noxiouslittleman Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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11	A lot of guys here are simply too insecure, too self-loathing, and too emotional to ever get into a heterosexual relationship. You assume that the women in these pill spaces are any better. They're not. Most of the men and women in here are too damaged to have actual relationships with.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/24 06:15 AM
2	The relationship zones chart explains how 'situationships' occur You're legitimately insane lmfao. You're either trolling at this point or you're actually crazy. Having some women that are good enough to fuck but that aren't good enough to marry is not treating women badly. It's simply men making the best of their circumstances. Again, I'm not a bad person, you're just delusional.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/24 06:06 PM
1	Why do red pillers completely leave out young women's preference when discussing "the wall" The wall talks about older women, not younger women. It also has nothing to do with whether or not women are willing to date older men. You're right that many younger women prefer dating men around their age (although this isn't true for all of them). However, this doesn't change the fact that as women get older, their attractiveness and desirability drops sharply and they get a lot less freebies an handouts because of the way that they look. They become invisible to society, just like the avera…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/24 06:02 PM
2	The "All women are 10's" phenomenon - How Male competition (overt) and female competition (covert) works and why female cooperation is leading women to delusion I haven’t rated a man using a numeric system like a psychopath once in my entire life. Good for you but other women rank men all the time. If not in a numerical way then definitely subconsciously Beauty is subjective and the standard of beauty changes and evolves throughout history. No it isn't. Men have always found the same features and fit bodies attractive. They also find pale to light tan skin attractive. This has been true throughout history. It isn't the media that drives male standards o…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/24 04:26 PM
2	The relationship zones chart explains how 'situationships' occur Men do think of some women as the women they'd fuck and some as women they'd date. They should be honest about it but at the end of the day, if a woman doesn't want to be on some man's fuck list she should be more realistic about the kind of men she can get relationships from and screen better. I am not a bad person, you're just bitter.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/24 04:18 PM
1	The relationship zones chart explains how 'situationships' occur Oh you can hate me all you'd like I don't really care but women are to blame for their own choices.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/24 04:17 PM
1	The "All women are 10's" phenomenon - How Male competition (overt) and female competition (covert) works and why female cooperation is leading women to delusion Beauty isn't subjective. There's subjective variation but it's largely objective. A beautiful woman is considered beautiful by most men and a obese woman is considered ugly by most men. The same is true for women rating men. Women can say they're 10s as a fuck you but no man's gonna buy that. We're just laughing at those women. It isn't negging or rage baiting to ask someone where they stand and yes your value extends beyond just physical appearance but here were ranking women on their looks alo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/24 06:10 AM
1	The relationship zones chart explains how 'situationships' occur Men don't lie. Some men lie. Some women also lie. Im not attacking women, I'm telling women that they're responsible for their own choices. Stop blaming an entire gender cause you failed to choose correctly. Don't be a female incel.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/24 06:01 AM
1	The relationship zones chart explains how 'situationships' occur You sound bitter and angry cause you weren't able to choose correctly. That's not the fault or problem of other men. If we're to treat women like grown adults then they bear the responsibility of their own choices.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/24 05:59 AM
1	The relationship zones chart explains how 'situationships' occur You're being rather hysterical right now. I never lied. Yes some men will date women for years just to have sex with no intention of committing to them. So screen these men out and choose better. It's not the fault of all men that you're making bad choices. I am not a bad person ?? I never said that i do this. These men are bad people for lying, sure but it's also women's fault for choosing such men. You want women to be treated like adults yet to bear no responsibility or consequences for the c…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/24 04:23 AM
0	The relationship zones chart explains how 'situationships' occur I'm not lying. I'm telling it to you how it is. Women are the gatekeepers of sex and men are the gatekeepers of relationships so if men are leading you on or being wishy washy, don't get with such men. Women are adults with agency and choice and its not the fault of the rest of us men that they're making shit choices. No women get used cause they make stupid choices. There's a lot of great men that don't lie to women and don't use them and the women that date these men are neither getting used n…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/24 04:19 AM
2	The relationship zones chart explains how 'situationships' occur Are these men sexually assaulting these women? No, they're not. These women are choosing to be with men that use them for sex instead of being with men that will value them for relationships so yeah, it kinda is women that are the problem. Unless of course you think that grown women are incapable of choosing who to sleep with or get into relationships with? That seems kinda misogynistic and patronizing but idk.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/24 03:03 AM
