for just saying he was the attorney. No more attorneys ......they just aren't helpful in this sittuation.	/r/Divorce_Men	19/07/24 04:03 PM
2	Do you wish her happy birthday? I'm not a man but I wouldn't . Once you take out the trash , do you bring it back inside?????? I'm sure that you don't.	/r/Divorce_Men	12/07/24 05:56 PM
2	Triggers (rant) It took him a long time (still a little sketchy ) to believe someone could love, desire , want and need him for more than $$$$$. She cut a deep path for sure . My husband is amazing . Kind, considérate, caring and very amusing ...... I have an X too and me and wasband are friendly in a non threatining kind of way. I know what sub I am in as well.	/r/Divorce_Men	10/07/24 04:04 PM
5	Tough day today Grieve for what could have been maybe and MAKE SURE YOUR ATTORNEY IS FOR YOU. Yes, you and what is fair for you. Co parenting is just more than 2 words side by side . Kids are more than weapons to be used for parental alienation. Sorry, if I seem bitter or angry . Men get fucked in divorce sittuations and it's not right . Not all women are puré and not all men are devils. I'm married to someone who has notusually had a fair fight in court.	/r/Divorce_Men	06/07/24 05:35 PM
2	Are there women that are devastated by divorce like we are? I'm not sure about the college debt, but you are spot on with the rest.	/r/Divorce_Men	26/06/24 12:17 AM
1	Are there women that are devastated by divorce like we are? It was more like a slow burn of at least a decade for me. By the time I was divorced , I was not a good person. I did not take alimony (I didn't want him and didn't want his $). I did not receive all of my child support and.....I walked away from 70k . But I got my freedom and I became a person. There were a lot of things I let go of . I did gain peace and 7 years later, I have a "friend" of sorts or at least not wanting to give me pain. We have kids together and I've known him 40 years......I d…	/r/Divorce_Men	26/06/24 12:11 AM
1	I had the best/sweetest F*ng son in the whole world, but now . . . . We do not talk to that person. Yes, my husband still has 5 more years of this crap. I cannot wait to be done .	/r/Divorce_Men	16/06/24 09:15 PM
3	Wife has all her stuff packed. Last ditch effort or do I sit by idly That's a lot of trying and you can still be a good father even if you aren't married to their mother. Not all men are horrible dads , not all mother's are saintly.	/r/Divorce_Men	14/06/24 06:26 PM
3	In your opinions - Is it absolutely necessary to get lawyers and courts involved if we’re mutually agreeing to end it, and amicable? Yes , you should get a lawyer . Things change so quickly in life . And the first rule is cover your ass. You can be nice but make sure you protect yourself . You have kids and she likes to squander money..... definitely get a lawyer.	/r/Divorce_Men	08/06/24 04:05 AM
1	Unbalanced Burden of Divorce: A Housewife's Privilege If you go through your states "child welfare services" it takes 2 months for her $$$ to be posted . It's legal and there is definite proof that you paid. Don't pay cash . Always cover your ass.	/r/Divorce_Men	01/06/24 06:14 PM
2	How Bad Is The Realization Be greatful that you didn't have 2 kids and it was 20 years . Be done with her. I'd keep an eye on the children as well. Parental alienation is a rough one to live with.	/r/Divorce_Men	22/05/24 06:11 PM
1	Why do they get so angry and destructive when most of the time they’re the ones leaving? They double down on vindictive behavior if they think you are living life. Just my own opinion.	/r/Divorce_Men	13/05/24 06:12 PM
1	Unveiling the Gender Bias: How Men Face Uphill Battles in India's Legal System This happens in the US as well. Family court is not everywhere . Men definitely do not get a fair shake sometimes . I don't think too many men would be happy with their x spouse always filing motion after motion after motion. The courts are not fair to men who breathe.	/r/Divorce_Men	13/05/24 06:02 PM
