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SEEKING ADVICEnukemycountry/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 10:17 AM
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Eh, push anyway. Don't make a move, but make your feelings clear. She may feel some conflict but if the situation is that she should choose between you, at least give her all the information she needs. You like her. Tell her. And then say it's her decision what to do with that info. Then try not to get attached to the outcome
/r/seduction12/12/20 11:14 PM
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I make food for my bfs parents I think this might be the next level to what you're talking about
/r/seduction12/12/20 11:11 PM
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If you ask a girl out too early then it can turn a potential yes into a definite no
/r/seduction12/12/20 11:10 PM
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Not quite. Women are into men who are polite and disciplined and can have a good wholesome time, who can also be aggressive savages who take charge. The difficult bit is knowing when to be which version of yourself
/r/seduction03/12/20 05:23 PM
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If you're into a guy it's nice to see he's a bit pent up If you're not into him it's not
/r/seduction03/12/20 05:17 PM
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Attractive women also get hostile stares from less attractive men. I get that they are lonely and attractive women represent something they feel in unattainable and maybe the resentment just kind of leaks out and they don't mean it. But it is kinda sad being either stared down like an out of town cowboy in a small town salon or being pointedly ignored. Especially if we need to interact, like if they work in a shop and I need to buy something or vice versa. I just see a person in a lot of pain wi…
/r/seduction30/11/20 11:54 AM
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I mean, don't be like "hey, I'm Common-Drummer8131, I've watched the educational porn hub videos on female anatomy. What's your name?" I mean for the right girl that's hilarious but probably it won't work.
/r/seduction21/11/20 07:33 PM
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I mean yeah that's definitely a plus point in my books. Not something you'd lead with on a first date unless it came up. But definitely a cool and useful thing to have researched
/r/seduction21/11/20 06:43 PM
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Depends if that knowledge is actual knowledge about female anatomy or just things picked up from watching porn. Pretty much everything in porn is for a male viewer and about male fantasies. Nothing in there about how to actually please a woman.
/r/seduction21/11/20 06:30 PM
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Haha yes and no. Tbh dating a virgin is a lot easier for me because I know exactly what I like in bed. So the fewer preconceptions someone has, the easier it is for me to show them what I like. Some experience is valued too. It's not like I have weird tastes or anything. Also I want to know what is is my partner likes as well, though I don't mind if that's something they tell me or if it's something we figure out together. But I don't think that's the norm. Most girls probably value a bit of exp…
/r/seduction21/11/20 04:59 PM
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I know you guys don't like it when women say things here but, I'm gunna anyway lol My current partner has been with 24 people before being with me. And that's a lot. I think I would be fine with it if they had all been little flings like holiday romance that's all passionate and meaningful and they both enjoy it and learn from it etc. But they weren't. Most of those experiences were drunk and unprotected (don't worry he's been tested since and is clean). Which makes me feel kind of uncomfortable…
/r/seduction21/11/20 03:51 PM
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He probably just trusts you, and has no reason to assume just because your some of your friends are male you're instantly going to fuck them the second your alone with them. Maybe he bases this of the fact he doesn't fuck every mate he's alone with for a day. Could be something to do with being mature adults and not sex starved, possessive, jealous, and controlling degenerates. Different strokes different folks. Have the conversation with him. Don't ask reddit a question that only your s/o can a…
/r/seduction08/08/20 08:46 AM
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Yup, pretty much.
