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| 5 | This obsession with wanting to be a woman's #1 choice, not 2nd choice vs reality.It really depends on the circumstances and if you are ok with knowing you were her second choice and if you really want to be with her. I personally wouldn't be able to unless she became my second choice too. You can have a good relationship but it doesn't always work out that way. I don't think you should listen to dating coaches that tell you the the kind of girl you should be with and what she should do when you are interested in her. They'll tell you to date an inexperienced and pure girl bu… | /r/seduction | 18/08/26 01:07 AM |
| 3 | No spark is an actual thingI have and it's never worth it to try to see it though or try to make it work and that's ok. | /r/seduction | 17/08/26 02:19 AM |
| 1 | Day 3 of cold approaching 10 women a day till i get a girlfriendVery inspiring man and your attitude and mindset will get you farther than anyone would like to believe. It really is a numbers game and sometimes is comes down to being the right guy at the right time. | /r/seduction | 14/08/26 05:07 PM |
| 2 | Every girl wants to date me.Once you go through it you understand lol | /r/seduction | 14/08/26 07:28 AM |
| 1 | Every girl wants to date me.Getting laid is always going to increase your chances to get a relationship. | /r/seduction | 14/08/26 07:25 AM |
| 0 | Every girl wants to date me.Yeah being vague can be kinda tricky because you're kinda giving false hope without actually saying it. | /r/seduction | 14/08/26 07:19 AM |
| 1 | Every girl wants to date me.Usually women in their 20s are more open to something casual as to women in their 30s want something more serious and long term. | /r/seduction | 14/08/26 05:38 AM |
| 1 | Every girl wants to date me.But it's like always getting served lobster when you really just want a burger. | /r/seduction | 14/08/26 05:31 AM |
| 1 | Every girl wants to date me.What are the ages of these women? How are you meeting them? | /r/seduction | 14/08/26 05:29 AM |
| 3 | Day 1 of cold approaching 10 women a day till i get a girlfriendMan you are right. I'm going to keep saying this to myself next time I'm hesitant about approaching. | /r/seduction | 12/08/26 06:49 AM |
| 17 | Day 1 of cold approaching 10 women a day till i get a girlfriendSay some shit? 😂 | /r/seduction | 12/08/26 03:29 AM |
| 1 | Do I need to go to the gym?My job is physical too and I do basic workouts at home. I have a chest trainer and an ab machine and probably going to get some dumbbells soon. I'm not going too crazy but a good amount of time every day and I am getting noticeable results and feeling better overall. Working out and having a clean diet just has so many benefits and will help you become more attractive and fee good. Whether you go to a gym or workout at home, you have to stay dedicated and focused. | /r/seduction | 09/08/26 08:50 AM |
| 1 | if showing too much interest too early turns women off then how come love bombing works? if it actually worksBut she has to be really into the guy. Like she wants him so much and so bad she'll take whatever instead of just moving on to another guy that she can easily find. | /r/seduction | 07/08/26 01:00 AM |
| 1 | More average guys that had and have a current fwbs, how often and long does it take to find one and how does it usually start?What's the ratio of finding someone you aren't attracted to vs someone you are attracted to? | /r/seduction | 04/08/26 03:21 PM |
| 2 | Successful lay from 1 cold approachNiiice | /r/seduction | 03/08/26 11:50 PM |
| 3 | Successful lay from 1 cold approachHow old is she? Are you going to keep it casual? | /r/seduction | 03/08/26 10:45 PM |
| 4 | Successful lay from 1 cold approachHow old was she? Are you going to keep it casual? | /r/seduction | 03/08/26 10:43 PM |
| 4 | More average guys that had and have a current fwbs, how often and long does it take to find one and how does it usually start?But there has to be something before that or it would come off as weird or awkward? | /r/seduction | 02/08/26 05:55 AM |
| 1 | Where did yall find your fwb?Good stuff man. Appreciate it very much. | /r/seduction | 25/07/26 01:07 AM |
| 2 | Where did yall find your fwb?Nice strategy. I like your term gentleman with POS tendencies lol can you elaborate a little on that? It's how I'm trying to position myself right now but not sure how to not cross into friendship or long term territory. | /r/seduction | 24/07/26 02:35 AM |
| 9 | Where did yall find your fwb?How did you manage the ones from work? Did it get messy or awkward? I can possibly get one girl at work to go out with me but not sure how to go about it without it getting awkward if I ask for something just casual | /r/seduction | 23/07/26 07:21 AM |
