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| 0 | Is there a PUA community for gay men? There ought to be. | Fundamentals | nunsaymoo | /r/seduction | 15/07/24 02:24 AM |
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| 1 | Tips on getting someone out of your leagueAre you saying you're ugly? You're going to need to work on enhancing your other traits such as money and wit. | /r/seduction | 29/08/24 12:54 AM |
| 1 | How do you pump your positive energy up before going out?Adderall. | /r/seduction | 29/08/24 12:51 AM |
| 1 | "Just be yourself""Be yourself" doesn't really work when you're an asshole like me. | /r/seduction | 28/08/24 11:48 PM |
| 1 | If she asks to bring her friend should I not go?This seems like a test to see if her friend approves of you. | /r/seduction | 28/08/24 11:46 PM |
| 1 | Long-Term SeductionVulnerability can be a useful seduction tactic, but it has to be calculated. It should also be used sparingly. It works best if you're normally stoic and hard to read. | /r/seduction | 27/08/24 06:07 PM |
| 8 | Facetiming and voice messages are VERY effectiveI hate FaceTime. It's awkward, and I feel like the camera makes me look uglier than I really look in person. | /r/seduction | 27/08/24 06:04 PM |
| 1 | Girl flakes but apologised and asked to reschedule. What to do?I mean, if it were me, I wouldn't get into shit that I was going through over text. What matters is that she accepted responsibility, didn't try to make excuses, apologized and offered to meet up the next day. A lot of people wouldn't even have that much decency, so I give her credit for that, at least. | /r/seduction | 26/08/24 05:17 PM |
| -1 | Girl flakes but apologised and asked to reschedule. What to do?Maybe she is planning to tell him tomorrow in person instead of over text. For all we know, she lost her phone, her car broke down, her dog ran away and her grandmother just died all at the same time. I'm a believer in second chances because I've screwed up myself before. Once the behavior becomes a pattern, that's it, though. | /r/seduction | 26/08/24 02:27 AM |
| 2 | Girl flakes but apologised and asked to reschedule. What to do?The fact that she stood you up for three hours is not cool, but at least it's a good sign that she asked to reschedule and suggested a specific day. Maybe give her one more chance, and ask her for an explanation in person. | /r/seduction | 26/08/24 02:17 AM |
| 1 | How to seduce men who are on the autistic spectrum?I don't have any experience with dating somebody on the spectrum, but here's my reading of the situation: You've stated that the two of you do not share common interests and that he needs more space while you require a lot of attention. Frankly, that doesn't sound like an amazing connection. Honestly, is there any reason why you're into this guy other than "he's cute and texts well"? FYI, here's how NOT to seduce a guy: (1) When he tells you that he likes sci-fi (or anything, for that matter), y… | /r/seduction | 26/08/24 01:28 AM |
| 2 | Is age a limiting factor as a man?How are you going to get a wife if you're a cheapskate in the beginning? | /r/seduction | 24/08/24 03:07 AM |
| 11 | Is age a limiting factor as a man?By "date," I assume you mean more than just hooking up. Honestly, younger women are going to expect you to be a sugar daddy. | /r/seduction | 24/08/24 03:06 AM |
| 52 | Why are girls attracted to intelligence?Because nerds aren't intellectual. Their idea of art and culture is anime and Marvel. | /r/seduction | 19/08/24 04:27 AM |
| 1 | Why am I getting ghosted after meeting at bar/clubWhat do you text them? If it's some bullshit like "hey" or "what's up," that's why. | /r/seduction | 18/08/24 07:27 AM |
| 2 | Progression of cold approachIsn't "asking for directions" what Ted Bundy used to do before kidnapping his victims? Just grow some balls and ask a girl out. | /r/seduction | 18/08/24 07:24 AM |
| 2 | What is it about good fashion that makes you more attractive?Really, Jonah Hill's clothes caught your attention? A major point in that movie is how Leonardo DiCaprio's suits get better as he becames more successful. | /r/seduction | 18/08/24 07:22 AM |
