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This is pretty unlikely, especially in a younger crowd. I've been on the bfs side several times before. I think it's the gf/plate trying to legitimize the cheating and/ or downgrade OP to "just friend". It makes zero sense to me as a man, but fuck if I'd be on here if girl logic made sense.
/r/askTRP29/03/15 05:20 AM
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Men don't get pregnant. Are men responsible for women's bodies? Or are women responsible adults? Take this blue pill shit out of here.
/r/askTRP20/03/15 12:35 AM
1

Thanks for sharing, great writeup. I felt the same way about NMMNG. It's 1/3 generic therapy trappings, 1/3 goofy example stories, and 1/3 actual content. Very repetitive. The heart of it is still good stuff: avoid covert contracts, allow yourself to win, etc. It needs an abridged edition.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/02/15 11:36 PM
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Good question, but repost with the question in the subject to get more answers. I'd love to see more posts on married-with-toddlers. It seems like toddlers put all of life on hardmode.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/02/15 03:13 PM
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Good advice here already. I'll add that first trimester can be rough for many women, good chance for you to focus on your smv and increasing comfort while decreasing beta/whiny behaviors. 2nd semester she'll feel awesome and you'll find out if things are salvageable. Keep in mind that month apart and her lack of feels right up to marriage. Don't let her blame you, but do recognize it's an "us" problem. She doesn't understand her lack of attraction any better than you did before coming here. MMSL…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/02/15 11:51 PM
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Sounds like he knows he's getting screwed but has low self esteem and thinks he can't do any better. If you're comfortable then take him out and confirm with gentle teasing, "haha really? You know how whipped you are?" If that's his situation, the only way out is hooking him up with some other chick(s) to show him he has options. Take him out somewhere with girls around that overlaps with his hobbies, especially a hobby his gf doesn't share. Sounds like a lot of work trying to lead this horse to…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/02/15 03:03 AM
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If only there were some way for women to be in control of and take responsibility for their own bodies!
/r/TheRedPill16/02/15 02:19 PM
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Politely declining is fine. The OP referenced was a dick and pissed off his coworkers. Even that is fine, but it has consequences.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/15 09:38 PM
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That's a huge stretch. That guy was like "yeah, take a piece, poke at it, toss it. Dont just be a dick to your coworkers and call them whales to their face". It's ok to reject their rituals, but expect repurcussions. Especially if you do it harshly. That poster was upvoted for good reason, not some lunatic conspiracy. Same thing with avoiding church in a small town. The hell if I'm going to church, but am I going to reject my neighbor's invite with "I'm an atheist and you're a sheeple"?
/r/TheRedPill09/02/15 03:07 AM
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There are two sides to a single mom. The (always) awful, abusive, drunk, useless father is one. Maybe that's 100% legitimate in this case. But you still have the other half: the impulsive, irresponsible woman who dated (if even) and got pregnant with that man's baby. Do you want to be taken advantage of by that woman? Try to think clearly about these past decisions and how they'll repeat in your future. Don't let your hamster that wants a son make excuses to get into a bad LTR. If she's "not lik…
/r/askTRP22/01/15 01:42 PM
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Huge red flag. Friends at work or class, whatever. Social circle and group hamgouts includes guys, of course. Solo dates with other guy "friends"? She's orbiting your replacements right in front of you, and everyone around you knows it. Take it from someone who tried to white knight for his angel for ten years. Every single guy she orbited kissed her, or worse. No exaggeration. You cant put up with that shit in an LTR. If she has boy"friends" then you have girl"friends" and she's just another pl…
/r/TheRedPill18/12/14 03:18 PM
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Why are you attracted to him despite knowing he comes home drunk with bar sluts when he's not with you?
/r/askTRP07/12/14 12:55 AM
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Rare exceptions aren't worth quiveling over. Congratulations on being such a unique and special snowflake.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/14 11:57 PM
1

