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| 90 | Curious what yall do when you’re having a girl over to hook up. | Lifestyle | number2chevyfan | /r/seduction | 03/05/26 12:46 AM |
| 88 | How I went from weird, socially awkward, and no social circle to minimum of 2 dates a week in about a year. | Lifestyle | number2chevyfan | /r/seduction | 06/03/26 02:56 AM |
| 7 | Shes attached fairly quick but i wouldnt mind going on other dates sometimes. | Conversation | number2chevyfan | /r/seduction | 26/07/25 04:26 AM |
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| 2 | Men who've never struggled with dating and hooking up, what do you do differently than the rest of us?Oversimplification but in my experience 1. Be good looking enough 2. Outcome independence, which in a way is caused by having enough interesting stuff going on in your life that you don’t care that much about women, so 3. Have an interesting life | /r/seduction | 26/07/26 03:32 AM |
| 2 | I don't get sex. Am I doing something wrong or am I just dating the wrong women?You’re good looking enough to get plenty of dates, so that’s not an issue. Your issue is you’re wanting sex but taking them out on dates. You’d be surprised the success you’d have just by 1. Being busy and not thinking about women 2. Just inviting them to your house | /r/seduction | 12/05/26 08:53 PM |
| 2 | so my friend introduced me to a girl whom he was chatting on hinge and offered me to set me up with her and i said ok.Exactly what I was thinking | /r/seduction | 14/04/26 09:54 PM |
| 41 | Any former bad boy, player can give adviceBro… | /r/seduction | 19/03/26 01:41 AM |
| 12 | How to DM beautiful women on instagramI’ve gotten a few dates from this before I deleted IG. These other guys say don’t idk why. Don’t go after models that shit won’t work. Say you think you work with her ex or something and he showed you the girls Instagram talking crazy ab her and you snuck a voice memo of him saying somth wild, she’ll respond fast. Free ball it from there. Whatever you find funny, be creative. | /r/seduction | 15/03/26 06:05 PM |
| 3 | Miami exposed how bad validation seeking really is.Think less. | /r/seduction | 10/03/26 06:10 AM |
| 0 | How I went from weird, socially awkward, and no social circle to minimum of 2 dates a week in about a year.Think 70% of couples now are from dating apps. They’ve always been dead if you just don’t have it | /r/seduction | 06/03/26 10:48 PM |
| 0 | How I went from weird, socially awkward, and no social circle to minimum of 2 dates a week in about a year.I’m far from a Jedi. My text game is still not great, and I don’t pull much of the default popular girl type. More of the alt girls, or art girls. | /r/seduction | 06/03/26 05:55 PM |
| 0 | How I went from weird, socially awkward, and no social circle to minimum of 2 dates a week in about a year.Obviously the results wouldn’t be the same. But there would probably be an equal amount of improvement in results either way | /r/seduction | 06/03/26 05:53 PM |
| 0 | How I went from weird, socially awkward, and no social circle to minimum of 2 dates a week in about a year.Are you on the path to becoming the best version of yourself? | /r/seduction | 06/03/26 02:43 PM |
| 28 | The abundance mindset is actually real and I didn’t believe it until recentlySame EXACT experience. Dating went from something stressful, more to just inviting a homie to hang. Once you’ve had enough sex, and aren’t only chasing that, they have literally no power or pull over you and you’re free to act how you want. | /r/seduction | 06/03/26 10:08 AM |
| 2 | How I went from weird, socially awkward, and no social circle to minimum of 2 dates a week in about a year.Obviously the app doesn’t work for the people leaving reviews. It’s still working for millions of people though. I used to think the same thing. There is a baseline level of attractiveness you need to get results here, and that’s not just a physical trait thing. | /r/seduction | 06/03/26 09:57 AM |
| 7 | How I went from weird, socially awkward, and no social circle to minimum of 2 dates a week in about a year.ChatGPT woulda wrote this a hell of a lot more elegantly than me. I’m a hick | /r/seduction | 06/03/26 09:56 AM |
| 6 | How I went from weird, socially awkward, and no social circle to minimum of 2 dates a week in about a year.Lol if that’s how you take this you got a shitty mindset. Bro read that I’m average height, often actually seen as short, 130 pounds, used to get no results, and 90% of what I changed had nothing to do with looks to go from basically no results to top 10% on tinder. | /r/seduction | 06/03/26 09:55 AM |
