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That explains it
/r/MarriedRedPill30/09/15 02:55 AM
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Great post!
/r/MarriedRedPill30/09/15 02:51 AM
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Oh for fucks sake stop with the White Knighting
/r/MarriedRedPill30/09/15 02:38 AM
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Im fortunate that my wife is not really a GNO type of gal. However knowing AWALT should the day ever come where she wants GNO to some bar or a GNO weekend getaway - my response will be as follows: "Sure and my buddy and I will be headed up to the strip clubs in Montreal that night/weekend" On another note: I was out this past weekend for a drink with a buddy of mine at a brew pub. We sit down and directly across from us are two 40ish women - clearly enjoying a GNO. One is decent looking and clea…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/09/15 02:35 AM
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Asking for this is nothing short of a shit test writ large.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/09/15 01:32 AM
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I sacrificed continuously - for five years - and it led to scorn and ultimately divorce. I then learned to put my needs first. My new wife says Im the most selfish guy she's ever been in a relationship with. Despite that statement she's sweet (outside of shark week), loving and caters to my needs on a regular basis. One small example: she brings me coffee every morning , while I'm still in bed. When I say every - I mean 365 days. We are going on three years now. Selfishness works.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/09/15 01:22 AM
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It reminds me of an incident this past winter at church. A guy I know comes up to us with his wife in tow and asks bluntly what kind of special thing I did for my wife for Valentines Day. ( it was the day after VD) He says this while looking at my wife then at me. I sardonically laugh and then respond with " the key question is - what did she for me? Thats all that really matters" . His jaw dropped. My wife giggled and that was the end of that pathetic display of AMOGing
/r/MarriedRedPill28/09/15 07:24 PM
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This is a great time to take the bull by the horns and institute some leadership in the home. In my own marriage Ive dealt with the unattractiveness of my wifes weight. The beginning of this year she was at her worst.. In three years she had ballooned from a size 6 to a 10. The final straw was watching her leave for work one day and I looked at her ass and nearly cried. An ass I used to be able to hold in one hand was beginning to look like mashed potatoes. . So - I took over buying the grocerie…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/09/15 02:46 AM
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I chose it
/r/MarriedRedPill22/09/15 02:18 AM
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The Bible is full of Red Pill examples -especially Old Testatament. The story of Boaz and Ruth is as RP as it comes. Boaz was an Alpha to the core and Ruth knew it. She was extremely deferential and respectful to him, due to the strong frame he commanded.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/09/15 12:37 AM
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Well as they say; never let kids play with matches. In all honesty: your inner frame is not as strong as you think it is. You've learned a bunch of silly techniques and b/c a few worked you feel all swell inside and feel this need to preen around crowing about it to your wife. A real alpha doesn't say he just does.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/09/15 11:35 PM
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Thats a pretty good one.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/09/15 03:28 AM
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Thats my usual "apology" in the rare instances when I want to apologize. Those are also instances when the only thing I've hurt are her feelz. This time around it was a nasty shiv. But - none the less - 12 hrs later I still haven't apologized and she's acting her sweet self again. I don't mind being an asshole I just hate it when Im cruel .
/r/MarriedRedPill10/09/15 03:27 AM
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ha- classic! That will go in the AA mental rolodex
/r/MarriedRedPill10/09/15 03:22 AM
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well said
/r/MarriedRedPill10/09/15 03:21 AM
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I like it! I will try that one.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/09/15 12:54 AM
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Im 5'8" and by always maintaining an erect. straight posture Im often perceived to be taller than I am. Your advice about using the services of a tailor is a good one. I plan on starting .
/r/MarriedRedPill02/09/15 02:32 AM
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I find my wife is extremely horny for me during ovulation. However during the other 2 weeks in the month its different . She puts out -when I initiate, will even orgasm - but its fairly hum drum sex. Only rarely does she initiate during that time. It would be nice to change this - but sort of at a loss on how to make it happen.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/09/15 02:39 AM
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Good to hear. The portages don't intimidate me , its the sole paddling of my own boat while the other two guys are experts.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/08/15 02:21 AM
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You might appreciate the blog Danger & Play. He's a great writer and touches a lot on these subjects.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/08/15 12:37 PM
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Ive got my wife and I fasting one day a week. It does wonders for your health!
