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| 2 | Seduction is a Tool or: How I Learned to Stop Reading and Hate the SedditYeah... Also his name is Eben Pagan. He does marketing. | /r/seduction | 15/03/13 11:26 PM |
| 1 | Female here. Men, I need your perspective.Leave something behind whoops so clumsy. When he returns it you've broken the ice and can begin to talk to one another instead of awkward stares. | /r/seduction | 15/03/13 12:03 PM |
| 2 | Seduction is a Tool or: How I Learned to Stop Reading and Hate the SedditRemember when David DeAngelo married that skinny dude in Las Vegas? | /r/seduction | 15/03/13 11:55 AM |
| 3 | 77 years and it's all still valuable and valid. And the whole thing's on Wikipedia too.The problem is that you're so sensitive that you carry all this shit with you. You're so focused on your faults that you'll find reasons to prove those theories correct even using incorrect or ambiguous information. Fact: You have no idea why she rejected you. Fact: You're filling in the blanks with incomplete and false information. Fact: Your conclusion on why she rejected you and what this statement: "Definitely not talking to a guy like you." means is completely untrue. | /r/seduction | 03/03/13 03:11 AM |
| 1 | 77 years and it's all still valuable and valid. And the whole thing's on Wikipedia too.Hahaha, wow. She was kind of a bitch. Who says that? A bitch does. But your approach wasn't the best not that it would have made much of a difference anyway. Maybe she read your intentions wrong. Maybe she was having a bad day. Maybe she was waiting for her date to arrive. Who the hell knows. | /r/seduction | 03/03/13 01:49 AM |
| 1 | 77 years and it's all still valuable and valid. And the whole thing's on Wikipedia too.I really started feeling bad that I still wasn't having success with women despite all my efforts being put into it. Can you tell me the worst one you remember from this time? What kind of effort did you put into it and how did she react to you? What was the end result? I started feeling like a failure, and it began sucking into my self worth. You did what you set out to. You're not responsible for what the other person reacts. If you did your best what more can you do? | /r/seduction | 03/03/13 12:05 AM |
| 1 | 77 years and it's all still valuable and valid. And the whole thing's on Wikipedia too.So what's causing the low self esteem? When did it start happening and why do you think it did? And don't start with the "I'm so ugly only it hides in plain sight and I'm the only one who can see it nonsense." | /r/seduction | 02/03/13 11:57 PM |
| 1 | 77 years and it's all still valuable and valid. And the whole thing's on Wikipedia too.Why should you have self esteem? What have you done to earn it? Self esteem is a feeling of value, that you're worth something. Do things for yourself and others that give you value and purpose and you will have self esteem. Hang around with shitty people, waste time doing nothing of value and you will feel worthless. | /r/seduction | 02/03/13 03:41 PM |
| 1 | Should I get a life or start approaching women or both?And my main source of stress is frustration based on how I look. You're stuck in a mental loop and it's destroying you from within. I've done the same thing, I also had depression. My focus was based on why I can't complete things. I would always focus on why I can't complete and do something and prove myself right by focusing on details and perfection. This doomed every single project to failure. A loop. The proper way to get something done is to complete it no matter how crappy it is just get … | /r/seduction | 01/03/13 05:35 PM |
| 1 | Should I get a life or start approaching women or both?I thought you were ugly and hideous? Now we're getting to the real problem. What have you done so far to manage this depression? Have you tried medication? Have you tried dietary control? Reducing mental stress? | /r/seduction | 01/03/13 05:25 PM |
| 1 | Should I get a life or start approaching women or both?Yes but people like me. And they don't like you. I can't imagine how awful you must be treating these girls to have them run away so quickly. How weird you must be with them. And the sad thing is you're not even aware of it. You try to argue and convince everyone that the problem is your looks. So go ahead. Try and sell me that bullshit. Tell me how you're not successful with women because of your looks. Maybe it's your horrible eye rings, or your hideous features that can hide in plain sight an… | /r/seduction | 01/03/13 05:17 PM |
| 1 | Should I get a life or start approaching women or both?If you look through his posting history for the past 21 days (that's as far as I looked) all he does is complain about his looks here. Complaining about his eye rings, his hideous indescribable features that can hide in clear photos we can't see, why he can't get women and how they tell him he's ugly (but he can't give more details). He frequently posts in r/foreveralone, r/seduction, and r/progresspics. Just look through his posting history. The dude is obsessed. Mentally he's way gone. | /r/seduction | 01/03/13 05:03 PM |