0	Which gender do you think treats the other gender worse, on average, in modern western society, and why? Men definitely have it worse. Not only are a lot of women comfortable openly attacking men, they're bitter and misandrist in a way that I've not seen from men. They openly share misandrist tiktoks and videos but will berate any man (and rightfully so) that supports Andrew Tate. They will shut down any male opinions on women's issues or biology because "men can't presume to know more than women, about what women go through" but at the same time they make assertions and assumptions about male biol…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/24 03:01 AM
3	The relationship zones chart explains how 'situationships' occur A man having a job doesn't automatically make him is a good partner. I think what happens to many women is that they find men who don't contribute enough to the relationship. I agree. However, the article that we were talking about, while bemoaning the lack of good male partners, was only talking about the professional or career achievements of the single women in question. A career or professional achievements don't make women good partners either. In fact, men care less about a woman's career …	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/03/24 12:33 PM
4	The relationship zones chart explains how 'situationships' occur The article you linked is mostly about women who are either happily single, or chose to be single instead of with the wrong partner, but society is putting pressure on them to be in a relationship. Most women lie about why they're single. They either failed to find the kind of man that they wanted or the men they wanted, didn't want them. So they cope and lie that it's their choice to remain single. Ive spoken to single women in their 30s, 40s and even 50s and on the surface they act like being …	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/03/24 05:45 AM
1	The relationship zones chart explains how 'situationships' occur Yeah that was rude of me so I deleted it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/03/24 09:09 PM
3	The relationship zones chart explains how 'situationships' occur It's as you've stated in the second part of your comment. That's your anecdotal experience. Of course highly educated, attractive women without children who work hard and who have never online dated or slept around will have an easier time finding options in their 30s. However, for most women there's a drop off in male interest after 30 and this gets worse as time goes on. https://www.abc.net.au/news/2018-04-24/the-truth-about-being-single-after-30/9686840	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/03/24 07:01 PM
3	The relationship zones chart explains how 'situationships' occur We're talking about straight relationships. No one cares about what the lgbt crowd do. Most gay relationships have significant age gaps anyway. Most women are straight and aren't looking for lesbians.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/03/24 06:57 PM
1	The relationship zones chart explains how 'situationships' occur We're talking about straight relationships. No one cares what dykes do. Most LGBT relationships have significant age gaps anyway.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/03/24 06:56 PM
2	The relationship zones chart explains how 'situationships' occur Definitely they don't face the consequences for their actions till they hit 30 and are alone, then their world crumbles.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/03/24 05:08 PM
14	The relationship zones chart explains how 'situationships' occur A lot of women are delusional. That's the answer to your post. They love to believe that they're special and that the man won't commit because he's scared of commitment or that he isn't mature enough yet or whatever other excuse they can come up with. It's the same reason why women stay in multi-year affairs with men who promise to leave their wives for her (they almost never do). The truth is simply that men will fuck and even date women that are objectively below them, just because it's low ma…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/03/24 02:43 AM
2	Modern men are trying to fill every gap " Toxic " men cause in romantic relationships with women You're putting too much thought into this. Who cares about what a fringe contingent of insane women want ? Just be yourself and stop pandering to women. While I do aftercare and I am affectionate towards the women I love, that is by choice. Not because I feel that I have to be. However, I only split the chores if we're splitting finances. If I'm bringing home a greater share of the income I will do less chores. If she has a problem with that she's free to leave, there's many other women that I c…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/03/24 01:54 AM
1	50/50 relationship are one sided benefiting only men Yeah women have a conceited view of themselves where they think that they're some sort of prize. Wipe off the makeup and the average woman actually looks worse than the average man. Then you have high rates of female obesity, a lack of femininity etc. Yeah most men irl have options and exercise them. I will agree with OP in one way - if a woman ends up with a man no other girl wanted, she’s probably not going to be happy with 50/50. A woman who ends up with a man that no other girl wants, is pro…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/03/24 04:56 AM