/r/MarriedRedPill26/08/15 12:33 PM
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I will say until you try it on a regular basis - its hard to comprehend how brutal it is.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/08/15 12:32 PM
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In my early 20s I lived for six years in a cabin in northern New England with no central heating, plumbing or electricity. Water came from a dug well that I had to chop ice out of everyday during the dead of winter. Shit in a outhouse and my only source of heat was wood. Fortunately I did have gas lights and fridge ( but not until the second year). My one takeaway: It made me extremely resilient and not afraid of hardship and deprivation- should it ever haunt this country. To this day I still ta…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/08/15 12:29 PM
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Thanks for sharing - I enjoyed it. I just got invited by two married guys in my church to go on a four day canoe trip in the Adirondacks. Its a hard core trip and these are two self sufficient guys. You have to paddle your own canoe. Its A bit out of my comfort zone ( due to the fact I don't have much canoe experience). Yet I said yes. Reading your story confirms I made the right decision. A man needs to get out of his cave once in a while. It does his soul and marriage /LTR well. Thats somethin…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/08/15 12:23 PM
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Good analysis
/r/askMRP15/08/15 04:29 AM
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Dude, You come across as a sad sack of shit who has already given up . No wonder your wife is always running away to hang out with Coxswain Stud and when she not - she's dreaming of him. Get your finger out of your ass, tighten up your game and use it to bring your woman back to you. Her hypergamy is in overdrive right now and your sitting there with your jaw agape while your about to be cuckolded and she's rubbing it right in your face. Any man with a sense of self worth would not stand idly by…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/08/15 03:52 AM
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You make a good point. It is funny how porn is still the major unacceptable vice, yet the one vice almost all men have engaged in. Personally, Ive found that after the times when I look at porn regularly ( 1-2 X p/week.) , I tend to be least satisfied and critical of my wife. This will happen even despite her putting out regularly and being an all around good wife. Truth be told, at 39 she just can't compete with the nude 23 year old hotties. The porn drives this home hard for me and tends to ma…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/08/15 03:20 AM
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Probably the biggest "Aha" moment I ever had in understanding AWALT was when I was single. I was beginning to tentatively understand and put into practice game. One night I was browsing through Match.com and saw a picture of a very cute little blonde. Right away I thought to myself " I want to fuck her - really badly" However I noticed on her profile it was prominently stated " I am not interested in a casual hook -up" I thought to myself - maybe for other guys but not for me, I am going to bed …
/r/MarriedRedPill08/08/15 03:06 AM
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Over a year ago, long before I began lurking here, I went through a period of about two - three months where she was rejecting me on a regular basis. It had never happened before, so it really shook my confidence. Like yourself, I began becoming anxious when thinking of initiation. I managed to overcome it, through becoming not only outcome independent externally but internally.I also refused to let this stand in the way of me getting sex. In short, I just kept moving forward. My rational at the…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/08/15 12:31 PM
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"Only when a man is old enough and experienced enough in his masculine craft to recognize quality is he ready to start building . . . and he may have to go through a lot of lumber before he gets there. " Spot on ! Sage advice for any young man looking to settle down too quickly Regarding the chalk line: That is a very important litmus test as to whether or not the woman you are dating has a spirit willing to follow the lead of her man. Prior to my second date with my now current wife I told her …
/r/MarriedRedPill07/08/15 02:54 AM
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In 2011 I got divorced. She left me. Her parting words were: " I feel as though Ive been living all these years with a teenage boy trapped in a mans body - suffering from a sex addiction" ( I was really, really into porn at the time) Her words stung ...BUT once I knew it was truly over I realized what I had been doing these past 30 + years was absolutely not working. I had nothing but a trail of broken relationships in my wake where the parting words were a variation of this same statement. So o…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/08/15 02:44 AM
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The church I attend now is almost there....the pastor is a Sigma type. Heavy alpha traits but doesn't try and be the AMOG, he instead just preaches Gods word and lets the Spirit do the work. He also won't allow women to be deacons or elders. There are a few alpha type members in the church -but not enough. There is a real environment of trust, openness and confidentiality among the guys.. but although I really like a lot of them.. most are hopelessly beta. We plan on moving 100 miles north of wh…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/08/15 12:44 AM
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A healthy church will : 1; Not tear men down 2; Avoid social justice shit 3. Not be monomaniacal about focusing on demons/possesion.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/08/15 12:06 PM
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I can testify from my own experience: I swear regularly, drink whenever I feel like it, go to church if I feel like it BUT don't whine, complain, act overwhelmed or sit around depressed. The result: my wife is generally a happy woman , puts out regularly, works really hard to please me by cooking, attentive to my needs etc... However , when I used to ( even 6 months ago) talk about my challenges with my business to her, act overwhelmed, go into depression mode, she would bitch incessantly about …
/r/MarriedRedPill06/08/15 12:01 PM
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On the rare occasions when the wife loses her shit like this Ive had good luck by ignoring it for awhile and if it continues looking at her and playfully saying " Is someone in need of negative attention today?" Usually - that pops her bubble and she calms down.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/08/15 03:10 AM
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Unhappiness is like a cancer. If found in your life, it must be rooted out . I grew up in a generally unhappy home. Both parents, although good people , were not happy. It rubs off on you. Now that Im an adult I find its one of the worst traits that Ive had to confront in myself.Years of growing up under it did its damage. However, Ive had great success at minimizing it by, looking for ways to always be grateful/thankful, reprogramming my negative thinking when it starts via positive self talk,c…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/08/15 02:57 AM
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Didn't recommend mate guarding. Recommended getting ones frame and game tight enough that plan B looks like a sad sack of shit compared to OP
/r/MarriedRedPill02/08/15 03:37 PM
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This is gold! It wasn't until the last 2 years that I fully understood the importance of having this in your life. Thanks to the blog Danger & Play and the book Think And Gow Rich I began formulating a vision of where I wanted us ( wife and I) to be and the lifestyle I envision us living. Ive talked with my wife about it and then shut up and have begun busting ass to implement it. One thing Ive noticed - the harder Ive worked towards it, the more doors that have opened enabling it to become real…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/08/15 03:46 AM
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This shit comes across as passive aggressive. Its not what a guy with real options and power does. I don't blame her for being pissed. Exception: If you are at some reunion for college and the same girl comes up to you, giving off a strong sexy vibe and you talk and flirt for awhile. Your wife sees and gets pissed- that is her problem - not yours. At that point you have , without any action on your part , shown her your SMV. Tee heeing and texting like a beta fag with this girl is only proving t…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/08/15 02:39 AM
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Thats a great list. We've been married three years and have generally followed most of them - most of the time - when we've argued. However there have been enough exceptions that I plan on showing it to my wife and working into the foundational principles that guide our marriage.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/08/15 02:32 AM
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Exactly ! Ive practiced most on that list since the day we've met and it has kept her tingles alive. Granted we've had other issues, hence my reading this sub, but regular smacks on the ass and sexual innuendo have done wonders for keeping her pussy wet and pliable and our sex life alive. Oh on occasion she comments on how perverted I am but I always look over at her with a smirk and say "you wouldn't have it any other way" . She always laughs and says "thats my husband!"
