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num_de_plum/r/askMRP12/04/24 03:27 PM
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Lines like this: No ego though—just clean, focused reps. I’m not chasing numbers. I’m building a lifestyle. The long dash is very specific to chat gpt. The styling of the words and pacing is also a giveaway. I know, I've used it alot.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/04/25 05:03 PM
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You should not use GPT so much to help you write these.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/04/25 07:16 PM
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Thanks, I will reflect on these points.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/02/25 08:36 PM
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I am having sex, and I know why you ask that, as it's not the sex I want, deep down if I'm honest. I do value my wife in other ways, but she is ... well, not a hot fuckdoll down for anything. She's obese, post wall, and a lovely person, as in good and moral, and it's often fun to play house, but I'm getting tired of it, and to be honest, don't want to have sex more with her than once or twice a week. Or, I've given up her being freeuse fucking. Or I am just in denial. This is as deep as I've tho…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/02/25 05:30 PM
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Hi, thanks for responding. You are right, this is how I have been doing my own OYS, weekly journaling, since I was banned, and this is how it has evolved into. I'm not sure I was testing her boundaries, but she was testing mine, we were testing both. To take what I want, to go after what I want - to Fuck, is what I am looking to achieve. The anectdote of the kid carrying the luggage - he should be - but I don't really care about it. I just wanted to shut the argument down, the bitching. Is that …
/r/MarriedRedPill28/02/25 01:45 PM
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OYS #46 Stats: 44 // 5'10, // 177lbs (-8) // 3 boys 11-7 // Married 12 yrs Reading this week: Physical: Exercise: 3 days Phrak LP , 2 days core, 1 day sport. Goals: Goal of 220lbs 3x5 bench in late April. Bench Press: 190lbs (+5) 4,3,1 / PB 185 5,5,5 Row: 130lbs (+2.5) 5,5,7 / PB 147.5 5,5,5 Overhead Press: 117.5lbs (+2.5) 5,5,6 / PB 117.5 5,5,6 Chinups 12.5 5,5,5 / PB 22.5 5,5,6 Pull Ups 5,5,6 / PB 5,5,6 Squats (deep): 180lbs (+5) 5,5,8 / PB 192.5 5,5,6 Deadlift: 200lbs (+5) 5,6 / PB 242.5 5,4 …
/r/MarriedRedPill26/02/25 06:57 PM
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I appreciate that you actually succeeded, and your last OYS were impressive. Congrats and good luck.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/01/25 03:45 PM
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She does add value. She is great at organization, she compliments my weaknesses, and she makes 767k a year. However, I want to find and accomplish higher states of being.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/12/24 06:04 PM
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Everyone one on here trends to divorce, or getting your wife to suck your dick like a teenager.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/12/24 05:05 PM
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Because it's like a functional, working business partnership. In some ways, a sinecure gilded cage situation. Logistical, pragmatic, functional.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/12/24 05:02 PM
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OYS #45 Stats: 44 // 5'10, // 169lbs (+1) // Married 12 years // 3 boys Reading this week: Re-reading Mystery's Venusian Arts. https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/tje76d/the_three_stages_of_dread/ Physical: Diet: Eating to supply protein. Supplements of Creatine, NMN, B Complex. Exercise: 3 days Phrak LP , 2 days core (hang leg lift / crunches / plank), paddle. Goals: Removing cut, going to bulk. Goal of 190lbs 3x5 bench. Good posture with a strong core. Bench Press: 170lbs (+7.5) 5…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/12/24 10:50 PM
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180 is the max 5s. How do you go from 180 to 220 in 3 months unless your on juice?
/r/MarriedRedPill12/12/24 03:04 PM
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OYS #44 Stats: 44 // 5'10, // 168lbs (-1) // Married 12 years // 3 boys Reading this week: Re-reading Mystery's Venusian Arts. Physical: Diet: Eating to supply protein. Supplements of Creatine, NMN, B Complex. Alcohol or heavy carbs really takes a hit to diet. Exercise: 3 days Phrak LP , 2 days core (hang leg lift / crunches / plank), paddle. Goals: Removing cut, going to bulk. Goal of 190lbs 3x5 bench. Good posture with a strong core. Bench Press: 162.5lbs 5,5,8 (+1) Row: 147.5lbs 5,5,5 Overhea…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/12/24 02:07 PM
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Thanks. The ladder - it was after, happy to give ladder, he started complimenting me on my car, and I can say I fell into his frame, with him taking the lead. I appreciate everything you said, and my mind is consistently cucking me. A lot of self criticism, analysis, spinning circles.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/12/24 06:36 PM
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He publicly mental masturbates more than anyone I've read thus far. It's just non stop jerking off for him. I... kindof agree on this. What are the details on this? I'm not exactly sure I know what you are talking about here.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/12/24 12:51 PM
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Recommendations to myself.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/12/24 09:28 PM
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Not being reactive to other people.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/12/24 09:04 PM
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OYS #43 Stats: 44 // 5'10, // 169lbs (+4) // Married 12 years // 3 boys Reading this week: Physical: Diet: Supplements of Creatine, NMN, B Complex. Exercise: 3 days Phrak LP , 2 days core (hang leg lift / crunches / plank), paddle. Changing to doing deep, full squats has forced me to re-calibrate to a lower weight. Goals: Removing cut, going to bulk. Goal of 190lbs 3x5 bench. Good posture with a strong core. Bench Press: 162.5lbs (-15) 5,5,5,8 (+7) Row: 147.5lbs (+7.5) 5,5,5 Overhead Press: 115l…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/12/24 06:32 PM
