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SELF IMPROVEMENTnotyourmotherdotcom/r/RedPillWomen14/10/19 08:04 PM
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Over 6’3”. For me, the definition of “very handsome” is kinda loose because I tend to go after unconventionally attractive people.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/20 05:15 PM
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I don’t like to say I’m a heightist but sometimes, a very handsome AND very tall man just makes me lose my mind in an instant.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/20 05:00 PM
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This is BS. The 80/20 rule is bullshit. After covid is better contained, people need to get off their fucking phones and get to know each other in person again. There are so many places to gather (other than bars) to make things happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/20 09:37 PM
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So they’re pick me’s...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/20 03:22 AM
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Your logic doesn't even make sense when you look at this issue pragmatically and logically. You can’t try to make logic out of love and relationships. Love is not logical. The whole SMV BS is just that...BS. Tons of ugly people get together every single day. Spare me the BS.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/20 02:04 AM
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You’re viewing things in black/white terms. Things in real life don’t work that way all the time. Just because a woman is a HVW or a man is an HVM, doesn’t mean they’re strictly the gatekeepers. Things don’t work so rigidly; they happen naturally. Romantic emotions can’t be logically broken down into logistics the way TRP and FDS try to do. Both groups are jaded individuals. There’s no logic to relationships: they just happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/20 01:12 AM
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Shouldn’t be both’s responsibility?! Because it benefits men to do so. Wow, that’s it?!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/20 01:03 AM
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Women are the gatekeepers of sex and men should be the gatekeepers of relationships. According to who? Some random black comedians who coined red pill ideas?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/20 12:39 AM
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Nevermind facts say otherwise, but okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/20 12:38 AM
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Those $39b barely caused a dent on him. He is THE richest man in current history and nobody has ever had $200b in their life. Again, Bezos can cry me a goddamn river. I’m sure he couldn’t care less.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/20 12:32 AM
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Jeff Bezos can cry me a fucking River! He just made $200,000,000,000 He gave his ex like $39 billion dollars (which is less than 20%). She has been with him since he was a nobody.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/20 12:28 AM
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You know who also expects men to be top providers? The heavily anti feminists from RPW!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/20 12:25 AM
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Second, RPW is heavily “anti feminism” yet the women of the sub keep enjoying the fruits of feminism. Tons of them talk about having careers and lots of education rather than being “barefoot and pregnant”, like they should be.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/20 12:22 AM
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The big one is “men are the gatekeepers of commitment”. Wasn’t the case in my first (second longest) or current (and longest) relationship. Like, at all. Relationships happen naturally; there really isn’t anyone who gate-keeps sex or commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/20 12:20 AM
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You didn’t know that r/RedPillWomen existed?!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/20 12:06 AM
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As if TRP is any more logical. I’m a recovered red piller. I can’t believe I wasted so much time on that shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/20 12:01 AM
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On a throwaway, I went to FDS for advice on how to deal with a marital issue...and all the advice was “dump him now, if he’s not paying 100% for EVERYTHING”. I talked to him and got to a more egalitarian agreement and provided an update. They still were “BuT hE hAs tO pAy EVERYTHING bCuZ iS NOT fAiR YoU’rE pAyInG 1/3 oF tHe TrIp”. It’s a trip to see MY family. He never ask me for a cent when is to see his, but also is because mine lives way farther than his (his is a few hours in car, while mine…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/20 11:59 PM
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FDS are psychotic, but so are the female RPs.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/20 11:53 PM
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I was 23 and he was a month shy of turning 25. In total? Ten years.
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/20 09:12 PM
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We eloped.
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/20 08:06 PM
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Why is this even an issue?
