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| 13 | Drunk girl currently asleep in my bed. WTF. | nuckingFutz | /r/seduction | 07/01/11 01:36 AM | |
| 2 | Help me with a spot of ASD | nuckingFutz | /r/seduction | 03/05/11 03:41 PM | |
| 2 | Going on one of those birthright israel trips. | nuckingFutz | /r/seduction | 04/02/11 04:15 AM | |
| 0 | Sexy side-jobs - what else besides bartender? | nuckingFutz | /r/seduction | 10/11/10 01:40 AM |
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| 52 | As a female bartender, what can I do to help male customers with the women they're attempting to flirt with? In return I'll answer any questions you have about picking up cute barmaids!You're doing pretty well. "Have you met David?" with no other qualifiers implies he's someone that everyone already knows. It's local fame. Alternatively you could ask them what they're most proud of, just in idle conversation, then use that to give them an opportunity to brag without seeming obnoxious. "Have you met David? Turns out he's a competitive salsa dancer." But more than anything, when you banter with them, touch your hair, smile, bat your eyes and give off other clues that the girls w… | /r/seduction | 05/04/12 07:48 PM |
| 3 | You guys do realise that 99.9% of "alphas" on here aren't actually "alphas"?Obvious troll is obvious. "Sexual intercourse, also known as copulation or coitus, commonly refers to the act in which a male's penis enters a female's vagina for the purposes of sexual pleasure or reproduction." | /r/seduction | 17/02/12 11:04 PM |
| 0 | Not to whore myself for attention, but what about those of us with legitimate mental illness?You're not attention whoring. Stop asking. Dating will help you identify things to discuss in treatment. Treatment will help you deal rationally with dating. They go together. As much as it'd be nice to 'take a break' until you're well again, it's more effective to keep living your life and discuss it in treatment. | /r/seduction | 15/02/12 05:47 PM |
| 3 | Ever Since Seddit, I'm Now Way Too Quick To Dismiss Women."I came out of a 7 year relationship a year ago" As someone who called off an engagement, I hope you enjoy being single for at least another year or two before you look for that spark again. | /r/seduction | 10/02/12 03:02 AM |
| 1 | Maintaining attraction/reducing flaking when you can't meet quicklyI hit this point a while ago. My solution: throw parties. The ones who really want you often "stay after to help clean up." Plus it ups your social circle game, you develop a very positive reputation, and are always hooking up your cool guy friends with cool girls (you do have cool guy friends, right?) | /r/seduction | 06/02/12 04:34 PM |
| 1 | "Let's meet at my place first"... does this work in a city where neither of you drives a car?Ask her to show up early to help prepare (if it makes sense), or that you're running a little bit late, can she meet you at your place. If anything, it's considerate; you're not forcing her to wait around for you. | /r/seduction | 02/02/12 06:56 PM |
| 2 | Does a girl have to be a bitch?One of main tenants of seduction is: don't ask women for advice on getting women. Their perspective is skewed; they remember only the horrible attempts and great attempts. Same goes for asking guys. If I were you, I'd read up on the different between alpha/beta behavior in men and translate accordingly for women. Alpha = exciting, novel, dopamine-producing behavior. Beta = comforting, accepting, seratonin-producing behavior. What attracts men and women are very different; women will find a man w… | /r/seduction | 05/01/12 03:05 PM |
| 2 | DAE's game suffer from having a baby-face?Work with it. Date young. You'll only be able to do so for a limited time. | /r/seduction | 04/01/12 09:31 PM |
| 3 | I'm SICK of browsing r/foreveralone & r/depression only to wallow in my own self pity - so I've decided to change, and need your advice guys...Not really. It shows you're not afraid to stand out and act without external validation (ie you have balls). Best line I've ever heard in response, "I enjoy supporting local business." If you're comfortable with it, she won't make a fuss. Also, first rule of going out alone, open up a practice set or two to get yourself in a talkative mood. Most girls will assume that initial group are your friends. You can even introduce them as your friends and nobody will bat an eye. | /r/seduction | 29/12/11 12:55 AM |
