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9

I love her
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 10:50 PM
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Any recommendations for channels? I did a major purge awhile ago and am looking for women to watch.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 06:01 PM
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Thank you 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 11:57 PM
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Why are they so freaking disgusting?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 10:24 PM
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My ex would literally drop his dirty clothes on the floor 6” from the laundry basket. Used to drive me crazy. Not to mention all the fap socks he used to leave around the house in random spots 🤢 Wish I found FDS sooner.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 03:47 PM
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I couldn’t resist 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 01:18 PM
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Same 😓
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 02:36 AM
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✅✅✅✅✅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 02:36 AM
6

You’re right. Sadly there’s only 25 spaces 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 02:36 AM
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Porn induced erectile disfunction
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 02:36 AM
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Porn induced erectile disfunction
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 02:35 AM
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Porn induced erectile disfunction
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 12:22 AM
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The only one I haven’t had is an age gap relationship 😓
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 12:22 AM
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Thank you 🎨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 12:21 AM
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For real
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 11:10 PM
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Thanks!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 11:09 PM
8

You hurt his fee-fees
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 11:09 PM
3

Hey, me too!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 11:09 PM
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Oh, definitely a good one
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 11:08 PM
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Definitely good ones
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 07:41 PM
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Thank you 👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 07:40 PM
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Came here to say this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 07:16 PM
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Ooh, a classic
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 06:57 PM
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Porn induced erectile disfunction 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 06:56 PM
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Porn induced erectile disfunction :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 06:56 PM
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Ooh, also a great one
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 06:55 PM
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Had to do it 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 06:55 PM
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Yup. Used to have weekly panic attacks for years. Haven’t had one since I left.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 05:55 PM
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Thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 05:44 PM
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Oh, no just sharing. I’m glad we can all learn together. I’m glad you haven’t had to suffer through too much LVM behavior!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 05:37 PM
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Yesssssssss 🍷
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 05:30 PM
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I will in the future if I decide to date again, but past me wasn’t as educated on men’s BS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 05:29 PM
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Thank you! I used some artistic liberties
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 04:57 PM
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We all win, but we also all lose 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 04:32 PM
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My NVX and LV dad say that all the time. And I have learned since then thankfully. I was bullied by women a lot so that led to my NLOG phase.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 04:31 PM
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Past me is guilty of it as well 😓
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 04:26 PM
48

Meeeeee
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 04:25 PM
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Congratulations!!! That’s amazing 💜💜💜
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 10:27 PM
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Ooh same for mine
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 03:57 AM
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I would also like to add: please don’t let a roommate have guns in your home. In the past I needed a roommate because rent was so high where I was living. He asked if he could have guns and at the time I said it was fine. A few months later he killed himself in our apartment and I found him. DON’T LIVE WITH ANY MEN WITH GUNS EVEN IF THEY’RE NOT YOUR ROMANTIC PARTNER.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 05:42 PM
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Definitely! I made a mental list of the things I had been neglecting towards myself and also a bucket list of things I wanted to do and that helped guide me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 12:09 AM
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Ouch. I think I knew all this deep down, but seeing it written out so well is really a punch in the gut to the past version of myself. Glad I’ve learned since then. Great post!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 05:51 PM
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Me too! Thriving now that I’m not with a NVM!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 04:54 PM
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🤮🤮🤮 Disgusting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 04:53 PM
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They are awesome and so low maintenance. I want to get dogs someday as well, but only after I have my own house and can give them a nice yard 😁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 12:33 AM
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“I’m actually a narcissist” and “I have Peter Pan syndrome, please be my new mommy” would have been accurate for my ex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 10:52 PM
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Ugh 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 10:51 PM
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That’s awesome 😁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 10:50 PM
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🤢🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 04:11 PM
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Honestly, it’s scared me off dating in general, but especially on OLD.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 04:10 PM
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I deleted OLD when I saw my abusive ex-husband on bumble. Wanted to vomit after seeing his stupid face. I realized then that if my ex could be on there pretending to be a nice guy, how many other abusive or NVM could be lurking online. It isn’t worth my time either. It takes way too long to swipe to find even one guy that I find attractive and then it’s usually a bust anyways. I’d rather spend that time doing more important things 💅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 03:23 PM
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Thank you! 💜
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 03:05 PM
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Thank you! You too 💜
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 03:05 PM
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Hey, that’s great progress too! A lot of my progress was thanks to my parent’s assistance and letting me live with them for awhile. That helped me a lot and doing it solo would have been very difficult. I’m glad you were able to get out 💜
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 09:00 AM
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Thank you 💜😭 I would definitely rather be single for the rest of my life than deal with a NVM ever again. I definitely feel like I lost 5+ years of my life during the relationship and even more with the stress that it caused me. I definitely needed to use alcohol, weed, and eating my feelings in order to cope with the situation. I’ve been in therapy for about a year and a half now and I’m still working through the trauma I was given. It is so damaging what emotional and financial abuse can do to…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 08:25 AM
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💜💜💜
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 08:15 AM
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Thank you so much 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 02:42 AM
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Thank you! Appreciate the help :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 01:28 AM
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Thank you for this! I feel so educated 😁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 01:11 AM
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I have seen so many poorly matched couples in public I just want to look the woman in the eyes every time and say, “you are so pretty, you seriously deserve better.” I was once paired with an ugly guy myself, and used to be confused when people would tell me he was a 2-4 and I deserved better 😓 Should have listened better!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 01:00 AM
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I was keeping track of my lifting and cardio at the gym, but my accountability partner’s schedule changed and it’s been very difficult to get into a new routine and go by myself. As for hiking I’m sure there are hikes in my area. I am hiking a lot right now (on a road trip currently), but need to look up routes in my city (though I’m not sure how often I should hike for fitness purposes). I haven’t looked to see if there are hiking meetups, but now that covid is slowing down that’s a great idea!…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 12:56 AM
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I am so so so glad that I decided to be childfree and didn’t have kids with my narcissistic ex, because I know he would have pulled some shit in order to not pay for child support (or for societal points of being a “single father”). Dude couldn’t even take care of himself, let alone a child.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 09:29 PM
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My narcissistic ex-husband coerced me into doing poly so he could sleep around. Didn’t like it much when I was successful at finding other partners and threw a fit every time about how I wasn’t giving him enough attention (and got upset because no women wanted him). -100/10 would not recommend.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 08:29 PM
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Porn 👏 is 👏 not 👏 a 👏 human 👏 right 👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 08:25 PM
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I would like to add to the list; when the woman has to propose because he’s taking too long 🤡🤡🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 08:20 PM
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Still working on it myself. This sub is really helping though!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 08:16 PM
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🙌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 08:15 PM
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Yeah, the cringe is real. “I wish I could have been what you needed/ I should have been better...” blah blah, no.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 08:14 PM
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Oof 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 08:13 PM
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Have any of you ladies worked through difficulties with body image? I know that I don’t want to date so I don’t have that pressure to be thinner for a partner, but I’m still struggling with societal programming. I try to appreciate my body for what it can do and am aiming for body neutrality, but as a kid of the 90s it’s really hard to not conflate beauty with being skinny. Any advice is appreciated!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 08:12 PM
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Probably because we have a lot of traditions over here that are tied into Christianity. I wish it wasn’t like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 05:11 PM
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