| 1 | Should I get a life or start approaching women or both?I would bet money you are much better looking than I am day to day. My skin is paler, I am shorter and I have more pronounced darkened eyes than you and I am still more handsome. Also my teeth are fucked and I wear braces (did I mention I have rubber bands holding my mouth together) and I am still more handsome. I have a lisp because of these fucking braces and I can still make girls laugh and like me. I have more bodyfat that I am trying to shed and girls thinks I'm kind of handsome. You are so… | /r/seduction | 01/03/13 05:01 PM |
| 1 | Man, I Became an AFC again last night...You realized the mistake. You are able to analyse why it happened. You are doing things correctly. There is no need to be worried. I would be worried if I was making mistakes and I had no idea why. But you know exactly why and I'm sure you'll come up with a solution. So cheers to being honest to yourself. | /r/seduction | 28/02/13 06:58 AM |
| 2 | I am leaving you, Seddit...Some studying is better than nothing. I'm talking about a far more effective and low stress way. | /r/seduction | 22/02/13 11:05 PM |
| 5 | I am leaving you, Seddit...It works like this for everything. It's like studying before an exam. You think it's going to help? Nope. You're better off studying a few days before, taking a break the day before the exam and THEN doing the exam. You will be more relaxed, more effective and you get a better mark. This applies to everything. You can only learn so much and you need time to relax and mull over it a little bit. I wish you strength and prosperity. | /r/seduction | 22/02/13 05:55 AM |
| 1 | What do I say every time a girl tells me "I think I know you from somewhere?"-ENGAGE CONVERSATION MODE. - "You look kind of familiar too, what's your name?" "Oh yeah sounds familiar did I see you at one of my [insert cool hobby] events..." | /r/seduction | 18/02/13 05:47 AM |
| 1 | As a girl, how do I meet guys?I actually have the desire to speak to people again so I didn't think it was too soon to try and meet new people. Excellent. My town has a pretty good local art scene so I'm getting involved. I'm helping to organize an outdoor gallery at a rave and I'm trying to get enough pieces done so that I can have a show. I'm also trying to hang out at the venues that show pieces I like (neighborhood speakeasy, lounge downtown). It's slow going this far but it's a scene I want to be involved with. Craft be… | /r/seduction | 15/02/13 04:00 PM |
| 1 | As a girl, how do I meet guys?Maybe it's too soon? No it's not too soon. Get out. Do stuff. What you're not doing properly is how you handle situations. I see that you're bummed out because of your boy toy in the summer. Why? It's in the past. It happened. You had fun. He moved on. Time for something new. Don't over complicate things because the only person it's going to hurt is you. The no hobbies part is super far from the truth though: I'm in love with art and art history, and I'm constantly painting, and learning about t… | /r/seduction | 15/02/13 05:40 AM |
| 2 | Random cute girls talk to me every day, but I never know how to respond.I don't know but once you do things will be much easier. Don't focus on the other person focus on yourself and how you respond and whether or not the message you are trying to express is coming loud and clear. You could try sports and reducing the "brain to mouth filter". You know how when you're in a stressful situation you can imagine scenarios and ways to deal with those scenarios? Don't do that. Ever. Now as far as the "brain to mouth filter". Just say stuff. If you're thinking it just say i… | /r/seduction | 15/02/13 05:17 AM |
| 2 | As a girl, how do I meet guys?I'm not approachable enough...? I'd say no. Looking at your posting history I see that you are depressed and then some. This is going to be a problem. Chances are you're not responding to people. I was depressed (still have some bad days here and there) and I can pick out the depressed people easily from experience. You are not aware of what is happening around you. Chances are you're being approached plenty but you're too inside your head to notice or respond. This makes the other person think … | /r/seduction | 15/02/13 04:38 AM |
| 24 | Random cute girls talk to me every day, but I never know how to respond.Yeah have fun with it. "No you can't take him home" "He's really vicious but he seems to like you" "That's not a dog it's just a really hairy cat, he gets it all the time" Now I can give you these lines but your delivery is going to suck balls. Why? Because you are nervous and unsure of yourself. You need to find a way to relax because it's not a stressful situation. You're not going to pick up one of these girls and you shouldn't even be trying. The only thing you need to be focused on is havin… | /r/seduction | 15/02/13 03:49 AM |
| 1 | Realized Something Profound About Seduction - A Sales Pitch Turns Women OffLong story short i get free private "lessons" every now and then now. It could make a fun FR i might write it down this sunday. Yes please. | /r/seduction | 04/02/13 01:32 PM |
