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| 36 | Why do girls post pictures with handsome guy(s) on dating apps?Is it like that episode of Seinfeld where George had that picture of the model, but used his engagement story about Susan, and because the picture made it seem like he was capable of being with someone beautiful, it pre-validated him with other beautiful women? The girls are trying to pull a Costanza. | /r/seduction | 29/04/22 11:11 PM |
| 7 | Shooting your shot at someone “out of your league”?Is it the one that will shrink his weiner? | /r/seduction | 20/12/21 04:31 AM |
| 2 | tinder girl flaked on a coffee date; what should i reply to her message?Its only desperate if you put a lot of faith into it or care whether or not it happens. Throw it out there and move onto whoever is next, if it happens, it happens, if not, you've already got something else lined up with someone else. | /r/seduction | 05/07/19 04:38 AM |
| 1 | Do some girls just have "flirty" personalities?I really like her but she has a boyfriend. I would never make a explicit move. Ops words. doesn't sound like he is just trying to get laid here. Otherwise he would have already tried. | /r/seduction | 28/04/19 09:44 PM |
| 60 | Do some girls just have "flirty" personalities?If they cheat with you, they will cheat on you? | /r/seduction | 28/04/19 10:50 AM |
| 3 | Today I Asked a Girl for Her Number. She Rejected Me. Here's What it Taught me.You're right that's it's not a big deal to be rejected, but you're working too hard to convince yourself of this. | /r/seduction | 10/11/18 12:40 AM |
| 19 | Had multiple girls tell me I'm very hard to read, is that a good thing or a bad thing?If you were a book, it would mean that most people would give up and go find something more enjoyable.... But you're not a book, so I don't know what it means. | /r/seduction | 07/11/18 11:42 PM |
| 2 | Forgot the name of the girl I'm meeting for a first date tomorrow - any clever way to get it?Mulva? | /r/seduction | 06/11/18 09:18 PM |
| 7 | How do I ask a girl out for coffee while not making it awkward if she says no?Wouldn't the idea behind getting a coffee be to get to know her better? | /r/seduction | 26/09/18 10:14 PM |
| 5 | How do I ask a girl out for coffee while not making it awkward if she says no?If you want to go out for coffee, why would not asking her out for coffee be better? Her declining is only weird if you make it weird. | /r/seduction | 26/09/18 09:49 PM |
| 2 | I've lost the desire to socialize. How do I fix that?I go through this, and sometimes it seems like- the lack of desire to socialize isn't necessarily coming entirely from me. Like you say- it feels mentally draining to socialize with people, and I feel the same way. Until I don't. I suspect part of the reason is the people themselves. When I find people I want to be around and socialize with, the mental exhaustion from even just thinking about hanging out with them goes away. Because they are not hard to be around. So maybe, in your case it will … | /r/seduction | 29/07/18 10:07 PM |
| 6 | Is it normal for women to quickly change how attracted they are to you?It's easy to believe that the vast nameless masses that you know nothing about, are mindless zombies, following and never thinking. You see people wearing a certain fashion and assume they put no thought into their lives, make no decisions, and just follow. It makes it easier to not consider them as fully formed individuals, that live full lives of interactions and experiences that you have no way of knowing. Those assumptions you make are wrong. You have formed these boxes in your mind, and pla… | /r/seduction | 15/06/18 08:37 AM |
| 6 | Is it normal for women to quickly change how attracted they are to you?Totally man. You're the only individual. Everyone else is just sheeple. | /r/seduction | 15/06/18 07:22 AM |
| 7 | Is it normal for women to quickly change how attracted they are to you?Are there actual statistics? or are you just saying it because it feels right to you? | /r/seduction | 15/06/18 04:12 AM |
| -5 | Is it normal for women to quickly change how attracted they are to you?Its almost like women are individuals with their own thoughts and feelings. But no. That cant be it. | /r/seduction | 15/06/18 04:03 AM |
| 2 | Today i got my first number from random girlI'd also be hesitant to say 'babe' it seems so 90's. But if you're rocking reflective sunglasses and blonde tips go for it. | /r/seduction | 27/04/18 11:34 PM |