| 2 | Why were we programmed to believe that the women who played hard to get really liked us?Because they want us to be simps | /r/seduction | 23/07/26 04:12 AM |
| 3 | Where did yall find your fwb?What were the settings like? | /r/seduction | 23/07/26 03:44 AM |
| 2 | Where did yall find your fwb?How did they approach you? Did they ask for that kind of arrangement right away? | /r/seduction | 23/07/26 03:25 AM |
| 1 | Same Day Hook-Ups From Cold ApproachesProximity and lingering are also good signs to look out for. | /r/seduction | 20/07/26 07:07 PM |
| 5 | Same Day Hook-Ups From Cold ApproachesI think it comes down to skill and logistics. Even if you're smooth af and she's really attracted, she has to find a reason to not make herself look easy. Unless she's a more free spirited and party kind of girl then it's more likely. | /r/seduction | 20/07/26 06:30 PM |
| 1 | Odds of finding a fwb through cold approachYeah I'm not the kind of guy to do the number 2 way. | /r/seduction | 20/07/26 05:14 PM |
| 5 | Guys in their 30s that are having casual relationships, what are they they typically?Yeah that's pretty much what I want and looking for right now | /r/seduction | 11/07/26 02:52 PM |
| 9 | Guys in their 30s that are having casual relationships, what are they they typically?I'm really don't specifically want women in their 20s but they are more open to it. I know there are women around my age that are open to it but I never meet them. They always want a relationship | /r/seduction | 10/07/26 11:55 PM |
| 13 | Guys in their 30s that are having casual relationships, what are they they typically?I know they do but where do they usually meet them and are open to talking to them? My last gf was ten years younger and we met through work but I don't want to mess with anyone again from work. | /r/seduction | 10/07/26 11:52 PM |
| 1 | Guys in their 30s that are having casual relationships, what are they they typically?I stopped smoking, starting eating cleaner(More protein and vegetables and less fat and sugar), drink lots of water and rarely consume alcohol. Also stay active. You don't really need the gym but taking walks and some exercises has a lot of benefits. | /r/seduction | 10/07/26 11:48 PM |
| 5 | Guys in their 30s that are having casual relationships, what are they they typically?Damn your story is very similar to mine. I'm 35 and could pass as 24. I don't think I'll lie unless I'm on vacation someplace where I don't know anyone lol Yeah I'm trying to enjoy life and still trying to shake off the hang ups I have about my past. | /r/seduction | 10/07/26 11:44 PM |
| 1 | What are your seduction unpopular opinions?The more attractive you are the more room for error but doesn't mean you're always going to win. And having a good face card and physique can make up for height. And also looks aren't the end all and be all but they matter more than people like to admit especially women. And I say that as a guy who didn't get much attention in his teens and 20s but had a glow up in my 30s and it literally is like night and day. | /r/seduction | 22/06/26 09:00 PM |
| 1 | What are your seduction unpopular opinions?The more attractive you are the more room for error but doesn't mean you're always going to win. And having a good face card and physique can make up for height. And also looks aren't the end all and be all but they matter more than people like to admit especially women. And I say that as a guy who didn't get much attention in his teens and 20s but had a glow up in my 30s and it literally is like night and day. | /r/seduction | 22/06/26 09:00 PM |
| 1 | FWB says we short term, but she acts like it's long term.How often are you taking to her and meeting up? | /r/seduction | 01/06/26 10:10 PM |
| 1 | Guys that can consistently get laid and get it easily, what's the process like and what makes a big difference on something you had to improve on?Thanks for the response and advice. I'm actually going to try that! | /r/seduction | 01/06/26 05:04 AM |
| 2 | Guys that can consistently get laid and get it easily, what's the process like and what makes a big difference on something you had to improve on?How tall are you? | /r/seduction | 31/05/26 06:38 PM |
| 1 | Tips on getting a fwb and a casual relationship with my personality because I'm not that attractive?I have tried that but it tends to lean that I'm looking for a relationship when I'm not. I unintentionally ended up hurting someone that way and I'm trying not to do that again. | /r/seduction | 31/05/26 03:31 AM |
| 1 | Tips on getting a fwb and a casual relationship with my personality because I'm not that attractive?They aren't that bad as I have had success but that was more luck as I was more their type. What's a timeframe if I'm going to game through social circle? How fast should I move or bring it up? | /r/seduction | 30/05/26 07:58 PM |