2	PLEASE HELP! NEED A QUESTION ANSWERED! In Nevada is 18 percent of PRE TAX income ( before deductions). That's for one kid , it's slightly more for 2 kids. In a few years , don't forget to petition the court as the kids emancipate.	/r/Divorce_Men	08/05/24 06:04 PM
2	What's craziest thing your stbx did She lives on.	/r/Divorce_Men	01/04/24 05:42 PM
1	Has anyone’s Ex-wife ever apologized for putting them through hell? Women grieve the marriage long before they get out of it. Yeah, I know what sub I'm in too.	/r/Divorce_Men	10/02/24 06:26 PM
3	What do young women care about these days? I guess having a baby together wasn’t enough. Being a father to her son wasn’t enough. Moving across the country for her wasn’t enough. Buying her gifts wasn’t enough. Getting married wasn’t enough. Buying a family home wasn’t enough. I have a man like this . I found him at 55. I am not letting him go . Absolutely 100 percent not.	/r/Divorce_Men	03/02/24 06:43 PM
2	I can’t do this anymore It is better to be alone than with the wrong person. Be a friend to yourself that you would be to others. Bonus points if there are no kids involved. Good luck and I hope you do what's best for you.	/r/Divorce_Men	01/02/24 06:35 PM
1	Shit show continues (vent) " I'm only over here because you will take mommy to court," said a 12 year old. We were floored by that . 12 is now 14, and the whole thing is either a dumpster fire or a shitshow .	/r/Divorce_Men	23/01/24 06:36 PM
6	What are your communication boundaries? OFW is evidence (or can be ) in court. You can set your notifications to silence for that app, too.	/r/Divorce_Men	22/01/24 04:15 PM
16	Bac together.. Insanity is doing the same thing repeatedly and expecting different results.	/r/Divorce_Men	18/01/24 01:26 AM
1	In case you are missing your ex-wife today... Exactly how are we supposed to miss this particular paring of XX chromosomes, when she doesn't leave him alone??????	/r/Divorce_Men	15/01/24 05:02 PM
1	Divorcing Men and Non-Profit Support I'll pass this along . I know a man who has endured a few years of hell, and his x is not finished yet. Nothing is ever good enough for her . The x and the lizard who represents x give human beings a bad name. Thank you for your suggestion.	/r/Divorce_Men	13/01/24 04:44 AM
1	What to do with old ring? Funny story .....a couple of years before we got divorced, I discovered he had pawned his ring . I loved that ring ,but I let it go . I had the money to get it back . I realized it was telling of the marriage . I still have my ring , I may keep it , even though I have kids for a reminder.	/r/Divorce_Men	06/01/24 10:36 PM
1	Some words of support from a woman :) It seemed kinda rah rah .....or pick meeeee	/r/MensRights	06/01/24 08:03 PM
4	Karma got the AP so good, and it just doesn't stop. Truly a FAFO kind of moment .	/r/Divorce_Men	06/01/24 07:13 PM
2	Imagine you have no misdemeanor... no felony....never been found guilty of violence. Nevertheless, the state takes your kid away puts you in a Battering Intervention & Prevention Program (BIPP) and you can only see your kid for two hours every other week no phones and metal detector check. Absolutely correct .	/r/MensRights	04/01/24 04:54 PM
1	The Wifey Isn't that the best kind to have?	/r/Divorce_Men	04/01/24 03:20 AM
8	Friends with your ex wife Do you really want a "friend " like that ? My friends care for me , I'd like to hope yours do too.	/r/Divorce_Men	27/12/23 02:36 AM
9	Men staying single, Rejecting women and why? I turned down alimony and didn't enforce child support. I didn't make him pay for half of marital debt. Not all women are like the typical women....... I bought my freedom fair and square. .	/r/MensRights	12/12/23 10:13 PM
1	Ready for it to go away My husband has been divorced for almost 4 years and it's still going on in a major way for him . (I'm next wife) . We've got 5 more years until youngest child is 19 and then we are done....... And after that , I want nothing to do with x or their seed.	/r/Divorce_Men	19/10/23 05:49 PM