| 2 | No doubt about it, tattoos are game changerHey, to each their own. But, for the most part, tattooed people match with tattooed people. | /r/seduction | 14/08/24 01:23 PM |
| 0 | 50 rejections in a row wtf am I doing wrongWhat you're doing wrong is not being a 30-year-old executive. | /r/seduction | 14/08/24 09:01 AM |
| 1 | What could you say to a girl about her ex so she opens up and you get closer?You shouldn't be talking about her ex at all on a date. If she brings him up, she's clearly not over him and on the rebound. I mean, if you're fine with being the rebound guy, sure, validate her with statements like, "He sounds like a jerk." While this may help you get laid, don't expect anything long-term to develop between the two of you. | /r/seduction | 14/08/24 01:01 AM |
| 3 | When is the right time to ask for a date?ASAP. Show her you mean business and aren't just wasting her time like a fuckboy. | /r/seduction | 12/08/24 05:19 PM |
| 2 | Is having sex on the first date something significant/important?So a while ago I heard from a dating coach that if possible you should always aim to have sex on the first date cause It has various advantages such as that the woman will stick with you after the first time you have sex and will want to see you again or that the woman (if she has never slept with anyone on the first date before) will think you are special. If you like low-value women. | /r/seduction | 10/08/24 06:30 AM |
| 2 | Fundamentals: Common Photo Mistakes That Are Killing Your Online Dating SuccessDon’t frown, but don’t smile, either. I know I’m going to downvoted for this opinion, but it looks gay. | /r/seduction | 20/07/24 09:28 PM |
| 0 | What to say after what’s your name?You need to brush up on your Emily Post because it's terribly bad etiquette to ask a stranger, "What's your name?" Introduce yourself like a gentleman, and if she doesn't respond with something along the lines of, "Nice to meet you, I'm ..." then she's not interested. | /r/seduction | 20/07/24 02:19 AM |
| 5 | Who else here loves casual sex?Of course, but that's not what I desire anymore. What I desire is drama. 🎭 Like, this kind of drama. I want to feel like I'm in a scandalous, even soapy 18th-century period piece. High school romance used to feel like that, actually. | /r/seduction | 19/07/24 05:05 PM |
| 0 | Who else here loves casual sex?In 1865, a gentleman had enough sense to make his target believe she was the only one. | /r/seduction | 19/07/24 04:09 AM |
| 1 | How did you get rid of your victim mentality?I haven't, but it's a very different victim mentality than what you're describing. | /r/seduction | 19/07/24 03:57 AM |
| 2 | Who else here loves casual sex?Without seeing your nose, I can almost guarantee others aren't focusing on that. People tend to take in the whole face, not single in on specific features. Furthermore, what they notice first is your eyes. Second is your smile. And straight hair? WTF? Since when is that unattractive? | /r/seduction | 19/07/24 03:51 AM |
| 2 | Who else here loves casual sex?the only men having casual sex are chads tho. average and ugly men can only get sex via pay maxxing That's not true. You're making an assumption without any evidence to support your claim. | /r/seduction | 19/07/24 03:48 AM |
| 0 | Who else here loves casual sex?No, that's natural. It's only slimy to admit it. That's obviously not what your target wants to hear. | /r/seduction | 19/07/24 03:45 AM |
| -1 | Who else here loves casual sex?I agree. I would love to share myself with you — that is, make love together — in a deeply personal and very sacred way. No, I'm totally kidding. Imagine if I actually had the time and ambition to seduce you properly, though. | /r/seduction | 19/07/24 03:43 AM |
| 31 | Who else here loves casual sex?I guess my standards are unrealistic? I'm still trying to figure out where to set the bar reasonably between divus and doormat. In my 20s, I don't think I really had any standards. I was just there to have fun. Now, I'm super picky. | /r/seduction | 19/07/24 03:04 AM |
| 123 | Who else here loves casual sex?In my late 30s, I'm over it. Not that I'm looking for ~true love~, but I find myself craving some romance and drama to spice things up a little. I mean, this can't be all there is. | /r/seduction | 19/07/24 01:51 AM |