/r/MarriedRedPill02/08/15 02:19 AM
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Lose the "best friend" view. Always keep at the forefront of your mind: She can turn on you in a heartbeat - it doesn't make her bad - its just her nature. She's your woman - not your friend.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/07/15 12:04 PM
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Ive read too many books about business. Most of them were a waste of time. If there is one book I would recommend to any guy just starting out it would be: The Millionaire Fastlane - MJ Demarco. Reason: The principles laid out in the book will enable you to think beyond a business that just makes a job for yourself. Follow that up with Think And Grow Rich Reason: It will help you to formulate a vision of what you really want out of life and in turn can create businesses that dovetails with that.…
/r/MarriedRedPill31/07/15 02:31 AM
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Outside of marriage - when you actively live like this the real "alpha" men will respect you and the weak smarmy "gamma" types will loath you. I can't think of a better position to be in ! This approach to living is a great way to separate the wheat from the chaff ( metaphorically speaking)
/r/MarriedRedPill31/07/15 02:00 AM
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The self employment route is not for most. However, as the PC police tighten their grip, for masculine RP men ( outside of the trades) its going to be one of the only ways to make a decent standard of living while openly owning what you believe in. You will find that being self employed will allow you to maintain a fairly comfortable lifestyle on a lot less than you made while working for someone. The main reason is due to the write offs. You can expense many things you use on a daily basis - sa…
/r/MarriedRedPill31/07/15 01:55 AM
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Ive had a lot of success with getting my woman to shed the pounds by taking command of the food situation in the house. Unfortunately, it involves extra time spent doing the weekly food shopping - but the benefit is that it has really paid off. Under my guidance we've begun eating a diet that is whole food based with little to no processed carbs,sugars and wheat. We have our little indulgences like beer and ice cream BUT they are now considered a special treats versus a part of our daily diet. A…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/07/15 03:14 AM
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In both scenarios I did introduce myself. In the farm instance I just said " hand me the keys" , shook the guys hand and let them go back to talking.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/07/15 01:31 PM
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Good points .This is why I posted this . Tough feedback will eliminate complacency from a mans life.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/07/15 01:27 PM
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Speaking from past experience. Ive never had one long distance relationship where the woman remained faithful. When I had gained confidence and an understanding of my true worth - my days of long distance relationships came to an end. An abundant mentality taught me that there were many great women within 25 miles of my house I didn't need one 12 hours away.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/07/15 03:40 AM
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For the short term its still a struggle. However, Ive had a number of new clients commit to doing some projects later this summer that will generate decent profit. A year ago an older gentleman I know -who has become extremely wealthy through the buying and selling of timberland - urged me to look into it as an opportunity to make money. At the time, I told him I was interested but a lack of financing was holding me back. Two months ago he called me up out of the blue and offered to back me ( in…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/07/15 01:34 AM
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In-laws: guaranteed to fuck everything up- if given the opportunity. Thats why I have us living a minimum of 2 hrs from them. Enough distance to keep them from destabilizing the kingdom but not so far that she can't visit regularly for a long weekend. Kudos to you for taking the initiative. I did the same and the results have been nothing less than awesome. Hold frame , very tight frame ; even when the serious shit tests come your way. At times the tendency is to try control ( at least for me) b…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/07/15 03:28 PM
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To clarify - I didn't call her fat. She isn't close to being fat. I called her on her shitty eating habits that have the potential to make her fat.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/07/15 03:22 PM
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Ill have to try the PB & cock combo. Pretty original
/r/MarriedRedPill24/07/15 03:21 PM
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She does love spankings
/r/MarriedRedPill24/07/15 03:20 PM
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My SMV has always been very high , but since Ive tightened my game and gotten my shit together she has really improved her physique. By no means was she a ham beast, but my standards are very high. She knows this and has really worked to shed the little bit of belly fat and tighten up the ass. In light of this I want to see it continue and get pissed when she slips back into her old shitty habits. But you are correct - trying to control her behavior is futile. I can only change myself.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/07/15 03:18 PM
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The abuse accusation and divorce threat is what pissed me off the most. Hence my calling her bluff by saying " see the lawyer, bring the papers and Ill sign" She backed down at that point. This morning she tried again to make me apologize ( which I refuse to do). After a bit of persistence she folded and was sitting on my lap and acting like a well behaved girl once again.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/07/15 03:14 PM
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Good points. She is sensitive about her weight. Ive always been a bit of an insensitive asshole. Prior to marriage this trait helped in picking up and keeping girls around. In marriage it can have a tendency to hurt. Comfort tests are very hard for me handle. I am not good at reading them and probably fail them often.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/07/15 03:10 PM
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Damn- well said !
/r/MarriedRedPill20/07/15 01:15 AM
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Your story resonated with me, due in large measure to the fact that was I was where you are now - 5 years ago. Your ( soon to be ex) wife was exactly like mine. Highly educated (PHD), wanted to travel the world working in her field, absolutely useless when it came to domestic duties and carried on a secret emotional affair for over 2 years with a foreign guy she had met through her work ( linguist) that I am sure she consummated shortly after our divorce. We were both in our 30's, had no childre…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/07/15 11:57 PM
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Having had the same issue with my own wife - this is working for me. What follows will take leadership and when she is in a shit test mood - accusations of being controlling. Holding frame and staying strong has helped me not give a shit and to stay the course. A few months a go I instituted the following in our home.: All meals are made from scratch . She does the cooking. These meals are also predominantly paleo ( limited starches, no wheat etc..) Every night - we do a brisk, 3 mile long walk.…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/06/15 02:47 AM
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Good post and great attitude to have ! Real leadership is taking the bull by the horns and telling the wife and kids what the direction of the home will be. Part of that leadership involves cutting out toxic people ( even relatives) who impede with your mission of leading the home. It takes guts and balls to do but as I am learning, when practiced regularly, it becomes natural to do. As for the other sad sacks who think you're radical - I pity them. Having their woman show so little respect to t…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/06/15 02:37 AM
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Hmmm...Im waiting for the day Family Life might have you as one of their speakers at a Weekend To Remember conference.. That will be the day I might actually go to one of them again.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/06/15 07:43 PM
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Half the shit sounds like the drivel you get at a Family Life marriage conference.. It just turns the man into a "no tingle" sad sack.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/06/15 12:01 PM
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Its the discipline that it brings - that I have found most beneficial
/r/MarriedRedPill10/06/15 11:56 AM
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Take a cold shower every morning. Don't miss one day. You do this for a week it will build the discipline to stick with mundane, repetitive tasks. Plus its good for your immune system, muscle soreness from the gym and overall health.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/06/15 09:30 PM
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Your wife is fat - you can't lead. I agree wholeheartedly with this statement. Every time my wife has put on weight its always been the times that Ive been too much of a pussy to say how we are going to eat in our home, and not taking the initiative on leading us on exercise regiments. In the last two months Ive told her bluntly we are not eating any more gluten free bread ( loaded with carbs),beer only on weekends in moderation,fast every Sunday, no more OJ/Apple juice and I want dinners that a…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/06/15 11:33 AM
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thanks
/r/MarriedRedPill05/06/15 01:14 AM
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I take it that what you wrote would be an example of a response?