| 3 | Tips on getting a fwb and a casual relationship with my personality because I'm not that attractive?How can I display sexworthiness? I'm not that bad at being a good match and being cool as friends but they don't want anything more with me and it's mostly because of my looks. Like how can I get her to think about potentially hooking up with me through my personality if they won't go for it initially? | /r/seduction | 30/05/26 07:22 PM |
| 1 | Crazy seeing so many attractive guys singleIf that's happening then he's not as attractive as you think. Women give a lot of room for error for really attractive guys and guys they are really into. A really attractive guy can say the most offensive things and women would brush it off but if an unattractive guy said the same exact thing it would be a whole different reaction. | /r/seduction | 08/05/26 02:16 PM |
| 1 | Something I noticed about men who sleep with alot of women.Yeah that makes sense | /r/seduction | 01/05/26 05:41 PM |
| 1 | Something I noticed about men who sleep with alot of women.Sounds like he makes them think he wants to date them when all he wants is sex. Idk but that sounds pretty manipulative lol | /r/seduction | 01/05/26 12:12 AM |
| 1 | Something I noticed about men who sleep with alot of women.What attracts them to you? What's your profile like? | /r/seduction | 01/05/26 12:11 AM |
| 2 | How can I get more hookups and casual relationships as a short guy without coming off as bf material?Haha yeah it's crazy how these dynamics work. I think it's kinda getting to me because I feel l have to put in more work and that gives off the boyfriend energy and then I get placed in that category by these women. Idk what I should be doing differently. | /r/seduction | 24/04/26 01:47 PM |
| 2 | How can I get more hookups and casual relationships as a short guy without coming off as bf material?Thanks for the response and yeah I'm actually a pretty funny and lively guy. I literally have so much going for me except my height. Its really conflicting because just want a non committed physical relationship right now and displaying all those things make them want a relationship with me and that's the opposite of what I want. I just want to have fun and don't want to be a boyfriend lol | /r/seduction | 23/04/26 09:35 PM |
| 1 | How can I get more hookups and casual relationships as a short guy without coming off as bf material?Maybe not show so much of a good personality? But it's the main thing that gets them to like me lol | /r/seduction | 23/04/26 09:31 PM |
| 1 | How can I get more hookups and casual relationships as a short guy without coming off as bf material?Maybe I should try being the opposite of everything I currently am? Lol | /r/seduction | 23/04/26 08:50 PM |
| 1 | How can I get more hookups and casual relationships as a short guy without coming off as bf material?The first one | /r/seduction | 23/04/26 07:51 PM |
| 1 | How can I get more hookups and casual relationships as a short guy without coming off as bf material?Im still a little inexperienced when it comes to relationships and sex as I'm trying to still figure out what I like and don't like. And I don't want to get into relationship with someone just to practice being in a relationship. | /r/seduction | 23/04/26 06:49 PM |
| 3 | How can I get more hookups and casual relationships as a short guy without coming off as bf material?I did it once and it wasn't intentional as I really thought we were both just having a fun and good time seeing each other and we both never talked about what we had but it turned out she was almost in love with me and I felt really crappy afterwards. I'm really trying to avoid doing that again. | /r/seduction | 23/04/26 06:35 PM |
| 1 | How can I get more hookups and casual relationships as a short guy without coming off as bf material?So what's the solution? | /r/seduction | 23/04/26 06:31 PM |
| 1 | How can I get more hookups and casual relationships as a short guy without coming off as bf material?How long does it usually take to get them into bed? How do you navigate the conversation if she asks where things are headed? | /r/seduction | 23/04/26 06:25 PM |
| 4 | How can I get more hookups and casual relationships as a short guy without coming off as bf material?Not really but I do show that I have my shit together as I do have my own place and car and try to show them a good time and make them laugh a lot when we first hang out. | /r/seduction | 23/04/26 06:24 PM |
| 1 | How can I get more hookups and casual relationships as a short guy without coming off as bf material?5'5-5'6 with shoes on | /r/seduction | 23/04/26 06:21 PM |