0	What do you guys think about MGTOW It's "happy spouse, happy house". My husband started out with the "happy wife " stuff. My "picker" got fixed and my mindset got repaired as well and so now we both get happiness. And life is definitely better like that . Unfortunately we get to deal with a previous woman who doesn't quite feel like me.....	/r/Divorce_Men	19/10/23 03:54 PM
2	Biggest mistake? Guys listen up.......the number one mistake that you could make is deciding whatever it is "𝑑𝑜𝑒𝑠 𝑛𝑜𝑡 𝑚𝑎𝑡𝑡𝑒𝑟" to you. It does . And if you have a problem , legally get it ruled on . Listen to the message , forget the messenger........	/r/Divorce_Men	17/10/23 07:31 PM
3	What was the cost of your divorce? 5 more years . When life gets tough I try to remember it's 5 more years until we are free. But for today it's a new round of attorney fees. Because high conflict does not equal simple conversion. Thus proving , some days you're the dog and some days you are the fire hydrant. I feel pained for men somedays. Yall really do get the short end somedays.	/r/Divorce_Men	12/10/23 06:47 PM
1	She seems to be struggling... In New Jersey you have to pay child support until 23. Bullet dodged right there......	/r/Divorce_Men	10/10/23 08:27 PM
3	What would you do? Find a lawyer . Maybe you can make payments idk but get yourself legal representation. Make sure the lawyer will work with you. If you "legal up" in the beginning it may cost a little more. Don't be 4 years in and having to spend thousands to lawyer up . Trust me , trust me trust me . Find one you can trust in the beginning and maybe you won't have to spend thousands later......	/r/Divorce_Men	03/10/23 04:39 PM
1	You can really tell who the Walk-Away Wives are on r/divorce, can't you? It's shitty and shifty the things women get away with because child support can and probably does pay for good attorneys . Not all of us are horrible . Probably 90 percent get a lot more than they deserve.	/r/Divorce_Men	01/10/23 04:20 PM
1	I've decided to abandon my children and feel indifferent about the whole thing. Sir, you give me hope for my husband . Thank you	/r/Divorce_Men	01/10/23 12:44 AM
1	I've decided to abandon my children and feel indifferent about the whole thing. Someone told you wrong , children can and do feel empathy toward others . It's just in how they're raised . In my case the children in question cannot or will not feel empathy . I look toward their mommy . She's the one who wanted complete control over their lives . Children learn from their parents and you can bet if mom isn't a good person , her kids won't be either......food for thought and not every mother is good.	/r/Divorce_Men	01/10/23 12:42 AM
1	I've decided to abandon my children and feel indifferent about the whole thing. I know all about this and you forgot about the judge who could be on a power trip too. I'm trying to find a good attorney who fights for men's rights in my area and it's going slowly.	/r/Divorce_Men	01/10/23 12:30 AM
1	Want to divorce wife after her affair, but don't want to see my kids less, leave house, and lose half my stuff. I'd say find a great attorney. First and foremost. Accept the fact that this will cost $$$$$. Make sure you are a good fit with your attorney (I'd use a man) . Also make sure.....𝑇𝐻𝐴𝑇 𝑌𝑂𝑈 𝐺𝐸𝑇 𝐸𝑉𝐸𝑅𝑌𝑇𝐻𝐼𝑁𝐺 𝐷𝑂𝐶𝐶𝑈𝑀𝐸𝑁𝑇𝐸𝐷 pertaining to your divorce . 𝐺𝑖𝑣𝑒 𝑡ℎ𝑒𝑚 𝑎𝑛 𝑖𝑛𝑐ℎ 𝑎𝑛𝑑 𝑡ℎ𝑒𝑦 𝑤𝑖𝑙𝑙 𝑡𝑎𝑘𝑒 𝑎 𝑚𝑖𝑙𝑒. Edit...... I am a woman .	/r/Divorce_Men	17/09/23 07:45 PM
2	If you could go back in time to one year ago... Do not put it in anything that your x could get half of . If you think you're going to divorce , start literally hiding money... . I used to hide mine in the hallway under "dirty" towels . It wasn't a lot, daily money ..... he didn't pick up his things and I capitalized on that. Obviously you won't get interest on it but you won't give her half. Don't pay extra on the mortgage , because that's helping her. Don't buy anything extra or do any thing extra for her. I joined a 24 hour fitness place a…	/r/Divorce_Men	31/08/23 05:24 PM
