| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 17 | Unpopular Opinion: The Bachelor is bad for women/society's view of women.I mean, none of the contestants are genuinely in the show for "love," they're in it because they're aspiring actresses/models/influencers trying to get noticed/social media clout. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/20 02:59 PM |
| 75 | Another TINDER trashwell at least he's wearing his red flags up front. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/20 09:48 AM |
| 40 | Him: "I'll die without sex!!!" Me: "Then perish."Sadly he has a wife. This is why one shouldn’t be a pickmeisha...not only will your scrote husband expect head and not reciprocate, but he’ll brag about it on the radio for it to go viral on twitter. How embarrassing! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/20 12:49 AM |
| 70 | Him: "I'll die without sex!!!" Me: "Then perish."LMFAO reminds me of the time DJ Khaled admitted to not eating pussy, then promptly every man who's attracted to women on the internet started bragging about how much they LOVE eating pussy or even ass, like that makes them special, instead of doing the bare minimum. this is why you can't give men an inch. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/20 12:39 AM |
| 12 | PSA: This is not a sub for binary political or ideological thinking or adherence to established belief systems, this is a sub for STRATEGY.I once saw what I presume was a radfem on here once telling a woman she was stupid and wasting her money on wearing makeup, and benefiting the capitalist patriarchy.. It was a bit confusing to me why this person would bother being on this sub...like there aren't plenty of other 100% hardcore radfem subs to talk about this stuff on. Or like you can't just like wearing makeup because it makes you feel good, and makeup doesn't ever exist in matriarchal, non-capitalist societies, or is worn by peopl… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/20 01:38 PM |
| 68 | Where is the lie?wise words from my African-American studies professor "don't be like Chris Brown, talking 'bout 'these hoes ain't loyal!' Well I wouldn't be loyal to you either!" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/20 02:36 AM |
| 31 | My favorite OLD strategy is asking men about their weirdest date and letting them weed themselves out. He said he had a ‘perfect’ date with this girl then she turned crazy years later after no contact. Stay safe out there.Jesus Christ, looks like you dodged a bullet, BIG TIME! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/20 04:54 AM |
| 12 | More arrests of boys 10-12 for forcible rape than arrests of women of all ages for the same crimeI think they’re distinguishing from statutory rape, but idk how a boy aged 10-12 would be able to commit statutory if they’re under the age of consent anywhere anyway. Maybe a lawyer could help us out here? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/20 03:51 AM |
| 89 | Desperate PickmeishaI feel like this is sarcastic (I hope, anyway) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/20 03:43 AM |
| 3 | The Original "Pick-Me"Ugh Dr. Shepherd was the literal worst. So was Dr. Burke. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/20 10:25 PM |
| 9 | LVM using the age-gap dynamic to underperformThis reminds me of Courtney Stodden and Doug Hutchison | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/20 02:37 AM |
| 18 | Boy bye 😂Every account under 30 days old is given this flair, keep posting and it will change. Source: Flair Guide in FDS wiki | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/20 02:35 AM |
| 72 | Man is upset for his sons friends hitting on his daughter, so he bans his son from having friends over.HOLY SHIT that's the age difference that gets Chris Hansen asking you to take a seat. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/20 04:59 PM |
| 115 | Apparently we’re praising men for apologizing for rape now. Comments say this apology “restores their faith in humanity” smhHe apologized more to clear his own conscience than to help her. As someone who was assaulted when I was 18 (and the guy never apologized more than "I'm sorry, but it was your fault") I really don't give a shit about a "true apology" and I know that would not long term make things better. The right thing for an assaulter to do in this case would be to stay the fuck out of the victim's life forever and let them heal and move on by themselves. I know I'm glad my assaulter is afraid of me and block… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/20 03:47 PM |
| 456 | Man is upset for his sons friends hitting on his daughter, so he bans his son from having friends over.I was worried that there was going to be victim blaming stuff about the 14 year old daughter going on, but good Dad. Hopefully son at least will learn. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/20 01:32 PM |
