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Dude, mad kudos to you for opening your eyes before college. I went through this same thing almost exactly (except Karate, not BJJ) after I went off to college and got kicked out for lack of academic performance. It seems like you're off to an awesome start..actually, check that..FUCKING AMAZING start. I wish you the best of luck (not that you'll need it). I'm not too bound by the methods on seddit, but the overall principles are the same. If girls are your goal...forget about them. seriously. F…
/r/seduction24/04/14 09:13 PM
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Go right eye to right eye with women, and left eye to left eye with other dudes. I can't tell you why, but it works.
/r/seduction24/02/14 10:56 PM
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yup I respect directness, so I figures others do too.
/r/seduction05/02/14 05:19 PM
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YES. SOMEONE GIVE THIS MAN A MEDAL. AN AWARD. SOMETHING. ANYTHING!
/r/seduction03/02/14 02:55 AM
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"No, are you?" laugh, walk away.
/r/seduction02/02/14 04:44 AM
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IMO, this concept of 'losing your virginity' is ridiculous and causes a lot more anxiety than it should. If you think about it, you're actually gaining a new way to express yourself, a new way to exercise, express affection and relieve stress. Sex is more than just P in V. Its an exchange and new form of communication. Almost like a new language. Don't be afraid of it, embrace it and do it however it feels right. If you're afraid of being judged by your partner for being a newbie: don't tell her…
/r/seduction02/02/14 04:42 AM
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Duuuuude I totally should have. Didn't even cross my mind haha
/r/seduction01/02/14 05:12 PM
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Find out if she reciprocates your feelings. If not, its unproductive to continue keeping her around.
/r/seduction01/02/14 12:49 AM
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Personally, super drunk girls are just not my style. Just from a legal standpoint, you cannot be blamed for the outcomes of someone else's bad decisions. If someone wanted to fuck a really drunk girl, there is way to do it without being accused of rape or 'taking advantage' of someone. That's all i was trying to say. I am not advocating sleeping with blackout drunk girls, but if you really want to...well there ya go. I don't mean you personally...that's just a universal 'you' and a bad use of th…
/r/seduction31/01/14 10:47 PM
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due to her decision of drinking herself into a state of retardation. Let her pour liquor down her own throat. You're not her keeper. Just don't buy her any drinks.
/r/seduction31/01/14 10:20 PM
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Anything involving competition and dim lighting. you can always bet kisses (or slaps if thats your thing) ;)
/r/seduction31/01/14 10:12 PM
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Me too man, me too. I can't really break this down for you since it kind of comes naturally to me, but I think thinking in terms of frame is useful for this. Establish a sexual frame. I was literally about to settle in and watch a bit of porn when a neighbor girl and her friend just barged into my apt. which was apparently unlocked. "OMG were you about to watch PORN?" "Uh, yea until you fuckers rudely interrupted me." "LOL lets watch porn together!" I had a gf at the time, so nothing legendary h…
/r/seduction31/01/14 10:10 PM
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It is not taking advantage of her. This presumes she is not an adult capable of making her own decisions. If you want to have sex with her, despite her drunkness then make your intentions clear, let her give you consent, and fuck like goddamn monkeys. I will say that the morning after is always quite awkward, and no one wants to FEEL like they've been taken advantage of. Make sure you're a gentleman. Make her breakfast, and set up a follow up date. As long as you show some modicum of interest in…
/r/seduction31/01/14 10:06 PM
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Just based on the TL/DR, I'd say approach women with a sense of curiosity. People are fucking interesting if you can get them to open up to you. I'm naturally observant and very analytical, and I can learn a whole lot about a person from just one or two interactions. (Not everything, mind you, just enough to decide whether I'd like to sleep with them or not). If you look at people as puzzles, the sum of all their past experiences, and resources that just need to feel loved sometimes, you will do…
/r/seduction31/01/14 09:59 PM
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Keep it simple. This is a great community, but its easy to get caught up in PUA bullshit. You're not trying to be a PUA, you're just out to have a good time. You can literally say anything (keep it fun) and have a good time. Example, I told a girl about how she should keep her damn tits off the bar so maybe I could get a drink, and we had an awesome time.
