nyanyamuthafukka Archive

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11	Are chubby girls more forgiving when it comes to a mans LOOKS? I noticed a lot of people who actively hate on fat people are actually physically turned on by them and hate this because they perceive fat people as less valuable and lower status, so they end up filled with shame and self loathing and then take it out on anyone fat.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/22 07:17 PM
5	You have the opportunity to marry or be married to a billionaire , but you have to become a stay at home wife, would you do it? I know too many women who started out in the SAHM situation with a wealthy guy who then get dumped and forced to be a working single mom once they age a little or their kids take it out of her. Most of their exes avoid all manner of child support, etc, and the gap in their resume usually means the woman has to take degrading low wage jobs and live in poverty. That’s a raw ass deal.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/22 07:08 PM
3	Where did this idea that younger women make better partners come from? The way you talk about men is extremely awful and I feel sorry for women for having to deal with this kind of behavior. It’s like those pet owners who abandon their senior dog at the pound and replace it with a puppy. We are talking about living creatures, and in the case of human relationships, there’s often children and households to manage. Your priorities will generally change as you age. I would rather throw myself down the stairs than go to a bar or club at this point in my life. If my par…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/22 04:27 AM
2	Where did this idea that younger women make better partners come from? That’s what you hear. But what I mean is that if you don’t have experience to see the signs or have any trauma or codependent tendencies, then you’re much more likely to be exploited. Doesn’t make you stupid or intellectually disabled. But I would argue that it is the older person’s responsibility not to be a raging abusive shitbag who exploits young women and if you’ve got a big age gap, there’s simply no way for you to make everyone ok with that. You either gotta live with that or avoid dating…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/22 04:17 AM
5	CMV: Most guys don’t know what good sex is or looks like. The most important thing about good sex is the desire to please one’s partner. A lot of women have been conditioned by porn and society to please their partner, but there’s only so many uncomfortable sex experiences without any meaningful behavior on her partner’s part to improve or change techniques she can have before she starts seeing it as a duty or aversion. Most guys think that if they come that everyone is satisfied. Most guys don’t have any idea that when a woman actually comes, her vagi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/22 07:11 PM
22	Where did this idea that younger women make better partners come from? My dad is ten years older than my mom. But they met at work and my mom is extremely smart about finances, drives a hard bargain, and is generally the one who runs things. My dad is probably high functioning autistic, but he is great at engineering and mechanical prowess. They didn’t start dating because of the age gap, in fact my mother had braces and stuff when they met. But they had a lot of hobbies in common. It’s one thing to constantly seek out people younger than you, but it’s another if y…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/22 06:39 PM
5	Men who don't have sex equate having sex with self-worth I might have some disagreements with some of your points: one dude being worth less than another dude: ok what does this actually mean? One “high value” guy can have lots of sex, even a prodigious amount of sex, but something that appears to be missing from every single point someone makes about this is that having sex doesn’t mean he has a harem of women who are completely off limits. Vaginas are not one-use orifices. dating and finding sex partners can suck. There’s a chance you will be reject…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/22 03:38 AM
1	Age gap relationships are generally shamed by bitter older women Haha, I don’t have time to care about everyone else’s problems or business or their thought crimes or whatever. But people who act shitty in one aspect of their lives rarely keep it isolated to one thing. The same dudes who do predatory relationship bullshit are often the kind of guys who ask me to borrow money and never give it back.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/22 01:00 AM
1	Age gap relationships are generally shamed by bitter older women Finding someone attractive doesn’t mean you have to pursue them. You can think someone is cute and control yourself if it’s obvious you have nothing in common and they’re in a completely different place than you are. My argument is that men are free to find people way younger than them attractive. And even date or have sex with them. But you cannot control what other people think about that, especially if your behavior appears predatory in other ways and the constant validation that a lot of dud…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/22 12:54 AM
2	Age gap relationships are generally shamed by bitter older women The worst part is that by “older women,” it is usually implied anyone over 21 is older.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/12/22 11:40 PM
0	Age gap relationships are generally shamed by bitter older women “Stop judging me! It’s legal!” Is often the clarion call of the asshole.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/12/22 11:29 PM
1	Age gap relationships are generally shamed by bitter older women The answer is that the dating pool is smaller when you age because men die on average a lot earlier than women for various reasons. And the ones available are more likely to be from failed relationships or who are predatory and don’t settle down because their gfs/bfs age out of their preferred age.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/12/22 11:00 PM
1	Age gap relationships are generally shamed by bitter older women I think it’s creepy if anyone is exclusively dating/pursuing people that are significantly younger than they are. It’s a pattern of behavior that is similar to people who predate on young people coming out of HS. So while it isn’t a red flag in and of itself, it’s a datapoint that, if it is coupled with other behaviors known to be predatory (financial abuse, “trading up” every year for a younger person, etc), it shows a pretty damning picture of that person. This applies to gay, straight, male, …	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/12/22 10:44 PM