| 1 | I always see people say aproach 100 girls, but whats the point if u know it's not gonna workEither approach metalhead artist chicks with whom you actually have stuff in common, or be a chameleon who can pretend he's a "normie glamorous" guy. | /r/seduction | 18/07/24 05:22 PM |
| 1 | Is there a PUA community for gay men? There ought to be.It seems to me that incels, who tend to be straight men, have unrealistically high standards and could get women in their own league if they wanted to. Surely, there are plenty of overweight women with low self-esteem who would sleep with them just to feel desired for a night. Then again, incels tend not just to be physically unattractive but also tend to have shitty personalities that would turn off even the most desperate woman. She'd really have to be psychologically damaged to put up with su… | /r/seduction | 18/07/24 04:45 PM |
| 1 | Is there a PUA community for gay men? There ought to be.Are the men your roommate gets Chads, though? | /r/seduction | 18/07/24 03:40 PM |
| 1 | Is there a PUA community for gay men? There ought to be.I didn't come here for help getting picked up. I said, "I would like to see tops make more of an effort to seduce me," as opposed to acting entitled to sex when they approach me. The problem is that most gay guys have no game, and that needs to change. | /r/seduction | 18/07/24 03:35 PM |
| 1 | The more she likes you, the easier things are going to be, don’t be that guy paying the premium (unless you don’t mind ofc)As long as you provide well for her, she should let you do as you please. Just be a gentleman, and don't rub it in her face. Keep your extracurricular activities discreet. | /r/seduction | 18/07/24 03:27 PM |
| 1 | The more she likes you, the easier things are going to be, don’t be that guy paying the premium (unless you don’t mind ofc)Am I correct to assume you're in your 20s? What are you going to do when you're in your 30s and 40s? You won't be able to rely on having "game" like a frat boy forever. And believe me, the first thing that women on Tinder are going to look at in your profile is your job title. | /r/seduction | 18/07/24 03:18 PM |
| -4 | Another Bar Lay (3 approaches, 1 bar)I'm not reading all of that, but I skimmed enough to tell you're an idiot by this part: "I spot a this one lady dancing alone and I just sort of observe her for a bit without being obvious. In my head, I'm confused why she's dancing alone and why isn't there a guy making a move. Then bam, a few moments pass and a guy walks up to her trying to shoot his shot." Aaand here's the real reason why she went home with you: "The bar was closing in 5 minutes." Then you end with something that sounds compl… | /r/seduction | 15/07/24 03:21 PM |
| 2 | Is there a PUA community for gay men? There ought to be."Anything too stupid to be said is sung." — Voltaire Most women won't admit it, but what they secretly desire is a Disney prince — or, at least, someone who can play the part. | /r/seduction | 15/07/24 08:57 AM |
| -1 | Is there a PUA community for gay men? There ought to be.Exactly, and I'm sick of it. | /r/seduction | 15/07/24 08:54 AM |
| -1 | Is there a PUA community for gay men? There ought to be.Of course not. Never said they were the same. | /r/seduction | 15/07/24 08:53 AM |
| 1 | Getting laidStep 1: Find a girl who's honestly in your league. Step 2: Earn her trust. This is perhaps the hardest step, but if you can figure out a way to make her at least friend zone you, that may suffice. Having a good/popular reputation is usually how it works, but you're probably a loser. So, be creative, I guess. Step 3: Make her feel special. Seriously, you're going to have to make a real effort here. Make her feel like you understand her more than anyone else in the world does. In other words, give… | /r/seduction | 15/07/24 08:49 AM |
| 4 | Is there a PUA community for gay men? There ought to be.Because most of my friends and confidants are straight women. And they've taught me a lot. Believe me, there is a "game," whether you realize you're playing or not. Even if you do, you don't know all the rules. | /r/seduction | 15/07/24 08:33 AM |
