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OYS #7 30 years old, 6', 213 lbs, 5 year LTR Reading Read: Rationale Male Year 1, NMMNG, WISNIFG, MMSLP, 16 COP. Reading: Book of Pook, Mindful Attraction Plan I'm glad MRP got me into a decent reading habit, but it's tough balancing reading pace / number of books vs retained / practiced knowledge. Like a jiu jitsu class where you may learn several techniques each night, I think it's valuable to take in what you can, maybe take notes on principles that really stand out to you, but pick at least …
/r/MarriedRedPill19/03/21 05:49 PM
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Like most things in my life, lifting has been stopped by half assing. I've started lifting several times in the past, but never progressed past a month let's say. BJJ was the same way for years, but something clicked about 2 years ago and I stopped fucking around. The other part is social fear and looking dumb doing something new in public. I'm working on these shortcomings, starting with this new lifting cycle Sunday.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/03/21 09:12 PM
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OYS #6 30 years old, 6', 215 lbs, 5 year LTR Being Honest It sucks looking at where I am today, not having put in any work almost two years ago when I first made an OYS post. I've made almost no progress in fixing my shit and things have only gotten worse or stayed stagnant. Thinking about wasted time and opportunities may be a harder pill to choke down than the red pill, but it does no good for me now. In reality, I'm just existing as the average person does, it's not like my life is in shamble…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/03/21 03:58 PM
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OYS #5 Background Age: 29, Height: 6', Weight: 213lbs, BF: Fat Lifts: Squat 75, BP 60, OHP 55, BR 80, DL 115 LTR: ~4 years Physical Knee pain is getting better, although on deadlifts when going down it starts to hurt a good amount. Luckily I do not feel any pain post lifting, just during the moment (and SL only has you do 5 reps for deadlift). Lifting going well overall, slow but steady. I am having some lower back stiffness/soreness that I can probably attribute to being new to lifting, but it …
/r/MarriedRedPill22/10/19 12:26 PM
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This makes a lot of sense, and I can relate a few of my own values directly to it that I do not always follow through with. Thanks for the comment.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/10/19 05:17 PM
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Good way of putting it. Thanks, I'll keep it in mind. I'm also trying to find my way with something Jocko said on his podcast before. It went something like, even if you don't know the path yet, you know when you're not on it.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/10/19 04:58 PM
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Thinking about inviting him out to bjj, not sure if this is me talking about fight club, or if I should let him do it of his own volition. Nah man, invite him to try it out. There's nothing wrong with inviting a bro to the gym, suggesting a new hobby, or even recommending a more well known book (Say the subtle art of ngaf). Fight club is the sum of its parts. Don't talk about fight club by saying, "Hey buddy, quit being a faggot and checkout /r/mrp, I'm unfucking my life!" Hopefully he turns int…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/10/19 12:56 AM
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OYS #4 Background Age: 29, Height: 6', Weight: 209lbs, BF: Fat Lifts: Squat 60, BP 45, OHP 50, BR 70, DL 105 LTR: ~4 years Physical Easy week of lifting only being < 2 weeks into SL5x5. Really focusing on form and the challenge of getting up early to go to the gym and do it, despite it being dark and cold out. BJJ going well too. Visited another gym with the team last week and rolled nonstop with new people for at least an hour straight. Not having to reach for my inhaler at all during this was …
/r/MarriedRedPill16/10/19 12:02 AM
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I figured he was just living completely in her frame (her reality) and she didn't want kids at all, so he subconsciously convinced himself that he doesn't too, because he was afraid of having a different opinion than her. He wanted to please her, he wanted to be more alike to her. This was absolutely me at the beginning of the relationship where all I wanted to do was seem as compatible as possible. As I'm waking up out of the daze over the years, I'm realizing that I convinced myself I was just…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/10/19 12:40 PM
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Fear of ending it and having it be the wrong move. Although I have my criticisms of her, we get along pretty well and I keep thinking if I own my shit and lead the relationship, she may make enough improvements for me to not care about having a family and keep her instead. I'm like 60/40 (kids/no kids). We live together so I figure give it a few months while I work on myself and make a decision early next year. Meanwhile I'm fighting off talks of marriage (due to recent friends getting married) …
/r/MarriedRedPill09/10/19 09:09 PM
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OYS #3 Background Age 29, Height 6', Weight 209lbs, BF fat Lifts: Squat 50, BP 45, OHP 45, BR 65, DL 95 LTR ~4 years Physical Started lifting over the Summer with a friend, following whatever they did. Decided this week to get on a firm program (SL 5x5). BJJ three times per week and sometimes lifting extra after class as a finisher. Started playing a rec sport with friends as well. Weight is dropping, muscle definition is improving, and conditioning is getting better. Asthma is improving as a re…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/10/19 03:56 PM
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OYS #2 It's been a month since I posted my first OYS. While I appreciated getting straight forward advice and called out on why I suck, I figured I wouldn't post again until some worthwhile progress was made in all areas. Looking at this week's OYS posts, I saw some good advice that said to post anyways. It'll be more beneficial to me to post what has been done and get comments on that, than to just disappear for weeks at a time. I'll start to post more frequently. Physical Been sticking with BJ…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/05/19 05:38 PM
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Starting to see why this is why I suck.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/04/19 11:45 AM
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Start here. Get a gym membership this week and start doing StrongLifts 5X5. If you can't afford the gym and BJJ, then put BJJ on hold for 6 months while you start lifting. I can afford both. BJJ has been going good for about three months now. If things change I'll go on a hiatus (with purpose) and make sure the lifting gets done. Thanks for the diet info. I'm on it.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/04/19 11:43 AM
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Damn - you're not serious about BJJ... do you like it or are you doing it for another reason? If you like it, what is stopping you from going more consistently? Unless there's something that actually prevents you from going - sickness, travel, why are you missing it? I've liked every single BJJ class, never regretted going, even on days I got injured. Just a list of excuses of why I never fully committed to it. Everyone commenting on my post is hitting the nail on the head with half-assing and f…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/04/19 11:37 AM
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Hey now, half a year's salary is a solid emergency fund. You are right though, I have always half-assed most things. Bosses, coaches, teachers, etc. have always praised me yet I never put in the effort. It's probably a fear of failure and a risk of hurting my ego. Definitely extends to not knowing what I want out of life. I'll start to figure out my mission while I lift and STFU.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/04/19 11:12 AM
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Definitely the story of my life so far. Half-assery and fuckarounditis like the other commenters said too. I'd have a pretty damn long list if I were to put down everything I've started and not finished, but still walked and talked like I was the shit and had all these great successes. I don't know what I've been trying to prove to everyone else when I know I'm not as great as I make myself seem. Maybe so I didn't have to face getting called out on my bullshit? Glad some people are finally doing…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/04/19 11:07 AM
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OYS #1 This is my first OYS. Been lurking the past year and a half and reading some of the sidebar the past year. I know the things that are wrong with me, but I've avoided putting those things down in a tangible form so I didn't have to face them head on. Definitely embarrassing too, but if I can't seek out help and guys calling me out on my bullshit anonymously, then I won't make any real changes in the real world. Background 29, 6 ft, 215 lbs, weak and fat. Living in apartment with girlfriend…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/04/19 01:08 PM
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