/r/seduction30/01/14 10:42 PM
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I'd ignore her, invite her out whenever you happen to be going out, and set up one or 2 other dates simultaneously. Give her some attention, but make sure you don't ignore the other two girls. You've made it too easy for her. Make her work for it.
/r/seduction30/01/14 10:38 PM
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focus on improving yourself and FUCK what everyone else thinks. they don't matter.
/r/seduction30/01/14 02:46 PM
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Always always ALWAYS listen to the nonverbal cues. Most of time, these cues supersede whatever contradictory verbal diarrhea you are being subjected to. I used to listen with my ears instead of my eyes and it got me nowhere in life. The second I started acting on nonverbal cues, the world suddenly opened up to me. Nonverbal messages are always there, the real fun is in how we decide to act on them.
/r/seduction29/01/14 04:25 AM
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I didn't really have a context in mind, but I don't enjoy the club scene that much anyway so maybe that's just a personal bias. I do remember going to clubs a couple years ago with my guy friends and we all stood around talking shit the entire night...very unproductive. If you're going to a club, take a group of girls with you. You will have a much better time.
/r/seduction27/01/14 01:13 PM
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Absolutely. Plus strangers will judge you, but they'll do it silently (most of the time), so you don't have to waste any time defending your actions as long as they make sense to you.
/r/seduction27/01/14 03:17 AM
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Trust me I've tried. It might just be that I don't get along with other guys, but something about any group I try to hang out with rubs me the wrong way. I'm not one to give up my habits and beliefs to fit into a group, and that is usually what it requires. Maybe I'm just stubborn, but its taken me several years and a lot of determination to get to where I am, and I don't want to give up my hard work for something as fickle as friendship. Holy shit, I'm 22 and already a bitter old man haha
/r/seduction27/01/14 03:15 AM
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kiss her on the cheek/neck, pull her aside for a drink and some convo, things should progress naturally after that.
/r/seduction26/01/14 08:37 PM
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God on ya for doing what you felt had to be done. It takes serious cojones to follow through on what you're really feeling. That being said, I have personally found that the concept of the "friend zone" is detrimental to what could be a great friendship. Acknowledge your attraction, act on it unapologetically, and if she doesn't reciprocate, be a friend. We all need friends, guys and girls alike. To draw such hard and fast boundaries is to deny the basic human need for companionship. Just becaus…
/r/seduction26/01/14 05:52 PM
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The more you think about the problem, the more needy you're going to seem. That's just how neuroticism works. The best advice I can give you is: Always breathe deeply, and smile. Don't think, just do. (Action first, justification later) Don't stop to judge yourself or listen to other people's judgements of you and your actions. It seems really simple, but the results are nothing short of miraculous. Edit: formatting
/r/seduction25/01/14 06:02 PM
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This is probably going to be an unpopular opinion, but here goes. I used to get crazy jealous when a woman I was dating/hooking up with even mentioned another guy's name. Once I realized that I had love for every woman I came into contact with (different degrees of love), I was able to let them go. Once you realize that you cannot own and set boundaries for other people, you will have no problem letting someone go, and as long as you can get some sense of closure, "getting over them" becomes a m…
/r/seduction25/01/14 05:58 PM
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Yea, different things work for different people. At one point I was doing everything I read on here, and I basically turned into this giant douchemonster. So I toned it down and started to inject some of my own personality back into my interactions.
