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for what it's worth I'm 5'11" and definitely cannot estimate other dudes height Half the time I'll see some dude across a room that looks 3 or 4 inches taller than me, then end up near him and we're the same height.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 07:00 PM
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a very handsome skinny white boy
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 06:13 AM
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look at his post history Looks great in his smiling pic from hinge, looks average to slightly below in his other face pics
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 12:03 AM
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Insane physique if you're natty, but those traps are questionable Below average face I'm assuming you're in the DMV if you're working at a defense contractor, are you aiming for girls of your race or just white chicks? Alternatively you might just be autistic
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 11:25 PM
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Totally agree, just adding to the idea that average height (or even slightly below if you're like 5'7"-5'8") guys are screwed. Always seen plenty of handsome guys only an inch or two taller than their girls walking around
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 11:13 PM
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I'm 5'10.5" and probably the shortest out of my friend group, but also definitely have the best face. My taller more average looking bros get plenty of girls, but I get much prettier ones. Both are important, I recognize I'm above the realistic threshold for most women, and despite what a lot of the terminally online dudes say here, I've literally never been rejected for not actually being 6' tall lol. Girls just don't really give a shit if you're handsome
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 04:37 PM
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I'm pretty much inactive on social media, but I don't think I know almost any objectively attractive woman under 25 who has fewer than 500 followers, with the vast majority being at 1000+ If they went to college it's pretty much a guarantee they'll have a ton. Where are these mythical not on IG women?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 02:45 AM
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got Staceywidowed how do I recover from this with my standards being way too high now
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 10:50 PM
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Seems like I could get better quality in person, since even handsome dudes are usually at a disadvantage online
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 02:27 AM
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gotta start drinking more
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 02:11 AM
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honestly the idea of approaching girls that even give some sort of non-verbal cue of interest weirds me out. But I absolutely have some diagnosable form of social anxiety, so actually trying to do that might be a good form of exposure therapy
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 02:11 AM
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combo of apps and girls showing interest first honestly I just have a nice face, not much else going for me
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 02:02 AM
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I'm in my mid 20s and have had a couple relationships and a number of hookups, The only catch is I've literally never approached a woman in person with the intention of trying to ask them out How the actual fuck do other guys do this shit?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 01:45 AM
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Most girls I've been with have brought it up at some point, most of my guy friends have mentioned theres at some point, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 10:53 PM
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What's so wild to me about all the n-count discussions is that I legitimately don't know any low-count men or women. Maybe it's location dependent, but if you're in or near a city post college, there's a very good chance that pretty much everyone has been with 5-10+ people unless they got locked down super early on. Where on earth do dudes think they're going to find 20s women with 2 previous partners lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 10:05 PM
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I will always agree with this based on lived experiences
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 05:18 PM
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managed to hit the forehead from behind when she turned around to look when I was 16 and could shoot across the room practically
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 01:46 AM
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I don't think I ever actually asked a girl out in person, they're all either from apps, or made the first move. I still complain because I don't like myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 01:39 AM
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F A C E
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 01:38 AM
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I like house plants
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 01:38 AM
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nah my best buddy is 6'1" and a big boy after he stopped playing rugby, dude looked obese at anything above 280, he's 250 now and still looks noticeably chunky even though he's pretty built underneath
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 06:46 PM
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my sister told me I looked s*rbian when I buzzed during the pandemic. never again
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 02:25 AM
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talking well with a nice voice is playing life with cheat codes, it just draws people in
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 11:40 PM
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As a terminally online and overly anxious good looking dude, lotta dudes I know who are objectively not nearly as attractive as me seem to be doing just fine, and seem far happier than my strategy of banging girls off apps. Waiting for the magical time I meet the girl of my dreams when I'm hiking up a mountain since that's about all of the "outside" I get lately.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 11:28 PM
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lmao just gonna play the Shia Labeouf Just Do It monologue in my head from now on
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 07:40 PM
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Despite decent success with women, I still struggle to convince myself that they're actually interested in me. Had a date last night with a girl who I thought was giving me fuck me eyes during it, but I didn't make any strong advances since I thought "we're only an hour in and it's early." Leave the bar and she goes "I've been wanting you to ask if I want to come over for the last two hours, but I have work pretty early so how about next time instead". Other than practicing not giving a fuck, ho…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 07:09 PM
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LTRs with hot girls are mildly stressful (at least for me), I feel like I am far more aware of the attention she gets (and I get as a result). That's not to say it doesn't feel great to feel like hot shit walking in somewhere with someone everyone wants to look at, but dudes prowling around like hungry animals grosses me out. I wouldn't say cute girls are any more or less sweet and caring, that's entirely an individual thing. You're going to get replies that you're the equivalent of becky bux af…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 03:34 AM
