nupollution Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
0	I’m 30afab bisexual and here to answer your questions!	Fundamentals	nupollution	/r/seduction	07/11/21 11:48 PM

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2	How to get rid of neediness Are you asking how to get rid of your own neediness? Here's the thing: it's not wrong to have needs, everyone has needs. It's how you go about getting your needs met that can cause an issue. What is it that you need? How can you find ways to get those needs that don't harm you or others?	/r/seduction	18/10/22 10:42 PM
1	When having a date in your apartment shared with other flatmates, how can you have Netflix and chill? Let your housemates know a day or 2 in advance: "Hey yall I'm planning a netflix and chill date on X day. Could yall possibly clean up a bit before then? I'm tryna impress someone. I also wanna make sure it's OK to take up the common area for the evening- yall didn't have any plans to use that space from X-Xpm, did you?" It's pretty normal, if you're sharing a house with someone, to walk past some common area cuddling. It shouldn't be a big deal, especially if you give them a friendly heads-up.	/r/seduction	18/10/22 10:38 PM
2	Should I disclose the fact that I am talking with other people? Wait it out until things evolve a bit. Might not need to disclose anything if one fizzles out. If things go well with both, you might want to be upfront about your expectations and behaviors. Most people value honesty and transparency, especially if you've gone on a few dates and things are going well.	/r/seduction	18/10/22 08:39 PM
1	How to go for sex? Being direct is pretty hot imo: "so I'm trying to wind down for the evening, maybe go home and have a nightcap soon. I'm really enjoying this date, would you be down to come back to mine so we can keep talking? I have _____ (thing of interest) there too." Best of luck!	/r/seduction	15/10/22 02:24 AM
1	How do I get into the game in a very advanced age? Festivals, conventions, open mics, dating apps, supper clubs.... there are so many ways to meet people! 20 is suuuuper duper young, just make as many friends as you can and things will develop naturally.	/r/seduction	09/10/22 10:35 PM
2	A Girl i've been Hooking up with Offered me Head and i'm a bit Scared You'll be fine, doll! The thing is, everyone is gonna have opinions and preferences and judgments- what's important is to not internalize those things. Some people like a curved dick, some people LOVE one, some people will think they're weird... that's on them, not on you. You'll probably find you have a preference to how your partners' bodies look too, and that doesn't make anyone worth more or less, does it? Unless you plan to pay for cosmetic surgery in the future, learning to appreciate the …	/r/seduction	09/10/22 10:20 PM
2	Just went clubbing for the first time. What did I do wrong? Any tips? Good approach! Sounds like she wasn't into you, or she would have gone for a second round. Don't overanalyze! Perhaps you didn't do anything wrong at all, and she suddenly wasn't feeling well.... there are infinite speculations you can make about "why" things happened, and you'll never know the truth unless you ask Her. Save that brain power for something more effective!	/r/seduction	09/10/22 10:07 PM
1	How can I (22F) approach guys? What do I do if I catch them staring at me but they never approach me just stare??? Practice winking 😉 ✨️ It lightens the mood, makes the other person blush, and allows for a bit of a body language conversation to develop prior to a verbal introduction Plus it makes you look and feel really cool 😎	/r/seduction	09/10/22 09:57 PM
1	what are the best affirmations to improve the internal game daily I’m not saying it’ll be instant. But you can think of it as planting seeds of hope for the future. Some of affirmations I’ve used have taken years to come to fruition, and that doesn’t make them any less rewarding.	/r/seduction	01/12/21 02:49 PM
1	what are the best affirmations to improve the internal game daily Your conscious mind thinks that. The subconscious accepts the irrational. “If you repeat a lie enough times, it becomes the truth”	/r/seduction	01/12/21 02:46 PM
6	i’ve only had sex with girls i was dating (2), i’m 20. You’re still so young! Don’t put so much thought into it. Personally, I like to fuck on a first date, but that doesn’t necessarily mean there will be a second one lol. You’ll likely end up with a good handful of “one night stands” without meaning to. Just have fun and be safe!	/r/seduction	29/11/21 02:50 AM
1	Asking her what she likes to do, to decide on a second link up. Of course it’s ok! Finding out what someone likes to do is part of forming a relationship, and picking a date based on her interests is very thoughtful.	/r/seduction	29/11/21 02:47 AM