1	50/50 relationship are one sided benefiting only men Theres two problems with your premise 1)Men aren't attracted to most women. We're attracted to beautiful women. We just make do with what we can get because men are less hypergamous 2) Even if 50/50 relationships benefit only men, that's what women fought for. They wanted equality and well, now you've got it. 50/50 is the only future for relationships unless the woman is in the top 10% of women and can get a man that's willing to provide more than she does. There's no going back.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/24 07:10 PM
2	How do you feel about the fact that women are encouraged to do things in relationships that men aren't? If I'm seeing a woman, even in the early stages of the relationship and she's dating other men or worse has an fwb because she's that addicted to sex ? I'm definitely not going to take her seriously. She'll be nothing but an fwb for me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/03/24 06:41 AM
-4	Female Attraction Standards Nah women are a lot more susceptible to media manipulations and in this case, comparison. Sure, men may look at pretty celebrities and influencers and desire them but ultimately men will go for the women they can attract and be relatively happy. It's women who's self esteem get crushed by the plastic surgery laden influencers with face paint. It's women who see male celebrities and athletes and compare the man they're with to those men even though realistically? She could never get those men. It…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/03/24 12:40 AM
2	Redpill is very difficult for vast majority of women, it's heartless and cruel The red pill is nothing but a toolkit. How you use it is up to you. You can use it's strategies about dominance and maintaining frame to get casual sex, to get long term relationships or to keep a happy marriage. The red pill never preaches the abuse of women. It's simply about dominance and establishing your value in the eyes of women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/24 10:11 AM
1	Would you date a woman that slept with your friend before you were exclusive? He may not be calling her a cum receptacle because she had sex but rather because of the situation the OP describes where she let a scumbag have sex with her and then dump her while not even being in a relationship. I think that the women who have casual sex and let men fuck them with no emotional investment aren't setting themselves up to be respected.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/03/24 12:40 AM
1	A video of a group of girls dancing during Mardi Gras went viral on social media and provoked a strong reaction from some in manosphere. What are your thoughts on the controversy? That makes no sense. There are fundamental differences between those. Yeah there are but being mad about women dancing is not an rp trait. It's a incel one. Rp tells you to treat women how they are. Relationships for the good girls, sex for the bad ones. It doesn't tell you to get mad and rage about female behavior.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/03/24 12:02 AM
3	How big of a deal is politics in dating and the widening gender gap I don't really care about a woman's politics as much as I care about her personal views. Bipartisan politics aren't a great measure of a woman's values because both sides get a lot of things wrong. Im a moderate and i treat women how their personal views and values dictate that they want to be treated. If I meet fairly liberal women that are fine with hookup culture and the like then that's what I do with them. If I meet conservative women that want traditional relationships then that's what i d…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/03/24 11:36 AM
2	A video of a group of girls dancing during Mardi Gras went viral on social media and provoked a strong reaction from some in manosphere. What are your thoughts on the controversy? I'm a red piller. These women were just dancing and having fun. I can't see any of them dressed provocatively and I can't see any of them grinding up on men or any of that. The people whining in the comments sound more like blackpill incels than red pillers. The rp movement has been hijacked by in the incelosphere. If they were dancing in provocative clothing in a bar/pub or grinding on random men or taking their clothes off for beads as does happen in Mardi gras or were behaving like videos dur…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/03/24 11:28 AM
1	How should men interested in casual sex go about it? It's honestly not that hard. Just be romantic, charming and don't be overt in your sexual approach but flirty and playful instead. Practice flirting till you get good at it. The average man is capable of a lot. Theyve just stopped trying.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/03/24 11:21 AM
2	How should men interested in casual sex go about it? No, i never said anything about manipulating a woman or offering her a relationship. I said that women want an excuse for casual sex so they don't feel too slutty. Two, entirely different things.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/03/24 06:41 PM
3	Late bloomer men should absolutely not date younger women Older women typically have a ton of emotional and relationship baggage. They're unforgiving of inexperienced men and want a relationship and marriage from these men while having a lot more experience than the men in question. Dating them is absolutely not a good idea. Older women are fine for casual sex but late bloomers should seek younger women for relationships because they'd have similar levels of experience and from my personal experiences, Gen z women are a lot more forgiving of inexperien…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/03/24 11:49 AM
2	How should men interested in casual sex go about it? The women that are down for casual sex fuck just like men do. However, they have the need to rationalize it that men don't. You need to make her feel like she isn't a slut for having casual sex. Give her an excuse. It's why you invite a woman up for a nightcap, not sex. They need to feel desired and that sex was something that just happened, not the intention.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/03/24 09:00 AM
