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Social Issuesnpcomp42/r/MensRights30/03/21 02:39 AM
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Discriminationnpcomp42/r/MensRights31/05/22 09:18 PM
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This woman needs to read The Empathy Gap. Women receive a lot more empathy than men do. Maybe she should put some effort into developing some compassion for men.
/r/MensRights25/09/22 02:38 AM
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This is not unusual.
/r/MensRights19/09/22 11:32 PM
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Unfortunately, mainstream feminism bears no resemblance to the feminism you describe. Mainstream feminism has rejected equality in favor of female chauvinism. Not blaming you nor doubting your sincerity, but that’s the world I experience. BTW, “allowing men to be vulnerable” — ain’t gonna happen, because displaying vulnerability kills any sexual attraction a woman may feel for a man. She may be the kindest, most caring person in the world, but nobody gets to choose what turns them on — millions …
/r/MensRights06/09/22 01:21 PM
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Men don't show emotion, specifically about things that hurt them, because there's no faster way to turn off a woman's sexual attraction. She may be the kindest, most empathetic person in the world, but millions of years of evolution have programmed her sexual response to go cold at any sign of weakness in a potential mate.
/r/MensRights03/09/22 06:04 PM
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Even decent women who wouldn’t dream of using your vulnerabilities against you will lose respect for you and sexual interest in you if they find out about your vulnerabilities. Found that out the hard way. So yeah, I’m playing it “emotionally unavailable” from here on out.
/r/MensRights01/09/22 10:04 PM
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No problem.
/r/MensRights30/08/22 02:19 PM
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The reason feminists say we live in a patriarchy is because they refuse to accept that the world has changed and we are no longer living in the 1890s.
/r/MensRights28/08/22 03:06 AM
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That raises the obvious question: why aren't women charged with rape in analogous situations where the woman didn't wear an IUD, or the man didn't give verbal consent before she started sucking him off or mounted his erection, or the man was intoxicated and argues that he wouldn't have had sex with her if he was sober?
/r/MensRights28/08/22 02:47 AM
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Potiphars's wife syndrome?
/r/MensRights27/08/22 08:44 PM
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I think the appropriate term would be femsplaining when a woman does it.
/r/MensRights27/08/22 08:42 PM
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What is a non-forcible rape?
/r/MensRights27/08/22 08:40 PM
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I think it would be a competitive disadvantage to limit the pool of potential employees that way.
/r/MensRights27/08/22 08:33 PM
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Wrong. A man, testosterone level over 1000 last time it was checked. The best oral sex I ever had was from a divorced woman. Of the dozen or so women I’ve bedded, the only virgin was my ex-wife on our wedding night, and she was pretty uptight about sex in some ways.
/r/MensRights26/08/22 01:25 AM
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There’s nothing misogynistic about preferring a virgin, but there’s nothing universal about it either. I prefer a woman who’s enthusiastic about sex.
/r/MensRights25/08/22 10:21 PM
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WRT the comment on men and war -- in World War I, feminists in Britain were handing out white feathers (signifying cowardice) to any man who didn't volunteer to fight -- despite the fact that these feminists would never dream of putting their own lives at risk in battle. And that's the FIRST world war, not the second, so we're talking here about an absolutely pointless war that had nothing to do with protecting the country. And this feminist hypocrisy is a "creation of the patriarchy"?
/r/MensRights24/08/22 09:35 PM
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The problem is when feminism changed from a quest for equality to an ideology of chauvinism and supremacism. The original feminist goals were long since achieved.
/r/MensRights18/08/22 08:54 PM
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Go to YouTube and check out some of Caleb Jones' videos. He talks about getting a location-independent income and escaping the collapsing U.S.
/r/MensRights12/08/22 02:03 PM
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Yes, the article is kind of condescending. But the fact remains that you can't change anyone else's attitudes and behaviors, you can only change your own. If many women have unrealistic expectations, well, that's the reality you have to deal with, and your time is better spent figuring out how to most effectively deal with that reality than burning with resentment. This is true regardless of how justified that resentment may be.
/r/MensRights12/08/22 02:00 PM
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With regards to the suicide stats, what matters is actual suicides. "Attempted" suicides are widely regarded as a cry for help. Men don't do cries for help; they know that none will be forthcoming.
/r/MensRights09/08/22 04:16 AM
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Easy solution: he has sex with her every three months, and has sex with other women the other 12 weeks of the quarter. Everybody gets what they want.
/r/MensRights01/08/22 11:53 PM
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Or... she loses interest because he allowed her to boss him around, and women aren't sexually attracted to weak men.