| 8 | I'm SICK of browsing r/foreveralone & r/depression only to wallow in my own self pity - so I've decided to change, and need your advice guys...You've got a lot of work today. That's good news. It's fun. It's probably going to be the most rewarding period of your life. If you have the insurance, I'd recommend getting a shrink. Find a good one who can help you identify what's real and what exists only in your head. Here on seddit people will suggest affirmations - but there's always this seed of self doubt with affirmations. Having a realistic perspective that yes, you have qualities that other people admire and want to associate with, t… | /r/seduction | 28/12/11 01:03 PM |
| 72 | I'm SICK of browsing r/foreveralone & r/depression only to wallow in my own self pity - so I've decided to change, and need your advice guys...A brief note about facebook: you only see the good stuff. It's 100% filtered to present only the most fun, attractive, best fronts that people can portray. People who are out having the best lives are usually the ones who post the least! | /r/seduction | 28/12/11 12:53 PM |
| 8 | Girls With BoyfriendsIf a girl begrudgingly admits she has a boyfriend but is still into you, go for it. It's likely she wants an out but needs validation that she's still attractive. You're saving both of them a lot of pain and anxiety by giving her a way to cut it off early. | /r/seduction | 25/12/11 04:23 AM |
| 1 | Getting girls to dance at night clubsIf there's a group of girls that seems to be losing momentum, I'm a huge fan of walking straight into the middle of the group, taking the hand of the girl in front of me, and doing two-three dance moves. Then after the last move, push her away, or spin her away and don't pull her back. This should all take 10-15 seconds. Immediately grab the next girl in the circle and do the same thing. Do this all the way around the group of girls. When you've danced with every single one, just walk away and g… | /r/seduction | 04/12/11 01:37 PM |
| 6 | HB: So are you going to buy me a drink?Let her have her emotions. They are her responsibility, not yours. You stood by your principles, and if she doesn't respect it, you will respect yourself. | /r/seduction | 27/11/11 05:02 AM |
| 1 | Missing people to go out with.Profile is 80%. Pictures are 80% of the profile. Your "tribe" or style is 80% of your picture (ie, hipster, jock, suit, etc). You get a sense for what girls reply to. Don't worry too much about game after the first 1-2 messages - all they want to know is you're not a creepy internet guy. Overgaming (and trying too hard in general) is a major killer. Generally OKCupid girls are 6-7s, so it shouldn't be too bad. Some think they're 8s because they have so many 'options,' but most realize how much s… | /r/seduction | 27/11/11 04:34 AM |
| 2 | Missing people to go out with.Thank you sir. | /r/seduction | 26/11/11 03:31 PM |
| 3 | Missing people to go out with.Flattery will get you everywhere... | /r/seduction | 25/11/11 10:26 AM |
| 10 | Missing people to go out with.Go out alone. It does wonder for your game. You'll find that your friends were likely holding you back, both in terms of what you could do and say, and logistics. You use your first one or two sets to get into a social mood and for social proof. People will assume you are 'with' them. This is one situation where I say don't hit on the hottest girl first, find the friendliest group first, just to build state. If you absolutely must have friends, bring a girl or two along. Don't have any girls to … | /r/seduction | 25/11/11 06:47 AM |
| 1 | A little help with a 3some? Having some hang-ups [F]FMWatching and being able to interact with two other people having sex is an amazing experience. You don't have to be "having sex" 100% of the time. | /r/seduction | 15/11/11 11:03 AM |
| 1 | On Self-Worth, and not having it.Therapy. Make sure to find a good doctor. Seduction won't change this outlook; changing this will impact more than just your sex life. | /r/seduction | 15/11/11 09:32 AM |