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OYS #42 Stats: 44 // 5'10, // 165lbs (+1) // Married 12 years // 3 boys Reading this week: Physical: Diet: Eating to feed muscles - chicken, eggs, cottage cheese, nuts, salad, shakes, some grains, fruits. No fasting. Supplements of Creatine, NMN, B Complex. Exercise: 3 days Phrak LP , 2 days core (hang leg lift / crunches / plank), paddle. Changing to doing deep, full squats has forced me to re-calibrate to a lower weight. Goals: Removing cut, going to bulk. Goal of 190lbs 3x5 bench. Good postur…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/11/24 11:53 AM
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OYS #41 - 62 weeks Stats: 44 // 5'10, // 164lbs (+1) // Married 12 years // 3 boys Reading this week: Finished Mystery's Revelations Physical: Diet: Supplements of Creatine, NMN, B Complex, Magnesium Glycinate. Exercise: 3 days Phrak LP , 2 days core (hang leg lift / crunches / plank), paddle. Changing to doing deep, full squats has forced me to re-calibrate to a lower weight. Goals: Removing cut, going to bulk. Goal of 190lbs 3x5 bench. Good posture with a strong core. Bench Press: 175lbs (+5) …
/r/MarriedRedPill19/11/24 07:07 PM
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I appreciate all of your advice so far. Ask me any question you want. I have made progress, as in I am more in shape, better looking. I have better conversations, and I have better game. However the better game fades the longer the time frame is from reading Mystery's works. I tend to pick up ideas from the 'field' just by reading their experience in the field. The power dynamics are better at home, I am more sexually attractive, get away with more, and have overall a better relationship. Howeve…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/11/24 08:40 PM
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Is there a single thing you actually want for yourself, and not because you think maybe it will make your wife spread her legs? I want a woman that I adore. But I also can't help but think that's just me wanting mommy as well. Someone with who I am completely aligned. On my list of shit to do, I have this operating system for AI project that I am working on. I want to finish the financial advisor piece of it, before moving on to the next project. Using time boxing and segment intending to focus …
/r/MarriedRedPill13/11/24 08:28 PM
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OYS #40 - 61 weeks Stats: 44 // 5'10, // 163lbs (-1) // Married 12 years // 3 boys Reading this week: Physical: Diet: I have been eating normally, and I am no longer doing fasting days. On the weekend I still drink and overeat a bit. Alcohol and sugar/desserts are bad for me, and I have genetic prevalence toward fatty liver disease, but once I start eating or drinking it's hard to stop. I don't know what the balance is there. I'm only getting approx. 125g-130g of protein per day. I want to up th…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/11/24 11:24 PM
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Thanks. I needed to hear that. My blessings.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/11/24 03:28 PM
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She didn’t want to hop on your steed while you were white knighting for her. Did you really want to rescue her or what were your true intentions? ya... no white knighting. she's best friends with the hosts, it was all play. That’s a lot of shit that does nothing to address your surplus needed. What do i need surplus needed? I'm probably at ~120g of protein per day. My doctor and I have found low folic and b vitamin levels, methylation pathway deficiency. NMN has really upped mental clarity. Prob…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/11/24 03:03 PM
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OYS #39 - 60 weeks Stats: 44 // 5'10, // 164lbs (+0) // Married 12 years // 3 boys Reading this week: Re-reading: Venusian Artist 2nd Edition - Mystery Reading: Revelation - Venusian Arts. Physical: Diet: Citrulline, Creatine, Taurine and Wheatgrass pre-workout; Magnesium Glycinate before bed. Experimenting with Bromelain and Papain enzymes for eye floaters. NMN, B Complex (NAD+ precursor). Exercise: 3 days Phrak LP , 2 days core (hang leg lift / crunches / plank), paddle. Changing to doing deep…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/11/24 12:41 PM
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OYS #38 - 59 weeks Stats: 44 // 5'10, // 164lbs (+4) // Married 12 years // 3 boys Reading this week: Re-reading: Venusian Artist 2nd Edition - Mystery Reading: Revelation - Venusian Arts. Physical: Diet: Citrulline, Creatine, Taurine and Wheatgrass pre-workout; Magnesium Glycinate before bed. Experimenting with Bromelain and Papain enzymes for eye floaters. NMN, B Complex (NAD+ precursor). Exercise: 3 days Phrak LP , 2 days core (hang leg lift / crunches / plank), no tennis, paddle. Changing to…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/10/24 07:41 PM
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it was akward. and a bit shitty. but hey, it is the fucking truth. to be able to pick her up, and throw her one the bed, i said.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/10/24 04:52 PM
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I was doing quarter to half squats for a year, got up to around 190. I'm in a home gym, perhaps that explains some of it. Realized after watching a video your supposed to go paralell or lower. I've always been afraid of breaking my legs somehow. Lower past paralell my knees would pop. Now I'm pushing between paralell and deep squat and failing. Part of the problem is I would keep my legs paralell to my shoulders, and wouldn't do an angle widening at the knees.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/10/24 04:29 PM
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What does this mean? It's just... pavlovian and she reacts this way? I touched something within her that just gets her shy and giggling. Or.. the shy and giggling is a game she plays to control me? I have no idea what you are saying..