/r/MarriedRedPill04/06/15 05:50 PM
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I'll have to get better at that AA/ gina tingles . My default has always been a blunt IDAGF
/r/MarriedRedPill04/06/15 05:47 PM
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marriage is fine. regular sex & BJs. in fact before she left this am she said she wanted to get fucked tonight. She initiates semi regularly. My SMV, fitness, confidence, looks is very high. My wife's, for her age and despite a small amount of chubiness, is pretty high also . She's very cute
/r/MarriedRedPill04/06/15 05:30 PM
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is this a joke?
/r/MarriedRedPill04/06/15 01:32 AM
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Ahhh.. the wife with weight issues and the excuses. I know it all too well. It sounds like your wife and mine are from the same tribe. The only thing that motivates them is when you as the man lead them by the hand there, ( gym)despite their protests/ excuses. Every time she's always happy that we went but won't initiate on her own. In your instance, if your schedule permits, start hitting the gym in the morning and drag her ass with you. She might complain at first but eventually be glad that y…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/06/15 01:26 AM
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I wish I had answers, but I don't. I relate in many ways to your inner turmoil. I am experiencing the same thing in my own life. In my marriage, however, we don't have children. The best to you as you sort this out
/r/MarriedRedPill03/06/15 02:21 PM
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ha, I feel the same way about marriage
/r/MarriedRedPill02/06/15 01:46 AM
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nice story- wrong forum
/r/MarriedRedPill02/06/15 12:35 AM
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I began to fully grasp what women wanted in the bedroom when I was single. At the time I was banging this really hot nurse and she said to me bluntly " my fantasy is to have you pin me against the wall, my legs straddling you, while you fuck the shit out of me." It was then that the light bulb went on.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/06/15 12:29 AM
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The few times she's asked Ive said nearly the same: " just reading my mens blogs" . The conversation ends there
/r/MarriedRedPill01/06/15 03:23 PM
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Why do you have an open door policy with your wife? It is nothing that you should be happy with. Women love a bit of mystery. I act upon what I learn . I don't talk unless Im giving a RP based insight on some relationship she is commenting upon but I NEVER mention or show her the sites/forums that I visit.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/06/15 03:21 PM
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My first date with my wife I got in her pants. Then I never texted or called until a week later. That was after she texted 6 times and called twice. Oh I liked her but I wasn't going to put her on a pedestal plus there were other options. Hmmm....looks like I need to bring a bit of this style back into our marriage
/r/MarriedRedPill01/06/15 01:47 AM
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Ive known my wife long enough to see that her threats are empty and come from a position of weakness. So I just laugh at them as futile attempts to control me -that don't work. I know and she knows that if she were to leave she would never find better. As for me - it would be easy. Outside of the monetary setback ( no kids) I would have a few cuties in my stable in no time. Although she has never vocalized it - she knows this. Hence my reticence to Nuke her when she uses empty threats like that.…
/r/MarriedRedPill31/05/15 05:51 PM
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Ive always like your contributions but on this I would have to disagree. My wife upholds her vows ( i.e. does domestic chores,doesn't cheat, shows respect and puts out regularly) so - my faith dictates I uphold mine.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/05/15 05:32 PM
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I definitely have never refrained from flirting with wife present - particularly light hearted banter and joking with girl I find attractive. Its never sexually laced or involves touching though. In all of those instances my wife never acts like a bitch. Afterwards she is always very pleasant to be around. It seems that this instance really released her inner animal. It was like she felt a need to really mate guard (albeit in a lame ass fashion) b/c she could sense this chick moving in on her ma…
/r/MarriedRedPill31/05/15 05:29 PM
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Interesting point( s). Hiking more quickly tripped me up. Other than that I showed absolutely no emotion about the IOI. I've had instances where there have been cuties that have less overtly flirted with me, with wife present, yet they don't result in her becoming a raging bitch. In all of those instances I was as cool as a cucumber and didn't let the flirting phase me in the least.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/05/15 04:48 PM
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The funny thing is I didn't even attempt to show Dread. I was just my friendly sociable self and this cute looking naughty girl came on hard, with my wife standing right there. It was pretty funny to witness. I've worked hard to keep myself in tip top shape and it's noticed regularly by many women a lot younger than me. I regularly get IOI from them, when I'm out and about. Although, I've never had one this overt when the wife was present. At times I find it to be a struggle to not have a secret…
/r/MarriedRedPill31/05/15 02:43 PM
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RPAlterntate42: Those are some great comebacks. Also good points. I often find that I'm on the defensive when she acts this way. I've gotten really good at maintaining frame but not at pulling her into it. Its somewhat new for me. When I was single I had pretty good game, no problem getting girls and when a girl would show signs of bad behavior, like this, I would just replace her. Marriage doesn't easily afford a man this option. I need to work on the "pull" thing.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/05/15 01:18 PM
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This is great advice. Especially the emphasis on ALL at once. If you fail to do this you will replace one with the other. ( speaking from experience) . I grew up without TV (still don't own one) , used Social Media for about fifteen minutes when it first came out, never gamed and and almost never read Fiction books. However I still struggle quite a bit with surfing the net reading blogs I like and looking at pictures of nude hotties ( fondly remembering when my wife looked that good) . So there …
/r/MarriedRedPill31/05/15 03:48 AM
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I've had my wife say this type of shit to me. I ignore it and her for a while. Then I'll come back around and almost always she'll give me a glare and then say " I'm mad at you". I'll laugh and respond " are you ready to be a good girl". it usually improves from there. I also will shun my wife until she apologizes for an egregious action , or statement, on her part. She always does. I don't know, every relationship is different. maybe I operate from a stronger position which enables it to work
/r/MarriedRedPill31/05/15 12:53 AM
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Damn is this an article from the Onion. Honestly, it's so obvious she's getting pounded by another man I would get a paternity test on the next kid that pops out. In between now and the inevitable pregnancy, lawyer up and leave
/r/MarriedRedPill29/05/15 02:34 PM
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She's had 10 in the past. You've had 2. She's willing to talk fondly to you about getting nailed hard by a past boyfriend. Im going to be blunt with you : your wife is an alpha widow. You were last kid picked. In short her attraction to you is non -existent. It was that way right from the start. You slobbered all over her - she just tolerated you. Thats the bad news. The good news: you can get a life and start living it. If that means she hates the new you and the "marriage" fails - so be it. Sh…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/05/15 02:42 AM
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Thanks for sharing your story. I found it really helpful. I am slowly unplugging after allowing myself to soften over these past few years. PMS time is when my wife is the worst. We had a rough morning today, the shit tests against my decisions were ghastly. But reading stories like yours helps me to keep forging forward. It's obvious only good can come out of it.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/05/15 01:49 PM
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what does " fogging" mean?