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like most things in life, it's a sliding scale, not black and white. I know for a fact I've lost out on some chances by opening my mouth and being strange
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 12:13 AM
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Does my complete lack of game somehow mean I actually have game?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 12:12 AM
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lol I actually recently got ghosted by a (probably) autistic woman I was seeing for a few months, gotta find the next one I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 12:12 AM
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nah he's a real one, dude looks like Larry David
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 12:11 AM
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my therapist cancelled this week my b
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 11:52 PM
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Where does the blackpill fall on good looking but neurodiverse people? Or the other pills for that matter. I've got generally crippling anxiety, but also have managed to sleep with 20 women, and a few relationships with genuinely attractive and normal ones. Like most of the people on here, I have some questions about whether I might fall somewhere on the autism spectrum, but I am often asocial, and without meds/therapy/frequent exercise, a loner. Theoretically I'm smart, but don't have a great w…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 11:46 PM
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I'm fortunate to live in a decently mountainous area, so I usually do two 6ish mile hikes before or after work during the week, and then a solid 10-12 mile with 3k elevation gain during the weekend. Steep incline and scrambling on rocky terrain is a pain in the ass for people who only ever lift or run on the treadmill
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 07:33 PM
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My close rate on Ativan is damn near 100% Better start investing in whatever pharma company comes up with a non-addictive GABA drug
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 02:19 AM
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I think I'm the only Leo with social anxiety
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 04:49 PM
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Unless you're a combination of wealthy/URM/perfect stats/ridiculous ECs/or a recruited athlete nothing in the top 20 is a safe bet. I wouldn't call it attainable, but it is worth a shot as a reach school if you have some solid targets and safeties.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 04:47 PM
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realistically, what percentage of young men are successful with casual sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 09:35 PM
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idk what to tell ya man, last two girls were late 20s and brought it up Imma say a girl telling me she wants to have my kids is probably somewhat interested in it
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 11:55 PM
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as I'm in my 20s and starting to encounter more women who often have the "are kids part of your future" question, I'm in a weird spot of starting to think more about that. I come from a bubble of educated families where most parents had kids pretty late, my dad was 43 when he had me, and while I think I benefited from the stability of him being older and established, I also am amazed I'm not actually autistic, just aspie enough to end up on this sub. But, now that he's almost 70, diagnosed with …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 10:15 PM
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You gotta be borderline insane to just send them out without any pretext, but if I've been talking to a girl and they or I bring it up, it almost always works.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 06:33 PM
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😂 my best friend from college asked me to bring him so he could take pics for tinder with him. Honestly, it's at the very least super good socializing practice since they can be such good conversation starters!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 10:55 PM
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that was my petty revenge fantasy about a week in, now it's just fun to check and see a glimpse inside a pretty unhinged mind she hid very well
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 10:54 PM
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Honestly sort of agree. I rarely have girls ask for my IG, I usually get ahead of it with a phone number and then snap to prove Im a person. I just tell them I don't use it and it's better for my mental health, and never had a problem. However, I have no doubt that if I had an even barebones one with a decent follower count I'd have an easier time with women, but frankly I hate putting myself online like that, so short of paying someone to make one for me, I have no interest. I also have had a w…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 10:39 PM
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My parents have a bright white poodle who is soft as velvet, I walk him sometimes and if that dude was at all predictable, he'd be the best wingman on the planet, being a young good looking dude with a small fluffy dog is easy mode. Unfortunately, he's a little bit of a lunatic on leash, and we're still working on training him to be better with meeting strangers, so until then it's a lot of "omg he's so cute can I pet him??" answered with "honestly if you have like 5 minutes to get him through t…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 10:35 PM
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nah I ain't gonna dox her to this cesspool of autism, it's just a lot of shit accusing me of cheating for talking to an ex she knew I was friends with lol Earlier on I thought about some petty revenge route of commenting, but honestly it ain't worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 10:31 PM
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man's the furthest thing from a tough guy on the planet, just a sweet old man, but does the exact same thing bottling it all up.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 10:12 PM
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Boomers gonna boom. It's odd though, because he's an otherwise very emotionally open person, but for some reason doesn't think he needs therapy, despite suggesting the rest of the family should seek it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 10:06 PM
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got ghosted by a girl I was dating for a few months, for some reason she told me early on what her reddit username is (or close enough that it was ridiculously easy to find). Somehow she is still shit-posting about me more than a month later, which is frankly impressive.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 10:04 PM
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Honestly about as privileged as they come with parents who've stayed together and are supportive and kind, but goddamn my dad's crippling anxiety he refuses to get treatment for is maddening at times.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 10:01 PM
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wide hips, small waist
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 08:47 PM
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Face: clearly above average based on the women I've somehow ended up with Body: average by young person standards, I guess above average in the US because I'm a healthy BMI and look vaguely athletic, normal height Status: Degree from a good college, inactive on social media, very small group of close friends, decent career potential Personality: completely hit or miss depending on the person you ask, if I shut my overthinking brain off, I'm able to be charming and confident, but the rest of the …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 08:44 PM