| 5 | How I went from weird, socially awkward, and no social circle to minimum of 2 dates a week in about a year.I see it the same as companies taking on political messages. Just dividing your potential customers. Some might get icked out by it. Some might like it. Most things a young guy will think of will be the former | /r/seduction | 06/03/26 05:34 AM |
| 6 | How I went from weird, socially awkward, and no social circle to minimum of 2 dates a week in about a year.Works for me. The pic I use is in public with two girls at once. If it was a picture taken from a date with one girl it would be weirder but honestly I’ve done that in the past. | /r/seduction | 06/03/26 03:55 AM |
| 1 | About to move to college, how do I dominate the social circle game?You do not need to join a frat to pull. Being in college at all is a huge plus. Im a weird 21 yo dude that lives in an RV in the woods near to a couple colleges and I have a solid roster. Can’t even imagine how easy it would be if I was irl at a college. | /r/seduction | 06/03/26 02:07 AM |
| 1 | Frat Game for a complete beginnerIf theyre coming up and talking to u in the first place at all youre good. U need to be going up to them | /r/seduction | 10/09/25 05:04 AM |
| 27 | i went to 3 bars for a total of 2 hours and couldn’t make a single approachWatch some clips of your favorite comedian before going out. And stay busy during the day. Do something cool before going out | /r/seduction | 06/09/25 04:19 AM |
| 3 | Here is the deal: I can’t imagine myself with a hot girl5’8” isnt short enough to be thinking like this. | /r/seduction | 25/08/25 11:42 PM |
| 2 | Anyone try pulling a stripper?Whoopsie daisy | /r/seduction | 24/08/25 01:30 AM |
| 4 | Anyone try pulling a stripper?Meant BPD, bipolar | /r/seduction | 23/08/25 10:50 PM |
| 16 | Anyone try pulling a stripper?I hooked up with one girl before she became an escort as well as during and after. Shes crazy. Probably BPB. I would think a lot of them are like that. However she is very down to earth and our relationship has probably been one of the best longest lasting FWB type relationships ive ever had | /r/seduction | 23/08/25 07:12 PM |
| 8 | insecurity is loud. attraction is quiet. read this before you textLook at his post history lol. Mf has lost it | /r/seduction | 22/08/25 04:35 PM |
| 3 | Short men success stories?Get jacked, and go after women in the 5’ to 5’3” range and youll be fine | /r/seduction | 20/08/25 06:49 PM |
| 2 | On first dates that seem to go well, about how often are women inviting you back to their place?Deadass.. learned this recently. Id so much rather vet a girl out over a 30 minute call than a 2 hour date and $50 | /r/seduction | 19/08/25 06:53 PM |
| 1 | On first dates that seem to go well, about how often are women inviting you back to their place?Id like to know what you mean by negative effort? I too am slightly frustrated with some women thinking that i owe them a relationship after sleeping with them though. | /r/seduction | 19/08/25 06:52 PM |
| 1 | On first dates that seem to go well, about how often are women inviting you back to their place?Maybe 30% | /r/seduction | 19/08/25 06:50 PM |
| -6 | Shes attached fairly quick but i wouldnt mind going on other dates sometimes.Its not, i never said it was. But the way women do it is different than men do. I only have this one perspective on it because i only date women. | /r/seduction | 26/07/25 05:20 AM |
| -7 | Shes attached fairly quick but i wouldnt mind going on other dates sometimes.By reminding me shes a woman what i really mean is a little loss of that new relationship innocence where they do something that disappoints you. Goal is long term relationship | /r/seduction | 26/07/25 05:06 AM |
| 5 | what’s your guy’s favorite dm to use?I usuallt say something absurd that will get them to respond fast. This is with complete random women who i do not follow and dont follow me. Usually say “hey i think i work with your ex or something he was showing me your ig bragging ab the girls hes been with, i got a voice memo of him talking crazy ab you” theyll almost always respond in 10 minutes. I always go with voice message from there, you can say something along the lines of “nah im playing i dont know your ex but i think i know your n… | /r/seduction | 25/07/25 05:07 PM |
| 2 | what’s your guy’s favorite dm to use?Why do you look familiar is not good. | /r/seduction | 25/07/25 04:45 PM |