| 0 | Are you all incredibly angry, delusional, hateful, depressed, violently upset, hate your wife (or hate women because you don't have one), support rape with false statistics, .... or is there some kind of smear campaign against r/mensrights?Often by successfully pitcing to someone with a platform or literary/publishing experience can win you a co-authorship. Or just as a ghost writer for their platform. | /r/MensRights | 02/11/11 10:14 PM |
| 3 | Hey Seddit if you could, what would you tell the 16 year old version of yourself (keep it related to seddit)?You are going to get laid. Push push push for it. Not in terms of creeping girls out, but making sure all the logistics and doubts are taken care of. That girls CRAVES a guy who knows what he's doing and acts on his desires. Fake it if you have to. So kiss her. And fuck her. And move on if you want to (they won't judge you poorly for it. I've had girls contact me YEARS later and say "i'm the one that got away" rather than that I was a douchebag) | /r/seduction | 31/10/11 05:19 PM |
| 8 | Bagging a "10"Definitely a comfort question. Can also lead in with the classic neg after she does something silly, "Oh jeez you must drive your boyfriends nuts." | /r/seduction | 23/10/11 06:13 PM |
| 13 | Bagging a "10"I used to have a routine where I'd ask a girl the three things that bothered her most about ex's. I'd then proceed to do those things throughout the course of the night. | /r/seduction | 23/10/11 05:49 PM |
| 12 | Bagging a "10"Make sure to be seen with other women lusting after you. Not just entertaining them, but them physically trying to obtain your attention. She's unlikely to go on a one-on-one date. Get her group involved and then isolate. Most 10's are afraid of being trapped with a guy on a date. Ignore what she says about politics and current events. Talk about emotionally engaging stuff. If you do venture onto the pussy-drying topic of politics, keep it as emotional and personal to her as possible. Usually gi… | /r/seduction | 23/10/11 02:23 PM |
| 1 | Tens For Life: Status GameI don't cold approach now. The concept doesn't even make sense to me anymore. I just talk to people. Sometimes, if they're hot, I tease them or tell good stories. Things generally work out. | /r/seduction | 23/10/11 04:29 AM |
| 1 | Tens For Life: Status GameNot to mention, there are such things as rockstars who get LJBF'd. Game is a separate skill. See: Mark Zuckerberg's ugly girlfriend. | /r/seduction | 22/10/11 07:46 PM |
| 3 | Tens For Life: Status GameTrue. And important. But there are other considerations. If you're after sex and not all the other benefits of fame, work on creating a sexual identity. Identify a sex icon or role or stereotype, and practice being it. For examples, check out /r/ladyboners. Famous is only one of there stereotypes. Attaining fame sucks. It's hard work, low pay (until you make it), and 99% of those who attempt it don't make it. Want to be guaranteed to have a shit job when you're 45? Try to make it as a musician u… | /r/seduction | 22/10/11 01:23 PM |
| 12 | Honest question for AFCs:As a former AFC, turned sedditor, who has since gotten soft in the warm embrace of a LTR: 99% of the time we're not thinking about it. Two hot girls talking to you? Weird, I wonder what they want. Girl finds a reason to keep talking to you throughout a day / night? She must be lonely (and not like that). Girl locks eyes with you? She's in the zone or distracted / I must have something on face. Girl teases me? Innocent fun. People say I'm still a flirt, and that I have a way with women, so old ha… | /r/seduction | 18/10/11 04:54 PM |
| 3 | PracticalPickup: You Signed Up For Awkwardness - must read for 90% of the people that pass through here!*blush* | /r/seduction | 15/09/11 10:47 PM |
| 2 | PracticalPickup: You Signed Up For Awkwardness - must read for 90% of the people that pass through here!Agreed. But original for you is different from interesting to them. Every girl asks, "so what do you do" but few have heard "I cut those little pickles at mcdonalds juuuuust right. Do you know how hard it is to get those little wavy bits in there?" even if I say it every time. | /r/seduction | 15/09/11 10:44 PM |
| 1 | PracticalPickup: You Signed Up For Awkwardness - must read for 90% of the people that pass through here!I prefer to avoid compliments on beauty. Say they look fun. | /r/seduction | 15/09/11 10:37 PM |