–	Why do women get upset that men watch porn? A man here. I watch porn, excessively so at times. I do view it as cheating though. I watch it right now because im single and my sex drive is rather high but when I'm in a relationship? I don't even touch that shit. The porn industry is very problematic for a whole host of reasons and I feel like watching porn is a betrayal of your partner.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/03/24 08:27 AM
1	Apparently women in your "friends circle" really dislike you hitting on them There may be a smattering of incels on the PPD sub. Most ppd men have a problem with relationship dynamics, not a lack of sexual availability.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/02/24 01:52 AM
1	Apparently women in your "friends circle" really dislike you hitting on them So ALL men who hit on women are ONLY hitting on women they are equal with? Including homeless meth-heads? No but barring a few extremes, men typically go for women that they can realistically get. Thus if ugly or average men are approaching a woman she's probably ugly or average herself. Women hate to be reminded of this fact. Online dating isn't representative of reality because online average women will get approached by really good looking men but they're only being used for sex. Those good l…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/02/24 09:31 PM
8	Apparently women in your "friends circle" really dislike you hitting on them That still doesn't mean that he'll do anything. If women are that scared of men they should stay at home and not interact with any male, ever.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/02/24 06:35 PM
16	Apparently women in your "friends circle" really dislike you hitting on them They honestly are.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/02/24 05:24 PM
23	Apparently women in your "friends circle" really dislike you hitting on them That's hysteria. Just because a man is stronger and hornier doesn't mean he'll do something. Your logic is the same one that racist Karen's employ when the cross the street to avoid a black man.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/02/24 05:24 PM
14	Apparently women in your "friends circle" really dislike you hitting on them A lot of women overestimate their looks, particularly when you include makeup in the equation. Being hit on by the men at their level brings them back down to reality. Men are a lot more realistic about where they stand and where women stand than are women. Women are totally delusional about it. If they weren't you wouldn't have so many below average women claiming they're a 10. Just to humor you I also Google average man and thats literally what average men look like. Remember average is across…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/02/24 05:23 PM
–	The fundamental problem that many men face Most of the truly misogynistic men that hate women, that want women to shut up, that demean and make fun of women are also the ones having a lot of sex with women because women are terrible judges of character and like doing stupid shit without considering the consequences. It's why abusive men are almost never single. Most men don't hate women or treat them badly it's a minority of shitty men that many women orbit for some reason.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/02/24 04:19 PM
–	Apparently women in your "friends circle" really dislike you hitting on them It's basically this. Women are a lot more shallow than men and they hate the idea of being with men they deem as unattractive because to them, if the unattractive man is hitting on them, then they too must be unattractive. This is more true of women that are average or below because it reminds them of where they actually are on the smv totem. Pretty women rarely have very negative reactions to even their unattractive friends hitting on them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/02/24 04:15 PM
1	Resources and casual sex A lot of men are kinda delusional and stupid. That's your answer. Resources do matter and can help you get access to better women but only if you're offering a ltr or a potential marriage to them. The only women that will care about resources for casual relationships are sex workers. Either direct sex workers who you'll pay for their time or indirect ones who you can take on a very fancy date and to a fancy hotel and then have sex with her. Either way it's prostitution.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/02/24 04:27 AM
1	If a man wouldn’t want the women in his life being in porn, then his feelings about porn are pretty anti-porn. They view their partners as objects for gratification and they view sex as a commodity.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/02/24 05:54 PM
5	A word for someone who struggles to get laid AND doesn't hate the opposite sex? Cause both men and women hate when men buck traditional gender roles. Feminism only allowed women to escape traditional gender roles, not men. Men are still expected to be confident masculine and strong extroverts that can charm women, acquire finances and will marry women when the time comes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/02/24 05:53 PM
1	Hypergamy Oh if you were just talking about male hypergamy and weren't chastising the action itself as being wrong then sure. It displays male hypergamy. Men on average are less hypergamous than women but are also perfectly capable of being hypergamous.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/02/24 05:51 PM
9	Hypergamy are they falling in the love with women their own age and attractiveness level? Sometimes they are. Sometimes they aren't. Either way, if it involves legal adults, why is that a problem? Unless we're assuming that adult women from other countries are mentally inferior and can't choose for themselves? The women in those countries may be hypergamous when pursuing these men but the men may nor necessarily be chasing these women for their age or level of attractiveness but simply because a lot of Am…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/02/24 10:54 AM