| 3 | Some girl messaged me this out of the blue, what should I put back?"Oh hey nice to hear from you." | /r/seduction | 03/02/13 06:27 PM |
| 11 | How do you keep a girl interested after a while?Be interesting. Have your own stuff to do. This works very well with "ignore her" which is what you will be doing when you're being interesting. | /r/seduction | 27/01/13 07:31 PM |
| 3 | Researchers put PUA material to peer review. Turns out it's all pretty much based on solid research and scientific evidence!Hyphothesis: Females like penis in the vagina. | /r/seduction | 04/01/13 05:48 AM |
| 1 | Okay, how do I treat women that I'm not attempting to date, but are clearly trying to be "alpha" and boss me around?You are doing pretty much everything the opposite you're supposed to and are creating your own living hell everyday. Everything around you is a means of coping. Depression meds? To cope with your awful awful life which you made and you fight for. Therapy? To cope with your choices of avoiding people. and to battle the effects of anxiety which come from avoiding people. No shit you're uncomfortable around people.... because you avoid them and don't know what to do. Wanting to get workout equipmen… | /r/seduction | 02/01/13 06:31 AM |
| 1 | Okay, how do I treat women that I'm not attempting to date, but are clearly trying to be "alpha" and boss me around?This is a start. However, just listening to opinions doesn't seem like a very attractive quality by itself. If you're not willing to open up your ears and listen there's nothing more to be done and you're going to be on this hamster wheel forever. You don't need to do anything for her. You don't even need to talk to her or ask her questions. People talk. It's what they do. Look at how much you are telling me right now. How much have I told you? Not a hell of a lot. People. Talk. You're hearing b… | /r/seduction | 02/01/13 06:13 AM |
| 1 | Okay, how do I treat women that I'm not attempting to date, but are clearly trying to be "alpha" and boss me around?I've been very good at listening to her opinions on things. You know what that caused? That caused her to treat me like I'm a beta male. So while your advice sounds reasonable, it has backfired on me before. Since then I've stopped listening to her. Your head is so far up your own ass you can't even see the light. Listen to what she says, she knows what she's talking about. Do not ask her anything. Just listen and pay attention. Pretend you're Sherlock Holmes. Does he take anything at face value… | /r/seduction | 02/01/13 04:12 AM |
| 1 | Okay, how do I treat women that I'm not attempting to date, but are clearly trying to be "alpha" and boss me around?I have a handful of female friends. They don't see me as a sexual object. They all just pity me. That is something I can only change by improving my physical appearance. You shouldn't care what they think. You only care about what you do. What they think is irrelevant. What you do, how you do it and what the results are should be the most important thing in your life. If you've got a recipe for getting out of the friend zone, I'm sure you could sell that program for $10 a video and make millions… | /r/seduction | 02/01/13 03:45 AM |
| 1 | Okay, how do I treat women that I'm not attempting to date, but are clearly trying to be "alpha" and boss me around?I'd say I'm putting in around 50-60 hours a week. Sometimes more. On a good month, I can make about $8800. Mind you I just started both of them, and I have monthly expenses. But considering that this trip to Costa Rica to get this dental work will only cost me around $6000, that's not bad and probably worth it in the long run to make a bunch of money and finally get over with it. Well I don't know enough about your industry to judge but to me $8800 is plenty of money. But what are the effects? I… | /r/seduction | 02/01/13 02:39 AM |
| 1 | A single rose is better for the first date than a dozen roses.Because it's too formal. Dates are for fun. When you give a rose you might as well be carrying a ring with you. Make it fun and memorable, not formal. | /r/seduction | 01/01/13 01:17 AM |
| 1 | A single rose is better for the first date than a dozen roses.Yeah. No. | /r/seduction | 31/12/12 04:00 PM |
| 1 | Okay, how do I treat women that I'm not attempting to date, but are clearly trying to be "alpha" and boss me around?There is a huge difference between having hobbies and having a need to socialize after long periods of not socializing at all. Yes. And mostly yes. Well, I don't really take time to plan those measly 4 hours a week I get to socialize. Which basically ends up socializing with my roommates. I have no problem cutting them off from my socialization time, but then I need to figure out what to do with the remaining time. In the time you have while going to work and shopping and whatever, find time to … | /r/seduction | 31/12/12 12:50 AM |