/r/MarriedRedPill23/10/24 04:20 PM
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I'm an idiot when it comes to lifting. I read somewhere that with my body type I should cut until I feel normal, and then bulk for two years after that. I do anything random internet strangers say.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/10/24 07:00 PM
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OYS #37 - 58 weeks Stats: 44 // 5'10, // 160lbs (+0) // Married 12 years // 3 boys Chasing phantom flames, Endless war within the self, Let go, find the void. Reading this week: Re-reading: Venusian Artist 2nd Edition - Mystery Reading: Revelation - Venusian Arts. Physical: Diet: Sticking to 1500 calories/day, and one fast day. Citrulline, and Wheatgrass pre-workout; Magnesium Glycinate before bed. Experimenting with Bromelain and Papain enzymes for eye floaters. NMN (NAD+ precursor). Exercise: …
/r/MarriedRedPill22/10/24 06:21 PM
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OYS #36 - 57 weeks Stats: 44 // 5'10, // 160lbs (+0) // Married 12 years // 3 boys Endless, like the sea, Love flows freely, wild, and fierce, Bound yet setting free. Reading this week: Re-reading: Venusian Artist 2nd Edition - Mystery Reading: Revelation - Venusian Arts. A later rewrite that's not as good as 2nd Edition. Physical: Diet: Sticking to 1500 calories/day, and one fast day. Citrulline, and Wheatgrass pre-workout; Magnesium Glycinate before bed. Experimenting with Bromelain and Papain…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/10/24 10:50 AM
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OYS #35 - 56 weeks Stats: 44 // 5'10, // 160lbs (-2) // Married 12 years // 3 boys Reading this week: Re-reading: Venusian Artist 2nd Edition - Mystery Reading: Revelation - Venusian Arts. A later rewrite that's not as good as 2nd Edition, some good meta-analysis though. Physical: Diet: Sticking to 1500 calories/day, and one fast day. Citrulline, and Wheatgrass pre-workout; Magnesium Glycinate before bed. Experimenting with Bromelain and Papain enzymes for eye floaters. Exercise: 3 days Phrak LP…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/10/24 09:02 PM
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OYS #34 - 55 weeks Stats: 44 // 5'10, // 162lbs (-1) // Married 12 years // 3 boys Love fades yet endures, Gentle echoes of lost warmth, Choices shape new dawn. Reading this week: None. Physical: Diet: Sticking to 1500 calories/day, and one fast day. Citrulline, and Wheatgrass pre-workout; Magnesium Glycinate before bed. Experimenting with Bromelain and Papain enzymes for eye floaters. Exercise: 3 days Phrak LP , 2 days core (hang leg lift / crunches / plank), 1 day tennis. Stalling lift progres…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/10/24 03:34 PM
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When I say 5x5x8 I meant 5 then 5 then 8. I am stalling progression while cutting.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/09/24 10:19 PM
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Ok, I don't see where I am wrong. https://tpcsjournal.wordpress.com/2015/01/24/phraks-greyskull-lp-variant/ same image referenced here: https://www.reddit.com/r/Fitness/comments/1usf4e/whats_the_general_consensus_on_phraks_greyskull_lp/ == Phraks Greyskull LP Variant == === Program === Day 1 - 3x5 Overhead Press / Bench Press (alternating) - 3x5 Chinups / Barbell Rows (alternating) - 3x5 Squats Day 2 - 3x5 Overhead Press / Bench Press (alternating) - 3x5 Chinups / Barbell Rows (alternating) - 1x…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/09/24 02:24 PM
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It's 5x5xamrap, yes. Why isn't this phrak's lp?
/r/MarriedRedPill25/09/24 09:36 AM
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This is my first time cutting down from being a fat fuck, and I want to see where skinny is. No divorce prep yet.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/09/24 04:16 PM
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OYS #32 - 54 weeks Stats: 44 // 5'10, // 163lbs (-3) // Married 12 years // 3 boys Silent flame within, Through time’s weight and passion’s fire, Bound yet free, it soars. Reading this week: None. Physical: Diet: Sticking to 1500 calories/day, and one fast day. Citrulline, and Wheatgrass pre-workout; Magnesium Glycinate before bed. Experimenting with Bromelain and Papain enzymes for eye floaters. Exercise: 3 days Phrak LP , 2 days core (hang leg lift / crunches / plank), 1 day tennis. Stalling l…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/09/24 02:33 PM
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She's fucking someone else.
/r/askMRP18/09/24 09:10 PM
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There has been reports of an old man driving around and talking with elementary kids on their way home. I said this is a shame, because this makes me fear all old men talking to the boys, as for example an old neigbor was helping them fish while I was there. It reduces trust. And then she was concerned about the boys going to school on their bike, as she had seen a dangerous situation with a neigborhood child crossing in the other direction. She was interrogating our children on the crossing gau…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/09/24 06:59 PM
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OYS #31 - 53 weeks Stats: 44 // 5'10, // 166lbs (-2) // Married 12 years // 3 boys Reading this week: 'Never Enough: Barista to Billionaire' Andrew Wilkinson, finished. Physical: Diet: Sticking to 1500 calories/day, and one fast day. Cheated on Friday with a bottle of wine and some steak and potato casserole. Citrulline, Creatine, and Wheatgrass pre-workout; Magnesium Glycinate before bed. Experimenting with Bromelain and Papain enzymes for eye floaters. Exercise: 3 days Phrak LP , 3 days core (…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/09/24 01:20 PM
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The insight: What I think matters little to others, but what I think means a lot to me. What other people think is all important to them, but matters little to me in the long run. Maybe 95-5 ratio.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/09/24 02:14 PM
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Thanks for the advice. Let's see if I burn. It should not be a struggle, but a relaxing into. By frame, I thought it was being in congruency with the past decisions, desires, passions that precede you, following in their wake.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/09/24 01:25 PM
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Are you literally jerking off while you write this shit? yes
/r/MarriedRedPill11/09/24 02:14 PM
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So you do not see a difference in holding frame with people, or alone, and have a harder time staying in your own frame when alone? I seem to relax when alone, and the thoughts peg me instead of me pegging the thoughts that I want.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/09/24 02:13 PM
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OYS #30 - 52 weeks Stats: 44 // 5'10, // 168lbs (+1) // Married 12 years // 3 boys Two hearts, fierce as flames, Clashing, burning, but still whole, Love thrives in the storm. Reading this week: Ryan Holiday's 'Ego is the enemy' was finished. It is a good book. 'Barista to Billionaire' Andrew Wilkinson Physical: Diet: Goal: 1500 calories per day, relaxed on weekend parties and one fast day. Supplementing with Citrulline, Creatine, and Wheatgrass pre-workout, and Magnesium Glycinate before bed. A…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/09/24 04:14 PM
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It's true I've made progress, but not at the rate I've expected. The lifts haven't skyrocketed, but I am stronger, and I see improvement in posture, strength and physique. Socially has improved, but I still need to have an unshakeable frame and complete dominance over my own mental landscape. I test the waters too much, instead of leading with dominance. Career wise I am lagging behind. I began this with declaring I would start a 'trillion-dollar business', but without clear, actionable steps. I…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/09/24 05:05 PM
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OYS #29 - 51 weeks Stats: 44 // 5'10, // 167lbs // Married 12 years // 3 boys Whispers in the dark, Silent vows that hearts embrace, Endless love's pure spark. Reading this week: Ryan Holiday's 'Ego is the enemy' Physical: Diet: Goal: 1500 calories per day, relaxed on weekend parties and one fast day. Supplementing with Citrulline, Creatine, and Wheatgrass pre-workout, and Magnesium Glycinate before bed. I do not like when I overeat on weekends, especially with alcohol, I notice how I feel after…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/09/24 02:50 PM
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You talk to much. I filled the majority of my time with things that I want to do, like shooting at the range, going to coffee shops, going for walks, volunteering at scouts, and lifting. Sounds like masturbation. Standards list Sounds like masturbation. Sounds like getting dopamine hits from imagining what you plan and will do instead of just doing it. I could be wrong tho.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/08/24 10:51 AM
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Are those lifts in kg?
