| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 114 | Men and general cleanliness/grooming | DISCUSSION | nurulfakasha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/21 02:38 AM |
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| 3 | What are your thoughts on changing your name after marriage?Thank God this is not a requirement in my culture. I take my dad's name. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/21 08:12 AM |
| 3 | BE AN UNENCUMBERED GAZELLEI watched Good On Paper after being on FDS and it made me WEEP!! I was like RED FLAG! RED FLAG! RED FLAG! AAAAAAAAAAGH!!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 06:37 AM |
| 31 | Things you used to find romantic before FDS?Lolol Korean dramas where male leads would bully the female lead then something happens and he falls haplessly in love with her and would do anything to "win" her like she's a fucking prize | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/21 06:53 AM |
| 8 | In a Happy Relationship with my Twin Flame and Wanted to Share…What a gorgeous twin flame!! Wishing you two the best of days together ♥️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/21 09:07 AM |
| 9 | Introducing: The Lyrical Clownery Series!My sister and I discussed this and realised Olivia's just a child. Like, she JUST turned 18. I remember saying "if she just blocked and deleted him she'll be fine. She wouldn't have found out he was doing 'better'" to which my sister retorted with "Goddamnit she's just a child!" I hope she learns, though. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/21 07:56 AM |
| 16 | You are allowed to eat.I really started lifting because i wanted to be physically strong to be able to do a lot of things in life (like rock climbing, carrying my mountain bike, carrying sacks of rice and other groceries for my elderly parents). Looking good, while a great perk, is secondary to me. I also feel good when I'm able to beat my PRs. My health has improved tremedously and even if i look "bigger" or thicker and have a bigger appetite to fuel my workouts, I don't actually care. Scrotes can die mad!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/21 04:32 PM |
| 15 | You are allowed to eat.It took a while for me to take the leap and dump him. It was how i found FDS 😝 the rest is history! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/21 01:46 PM |
| 135 | You are allowed to eat.Dumped my last ex coz he was negging me about how fat i was and how i shouldn't lift weights coz it'll make me bigger. He kept wanting me to run even though he knows damn well i hate cardio. His defense was that he used to be a fat kid and he lost weight so he knows what it's like to be judged for being fat. I told him there are many ways to remain healthy and i like my body now. That's the most important. Clearly it wasn't a priority for him. His priority is for me to be "slim" so that i'd look… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/21 04:22 AM |
| 642 | Yessssssss Queen!Had a "friend" like this who told a woman he wasn't ready for a relationship. She took it well and moved on, found someone who was ready for it and started dating him. My "friend" was FUMING. Kept texting me asking me what he could do to "win her back" and if he "should stay friends with her". After a couple months of back and forth i realized nothing i said (all in the same thread as "LEAVE HER THE FUCK ALONE") was enough for him so i promptly blocked and deleted him, ending the friendship. WHY… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/21 12:52 PM |
| 8 | Oh, he arranged a park date and showed up late and hung over? He knew it wasn't a real date the whole time, and you just made a fool of yourself by not refusing it in the first place. Please stop accepting zero effort.I honestly didn't bother reading her essay because i would have felt second-hand embarrassment. Just block, delete and move on, sis! He didn't bother to communicate he was going to be late (30mins? Unacceptable.) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/21 11:47 AM |
| 9 | When did you realize he hated you?He talked to another woman in a language i couldn't understand over the phone, in the middle of a date with me. It was "work". He cheated on me and left me to be with said woman. I should have seen it coming because he kept talking about her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/21 02:49 AM |
| 11 | HVMsYour HV cat gives you CUDDLES? I cant even pick mine up without him growling at me ☹️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/21 10:28 AM |
| 61 | I'm done 😪DAMN!!! Almost spat out my coffee. Had me in the first half ngl | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/21 11:17 PM |
| 7 | An old but good one on “forgetting the wallet” and restaurants.Forgot your wallet? Oh you have google/apple pay/a plethora of other digital payment options available in the city right? Oh no? BYEEEEEEE. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/21 08:09 AM |
| 10 | With no disrespect to other religions, I do NOT get this. At all. It’s a no from meWas about to say this and also if a man has more than one wife they are NOT supposed to live in the SAME household. Said husband is to buy a house of the same value for the second wife like he did for the first. Men WANT the pleasure of having more than one wife but are most likely unable to fulfill the requirements for it. Every time i date a Muslim man the dealbreaker is joking about having a 2nd wife (when they can't even pay for our first date 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/21 07:28 AM |
| 6 | Article about 3 women in their 40s who are unmarried. One HVW shares her basic standardsThey really aren't! 💯!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/21 07:58 AM |
| 10 | The Incels are DeCLaRiNg WaR on Us Again 🙄😒Hanging out, had my first dose of the vaccine (finally!) So a bit exhausted. But managed to retrofit my mountain bike with accessories. Gonna take her out on a ride once i feel better. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/21 04:31 AM |
| 76 | Men and Pickmes are confused because they think men are necessary, rather than optionalPurses help keep my things together, regardless of quality. Shitty LVMs tear my life apart, no thank you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/21 07:06 PM |