/r/MensRights30/07/22 11:03 PM
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None of that helps if you have a judge who is accustomed to giving the woman sole physical custody and is not inclined to change their ways.
/r/MensRights30/07/22 11:02 PM
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A better question would be to ask the woman, "If you're not interested in sex, why should you care if I have sex with someone else?" I actually know of one couple who are intensely devoted to each other, want to spend their lives together, but have no sexual interest in each other and so only have sex with other people. (They're a gay man and a lesbian.)
/r/MensRights30/07/22 11:00 PM
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Are you sure you're not vulnerable to your situation being considered a common law marriage or something similar? Ever heard of "palimony"?
/r/MensRights28/07/22 06:39 PM
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Drop her like a hot potato. Would you expect a woman to stick by you if you were constantly telling her how much you hate women? Would you expect a black man to be OK with a "friend" who was constantly telling him how much he hates blacks?
/r/MensRights12/07/22 03:41 PM
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It revolves arounds Jones' concept of the "Alpha Male 2.0" -- a man who doesn't let others control his life and likewise doesn't try to control anyone else. An important part of this is outcome independence and avoiding "oneitis" -- not being dependent in any way, neither financially nor emotionally, on any single person or other entity.
/r/MensRights08/07/22 02:11 PM
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For comparison, I've been dating a middle-aged woman whose mother died three YEARS ago. She's still grieving, still cries about it from time to time.
/r/MensRights08/07/22 12:38 AM
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I asked myself: would I rather be alone for the rest of my life, or continue in this marriage for the rest of my life? When I realized I would rather be alone, I decided it was time for a divorce.
/r/MensRights08/07/22 12:35 AM
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Get Caleb Jones' book _The Unchained Man_ and read it. Even if you disagree with parts of it, you'll find a lot of useful stuff there.
/r/MensRights08/07/22 12:32 AM
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Allegedly abusive husbands. Murderers are not known for being scrupulously honest.
/r/MensRights09/06/22 02:35 AM
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Now let's see if enforcement is as even-handed as the law.
/r/MensRights09/06/22 02:29 AM
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Will boards also be required to have at least 40% males also, or will it be the usual double standard?
/r/MensRights07/06/22 08:49 PM
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Empathy gap. Women get empathy, men get sneers.
/r/MensRights02/06/22 08:55 PM
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They are correct in claiming that this is a setback for victims of domestic violence -- Heard STILL has not even been charged with assault.
/r/MensRights02/06/22 04:44 PM
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Murder? Which song is that?
/r/MensRights31/05/22 09:32 PM
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I used to be Mormon. On Mother's Day there would always be several talks (given by men from the congregation) lauding the mothers. On Father's Day the corresponding talks (given by women from the congregation) would always focus on telling the men they weren't good enough as fathers.
/r/MensRights31/05/22 09:02 PM
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Or old enough to have grown up before “the man is always wrong” got embedded in the culture.
/r/MensRights24/05/22 09:37 PM
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“we encourage young boys to be sexual” ??? Where is this coming from? Young boys? If you’re talking about men being more sexually assertive, that’s because we have to be. Women, for the most part, refuse to expose themselves to the social risk of being the one to take the initiative in the courtship dance, with its accompanying dangers of being rejected or misinterpreting cues and going too far. It’s ironic that we’re told that women are more empathetic and better at people skills, yet it is men…
/r/MensRights13/05/22 03:50 AM
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When someone tried to use the “incel” slur against me I just did a quick count and remarked that I could call a dozen up-close-and-personal witnesses to testify that I am not celibate. 😆
/r/MensRights07/05/22 09:07 PM
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Compared to the alternative of counting them as 5/5ths.
/r/MensRights04/05/22 08:20 PM
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A poll: who thinks that men who were circumcised as infants should be able to sue their parents and the doctor who carried out the abortion?
/r/MensRights04/05/22 08:13 PM
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Only for the purpose of determining representation in Congress. That limited the influence of Southern states.
/r/MensRights04/05/22 08:04 PM
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Showing weakness or lack of confidence has never been attractive to women at any point in history. And "show [your] emotions" generally doesn't mean showing it when you are happy, it means opening up about the things that are troubling you, the problems you are facing, your fears and doubts, etc. That runs counter to what women want in a man: someone who is confident, competent, has his act together, etc.
/r/MensRights06/04/22 08:11 PM
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“I want men to be able to show their emotions”. Not gonna happen. Men don’t show their emotions because doing so reduces women’s sexual interest in them. And that’s not going to change because nobody gets to choose what turns them on and what does not. I don’t condemn women for this, but I wish they would acknowledge it instead of blaming men’s unwillingness to share their emotions on “toxic masculinity”.