/r/MarriedRedPill28/08/24 05:11 PM
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My wife pulls in around $1M a year, three times what I make. If we divorce, she's the one who would likely be paying alimony, not me. There's the possibility that flips in the future, that that's now. This shift is probably messing with her sense of control - she wants me back in the 'bux' role, pushing me to chase the next millions. Now, I barely care about sex with my wife, which used to be my biggest desire to be wanted. I want to make more money, not for financial security, but for self-empo…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/08/24 04:24 PM
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Taking over. Leading everything in my house, especially finances. You are not ready to take over. Honestly you are not ready to take control of anything. STFU. Lift. Eat well. Build yourself up. Indicate total disinterest towards your wife. You are not high value yet enough to actually be attractive. Pray for the ability to eat shit, grin. Be disinterested. You will need it. Dont kill yourself. As someone wise said, anything else is less risky than that, so fuck off and do that instead.
/r/askMRP27/08/24 10:21 PM
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We both have high expectations. Her standards are driven by a strong sense of responsibility for the kids future and a desire for security. Financial success, in her eyes, is synonymous for providing Ivy League educations, multiple vacations a year, or a substantial safety net. Maternal instincts rooted probably, she's likely seeking reassurance that her sacrifices, particularly for career or personal life, are worth it. She wants me to push harder, to achieve this level of financial success, an…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/08/24 08:40 PM
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OYS #28 - 50 weeks Stats: 44 // 5'10, // 167lbs (-1) // Married 12 years // 3 boys Love’s endless journey, Hearts entwined, yet unyielding, In storms, we find peace. Reading this week: re-reading venusian arts Ryan Holiday's 'Ego is the enemy' - mastering the ego to prevent it from becoming an obstacle in the path to self-mastery. Physical: Diet: I have been struggling with maintaining a deficit for fear of muscle loss, leading to fluctuating between cutting and eating back to maintenance. I thi…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/08/24 04:18 PM
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Thanks.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/08/24 03:27 PM
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It's just a goal. Not.sure if I should, at 17% body fat. Just want to max it out to below 15%.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/08/24 03:27 PM
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You're right, thank you and the other commenter for the callout. I did the three day fast, and went down to 163, which I think was mostly water weight loss from running a 7 mile with a friend the weekend after. It was harsh, and I gained it all back within a week and a half. I must be cheating, or my base metabolic rate is really low. Whatever it is, I appreciate the callout - I need to actually cut.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/08/24 05:23 PM
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I saw a poll on whether you want 'to desire', or 'to be desired'. My first instinct was selecting 'to be desired'. But to want 'to desire' rather than to 'be desired', is the crux of mastery. While being desired is flattering validation, I want a woman that I desire. That is what I meant. What you said is right as well.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/08/24 04:36 PM
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Yes, I got interested. I appreciate your replies every week.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/08/24 04:20 PM
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OYS #27 - 49 weeks Stats: 44 // 5'10, // 168lbs (+1) // Married 12 years // 3 boys Love, a fierce tempest, In hearts it reigns, undaunted, Bound, yet unshaken. Reading this week: re-reading venusian arts Physical: Diet: Sticking to 1500 calories per day, with cheat weekends and one fast day each week. Supplementing with Citrulline, Creatine, and Wheatgrass pre-workout, and Magnesium Glycinate before bed. Exercise: Added tennis twice a week, along with 3 days of lifting and 3 days of core workout…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/08/24 02:46 PM
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OYS #26 - 48 weeks* Stats: 44 // 5'10, // 167lbs (-1) // Married 12 years // 3 boys Reading this week: The Surrender Experiment: Michael Singer Physical: Two days of lifting, then building the home gym. About 1500 calories a day, cheat weekends, one fast day a week. Citrulline, Creatine, Wheatgrass, before workout. Magnesium glycinate before bed. Have started playing tennis. Goals To get down to 155-160lbs weight in a cut, and then bulk to a bench press of 220lbs. To fix my posture through stren…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/08/24 09:23 PM
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I don't want to fuck her. I do want to be able to have her in my frame, and control it. Perhaps its like you said, embrace it, enhance it and then provide it back to the group for everyone to enjoy.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/07/24 01:29 PM
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Thank you. Maybe I like the attention and I like her entering my frame, but it's dangerous and not the right thing to do to fuck her. Is there a middle ground where this can be used for some other purpose than fucking in the end. I would guess no, because the emotions are too high and this is where it leads, correct. Elevate the husband, you say. Is there a way to have both, fuck her and maintain current life? I doubt I have that skill right now. Call me a bastard, but I want to explore without …
/r/MarriedRedPill24/07/24 10:23 AM
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OYS #25 - 45 weeks Stats: 44 // 5'10, // 166lbs (-2) // Married 12 years // 3 boys Reading this week: Psycho-Cybernetics by Max Maltz Physical: Two days of lifting, then building the home gym. About 1500 calories a day, cheat weekends, one fast day a week. Citrulline, Creatine, Wheatgrass, before workout. Magnesium glycinate before bed. B-complex supplement. Bought a power cage with the safety straps for BP and Squats, deloaded squats now that I can go deeper. Before I was too afraid to do deep …
/r/MarriedRedPill23/07/24 06:50 PM
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OYS #24 Stats: 44 // 5'10, // 168lbs (+0) // Married 12 years // 3 boys Reading this week: Psycho-Cybernetics Max Maltz Physical: Two days of lifting, then building the home gym. About 1500 calories a day, cheat weekends, one fast day a week. Adding carbs as I was crashing halfway through the day. Adding magnesium glycinate for better sleep. Bought a power cage with the safety straps for BP and Squats, deloading squats now that I can go deeper. Before I was too afraid to do deep squats and was n…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/07/24 02:25 PM
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together 15 years, no kids. that's a long time for no kids. she's getting to 30, the last trains will be leaving the station. do you want kids?
