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That depends on the woman saying. A younger woman can say that and it goes two ways, the way you described, and Secondly a genuine compliment or excitement to see a man out of the norm. It isn't directly linked to you having sex with a woman, and in fact you should see all women as friends first before you consider having sex with them. As women should do to men as well. But older experienced women, who are married saying that....it's very much a compliment. Because they're often stuck in bad re…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 04:37 AM
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I'm happy for you. This is typically every man's point. There is always an exception, and 9/10 it's because the man is attractive that women let it go. The moral standard....it's only a bandwagon because no one wants to fuck ugly guys. This socially spook is because guys are ugly. And the guys know it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 11:29 PM
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Yes, you're right. And also that's what I'm saying, men won't become providers. Sexual attraction and happiness are inversely leveraged. A man who is hot will not bring happiness because he will act out infidelity. A man who brings happiness will not be hot because he can't afford to leverage that. If we find aberrations in this equation they'll be rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 06:47 PM
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Men were only picked because they provided. Then they became protectors as well. Now in society men are neither, they have no value. So they either have to be 1. hot, or 2. asthetic. Most men are none of these 4 qualities. Men are now obsolete. Most men don't even know basic concepts of women, what they're interested in, how to make them happy, how to keep them entertained, and on top of all of that men beg women to do emotional and manual labor for them OR ELSE THEY'LL BE CAT LADIES. Men are ob…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 02:44 PM
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Men were only picked because they provided. Then they became protectors as well. Now in society men are neither, they have no value. So they either have to be 1. hot, or 2. asthetic. Most men are none of these 4 qualities. Men are now obsolete. Most men don't even know basic concepts of women, what they're interested in, how to make them happy, how to keep them entertained, and on top of all of that men beg women to do emotional and manual labor for them OR ELSE THEY'LL BE CAT LADIES. Men are ob…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 02:44 PM
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Men were only picked because they provided. Then they became protectors as well. Now in society men are neither, they have no value. So they either have to be 1. hot, or 2. asthetic. Most men are none of these 4 qualities. Men are now obsolete. Most men don't even know basic concepts of women, what they're interested in, how to make them happy, how to keep them entertained, and on top of all of that men beg women to do emotional and manual labor for them OR ELSE THEY'LL BE CAT LADIES. Men are ob…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 02:44 PM
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Humblebrag
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 03:46 PM
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I'm a man, and 3 is CLOSE to what I would even begin to consider if I was a woman. A trucker being gone all the time doesn't sound like a good relationship, job, oe opportunities for a life. Number one guy sounds like a massive risk, impulsive, but has good money. I don't think the money would give anyone stability beyond finances and I would rather have a partner who loved me at the end of my life than money. Autism however is not the greatest of disabilities to pass on, because you never know …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 10:26 PM
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I don't like this interpretation but I've heard my entire life that women have 3 characteristics that overarch all of their other qualities. It is showed in a triangle with each of the three points labeled as the following: Intelligence, Emotionally Stability, and Atteactiveness. The trick men are told is that a woman can only have 2 of the 3 characteristics, and that a woman with all 3 is a unicorn. This is of course super simplified, but it's just a starting point for the discourse so feel fre…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 06:23 PM
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You're purposefully missing the point. A: Family stays together, both parents are compassionate to kids but hate each other. Outcome: Of course the kids do better B: Mother or father is a narcissist, but they stay together. Outcome: Child grows up with maldaptive behaviors, and potentially survival traits to compensate for narcissistic abuse, C-PTSD, and a host of other issues. Generalizing quality of life as a trait that is a single topic and not a matrix is dishonest.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 01:43 PM
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We also focus on the symptoms, being called a slut, but not the illness, being impulsive and indecisive. Men don't care about your body count, they care about the behavior attached to jumping from partner to partner. It means the man has to watch his promiscuous partner around other men, because her impulsivity and need for validation will mean she is MORE likely than another woman without those qualities to cheat. If you want validation, and sex, and men fawning over you makes you feel good, yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 11:00 PM
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We also focus on the symptoms, being called a slut, but not the illness, being impulsive and indecisive. Men don't care about your body count, they care about the behavior attached to jumping from partner to partner. It means the man has to watch his promiscuous partner around other men, because her impulsivity and need for validation will mean she is MORE likely than another woman without those qualities to cheat. If you want validation, and sex, and men fawning over you makes you feel good, yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 11:00 PM
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I'd like the story and pics please. I'm very interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 06:41 PM