| 11 | PracticalPickup: You Signed Up For Awkwardness - must read for 90% of the people that pass through here!Eesh, I hate the interview. Yeah, it works, but there's no energy to it. If you're going to be sincere and honest, BE SINCERE AND HONEST. "Hi!" "Hi?" "Shit. I came over to talk to you before I could think of what to say." BAM! Instant genuine conversation going, rather than asking about polite boring stuff. | /r/seduction | 15/09/11 12:20 PM |
| 26 | Common shit tests and how to defuse themplug in or batteries? | /r/seduction | 17/07/11 05:16 AM |
| 1 | Kudos to SedditHmm. Nice shirt. Clearly you shaved your boobs today. Oh, you wanted "quality" tactics. Either way, I'm always pleasantly surprised how little game most guys have, despite how everyone has heard of PUAs now. | /r/seduction | 26/05/11 04:46 AM |
| 5 | "There is no 'real you'. You're defined by your actions"Eh, one does have an "inner self" that is comprised of self talk, personal preferences, comfort boundaries, etc. They influence actions, but they do exist on their own. | /r/seduction | 21/05/11 08:32 PM |
| 1 | Drew a blank in the libraryEh, playing games. Most guys who get into pickup are tired of being the "nice guy." Sadly, nice guys are usually playing more games than jerks. Jerks at least let you know they're using you for sex. Nice guys pretend they're not, then get resentful when it doesn't happen. And thank you a dozen times for acknowledging that women get into little games too - the relevant XKCD: http://xkcd.com/800/ So there's lots of pickup students who are still stuck in that mentality. They still think in terms of… | /r/seduction | 18/05/11 02:31 PM |
| 1 | Drew a blank in the libraryRe: "Not all girls are like this." This is the standard response from women who think they're special. Attraction and sexual response are almost identical in all psychologically healthy women. Re: picking up girls. Please try again and post "field reports," which are accounts of what you said, did, and what she said and did. If it goes well, great, but if not, we all get to learn from the mistakes. Not saying this helps us or applies to you, but men always love to hear from women who try to pick… | /r/seduction | 16/05/11 06:23 AM |
| 1 | Drew a blank in the libraryNot surprised at all by your reaction. Pickup attitudes seems sexist or manipulative until people realize the whole point of it is to make people feel good enough with you to be intimate. Part of that means being honest to the point of being blunt. Manipulation through deception and negative feelings is possible, but it's so much more difficult - people naturally stay away from those who make them feel bad (unless there's a larger psychological problem - and most men with options don't want to g… | /r/seduction | 16/05/11 06:21 AM |
| 3 | Drew a blank in the libraryYou'll also get a lot of flak around here when you say stuff like the above. Two main responses: Girls don't know what they want from men. In hypothetical situations, they are imagining the "average guy" or "average ex boyfriend" or "hot guy I already like." Sedditors strive to be anything but the average guy. Women also underestimate the effects of subconscious attraction - leading to the phrase, "attraction is not a choice." Never take advice on pickup from girls - it's like asking a movie cri… | /r/seduction | 16/05/11 02:42 AM |
| 1 | From PUA to socialite: Do any of the guidelines about pick up extend to people you aren't trying to pick up? Please read..."How to Win Friends and Influence People" is horrible for hot girls, but great for everyone else. It's total beta shlub stuff. But that's perfect for guys - they want your respect and indications you're not going to compete with them. Guys will joke around, tease, and sort of fitness test - but it's not for fitness, it's for position in the social hierarchy. If you laugh it off and tease back, it's fun. Calling the guy out puts you above (even as simple as "knock it off guys"). Laughing and not … | /r/seduction | 16/05/11 02:18 AM |
| 1 | Drew a blank in the libraryAssumptive and arrogant are exactly what I was going for, thank you. How hot are you? Arrogant works really well with hot girls for some reason. Also, how much time have you spent in /r/seduction? Assumptive and arrogant is also sometimes called "cocky" which is half of "cocky and funny," a very common technique. | /r/seduction | 16/05/11 02:06 AM |