/r/MarriedRedPill04/07/24 12:02 PM
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what is glow sticks from the side bar?
/r/MarriedRedPill04/07/24 11:55 AM
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You’re not really dgaf if you like compliments, but it’s better to at least kind of look like you dgaf. conversation tactics has a recommendation to complement the complement. 'you're really good at complements'. 'that's a great compliment'. 'you're so perceptive'. along those lines. a guy used to say 'flattery will get you everything' in response to a compliment.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/07/24 11:53 AM
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I showed her some comfort, assured her that I was there for her and that we can work through all of this crap as a team. I comforted her, handled dinner, etc did you reward her for wanting a divorce and crying? gave me a great BJ ahh, she rewarded you
/r/askMRP02/07/24 08:04 PM
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OYS #23 - 43 Weeks In Stats: 44 // 5'10, // 171lbs (+1) // Married 12 years // 3 boys Reading this week: https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/apijze/inner_game_put_in_the_work_to_become_a_man_that Inner game: Put in the work to become a man that feels entitled (don't be a lazy fuck) Physical: Three days of lifting, two days of core (plank, crunches etc.). Also working on straightening the forward head by correcting anterior pelvic tilt and exercises targeting the neck. I'm obviously drin…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/07/24 07:25 PM
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Compliance tests are from the Mystery Method Venusian Arts Handbook 2nd Edition. It is a technique to gauge and increase a woman's interest and willingness to follow your lead. The idea is to smart with small, low investment requests and gradually build up to larger ones, ultimately testing her compliance and investment in the interaction. Mystery says sex is around 55% compliance, and you can imagine that specific sexual acts are higher compliance. These generate interest and investment in your…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/07/24 05:02 PM
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Thank you for the breakdown. I agree, I was kind of a deer in the headlights. But, I'm confused about the inner game. Does this mean that I just feel good, amused, cocky, and don't let anything imbalance me? What does this actually mean? Is there any resources for reading about this?
/r/MarriedRedPill25/06/24 05:23 PM
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I failed. Hot girl, standing outside a store with free drinks. Say what the hell, go and take one talk to her. Talking, she says wow your pores are so big, looks at me, tells me take sunglasses off, chooses me over wife to sell to, brings me in and starts putting this stuff on my face, to show the products. So ya.. not really game on my part, but I think there was an opportunity to neg, or flip it around to start flirting a bit. But I seemed to be a bit captivated in her frame, in the sale. Was …
/r/MarriedRedPill25/06/24 03:16 PM
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let me touch your dick real quick. the second I join her by saying yeah that feels good, she stops like well yeah that's enough, let's sleep. I dgaf. lol, she actually likes giving you blue balls next morning, she is calling me from the shower wanna spend some time with me? I join her, check her out just to hear within seconds I see what you are thinking, if you wanna fuck you better just leave. you need to start compliance testing her, get her to invest in you. she is just compliance testing yo…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/06/24 10:23 AM
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Since gaming women infront of my wife is just plain disrespectful It's not disrespectful to have a fun and engaging conversation with another woman in front of your wife. If the other woman is showing interest, even better for your wife. Your not going to accidently slip and fuck the other woman, or kiss or whatever.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/06/24 10:17 AM
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OYS #22 - 42 Weeks In Stats: 44 // 5'10, // 170lbs (+7) // Married 12 years // 3 boys Reading this week: psycho cybernetics maxwell maltz Physical: Gained 7lbs. I have a hard time believing this is all fat gain. Since completely off my diet over the vacation, my carb intake skyrocketed, and this is probably a lot of glycogen and water retention gain. Goal To get down to 155-160lbs weight in a cut and then bulk to bench of approx 220lbs. Fix my posture through strengthening my core. Bench Press: …
/r/MarriedRedPill25/06/24 10:10 AM
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This lines up with what you are saying about the relaxation, with tips on how to find and practice. https://www.reddit.com/r/everymanshouldknow/comments/kc2vw4/emsk_advanced_male_kegel_training
/r/MarriedRedPill18/06/24 02:12 PM
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OYS #21 - 41 Weeks In Stats: 44 // 5'10, // 163lbs (-2) // Married 12 years // 3 boys Reading this week: None Physical: Gym 5 days, 3 days of lifts. 4 days of 1500 calories, 1 day fast, 2 days on weekend of cheat. Was able to go to the gym before left, possibly little gym this week due to the vacation. Goal To get down to 155-160lbs weight in a cut and then bulk to bench of approx 220lbs. Fix my posture through strengthening my core. Bench Press: 170lbs (+5) 5x5x4 Row: 135lbs (+5) 5x5x7 Overhead…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/06/24 02:09 PM
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I'm at the same stage/level as you. But this sounds fucking retarded. I would game your wife, you may or may not have attraction, but you don't have compliance level, and your wife is in defiance. Re-read the old second half of the Mystery Method. Display High Value, give Indicators of Disinterest, bait, and ask for a compliance test. Even little compliance test, like asking for her hands and then squeezing and throwing them away. If she defies, go to step one, IODs, DHV, test. If she complies, …
/r/askMRP11/06/24 02:54 PM
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OYS #20 - 40 Weeks In Stats: 44 // 5'10, // 165lbs (-2) // Married 12 years // 3 boys Reading this week: Finished Patrick Kings Conversation Tactics Mystery's Venusian Arts Handbook Physical: Gym 6 days, 3 days of lifts. 4 days of 1500 calories, 1 day fast, 2 days on weekend of cheat. Creatine, Citrulline+Wheatgrass, Psycliun Husk supplement. Physical lab results came in this week - 780 ng/dL testosterone, good cholesterol. Goal To get down to 155-160lbs weight in a cut and then bulk to bench of…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/06/24 11:03 AM
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what are your plans with your wife? I don't know. I was thinking to give it three years, so that I get into top shape and then make a decision based on where we are, how she has changed and how have I changed. But this is a very light on details plan. To become better, and to have her become better, or not? I get that you think I should lead her, and have a plan, if I want anything to happen. I want sexual energy, excitement, those juices flowing in her and me. I also want to use game to improve…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/06/24 02:10 PM