| 1 | Okay, how do I treat women that I'm not attempting to date, but are clearly trying to be "alpha" and boss me around?Enough talk for today. Stop being a dick and go say hello to some people and deal with the result. If they like it, if they don't you don't care. You say hello. You are friendly. That's all you can do. If you want to take it a step further, go talk to some people paid to help you. Waitress "hi, I saw this on the menu but I don't know what it is" or "I haven't been here before, what do you like on the menu that is good?" and "Oh, it's made from such and such meat? What is that?" and "Thanks, yeah… | /r/seduction | 27/12/12 08:56 PM |
| 2 | Okay, how do I treat women that I'm not attempting to date, but are clearly trying to be "alpha" and boss me around?I went out to talk to women as a part of an program I paid for Oh god. Stop paying for that shit. Just talk to people and understand what is happening. Start slow baby steps for maximum efficiency and retention. I know people have a problem dealing with me. I try to not be such a problem, but then the feeling of "not being a problem" becomes very beta, as in "trying to avoid conflict". So when I try to dominate things, I end up just offending people. Don't lead don't follow. Just be one of the g… | /r/seduction | 27/12/12 08:48 PM |
| 1 | Okay, how do I treat women that I'm not attempting to date, but are clearly trying to be "alpha" and boss me around?This is very insulting. There is a huge difference between avoiding conflict and being a masochist. Oh. So you don't really avoid conflict. Now why don't you go tell the other people off too? My problem is that I'm too nice to her because I avoid conflict. No. You're a pussy. There's a difference. I am nice to people, you are a pussy. People ask you for something, you say yes. People ask me for something, I say no. Unless I choose to do something for them because I empathize with their situation… | /r/seduction | 27/12/12 08:09 PM |
| 1 | Okay, how do I treat women that I'm not attempting to date, but are clearly trying to be "alpha" and boss me around?Actually, the people I'm around can identify with what I go through more than a lot of other people that I meet. They are certainly not emotionally supportive, but they at least accept the fact that I'm not perfect while other people will shun me for having to deal with anxiety & depression. Dude. I deal with people like you all the time. Your problem is that you project too much onto others. Have you ever thought that maybe they don't know how to deal with you? What can you do when someone is u… | /r/seduction | 27/12/12 07:55 PM |
| 1 | Okay, how do I treat women that I'm not attempting to date, but are clearly trying to be "alpha" and boss me around?I've managed to become much less beta around some of my friends, but not all of them. I think I have trouble with this girl's boyfriend, since he's really good at playing the whole 'leader' role. I mean, he's been practicing way longer than me, so it's difficult to completely out-do him time and again. You don't need to out-do him. Just say no. If you don't like to or want to do something, say no. If you have a good reason, stick to it. If you don't have a good reason, but simply don't feel comf… | /r/seduction | 27/12/12 12:39 AM |
| 2 | Okay, how do I treat women that I'm not attempting to date, but are clearly trying to be "alpha" and boss me around?Nah, it's mostly they like to ask for favors and not necessarily return them. Or they have plans for themselves and just include me at random. If I just flat out started rejecting all their offers, then I'd probably get bored at one point and hang out with them just because, like I did last night. So I have to figure out what to do with myself every couple of weeks or so to prevent myself from doing something I regret out of loneliness. You're killing me. Have you ever thought that maybe your de… | /r/seduction | 27/12/12 12:34 AM |
| 1 | Okay, how do I treat women that I'm not attempting to date, but are clearly trying to be "alpha" and boss me around?you're getting very argumentative Thanks. I try. I stated my case in a simple way, and you've turned each point into another "man the fuck up" response. Because that's how it is. I'm perfectly aware I need to do that. I need someone with the patience to explain how! Ok. What have you tried so far? You can man up by saying no. You don't need to be rude about it just a simple "Sorry, wish I could maybe another time" will do. And if they ask you say "I have plans". Try that. Don't be a jerk. Just b… | /r/seduction | 27/12/12 12:19 AM |
| 1 | Okay, how do I treat women that I'm not attempting to date, but are clearly trying to be "alpha" and boss me around?At what point do I actually attempt to treat people like human beings versus just saying "no" all the time? You treat people like humans when they treat you like a human. Have they done you a favor before? If so, it's only fair that you do something nice for them. Do they come by and talk to you? If so, you should probably be polite and do the same... Be fair. Be equal. If they're unfair to you and treat you like shit and always expect things from you without giving nothing of equal value, then … | /r/seduction | 27/12/12 12:14 AM |