| 178 | Men and Pickmes are confused because they think men are necessary, rather than optionalOh i love this. Thank you for this analogy. I have been eyeing a purse but decided to wait because i can't afford it right now and i wanted to splurge on it as a gift for myself. Men are truly like purses. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/21 06:25 PM |
| 21 | I literally cannot remember the last time a woman approached me in public for anything.Few more stories: A woman and her domestic helper sat with me when I was alone in a food court. She said she was worried that a girl (i was 21 then) like me was seated alone. She then proceeded to PAY FOR MY FOOD! A pair of total strangers sat with me and paid for my food because she was worried I was alone. While i was solo hiking another woman who was also solo hiking ended up helping me through the hike. She was more experienced so I trusted her. We ended up going back into town together and … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/21 01:19 PM |
| 20 | I literally cannot remember the last time a woman approached me in public for anything.Had a woman approach me because it was raining and she saw I didn't have an umbrella, so she offered to walk with me to the train station and share her umbrella. The men, on the other hand....... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/21 01:11 PM |
| 4 | Coming from a Muslim community, I’m so sad to see sisters saying things like this. This came from a Muslim meme page where a woman agrees with the man that we’re not equal.Not sure which part of the world this is from, but at least in my country, and with some Muslim men I've spoken to they agree that we are not equal because women are better and societies just cannot function without women lmao. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/21 01:38 AM |
| 42 | What were some pivotal things your friends said that made you reconsider your relationship?"if a man did this to your sister, would you be okay?" I would not be okay. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 02:44 AM |
| 18 | Feeling slightly resentful that my mother taught me absolutely nothing about menSame. My mum told me not to date in school but never explained about men. She told me to be religious because it will protect me. But it didn't. I got too curious. I wished my mum would have been open and honest with me about things like these, instead of just forbidding me to do things. Now she's pestering me to be less picky and get married. I'm only 28. I love her so much and she's dealt with much in her life but I really wished she wasn't so pressured by society to raise the "perfect" daught… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 12:08 AM |
| 4 | Hobbies and such.Skincare was a self-care routine that became a hobby for me. As in i would watch and read many informational content with regards to skincare, experimenting with different skincare products within my means. It's great. My skin has dramatically improved and while i still enjoy make up i have used less of it because I want to show off my skin hehe | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/21 12:36 PM |
| 13 | Boyfriend said he wanted to go to a strip club at our anniversary lunchLeave sis, leave if you havent already | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/21 04:00 AM |
| 16 | Let's start CELEBRATING the END of LV relationshipsFriend of mine sent me a tiktok of a "Congrats on dumping him" card. I loved it so much. 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 07:52 AM |
| 6 | Men and general cleanliness/groomingOh God thankfully i don't have a brother 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/21 12:25 PM |
| 12 | Men and general cleanliness/groomingCan i assume that husband is now an ex? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/21 08:28 AM |
| 25 | Men and general cleanliness/groomingGiven the amount of women talking about men who do not wash their hands REGULARLY made me realise i didn't list hand-washing in my original post because I thought EVERYONE did it. Oh LORD. I'm not shaking hands with people anymore. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/21 08:08 AM |
| 11 | Men and general cleanliness/groomingI was telling my ex how i got into the habit of flossing because I was reprimanded by my dentist for being terrible at it. He asked "what's that?" I- no. And yes long beards covering the neck are a no for me. Especially those that look like a raccoon went swimming in the canal types 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/21 07:59 AM |
| 24 | Men and general cleanliness/groomingIn past relationships I've had guys ask why do I care so much about my skin. In fact skincare ranks as one of my top priorities alongside general hygiene. I've had guys who don't even have a basic face wash. And it SHOWS on their skin. I got tired of trying to get guys to start on the basic wash, tone, moisturise and sunscreen routine. Had a dude who works outdoors a lot, and i asked him to start putting on sunscreen to protect his skin. He shrugged and said he didn't care. B O Y B Y E. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/21 06:45 AM |
| 15 | Men and general cleanliness/groomingGross. Hand washing is BASIC! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/21 06:42 AM |
| 61 | Megan Thee Stallion, Don’t Know How You Guys Feel About Her But This Song Absolutely SLAPS!Fav lines: I'm a hot girl, i do hot shit. I don't text quick coz I ain't thirsty. I DON'T STAND OUTSIDE COZ I'M TOO OUTSTANDING | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/21 04:05 PM |
| 2 | New ring that I bought for myself! 2021 is our year, beautiful ladies. 💪❤️Gorgeous. Been eyeing an opal ring for a while now (my birthstone too!) ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 09:49 AM |
| 19 | Me Going Into 2021 LikeHow apt, i mean it IS 20-2NE1 haha geddit? 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/01/21 11:28 AM |
| 5 | SAYGRACE - Boys Ain't Shit (Official Video)There's a FDS playlist on spotify iirc | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/01/21 11:23 AM |
| 11 | Men talk too much....and why this can be a good thing 😈I should do this. Thanks for the tip! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/20 11:37 AM |
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