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Thanks for the feedback. (wow your house is so wide!) yeah, thats just bad manners their house is huge, at 8k square feet. How do you do negs right? For example, at the party there was a CEO lady who was describing what her company does, and the description was becoming bland and lifeless. I said 'wow, you must say this a lot'. And she smiled, and said, 'yes i have been recruiting lately.' Is this a proper neg? I see it as when someone is too overconfident, you neg them to reset the frame. How d…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/06/24 12:25 PM
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I agree. I got sucked into it and did not cut the thread. Did you just speak about trying to fuck other wives in a party with your wife around? I was not trying to fuck, just to practice game.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/06/24 12:18 PM
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OYS #19 - 39 Weeks In Stats: 44 // 5'10, // 167lbs (-1) // Married // 3 kids under 11 Reading this week: This week I have been focused on learning game by reading reddit posts on it, listening to Conversation Tactics, and re-visiting Mystery's old handbook. Patrick Kings Conversation Tactics Mystery's Venusian Arts Handbook Routines Rian's There's no one else you can tell Reddit: Tips for gaming women when you are married Married man game My affair her husband and getting caught Physical: Gym 6x…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/06/24 10:57 AM
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OYS #18 - 38 Weeks In Stats: 44 // 5'10, // 168lbs (0) // Married // 3 kids under 11 Reading this week: Rollo on polyandry. Physical: Gym 5x this week. Diet of 1500 calories a day. Fasted for 24 hours. The memorial day weekend was a lot of eating, and steaks. Bought citrulline and wheatgrass based on comment 'makes you want to hit golf balls with your dick', and can confirm. Sleep schedule has been fucked, a lot of waking up at 2am and falling back asleep at 5am. Focus on posture exercises (Cono…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/05/24 04:28 PM
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OYS #17 - 37 Weeks In Stats: 44 // 5'10, // 168lbs (-1) // Married // 3 kids under 10 Reading this week: Sidebar - Read this gem of a post # shame and frustration of a fat wife, Dubai. I realized am not a special snowflake. Rollo Mindful Attraction Plan Lifts: Gym 5x this week, lifts 3x. Doing random exercises on non-lift days. Had to de-load some of the lifts. Dialing in the diet to include more fruits and fiber. Some psylium husk. Eating about 1500 calories / day during week. Did one 24 hour f…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/05/24 09:39 AM
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considering moving on to get a masters too masters are usually not worth it, unless required by jobs (education) or its an MBA after working in private for >5 years.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/05/24 09:01 AM
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OYS #16 - 36 Weeks In Stats: 44 // 5'10, // 169lbs (+1) // Married // 3 kids under 10 Reading this week: Courage to be disliked Commandments of Poon - Reread. Mindful Attraction Plan - An amazing book. Exactly what I was looking for, with a list of things to do. Created a list of the red, green, yellows action items. Lifts: Gym 5x this week, lifts 3x. Doing random exercises on non-lift days. Have been dieting, eating like 3-4 protein shakes a day, some high protein meals inn between, for probabl…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/05/24 10:53 AM
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I don't care that much about that.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/05/24 10:28 PM
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I was hesitant to post this week because I hadn't done much, and I was embarrassed about visiting the massage parlor. I had just kept quiet with the wife during the week. The encounter with my friend's wife involved some sensual touching in public, which really threw me off. I’ve been trying to set a standard for myself about not procrastinating and tackling things early, but now I’m wondering if I should consider leaving my wife if it seems like that’s where things are heading. I didn't even st…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/05/24 02:30 PM
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I'm writing down the daily to reflect and keep myself accountable. To be able to see the patterns, the progress, and little fuckups. This little pieces help create a clearer picture over time. That said, I hear you about focusing more on significant shifts and insights and highlighting more substantial things.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/05/24 01:38 PM
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OYS #15 - 35 Weeks In Stats: 44 // 5'10, // 168lbs (+1) // Married // 3 kids under 10 Reading this week: The Mindful Attraction Plan I don't know why I had missed this essential earlier. Actually, I had thought I was too good, or thought I already knew what it was. Lifts: Gym 4x this week. Bench Press: 162.5lbs (+5) 5x5x6 Row: 122.5lbs (+5) 5x5x8 Overhead Press: 97.5lbs (+2.5) 5x5x6 Squats: 155lbs (+5) 5x5x8 Deadlift: 190lbs (+5) 5x5x5 Overview: Fat wife, once a week trickle sex. A middle aged m…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/05/24 11:30 AM
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Are you shit testing me?
/r/MarriedRedPill30/04/24 01:03 PM
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OYS #14 - 34 Weeks In Stats: 44 // 5'10, // 167lbs (-5) // Married // 3 kids under 10 Reading this week: Sidebar, The Rational Male, Year One. Good stuff: https://rianstone.substack.com/p/the-internet-as-a-buffer https://rianstone.substack.com/p/the-path-men-take On boundary building and how it is what you are willing to defend. Lifts: Gym 5x this week. I have an endomorph body type and I want to cut 10-20lbs. I read where it is recommended to bulk for 2-4 years after an initial cut here. I have…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/04/24 10:32 AM
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OYS #13 - 33 Weeks In Stats: 44 // 5'10, // 172lbs (+2) // Married // 3 kids under 10 Overview: This week was all vacation. Plenty of driving time and opportunity for reflection. I've been able to see my family in new light and situations, which has added perspective. There is a challenge to balance leadership with emotional control, especially in front of the kids. Physical and Leadership: * This vacation has highlighted my physical and leadership softness. Despite engaging actively with the fa…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/04/24 07:02 PM
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She is looking for comfort and rhat she can quit if she wants. We discussed later and decided that the benefits and compensation cannot be matched elsewhere.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/04/24 12:34 AM
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OYS #12 - 32 Weeks In Stats: 44 // 5'10, // 170lbs (+4) // Married // 3 kids under 10 Overview Ups and downs. Absence of sexual intimacy, which I didn't really find my wife attractive, emphasized with my wife's persistent coughing which I found off putting. Dealing with dropping nice guy. Trained in the gym 5 times per week. Moving forward, I need to develop more assertiveness, put in more work, and build strength and self assuredness. Lifts: - Bench Press: 152.5lbs (+2.5) 5x5x8 - Row: 110lbs (+…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/04/24 03:05 PM
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This is a good mental model.