| 2 | Okay, how do I treat women that I'm not attempting to date, but are clearly trying to be "alpha" and boss me around?I'm trying to figure out what you want me to do in the process. You should accept it and stop thinking you are below these people. You act like you're a servant and treat yourself as such. You have low self esteem. Maybe you're depressed. But it lies. You're better than you think you are. You need to stop acting and behaving like a servant. You also need to stop running away. No. Moving out is not an option. You're trying to avoid confrontation. If you like where you live then stay there. If you… | /r/seduction | 27/12/12 12:09 AM |
| 3 | Okay, how do I treat women that I'm not attempting to date, but are clearly trying to be "alpha" and boss me around?That said, I have built an okay rapport with her. That is to say, I identify with her gripes about her boyfriend. She pays most of the rent, while her boyfriend doesn't have a job, nor is actively looking for one, and pretty much plays video games all day. Need I mention this dude is in his early 30's. No you don't identify with any of this because you've never had to deal with anything like that. She keeps the boyfriend around because she wants to. He's a deadbeat and she still wants him. Do yo… | /r/seduction | 26/12/12 07:39 AM |
| 1 | Okay, how do I treat women that I'm not attempting to date, but are clearly trying to be "alpha" and boss me around?"Oh, but it's just feeding them and cleaning out the litter boxes! And you'll be here working from home! It's only 3 days!" I'll probably be in and out, maybe drunk for those 3 days. I can't reserve time to take care of your cats. Maybe some other time. When people treat you like shit, just be a wall. You don't have to be a dirt bag, you just have to say no. without feeling like a dirt bag in the process Captain! The low self esteem alarm has gone off! We're done for captain! | /r/seduction | 26/12/12 07:36 AM |
| 1 | Okay, how do I treat women that I'm not attempting to date, but are clearly trying to be "alpha" and boss me around?I'd probably say I'm in INT You probably need to stop buying into the bullshit. You are what you are. Deal with it. my introversion starts to erode if I've spent a lot of time being social during the week. That's because you're not actually introverted. Stop buying into the bullshit. so my comfort zone has shrunk up Then fix it. | /r/seduction | 26/12/12 07:34 AM |
| 1 | Okay, how do I treat women that I'm not attempting to date, but are clearly trying to be "alpha" and boss me around?But... but how? Say no? That's preposterous! | /r/seduction | 26/12/12 07:32 AM |
| 1 | Okay, how do I treat women that I'm not attempting to date, but are clearly trying to be "alpha" and boss me around?Should I reject every offer to hang out on the fact that they might make me feel like a third wheel or might ask me to pay for dinner? No. You wish you could make it but you already had plans and can't cancel them. Maybe another time. "No thanks." "But I really want you to" "Wish I could but I have plans" "But it would only take..." "I have plans" "But..." "I'm late for whatever, see ya later" "What about later?" "Probably going out again, no time then either" | /r/seduction | 26/12/12 07:32 AM |
| 1 | I've made a fake facebook account so that I can be able to understand the female POV and also the male POV more clearly.It's hard to act like an alpha male otherwise he would be one. It's easier to act like a girl, and bait the chodes to see what game they're using and learn from that. | /r/seduction | 19/12/12 06:34 AM |
| 1 | I've come to a realization about the "nice guy syndrome"You don't have to be a perfect gentleman. | /r/seduction | 03/12/12 10:16 PM |
| 3 | I've come to a realization about the "nice guy syndrome"Just be good (not "nice") to people and don't be a doormat. | /r/seduction | 03/12/12 10:13 PM |
| 7 | How long should I wait to ask a girl out after a flake? Should I avoid texting her for a while?i'm not sure if I could last two weeks! She's an amazing spoon She'll also be nothing but a stranger soon if you don't control yourself. Learn self discipline and apply it in all areas of your life. I don't think you're very self disciplined in general. You're going to blow potentially long term and lasting pleasure for a little short term pleasure now. That's a real shame. Self discipline is about saving yourself for the things you truly want. You only have so much time, energy and attention. S… | /r/seduction | 13/11/12 10:19 PM |
| 1 | Confession: I've been lurking for over a year and still have not approached a girl. Can't get sustained motivation.Not motivation. You see something and you go for it. How you decide to get to the girls and get her talking is up to you. Direct approach, accidentally bumping into her, a comment about something you like and then walking away and coming back a bit later to talk to her.... etc. | /r/seduction | 13/11/12 01:09 PM |