| 1 | Is there a PUA community for gay men? There ought to be.I've repeatedly tried to post a thread such as, "AMA: I'm a gay man who understands how women think," but reddit keeps filtering it. IDK why. Honestly, this site sucks lately. | /r/seduction | 15/07/24 06:47 AM |
| 3 | Getting laidDefinitely be confident and likable. Women will do the job of making you think you're funny. | /r/seduction | 15/07/24 06:03 AM |
| -2 | Is there a PUA community for gay men? There ought to be.I put effort into my appearance (not that it requires much). That's how I get dates. I just want to be swooned, though. I want to be romanced. I want to be SEDUCED. | /r/seduction | 15/07/24 04:42 AM |
| 0 | Is there a PUA community for gay men? There ought to be.I don't approach; I'm approached. Unfortunately, it's rarely in the right way. | /r/seduction | 15/07/24 04:23 AM |
| 3 | Is there a PUA community for gay men? There ought to be.TBF, I can only imagine straight men are better at the game or, at least, try to be better. I know they at least try to be better with forums such as this one. And I suspect that's because straight women hold straight men to a higher standard. | /r/seduction | 15/07/24 04:18 AM |
| -9 | Is there a PUA community for gay men? There ought to be.I mean, it is what it is. For whatever it's worth, my intention wasn't to insult, only to be frank. | /r/seduction | 15/07/24 04:14 AM |
| 10 | The more she likes you, the easier things are going to be, don’t be that guy paying the premium (unless you don’t mind ofc)This is anecdotal. In general, the most attractive men are financially successful. And the older a man is, the more financially successful he's expected to be. It doesn't matter if you look like George Clooney at 63 if you're a loser. | /r/seduction | 15/07/24 04:11 AM |
| -1 | Is there a PUA community for gay men? There ought to be.Idealistically, sure. Realistically, though? | /r/seduction | 15/07/24 04:07 AM |
| 1 | Is there a PUA community for gay men? There ought to be.I specifically said "gay men," not "queer people." | /r/seduction | 15/07/24 03:59 AM |
| -18 | Is there a PUA community for gay men? There ought to be.Good for you. Not to be rude, but DA; DC. | /r/seduction | 15/07/24 03:54 AM |
| 1 | Girl only wants to see me on Sunday/MondaySo, you're saying she makes time for you once a week, every week? That's not only reasonable but a green flag. Actually, you're waving a red flag RN as clingy. | /r/seduction | 15/07/24 03:51 AM |
| 1 | How to approach age when talking to older women?but if you target actual milf's like 35+ it will be easy work Only if they're married and bored with their husbands. | /r/seduction | 15/07/24 03:48 AM |
| 1 | How to approach age when talking to older women?Even though you're younger, act like you're older. If she's 27, act like you're 37. I don't mean literally lie about your age; just adopt the swagger. | /r/seduction | 15/07/24 03:46 AM |
| 0 | How do you develop charisma and confidence and remove social awkwardness so you can pull girls and be loved in social circle?Fake it till you make it. If Donald Trump can say the stupidest shit with enough charisma to make others follow him, so can you. | /r/seduction | 15/07/24 03:43 AM |
| 0 | Is there a PUA community for gay men? There ought to be.I have yet to find the "right" side. | /r/seduction | 15/07/24 03:41 AM |
| 1 | As a high body count man, should you accept a high body count woman?An intelligent woman would do just that. | /r/seduction | 14/07/24 09:22 PM |
| 3 | As a high body count man, should you accept a high body count woman?No. Call me old-fashioned, but a lady never boasts about her body count. While she may have a high one, she should never admit it. | /r/seduction | 14/07/24 06:02 PM |
| 2 | I am not congruent with most of "just move on" advices here...Are you talking about people who say "just move on" when a girl clearly isn't that into you, or are you talking about people who say "just move on" at the sign of any red or even yellow flag? | /r/seduction | 30/06/24 04:54 PM |
| 1 | How do I stop liking someone?By getting to know them. | /r/seduction | 30/06/24 06:43 AM |
| 1 | The Secret Solution To 99% Of Your Dating ProblemsThat's fine, I guess, if you're looking for quantity over quality. | /r/seduction | 29/06/24 05:50 PM |
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