1	How do you seduce a grumpy woman? You’re fighting a losing battle. Try “please don’t speak to me that way. I really don’t like it. How would you feel if I said things like that to you?” Or “the next time I hear you say something mean to me, I’m going to walk away. I don’t care for being treated like this” Then, when it happens, CALMLY remove yourself. Just walk away. Say “I’m happy to spend time with you when i don’t feel like im being chastised nonstop. When you’re ready to spend time that way, I’ll be around. But please don’t …	/r/seduction	28/11/21 09:43 PM
1	[deleted by user] Maximize what you’ve got physically with good grooming. Get a good hair cut from a salon, learn which products to use to style it. Use moisturizer on your face and lotion on dry bits of body. Learn to trim and file your nails and nip your cuticles one a week. Tweeze your brows and other unsightly hair. Exfoliate. Style goes a long way. Find a style that you like and is becoming to your shape. The thrift store is a great way to get a good wardrobe without breaking the bank. Don’t underestimate th…	/r/seduction	28/11/21 09:33 PM
2	guys i need advice What do you mean by “make a move “ like initiating kisses and beyond? Try giving a compliment, then asking a question. Ex: “your skin is so soft. Can I kiss your neck?” “I love your outfit. Do you wanna hold hands?” “That lip color looks great on you. Can I give you a smooch?” Obviously don’t do ONLY this, but it’s a good format if you’re having trouble getting started.	/r/seduction	28/11/21 09:21 PM
1	How to text a girl after the club? “It was great meeting you. How was the rest of your weekend?” Go from there	/r/seduction	28/11/21 09:14 PM
1	[deleted by user] “I had a great time the other night. Would you like to get together sometime soon?”	/r/seduction	28/11/21 09:12 PM
2	what are the best affirmations to improve the internal game daily “I connect with others easily” “I am confident, calm, in control” My best advice is to take the negative thought you have currently and turn it on its head Ex: “I have no self esteem” -> “I am standing on a firm foundation of self esteem”	/r/seduction	28/11/21 08:47 PM
2	[deleted by user] It’s all in the shoes. You can find some real gems at the thrift store! Pair that with nicely fitting jeans and a newer t-shirt, you’ll be good!	/r/seduction	27/11/21 10:37 PM
1	Calling out a girl who plays games? Play stupid games, win stupid prizes. Don’t pursue someone who isn’t available. Duh.	/r/seduction	27/11/21 10:15 PM
7	How men can show more his Sexual side with women? Start by changing your mindset. Say these words into the mirror whenever you see one: “It is safe for me to express myself sexually. I enjoy sex and my partner does too” It may take time before you feel a difference, but it WILL happen!	/r/seduction	27/11/21 10:13 PM
2	music/youtube channel for home date? The Spotify playlist called “Mac Demarco and chill” is my go-to. Good mix of everything with a soft smooth vibe	/r/seduction	27/11/21 10:04 PM
4	[deleted by user] Withhold the “automatic” smile. Only smile when you’re genuinely tickled by something. Your smile will be more valuable and noticeable if you’re not beaming for no reason all the time. Edit: after re-reading this I think my tone might sound accusatory; not my intention! I am someone who used to always have a smile on as a nervous response. I found doing less of that and and more intentional smiling brought more money, respect, and power into my life. Always good for tuning up the heat!!	/r/seduction	27/11/21 10:03 PM
2	[deleted by user] Second this, especially when in a group setting. Keep your eyes on the person of your interest, even when someone else is talking.	/r/seduction	27/11/21 07:59 PM
1	What amount of alcohol is your sweet spot in clubs/bars? I wish that was offered at bars! Would 10/10 pay extra for the trip	/r/seduction	21/11/21 10:27 PM
1	What to text after getting a number? Why?	/r/seduction	16/11/21 06:10 PM
2	Going to festival with girl (rave) Use your good judgment and be cautious. If you take E you’ll likely end up with pretty strong feelings for whoever you roll with, so you might want to consider whether or not you wanna be emotionally bonded to this gal before you blast off.	/r/seduction	15/11/21 03:00 PM
1	[deleted by user] It sounds like this feels HUGE to you, and that’s normal. Take heart and have some perspective, in a few years this will be a silly memory with a good lesson. It’s up to you what the lesson is, and how long it takes you to learn it!!	/r/seduction	14/11/21 10:46 PM