| 60 | I walked away from my cheating ex while pregnant. Today is my first Mother’s Day and this is the card I received from my 10 year old cousin. 🙌This cleared my skin, seasoned my food; and watered my crops. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/20 01:42 AM |
| 34 | This is my new bar, minus the marijuanaIdk, a lot of liberal dudes use “wokeness” to excuse porn usage, cheating on you, going Dutch (or YOU paying), etc so it’s not a foolproof method | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/20 07:32 PM |
| 17 | Is it a new trend scrotes put a kissing photo in their dating profile? I’ve seen a few of them but this is the lowest of the low. Leave a one-word review for this 😂Trash | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/20 07:31 PM |
| 5 | Male Feminists Be Like...Also, "feminism means we should split. actually, you should pay for me." -_- | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/20 02:43 PM |
| 27 | Just another reason NOT to do hookups! Men knowingly hiding their STI’s and infect their sexual partners! 🤮Ewwwwwwwww | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/20 02:27 AM |
| 45 | This piece of shit sent me two videos of women he was fucking from behind, telling me I should have been in their places. He probably filmed them without their consent. Absolutely disgusting.Why do they always look like their face got hit by a semi truck? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/20 12:14 AM |
| 184 | Things men say cus they refuse to come to terms with the fact that they’re really attracted to other menUmmm and the scrotum is 1 inch from the anus as well? Plus... given how hairy the average man is and how awful at basic hygiene I don’t even want to think about the state of theirs. Projection. Textbook projection. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/20 04:40 PM |
| 83 | What was a Pickme behavior that you've looked back on and regretted?Splitting the bill, feeling the need to qualify my opinion, developing one-itis for men that were just not that into me, putting up with problematic/fetishist men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/20 02:57 AM |
| 5 | I don't post anything remotely sexual on my instagramughhhhhhhhh can't they keep that shit to themselves? Ever? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/20 03:52 AM |
| 13 | “Seemingly no reason” hmmmDo you know if you can report guys for doing this on other apps, e.g. Coffee Meets Bagel, OkCupid? Because I’ve had issues before with guys doing this on CMB which is NOT at all supposed to be a hookup app. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/20 12:51 AM |
| 21 | “Seemingly no reason” hmmmI’m so sorry that happened to you!E | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/20 12:48 AM |
| 96 | “Seemingly no reason” hmmm“Seemingly no reason” oh there’s definitely a reason. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/20 10:29 PM |
| 11 | What do you think of the rise of the word SIMP currently occurring online and elsewhere?Yes, be wary. You could point out that the "simps" end up getting the women in the end. Or just consider it a fight not worth having and stop associating with the dude. | /r/askFDS | 28/04/20 07:26 PM |
| 16 | Why don't women like me? I call them beautiful! Dating is hard."I don't know why I use this site to be honest" then delete it? Like, you're not obligated to be on OkC, and it doesn't make you look better when you're too cool for a site you've joined. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/20 07:23 PM |
| 25 | You don't need to be submissive to be feminine"I hated the way he treated her, but she allowed herself to be treated that way." Yeah, no. Not about the idea that women "allow" themselves to be treated like shit. that's some victim-blaming shit right there. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/20 07:20 PM |
| 15 | This thread on Twitter where women recount the brokest things men have done to them. If a guy tries anything like this walk away and ghost him!this makes me want to not go on a date ever again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/20 10:55 PM |
| 123 | Probably thinks he's a champ for providing for his pregnant gf and sonThat isn't even "poor shit" that's outright thievery. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/04/20 10:27 PM |
| 73 | A lot of men claiming to be “intimidated” by women are really just fuckboys trying to force women to do the work of initiating communication so they can manipulate you into accepting a relationship on their selfish terms.If I, a woman, intimidate a fuckboy, good. Like, why would I be attracted to someone who was intimidated by me? Girllllllll bye... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/04/20 05:40 PM |