| 1 | Where am I supposed to meet girls who may be interested in me?Try dance lessons, or some other mixed gender hobby. Rock climbing maybe? Find an activity you want to learn that has classes, and start doing that. You might meet someone, and if not, at least you got to have fun not meeting someone. | /r/seduction | 19/04/18 09:09 AM |
| 2 | I have inner game, highly developed inner game, but why do I not get results?You're not even trying to sleep with me and I am finding you overbearing and pushy. Perhaps you just need to find the right intensity level? If you go out this strong, try toning it down and leveraging your awesome to make yourself enjoyable to be around instead of domineering? | /r/seduction | 16/04/18 11:20 AM |
| 3 | Acting autistic to get dates?I find it kind of funny that you're okay with blatantly lying to trick women into going out with you- and out of all the possibilities, that's the lie you're going with... | /r/seduction | 09/02/18 08:07 AM |
| 8 | 28 years old female virginthere are many kinds - with differing price tags. You may or may not get better results by paying more for it. | /r/seduction | 29/11/17 08:55 PM |
| 1 | How do I get over those depressive feelings as a virgin?Calm down Harvey. | /r/seduction | 28/11/17 07:17 PM |
| 5 | How do I get over those depressive feelings as a virgin?Maybe? But this guy says he doesn't really have many friends and never had a relationship- that's not because he is a virgin. Plenty of people have loads of friends, have relationships with the opposite sex, and are happy with their trajectory in life, while also being a virgin. This guy getting laid will not fix his issues. | /r/seduction | 28/11/17 07:14 AM |
| 7 | How do I get over those depressive feelings as a virgin?I think this is important for you to acknowledge. The lack of meaningful relationships (and by extension having sex) with others is not the cause of your depression and anxiety. Its a symptom | /r/seduction | 28/11/17 02:49 AM |
| 1 | People dont seem interested in getting to know me. I also seem to intimidate and make people nervous or feel awkward and uncomftorable. How can I change this?and I was actually trying to help. If you cant understand how your appearance can influence how people react, you have a long way to go. I was using exaggerated examples- but if you dress and act in ways that are intimidating, don't expect people to 'work hard' to see the real you. Its not worth anyones time, when other people don't have those barriers in place. | /r/seduction | 13/09/17 11:09 PM |
| 1 | People dont seem interested in getting to know me. I also seem to intimidate and make people nervous or feel awkward and uncomftorable. How can I change this?anything about your appearance that might fit stereotypes that people have? like, maybe a face tattoo that says 'serial killa' or a Shaved head and a swastika armband? a chain running from your eyebrow piercing, to your lip, to your nipple? I mean, as much as we shouldn't judge people by appearance, sometimes there are things we are doing/wearing that gives the wrong impression about who we are. | /r/seduction | 13/09/17 10:39 PM |
| 11 | Is it me or young white girls think they are princess ?That's just sad. I'm all for interracial couples. But what you are doing is fetishising, not having an open mind to love. | /r/seduction | 13/09/17 11:15 AM |
| 1 | What does it mean if a guy literally just sends selfies on sc?Guy my wife works with is constantly sending her selfies. He thinks it's quirky and funny. | /r/seduction | 08/09/17 03:14 AM |
| 6 | Guys who get laid a lot, how often do you masturbate normally?Depends on your view of average fitness? If you work around morbidly obese people that don't walk anywhere that doesn't lead directly to food, above average might be 'I can physically walk up 10 stairs without stopping' I'm thinking that's not what op meant, and he probably meant it the way you described.. Just throwing this out there... | /r/seduction | 25/08/17 09:18 AM |
| 0 | I hate small talk, it isn't my strength. How do I avoid it and play to my strengths?I thought small talk was inherently void of emotional content... isn't that the point? Its small, has no real meaning or content? | /r/seduction | 20/08/17 09:59 PM |
| 2 | Being hit on by a married man?Some people are into that. Everyone chooses their own level of involvement and comfort level with risk vs reward. Some people have a sliding scale of morality, and everyones life is unique in the details. What seems wrong from one perspective, may seem completely understandable from another. I'd probably turn him down, Im not interested in hooking up with a married man myself. Not really that interested in hooking up with men at all, but, I reckon I'd be less likely to entertain the thought if h… | /r/seduction | 10/08/17 02:57 AM |