3	Having trouble creating "connections" in my envrioment (social bachata and salksa dancing) Ask questions!! “Where did you learn to dance?” “Do you know any other styles of dance?” Etc. Then ask a follow up based on her answer, keep the conversation flowing!	/r/seduction	14/11/21 10:38 PM
1	Ahould you tell your date she looks good or not? Give a compliment about something specific and be genuine!	/r/seduction	14/11/21 02:38 PM
1	If I take a girl to hang out/for a date, how should I go about bringing her back/going to hers? Fair enough! Then I think your ideas are very good. Something along the lines of “I’m having such a wonderful time/I’d really like to continue this conversation. Would you be interested in going back to mine? I have some _____ there for us to enjoy”	/r/seduction	13/11/21 09:28 PM
1	If I take a girl to hang out/for a date, how should I go about bringing her back/going to hers? Why not just invite her over for a date at your place? Offer to cook dinner, make cocktails etc. You’ll save buku bucks compared to dining and drinking out and then the hard part is already taken care of. You could also offer to do the same thing but at her place.	/r/seduction	13/11/21 09:12 PM
3	I think I have a problem, can't put a name to it. Sounds like you don’t know how to be hot yet. It takes practice! If you’re not interested in pursuing, and don’t want to let anyone down, you may need to be a bit more reserved than you’re used to being.	/r/seduction	13/11/21 08:56 PM
10	I don’t go out to bars much because I really don’t drink much and I hate dating apps - what do I do? How do I meet women? (28M). What are your interests? There are groups/clubs for just about everything you can think of. Or try taking a dance class, gardening class, volunteer for something, etc.	/r/seduction	13/11/21 08:38 PM
1	What to text after getting a number? Hell yeah!!	/r/seduction	13/11/21 08:27 PM
1	Many dates but none last Alright, based on the deets you’ve given, I’d say there’s nothing wrong at all! Dating just be like that. Sometimes you can have a fine time with someone, but there’s just not the right chemistry. I’ve gone on a good handful of dates where it’s a fine time and at the end we both say we wanna see each other again and then NEVER. SPEAK. AFTER. THAT. The sooner you can laugh it off the better. It’s kinda the point of dating right? You get to try someone out a few times. If they’re not the one for y…	/r/seduction	13/11/21 03:39 PM
3	Many dates but none last Please share more details about what happens on these dates. There’s likely a common denominator. Let’s figure that out first and go from there	/r/seduction	13/11/21 12:01 AM
15	What to text after getting a number? Send tomorrow: “Hey! This is ___ , we met at ____. How was the rest of your night?” Go from there	/r/seduction	12/11/21 11:57 PM
4	What amount of alcohol is your sweet spot in clubs/bars? A shot of mezcal every hour and water in between	/r/seduction	12/11/21 09:43 PM
4	How to know if I'm in my own head Maybe it’s coincidence, maybe it’s not. What you focus on, you’ll amplify. If you’re looking for people to be looking at you, you’re going to “see” them, regardless of whether or not they actually are. It’s like noticing the same kind of car you drive everywhere you go. If it really is driving you crazy, shift your attention to something other than these gals. I’m willing to bet they disappear.	/r/seduction	12/11/21 09:17 PM
1	No confidence/game w opposite sex Think about a time when you have been confident in any situation. What are you good at? When do you feel capable? Remember what it was like in that moment: how you held your body, what thoughts you were thinking, the expression on your face, etc. Move those confident traits from a past time into the present, and go!	/r/seduction	12/11/21 09:07 PM
1	I’m 30afab bisexual and here to answer your questions! Just like me xD	/r/seduction	08/11/21 02:01 PM
1	I’m 30afab bisexual and here to answer your questions! My stand-by for a long time has been Pulp Fiction. I used to watch the VHS every night when I was younger and know it line-for-line. The Road to El Dorado is a close 2nd :)	/r/seduction	08/11/21 12:30 AM
-5	How much do you text when you've set a date? If your date is for Wednesday, text her Monday saying “I’m looking forward to Wednesday, are you still down?” If she is, text her Tuesday saying “thinking of you and excited for tomorrow!”	/r/seduction	07/11/21 11:32 PM
0	How do i approach girls dancing near me at the club? Move in and say “you dance real good. May I dance with you?”	/r/seduction	07/11/21 11:27 PM
7	Got the girl's number. Now what? Please DO NOT use the “I’m doing xyz on abc do you wanna tag along?” Format. That is an instant turn off. Instead try “I’d really like to do xyz… would you like to do that on abc?” NOBODY wants to be invited as a tag along or after thought.	/r/seduction	07/11/21 11:09 PM