/r/MarriedRedPill17/05/15 02:03 PM
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I am learning the art of not saying anything when she starts to get emotional and wants to escalate. Being a naturally high strung talker - this is not characteristic of me. Since I've begun doing this, the wife accuses me of being moody. I am in no way acting moody - just shutting up and ignoring the emotional vomit. What is a red pill response to her accusation?
/r/MarriedRedPill17/05/15 02:00 PM
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Great advice/points.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/05/15 01:55 PM
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you lay it out that bluntly ( i.e do this and you'll lose this amount) and she will respond with " what you think I'm fat? you find me unattractive? " How do you respond to that?
/r/MarriedRedPill13/05/15 01:46 PM
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good points..thanks! My basic problem is getting her to the point where she is open to my dictating how it will be in this area. The few times I have laid it out - she'll erupt with vitriol about how she can't live in a relationship where the husband is so controlling. we've made progress in some areas: no ice cream ( outside of rare occasions) no alcohol except weekends. That said ,there are these certain other foods that are so damaging to her body (considering she's @ least 15-20 lbs overweig…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/05/15 01:33 PM
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I like it - notes from the field!
/r/MarriedRedPill13/05/15 02:58 AM
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Wow - I lived with this shit for five years and then we divorced. Finally - my house was clean again. Damn was the ex a lazy slob. However, I realized that my approach to dealing with marriage had not worked. So , it set me on a mission - to learn ! I read NMMNG , a bunch of PUA books and then I set out to game women - lots of them. Fucked a bunch . Sex with a hot women who was horny for me -felt great. ! Im now remarried and although there are challenges - she at least works her ass off - cooki…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/05/15 02:54 AM
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You try and tell my wife no Orange Juice and you would think I was going to cut her arm off. I find it such a fuckin fight to regulate the carb count in our home. I have made progress in some areas but the resistance is so strong
/r/MarriedRedPill12/05/15 11:45 PM
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Having dealt with weight issues with SO, I feel your pain. Fortunately mine isn't a ham beast but she's bigger than what I married. You spoke your mind, but probably the best thing you can do is work on your self and then when you are vastly improved use dread then force the issue again.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/05/15 07:27 PM
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Damn it sounds exactly like the shit my wife says to me when she is frustrated and wants attention. The amplified neediness is so annoying. Often times I just respond with : " oh stop the drama" and then say nothing more. If she keeps it up I have also been known to say " Does someone want positive attention today? If so - we know how to act. If not - you know what will happen (ignored/shunned)" Usually that nips it in the bud.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/05/15 04:39 PM
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Its hard to deal with this shit when you come from a position of weakness ( you stated your SMV is lower) . However, in time if you work on yourself these tests will become a joke to you. The reality is that women age like milk while men like fine wine. Assuming your wife is late 20's - in another 5 -8 years no college basketball guy will think twice about her. Meanwhile if you get yourself in good shape you'll have regular IOI from 19 -25 year olds - despite being in your mid 30s. At that point…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/05/15 04:29 PM
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"when my gives me the cold shoulder I am thrilled" Great stuff! I am learning to love the cold shoulder too. Can be hard to do at times but always,the right thing to do.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/05/15 12:15 PM
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did you leave her?
/r/MarriedRedPill11/05/15 11:58 PM
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Actually, I first heard the term used on Chateau Heartiste's blog and liked it.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/05/15 11:38 PM
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you dont
/r/MarriedRedPill11/05/15 08:40 PM
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My wife is pushing 40. Although she works out the winters can be tough on her. This winter was no exception. Although not fat she did get chubby. ( I posted about it on this forum ) Her chubbiness was enough to make it unattractive to me. When I met her she had a very tight body and an ass you could hold in your hand. So dealing with a muffin top is hard for me. At any rate, over the last two months I've begun implementation of a good excercise regiment consisting of hikes, walks, running and gy…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/05/15 08:36 PM
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Don't listen to what a women says- look at what she does. Nine times out of 10 a women bitching about lack of sex is an overweight harpy who has brow beat her sad sack husband one too many times. His response to her nightly overtures " meh, I think I'll pass, play some games and jack off to porn - sure beats sex with the lumbering shrike".