/r/MensRights04/04/22 02:06 PM
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All I want is for you to show the same consideration for the rights and welfare of men that you do for women. Get into the habit of imagining the sexes reversed and notice when that changes your feelings about a situation.
/r/MensRights04/04/22 01:59 PM
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You should file an EEOC complaint — hostile work environment based on your sex.
/r/MensRights21/03/22 12:53 AM
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Men are obligated to be the breadwinner because women demand it of them. No woman wants to marry a man who is not capable of being at least the primary source of income for the family. They want the option of work and career, but not the responsibility.
/r/MensRights28/02/22 02:53 PM
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Look to history for examples. In WWI feminists handed out white feathers signifying cowardice to men who did not enlist… despite the fact that they themselves would never for a moment consider enlisting.
/r/MensRights24/02/22 11:15 PM
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OK, that's valid grounds for criticism.
/r/MensRights23/02/22 06:12 PM
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Here's the elephant in the room: Men commit violent crime at 4 times the per capita rate as women. Blacks commit violent crime at 4 times the per capita rate as whites. We understand that the latter statistic is not justification for assuming someone has malicious intent just because they're black, but in our misandric society it's OK to assume someone has malicious intent just because they're male.
/r/MensRights23/02/22 06:11 PM
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The usual anti-male bigotry.
/r/MensRights23/02/22 06:05 PM
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Merely stating that conscription is constitutional doesn't make it so. Here's the Thirteenth Amendment: "Neither slavery nor involuntary servitude, except as a punishment for crime whereof the party shall have been duly convicted, shall exist within the United States, or any place subject to their jurisdiction." If you are drafted and refuse to serve you get sent to prison. Thus, it is involuntary servitude.
/r/MensRights23/02/22 06:03 PM
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And? Two wrongs don't make a right. The only thing I see to complain about here is that he failed to also block the male draft.
/r/MensRights23/02/22 05:58 PM
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csmonitor.com/USA/Po... "making everyone register" is going in the wrong direction. We have a 13th Amendment that outlaws involuntary servitude, and if the Supremes were honest they would have long since ruled conscription and the Selective Service to be unconstitutional.
/r/MensRights23/02/22 05:02 AM
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Ad hominem. If you have a problem with what he said, address THAT. A mature person understands that his allies can speak nonsense and his enemies can speak truth.
/r/MensRights23/02/22 04:58 AM
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Despite this claim, it used to be the norm that fathers got custody, as they were the ones with greater financial resources to care for the children. I don't believe the claim that 91% of father don't even file for custody, or at least I think it is misleading. I tried to get shared custody but when it got down to mediation both my attorney and the mediator himself told me that no matter what the custody evaluators said, this judge was just going to give my ex full physical custody, because that…
/r/MensRights22/02/22 09:02 PM
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Nah, my experience is that only about half will say that. The other half are on pretty good terms with their ex.
/r/MensRights23/09/21 11:00 PM
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and she pulled it off Shit, you weren't kidding about problems with teeth, speed, and tugs!
/r/MensRights23/09/21 10:52 PM
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95% of workplace deaths are men. Men die by suicide at 3-5 times the rate of women. 95% of those killed by cops are men. 2.3 times as many men are homeless as women. Misandry — specifically, a callous disregard for the lives and welfare of men — contributes to all of these.
/r/MensRights23/09/21 01:45 AM
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Not really. The one girl was all worried about her phone, but didn't care that they had just killed a man. No remorse whatsoever. She just casually stepped over the dying man in her haste to retrieve her phone. This says to me she has no conscience, and combined with her proclivity for violence this makes her a dangerous person to ever let loose on society. The death penalty in this case would be like putting down a rabid dog.
/r/MensRights07/04/21 01:20 AM
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Couldn't ask for a better demonstration of how little our society values male lives.
/r/MensRights07/04/21 01:12 AM
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Now multiply that by 50 for all the men who cross the street, slow down, or quickly pass by the woman because they’re afraid they may make her nervous.
/r/MensRights25/03/21 05:30 PM
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Just remember this: your value as a human being does not depend on her approval.
/r/MensRights21/03/21 08:00 PM
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If you make the argument that ‘not all men’, We shouldn't use the phrase "not all men", as that implies there are only a few exceptions; a more accurate phrase would be "not most men".
/r/MensRights21/03/21 07:51 PM
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Blaming things like discrimination against men on child custody issues on "the patriarchy". This despite the fact that the favoring of mothers over fathers only came about after the rise of feminism.
/r/MensRights21/03/21 07:45 PM
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