6	A word for someone who struggles to get laid AND doesn't hate the opposite sex? Yes it does and then people try to justify this disgust by assuming that the men that can't get laid must be misogynists or must not shower/take care of themselves. It goes a step further because even the men that don't want to have sex are labeled as misogynists and people act like there's something wrong with them. The term you're looking for is also incel. There's incels that are violent misogynsts and hate women there's incels that aren't. All incels get hated and labeled as misogynists beca…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/02/24 10:40 AM
1	If a man wouldn’t want the women in his life being in porn, then his feelings about porn are pretty anti-porn. People probably won't know. I mean >50% of the men that see hookers are married men or those in ltrs. You wouldn't know if someone consumes porn excessively, either. However, both groups have an unhealthy approach to sex and sexuality and reflect it onto their future partners.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/02/24 05:51 AM
2	Is it reasonable to expect monogamy Your girlfriend sounds abusive and she obviously does not want the same things that you want. There's no saving the relationship. She's already brought up threesomes and open relationships which indicates that she doesn't respect or love you enough and she watches porn and masturbates to the idea of other men and has crushes on other men. Just cut your losses and leave. Monogamy is worth it with a few women. Unfortunately, many women are those that it isn't worth being monogamous with so don't t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/02/24 05:39 AM
2	Women preferring to stay single because they don't feel attracted to average men says a lot about their unrealistic expectations You're talking about metrics like academic success or longevity. I'm talking about what men actually find desirable which is something that average women lack. They're just as bad if not worse than their male counterparts. They'd be dead weights in relationships too and the only reason men are still willing to get with these women is desperation, not desire.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/02/24 02:46 AM
3	Women preferring to stay single because they don't feel attracted to average men says a lot about their unrealistic expectations Fair but average women arent really any better. They're obese drug addled single mothers that have been around the block a few times. In both genders, the average fucking sucks.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/02/24 06:24 PM
–	Being afraid to ask women personal questions is beta Not the exact number no but I can tell if someone's experienced or inexperienced and that's enough. I pass no judgement on their choices I just adjust what I seek with them accordingly.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/02/24 06:21 PM
1	If a man wouldn’t want the women in his life being in porn, then his feelings about porn are pretty anti-porn. Well yeah sure. I can agree that men that consume porn excessively or that pay for sex workers have something wrong with them and aren't attractive partners either.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/02/24 06:12 PM
–	Being afraid to ask women personal questions is beta Honestly ? I don't really bother asking them their body counts cause a high body count isn't a deal breaker for me, it just changes the mental column in which I categorize the woman. If she's inexperienced and hasn't slept around? I'll consider a serious relationship with her. If she has slept around or has ever done hookups or sex work or any of that stuff? I'll just keep has as a fuckbuddy and nothing more. Don't bother asking them for body counts it'll get revealed to you over time from the w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/02/24 06:08 PM
–	If a man wouldn’t want the women in his life being in porn, then his feelings about porn are pretty anti-porn. It isn't really about degeneracy. It's that people that do sex work and porn are just deeply unattractive as potential partners and/or relatives and everyone looks down on them. Thus most men that have options don't want to be seen with such women. The kind of men that chase these women are typically those that have no other options.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/02/24 04:41 AM
–	If a man wouldn’t want the women in his life being in porn, then his feelings about porn are pretty anti-porn. I disagree. Men see porn the way that college educated, white collar women see blue collar workers. We consume porn but we don't want the pornstar as our wives or girlfriends or mothers and sisters, the same way that white collar women may pay a plumber to unclog their pipes (no pun intended) or a sanitation worker to collect their garbage but they aren't interested in dating or marrying the plumber or sanitation worker and nor do they want their sons or brothers to become them. This doesn't mea…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/02/24 03:56 AM
1	"more young men struggle because young women are content with staying single" -- except women are actually less single. You believe In a blue pilled reality so I'm not surprised that you're partial to flights of fancy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/02/24 07:35 AM
2	"more young men struggle because young women are content with staying single" -- except women are actually less single. Women are shown to consistently lie on surveys, even anonymous ones. Thus data from women isn't always reliable.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/02/24 08:22 PM
1	Almost didn’t believe this when I found it on the shelf This woman 100% fucks her dog	/r/MensRights	28/01/24 02:35 AM