/r/MarriedRedPill11/05/15 08:22 PM
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Try finding a therapist who utilizes non conventional approaches to healing a patient of mental issues. You want one who turns to meds as a last resort (if at all) . Many of the modern meds can actually make a mental illness worse. This is due in large measure to the "one pill size fits all " approach. I know of one therapist in New England who is extremely good. He has had a very high success treating patients with PTSD ( mostly Vets) and other with severe psychiatric issues. They are out there…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/05/15 05:43 PM
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Thanks for sharing. I relate very much to what you wrote. Its raw stories like this that help all readers realize that we are emotional creatures living in a mean tough world. Although we all trying to grow and mature and become less swayed by the circumstances that surround us. Its still a journey with pitfalls and setbacks. A statement that I began using regularly - a few years back is this : The only one in life who is going to watch out for ( insert your name ) is (insert your name). Bearing…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/05/15 01:28 PM
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Thanks
/r/MarriedRedPill05/05/15 01:04 AM
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Agree 100 %. Most police are total white knights. Inviting them into the situation only makes matters worse. Dodge around her when she moves towards you and then run outside jump in your vehicle and take off. Let her know unequivocally it's three strikes and she's out!. Also record these situations with your phone.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/05/15 12:56 AM
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Who is misguided?
/r/MarriedRedPill03/05/15 06:14 PM
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We are. I am very , very fortunate that shes disgusted by feminism and truly believes and strives to follow what the Bible says. She's a real Godly woman who lives to serve her Savior and be a helpmate to her husband.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/05/15 06:09 PM
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The Bible is actually extremely Red Pill . All of the verses that pertain to male and female relationships/ dynamics entail exhorting the men to lead with love and understanding and the women to follow with submissiveness and respect. The only thing it does not condone is infidelity. Unfortunately today most of Christianity in America teaches the men are to love the wives part while ignoring all the other parts about discipline and wives submitting etc.. The pastors and teachers have chosen to f…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/05/15 12:14 PM
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Fortunately for me when that time came - she was the one who decided to throw in the towel and leave. Although the initial sting of rejection hurt , in short time it felt great. The feeling of liberation was amazing. No longer living with someone who you are totally incompatible with,who has no respect to you as the leader of the home and best of all no longer living in a home where you feel like you are always walking on eggshells - felt astounding !. I didn't miss it in the least. After a peri…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/05/15 03:30 AM
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Church influence can be the worse. Most churches in america today are filled with weak men who have a total BP view of relationships. As a Christian I have had opportunity to introduce RP thinking into conversations that I have had with fellow church going men. Some will listen and ponder while others seem to look at me like I am speaking to them in Klingon.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/05/15 03:21 AM
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Im not a huge fan of divorce but in this instance it makes the most sense. Divorce her. She shows no sign of changing and doesn't have any respect for you. I wish you the best on this journey
/r/MarriedRedPill03/05/15 02:54 AM
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that resonates with me. 90 % of the time I have been this way in the past. This time I let emotion rule me. I am hopeful b/c I have not often been this way in the past that their is goodwill built up on her part that will allow for all if this to pass.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/04/15 09:03 PM
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outside of the obvious about working harder at making more money, never talking about business ever again with her. What is best course of action. I wonder if damage done by my recklessness us irreversible?
/r/MarriedRedPill30/04/15 03:32 PM
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I held frame until the tears. It's the only thing that crushes me. She hardly uses them but when she does I fold like a wet paper sack. It's obvious to me, they need to be ignored henceforth. Advice for tonight when I get home? I plan on walking in and acting casual like nothings wrong. Eating dinner and then heading upstairs to my office to work on business. No evening walk and limited talk about the day. If you were in my shoes how would you handle it tonight?
/r/MarriedRedPill30/04/15 02:50 PM
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ouch! but needed to be said. yeah you're right and I know what needs to be done. now I just need to do it
/r/MarriedRedPill30/04/15 02:12 PM
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Thanks for your contribution. I found it very helpful
/r/MarriedRedPill30/04/15 01:41 PM
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awesome advice and points. Thanks for responding with your personal story. It's obvious what I need to do - focus on my business
/r/MarriedRedPill30/04/15 01:07 PM
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Good point about attracted sex vs. chore sex. My SMV ( particularly as it relates to my professional success has to improve) Thanks for the response.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/04/15 01:05 PM
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My SMV is much higher than hers. My physique and ability to charm are very high. I get IOI from very attractive women on a daily basis. No doubt I handled this wrong totally wrong. I think the largest contributor to her lack of attraction is my perceived failure in my professional life. My level of stress runs high. It has affected my mood and even T levels. She can sense this I know it.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/04/15 01:01 PM
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yes, it's water under the bridge. Thanks for the advice
/r/MarriedRedPill30/04/15 12:56 PM
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I'm aware I failed and went Beta halfway through. I do have a history in my relationship if NOT doing that, so there is a reserve built up. But we can only change how we act in the future not the past
/r/MarriedRedPill30/04/15 12:53 PM
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Good advice - pushing on through is what I will do. I do lift, pretty good looking and never had problems getting women. Even until recently our marriage has always had a wonderful dynamic of me being the leader and her following. But the last few months have seen me really slip in my frame. I've never been an alpha type, pretty much always a strong Sigma.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/04/15 12:45 PM
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As a fellow believer that is a great summary. A few other points I have come to recently: 1. God's love is unconditional yet He doesn't always give us our way - it is OK for us to be the same way with our wife. Love doesn't mean indulging her every whim. 2 When we are in rebellion towards God, he always is far from us. In a spiritual sense we have been shunned. It's one of the way He shows He loves us - removing a deep connection until we shape up. The same approach towards a wife who is out of …
/r/MarriedRedPill30/04/15 01:10 AM
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Ill be honest you sound like any number of american women who choose to blow up their marriage -despite it being fairly good. Why ? -because they're not haaaaaaaapy. The reality is marriage has seasons of total boredom and familiarity. Move through it and most likely you will experience excitement again. That said - I don't want to seem overly harsh. I can empathize with your predicament as I have experienced some of the same feelings in my own marriage.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/04/15 02:12 AM
