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That happens. You figure persistence wins. I was like that with someone at 17, and never again. But I can see how people get dragged on and on. One funny thing: a nice guy DOES win in the end. But it's never HIM. They move to Portland or NYC or whatever and meet a similar guy. The days of women staying their hometown past say, 22, are way gone.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/10/22 10:26 PM
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That's horrible, man. And yes, a lot of it is trivial. I once (very briefly) went on a few dates with a woman who claimed false DV for free shelter and benefits. She admitted to me on our second date that she left a totally normal husband and a kid because she was bored, and went to a DV shelter for free benefits. They hooked her up with money, a room in the downtown area, the whole nine. Dude never laid a finger on her, she just wanted to relive her 20's again. Crazy.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/10/22 09:15 PM
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Yepp: final scene is her wandering down the hallway of some hostel to the tune of "House of the Rising Sun". She just couldn't stand the thought of living with the beta provider in opulence, I guess.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/10/22 09:12 PM
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I have an ex from 2001 who is now 38 and just got married to a really dorky computer nerd guy. Not to be cruel, but you can sort of tell he probably never dated much? I just don't understand the guy's reasoning on this. "Yeah, for the last 20+ years, every other guy she was with didn't pan out. But now ALL OF THE SUDDEN, at almost 40, she met the guy she will stay with for life!" This would be like if someone had a history of unemployment/leaving jobs until 40. And then got a very mediocre, but …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/09/22 04:19 PM
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I was a pretty boy/drunk as a kid and I would NEVER talk about my past like this. I glory in it. Imagine if I were to say "Yeah, I was 21, in a bad head space, hanging out with the wrong people and just up to no good with a VERY toxic 18 year old blonde woman. I was lost!" No man who partied/had fun in youth would ever talk like this BECAUSE IT'S A LIE. These women know that was the prime of their life. It's a ploy to reel in a sucker.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/09/22 04:13 PM
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Best film version of this is Lester from "Casino". Sharon Stone is married to DiNero's character, who is like the rich God of Las Vegas. And all she can think about is her broke loser pimp boyfriend ("Lester", played by James Woods) from youth. Funny stuff.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/09/22 04:08 PM
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As a dude who has PTSD from a horrible freak accident that left me scared for life at the age of 13, I really tire of women using the word "trauma". Being cheated on by a drunk Chad when you are 22 is not "trauma". I am sure sex abuse victims, soldiers and firemen/cops also get sick of how lightly this is thrown out!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/09/22 04:05 PM
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That sucks. Not sure if this is any cold comfort, but I was a "player" in my youth, and still ended up in the same boat. I was 33; she was 25 and was basically a local hipster slut. My friend had introduced her to me with the "you won't want to take this one too seriously, but..." Having been around the block myself, I didn't care. They do a good job of putting on a "reformed" front. She was also mind blowing to look at. The human brain is capable of great feats, and I was soon picturing a tatto…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/09/22 04:02 PM
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As a (badly) aging ex pretty boy, myself, I can tell you: "I've finally had time to reflect" is a nice way of saying "so, I barely get sex anymore, and..." Lots of time on your hands!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/09/22 03:54 PM
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Never invest in a woman you haven't even had sex with yet. That's just insane. Maybe if you are 16 and still a virgin...these look like post college adults? Also, when I was a kid (which was in 2001, so...), if there was a "spark", you were going to make out that same night, if not have sex to make sure the spark was real. If you are waiting weeks and weeks and months and months for sex...yeah, she's not into you.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/09/22 01:39 PM
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I came from a two parent family and had strong male role models AND I was cute as a kid and this still happened. Because I shot my first shot at the one girl in my high school who looked like Kate Moss/a model, lol. Later became more realistic and had a great dating life as a kid. Lack of patriarchy is a problem, but if you are also shooting your shot at the top .0001% of women in your area, it doesn't matter if you come from The Kennedy family. You will most likely get friendzoned.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/09/22 01:30 PM
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I dated a pretty blonde in my peak as a kid who had a (very ugly, fat) friendzone guy she kept around for validation and emotional comfort after break ups. It was brutal to watch this play out, I felt bad for him. I think the rational is: when she is done with the bad boys, she will finally see what a great guy I am? They also are annoying, because they tend to get mad at YOU, the boyfriend. Dude, I'm not the one who has been leading you on since 8th grade. I'm a total stranger. Save the hatred …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/09/22 01:26 PM
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Even if it was mega legit, single moms are still a nightmare. I was recently on a date with a blonde, pretty cute divorced single mom who had the kid with a rich lawyer she married young. Still a nightmare and I ghosted her after. Had a kid at 17 with Chad, had a kid at 22 with a doctor, doesn't matter. They are still awful to deal with. All they do is whine about the father.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/09/22 01:12 PM
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Yeah, the thing I always noticed about those two stats is that there is ALWAYS that one friend in the group who is extremely hot, and has those stats. And it's generally because she is the blonde, curvy one with DDD cup boobs. So she then becomes the excuse for the non-hot ones of the group, the "Gold Standard". "Yeah, but Terri is only 5 3' and she is at 165!" Yeah, but Terri has Playboy boobs and curves, so.... Just something I noticed about that weight class.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/09/22 01:08 PM
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As a drunk in recovery who has dated plenty of drunks in my day: "lives with room mates" means "I am the only partier in the apartment, and might be asked to leave at any time." Alcoholic party women who live with other party girls don't do this; they simply travel downtown to the bars in a group on weekends and hook up. So she has "normie" room mates and is def. the problem child of the bunch.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/09/22 01:04 PM
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I'm in recovery and I dated three rich, alcoholic hipster women as a kid: they tend to like a beta orbiter around who is also a drunk. But not at all attractive? Basically a dude who is on tap to drink or bring over vodka at her command. And listen to her bitch about boy problems. Also, it's a nice ego trip for them. This is NOT the drunk boyfriend or a hook up, mind you. It's basically the drunk version of Ducky from "Pretty in Pink"? It seems wild, but this is a real thing I have seen. That is…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/09/22 12:59 PM
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Dudes, come on: can we try Poly? I'll be the third and take out the trash. I can't let this one go, and if she can't be mine completely, I will respect my Queen...I just want a bit part in her life! Please, guys?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/09/22 02:45 AM
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Isn't "the one" supposed to be the one you had a child or two with? And MARRIED before you got pregnant? Oh, sorry, I am a little dated in my thinking!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/09/22 02:44 AM
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In defense of early anti-booze folks, they were trying to get their HUSBANDS, who they were married to and had kids with, to not drink. Because the drinking caused either violence in the home or cheating. Way different than asking a complete stranger, who is not the father of your kids, to stop his weed habit. In a monogamous marriage with kids, this is a sensible request (assuming it causes issues in the family). To ask this of a complete stranger who hasn't met you yet on a dating site is the …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/09/22 02:42 AM
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These women need to study both The Bible and some evolutionary psychology books: most humans are hardwired to love THEMSELVES and then whoever shares half of their DNA. Meaning, their biological son or daughter. And that is generally how far human altruism extends, according to people who study humans for a living and write books about it. Humans are very, very selfish. Yes, there are some kind souls who will totally pair bond with a step-kid, but more often than not, not really. They either wil…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/09/22 02:36 AM
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I was a (for real) Leo-style pretty boy in my prime: the peak for this (for the rare men who actually get to experience it) is about 21-26. And then some still decent dating and sex from 26-34ish. But nothing like when you were a kid. I still look "good for my age" at 43. What does this mean? All this means is that if I am in a room full of other men my age, a 39 year old single mom will probably find me more attractive than some of the other men. As actually happens all of the time, because I a…
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