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If they were the perfect wife they'd be interested in my sexual attraction and we would reciprocate. A perfect wife would also be interested in 3 ways. She wouldn't be jealous, she would be supportive, and loving. So her being ugly and chubby wouldn't be a deal breaker if we were also having sex with other women because then you break even. And if these were the last choices on earth, I would still be a loving husband and treat her with respect that she earns, and I would reciprocate all of this…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 06:35 PM
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True! What was OP even trying to point out, men know youth us time based. Thats why they're knocking boots so frequently when young and why older men want to settle down, they don't have game.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 06:28 PM
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Social media plays a role, but economically (we should have a better economy in the US) we would have less disparity and thus less disparaging mentalities of each other. We blame rules for these issues. But people are all the same, we don't have the MEANS to be incentives to follow these rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 06:11 PM
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"I'm all in." Play 12 hours of call of duty? Stay in on a girls night out to love him? Watch the LotR directors cut trilogy? Learn to make gourmet smash burgers? Watch his favorite TV show when you don't like it? Tell your friends you love everything about him including his flaws? Slowly and patiently work to help develop his self worth when he falters? Help create the man that supports you over years? Watch porn with him and dress up like his favorite spice girl? Give him road head? Bring him l…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 11:27 PM
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To sexualize is to think sexually about a person. I promise you, there are men who can stop sexualizing. That being said, I'll give you that it might be few and far between. But you can also look at a woman, think she is attractive and NOT think about sleeping with her. And you of you treat her like another human being, she will be into it. For example, call her out when she says something stupid, walk away from her, and wait to speak to her as opposed to fawning over her all the time like she c…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 11:42 PM
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Pros. 1. Women are pack animals, and very protective if they see you as useful. Women are very intelligent and resourceful socially. Women love having parties and fun, everything needs to be a constant Rollercoaster ride, so go out for mimosas and shut up and listen. Women aren't different from men in what they want, they just have different restrictions, or checks and balances and they know men don't care and want to exploit them. Just don't be that guy. Just ignoring a woman will drive her nut…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 11:34 PM
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Then there are no other options. Listen I'm sorry for your experience being a bad one. But quite honestly the biggest issue is women saying ALL MEN ARE HORNDOGS, so when I say "don't be that way" and get "WELL THEY CANT NOT DO THAT", what else is there? When did making a genuine connection beyond sex with someone become bad? Maybe it's your own personal expectation and bias, but from my personal experience I started having way more female attention and sex after I stopped sexualizing women. I ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 11:23 PM
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I've worked In female dominated industry for the last 7 years, and I've had very easy access to a full gamut of experiences. I'm often labeled as a unicorn in a haystack where I'm from. All of my friends and close relationships are women. How I define high and low quality PERSONALLY is different. High quality is a moral, virtuous, and ambitious woman. Someone with skill, character, and a moral backbone. The reason that is important is, women view the world as an amusement park. More often than n…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 07:11 PM
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That women aren't in competition. High tier women KNOW that low tier women are going to muddy the waters and they want it that way. "Not all women want a hot guy." Says the 4/10. So now the 10/10 woman gets to keep shopping. "Where are all the good men?" Says the 3/10. The 9/10 gets to keep being hypergamous and sleeping around, joins only fans and gets 100k in 6 months. "Women aren't just sleeping around!" Says the woman who can't afford to. High tier women know they are abusing not only men bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 04:30 PM
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I think most of you are all missing the point in this thread. I'd wager OP is saying, "I'm introverted and shy, I need help BEGINNING." It seems to be OP doesn't know where to start and just saying, "That's not introverted." doesn't really do anything but reinforce the fact that they're asking for help. OP if you want to date, don't expect anything out of women. Work on your external image, and being reserved first. Meaning, get clean, every day with fashion. If you're short wear shoe boosters a…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 04:00 PM
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I'm on your side, because basically why would anyone want to date a person with no personality that skulks in loneliness. However your statement just goes around OPs original comment, because he is implying introverted people who are homebodies are part of the population that doesn't get dates. And your comment is, "well what about the ones that arent?" And to back you up, I still say "ohh well go outside". Yes it's hard and intimidating being a man trying to become socially extroverted, especia…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 03:53 PM
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I'm on your side, because basically why would anyone want to date a person with no personality that skulks in loneliness. However your statement just goes around OPs original comment, because he is implying introverted people who are homebodies are part of the population that doesn't get dates. And your comment is, "well what about the ones that arent?" And to back you up, I still say "ohh well go outside". Yes it's hard and intimidating being a man trying to become socially extroverted, especia…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 03:53 PM
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Impulsivity and poor selection means less survivability and happiness. If you impulsive its dangerous in so many ways. If you cannot discern safe from dangerous, that also is dangerous. Would anyone choose to put a baby on a hang glider with a crackhead? No. And as hyperbolic as that is, it has to be spelled out. You cannot say men are ALL DANGEROUS PREDATORS, and then say it's safe and desirable for you to have sex with 5 in a night and 30 in 3 months. It shows your behavioral choices. A man ho…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 09:00 PM