| 1 | What dating companies DON"T want you to know about pick up.Ok, so I just looked through your comment history and found this: http://www.okcupid.com/profile/CallForSwarley/photos That's your OkCupid profile. Now, I may not be a woman and know what handsome looks like but you're not far off. I ought to slap you so hard. I thought you were an ugly motherfucker from what you described yourself. Firstly. You do not have a soft jaw. That is called fat. You are fat. You probably suffer from metabolic syndrome. Where you have padding of fat and no matter how mu… | /r/seduction | 02/11/12 06:50 PM |
| 1 | What dating companies DON"T want you to know about pick up.This is decent advice, that I do not deny. But it doesn't really help me with my said problem. I wanted to know techniques or strategies to initially meet women to either limit women being off-put by my face, or to distract them so that I can build attraction. You can't. People have to see your face and make initial judgements based on that. It's like when you go to a restaurant. "Ugh, what is that? It looks gross. No I don't want to try it. Yeah sure it's delicious it doesn't look like it." Eve… | /r/seduction | 02/11/12 06:15 PM |
| 1 | What dating companies DON"T want you to know about pick up.I'm not even talking about affording to going on dates I just simply want advice so that when talking to women they can get past the way I look. And there is a HUGE difference between someone who won't pay for a decent date and someone who cannot afford $4000 for a procedure that will only help one part of his physical problems. It's called budgeting. No. It's called savings and you have little. You live paycheck to paycheck like an indentured slave. As far as getting past the way you look. I ha… | /r/seduction | 02/11/12 02:20 AM |
| 1 | What dating companies DON"T want you to know about pick up.So you are saying I shouldn't even want to pursue female physical attraction because I'm trying to save money and cannot afford to spend $4,000 for laser skin resurfacing? Exactly. Trying to save money and going out and having fun or going to a place to eat are at odds with each other. Nobody wants to date a cheapskate, not even other cheapskates. ESPECIALLY other cheapskates. If finances are tight, well... that's it for you I guess. Why should poor ugly people even bother? They don't. They sett… | /r/seduction | 02/11/12 12:31 AM |
| 1 | What dating companies DON"T want you to know about pick up.Laser therapy isn't really an option at the moment due to financial restrictions. If you can barely afford a minor cosmetic procedure, how will you be able to afford the expense of a lady in your life? Look like you know what to fix first. | /r/seduction | 01/11/12 09:24 PM |
| 0 | What dating companies DON"T want you to know about pick up.Laser therapy for dark circles? Unattractive facial structure? You mean fat? | /r/seduction | 01/11/12 04:04 AM |
| 24 | I got the girl, how do I keep her?Do not break down. You got the girl. Don't be jealous, don't be insecure. She is with you for a reason. Chill out. Do keep being romantic and spontaneous. Not for her. For you. Because you want to be an interesting person and do interesting things. Do not get into watching porn or masturbating. Women like to feel wanted and sexy. Bottle up all that sexual energy and take it out on her, if you know what I mean. She will appreciate it. Do keep working on yourself and what you want. Your goals and … | /r/seduction | 29/10/12 12:20 AM |
| 1 | Why is self-confidence more of a turn-on to women than it is to men?I don't feel comfortable answering the personal questions that you asked on such a public forum, and I don't feel like my personal issues are relevant to the topic at hand. It may be worth discussing at some point in the future, because I would love to get some input on why exactly I'm having such a hard time, but I think it can be difficult/impossible to ascertain something like that over the internet. That's cool. I wasn't expecting an answer, I was just giving you something to think about. It… | /r/seduction | 14/10/12 07:29 PM |
| 0 | Why is self-confidence more of a turn-on to women than it is to men?An woman with low self-esteem will stutter, wear clothing that doesn't suit her, fail to make eye contact, and be too nervous to communicate well and be as interesting as she actually is once you get to know her. I don't understand. You're saying she's not interesting? a woman with very low self-esteem Why. Why do you have low self esteem. Do you lack attractiveness physically? Do you not know how to dress? Do you not have time for hobbies and other activities that help you connect with people? … | /r/seduction | 14/10/12 04:58 PM |
| 1 | To be honest whenever I meet Alpha guys they annoy me because I don't like how they just seem rude and douche-y to me. Is there any way to get over this?Do you mean that I should be more compassionate to others' problems as opposed to pretending to be invested in them? Or do you mean a more abstract way of caring, like any problem that arises, I should be passionate in solving it? Thanks in advance. Both. At minimum, show effort. You don't have to solve people's problems, but if you offer to help them through and show good faith that yes you do care what happens to them and you will do what you can for them (within reason) that does more than en… | /r/seduction | 11/10/12 09:37 PM |
