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| 11 | My abusive ex sent me a cashiers check (via my mother) for 30,000 dollars. What do I do? (Besides cash it)My strongest recommendation is that as additional penance and reparations, your abusive ex make it his life's mission to convince every other abuser who has made that speech that attaching a $30,000 check to it is the only way to truly show sincerity. As for you...there is nothing for you to do but figure out the smartest way to grow that money. Invest, or learn to invest, and this check will benefit you in multiple ways. But if, as I suspect, you're wondering if you now should/can/are obligated… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/21 12:48 PM |
| 0 | There is no way a man can prove he hasn't committed marital rape.How about you keep your hands of asses that don’t belong to you? And keep your dick to yourself. | /r/MGTOW2 | 08/05/20 12:55 AM |
| -3 | There is no way a man can prove he hasn't committed marital rape.If only you actually felt that way about rape. Pathetic. And you mean vindictive, not vehement. Idiot. | /r/MGTOW2 | 08/05/20 12:53 AM |
| -1 | There is no way a man can prove he hasn't committed marital rape.And for the entire history of ever, rape has been ruining a woman’s life, career, and societal value, and once sullied or damaged, there’s no coming back. I honestly think the down voters on my prior post have no idea what it takes to get a rape prosecuted and how much stands in the way of it. I will choose to believe that if they did know, they would realize that the number of innocent men who have lost their careers due to reckless false accusers is a) minuscule, and b) the vast exception even… | /r/MGTOW2 | 07/05/20 10:02 PM |
| 9 | It is funny that the second you remove the rules, this sub becomes a male dominated place.Banter is a challenge with humorless, self-hating misanthropes who don't even know the sun is out, ever. Or shrewd insights like, "rape is just, like, an opinion, man." You want witty repartee, come ready. Most of what passes for banter in these sorts of forums translates to a bunch of snort-laughs and missed high-fives: "oh, yeah, well...roast beef!! hahaha hahaha a!!!!!" [Insert Tom Brady high-five miss gif] | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/20 06:11 PM |
| 1 | Accurate representation of online Feminism.It's your obsession with penetration that is the problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/20 06:01 PM |
| 2 | There is no way a man can prove he hasn't committed marital rape.You are mistaken. And criminal law describes criminal matters. A violation of a human body is a potentially criminal matter. But it's just like someone taking a bill from a stack of 20s on my desk - it either is or is not a criminal act (theft) depending on whether I said they could (consent to taking my property). Or maybe I said yes, please, kick me. But then I don't like it anymore, so I say stop. If you keep going, that's battery. Consent given then withdrawn. Anything after the withdrawal i… | /r/MGTOW2 | 07/05/20 05:58 PM |
| 2 | Lost track of my future and life.You may or may not have an interest, but Stoicism and Buddhism overlap in a number of essential ways, so you might find inspiration there as well. Siddhartha by Hermann Hesse, or many of several books by Thich Nhat Hahn are very good. A lot of men seem to like Tolle or Cabat-Zinn also. | /r/MGTOW2 | 07/05/20 05:41 PM |
| 1 | There is no way a man can prove he hasn't committed marital rape.You really are confusing consrnt with proof of consent, among a million other thjngs. I....guess I understand why getting some non- consensual pum would be enough of a driver for you to advocate turning both the history of law and the history of language upside down and inside out, but it is really just so wrong it's silly. | /r/MGTOW2 | 07/05/20 05:30 PM |
| 2 | There is no way a man can prove he hasn't committed marital rape.Dude, consent is an actual thing. You sign papers at a ducks office or put down your signature when you pick up your meds at a pharmacy. You agree to a loan. There are such things as property rights, and absent your consent to huge it away, it us yours and no one else has rights to it (barring outliers like eminent domain, etc, but let's not get distracted). Consent is a legal EVENT. The issue, such as it is, is what constitutes consent for a specific purpose. Consent, agreement, contract (const… | /r/MGTOW2 | 07/05/20 05:27 PM |
| 2 | There is no way a man can prove he hasn't committed marital rape.So when my date enters my body when I said no, it's not rape because we were on a date? What if it were your mom? "In their favor"? Sex is not supposed to be oppositional. Your comment describes it completely as such. Perhaps that mindset is at the root of the problem. Your default seems to be that you (men) are entitled by default to get in inside a women's body, rather than understanding that your "rights" to her body are secondary to her rights to its integrity and treatment. You have no busi… | /r/MGTOW2 | 07/05/20 05:15 PM |
| 3 | There is no way a man can prove he hasn't committed marital rape.Consent is an act. | /r/MGTOW2 | 07/05/20 05:01 PM |
| -4 | There is no way a man can prove he hasn't committed marital rape.Stats, please. Guarantee you the number of actual rapes not reported or prosecuted or resulting in jail time exceeds by an exponential factor the number of false rape convictions made on the basis of zero evidence. And testimony of a victim is potential evidence in EVERY criminal prosecution. Jurors/judges give it the amount of weight they feel it deserves, as they do with all evidence. Defendants are, likewise, always permitted to testify. | /r/MGTOW2 | 07/05/20 04:59 PM |
| 5 | Accurate representation of feminismPlease do not cape. Women don't need that BS protection from one of the LEAST likely sources of violence. There have always been weirdo men (not trans women, nor fake trans women) who think a women's bathroom is a great place to find some victims. I asked for citations that that has increased, and that any such increase is even remotely related to the advent of unisex bathrooms or wider recognition of transgenderism. You haven't provided anything I asked for because it doesn't exist. Of course m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/20 04:54 PM |