/r/askMRP14/04/24 01:50 PM
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She's earning almost 7 figures in a professional career. It's a bit out of my realm of what I believed possible, but there is this level. I would need to go for founding a high scaling business or an AI niche.
/r/askMRP14/04/24 01:33 PM
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Do you worship money? Money doesn't hold a high value for me, I prefer to give value without reflecting on the monetary reward. However, I live in a community that is drenched with affluence, where the benchmark for success and social standing is set by the centimillionaires, and that adds challenges. The 'keeping up with the Joneses' mentality can drive a race for status, especially in a setting where stay-at-home mom is the norm and elevates social pressure. I think you are right, having a str…
/r/askMRP12/04/24 06:52 PM
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Does your wife hang this over your head or do you? In the past she has said things like, 'you are lazy', 'i work too hard and have no time', 'you have so much free time and have it easy, i wish i could work out during the day like you'. These kind of tests.
/r/askMRP12/04/24 06:40 PM
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This is not just for deadlifts, but for the combination of the big three lifts.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/04/24 05:53 PM
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Thank you for the thoughtful feedback and to everyone, including /u/vitrael2, who reached out privately. I've come to realize if I want to get out of this challenging situation, I need to take some actionable steps towards personal growth and resilience. I'm setting a clear mission for myself: improve the lifts until I can bench press approximately 1-1.25x my wife's weight, which would be around 250lbs (to be able to pick her ass up). On financials, I plan to ensure that I can support our curren…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/04/24 05:50 PM
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The fuck if I let some literally medically obese chick who is too fat to fuck me have any say in my life. This is a bigger problem than you think. It’s a hindrance to whatever mission you have. It’s weighing you down and you need to stop accepting being the little guy with the fat wife. I agree.. but what am I supposed to do? All I can do is control myself. She gained weight throughout the pregnancies and never lost it, and blames it on stress and the pregnancies (6 years ago). How can I force s…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/04/24 06:09 PM
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Wanted to make sure that I knew that we were couple living apart and not seeing other people. Because if I wasn’t respecting that, her colleagues and friends had all sorts of dates lined up for her, but she was not doing it. She wants to fuck someone else, and is fucking with you. Because she thinks you are a pussy. She probably is fucking someone else, or thinking about it. Forget about her. I just looked at her, smiled and asked if she was in a hurry. Just say Ok. She is not interested in you.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/04/24 12:34 PM
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OYS #11 - 31 Weeks In Stats: 44 // 5'10, // 170lbs (+4) // Married // 3 kids under 10 I have been managing the household where everyone is sick. Strep throat has been affecting my wife and kids this week. I have been journaling every day. The goal for the week had been "develop belonging, find meaning and live my authenticity". It has brought to light the struggle to maintain my authenticity while being entangled in the expectations and judgments of others, especially within the marriage. Readin…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/04/24 11:05 AM
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Thank you brother, the Mayor Game link is good.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/04/24 08:26 PM
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take on the grocery shopping and have since done so with no complaints. Bill has been cut 50%. I imagine that stung her. I have asked her to lead some tasks -- changing insurance, making a dessert, doing yardwork - and she eagerly accepts and reports back when she completes the tasks. I praise her when she does so. In my opinion you are still a dancing monkey - with freezing out and aloofness as your dance. There is a covert contract acting here. Your wife is not rational. Fix her feelz?
/r/askMRP04/04/24 07:27 PM
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OYS #10 - 30 Weeks In Stats: 43 // 5'10, // 166lbs (-1) // Married // 3 kids under 10 Reading: Sex God Method. Sidebar on Anger. Tuesday: A day lost to minimal productivity and gaming, followed by tension at home. My yelling at the kids revealed the simmering rage and moments of weakness I am not proud of. Wednesday: Coffee with friends brought unexpected compliments on physical fitness and an offer to apply LLMs in a friend's startup hedge fund - a promising avenue for applying a personal proje…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/04/24 10:34 AM
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I'm so fucking fat and can not seem to get it under control. try not eating.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/03/24 06:10 PM
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OYS #9 - 29 Weeks In Stats: 43 // 5'10, // 167lbs (-4) // Married // 3 kids under 10 Silence has been my armor lately, sticking to the STFU method. It's a paradox - by saying less, I've somehow become more attractive to my wife. It's twisted that expressing myself is a liability. I've STFU totally, interspersed with 'ok' and 'interesting', but there is a storm of anger underneath. Financial Reality: Here's the context - my wife pulls in a heavy 700k-1M a year; I'm at 300k. Post startup sale I've…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/03/24 10:29 AM
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OYS #8 - 28 Weeks In Stats: 43 years old, 5'10, 171lbs+3. Married 10 years, 3 kids 10, 8 & 6 yrs old My lifting has taken a slight hit as I went only 3 days this week, with squats being reset to the lowest weight due to experiencing delayed onset muscle tightness in my lower back, which has been extremely painful. This pain, however, is something I'm learning to welcome and work through. Lapses in self-control, highlighted by overindulgence in both food and drink during social gatherings, and an…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/03/24 10:22 AM
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OYS #7 - 27 Weeks In Stats: 43 years old, 5'10, 165-168lbs. Married 10 years, 3 kids 10, 8 & 6 yrs old It's been a month since my last OYS, and frankly, I don't feel in the place to commit to a weekly update. I've dropped from 185lbs, started lifting and have probably gained 5-10lbs of muscle. I've gained confidence and respect but honestly I'm probably only at the baseline level a man should be, if that. As I've gained more respect from wife, I've also gained more leeway for my bad habits to su…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/03/24 03:55 PM