/r/seduction05/08/20 07:40 PM
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I knew that if I posted here I would be told what I need to hear. And I'm grateful to those who are replying. That doesn't mean it's easy to accept. Gotta make the shift. Thank you for replying. You're right, I need to hold men to a higher standard and stop giving them the benefit of the doubt in regards to friendship
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 11:41 AM
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He said he would let me know when he was in thr country so we could meet up again. It's worth noting that we met in a technology free society so calling and texting just isn't the norm. I know he could make an exception for me but I wouldn't expect that. Maybe I should expect that? I'm not going to chase after him and I don't want a romantic relationship. I want to be equals who sometimes have sex. But I need to feel like an equal and right now I don't.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 10:37 AM
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The thing is he's already put a lot of effort into our friendship just platonically. I have no doubts he wants to keep me in his life as a friend and honestly I'm not willing to lose him as a friend either.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 10:30 AM
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Absolutely, just wanted to add the distinction
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 10:18 AM
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Okay but if I'm in a relationship I want those compliments. It really sucks putting extra effort in one day just to be totally ignored or worse told you look silly. I dress up for me and because I want to dress up. But still, being complimented by my partner gives me the warm tingles.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 09:28 AM
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I only give advice when they express dissatisfaction with their situations. Or I guess I do tell them success and failure stories from myself and others and talk about the lessons. I am just sick and tired of seeing them constantly being treated like crap and letting it happen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 02:57 AM
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Desperation for marriage is not an issue at all. We are in our early twenties but still sort of have the teenager mentality that there is plenty of time. They want to be with someone but they are not looking for life partners. Just long term relationships in general. The thing is I'm not a very social person myself. I mostly do nerdy hobbies with a few close friends. I have no trouble finding partners who are of a reasonable standard but that's because I use online dating and am quite successful…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 07:09 PM
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How do I convince my HV female friends that they are HV and don't have to put up with most of the shit they do? I have quite a few female friends who date way bellow their potential and put up with a lot of shit from spineless/LV men. I have suggested they get a dating app and experience just the sheer number of men who would loved to date them but they are not interested in meeting people online/think it makes them slutty or whatever. Aside from sending FDS memes and regularly complimenting the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 07:42 AM
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It's very attractive. You can't really have chemistry with someone if they don't have a sense of humour. And chemistry is very attractive. Also, if can make someone laugh you release happy hormones in their brain and they will want to spend more time with you because you make them happy. That's like the definition of attraction. Plus, if you can make a group of people laugh that shows you have social status. Which is fucking catnip for women.
/r/seduction18/07/20 02:43 PM
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I guess. Some things can never be unsaid though. Once a co-worker, who was not my boss but did out rank me, if that makes sense, was flirting and said "I could literally get you fired" as a joke. Now I will never date him. Because that dynamic is a total turn off. Even if it was just a joke or not true. He should of gone with "careful, or I'll be putting my drinks on your tab." or "I'll come over there and tickle you." or whatever.
/r/seduction17/07/20 06:29 PM
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I mean cool but I'm literally so confused as to how
/r/seduction17/07/20 06:37 AM
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I don't like this quote. Because theyre all the same thing. People are ideas and events. And talking about any of these things doesn't say anything about your mind. It's how you talk about them. At what depth.
/r/seduction16/07/20 11:47 PM
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Chat shit. It's so entertaining and engaging.
/r/seduction16/07/20 11:44 PM
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There's a fine line between being a dick and teasing and it very much depends on the girls confidence. I'm quite confident and I like being teased pretty hard because I like banter and I like to show I can "take it" and prove myself. Also its fun and funny. Some girls will shy away from that kind of thing and will feel like it's bullying. So you really do need to read the room with this one. An example where I did the teasing and it worked out: I was on a second date with someone. He was big int…
/r/seduction16/07/20 11:43 PM
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Somewhat unrelated, but if a new girl seems to enter into your friend group for whatever reason. Talking to her and making her feel welcome is one hell of a strong move. Then when the trust is there turn up the heat. Bam. Gets me everytime.
/r/seduction16/07/20 10:17 PM
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Yes. Also a woman. Wanted to add to the list Good eye contact. Not creepy, but well timed, maybe the end of a joke, catch her eye, if your heart jumps then you're doing it right Also teasing. Not bullying but light hearted little jokes about things she does you find endearing. Makes her feel cute.
/r/seduction16/07/20 10:14 PM
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Maybe don't talk about either of you. Talk about some kind of media or your environment or whatever. I'm so bored of the same 20 questions back and forth. Who cares what degrees we're doing. That's shits both personal and meaningless
/r/seduction16/07/20 10:09 PM
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It's about how you make her feel. Seems obvious but hear me out. Also I should preface this as NSFW I'm a girl and I find that if a guy makes me feel funny, sexy and beautiful it really turns me on. So, he may not be all that. But if he can make me feel like I'm all that then I'll be aroused. Though I wouldn't act on it unless he is all that. Because my prefrontal cortex will intervene. Anyway I kind of link the whole being seen as sexy thing to actual sex. For me and probably for a lot of women…
/r/seduction16/07/20 10:05 PM
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Seems to me that you haven't grasped it as well as you think you have. Anyway, there's nothing you can do in that case except wait for her to notice you've "changed". If you try to show her you've changed then it will come across as forced. Look, for me, if a dude proves he's an asshole, it will take an absolute miracle for me to ever be interested in him ever again. And if dating him means ruining a friendship I value then absolutely not. Especially just for casual sex. And I'm not exceptional …
/r/seduction12/07/20 03:40 PM
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These are normal things in a platonic female to female friendship. So it may just be how she's used to expressing friendship. Unless she's quite shy, she would probably give more obvious signs. You said she used to be interested. Something went wrong. You need to know what that is before you can even begin to think about this. But the chances of it happening are pretty slim. And you are likely to make her feel objectified and like the friendship was never real, even if it was.