Men share feelings with their bros. Women have shown us it's dangerous to share with them.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/14 07:20 PM
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His whole point is that "protecting the relationship" is inherently inequitable. The traditional relationship trade is the woman's sexual commitment in exchange for the man's emotional and financial benefit. The man in your "protected" scenario gets no benefit over being FWB.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/14 01:21 AM
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There are a lot of people in the world with cancer. I think OP would care more to lend emotional support to a different one at random rather than the one who has taken advantage of and toyed with him.
/r/ThankTRP11/11/14 01:20 PM
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You should focus more on helping your dad protect his assets and reduce risk, instead of getting emotional and acting like you're trying to cockblock him. Also that falling out story between mom and N didn't make sense. Maybe you were just being brief, but I bet your dad was banging N and mom found out. It's possible your dad has been with her all along, just keeping it quiet. What was he doing in Mexico for six months? Now he has decided enough time passed for him to go public. That would go a …
/r/askTRP07/11/14 01:33 PM
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Do you think those statistics hold when adjusting for class? It sounds like you're performing the same poor analysis that perpetuates the female wage gap myth. Plus, ya know, condoms and std tests. Stds arent worth the risk of trusting a woman to tell the truth about her background so you can perform a misguided risk assessment
/r/TheRedPill06/11/14 02:06 PM
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Less racist than I expected! Thanks for the answer.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/14 01:20 PM
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Yeah, that's pretty much the definition of racist fyi. Serious question: would you prefer a girl who had sex with a dozen white guys, or a girl who sucked one black dick? What's the value conversion rate?
/r/TheRedPill06/11/14 01:08 AM
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Yep, I'm sure she just "bumped into" OP by chance at a...gas station, and there was instant chemistry that made her break off the engagement. Nothing sexual until after they started dating mind you! Women are pros at trickle truth.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/14 02:19 AM
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Both should TRY to change and be better. But pick one at random from the world, my money is on not gonna change. Being on TRP at all is an unusual and positive first step. Women don't currently have any equivalent for stopping the carousel besides hypergamy and hitting the wall.
/r/askTRP04/11/14 12:59 PM
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By dire straits I mean he wasn't having hus car repo'd, he wasn't getting harassed by bill collectors, wasn't begging her for money, etc. He was living comfortably and securely, but that wasn't good enough for her. She wanted a more extravagant lifestyle "like her friends". She wouldn't have stayed with him even knowing he was rich, because he wasn't spending it on her. I'm not sure what him being beta has to do with anything here. The point is how she misdescribes her situation and feels entitl…
/r/TheRedPill28/10/14 12:20 PM
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I don't blame her leaving him if she was unhappy, that's fine. It's her reaction afterwards that shows her true feelings.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/14 12:00 PM
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I think you're missing the point. He was happy as-is. She could have worked hard and made a lot of money regardless of him. She had no apparent reason to think he was in dire financial straits (obv cause he wasnt). Her specific commentary wasnt "i loved him and want him back if we can be financially-secure /r/frugaltards together". Her criticism was very specifically "he should have been spending all his money on ME!"
/r/TheRedPill28/10/14 01:55 AM
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She left him because he was happy with his life but she wanted to own 3 properties. She states plainly that he should have been buying her love with his money. If that aint gold digging then wtf is?
/r/TheRedPill28/10/14 01:48 AM
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TRP isn't hateful. There is a clear core idiology of TRP that does not pass judgment, just explains how the world works. Some people who also visit TRP are hateful, especially those in early phases frustrated at being misled and lied to for so long. The same exact thing goes for feminism, 2x, askwomen, etc. Using an individual to smear an entire group is a popular tactic of feminists. Use the same on them and they scream bloody murder, of course.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/14 06:58 PM
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I've mostly avoided it, but something like: "game" developer sleeps around with multiple game reviewers (and her boss). Her husband tattles to the whole internet. "game" dev happens to be a girl, so white knights come out in force and completely censor the story out of existence. Reddit, 4chan, everywhere. Honestly chilling to see this scale of censorship on these kinds of sites. Feminists try to make it all about misogyny and themselves while furiously white knighting on behalf of the dev & rev…
/r/askTRP24/10/14 01:37 PM
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You "forget" to send pics. Guys arent so needy and attention starved.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/14 12:21 AM
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I also asked how old you are now. I hear plenty of "i cant do X anymore at my age" but can't speak to it myself yet as I'm not that old. Similarly, kids have been a unique enough experience that I dont count the opinions of people without kids for much when discussing young children. I now know how full of shit I was before I actually had kids.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/14 12:46 AM
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How old are you? How many kids have you raised?
/r/TheRedPill12/09/14 08:55 PM
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Much of RP is about women having agency and making decisions for themselves. It's pretty easy to frame RP as feminist. OTOH radfem is all about shaming women for not acting like men. For wearing pink, having kids, not hating men. You can call out the hypocrisy if a radfem tries to shame you for choosing to be feminine. Still, you dont want to go too "public". Live life how you want, and make some small concessions when in your parents' presence to avoid making a scene. Act regretful if you choos…
/r/askTRP04/09/14 12:49 PM
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You're thinking of PUA not TRP. TRP goes beyond hookups and applies attraction and gender differences to all inter-gender relationships. LTRs and marriage come up a lot on TRP. Men don't want to marry or have LTRs with sluts. Most of TRP actually seems frustrated, if anything, that women arent as loyal as (beta) males. TRP yearns for the unicorn worthy of marriage, but generally advises against it due to the risks and the proliference of slut power in the west.
/r/askTRP02/09/14 12:24 PM
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Ugh, morbid curiosity here, buy where is her 5year LTR bf while you're taking her out on dates and grabbing her tits? Her immorality not yours, but a lot of guys here are or have been the 5y LTR BF in this equation. Imo stop paying for her at all. Your ability to pay has no bearing on the fact that it pegs you as BB. Her attempt to get you to buy fancy dinner is her escalating BB. You need to reject that to escalate your AF. How did you meet her btw? Is it possible she fishes for BB on the side …
/r/askTRP25/08/14 03:11 PM
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Sadly this isn't even much of a red flag for an LTR unless she reallllly harps on it. AWALT and will take advantage of you if you let them. Thanks to feminism they'll expext you to do equal housework while also supporting them not working. My wife /actually/ suggested I pay for full time daycare for the kids while she would continue being a SAHM. I've seen a lot of guys here and on /r/relationships, etc. that let their wife get away with that too. Anyway, all besides the post's question. Just ha…
/r/askTRP25/08/14 01:32 PM
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"Hinting she could start working less [because she's lazy and thinks you'll let her get away with it]" Haha, oh man. Shut that shit down fast, I've seen this test plenty before. They dont even offer to add value to compensate, at least at first. Then it's "I'll clean the house more or something maybe.." My response is always along the lines of smiling innocently and saying "Awesome, I'll quit working too, this will be great!" <let the silence hang while holding smile>
/r/askTRP25/08/14 12:41 PM
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What kind of situations are you getting into where your mistrust leads to problems? Are you confronting/accusing without hard evidence of anything?
/r/askTRP15/08/14 05:31 AM
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Seconding this. Have you called her on going through your phone? Whats her excuse? Also why is sex off the table? If you arent getting any, where is she getting hers?
/r/askTRP07/08/14 01:11 PM
1