0	Your salary after separation When I divorced my wasband, I turned down alimony. I didn't even enforce cs. I worked .	/r/Divorce_Men	29/08/23 02:50 PM
3	She really is heartless My husband's X waited until just after his mom died to divorce him. She waited and ruined a whole family by doing that. She even knew exactly what she was doing .	/r/Divorce_Men	29/08/23 02:29 PM
1	Women who "train" their husbands. My husband has made me a better person and I have shown him that not all women are "her" .	/r/MensRights	29/08/23 02:18 PM
2	Women who "train" their husbands. If I have to be his mamma , I'm taking sex off the table too. Who wants to bang their mamma?	/r/MensRights	29/08/23 02:16 PM
2	Women who "train" their husbands. So lucky .....mine misses sometimes . That's why they make those wipes that clean up . It took 18 months before I asked if he could aim better. I still clean up.	/r/MensRights	29/08/23 02:10 PM
2	Thought I Was Doing The Right Things All those pillow princess do is just go after a man's money. Doesn't matter if she isn't married to him . If she's got your crotch gobblin, you're on the hook for awhile . Don't get remarried cause princess must have it all Claws out and gimme gimme gimme. May I say here how much I loathe and abhor his x princess....... Sorry for venting . I figured someone here would help me burn with rage .	/r/Divorce_Men	24/08/23 08:19 PM
3	How do I, as a woman, navigate men's rights? They're people not trees. Treat them as you would anyone else. I can't speak for most men but the ones I know and talk to seem to be happy to be treated as human beings .	/r/MensRights	20/08/23 03:05 AM
2	What’s It Like To Feel A New Woman For The First Time? My husband said I am much much much more carnal and salacious than he thought women could possibly be. I think he thinks that he won the lotto because dear man had his very first bj at 60. He's happy . Very happy . He discovered how the whole experience feels . No spitting..... He sometimes wakes me up at 3am and I am not upset at all. He no longer has a pillow princess. Instead he has someone who wants him . He says the difference is life changing . But we get along in many other ways too. It's…	/r/Divorce_Men	15/08/23 01:01 PM
2	Steve Harvey basically says here that only men need to improve as women are perfect the way they are and don’t need to strive to bring more to the table. This mindset is very destructive I'm so tired of 𝑚𝑎𝑛 𝑏𝑎𝑠ℎ𝑖𝑛𝑔 seriously . It's not like they all have horns and shoot out fire...... well maybe after Mexican food ..... I'm so tired of society blaming everything on men. It takes 2 ffs.	/r/MensRights	13/08/23 09:48 PM
-6	They never loved us I copped to half the fault in our marriage. I'm no princess to live with and I know that . I will say that I 𝑑𝑖𝑑 𝑛𝑜𝑡 ℎ𝑎𝑣𝑒 a porn addiction and a gambling addiction and an erectile problem. Arguably I wasn't driving him to porn by my obesity as well. I had one mouth and two ears and forgot which one I should use more. I stuck by him for 25 years wishing and hoping the man I married would appear again. That didn't happen .	/r/Divorce_Men	13/08/23 06:12 PM
3	They never loved us My wasband and his sister were raised like that . He was raised to be the man and provider and she was raised to attract wealth. He is 57 and a compulsive gambler and she just turned 59 and has blown through about a million dollars and has a drug habit and a husband that just exists to make money. The whole thing is a shitshow to a huge dumpster fire. I don't comment a lot on here because ..... but I could not resist this time .	/r/Divorce_Men	13/08/23 06:04 PM
1	Boyfriend is getting chewed up and spit back out by ex-wife in court I'm not a man but we are getting ready to throw good money at an attorney just so he can stop paying child support on his 18 year old son. Boy is going off to college ,and we do not live in New Jersey or Hawaii where child support goes until 23. His x is requesting more time for something that is SOP . I get irked sometimes because in the 2 years I've known him it's motion after motion after motion. SHE filed for divorce and knew exactly what she was doing . So finally after 2 years, he's going …	/r/Divorce_Men	13/08/23 01:19 AM