| 3 | Drew a blank in the library"I see you looking at me like I'm a big ice cream cone." "You can't look at me like that and not expect me to come flirt with you." "Do you have a mirror? I need to check if there's something embarrassing on my face, or if you just think I'm cute." "You know you shouldn't wear your hair like that. [what, why?] "It attracts the wrong kind of guys." [?!] "Well I'm talking to you, aren't I?" "Hey." wink. wave. "Hey, uh, listen for a moment. I'm really shy, but I've been trying to work on it lately,… | /r/seduction | 15/05/11 01:43 AM |
| 30 | What are women thinking?I would bet most people pick the shortest line. I know I do. And I talk to the person anyway, because I talk to everyone. Are you trying to pick up the cutest one? Yes, sometimes girls will give "proximity IOIs" which mean going somewhere near a hot guy just for the chance at interaction. | /r/seduction | 14/05/11 08:03 PM |
| 7 | Advice: When the Shit Hits the FanGreat advice. Once when I was picking up a girl and pulling out of her driveway, I hear a sickening crunch as my car bottoms out on some rocks there. She gets this panicked look, is about to start apologizing profusely. I stop the car, tell her to sit tight, and get out and look. Plastic part of the bumper popped off about 1/2 an inch. Popped it back into place, got back in the car, said, "Good to go" and I kept driving. Later I learned that her former boyfriend had all kinds of anger management… | /r/seduction | 14/05/11 04:46 PM |
| 3 | AFC to PUA MovieAlready hints so strongly that way. He goes back to his cheating wife. | /r/seduction | 11/05/11 09:38 PM |
| 5 | "The purpose of this document is to provide you with a complete and unequivocal guide to success."That's a pretty good combination. You can answer interview questions honestly and yet pursue things that pop up. | /r/seduction | 09/05/11 09:45 PM |
| 67 | "The purpose of this document is to provide you with a complete and unequivocal guide to success."When I was fresh out of college and started my first job, I started engaging in this kind of planning and documentation. I still have my saved to do lists and completed lists, weekly and monthly and annual self-review and goal setting statements. I was "successful" in my career, finances, and by most societal standards. In the end, I despaired; I'd bound myself up in things I wanted, not things I enjoyed. There is a major difference. Achieving goals does not satisfy you. Really. Pursuing goals m… | /r/seduction | 09/05/11 04:58 PM |
| 3 | Common misconceptions about PUA, share them.Myth: PUA is all about deceiving or pushing women into having sex with you - something they otherwise wouldn't want. Fact: Women like sex. They're looking for the best men they can get for it. Pickup advocates being open and honest about your intentions. Setting up a sexual vibe early, establishing physical contact early, and being frank about your interest in monogamy or not. Pickup also recommends being the best version of you that you can be - it's very self-helpy - rather than lying or decei… | /r/seduction | 06/05/11 02:50 AM |
| 5 | Common misconceptions about PUA, share them.Myth: You can spot a PUA being creepy, an asshole, only talking to girls, or acting like a player, and thus avoid him. Fact: Successful PUAs are impossible to tell from just really cool guys, except that they always seem to have women fawning over them. It's newbies and not-very-good players who give the creepy vibe. Frequently I'll be talking to a female friend of mine and I'll remark, "That guy you're interested in is such a player!" It's completely obvious to me he's using PUA techniques. Her… | /r/seduction | 06/05/11 02:39 AM |
| 6 | Common misconceptions about PUA, share them.Myth: PUA is only something losers do to "fix" themselves and become normal, or repair after a major breakup. Fact: Normal guys have a lot to learn from pickup. Advanced guys have a lot to learn from pickup. Interacting with women and leading people in fun, social, and sexual encounters is a lifelong skill. Had a threesome? Yes? Can you do it regularly, with really hot girls? Or maintain a healthy relationship with multiple secure, confident women, who've chosen to stay with you even if you're n… | /r/seduction | 06/05/11 02:31 AM |
