| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 4 | Netflix and Chill Walkthrough? | nutmegger189 | /r/seduction | 23/04/19 07:20 PM | |
| 1 | Can you ask out a girl while you're working? | nutmegger189 | /r/seduction | 03/03/19 11:12 PM | |
| 0 | Is Mark Manson's 'Models' good? | nutmegger189 | /r/seduction | 08/01/19 01:24 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 93 | Thoughts on Uber money?I have no thoughts about it because I either 1) Display enough value that no one asks me to do this 2) Do not associate with people who would even consider this acceptable to ask | /r/seduction | 24/07/26 02:30 PM |
| 5 | Cant stop comparing myself to homeboy.This is incomprehensible | /r/seduction | 21/07/26 07:16 AM |
| 1 | Girl at gym is staring at meI'm glad you get it, cheers | /r/seduction | 10/07/26 12:35 PM |
| 0 | Girl at gym is staring at meDude I don't even study "game". I've never studied any of whatever PUAs or whatever you're talking about. It's clear you've studied even more than I have. I'm working off lived experience and I just have fun with how I talk to people. But good luck with your psycho analysis | /r/seduction | 10/07/26 11:14 AM |
| 3 | Girl at gym is staring at meCan definitely do that. And probably would be fine. I just personally don't choose to live life picking the safest option every time. You don't have to look like Jake Gyllenhaal to have some fun in your interactions. Especially when you have a warm lead. | /r/seduction | 10/07/26 07:05 AM |
| 1 | Girl at gym is staring at meGo away nerd. All of you are armchair critics. Give ideas or go away. | /r/seduction | 10/07/26 06:57 AM |
| 1 | Girl at gym is staring at me1) Depends how it's said and also if she's the one doing the staring, it's teasing, not insulting 2) Depends how it's said (as with most things) 3) Assuming he would say this after they again, stared at each other, it would be dictated by the circumstances. I just came up with the line based on the circumstance. I don't have a book or anything. Obviously don't walk up to her out of the blue and say this, that I agree, is weird. | /r/seduction | 10/07/26 06:45 AM |
| 3 | Girl at gym is staring at meRead it a few more times | /r/seduction | 09/07/26 10:53 PM |
| 1 | Girl at gym is staring at meI am the same. Random people in my gym never really approach one another. So to me, what OP's describing is as much of an IOI as you're ever gonna get. He can take it slow sure and warm her up over many sessions or he can be bold and get it out the way. But as he said, he didn't see her for ages. He could intro himself and 3 months could go by. | /r/seduction | 09/07/26 10:50 PM |
| 5 | Girl at gym is staring at meEh, be bold. It's only cheesy if you don't say it with confidence | /r/seduction | 09/07/26 10:43 PM |
| 3 | Girl at gym is staring at meOP references her giggling in the whole post... He literally said "giggling" in the post. Did you read the post or are you just here to be fun police? He's also not a random man in public. They've spoken, she's staring at him through multiple sessions. This is a warm lead. Anyway it really doesn't matter what he says, it's how he says it. I was just giving an idea since he clearly doesn't really know what to do. And if he used my line because he thought it was funny and she didn't like the humor… | /r/seduction | 09/07/26 10:38 PM |
| 6 | Girl at gym is staring at mewhy? | /r/seduction | 09/07/26 10:29 PM |
| 18 | Girl at gym is staring at meWalk up to her "how much longer are we keeping this staring competition going for?" -> giggle -> "I think we keep it up over coffee" -> what's your name blablabla | /r/seduction | 09/07/26 08:38 PM |
| 9 | What is masculinity?Provision, protection, independence, strength, resilience, commands respect. These are all masculine traits. They don't necessarily have to be reflected in the ways you've described. E.g. you don't necessarily have to be rich to show provision or fist fight to protect/show strength. Respect can even be something like being good at a sport. | /r/seduction | 05/07/26 02:48 PM |
| 2 | If you ask for her number and she offers Instagram instead, don't fall for itThere's really a whole world out there | /r/seduction | 01/07/26 06:50 AM |
| 2 | If you ask for her number and she offers Instagram instead, don't fall for itSorry, pause, you give away cards? | /r/seduction | 01/07/26 06:42 AM |
| 93 | No girlfriend title until after sex. What are your thoughts?You're thinking about this far too autistically | /r/seduction | 11/02/26 01:30 PM |
| 30 | Why tf Cold approach is fucked up in UKOP definitely doesn't have a British accent | /r/seduction | 15/01/26 01:37 PM |
| 2 | Approaching veiled womenIf they're veiled, how do you know they're beautiful?? Isn't the whole point of the veil to not do that? | /r/seduction | 24/12/25 01:46 AM |
| -5 | The one belief that turned me from “nice guy with female friends” into the guy actually fucking themDoesn't have to be new info. But it can be presented in a new way. With examples etc. This is just written in a flashy way without actually saying much | /r/seduction | 09/12/25 01:00 PM |
| 2 | The one belief that turned me from “nice guy with female friends” into the guy actually fucking themIt is slop. Just because it's not wrong doesn't make it not slop. It's a bunch of obvious, constantly repeated low value add, vaguely useful stuff which anyone who has spent 5 mins on similar forums has heard before. It fails to add anything new while presenting it in an overly dramatic format | /r/seduction | 09/12/25 12:32 PM |