2	Has anyone married in the recent 5 years with the marriage turning put OK? I'm a woman and I have been married to an amazing man for 2.5 years. The longer I am married to him , the more I love him. I truly believe the universe smiled on me , the day we met. He is smart, kind, nerdy and beautiful in the ways of beautiful blue eyes and beautiful in the way of I get twitchy sometimes. Lastly beautiful in the way he is so happy about the simplest things like ...a good beer, a neck rub or kiss or a baked good or love. He wasn't loved properly before I came along, and I have…	/r/MensRights	12/08/23 11:39 PM
2	I am tired of seeing men old and young, throwing themselves under the bus to help people who don't care about them, few questions to know if you are simping. He's going places and he's absolutely correct. We know.	/r/MensRights	12/08/23 11:15 PM
0	Time for Some Positivity About Men I agree. It's a lovely thing . Nice and simple .	/r/MensRights	12/08/23 11:13 PM
1	Would you marry again wo a prenup? I don't want his 40 percent. Nah , I want to help him rise up like a Phoenix. I want to laugh when he's ballin and she can't get her hands on his money . Damn, it's the better part of at least a million she got , why she greedy??????	/r/Divorce_Men	31/07/23 04:48 PM
1	Would you marry again wo a prenup? The only time he ever feels like a 𝑚𝑖𝑠𝑡𝑎𝑘𝑒𝑛 𝑓𝑜𝑜𝑙 is when he has to deal with his previous 𝑝𝑖𝑙𝑙𝑜𝑤 𝑝𝑟𝑖𝑛𝑐𝑒𝑠𝑠. Lucky for him , he did what he did until she left him (that's another wonderful story) and when he met better , he married better.	/r/Divorce_Men	31/07/23 04:46 PM
1	Would you marry again wo a prenup? My husband did . We met in June 2021 and got married December 2021. I offered to sign a prenup and he said he did not want to do that. Yes he already had at least 60 percent taken away by his x. He should have been bitter but he wasn't. He's a one in a million kind of man and he's mine 💙	/r/Divorce_Men	31/07/23 03:33 AM
2	She's not the woman you married It really should be ℎ𝑎𝑝𝑝𝑦 𝑠𝑝𝑜𝑢𝑠𝑒, ℎ𝑎𝑝𝑝𝑦 ℎ𝑜𝑢𝑠𝑒. Then both people matter...... My mate used to say the life /wife thing but I got him to change it. He already had the 𝑝𝑖𝑙𝑙𝑜𝑤 𝑝𝑟𝑖𝑛𝑐𝑒𝑠𝑠 & 𝑔𝑎𝑡𝑒𝑘𝑒𝑒𝑝𝑒𝑟 𝑜𝑓 𝑎𝑛𝑦 𝑓𝑒𝑒𝑙𝑖𝑛𝑔....now he has me and that's a different type of woman. My belfry has plenty of bats in it thank you......	/r/Divorce_Men	27/07/23 04:50 PM
1	Quite the difference in asset division laws across states. Any one else surprised? Not only state but city as well. My husband's X left him in a certain area so there were no family law judges. Her lawyer told her to live here 6 weeks and file in 𝑠𝑝𝑒𝑐𝑖𝑓𝑖𝑐 𝑐𝑖𝑡𝑦. She was very well coached.	/r/Divorce_Men	05/07/23 08:14 PM
3	Let her go!! I lurk here too. My husband went through a horrible divorce and we have 5 more years of this, until youngest turns 19 I guess (school and her birthday). X makes life hell in so many litigious ways.... she's nicer on the outside but hell inside.	/r/Divorce_Men	05/07/23 08:08 PM
-1	What did you do with your ring My x pawned his like 2 years before we got divorced. I was saddened by it and that's when I really knew how he felt about us. These things happen.	/r/Divorce_Men	27/06/23 11:32 PM
5	my 14 years old princess wants nothing to do with me boys, it's over for me I'll have to tell my husband about the reunification therapy. I have a 13 year old SD that won't see her father and won't tell him why, as well. He's a good man and he doesn't deserve what his daughter and x put him through. His X filed for divorce in a manner that would put the screws to my dear husband. We know she did because of time and way she filed. I met him after he was divorced over a year and life didn't get litigious until we married. Ongoing issue has been about a year. Poor man, has…	/r/Divorce_Men	25/06/23 01:03 AM