| 3 | "It's none of your business what others think of you."also, chloroform and stockholm syndrome. | /r/seduction | 04/05/11 02:14 AM |
| 2 | Help me with a spot of ASDnot texting; IM. like facebook chat or AIM or whatever you want to call it. face to face is difficult when you're out of town. this keeps the attraction going, if not building. but i can just as easily say we should discuss this in person and maintain my hand that way. | /r/seduction | 04/05/11 02:01 AM |
| 1 | Help me with a spot of ASDYep, like AIM. Texts suck. I know girls check within 5 sec, then strategically wait to respond. IM is different. Thanks for this - think this is the best advice thus far. | /r/seduction | 04/05/11 02:00 AM |
| 1 | Seddit, I failed in my goal to post 10 FRs in April. Give me a punishment.I didn't say, "post vids." Every man should have a record of his accomplishments punishments. To keep him modest. | /r/seduction | 03/05/11 10:09 AM |
| 3 | Seddit, I failed in my goal to post 10 FRs in April. Give me a punishment.Your punishment: F-close two girls in one night. I know it's difficult, but you must do it. You have one month. Take pictures and/or video. | /r/seduction | 02/05/11 10:57 PM |
| 3 | Beginners/AFCs: You're presented with a choiceDon't go to bars/clubs then. Take yoga classes (YOGA BUNNIES omg), cafes, bookstores, paper craft shops, whatever. All can be done between 5-9pm. Edit: I've had lots of luck on Sunday evenings at bars too. Chill crowd, people are more open. Lots of service industry people. | /r/seduction | 02/05/11 10:52 PM |
| 2 | When she asks how old you are...I bet you kick ass at yoga classes and other non-bar venues. "Who's the old guy?" turns into: "Oh my god he's fit" etc One of my greatest fears is how to continue the lifestyle as I age. Have you or someone you like written about PUA 50+? | /r/seduction | 30/04/11 06:14 AM |
| 1 | Fat guy, or how I learned to stop worrying about it.I was once told that I have a "fat kid" personality. Took a lot of explaining until I got it. | /r/seduction | 27/04/11 02:27 PM |
| 0 | "Success is going from failure to failure without losing enthusiasm" -ChurchillHonestly, I prefer learning from others' mistakes. | /r/seduction | 25/04/11 08:39 AM |
| 1 | "Success is going from failure to failure without losing enthusiasm" -ChurchillGoing from failure to failure without losing enthusiasm - is a great way to stay stuck where you are. Gotta LEARN from your mistakes =P | /r/seduction | 25/04/11 05:02 AM |
| 2 | DAE think that the advice on r/dating_advice is hugely flawed and most of the questions should really be answered by r/seduction?tl;dr: newbs give shit advice on shit they are newbs about on both subreddits | /r/seduction | 04/03/11 02:30 PM |
| 2 | Most flawless pick-up I've ever had all becasue of Nazis and cashcab.What's particularly awesome about this is: she was totally in on it. She brought up food for a reason and went with it. She asked about your car for a reason. She lead you and you lead her. | /r/seduction | 04/02/11 06:14 AM |
| 2 | [Female FR] Awesome is what awesome does!Just read this. Have to say it provides a lot of context that is very difficult to get from women. Yes, you do have a better sense of interpersonal dynamics just from looking at body language (you could tell they have a history). Yes, you are more sensitive to having fun / boring groups, and alpha and beta behaviors even within 30~ second interactions. I'll take a few lessons from you about just how high to amp up the flirty and fun nature of the interaction. Thinking of flirting isn't something… | /r/seduction | 04/02/11 04:29 AM |
| 1 | We all could learn something from this guy (Made his move like a BOSS. Video)There was a phrase going around a while ago, "your phone is your best wingman." This takes it one step further. | /r/seduction | 01/02/11 09:43 PM |
| 2 | So I read all the OKCupid advice threads I could find on seddit...I was going to post on seddit asking why only fat chicks seem to be interested in me on OKC. Your post summed it up. Thank you. | /r/seduction | 24/01/11 05:59 PM |