| 3 | Accurate representation of feminismPlease provide reputable citations showing a scientifically validated causal (or even correlative) increase in violence by men against women in women's bathrooms in the last [5] years. Please also show validated evidence that the men committing this type of violence were bona fide transgender persons, or the offenders stated that they were not transgender but that these days they are welcomed in women's restrooms. And for those groups, please show evidence tgat the offenders were otherwise funct… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/20 04:18 PM |
| 2 | Women are allowed to have sex with anyone and as many times as you want, but.....Lol. Nope, Steve, Paul & Jim are getting plenty, too. But let's say they weren't. So what? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/20 03:58 PM |
| 1 | Does competition for women play a role in racial and ethnic tensions?Funny - when I read your first sentence I was about to type that you needed to read some John Locke! But you seem to be confusing and conflating several things. Going back to the topic, you've said [white][men] are justified in not wanting white women to date/procreate with other races. Implicit in that is that 1) it's any white man's (or white men's, in general) business what white women do, and that 2) those women should heed the view of the men, and 3) that simply because (assuming true) thos… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/20 02:54 AM |
| 2 | Does competition for women play a role in racial and ethnic tensions?No. Living amorally/of the id alone is the bottom of the barrel, not “above” anything. Being able to make superior choices based on a moral framework is one of the distinctions between humans and animals (generally speaking; some animals do bond or otherwise exercise “higher” sensibilities). You’re trying to elevate (questionable) urges that you use to justify amoral and immoral behavior above our better capabilities and tendencies. Jesus Christ, man, read some Enlightenment and Greek (for start… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/20 02:19 AM |
| 2 | Does competition for women play a role in racial and ethnic tensions?In other words, you think it’s completely reasonable and moral [for men/you] to be completely selfish in one’s views, and that the basest motivations are deserving of respect/should be followed, no matter that doing so is inherently harmful both to women and to races other than your own. Tremendous surprise. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/20 01:54 AM |
| 1 | A guy not wanting to date a girl with a high N-count is not neccessarily a sign of insecurityEr, of course. No one can force you to have a serious relationship...and I don't think anyone has suggested they should be able to.... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/20 12:55 PM |
| 1 | A guy not wanting to date a girl with a high N-count is not neccessarily a sign of insecurityTwo people are drowning. One wants to take their lover down with them. My point is not that people who are insecure in a relationship* are terrible people. I don't believe that. But I do know that irrational insecurity let run rampant is a toxic spiral downward and can make that insecure person full-on dangerous. Physically and emotionally. They can be one dangerous to the very person who loves them more than anyone else. And I want to clarify I am talking about a specific insecurity about a spe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/20 05:05 PM |
| 2 | An 'innocent' looking high n woman has more RMV than a 'slutty' looking low n womanNice to meet you! Guy I'm currently seeing got an impression based on my career, education, presentation, intellect, etc., that my count was something like 2, maybe a few more (we had not gotten very physical at this point, my choice). I had to laugh bc my actual number is actually quite high, even for my age (40s) - I'm a bit of a libertine (in the most positive aspects) and very comfortable with my sexuality and sexuality in general. I'm also very tasteful, smart, attractive, and feminine. I'm… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/20 04:38 PM |
| 2 | A guy not wanting to date a girl with a high N-count is not neccessarily a sign of insecurityNo one needs to lie. A woman can decide and state she doesn't share that and can give reasons or not. A man can handle that or not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/20 04:04 PM |
| 1 | A guy not wanting to date a girl with a high N-count is not neccessarily a sign of insecuritySeems a strange reach, but okay. If a person has severe social anxiety, it will have a negative impact on their life. Could even derail any chance of success, crush any social, interdependent, or career aspirations. Real damage. But it's primarily to themselves. The severely insecure mate does the same thing to their partner and to the relationship. They damage another person because of their own issues. It's not a double-standard. It's understanding that both are dysfunctional, but one doesn't … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/20 04:01 PM |
| 2 | A guy not wanting to date a girl with a high N-count is not neccessarily a sign of insecurityAnd what are those volumes? An insecure partner is a nightmare. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/20 03:53 PM |
| 4 | Q4W - Don't you get it?That's mainly due to under-30s thinking they're the first people to have a thought. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/20 03:51 PM |
| 6 | An 'innocent' looking high n woman has more RMV than a 'slutty' looking low n womanPeople really ought to have to include their ages with their comments on this kind of thread. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/20 02:55 PM |