2	Just curious to know. How many of y’all had people who thought you were a lucky guy because your wife was attractive but in reality the only thing you were getting was starfish sex and she never initiated ? My husband was married to a 𝑏𝑒𝑎𝑢𝑡𝑖𝑓𝑢𝑙 𝑠𝑡𝑎𝑟𝑓𝑖𝑠ℎ. . Yeah, she blonde and well educated and makes good money. Pretty little pillow princess...... I have been amazed at all the things she 𝑛𝑒𝑣𝑒𝑟 𝑒𝑣𝑒𝑟 did because 𝑖𝑡𝑠 𝑑𝑖𝑟𝑡𝑦 𝑜𝑟 𝑔𝑟𝑜𝑠𝑠 . She got him so badly on the looks that he went for someone with a bit more substance (me) . Ugly goes to the bone and it can be inside such a beautiful package.	/r/Divorce_Men	19/06/23 02:08 PM
1	Chance of marriage ending in divorce 50/50. With odds like these why play the game? Play stupid games, win stupid prizes. That was marriage number 1. Fuck around and find out was marriage number 2. I saved the best for last . I found someone who made my life so much better that I had no choice to say yes..... I hope it's. Thrid time is the charm....	/r/Divorce_Men	24/04/23 03:49 PM
1	Holy sh!t At one time , we thought maybe she was having fun with her female attorney......maybe just maybe.... Just another ploy to make my man feel like shit.......his x is very litigious.	/r/Divorce_Men	11/04/23 03:48 PM
1	Pre-marital assets used to purchase property, how do we deal with buy out? You're correct . Once you co mingle separate or inherited assets they become "community propety" . I live in Nevada , USA	/r/Divorce_Men	11/04/23 03:44 PM
1	Child support when kid goes to university Child support in Nevada (idk where you are ) stops at 18 or when the child graduates high school if they turn 18 during the school year. I can't remember the actual stature number. I know this stature because my SS is 18 this month and graduates in June. If my husband wants to help his son, that's cool too. My SD will get child support until she's 19 legally because of school and her birthday. I think you have to petition the courts to cease support because otherwise it continues. Idk , I'm gear…	/r/Divorce_Men	11/04/23 03:38 PM
1	Filing Taxes Married but Separately When I was married for the last couple of years , I filed married and separate. I had to because he gambles and would not show me financial stuff. Absolutely would not . I only received a small refund . However I could sleep at night.	/r/Divorce_Men	11/04/23 03:20 PM
5	Screwed by Courts The legal system sure does go after men in divorce. And if you're a good man, it's really true. I married someone and for the next 5.5 years I get to have dealings with her. Until baby girl turns 18. 9 years old. I know a little about the bias toward men.	/r/Divorce_Men	06/04/23 05:08 PM
2	After nearly 4 years, Karma finally pays that B!#%H back big time. My stepson sees his mom in a not kind and cuddly way. Some kids just see through the baloney.	/r/Divorce_Men	15/11/22 03:08 AM
1	Does honest lawyers exist? I'm sure I hear your real version twice a month.	/r/Divorce_Men	27/10/22 09:47 PM
2	I’m 59 and about to be single for the first time in 30 years. When looking for single women my age how do you know when women want to be approached? What are some tell tale signs? When I first got divorced , I thought 6 months was good enough and I'd be fine to date.....oh holy hell no. I dated someone I knew before and such a disaster. Actually a disaster might have been better. I decided after that , I needed to rethink a lot more haha. But for real, take time for yourself. Drink milk out of the carton in your underwear. Do all the things she said you could not do. Buy a label maker and label everything "fucking----" . The best thing you should do after a divorce is fig…	/r/Divorce_Men	27/10/22 09:22 PM
2	I’m 59 and about to be single for the first time in 30 years. When looking for single women my age how do you know when women want to be approached? What are some tell tale signs? I agree with this too.	/r/Divorce_Men	27/10/22 09:12 PM