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Citations needed. What I was aware of was China having a population cap and was deleting women for the longest time, right? Men want women as a means to an end, free labor. Clean, cook, sex, child rear. I would wager that's the larger response from most men, even if they don't know it yet. They were just promised a mommy 2.0 after they left their actual mom. On the other side of the coin, women in the US are all clamoring for the same 10/10 "perfect" man. And they SHOULD because that ensures the…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 04:14 PM
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The study might be garbage, but are we claiming that men are NOT socially inept or ARE THEY? In the same breath they're too stupid to pick up signals, but at the same time they're not that bad at understanding flirting. Even if the study is wrong, right here...this is the internal bias. It's fairly common in the US to call men socially inept, and social media is loaded with information claiming women have issues getting men to pick up on their signals, either while flirting or setting boundaries…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 07:57 PM
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This is impeccable.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 12:54 AM
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Yes lying is bad. Make up is a lie but it's not bad. Waist trainers, push up bras, eye lashes, are a lie but they're good. They're enhancers. Hiding your body count is a lie, but it's acceptable to hide. Taking photos with close ups of a random nipple isn't a lie, but it's definitely manipulation with the intention of looking better than a fully relaxed photo, (in full view). Laughing at a man's joke you dislike is a lie but it's protective. My point: Lies have always been acceptable to some deg…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 04:23 PM
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Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 08:26 PM
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Yes this is a very interesting topic and I'd love to dissect this psychology more. You're very right men will have sex with anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 07:47 PM
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So dark triad traits? I believe they are bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 07:21 PM
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Again thank you I love the insight. If I am understanding you correctly when a woman externalizes her needs, she is expressing her sexual needs and desires. i.e. "I want my husband to wear more pink and work out his hands. So I told him to do that." Is that what you're saying?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 07:20 PM
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Amazing response thank you. 1.) Would a matriarchal society not have mate guarding and jealousy? 2.) I asked my friend about "buying into her own objectification", and we can't come to a consensus on how to interpret that. Would you please expound on how a person buys into their own objectification, and what's the difference between that and being comfortable and sexual?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 06:45 PM
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Is that behavior exploitative?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 06:40 PM
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Good point toxic people breed toxic people. What are 5 of 10 of your top idealized traits/characters of a man?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 06:38 PM
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No shade here, are you implying women lie to get ahead? Or am I misunderstanding. Tyvm.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 06:37 PM
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I read a headline somewhere that said women get more raises and job opportunities if they put time into grooming themselves & make up. I am guessing here, but an employer wants to exploit a worker with high energy, and resilience. Maybe employers see women putting in effort as more likely to overcome and persevere and meet goals and deadlines than someone who doesn't have the same individual and internal ethic of grooming.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 06:36 PM
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So to modify the question, what is one of the top ten traits that you dislike in other women, and why?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 06:33 PM
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I would like to hear more on this topic from you. 1.) If a woman chooses sex work does that fall under patriarchy and is she wrong for doing sex work when men are her clients? 2.) Men are insecure and do want control at the expense of women, but when a woman feels comfortable, safe, and in control is she wrong for finding a man she wants to settle down with or is this rule only for ugly, fat, bald guys, with no game? 3.) Is there something wrong with a woman thinking other women are more beautif…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 06:27 PM
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Yeah that sounds kinda silly. Women have always been different and they're case by case. Women who say stuff like that are insecure they're not homogenous. Safety in numbers and all that. Just be different, you've only got one life..
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 06:18 PM
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What's one of the top ten traits that you strongly dislike in women, and why?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 06:17 PM
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I actually know TOO many women with this exact story, I'm so sorry you've got to go through this. One lady, her "friends" pretended to like her until she made a new friend and immediately started dumping blackmail to the managers because they were hanging out. And the sad part is, it's not confident, powerful, well deserving women that do it to each other. It's the underperforming, lacking, and lonely women that lash out on her. It becomes a cycle of their own abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 06:16 PM
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There is a large trend of womenusing fake baby dolls to pretend to breast feed on instagram. I don't know how I should feel.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 06:13 PM
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