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/20 02:50 AM
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I’ll stop taking meds (not for anxiety but other more severe things than just “anxiety”) when my partner stops self medicating with weed (for ADHD and anxiety). Drugs are drugs no matter the delivery method.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/20 02:25 AM
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I didn’t do such thing. I found a tall, attractive man and managed to keep him. I wouldn’t had never settled for someone I wouldn’t had found attractive. Hate all you want. Why would I want a “beta provider” when I can provide for myself just fine?! On that note, women are just as visual as men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 08:43 PM
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IME, RPW is VASTLY DIFFERENT from the male RP. Like, two different worlds apart. Male RP seeks hookups (spinning plates) and the dehumanization of women while RPW seems to enhance and empower the male/female dynamic in a healthy way. I don’t even know why is even called “red pill women”. It even encourages women to pursue education and careers.
/r/RedPillWomen15/07/20 05:06 PM
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Nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 10:33 PM
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Untreated mental illness and/or self medicating with hard drugs and alcohol. A mental ill person in itself is not a dealbreaker to me as long as they’re in therapy and take proper meds if they’re needed.
/r/RedPillWomen12/07/20 08:56 PM
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You think someone who does those things would be so willy nilly open with that?! Second, public records exist if I wanted to find out about those things.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/20 05:50 AM
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BECAUSE IS NOT YOUR FUCKING BUSINESS!!!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/20 05:44 AM
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EXACTLY!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 03:03 AM
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I didn’t know prenups could sing.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 11:45 PM
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OP should realize none of the above truly matters if no piece of paper comes along.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 11:18 PM
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No. Give me the piece of paper. I take a quiet courthouse wedding for only $50 bucks than all the trash from above. The piece of paper is what holds weight in count. The so called “divorce rape” is not as common as TRP makes it believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 11:16 PM
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She could schedule an Uber for the friend and then mingle with the guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 02:56 AM
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The inverse is also true: why do so many people pussyblock?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 02:51 AM
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There’s r/RedPillWomen and r/PinkPillFeminism Which one?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 06:33 PM
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Bad idea. They’ll know the truth when you take off the shoes just before you’re about to get laid. drops mic
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 06:18 PM
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Fair enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 07:26 PM
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He is giving more slack to younger women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 07:09 PM
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You’re giving more slack to younger women and being harsh on women your age. This is disgusting, ngl. Admit you just want a young little thing you can control and call it a day. You just can’t handle status and money.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 07:06 PM
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Chad is overrated. I prefer Brad.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 06:52 PM
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Most red pill women do have studies and careers but still follow the adage of “women are the gatekeepers of sex and men are the gatekeepers of commitment” (that’s the female RP summarized”). So don’t drop out of college and don’t forgo a career. But do follow that adage.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 10:15 PM
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Read r/RedPillWomen
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 10:13 PM
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To answer the first question, there are tons of chubby actors being featured magazines like GQ and Esquire.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 01:20 PM
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Spare me this BS. It is actually much more acceptable for men to be fat. Ever heard the “dad bod”? Edit: found the proof I needed to make my argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 01:04 PM
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How’s a person “on the ace spectrum” sexually liberal? Those people either don’t have sex or have it in very rare circumstances.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/20 04:47 AM
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They have to come to the conclusion on their own accord. You can’t “red pill” a woman.
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/20 03:32 AM
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Virginity is not a physical body state per the WHO.
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/20 05:26 PM
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Well, the facts don’t care for your feelings.
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/20 05:11 PM
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It is true.
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/20 05:09 PM
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Virginity is a social construct. Is how men in ancient times ensured the offspring a woman was carrying were his. You are not less for having sex outside of a marriage setting. Any men who sees you as less for that is not worth of your attention.
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/20 05:32 AM
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The other day there was a post about a 31 year old who got a proposal. You can make it happen too. IT IS NOT TOO LATE.
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/20 12:40 AM
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But she’d need an ACCREDITED NON PROFIT Public school. Some good options are community colleges since most offer online degrees, Colorado State Global, Arizona State, Purdue Global, WGU; all with regional accreditation. Not some BS like University of Phoenix. Edit add more info.