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Porn: After a long period of time only looking at it rarely, its has recently become a more common occurrence in my life. It is the easy way out of dealing with the lack of spark and excitement I feel in my life and with my wife. Starting today I have decided it can longer be a part of my life as it acts an escape from dealing with the changes I want to see in my life and in my marriage. I also find it leads to procrastination and time wasting and if it involves release - huge energy /momentum d…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/04/15 01:02 PM
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Good clarification
/r/MarriedRedPill26/04/15 10:34 PM
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solid advice
/r/MarriedRedPill26/04/15 03:26 AM
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Respond with "yeah and its with your best friend" , followed with a smirk.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/04/15 03:21 AM
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Yeah sure - everything she needs. Hmmm.. what about my needs? I think they need to come first. Recently my wife said to me" you're the most selfish guy that I've ever had a relationship with" I gave her a baleful look and continued doing my thing. Needless to say she keeps bringing me coffee every morning while Im still in bed and puts out regularly- so I guess Ill keep being selfish. It seems to be working out pretty well.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/04/15 03:15 AM
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The last time my wife ever brought this subject up I responded with "Yeah -call Dr Phil". That ended it . Its never been brought up again. Therapy is useless.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/04/15 03:08 AM
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See my response below - towards end of thread.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/04/15 01:11 AM
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I've had similar behavior on my wife's part and handled it the same as you. It happens to all of us. That said, I don't apologize but I will say " I own up to calling you a bitch , my frustration was real but could have been handled differently. Moving forward I will work on handling this differently." Then I just move on, if she brings it up again, I give her a stern look and say " enough!" and that pretty much will end it for good. Eventually her mood comes around. Ive learned that if I accept…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/04/15 04:30 PM
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welcome to my world - for me its monthly - not quarterly
/r/MarriedRedPill24/04/15 12:17 PM
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A quick perusal and one thing stands out to me: You're too nice ! Bringing her smoothies - WTF? No wonder the cobwebs have formed between her legs. You're her maiden and then when you get horny - you want her to be your sex kitten. Cant have it both ways. From now on - begin ordering her to do stuff for you. Do this consistently like its the most natural thing in the world for you to be requesting. Keep doing it for a few weeks. As she knuckles under and begins doing what you want - come home on…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/04/15 02:49 AM
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I always try to dress nice. For the most part so does my wife. One time we were headed out and she had on the most unflattering dumpy looking pair of sweatpants and sweatshirt on. She's like " OK I'm ready" I said " no your not" She's like " what? " I respond " you're dressed like shit, go change your outfit" She grumbled but went and did it. Later I said to her " I like my woman to look good for her man" If a woman doesn't take pride in how she looks when going out with her man she's sending a …
/r/MarriedRedPill19/04/15 01:07 PM
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interesting insight. I probably wouldn't classify what I did a shit test, however it definitely was passive aggressive. in short very beta like. She called me on it via a shit test.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/04/15 02:13 PM
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I too have learned to ignore them - with great effect. When they occasionally (usually PMS time) become intolerable I will often run over to her as fast as I can, grab her and lift her right of the ground and swing her around before gently putting her back on her feet. By the time its over she's usually laughing .It does wonders for readjusting her mood
/r/MarriedRedPill18/04/15 03:11 AM
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Thank you very much for your insights and encouragement. I really appreciate it
/r/MarriedRedPill16/04/15 02:49 PM
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Well played. Demanding what you want clearly and calmly is the key. There was one time in my own marriage where she was not interested in sex and I said " I will not live in a sexless marriage" and then left the room. She came around shortly thereafter. If a man knows his worth it commands immense power.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/04/15 03:25 AM
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Spot on advice! This type of game sends the message that you are so unaffected by her bullshit that you actually are able to ridicule it in a way thats funny and not nasty. In short - Bemused Mastery with a twist of asshole thrown in. It does wonders at cooling the hypergamous flame.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/04/15 04:40 AM
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I don't leave messes but I don't do crap when it comes to domestic chores. She does it all - even while working three days a week outside of the home. Oh, every once in a great while I may wash a dish or two -if I feel like it. I do shovel the snow in winter and bring in wood for the stove but nothing that involves, washing, laundry, cooking etc.. The funny thing is despite my lack of Choreplay I get sex regularly, BJS whenever I want and coffee brought to me every morning while Im still in bed.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/04/15 05:53 PM
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Its nice to hear from a man who understands the same struggle. I don't know if you are a man of faith or not. I am and that is the main reason I quit the Player lifestyle cold turkey. For me it was fun but my "spirit " was always troubled while doing it. I was convicted that monogamy was how I had to live. Depsite that conviction and the Spirit now being willing - my flesh sure can be weak. Ive realized that this life is fleeting and what matters most is what happens to my soul when I am dead. I…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/04/15 03:54 PM
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I am the owner of a business that is about to go under. At the same time the job prospects in my line of work are grim. It all boils down to poor planning on my part . I have relied for too long on one customer for the bulk of my businesses income and they have found cheaper alternatives. I have also not hustled as hard as I could have. Its extremely stressful in my life right now but its forcing me to admit that I have made some bad decisions that I need to learn from and change so that they do…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/04/15 12:46 PM
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This is great post. Erect posture and strong eye contact make a man stand out from the crowd
/r/MarriedRedPill14/04/15 01:25 AM
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My inner conflict is this: On a daily basis I am tempted to cheat on my wife. I have a wonderful wife and on the face of it she's way better than most. She is very kind, thoughtful ,domestic ,smart pretty, almost never denies me sex etc..She has gained a bit of weight since we've been married but she is no ham beast. She works out and overall looks pretty good etc.. Despite all of this I have a raging sexual appetite that desires variety. I get bored with the same old tail. Prior to my marriage …
/r/MarriedRedPill14/04/15 01:12 AM
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Excellent summary and advice -much thanks!