| 2 | Advice neededJust not some weak friendly stuff.. dont go “hey ive been thinking…” Think of a text that would excite you if you received it. Its hard to come up with something without being you, but theres probably some inside joke or something between you thats relating to sleeping with her. Something that will make her laugh then tell her you want to see her at your place tonight. Hail mary. And better yet, wait 2 or 3 months to send that text. Find some other girls in the meantime. Youll get a little more … | /r/seduction | 22/07/25 11:34 PM |
| 1 | Advice neededTheres no reason to sit down and take an L. Forget pride that means nothing. Truth is you probably said something that icked her out. Ive been there and it can fuck things up even when she really likes you. Leave her be for a month then slide up with something intriguing. | /r/seduction | 22/07/25 09:23 PM |
| 1 | How do i get laid for my first time?Not very well. Still can. Theres a lot that goes into this shit. Its tricky. Honestly you should just focus on being the best version of yourself. If youre at least around average height, average face, and you get in the gym and eat right for a year youll have plenty of options at the end of it. Also learn how to talk to people. | /r/seduction | 24/06/25 07:00 AM |
| 1 | How do i get laid for my first time?At least try tinder or hinge. Far from ideal, but yes it will work if you are attractive enough and not super autistic. Also instagram. | /r/seduction | 24/06/25 06:39 AM |
| 14 | Can you date if you live with your parents?Its gonna be tough for you. | /r/seduction | 18/05/25 09:53 PM |
| 1 | Should i just get tinder?Just try it. At 18 probably wont have a ton of lucky but it did get me laid a couple times. At that age. Something worth noting: at 18 youre value on tinder is the LEAST it will possibly be. The pool of women interested in dating 18 year old guys is most 18 year olds and maybe half of 19 year old girls. But when you get to like 20, your range is doubled as you can hit more like 18-23. So dont get discouraged. If youre decent enough looking and have good pictures you can probably get some. | /r/seduction | 13/05/25 07:11 PM |
| 2 | DM resultIts near impossible to get out of these situations. Only way really is to be posting yourself looking good and be attractive to her, occasionally slide up or like her story more. | /r/seduction | 12/05/25 03:36 AM |
| 6 | DM resultThis is like ultra low level any girl will do that to any random ass message | /r/seduction | 12/05/25 03:00 AM |
| 6 | Am I overthinking date ideas? Does it really matter what you do?Probably one of the best comments ive read on here | /r/seduction | 08/05/25 07:10 PM |
| 3 | What to do if girls leave you on read?Disrespecting you, might even want you to say something about it. Just purposefully showing that shes better than you and thinks she deserves you chasing her. Ive had girls do this to me who i know 100% i could pull. You can go the route of maintaining your pride and just block her or stop interacting. Or you can wait a little bit, wait a month or two, leave it on the back burner and respond to her story sometime in the future. Whats for sure is she is not choosing you, you are not priority, but… | /r/seduction | 04/05/25 08:50 PM |
| 1 | One-itis is trashWhat are a couple things you are confident you are good at? Just any sort of hobby or job… if you don’t have confidence with any sort of activity id start there | /r/seduction | 02/05/25 05:05 AM |
| 1 | One-itis is trashWhat works for me may not work for you. Im probably younger and the women im interacting with are generally in college age 19-22. Also important to recognize that you mostly wont learn from what im saying until you fail doing the wrong thing multiple times. First off is you CANNOT be needy, i wouldnt even try to strike up a normal conversation with a woman like i would a man, it almost never works for me. And you can do really nothing wrong and still get ghosted. To keep yourself from getting gh… | /r/seduction | 01/05/25 09:22 PM |
| 1 | One-itis is trashI been there, like recently. Lots of lessons learned. I mean i had a great date then back to her place for drinking and sex and all was good even after i left. I ruined my chances for myself by getting too needy/attached in text before i could get with her again. I was in your situation, small town, rarely dates, maybe 1 every 3 months. I got into a college town and learned from my mistakes, improved text game, just this last tuesday i had two dates. Just keep learning your lessons. Failures wit… | /r/seduction | 01/05/25 06:23 PM |
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