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/20 07:33 PM
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Depends which state and the cheaper ones are the adjacent campuses to the flagship campus.
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/20 05:25 AM
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She can. Is just that scholarships will be hard to come by or will simply not be available for her. Most of my post was about scholarship eligibility.
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/20 04:30 AM
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She’d be a non traditional student. There aren’t many (if any) scholarships for her demographic unless she’s like a first generation college goer AND minority and even then, some have age limits and college major requirements.
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/20 04:14 AM
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College. Medical or STEM careers. You still have time.
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/20 03:37 AM
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This fills me with joy. I’m so happy reading this.
/r/RedPillWomen13/04/20 09:06 PM
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Figuring out that in the male/female dynamic, is the man who MAINLY has the final day if the relationship moves forward (hence the gatekeeper of commitment). I always had the feeling it worked like that but some life experiences confirmed it.
/r/RedPillWomen13/04/20 04:51 AM
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When we were in the military ten years ago at a concert.
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/20 04:02 AM
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I’m hardcore atheist.
/r/RedPillWomen11/04/20 02:01 AM
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Find a guy who combines the qualities of both guys.
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/20 04:53 AM
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Yes yes yes yes and yes. Even if it’s a trade, you want to have a backup plan like some of the people in here had mentioned in case of death of a spouse or divorce. The good thing about being in South America? College degrees are a fraction of what they cost in the USA!
/r/RedPillWomen02/04/20 11:17 PM
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That’s just what I said with extra steps 😄
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/20 11:18 PM
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I'm not gonna risk being banned from a forum I deeply like due to the likes of you, but if you don't want to agree with an anthropological fact that's not on me.
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/20 11:06 PM
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The person posting this thread seems to have an unhealthy obsession with female virginity. I'd say u/kneesofthetrees is right on the money.
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/20 10:59 PM
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Virginity is a social construct. It was the ancient way of how men ensured women were carrying their kids. Nothing else. These days we have DNA testing for that.
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/20 10:57 PM
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I'm really bad with cleaning and on top of that I'm kinda lazy with it. What can I do to be more proactive?
/r/RedPillWomen06/11/19 11:09 PM
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Nah, just forget about this guy. He doesn't seem to want anything serious with you.
/r/RedPillWomen17/10/19 04:49 PM
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Ehhh...no. What Americans consider attractive is not considered attractive in, say, Korea. Learn more about what different cultures find attractive.
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/19 07:45 PM
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Who gets to define who's "pretty"? Beauty is HIGHLY subjective.
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/19 06:23 PM
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I'm back to knitting and adult coloring books. They soothe me. I normally do that while I watch MAS*H with my Hubs at night. I like having that show as background noise.
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/19 01:01 AM
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I haven't been happier since I discovered my true purpose in life...which is to be utterly devoted to my husband. Rpw changed my life. I'd be devastates if I were to get divorced and even more afraid to end up being the lady OP describes.
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/19 12:48 AM
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Ten years and things are still "rocky"? What do you even see in this guy? Is his dick that good that you had put up with TEN years of someone you don't seem to fully accept for who they are? Ask yourself what are you getting out of this relationship. Are you growing as a person? Is being with him highlights your positive qualities? You should not waste your good years on a relationship like this one.
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/19 12:12 AM
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It sort of happened naturally in my relationships. I subconsciously assumed a submissive role and let them lead. I am a dominant "take charge" kind of person in almost every facet of my life but in the romantic arena I guess I didn't turned out that way. 💁
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/19 12:03 AM
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I just read somewhere to never chase a man because anything you chase in life will run and then with my own experiences it all fell into place. My upbringing was not traditional at all since my parents divorced and both remarried in my teens.
/r/RedPillWomen14/10/19 09:16 PM
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I like them short.
/r/RedPillWomen14/10/19 08:54 PM
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I met him at a concert when we were in the military. Things happened very fast. We were married within a year. Still very much together.
/r/RedPillWomen14/10/19 08:18 PM
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