/r/MarriedRedPill14/04/15 12:58 AM
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Well played ! Now just maintain the new found frame. If you control the narrative and don't indulge her emotions you will be a man that will stand out to her. Keep it up and gradually her "unhaaaaaapiness" will disappear. Work on increasing your SMV at the same time and suddenly you will find she can't get enough of your cock.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/04/15 12:15 PM
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Refuse to go - period. In my first marriage I agreed to go and it only got worse from there.The ex had us hopping from one counselor to another just so she could find someone who would pin all the blame on me. Post divorce - I discovered and swallowed RP. Im now remarried and when we went through a patch a few months ago my wife said "we need to do counseling". I laughed and said " call Dr- Phil" . That was the end of the discussion. Things have gotten much better since.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/04/15 12:04 PM
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On another note - you mentioned that you addressed your wives weight at one point. What did you say/do to get your wife to lose weight? Its something I want to address with my own wife but don't know how to go about it without offending.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/04/15 12:01 PM
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Compare to the average american hag - your girl is as pure as the driven snow. You found a good one. Be happy about it and don't dwell on the fact that she may have had a little touchy feely 10 years ago with another guy
/r/MarriedRedPill13/04/15 11:54 AM
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I like the link. Knowing her she will probably not read RPW - but miracles can and do happen.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/04/15 01:56 AM
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"At some point in the painful process of unplugging you will realize that she isnt your soulmate, nor your friend, nor does she love you as you expect to be loved, and you are on this journey solo." Exactly ! The sooner a guy comes to this realization the easier it will be for him to let chip fall where they may. Ironically nearly every time the chips will then fall in his favor
/r/MarriedRedPill11/04/15 01:43 AM
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very good book
/r/MarriedRedPill11/04/15 01:32 AM
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Just bear in mind that should you decide to leave -another man will ultimately enter the picture and become the defacto dad for your children. To me that is a horrible thought and none I would ever want to experience. Consider channeling the sexual energy you have into a mission of what you want to accomplish before you die. Sexual transformation - Napoleon Hill talks about this in Think Grow Rich. I relate to your inner conflict as its something Ive had myself
/r/MarriedRedPill11/04/15 01:24 AM
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Ill keep that in mind. Ive had the tendency to comment on when my wife looks good to me.- never thought about just ignoring it and keeping it to myself and the power that it give the man. Briallliant!
/r/MarriedRedPill10/04/15 03:38 AM
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Im not an advocate of marital affairs but in this instance, I personally would probably would have one. The next time she wiggled her titties in my face - knowing full well its a marital lap dance - Id just laugh because the hot 25 year old Id be banging would look 2X better. Again -Im not advocating an affair as a solution to this problem - just stating how I personally would react to this situation
/r/MarriedRedPill10/04/15 03:27 AM
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A couple of things that stand out to me. She says..."and whats for dinner ? " A future response could be ( said with a smirk on your face)" hamburgers(or whatever) and now go get your ass in the kitchen and whip it up" Simple responses like this utilized regularly over time send the message that you don't take her that seriously and really she's there to serve you. To the uninitiated this sounds very neanderthal like but trust me - when said with confidence and humor its like magic to her vagina…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/04/15 03:12 AM
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Any advice on how to implement calorie counting vs. calorie expenditure without having her become defensive. An approach that works would be very helpful for me. Another commenter mentioned FITBIT. If I were to do it , most likely she wouldn't want to. As it stands now - she would probably respond with the " you're becoming too controlling" line. In the past its been that way - at least it was when I began intermittent fasting - she tried it a few times then made excuses why it sucked and then w…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/04/15 04:33 PM
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My biggest struggle is that I can veer away from motivator and go into the realm of control freak. Even tonight safter dinner she went upstairs to watch some TV in bed and had a little easter egg filled with jelly beans. I said to her as she went by: " maybe try just bringing a small handful instead of the container" She responds with " You drink beer a couple of times a week - its just as bad as jelly beans. Stop trying to control me ". I realize that monitoring her eating habits is futile and …
/r/MarriedRedPill09/04/15 02:58 AM
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point well taken about being lead motivator. We eat somewhat paleo. We do eat dairy and gluten free bread - but outside of that we pretty much eat no processed food, wheat or soy.I work to get our asses outside hiking, walking etc...even when Im dog tired.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/04/15 02:52 AM
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It does suck. The hardest part for me is that I really don't understand fatness. Outside of an aunt I have no history on either side of my family - going back three generations of anyone being fat. I just don't get it. If you're not hungry - don't eat. So to be married to a woman who comes from a family where weight problems are a serious issue - its challenging. I almost find myself developing an eating disorder myself - by watching what I eat in front of her (portions etc) so as to not be a ne…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/04/15 02:50 AM
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Haha ...Fortunately neither she or her mother are morbidly obese i.e...larger than 80" TV. Her mother though is chronically on a weight loss/ weight gain cycle. Her parents are married., but the father kind of ignores mother
/r/MarriedRedPill08/04/15 10:36 AM
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Thanks for taking the time to respond. I appreciate it. I'll look into the Fit bit part. I take the lead on our food consumption. I make the grocery list, limit our sugar intake, limited processed foods etc. I also take the lead by signing us up for the gym and having her go with me regularly. It looks as if caloric consumption is another area I need to take the lead.This will be a harder area - as it can end up veering into the controlling arena if I don't watch it. However with the Fit Bit it …
/r/MarriedRedPill08/04/15 10:33 AM
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only once and that was about 2 yes ago. Once while PMSing she blamed her weight gain on the domestic expectations she has. I laughed
/r/MarriedRedPill08/04/15 04:01 AM
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I actually dress fairly well. Neat, clean, well shaven, extremely strong (big chest/muscles). My SMV is a bit higher than my wifes although she's a very cute/pretty gal. That said: my looks are above average (called very handsome by many women past/present). I am very socially aware, make piercing eye contact, pretty charming and often get IOI from many good looking women - on a regular basis. I am a bit short though - 5'8"
/r/MarriedRedPill08/04/15 02:54 AM
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I didn't post this to have someone act like a presumptuous douche towards me. It never cease to amaze me how bold someone will act behind the anonymity of a keyboard. Yet face to face such boldness would most likely be missing.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/04/15 02:49 AM
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Outside of pregnancy: Only on your terms: i.e when you feel like it. Pregnancy - yeah helping out, for those things that are tough for her - makes sense
/r/MarriedRedPill08/04/15 01:53 AM
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