| 53 | A dude not meeting your standards doesn't always warrant a clap backhonestly the best clapback is sometimes totally ignoring them. honestly they get driven far more crazy when you ghost/ignore them, and deny them any attention, which is what they want. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/20 10:15 PM |
| 84 | ‘Most of these people are men in their mid -30’s’ Man kills entire family because he wanted outThe thing that continues to irk me about him and Scott Peterson are that there are asshats out there that want to portray Shannan and Laci respectively as “controlling” for wanting their husbands to act like HVM husbands. And that there’s a shitload of pickmeishas that write them fan mail in prison. -_- Men like them are why I’m scared to get married, ever. And why I’m never going to accept fb friend requests from rando men I’ve never met, no matter how cute they are. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/20 08:56 PM |
| 19 | FUN FACT: The subscriber base for any forum meant for teenagers is at least 75% middle aged men.They need to start up To Catch a Predator type stings/shows again to deter these creeps. Make it a big thing again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/20 04:04 PM |
| 2 | 🧐tfw you're a woman and you've experienced literally all the above... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/20 12:03 PM |
| 2 | Opinion- DON'T DATE INTERRACIALLY.Well, your points would have been well taken if your argument was "beware of men that have a pattern of dating a specific race" but then you took it to a "don't date anyone that's not your own race" separatist take. You could easily turn it around and use the points you made about LVM wanting to date within their own race, e.g. a white man exclusively wanting to date white women to further the "aryan" race or whatever and having negative views of women of other races, for instance. In this situa… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/20 07:48 PM |
| 63 | At first I hoped this is not real :/Or she could just throw the whole boyfriend out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/20 10:31 PM |
| 32 | Has your ex ever tried to commit fake suicide? Because mine has!Yup. If they threaten suicide bc you won’t do what they want, it’s an abuse tactic. Had a friend who used to date someone who did similar things to guilt her into not leaving him when he treated her like shit, and then when she finally left him she found out from his other exes that this was a thing he did... Freaking scrotes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/20 01:21 PM |
| 52 | Pretty much all of r/relationship_adviceThe very worst is "he might be autistic." Bitch please. Autistic women don't EVER get to use their autism as an excuse. I'm (actually) autistic as fuck and if anything, autism makes you hyper-empathetic. Autistic or not, there's no excuse to be LVM. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/20 10:06 PM |
| 354 | Pretty much all of r/relationship_adviceLMFAO! And the men are like "I [M35] have a gf [F21] who wants to eat at Chipotle instead of McDonald's, and I think she's being totally unreasonable and overly extravagant. AITA?" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/20 03:17 PM |
| 225 | I hate it when LVM compare romance novels to pronIMO men would be anti porn very quickly if the phenomenon was women from a young age watching videos of pegging or CBT or something and then pressuring them to reenact it in the bedroom. And yet, what we fantasize about is...a rich, handsome, kind man falling in love with us and treating us well? How horrible and demeaning towards men. -_- | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/20 01:22 PM |
| 11 | Look out for what he says about your spendingYes, thankfully the wedding got called off! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/20 01:15 PM |
| 4 | We should discuss Trump supporter “men” for a secondI mean, even when you don't date them they disregard your feelings and needs. And girls who DO date them and defend the fact that they're dating them always end up sounding like pickmeishas (bc they are)...ugh I'm saving myself the embarrassment. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/20 01:12 PM |
| 19 | Look out for what he says about your spendingor the scrote who complained that his fiancee wanted a $900 wedding dress (that she/her parents would pay for) when she could get a $50 dress from wish that was *totally* the same? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/20 12:13 PM |
| 33 | We should discuss Trump supporter “men” for a secondYup. And I have as a general rule that if you vote for someone that doesn't respect my right to chose/have birth control insured, you're getting nowhere near my vagina. Or even a dinner date, god, talking to them hurts my brain. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/20 12:06 PM |
| 61 | Interesting side effect of levelling/growing up ... hard to listen to Drake lolHe’s trash...how do you collab with Chris Brown after he did what he did to a woman you supposedly “love?” Also his thing with Millie Bobbie Brown is...frightening. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/20 04:24 PM |