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Your message was thought provoking. However, this bit doesn't quite work for me: What is the fix? Become more valuable. Real simple stuff. This line feels like it's edging towards validation seeking behavior or a covert contract. Increase what you bring to the table on your own terms.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/03/24 03:31 PM
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OYS Week 20 43yo, 5'10", Married 10 years, 3 kids under 10 Weight: 168lbs, PB 135x7, Row 90x11, OP 82.5x6, Chins 10x6, SQ 155x7, DL 150x5 Mission: To be the best I can be. To look in the mirror and love myself. To live my best life. Start a company. Reading: Have some read some Rian Stone. I found his field reports and power talk guide useful. Weaknesses: I want comfort, and everything to be easy. If I could just ball up and be comforted I would. I am also worried about death, decay and growing …
/r/MarriedRedPill06/02/24 02:18 PM
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you don't have your shit together? I guess that is teaching you about failure. Hot tip. I play games as well. But I don't feel guilty about it like a little bitch because my shit is under control. No, that everything is so fucking hard you keep dieing in the game.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/01/24 02:14 PM
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OYS Week 16 42 yr/old, 5'9", 170lbs, Wife 39 yrs, Married 10 yrs, 3 kids Reading: The Creative Act by Rick Rubin - Rick Rubin, founder of Def Jam - kind of like a professional vibe guy - is a guy with a solid frame. Good philosophy, reading it because of business. Translated - ship more, be in touch with God/Universe, and trust the process. Art of Seduction 5th time listening - I keep getting more things out of this book, how everyone is controlled by greed or vanity. Thoughts: When I was in col…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/01/24 10:09 PM
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Spinning 3 plates or more takes time was the point.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/12/23 08:01 PM
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on u/HornsOfApathy youtube live stream, great btw, it was said you can either slay pussy or build money, but you can't focus on both. playing the game takes too much time. i should focus on building wealth.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/12/23 04:42 PM
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OYS #12 Stats 42 yr/old, 5'9", 173lbs, Wife 39 yrs, Married 10 yrs, 3 kids BP 150x5 BF 18.8% Reading: Book of Pook. Laws of Power. Re-reading sidebar. Horns of Apathy's - do you fuck women, or do you fuck your hand while being a cuck led me to cutting out porn/masturbation. The divorces lawyers post on biological mother, biological stepmother ownership frame hit me hard. The part about seeing your wife as the stepmother, where these are MY kids, and MY house, and she just has the pleasure of liv…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/12/23 02:00 PM
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The father/husband must take the following attitude, regardless of whether or not it makes legal sense to do so (remember: women do things that don't make a lot of sense too): It's my house. I have provided a place for my children to live and thrive. I've invited her to live here with me because that's what I want. I'm going to take care of the house as if it's my responsibility, just as I would if we were dating and she just came over a lot. NOT: It's our house and we both have equal responsibi…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/12/23 03:19 PM
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What do you suggest for someone making 450k post tax, 1.9M liquid, 5k/month mortgage. About 50k on vacations per year. I have a hard time giving a shit about anything less than 1k$. I should probably just save as much as possible for when it stops.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/12/23 02:59 PM
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I like this: > Reminds me of that post from TRP that was taken down where the guy said he walks around imagining himself with a massive set of antlers. I still do this. from https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/6zu0ne/married_man_game/ and balance the quarter on chest. I have bad problems with forward head and posture. maybe this will help.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/11/23 01:47 PM
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OYS #3 It's now ~60 days since start. 42 yr/old, 5'9", 174lbs, Wife 39 yrs, Married 10 yrs, 3 under 10 Reading: I have been listening to several audiobooks, some on repeat. The Way of Superior Man The 48 Laws of Power The Art of Seduction - Everyone is driven through narcissism and greed. Zero to One (Peter Thiel) - Kind of a red pill of business - competition bad, monopoly good. Marketing and Distribution matter as much or more than the product. The Basic Laws of Human Stupidity - An interestin…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/11/23 12:44 PM
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OYS#2 Reading: Married Sex Life Primer Way of Superior Man Awesome: Fuck your woman as you would fuck the world, Fuck the world as you would fuck your woman. Weird: The tantric sex with no orgasm. Art of Seduction Awesome: Machiavellian, looking at target as victim. Different styles of Seducers, Victims. I am a wanna-be rake. I am a sensualist. Wife is a prude. Stats: 42, 5'9", married 11yr, 176lbs, 3 boys 10, 8 & 6 Insights: I'm afraid of being alone. Afraid of being a loner. Have experienced d…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/10/23 02:27 PM
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i've used sex for validation a long time. see here: https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/l23n9p/timeline_escaping_sex_for_validation_and_quitting/ how i express my love and shit. thanks.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/09/23 12:01 PM
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renovations have stopped. house is now worth more.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/09/23 06:33 PM
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~1M in combined income. about 3M cashout. 1.7M house 700K down. We only started getting this amount about ~2 years ago, as wife skyrocketed from 150k to 800k after a series of events. 3M cashout is only 1.5M post-taxes... 150k per year doing renovations, about 50k a year in vacations.. i dunno.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/09/23 06:30 PM
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OYS #1 Stats: 42 yr/old, 5'9", 183lbs, Wife 39 yrs, Married 10 yrs, 3 kids, 10, 8 & 6 yrs old Reading: Rollo first year, No more nice guy Physical: Fat fuck. Maybe 6 pull ups, 30 push ups. Mission: Trillion dollar company, 350ft mega yacht. I am serious. To own my life. To own my shit, and to shut the fuck up now. More physical, get in shape. Have kids learn good decision making skills. Family: It's ok. Oldest is finally getting good at sports. Middle is slightly dumber and has social skill issu…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/09/23 03:47 PM
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