nsfyou2 Archive

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1	An unusual story and what I've learned about attraction and confidence I do agree with your point, but your experience of ONE girl is certainly not a valid basis for this point. This girl just sounds crazy and/or insecure. For the most part, not caring and being indifferent about your interactions is going to really filter out the majority of the girls, leading to a different experience from the one you just had.	/r/seduction	03/07/21 05:45 PM
18	You can't logically convince someone to find you attractive. My psychiatrist described it as, emotion comes from the latin word emovere, which means "to move". An emotion is described to be a "motus anima" which translates to the spirit that moves us". Hence putting these two together, it's important to understand that anything that we do (not just being attracted to someone) comes from this spirit to move us, and not the logic or rationality of something. Hence why emotion is perhaps more inherent to us than logic and reason.	/r/seduction	29/05/21 10:55 PM
1	Is it possible to be dominant without conflict? Dominance is the ability to LEAD an interaction between you and another person. In this case. So no, you don't need conflict per say, but you need an interaction. A good one or bad one, doesnt matter. By leading, i don't mean controlling every detail about it, but just the direction it is going. And as someone pointed out, be honest and authentic about the direction you want it to go in, i.e. confident. Admit to mishaps when pointed out, but don't let it disrupt your lead. If the other party doe…	/r/seduction	02/04/21 11:47 PM
1	Most of your problems come from taking: Taking Vs Offering Value Yeah, gauging reaction is vital, with anyone, in that it shows you are present. Most dudes that are starting off, just aren't. I believe from a women's perspective, when a guy approaches them solely to give value, it gives them a sense of unwanted entitlement and uncertainty. Like, what did I do to receive this value? What's the catch here? Ultimately... what does he want? This is largely what's creepy about being approached, to them- when they don't know what they did to attract such attention.	/r/seduction	29/03/21 07:04 AM
2	Most of your problems come from taking: Taking Vs Offering Value Well said there. I would also add that once you establish what you can offer, you should negotiate what you can take too, making the interaction a two-way exchange of values. This leads to flirting, in my experience. Perhaps that comes naturally when you're offering someonethe aforementioned 10$. Thoughts?	/r/seduction	29/03/21 03:51 AM
2	The total lack of parenting in dating. I have the very same experience. In fact, I started therapy just so I can emotionally burden someone that will listen, with the added plus of them being a professional. When I asked my dad why he didn't teach me anything regarding the other sex and relationships with people in general, he said that he thought I'd learn it from my friends. I kid you not. What's even worse is that he ignored the fact that I had close to none. But i don't blame him, after all the guy is the most introverted sociopa…	/r/seduction	18/03/21 12:06 PM
2	Authenticity and Cold approach I had the same problem. Now it's a bit better. I did some of the following I would breathe in and out deeply atleast 3 times before I approached. I guess it relaxes you and clears you r mind a bit. made note of something peculiar and noteworthy on her, if there's no common event happening near you. someone was also talking about sleep deprivation. Anecdotal only apparently. -practice mindfulness meditation	/r/askTRP	17/01/21 10:19 PM
14	Consumption is the prize. Consume, to further your produce. Don't become consumption. Transfer energy from yourself to the outside world, and not from the outside world to you. That goes for food and for information. I was just talking to someone about this recently. For most, consumption is a coping mechanism in response to depression or anxiety or whatever too. Simple way to begin, put away your phone half hour before going to bed.	/r/TheRedPill	17/01/21 08:55 PM
30	I (31M) threatened to take my wife’s (29F) weekly stipend away if she doesn’t do more chores or get a job. Now she won’t speak to me. What do I do? I wiped away a tear. Beautiful.	/r/askTRP	12/01/21 10:18 PM
1	Reading too much is bad bc you convince yourself you need to do 100 things to attract women. You develop the belief talking to them is hard. This makes you nervous in front of a woman. She senses your fear, feels uncomfortable, then rejects you. Which reinforces your false belief this is hard. It was from this Alan Watts speech. It's a good listen. https://youtu.be/BEPibEUpEA4	/r/seduction	17/09/20 01:58 PM
28	Reading too much is bad bc you convince yourself you need to do 100 things to attract women. You develop the belief talking to them is hard. This makes you nervous in front of a woman. She senses your fear, feels uncomfortable, then rejects you. Which reinforces your false belief this is hard. I agree. I believe that people who invest way too much in reading theory, field reports, personal anecdotes, advice, shortcuts, tips & tricks, etc, and invest way too little in actually using the info, practicing, trial and error, desensitizing, etc, are also those who overthink a lot. Overthinkers. And just recently I read, overthinkers tend to live in a fantacy/false reality due to the inability to process what's going on in front of their eyes and living in their mind. Like me.	/r/seduction	16/09/20 06:24 AM
1	Why do hot chicks tease you by suggesting to pair you up with a fat/ugly girl? Got it. But given a situation like this, how do you cone out on top, and avoid defeat?	/r/askTRP	18/05/20 06:04 PM
1	Question to men... A man who values his time and others' time, will not put up with this. It also goes to show where your priorities are. A little bit is considered flirting, sure. But if it stretches on for days, why would you even entertain someone who chases after you? If I may ask, what are those positive results that you are seeing?	/r/seduction	27/11/19 12:21 PM
4	Stuck in my head? In another thread someone commented that whenever this happens to them, they just repeat to themselves "I'm excited, I'm excited, I'm excited" on and on. Didn't understand, until i tried it myself. What i felt was that it just ramps up positive energy outta nowhere, and even puts a genuine smile on my face. Try it. Or something like that "3, 2, 1" countdown.	/r/askTRP	02/09/19 11:20 PM
3	Does anyone else find it excruciating to further interact with a woman who rejected you? Feminine? You want to have sex, right? Is she fuckable? If yes, she has presented you an opportunity. Keeping in mind that you want to do her, you make an arrangement with respect to your frame, a.k.a her jumping through your hoops. If THAT doesn't work out, then you leave. If it works out, bang you'd have had yourself some sex. Fairly easy lay. Keeping your dignity and not utilising an opportunity are not the same thing. Plus, you sound a bit MGTOWish, or something else in that direction.	/r/askTRP	18/08/19 07:11 AM
2	What cologne works really well for you? This list contains my least and most favourite ones. Can't stand Channel Allure Homme ones, but got compliments from men and women alike for D'Ior Sauvage.	/r/askTRP	01/08/19 11:00 AM
2	Does having more options makes you more attractive? Give The Rational Male series a read. It'll answer a lot of your questions.	/r/seduction	26/07/19 02:57 PM