Every relationship has boundaries. If she's having trouble understanding that dating other guys is inappropriate (exactly what she's trying to do) then ask if she minds you going on dates with a specific cute girl from work/class/gym. If she says thats fine, you must follow through. She's just orbiting you and doesnt want exclusivity. Do the same, and prioritize other plates over her regularly.
/r/askTRP06/08/14 12:16 AM
1

This. Best nest is by Eastman, a shitty Suess wannabe who crapped out terrible books for Suess' publisher, who tried to mislead readers into thinking they were Suess books. Sad the extent to which it clearly worked. ( I also have several shitty P.D. Eastman books for the same reason )
/r/TheRedPill01/08/14 12:24 AM
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Wow, you actually mentioned "the right doesnt force their view on others" and "gay marriage" in the same exact post. That congnitive dissonance! Do you think gays want to make YOU get gay married?
/r/TheRedPill24/07/14 07:44 PM
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Just to be clear, OP is the one saying her behavior was extremely strange. Could still be solely alcohol though, as she was also being difficult to him earlier and put herself in a retarded situatiom.
/r/askTRP22/07/14 04:56 AM
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Have you never had sex with a women? They say those exact things. They beg blue pill white knights to stop being a pusdy and actually fuck them like a man. Or, more typically, they stop putting out at all. And yes, I know from experience.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/14 06:44 PM
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Where was she before getting home late? Any chance its linked to the sudden disrespect/ignoring?
/r/askTRP17/07/14 01:29 PM
1

Of course it is. Step 1 of seeing the world for what it is.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/14 01:56 PM
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Gender roles and accepting that men and women arent identical is at the heart of TRP. This sub is NOT just about self improvement. Go read the damn sidebar and RedPillSchools recent "welcome noobs stfu" post where he calls out shit posts like yours.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/14 12:48 PM
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Partners vs plates, big difference.
/r/askTRP13/07/14 09:43 AM
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2 is still easy, especially once potty traimed.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/14 09:28 AM
0

Thats wrong, the idiom is "could care less". It's hardly the only idiom that doesn't make sense semantically.
/r/askTRP06/07/14 08:56 PM
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Perfect demonstration of: -desperation reeks -social proof Guy is perfectly nice and asking a reasonable question. But women hear other women are rejecting him so they go straight to taking a shit all over him.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/14 12:58 PM
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Yep, lets have a competitive gaming league for a specific subset of people who arent competitive and dont like video games. /s
/r/TheRedPill05/07/14 12:39 PM
1