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I don't blame myself for it, I was a dumbass college kid and she was a girl I wanted to fuck since highschool, just felt grimey as fuck when her roommate walked in on us.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 12:16 AM
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I'm not entirely clear the details of how much they tell each other about the people they're seeing. I am absolutely not at all interested in dudes at all. She said I was the first guy she's gone out with in a while since they decided to open it up, and sure just seemed like she wants to come over to my place and see me separately.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 12:13 AM
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😂 fuck I'm laughing my ass off right now. That did not seem like what she's looking for based on how she described it. Not polyamory, but that they're both free to pursue other partners separately from one another, but guess I gotta tactfully ask if there's more to this than she said.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 12:10 AM
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Went on a date with a gorgeous girl who's in an open relationship, she was pretty clear about what she's looking for, and seems to be mostly interested in sex, but also wants to do some date like activities: get drinks, watch movies, sorta FWB like shit. Other than just asking her for what her boundaries are, anyone have advice? Last time I saw a girl who said she was in an open relationship, she was in fact not. and that shit kinda scared me off from it, didn't like feeling like a piece of shit…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 11:20 PM
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I'm down
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 11:06 PM
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I've come to the realization, in my mid 20s, that I have absolutely 0 interest in hooking up with women anymore. This is despite two failed short term exclusive relationships recently. I'm trying to find a life partner. I do pretty well on apps, I'm tall enough to avoid the filters, but have a pretty average/skinny body, so I'm presuming my success is almost entirely due to an above average face, a prestigious college in my profile (which unfortunately matters a lot where I live), and frankly a …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 10:03 PM
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Sheesh I'd rather avoid that
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 11:30 PM
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She ignored the email, I learned she has a history with at least one sketchy ex showing up out of the blue so I'm trying to avoid doing something like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 11:23 PM
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The relationship advice subs aren't helpful. Had a minor argument with my girlfriend of 2 months that I've known for about 4 months. She ghosted and blocked me, how tf do I get my shit back that's still at her place, including a pretty expensive medication I need.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 11:05 PM
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damn I definitely have depression, that sounds like a ridiculous amount of socializing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 02:00 AM
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teehee
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 05:12 PM
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how do I get a hot loner gf
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 10:05 PM
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off topic but I'm surprised an actually attractive woman is posting on this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 08:49 PM
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I'm 24, graduated from an top private school (albeit late after a mental health hiatus), kinda neeting and I don't drink for medical reasons I have a couple friends good friends from each of my life stages, and ever since I lost weight a few years ago, no problem with getting casual hookups I feel like I'm lacking the social life/the Instagram followers to look like I'm a real person with a real social circle, and I'm not quite sure how to build that at this point how do I fix this ppd
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 09:38 PM
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https://i.imgur.com/gm4M0fw.png
/r/askTRP13/06/21 08:32 PM
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great thread to not so humbly brag
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 12:56 AM
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what are the chances the ugly guys you dated were tall or had a big dick to make up for it? You weren't dating fat, bald, short, ethnic men You were dating tall, white, slightly chubby men
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 05:50 PM
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godspeed
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 04:32 PM
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are you: a) a minority other than black or Latino b) substantially shorter than average c) significantly uglier than average d) socially deficient or diagnosed with an ASD e) unlikely to leave your room f) all of the above or a combination of the above
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 04:27 PM
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Bro I get the same if not more and I'm DYEL just shower and get a face transplant bro
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 04:58 PM
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that sounds like a Dennis Reynolds tactic
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/21 05:28 PM
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more men jealous of skinny pretty boys who don't have to do shit to get laid
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/20 09:56 PM
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my short autistic cousin got unironically me-too'd in college and kicked out for a semester. pretty sure he's dating a fat girl now, poor guy. Dude MMA+gym maxxed and that's still all he could do.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/20 05:23 PM
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boss or brother, not really imo. buddy or pal is a shit test from other guys lmao
/r/askTRP11/12/20 07:45 PM
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my guy there's never been a verified 10 inch dick lmao. 9 inches for almost all purposes doesn't exist outside porn. a true 8 is bigger than almost everyone in porn. A non girl inches 7 is BIG to women
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 07:07 PM
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I agree 6+ is preferred, but that has nothing to do with you saying that 9 is somehow common
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 07:03 PM
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lmao stop watching so much porn. Women might want 6.5 like that study says, but that doesn't change the actual average and normal range
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 05:40 PM
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9 is larger than basically everything in porn. 8 is huge, a real 7 is like top 2% of dicks
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 05:13 PM
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this dudes entire post history is just a shit ton of brag threads. very chad like
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 11:13 PM
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