| 70 | The one belief that turned me from “nice guy with female friends” into the guy actually fucking themAI slop | /r/seduction | 09/12/25 10:44 AM |
| 2 | How often to see girlfriend if she’s local?Do you have any independent thought? | /r/seduction | 27/06/25 10:59 PM |
| 1 | How are most of you ok with the Abysmal success rates of cold approach?Yes. I rarely comment, post or read anything from here. | /r/seduction | 26/06/25 04:17 PM |
| 20 | How are most of you ok with the Abysmal success rates of cold approach?Why does it need to make you feel better? It's life. Not everything can be served to you on a platter. You also forget that women are real people lol. Would you take the proposition of any woman that approached you? Do you buy everything a salesman sells you. Take joy in the journey and eventually you won't care how many rejections you get. | /r/seduction | 26/06/25 10:30 AM |
| 29 | How are most of you ok with the Abysmal success rates of cold approach?I mean it's also insane that we have to wait XX hours in a flying tube to travel the world but unfortunately no one's invented teleporting yet. Sometimes worthwhile things are hard. | /r/seduction | 26/06/25 10:18 AM |
| 37 | How are most of you ok with the Abysmal success rates of cold approach?What's the alternative in your head | /r/seduction | 26/06/25 09:46 AM |
| 6 | Finally beat my anxiety and cold approached. Getting rejected felt way better than regret!Awesome. We need more stories from London. If you want accountability partner, let me know. | /r/seduction | 06/05/25 01:41 PM |
| 0 | Can anyone tell Colin differences between American and British culture here?Who tf is colin | /r/seduction | 05/10/24 09:16 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]You say this but I see women on TikTok or Twitter all the time talking about how they find it hot when a guy has either no IG or an IG with no pictures. Think it's an insecurity thing (they don't want other girls crushing on their man). | /r/seduction | 07/01/22 01:00 PM |
| 1 | Netflix and Chill Walkthrough?Thanks for all your help. She ended up flaking, saying she's busy which I half expected. | /r/seduction | 24/04/19 06:13 PM |
| 1 | Netflix and Chill Walkthrough?Rule #1: STAY CALM! Haha, that's why we're blazing, otherwise, social anxiety is gonna get the better of me. Thanks though, this was pretty good. Quick question: if somehow sex comes up and she asks me when my last one was or along those lines, should I lie? Like "it's been a while" | /r/seduction | 23/04/19 10:31 PM |
| 6 | Tinder Scam: Watch OutPeople have folders upon folders of videos and pictures of (legal) girls used to catfish. They have voice clips to prove authenticity. They sometimes pay girls from developing countries to get all this stuff + do a video call to prove authenticity. Not just to blackmail but to ask for money for nudes etc. Happens across almost all dating sites. They do this all day, everyday to as many people as they can and often times its these scammers entire livelihoods. It must also be said though that a lo… | /r/seduction | 22/03/19 04:49 PM |
| 5 | Tinder Scam: Watch OutYeah I accidentally stumbled into a community of people who do this. It's very very real, this is just the tip of the iceberg tbh | /r/seduction | 22/03/19 12:56 PM |
| 1 | Can you ask out a girl while you're working?I can tell you're American by reading this haha. The retail culture over here is nowhere near as brutal as corporate America, at least in my experience. My job is pretty easy going and the fact that 99% of customers are students (like me), means that no one kicks up a fuss very often. I do understand your point however that's always a risk whether I met the girl (or any girl) at work or anywhere else because most people I meet go to my university, and actively and frequently pass through that st… | /r/seduction | 04/03/19 07:26 PM |
| 1 | Can you ask out a girl while you're working?I've heard that used before but in regards to coworkers. This girl is a customer. Or is it the same principle? | /r/seduction | 04/03/19 01:37 PM |
| 1 | Can you ask out a girl while you're working?Thank you, that makes sense. I'll try what I can but unfortunately it's hard to make much of a 10-20 second conversation at a till. Any tips? Also would asking her number be a milder thing or still the same level of weirdness? | /r/seduction | 04/03/19 01:50 AM |
| 5 | Step 1 To Eliminate Social Anxiety (Nerds, Introverts, SAD, Social Phobia)Although you have some solid points and you have expressed in the comment section that you suffered from SA, the whole message makes me skeptical. As someone who suffers mildly but has previously suffered worse from SA, I think your advice only goes so far. Using logic to cure SA only works to a limited extent. Social anxiety is inherently irrational, and people who suffer know this. I know this. I'm completely and painfully aware of every point you made. However, combatting something irrational… | /r/seduction | 04/03/19 12:19 AM |
| 3 | Never compromise for her shitty behavior!!Question is why tf is she slapping her belly? Is she a toddler? | /r/seduction | 25/01/19 04:31 PM |
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