1	How do you fill "the void" after divorce? I found myself. I could do as I wanted. I could eat when I felt like it. I could buy my snacks and eat them 4 days later. I didn't have to hide my wallet under "dirty" towels in the hallway. I could have sex again. I threw out all the toys because "not ever again" was good enough for me. I could dress sexy and not feel shame. So many things I could do after divorce.	/r/Divorce_Men	10/10/22 03:26 PM
1	I want to abandon my children I like your comment and this really resonates with someone I love. I will also say it's difficult to work out things when one person is civil and one person is litigious. Someday perhaps maturity will visit and all can be mended. It's only too late if you've passed.	/r/Divorce_Men	05/10/22 07:56 PM
1	What is she waiting for? I'm a woman but yeah my bad marriage almost lead to my dea_h. I do not mess around with unhappiness. I married again and we both won't make that mistake again. We've thought about fixing up our exes but mine can't afford his .....	/r/Divorce_Men	30/09/22 04:13 PM
3	Does anyone else get random DMs from people on this board? I am here hoping that some other post can give me Guidance on how to deal with the toxic person in our lives. I wouldn't DM anyone but I will admit most men really get shat on during a divorce.	/r/Divorce_Men	26/09/22 04:31 PM
2	Scared of divorcing my wife Or at the very least not worrying about living. You have some things that will count favorably for you. Edit: I'm sorry this is happening to you. I hope you find peace and an attorney. She can pay for it....	/r/Divorce_Men	25/09/22 10:09 PM
1	Too broke to leave His wife left him after she said parkinsons disease changed him. He told me about it on our second date. We are still together. Till death.	/r/Divorce_Men	18/09/22 06:42 PM
3	How do you guys do it? It works on both genders. And it works well. I	/r/Divorce_Men	09/08/22 05:13 PM
1	What’s your ‘hook’ when telling your divorce story to people? No hook , my parents died and left me a little bit of money. My kids came home from school and found a notice of foreclosure taped to the front door. Long story short , he hadn't paid the mortgage in 5 years a d they just caught up to him. I freaked out and he laughed about it and would not disclose his financial info. He is a compulsive gambler and has been furtive (or tried to be ) for 20 years..... I hired a foreclosure attorney and modified my mortgage and kept my house. He still lived there…	/r/Divorce_Men	10/06/22 02:26 AM
2	Sticky Sidebar for Visitors on New Reddit Layout Thank you for being honest. We have 5 years and 3 months of her addlebrained litigious misandry and misogynist ways. Every day I hope she wakes up and has involuntary diarrhea. This is what I married into . He's an amazing man and I adore him but my God, I'm starting to look at legal law sites to see about information. Edit: I don't look at law sites to divorce him . 𝘖𝘩 𝘩𝘦𝘭𝘭 𝘯𝘰. 𝘐 𝘭𝘰𝘷𝘦 𝘩𝘪𝘮 𝘵𝘳𝘶𝘭𝘺. But to find information to help him against that person.	/r/Divorce_Men	10/06/22 01:38 AM
1	Thank you to the attention seeking, entitled, obnoxious women posters in this sub!!! Happy spouse , happy house.	/r/Divorce_Men	10/06/22 01:18 AM
0	Fam, sometimes you can do everything right but a flake is a flake. More like a dud every 15 minutes haha	/r/seduction	12/05/21 04:38 AM
2	Fam, sometimes you can do everything right but a flake is a flake. Not on plenty of fish.	/r/seduction	12/05/21 04:38 AM
1	Fam, sometimes you can do everything right but a flake is a flake. I'm not her but I loved the movie.	/r/seduction	12/05/21 04:37 AM
9	A TRUE, HARSH and BRUTAL STORY. ( NO CHASING WOMEN. NO GIFTS. NO FREE ATETION....NO NO NO). Read what happens when you do those things. That poor flower man. That hits hard that there are men out there who will do that . For what ? Crumbs of "affection". Poor self esteem sucks. In the millions of ways it appears.	/r/seduction	16/12/20 02:27 AM
3	The number one sign that a girl likes you is proximity It is . The old snake in the wheelchair with the cigarette drenched voice .	/r/seduction	12/12/20 08:57 PM