| 13 | To be honest whenever I meet Alpha guys they annoy me because I don't like how they just seem rude and douche-y to me. Is there any way to get over this?I try to do exactly that and the results are fantastic. People are more loyal to me and work towards my interests sometimes. And I get to be a nice guy (well kind of, sometimes, when appropriate). But it does work pretty good for a beginner. The key is you have to actually give a damn, faking till you make it won't do. If you don't give a damn, figure out what your problem is and give a damn about what you can. | /r/seduction | 11/10/12 04:51 AM |
| 2 | Guide to having a hot girlfriendIt should. I've run into a couple and goddamn it makes me feel awful and I can't even treat them with respect anymore. | /r/seduction | 11/10/12 04:31 AM |
| 2 | Guide to having a hot girlfriendIf you do find that hot girl pay attention to the non verbal signals that she gives off about you and your future. Don't just be smitten or oblivious to her behavior because she is hot. Most of the time if you ask questions she will give of hints on whether she would stay with you long term or whether she is with you because times are good... probe into her psyche. I've had hot girlfriends but I realized whey were not keepers. Care to tell me more about this? I'd like to know how to separate the… | /r/seduction | 11/10/12 04:29 AM |
| 2 | So I've never had a girl tell me to beg her to come over before...I like the hard difficulty. It's more.... interesting and I learn more. | /r/seduction | 11/10/12 04:27 AM |
| 4 | So I've never had a girl tell me to beg her to come over before...The game is only played with yourself. It's a matter of understanding and educating yourself to how people act and why. Once you have that down, you can talk to anyone about anything. | /r/seduction | 11/10/12 03:59 AM |
| 2 | So I've never had a girl tell me to beg her to come over before...However, if you find one to be reclusive / annoying / wallflower type personality, and the other to be flirty / lively / engaging, then they would change to, say, HB6 and HB8, respectively. Uh, that's not how it works. Sometimes the wallflowers are.... you know what fuck it. I'm not going to change your mind. MORE FOR ME. | /r/seduction | 11/10/12 03:06 AM |
| 2 | Being yourself... this finally clicked for meSmart people can be very dumb. It happens. Good that he figured it out. | /r/seduction | 02/10/12 03:17 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Rejected 5 times in one night, terrible first college party experienceYou can either get over it and try again or give up and be miserable. So what's it going to be? | /r/seduction | 17/09/12 02:05 AM |
| 4 | Finally approached girl at the gym, now how to proceed.Yea seriously, for all you know she could have been friendly to avoid any awkward situation. should I just text her and tease her some, since I already have her # from her mom calling her the other time NO. You get HER NUMBER from HER. Not her mom, HER. Why? Because that is an indicator of interest as well. | /r/seduction | 01/09/12 05:28 AM |
| 3 | A girl so hot she makes you beta again. Am I just crushing?I do, she's right over... ummm.... | /r/seduction | 01/09/12 05:14 AM |
| 12 | Stop seeking her approval, and you will notice a drastic change in how women will relate to you.Fuck if I care. | /r/seduction | 27/08/12 04:33 AM |
| 5 | My shits all fucked from 16 years of heavy handed Christianity and some early on bad experience with women.Therapy. Or simply try and talk this out and run through all this shit. It's not your fault, but you will need to vent. | /r/seduction | 25/08/12 11:56 PM |
| 1 | Back-to-School: Social Improvement Tips from Neil StraussLearn handwriting analysis so you can make a couple of snarky comments. Yeah, that's a real good use of time there bud. | /r/seduction | 25/08/12 11:49 PM |
| -1 | when is the proper time to start building comfort/rapport?Oh my lord. | /r/seduction | 18/08/12 09:31 PM |
| 2 | when is the proper time to start building comfort/rapport?Everytime, all the time, right now. NOW. | /r/seduction | 18/08/12 09:31 PM |
| 2 | I'm having a "crash here if you want" kinda party in about a week. How to propose sex to a chick that will be here?Draw up a formal contract and have her sign it. | /r/seduction | 18/08/12 09:27 PM |
| 1 | [Told to post here] Rather be in combat than talk to opposite sexWhat do you find relaxing, and how relaxed are you? When dealing with people, you're relaxed with friends? What about acquaintances? What about acquaintances that are female and mildly attractive? Basically I'm trying to figure out where your comfort zone is. For right now, stay within that and get comfortable and slowly reach out. Make changes slowly and consistently and pretty soon they are permanent. Right now talking to that girl you find attractive will be a disaster if you're stressed out,… | /r/seduction | 18/08/12 08:58 PM |