| 9 | Dissecting shit test passing measures (Tyler Durden)Rather empty cliche advice. What about reacting in a way that shows you're above the situation? "Oh my god, you are such a jerk." "Only because you love it." Requires zero inner game - in fact, you could absolutely hate women and act like an asshole just to get back at them, and this line would still work. | /r/seduction | 23/01/11 09:11 PM |
| 21 | The turtle represents how you're a pussy. (SMBC)Don't put the (hidden) punchline in the title! | /r/seduction | 22/01/11 04:41 PM |
| 1 | Drunk girl currently asleep in my bed. WTF.This is where I ended up, despite everyone saying how beta it is. Having sex with a hungover, disheveled and likely to puke girl is not my idea of alpha. I can, and have, done way better. Apparently alpha = have sex no matter what the costs. | /r/seduction | 07/01/11 10:55 PM |
| 1 | Drunk girl currently asleep in my bed. WTF.She was drunk enough that I would dislike being near her. She was unintelligible. In the morning she'd have been hungover, disheveled, and likely smelly. In fact, I'm starting to think the entire episode is a reason to scratch her off the list. We'll see if she can redeem herself. | /r/seduction | 07/01/11 04:21 PM |
| 1 | Drunk girl currently asleep in my bed. WTF.read the update. she slept on the couch, not me. | /r/seduction | 07/01/11 09:35 AM |
| -1 | Drunk girl currently asleep in my bed. WTF.Moved her to the couch, slept in my bed. | /r/seduction | 07/01/11 08:24 AM |
| 0 | Drunk girl currently asleep in my bed. WTF.Moved her to the couch, slept in my bed. | /r/seduction | 07/01/11 08:24 AM |
| 0 | Drunk girl currently asleep in my bed. WTF.Moved her to the couch, slept in my bed. | /r/seduction | 07/01/11 08:24 AM |
| 5 | Drunk girl currently asleep in my bed. WTF.Moved her to the couch, slept in my bed. | /r/seduction | 07/01/11 08:24 AM |
| 4 | Drunk girl currently asleep in my bed. WTF.Moved her to the couch, slept in my bed. | /r/seduction | 07/01/11 08:23 AM |
| 1 | Drunk girl currently asleep in my bed. WTF.Not bad. I'd like to remind her that it was rude and not free. A drink doesn't seem reasonable, given that she'll have a hangover. Maybe just saying, playfully, "Oh god, last night was great. That thing you did on top was sooo good. Aren't you sore?" Let her squirm a bit, then say, "Nah, you fell asleep in my bed like a champ. Remind me that I can drink you under the table any day." | /r/seduction | 07/01/11 02:25 AM |
| 5 | Drunk girl currently asleep in my bed. WTF.Same, triggers my AFC alert. She took advantage of my hospitality and then I ask to sleep with her? Meh. Maybe just drawing on her face. | /r/seduction | 07/01/11 02:24 AM |
| 1 | Drunk girl currently asleep in my bed. WTF.She's drunk. Unlikely to remember why she got in, other than "oooh soft." | /r/seduction | 07/01/11 02:23 AM |
| 2 | Drunk girl currently asleep in my bed. WTF.Bingo. I'd actually like to sleep with this woman with her clothes off one day. I thought about drawing on her face though. That'd be funny. Edit: though if she thought we already slept together and was okay with the idea, might be easier next time. shrug | /r/seduction | 07/01/11 02:22 AM |
| 1 | Neil Strauss's personal appeal to the seduction communityExactly. case in point: http://www.stylelife.com/ | /r/seduction | 12/12/10 04:59 AM |
| 1 | Advice on Breakups: Initiating, surviving, and dealing with the emotional aftermath?Just broke up with my girlfriend of 3 months. She was intelligent, funny, gorgeous, loyal, and liked baking me cookies. But there were a few gotcha's there too - she was entitled/spoiled (likely as a result of having things handed to her from looks), and was just too vanilla in bed. She was a sweetheart and didn't deserve the pain; she was into me more than I was into her (likely as a result of learning how to seduce). There have been a few rough patches (usually conflicts when I refused to acqu… | /r/seduction | 30/11/10 07:39 AM |
| 1 | Sexy side-jobs - what else besides bartender?ewwww | /r/seduction | 10/11/10 08:31 AM |
| 2 | How to engage again after broken contact (months)Both are very wordy; the first is okay, the last tries way too hard. "Hey, which Karen is this?" (insert her name for Karen) "Oh man I'm going to get you so bad next time" (mis-text) "You're that girl from the subway, right? Been a while." | /r/seduction | 09/11/10 07:48 AM |