| 5 | What level of attractiveness should I be expecting to pull in women?The problem isn't your attractiveness- once you are outside the realm of butt-ugly-unattractive-hideously-sickening-to-look-at, it ceases to be such a big factor... Unless you want women to throw themselves at you without any effort. Otherwise the only thing stopping your success, is you, your lack of confidence, and your obsession with appearance. | /r/seduction | 26/07/17 11:07 PM |
| 13 | Got talking to an old friend - invited to smoke weed at her house with herKinda sounds like she wants you to buy her weed for her. | /r/seduction | 03/07/17 12:02 AM |
| 5 | shy and self-conscious about my voice, what do you guys think about just handing the girl a note with my opening line/asking her out?I think showing a lack of confidence, is probably going to work against you. | /r/seduction | 09/06/17 01:00 AM |
| 5 | Girls logicIf you want to start questioning someone's logic- maybe wonder why, after 3 years and her turning you down, you're still trying? | /r/seduction | 11/01/17 10:18 PM |
| 6 | Why Do Girls Say They Have A Boyfriend?If there is a boyfriend mentioned, real or imagined- The attraction you are trying to keep up isn't really there at all for her. | /r/seduction | 11/12/16 07:19 PM |
| -4 | Say "This" When A Girl Says Shes Not Going To Have Sex With YouI've never known a well adjusted person to use the insult 'you're a virgin'. But cool man.. | /r/seduction | 02/12/16 08:38 AM |
| 0 | Say "This" When A Girl Says Shes Not Going To Have Sex With YouYeah, I meant 'not have sex' ...So if I understand what you're saying, no...doesn't mean no to you? | /r/seduction | 02/12/16 06:29 AM |
| 2 | Say "This" When A Girl Says Shes Not Going To Have Sex With YouSo if a girl says she does not want to have sex, this guy has the advice of 'ignore it and keep going' ...uhm edit...because an important word seems to have been ignored | /r/seduction | 02/12/16 06:17 AM |
| 2 | How do I climb through her window to give her a flower if all of her windows are locked?I thought it was /r/ShittySeduction when I first saw it. | /r/seduction | 28/09/16 08:53 AM |
| 3 | Is "Not Trying Anything" Truly the Best Form Of Attracting Women?there is no one size fits all, special button sequence to unlock all the women. | /r/seduction | 02/04/16 09:46 PM |
| 16 | I feel like you got to say everything right to a girl or else she dosent like youso you believe that there is a magic combination of words that if you say it in the right order, the girl will have no choice but to like you? | /r/seduction | 01/04/16 08:31 PM |
| 7 | How can I go about getting from having friends to close friends?share more intimate stuff | /r/seduction | 28/02/16 05:50 AM |
| 2 | First night out at a club... got rejected by everyone. I feel crushed... is this normal?Is this what seduction has become? go to a club and start pawing on people? | /r/seduction | 28/02/16 01:32 AM |
| -1 | Tinder: Been using it for months, 0 matches.Why not swipe on everyone and see what happens? It might give you some idea of what a mutually acceptable match might look like. | /r/seduction | 31/01/16 08:51 AM |
| 2 | How can I overcome my height barrier (of 5'6")? At least 50% of white women are taller than meYou believing that your height is a factor is the only reason it is a factor. | /r/seduction | 26/01/16 08:27 AM |
| 3 | Is writing a song for my crush too cliché?just make sure to write it where the name becomes interchangeable with other names, and you can reuse it on the next girl. | /r/seduction | 05/01/16 03:27 AM |
| -1 | What does it mean when a girl says they hate you in a deadpan tone?Im not sure how her saying directly to you that she hates you, means that she obviously doesn't hate you? Your logic doesn't make sense. 'This girl says she wants to eat icecream, obviously they don't want to eat icecream. So what does she mean by saying she wants to eat icecream?' really? | /r/seduction | 05/10/15 04:33 AM |
| 4 | That virginity thing...20% raise you say? | /r/seduction | 09/09/15 08:32 PM |
| 66 | About to Lose my Best ManThere's no way to benefit from what you have learned here, but not do it in such a way that the person you are closest to in the world finds you no longer pleasant to be around? I dunno, if its causing this kind of rift in the relationship you have described, maybe you're not changing for the better. But there is very little context, and I know nothing about either of you, so this advice is more than likely way off the mark. | /r/seduction | 25/01/15 09:50 AM |
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