Kudos for bringing up the entertainment side of it. The problem is "unfair to men" = "its entertainment who cares". You cant have social justice AND selective injustice against men. If the goal is solely profitable entertainment, justice isnt in the pucture at all.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/14 12:33 PM
2

Why are you staying?
/r/askTRP01/07/14 04:48 PM
5

This. If you dont have kids or even marriage, why are you supporting a female "friend" who does nothing LTR-like for you?
/r/askTRP01/07/14 04:23 PM
1

Agreed. Understanding how women work is the more complex and discussable part. But as per the complaints lately, we do need to focus on understanding women, not just complaining about them.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/14 12:47 PM
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ALWAYS attribute to someone else and state it skeptically. But still state the undeniable facts, and if she insists its crazy then "haha yeah lemme snopes it, thats total bs." ... "Huh, cnn/foxnews has an article saying its true? Am i misreading this?"
/r/TheRedPill24/06/14 05:08 AM
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If he didnt respond, they would all thunk he was embarrassed and escalate the attack. They know he does this, AND it's physically visible, both of which ate unlike a spurious claim that you get fucked in the ass. Op did well, as evidenced by her shutting up and him maintaining frame.
/r/askTRP20/06/14 03:37 AM
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The FBI would also be referring only to officially filed reports, not the majority of rapes that are never reported to the police.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/14 02:20 PM
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That IS a threat though. Better to just let her know you dont like it (if you havent already made it clear) and let her choose whether to do it anyway. Dont get hung up or argue about it, just keep doing your thing. Relationships are full of these tradeoffs. Openly threatening to next her is being controlling. Next or plate her if she keeps doing things you dislike or that undermine the relationship.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/14 08:04 PM
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How old are you both? TRP advice doesnt all apply well to high school kids in their first real relationship.
/r/askTRP10/06/14 04:16 AM
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It requires a substantial investment to figure our if you're "happily ever after". Why ignore major red flags when there are better fish in the sea?
/r/askTRP03/06/14 05:26 PM
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Thats kind of the point. Typical women are only attracted to the top 25(?)% of men. They're all dressing up for those same guys, and disgusted by the rest. A woman who has a lot of past partners implicitly has low standards, poor bonding, etc. For a man to have a lot of partners implies he's in that top 25%. For a woman it means they're the bottom 25% as LTR material.
/r/askTRP03/06/14 05:24 PM
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According to the Salon article he killed "six women....and men". As deliberately misworded as possible. ffs.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/14 02:43 PM
2

Right call OP. My bud didnt take something similar seriously a year into being married. Now he's on the divorce rape train with 2 kids while his wife cheats on him gratuitously. Girls don't ever get BETTER as the LTR wears on.
/r/askTRP26/05/14 11:17 PM
2

You'll find a lot of toddler advice matches RP advice, to a T. It's a dominant/submissive thing. With the beer shittest, you give her two choices - go and get beer, or you'll go. She feels empowered and included, but youre still telling her how it is. Heads i win, tails you lose. The hardest and most important part is maintaining composure throughout. Dont get whiny or vindictive, just get the job done. If she chooses to go and "forgets" the beer, no problem. Cool as a cucumber. Grab the keys, "…
/r/askTRP25/05/14 04:37 AM
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Sounds fishy. Where would he get your name from to message you? She is probably lying to you and/or throwing you under the bus to this guy. Good luck not getting caught up in whatever games they're playing.
/r/askTRP20/05/14 05:22 PM
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Yep, tried to get back with him the moment he said Boo after he PUNCHED her. Wtf. Only reason she didnt is that her brother prevented her. Zero female agency. Thanks TRP for finally explaining this bizarre and idiotic behavior. Dude's actions were totally reprehensible but there he is getting rewarded by girls for it.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/14 03:36 AM
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Yes, split up personal spending accounts and setup automatic transfers of the same amount to both. This keeps BOTH of you motivated to save up and care about spending. Otherwise you WILL have spending wars. "He bought a new car so i get one too" and shit like that. She buys a beater, she keeps more of her spending cash for clothes and crap.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/14 08:27 PM
2

But STEM jobs only pay more than teaching grade school because patriarchy!
/r/TheRedPill23/04/14 07:44 PM
1

The part about wonen not wanting us to solve their problems, and knowing certain problems are entirely weak emotion bs ---- too true. My LTR says this all the time, and (stupidly?) I coerce her to tell me about it, instead of being strong and doing my own thing. Do you recommend trying to avoid the complaint/discussion, but somehow cheering her up another way? How?
/r/TheRedPill19/04/14 12:15 AM
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