| 3 | How can I get more hookups and casual relationships as a short guy without coming off as bf material?I do by at least the second time hanging out and when I do bed them it's usually a ONS and they get distant and stop talking after few more times of hooking up. It's fine if I can get ONS consistently but it takes a lot of time and effort to get just one girl. I just something consistent and the only way to get that is to get into a relationship which is what I don't want. I'm just really stuck and frustrated. | /r/seduction | 23/04/26 05:59 PM |
| 1 | Some guysHow long were you with her? | /r/seduction | 23/03/26 03:14 PM |
| 20 | Some guysIt depends on what her type is and what she's attracted to. They can get sex whenever they want easily and they have almost an endless amount of guys to choose from so they are going for only who they are attracted to. | /r/seduction | 23/03/26 07:40 AM |
| 1 | Just met this amazing girl but I’m about to get surgery…Why are you asking us if you should pursue her? It's your choice if you think it's worth it. If you choose to pursue her just text her through the week and set up a video call. If it goes good then maybe invite her over to hang out in person since you're going to be bed ridden. | /r/seduction | 07/01/26 07:16 PM |
| 1 | Got friendzoned yet again, rethinking love vs arrange marriage now.It's not hard to do that once you get good with women. I ended up with a lot more girls that I didn't like than ones that I did. I prefer being friends first so I can actually make a somewhat based decision if I want to ask that person out because I got to actually know them but that way never works in my favor so it's mostly casual and sometimes situationships. Then after some time I decide if I want keep seeing them or not. | /r/seduction | 15/12/25 04:52 AM |
| 1 | Got friendzoned yet again, rethinking love vs arrange marriage now.Women that friendzone you will only want you when she wants to settle down and has no other options. It happened to me with two women that rejected me in the past but I was already over them and their lives were a mess | /r/seduction | 14/12/25 07:35 AM |
| 1 | Got friendzoned yet again, rethinking love vs arrange marriage now.Seriously. I got friendzoned every time so then I just started to make a move and hookup fast and see if I wanted to keep seeing her. Unfortunately some feelings did get hurt but it happens I guess. I would prefer friends first but that doesn't work for me and I really don't know how it happens for other people. | /r/seduction | 14/12/25 07:31 AM |
| 1 | What are your best flirty questions or innuendos to spice up platonic date banter/convo once rapport is built?It has to come naturally so you have to get good at bantering and being quick witted. Lines that are planned are lame and could even sound forced with no real emotion behind it. | /r/seduction | 10/12/25 10:20 PM |
| 1 | How to find FWB in collegeHow so? | /r/seduction | 10/12/25 10:15 PM |
| 3 | When seeking a casual relationship, do you let them know before or after the first time you sleep with them?Lots of great advice and words man and I appreciate your detailed answer. One question is how long would you keep seeing and sleeping with them after you established it's only casual? And if you could go into a little more detail on flirting to build attraction and arousal. | /r/seduction | 25/11/25 03:17 AM |
| 1 | Do you have a “type” and how often do you go for your “type”?How long was it until you realized that you really were attracted to her and wanted something more? I went through the same thing but I couldn't find myself staying with her because I would always be checking out other women that were more my type. | /r/seduction | 23/11/25 12:54 PM |
| 3 | How can you get an FWB relationships while being nice?Solid advice | /r/seduction | 22/11/25 04:45 AM |
| 1 | I wish I could just be upfront about liking a girlDo you ever do cold approach or only use apps? | /r/seduction | 21/11/25 01:45 AM |
| 2 | How can you get really hot girls?How long did it take until she started to feel physically attracted to you? What were you saying or doing to keep her attention if you weren't her type? I only had women come back or give me a chance after initially rejecting after I became more physically attractive myself and that was literally it lol nothing else really changed | /r/seduction | 12/11/25 05:05 AM |
| 1 | How can you get really hot girls?How long did it take until she started to feel physically attracted to you? What were you saying or doing to keep her attention if you weren't her type? I only had women come back or give me a chance after initially rejecting after I became more physically attractive myself and that was literally it lol nothing else really changed | /r/seduction | 12/11/25 05:03 AM |
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