/r/seduction24/01/14 09:08 PM
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She's not interested, but sometimes persistence pays off. Cool off, and give her space for a week, and then just invite her to wherever you're going. Also, convey some fun in your message. It sounds like your texting style lacks tone, and women take that as a sign of boringness. No one likes boring people. For example, "I'm going downtown tomorrow night. You should too."="About to tear it up dt tomorrow night! Be there fool!" Yea, its over the top, but it conveys personality, and she's more like…
/r/seduction24/01/14 01:52 PM
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Get out of your head. I'm Indian myself. I used to feel similar feelings after moving to a predominantly white town after leaving my more diverse hometown. I realized that instead of waiting for attention to come to me, I had to draw attention to myself. After I started doing that I noticed an immediate polarization in people's attitudes towards me. Once they knew I was more than the random Indian guy, they knew how to feel about me. Some love me, and some hate me. But at least I know who my fri…
/r/seduction18/01/14 08:23 AM
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Smile too often, and it can come across as insincere and creepy. Don't smile enough and you'll be known as Mr. Gloom and Doom. I find smiles to be most effective when approaching/meeting, smoothing something over, and while making your exit. Other then that, keep it natural. And yes, the behavior in your 2nd question is classic approval/validation-seeking behavior.
/r/seduction18/01/14 08:18 AM
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Go out with her, enjoy her and her company. When things get sexual, pause and tell her the following,"Look, we both clearly have warm feelings towards one another, but I'm going to be honest with you. I'm not in a place to pursue a LTR, and I'd rather keep this casual between us. If you are uncomfortable with it, I totally understand, no hard feelings." You might not get laid, but she will respect you. Just be real, don't get caught up in the semantics of seduction techniques etc.
/r/seduction16/01/14 11:40 PM
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This simple technique will put you in a sexual light and put the control in your hands all at once. Almost anything can be sexual, and creepiness is often eclipsed by a warm smile. You can take almost anything and just add "in bed" to the end of it like you probably did in middle school. Wait for her to drop an innocent sounding phrase and say, "You forgot to say 'in bed.'" Smile and let her react.
/r/seduction16/01/14 11:34 PM
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The past is the past. Learn from it, don't dwell on it. That being said, your on the right track my man. You've established a basic human connection with her. That's good. All you have to do is suggest a time and place to meet her at, and leave the rest up to her. Keep control of the interaction by purposely putting the ball in her court.
/r/seduction15/01/14 07:41 AM
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College senior here. I can totally relate, because I used to be you as a freshman. You're thinking a lot. Which is all fine and dandy here on seddit, but on a date it WILL fuck you over. Just feel and do, don't think. Do something different and memorable on your first date with a girl. Take some risks and get uncomfortable. Provide value to her where you actually see value. Empty compliments are transparent and annoying. I dated a girl for a summer, and we had so much fun together when we went o…
/r/seduction15/01/14 07:36 AM
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I've been told on multiple occasions that I'm a good kisser. I can't say this is the best technique, but its worked for me for the past 5 years (I'm 22). Kissing is just as much of a mind game as it is a physical act. Get to know this concept and apply it to every aspect of your love life. Make eye contact, pause for a moment, lean in while closing your eyes. She will follow your lead. As you're about to kiss, just brush her lips lightly with your's and sneak a kiss on the cheek. Work down to he…
/r/seduction15/01/14 07:26 AM
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Yes, I find girls on the internet to be fickle to the point where they will flake out mid-conversation. Talking to them in person allows you to control factors you simply can't from behind a keyboard.
/r/seduction15/01/14 07:10 AM
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You're putting too much stock into the outcome. Enjoy the moment, and milk it for all its worth. Whether or not she wants to have sex should be irrelevant. Put it out of your head.
/r/seduction14/01/14 09:47 PM
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Just go up to the first girl you see and say the most ridiculous thing that enters your mind. Don't wait for her to react. Just walk away. Rinse and repeat. You will instantly become the life of the party, and the guy that everyone knows.