| 2 | David Deangelo's Cocky Comedy (video series)You mean Eben Pagan. Who married some chick that looked like himself: http://sphotos.ak.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ak-snc4/hs018.snc4/34280_10150244087675417_843210416_14722616_5366501_n.jpg http://saltydroid.info/wp-content/uploads/2011/01/Eben-Pagan-Self-Made-Wealth-Nipples.jpg The guy is an excellent businessman but not a PUA. | /r/seduction | 18/08/12 08:48 PM |
| 1 | I'm a girl, and I think some of the PUA techniques are bad news. Hear me out.There's no need for assumption. People with inflated egos will let you know. Just give them 5 minutes. | /r/seduction | 18/08/12 08:44 PM |
| -1 | I'm a girl, and I think some of the PUA techniques are bad news. Hear me out.I was trying to make the point that some of the shady aspects of PUA, that may not be endorsed officially anymore, have more negative connotations than positive. And? So they're not being used anymore, what do you want us to do now, change the past? Are you for real? I just didn't see any female perspective on the whole PUA thing, and thought I would weigh in based on what my own personal experience is. Your personal experience doesn't matter since you can't even tell if the guy you went home wi… | /r/seduction | 18/08/12 08:40 PM |
| -13 | I'm a girl, and I think some of the PUA techniques are bad news. Hear me out.So in this case she's a woman who self-identifies as a woman, and is attracted to men. Oh I see. Now she sounds like a douchebag. Thanks for the clarification. | /r/seduction | 18/08/12 08:22 PM |
| -16 | I'm a girl, and I think some of the PUA techniques are bad news. Hear me out.cis-gendered straight women You're a transexual? And it's woman, unless you like to refer yourself in the plural. | /r/seduction | 18/08/12 07:54 PM |
| 1 | Why women shit test - From a woman's perspective. (this might just open your eyes to the female psyche)neediness God forbid she act like a partner and be there for her partner. This same cunt is going to complain how she can't find a good man later. Well no shit. | /r/seduction | 18/08/12 07:47 PM |
| 0 | Why women shit test - From a woman's perspective. (this might just open your eyes to the female psyche)There's plenty of attractive women around, problem is they don't care to take care of themselves and have no self control. Yes babe, you go ahead and eat that cheescake. Yeah... yeah of course you're still beautiful... I... * runs away * | /r/seduction | 18/08/12 07:45 PM |
| 2 | Why women shit test - From a woman's perspective. (this might just open your eyes to the female psyche)So look for signs that they might be unstable. No kidding. And allow them to express that. Just go with it and see where it takes you. Give her all the space to let that crazy out and then act accordingly. | /r/seduction | 18/08/12 07:42 PM |
| 1 | Girl: "Hold my drink for me?"What the fuck else do you need? An emergency inflatable raft and a pillow. | /r/seduction | 17/08/12 04:09 PM |
| 3 | Was asked to give one example of ways in which sexism hurts men today. I gave several, on of which was selective service. This was the reply.find it highly relevant to include women's inequalities in the post... Go ahead and start listing them. edit: Where is that list already? You don't know what the hell you're talking about do you. | /r/MensRights | 17/08/12 04:03 PM |
| 2 | Throwaway here, about to be sophomore in college, virgin due to impotence. Have had drunken hookups with at least 10 girls in my room last year but could never get it up. Any suggestions?Drink less. Stop masturbating altogether. Go to the gym. | /r/seduction | 17/08/12 03:49 PM |
| 3 | I saw my own sex from the other side, and I disliked women irrationally for a while because of it. I disliked their superiority, their accusatory smiles, their entitlement... (xpost from r/truereddit)Being 300 lbs requires the opposite of effort. | /r/seduction | 17/08/12 03:44 PM |
| 0 | I saw my own sex from the other side, and I disliked women irrationally for a while because of it. I disliked their superiority, their accusatory smiles, their entitlement... (xpost from r/truereddit)Carries it like a dumpster. | /r/seduction | 17/08/12 03:44 PM |
| 1 | Opened a girl for the first time yesterday... couldn't today... feel like shitSometimes, I chat with randoms on omegle to practice cold openers. Or you can get a job that requires door to door sales and you learn to stop giving a fuck otherwise you won't make any money. A month doing that, to really hammer it down, and you'll be good to go. | /r/seduction | 13/08/12 12:59 AM |
| 17 | If I don't have a place to bring girls back to,what do I do?Shit. Ok, I'm writing this down. | /r/seduction | 12/08/12 12:38 AM |
| 5 | If I don't have a place to bring girls back to,what do I do?It had potential to be better, they overdid a few things which made it annoying. | /r/seduction | 12/08/12 12:37 AM |
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