| 1 | Crosspost from /r/depression: Finding a girlfriend is like a job application.There's a lot of very different advice in this thread. Honestly this is the kind of thing that's very difficult to diagnose over the internet. Where are you located? | /r/seduction | 08/11/10 05:11 PM |
| 1 | Is it okay for a man to act like a slut?Author has little-to-no awareness of the concepts of "hypergamy" and "pre-selection" and their role in human mating. Simply put, a guy hitting on a girl is creepy when it suggests he has no other options. If he's somehow indicated his social standing prior to a proposition, it's much more likely that he'll come across as bold or seductive. | /r/seduction | 06/11/10 09:41 AM |
| 1 | Stephen Fry thinks that women don't really like sexThere's a mosaic hermaphrodite who has fully functioning male and female genitalia who is a frequent guest speaker on Love Line. He has had orgasms via both sets of genitalia and finds the male orgasm to be more pleasurable. | /r/seduction | 31/10/10 11:54 PM |
| 1 | Hey Seddit, I have an idea to bring some good fresh content to r/seductionThough I'm not very well known around here, I'd be glad to help organize, set up interview questions, record, transcribe, and moderate the calls (see #3). As mentioned in other comments, we'd want to avoid circle-jerking about how great we are, avoid keyboard jockeys taking the hot seat for validation, avoid guru worship, and keep the content pertinent to the seddit community. I'd suggest splitting the hour in half; one half being a guided interview, and the second half as question-and-answer. M… | /r/seduction | 29/10/10 01:11 AM |
| 2 | Too bad coffee is for closers...Well there's some issues right there. That's a bad self-deprecating joke. Ever heard of Myers Briggs? You're clearly a P type, not a J type. You like to take in information and consider options before deciding/judging. Trust me, that's a trait that can work to your advantage. Once I was on a date with a girl who (unknown to me) previously dated an abusive, quick-tempered man. When we were driving around and I hit a pothole bad enough to pop my hood open, she freaked out and got scared. I pulled … | /r/seduction | 21/10/10 10:22 PM |
| 1 | Clubs, oh how I hate you.Same line, but lightly touching a tramp stamp, would also be hilarious. | /r/seduction | 21/10/10 10:41 AM |
| 5 | Too bad coffee is for closers...You went out and had a good time, practiced your skillset, got a great reaction, and didn't find any of them attractive enough to put in the effort to take home. I don't see the problem. It's obvious that you're able to get laid any time you want. You chose not to get laid that night - it didn't seem worth it. If you're having a crisis of faith about this, maybe, just maybe, you're learning that there really is enough pussy to go around, and that sometimes it's not the only thing in life worth p… | /r/seduction | 21/10/10 10:28 AM |
| 1 | She's scared that I'm a player, but I do like her!Come back when you're done being bitter, okay? We can't help people who don't want to be helped, but you're just dragging people down. | /r/seduction | 06/10/10 08:47 AM |
| 1 | Going Pro - ideas?This is good advice. Just curious though - I've never been able to find local forums. I live in LA and the ones I've heard about are all product spam mailing lists or they don't respond to my requests to join. Seems like LA is tapped out. Girls will regularly ask if I'm a pickup artist. | /r/seduction | 10/08/10 10:53 PM |
| 1 | Going Pro - ideas?and ... just look at other gurus that you like/dislike, and copy the elements you like, modify them to fit you, and disregard the stuff you don't like (or do the opposite) | /r/seduction | 10/08/10 10:50 PM |
| 2 | Going Pro - ideas?A blog with: in field videos of yourself in field audio of yourself in field video/audio of your coaching testimonials, written and verbal question / answer from real people and real readers link to relevant articles from other gurus read everything you can about coaching find other ways to coach in your life (help someone get fit?) offer a money-back guarantee let people leave anytime offer an advice service where people can email/call anytime after they've taken the class don't be creepy and t… | /r/seduction | 10/08/10 10:49 PM |
| 2 | Going Pro - ideas?obvious amog is obvious | /r/seduction | 10/08/10 10:23 PM |
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