| 55 | This post is some abject LVM fuckery. Man with 6 kids forces teen daughter to raise them until she has a nervous breakdown, but rejects her therapist recommendation to let her be a kid. RAISE YOUR OWN DAMN KIDS SCROTE!If making sure the younger kids brush their teeth and get in bed on time, making them breakfast, and helping with the homework are really "small things" then why doesn't HE do them then? And it's super telling that of course the older son is too busy with man things. This is why I hated shows like 19 kids and counting that romanticized this BS. At least the Duggars got exposed for what they were, eventually. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/20 09:28 PM |
| 6 | *Puts on clown makeup*It was so trashy that I watched the entire thing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/20 02:16 AM |
| 43 | *Puts on clown makeup*She and Jessica are basically the definition of pickmeishas and Barnett the definition of a fuckboy LVM. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/20 08:30 PM |
| 48 | Ex-boyfriend refuses to pay money owed to me after breaking up (24F, 35M)Small claims court! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/20 04:49 PM |
| 51 | A real winnerIf you have to state that you don’t like drama or negativity chances are you’re the common denominator. Refresh of red flags | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/20 10:42 PM |
| 30 | Serious question: Body hair?Honestly body hair is a personal preference. I think the "preference to hairlessness" you sense is less about our actual preferences and more about the hypocrisy of LVM to want a women perfectly hairless whilst they won't even do the bare minimum in grooming their facial/pubic/anywhere hair. FWIW, many think body hair is masculine and attractive. Just practice proper hygiene so you don't look greasy or smell like stank. | /r/askFDS | 07/04/20 04:20 PM |
| 16 | The lack of boundaries in today's society is concerning.......they’re teaching kink in sex ed now?????? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/20 03:49 PM |
| 14 | Honestly I cannot stop laughing at his before and after faces 🤣🤣.The definition of a scrote! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/20 03:47 PM |
| 13 | Can a HVM be poor? (+ a story of finding my HVM)I’m more worried about the anime porn than him being poor to tell you the truth. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/20 03:45 PM |
| 4 | Male Plastic Surgery and HVM/ LVMDepends on what the extent of plastic surgery was. If it was that he had a mole removed or something relatively minor/that had an actual medical component to it, I wouldn’t worry about it. But major procedures, or if he does it a lot that’s worrying...would say to me that he has some body dysmorphia issues or maybe is just obsessed with his looks to an unhealthy level...is a LVM warning sign. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/20 03:43 PM |
| 5 | Websites with quality affordable clothing?I was more meaning width wise, e.g Large does not fit like a Small in pants and skirts around the waist/hips which tends to happen with other Asian brands I’ve bought before. I haven’t noticed them coming up short on me but maybe that’s because I’m only 5’3 and have short-ish legs. And I guess I like to wear winter tones a lot? I do think during the spring/summer their color palette has more...summery options. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/20 01:52 PM |
| 22 | Websites with quality affordable clothing?Uniqlo has pretty good basics for a reasonable price. And even though they’re Japanese, the sizes are western (e.g not super small) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/20 03:02 AM |
| 9 | What Makes You Swipe Left?-Bible verse -MAGA hats or anything indicating right-wing politics -Libertarian or “I don’t trust the two party system” esp from a white guy (it’s always white guys saying this) -guns in any capacity whatsoever -Vineyard vines or any other brand like that -making drugs/raving your personality -unkempt facial hair or man buns - a guy claiming he doesn’t message first - Gratuitous shirtless pics/muscle tees | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/20 01:51 AM |
| 27 | Apparently, a woman stating her boundaries is a mere challenge for a man to violate them. These psycho pervs who have nothing better to do in a pandemic other than finding women to “overcome” are a virus upon God’s green Earth. Be safe and vet HARD.not even surprising...back in the days when I used tinder I put "swipe left if republican" and you wouldn't believe how many matches I got being "I'm a republican, LOL do you like me anyway" LMAO NO, BYE | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/20 01:03 PM |
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