/r/seduction12/07/20 02:52 PM
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Most women are aware that the majority of their male friends would want to smash if given the chance. If she was into you then you'd know about it. She hasn't made a move, so it's a no go. Move on.
/r/seduction12/07/20 02:42 PM
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I don't think I've ever felt like a guy is just filling space talking until he can kiss me. I think the talking before hand and knowing where its going is kind of a part of it. Like flirting. I've got him where I want him and I'm making him wait. Or we both have to wait. I see it more as a bonding experience, and I find it highly engaging. There's definitely merits to both experienced and inexperienced men and obviously every dude is totally different. Awesome that you had such a great experienc…
/r/seduction08/07/20 07:30 PM
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Damn, you really laid it all out there, huh. You're right it's a vicious cycle. The harder you try, the more you push people away, especially romantic partners. And the more you push away, the more you feel you need to try. Maybe a way for you to break out if it is to try by not trying. Personally I've found that if I take a back seat in most social situations and try not to share any details about my life then people are more intrigued and interested. I don't sit there silently watching. I make…
/r/seduction08/07/20 04:16 PM
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I do get your point. In the past I have made the first moves and it's been fun. I was quite a sexually awakened teen so during those years I'd generally be understanding of guys being young and not knowing where the line is so opting to do nothing. And I would generally be the one to take that leap of faith, and deal with the rejection if it happened (which sometimes it did). But I guess now that I'm in my twenties I want it to be different. I want to feel like I'm wanted and worth the risk to t…
/r/seduction08/07/20 01:28 PM
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I have a few really similar stories. In my experience guys with less practice tend to approach the whole intimacy deal with a better attitude. They seem to be more interested in engaging with me and learning about me and what I like than just kind of using me to get off. Not that all experienced guys use me to get off. Like it's also really nice to be just kind of "taken" and not need to say or do anything. And a lot of experienced guys have a really great understanding of consent, reciprocation…
/r/seduction08/07/20 01:06 PM
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It's pretty much a different thing everytime, but here's a list off the top of my head: 1) not looking like their photos in a major way 2) being deceptive about something for example where they live, how old they are, having a job, whether or not we share a language etc. 3) acting strangely or not being genuine, for example being waaay too confident in a way that is clearly a front 4) general cringe, such as never listening to what I'm saying and just waiting their turn to speak 5) lack of intro…
/r/seduction08/07/20 12:43 PM
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Saw one guys bio once where he had a list of really funny jokes. I wasn't going to go for him but when I read his bio I figured it was worth a shot. He was. I guess it depends a lot on the girl. If she's on the fence a good bio might swing her
/r/seduction08/07/20 11:46 AM
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Girl here, so far 10% of my Tinder dates have lead to anything sexual. Even though I approached them all with the same mindset. So yeah, I went because I was dtf on some level. But still 90% of people didn't get it in (should account for some of them maybe not being into me in person either). So it kind of is an accomplishment if he can close every time.
/r/seduction08/07/20 11:40 AM
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To start of with yes. But there's a time and a place for persistence. You just really really need to know what you are doing.
/r/seduction08/07/20 11:23 AM
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Girl here. I was totally on the other side of this. Some guy was pulling out all the stops over text. He had an awesome personality and we had good chemistry. But he wasn't really my type physically. Classically handsome, but a lot thiccer than I'm used to, despite also being incredibly physically fit. I was working weekends at the time and rapidly losing interest in online dating or the dating scene. I'd been on a lot of lame dates that month. And then in a moment of weakness he finally managed…
/r/seduction08/07/20 11:19 AM
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Sure, or meet people through friends/activities. That way part of the trust is already there and your job is easier. They're more likely to view you as a person and not just another dude who seems to want something from them (whether or not that's true). If you're looking for an advantage, mutual friends or interests is a big advantage
/r/seduction03/07/20 10:55 AM
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Maybe cold approaching following a global pandemic isnt going to be so successful for a little while. People are used to social distancing and avoiding strangers. The virus is still out there and they don't want to get sick. It's probably not you, it's probably the pandemic. Alternatively, your market value has gone down somehow. Probably not because of you changing, just the dating market is flooded with horny dudes who have been cooped up for months and months. Maybe these women are experienci…
/r/seduction03/07/20 10:21 AM
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