/r/seduction14/01/14 09:45 PM
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Assume she is interested. This mindset will put you at ease and give all your interactions with her an air or carefree confidence. Know that women are fickle, even if they pretend not to be. They like excitement and change in the present, even if they want stability in the future. Keep it exciting. Doing new things together is a great way to keep it fresh. Example: Doesn't have to be fancy. I got high with a former booty call, and we rolled down a hill half-naked and laughed our asses off. Take …
/r/seduction14/01/14 09:39 PM
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Former needy guy here. I was quite aware of my needy tendencies, and did everything I could to suppress them, but somehow girls always caught on and got turned off. What is the definition of being needy? Having too many needs. Everyone has needs, guys and girls. If you are being needy, it is likely that you are not fulfilling the needs of your partner. As a result you come across selfish, desperate, and too demanding. Instead of trying to suppress your needy behavior, change your focus from, "Wh…
/r/seduction14/01/14 09:24 PM
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Hasn't anyone ever told you, "If you can't be with the one you love, love the one you got!" Plus there is a huge upside to keeping female friends. They tend to have a much easier time making connections, and you can access their social network if its casual and friendly between the two of you. Also, other women will see that you already have females around you, thereby increasing your value and attractiveness in their eyes. It's not always about getting laid. However, it IS always about maintain…
/r/seduction14/01/14 09:15 PM
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No problem! Good luck my friend! =)
/r/seduction14/01/14 09:06 PM
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Speaking as someone who had confidence issues in the past: I faked it till I made it. I'm sure I made a great ass out of myself, and I don't recommend this method for anyone with a fragile ego. Take a good hard look at yourself. Pick one thing (JUST ONE THING) that you would like to change. Change it. Boom, confidence level up.
/r/seduction14/01/14 04:17 AM
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I'm going to be that stereotypical asshole. It is just sex, you're nervous because there is a huge social stigma on it. Humans are sexual fucking beings. IT IS PERFECTLY NATURAL (not to mention a whole lot of fun, and great exercise). Also, smoke just a little bit of weed beforehand if you're so inclined (and maybe even if you're not). It is a known and effective treatment for anxiety, and is also a natural antiemetic (will help with nausea and general throw-up-y feelings). Source: Experience.
/r/seduction14/01/14 04:13 AM
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If random dude chimes in, make the conversation about them. "How did you two meet?" Based on the willingness of their response, chemistry, and mutual understanding, you should be able to determine the depth of their relationship. If it is an ex-boyfriend, look at the girl, and say, "I was just looking to have some fun, and I don't want to get in between anything serious. Here's my number, I should be free for the next couple days." Smile and walk away. In your case, the dude was just jealous of …
/r/seduction14/01/14 04:06 AM
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People tend to want what they can't have. To me, women are lie cats. If you've ever played with a cat, you know that whatever you dangle in front of the cat's face it will try to reach by any means possible. However, when the cat catches said object, it quickly gets bored and looks for something else to play with. Always be just out of reach. Unless you find "the one" or whatever, then stop playing games.
/r/seduction08/01/14 05:35 AM
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You don't know, you either are or you are not. I had a girl say to me on a first date: You'll never get me naked. And yet, there she was 30 minutes later. But if you asked me how I did it? I don't know. I just did it. By not thinking, you are able to devote more of your brain power to DOING. Now stop asking silly questions to silly internet people and go do something. Doesn't have to be the "right" thing...just something. Godspeed my friend.
/r/seduction06/12/13 07:01 AM
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Here's the single most useful thing I've learned: Just do, don't think and plan. When you're in the moment, it doesn't matter what you've done/said. That moment is gone.
/r/seduction06/12/13 06:51 AM
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Pause, look him up and down and say, "Damn, I hope she showered!"
/r/seduction08/04/13 12:54 PM
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Lurker here, I tend to take most of seddit with a grain of salt, but I am in the exact same boat as you amigo. One thing that helped me is to meet up with female friends from the past. Demonstrate (subtly, of course). That you've grown and changed since you last talked to them. Consider these 'dates' as practice rounds. When you become more familiar with that comfortable state of mind, you will be able to slip into it in any situation. More questions? Inbox me. Hope this helped at least a little…
/r/seduction05/02/13 11:43 PM
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Hit the gym! Nothing like a hard workout to distract your mind.
/r/seduction07/12/12 01:09 PM
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Wow, what a reality check. Canceling Netflix.......NAOW
/r/seduction24/11/12 01:29 PM
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Keep rapiness in check....got it.
/r/seduction19/11/12 02:11 PM
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