| 3 | Q4W Do men (specifically 'high value') ask about your 'N count' ?My point is that you're running scared from phantoms, and though I certainly hope it doesn't lead you down a dark path, it seems to have done so to many men. My other point is that in this fear, you're seeking to insulate yourself by relying on faux-data like "if a woman has had x partners, she cannot properly mate," which is not science and conveniently omits the question of the man's body count. So you're seeking security in amade-up information created by unhappy people who either had an unfo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/20 01:34 AM |
| 2 | Q4W Do men (specifically 'high value') ask about your 'N count' ?Ah, so just bitterness and fear? 😉 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/20 12:07 AM |
| 2 | Q4W Do men (specifically 'high value') ask about your 'N count' ?"Living off guys" - that this is your big worry suggests either your head is out of order, or that you have faulty discernment in the women you date. But I do of course agree that understanding past relationship dynamics is interesting and usually informative. Just mostly not for the examples you gave. I do think you should disclose your worries about her being a gold-digger and/or slut, though - it's only fair she understands your state of mind as well! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/20 12:02 AM |
| 1 | Q4W Do men (specifically 'high value') ask about your 'N count' ?I don't have to project, sweetheart. I read and talk to misguided man-children enough to identify a weird psychosis of insecurity that they grab onto to soothe anxiety and feelings of inadequacy, facts be damned. But you do you. Create your own reality by moving forward in life with these twisted views. Undoubtedly you'll find what you're looking for. But I suspect by the time you get to that point, your boyfriends will mostly have outgrown this juvenile delusion and then you'll realize that you… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/20 11:36 PM |
| 1 | Q4W Do men (specifically 'high value') ask about your 'N count' ?Not feelings, dipstick. Objective data and experience, neither if which you have. Nope, all you've got is your little group of boyfriends screaming about how all the wimmenz get everything and don't offer anything. Except an unpierced hymen, lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/20 11:32 PM |
| 1 | Q4W Do men (specifically 'high value') ask about your 'N count' ?Neither. And don't tell me what I have to pick, because you're in over your head, child. As a highly educated, successful woman who has never depended on a man financially and who has been married and divorced, and who has been privy to the inside scoop on many divorces of others, I know exactly what I'm talking about. This bitter man trend is so tired. Y'all don't bring to the table nearly what you think you do. The male-created legal system overwhelming favors men. And if you personally know o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/20 11:28 PM |
| 1 | Q4W Do men (specifically 'high value') ask about your 'N count' ?"Sluts" "guys" Says it all right there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/20 11:13 PM |
| 3 | Q4W Do men (specifically 'high value') ask about your 'N count' ?"Especially for the man.". Yeah, right. I hear the voice of either bitterness or inexperience or both. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/20 11:07 PM |
| 1 | Q4W Do men (specifically 'high value') ask about your 'N count' ?I was speaking solely in terms of the body count. Not delusional in the least. Likely have been around longer than you. And most men I spend time with (both older and younger than I) understand that there will and should be things that aren't described in full detail. I don't care about your wild 22nd year of life, or the drought between 23 and 30. Unless there was trauma/things that formed or helped shape who you are, or some maladjustment on your part, those things are irrelevant to today. Esp… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/20 11:05 PM |
| 2 | Q4W Do men (specifically 'high value') ask about your 'N count' ?Hold on a sec - I can't see, because my eyes just rolled out of my head. Don't judge a woman if you're creating the very situation that you don't approve of. Because you're creating it. And to some people, sex often suggests a relationship, or a path to one. So don't be a jerk and exploit someone who likes you unless and until you know how they are about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/20 09:04 PM |
| 1 | Q4W Do men (specifically 'high value') ask about your 'N count' ?Hopefully women will stop disclosing so much, since so many men get insecure and judgmental. All you have to do is ask if she has been safe and say that her specific numbers don't matter to you and that you respect her. Period, end of story. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/20 08:52 PM |
| 2 | Q4W Do men (specifically 'high value') ask about your 'N count' ?OK. So don't sleep with a woman until you've hit that 6-month mark. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/20 08:49 PM |
| 23 | Q4W Do men (specifically 'high value') ask about your 'N count' ?A lady never tells, and a gentleman never asks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/20 07:39 PM |
| 3 | Ladies, don't be modest.This is excellent. I want to add: don't say "sorry." I don't mean don't apologize when you've done something wrong - obviously, everyone should know to do that. I mean, don't apologize when you express a preference; don't apologize when they violate a boundary and you object; don't apologize when you had to go do something so didn't get to their text until later; don't apologize when you have constraints and can't get together the minute they want to. I've been making a conscious effort to remov… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/20 02:42 PM |
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