2	If you complain about “high n count slutty girls are no good for commitment”, it’s stupid to also complain about girls who dont fuck until the relationship is exclusive. I have never implied that women are “more noble.” They’re people, just like us. Treating people like disposable sex toys is gross and doesn’t fall under safe, sane, and consensual. Being mad when people won’t fuck you but also hating on people who fuck is pathetic and disrespectful. It’s just a fact.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/22 07:22 AM
2	If you complain about “high n count slutty girls are no good for commitment”, it’s stupid to also complain about girls who dont fuck until the relationship is exclusive. I was referring to the 30-something guys who troll around high schools looking for barely legal girls but if you wanna project my meaning I suppose you can. Human worth is more complex than anyone can dictate, and a lot of that is based on how you allow people to treat you. Your replies are both disrespectful and irritating, which goes to show how poorly you have done on developing the skills to encounter any meaningful prospects. But sure, if you want to yell sour grapes and laugh at the “crone…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/22 07:02 AM
2	The same behavior that caused me to get friendzoned by women I was attracted to is the same behavior that causes women I'm not attracted to to want to date me. I might add, it’s the “niceguy” who thinks he is being nice but is using niceness to get close to his crush under the guise of a covert contract and expects her to do all the work of initiating everything.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/22 03:46 AM
6	The same behavior that caused me to get friendzoned by women I was attracted to is the same behavior that causes women I'm not attracted to to want to date me. You were engaging in a covert contract. You were expecting the action of being a friend to lead to sex. It didn’t and you got mad about it. Imagine if you were saying this about a same sex friend. It’s a lot easier to see why covert contracts are shitty as fuck. Besides, do you honestly think that the girls you were talking to didn’t completely see through it? You seemed to see through the girls that were into you but you didn’t like. I bet you weren’t nearly as good at hiding it as you thought.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/22 03:44 AM
13	Do the women here define "relationships" as essentially just emotional and financial commitment from a man WITHOUT sex being involved? Women tend to like satisfying sex in a relationship. But if they’re not enjoying themselves, it’s certainly not going to get more frequent.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/22 03:26 AM
0	If you complain about “high n count slutty girls are no good for commitment”, it’s stupid to also complain about girls who dont fuck until the relationship is exclusive. The example OP provided is a guy acting like a misogynistic jerk. A lot of people can smell that a long ways away which is precisely why guys like that target really young women who have no relationship experience and often come from abusive backgrounds already.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/22 02:03 AM
3	If you complain about “high n count slutty girls are no good for commitment”, it’s stupid to also complain about girls who dont fuck until the relationship is exclusive. I think people who say this kind of thing tend to be the sort who see other humans as commodities to use instead of individuals that might want to share an activity. If you view potential sex partners as essentially sex toys who are there to use, it makes sense why someone would think that they don’t want a “used” one but want it to satisfy. They also tend to want a sex providing maid for their relationship but they will generally find themselves unsatisfied because humans aren’t sex toys and se…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/22 10:25 PM
1	Why should men still be the ones to pursue? I mean, to be fair, women who tend to pursue men tend to be valued less by said men. Unless he fucks her well and wants the same relationship style, she is risking lackluster sex and a guy who wont share the mental load in a relationship who won’t even give her the novelty and excitement of the initial chase.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/11/22 04:19 AM
1	Natural Sperm Donors: Men who donate sperm the natural way, free of charge Tbh, our jails/prisons allow for slavery conditions of the prisoners in most states. Most “made in USA” products are made by prison labor, many of which are not paid or paid hourly wages as low as $0.50 an hour. Prisoners are also expected to pay back for their cost of incarceration after they are released. Don’t even get me started on the exploitation of the commissary services (owned by a semi-monopoly- there are only two vendors available in the US that does this) or the removal of in person …	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/11/22 07:32 PM
6	Natural Sperm Donors: Men who donate sperm the natural way, free of charge Ok, so you’re saying that careless idiots need training wheels because they’re so stupid that they just willy nilly knock up vindictive women who are also frivolous and awful? Sounds like a match made in hell.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/11/22 06:26 AM
9	Natural Sperm Donors: Men who donate sperm the natural way, free of charge Child support payments are set by the court based on what the child needs. While there are plenty of shitty single moms (I have had some stinkers as neighbors), it also behooves dudes to do their best not to impregnate someone who is obviously the kind of person you describe. If you do, then you need to deal with it just like the rest of the people who make bad decisions. It may not be your fault, but kids need to be taken care of and if your ex is pretending that they need more of your money bu…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/11/22 05:30 AM
16	Natural Sperm Donors: Men who donate sperm the natural way, free of charge The US is hyper capitalist and doesn’t like paying welfare to single moms and children if they can get the genetic father to do it, especially if he has no other contact with the child. Most of the child support rules are in place specifically for this. Child support would probably be less of a burden on people if there was a better social safety net.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/11/22 04:56 AM
3	Nice guys are not mean or creeps, they are men who interact with women platonically in the hopes women will make the first move I’ve met a spectrum of nice guy types, so I can give you a general overview of my experience: that guy I knew who was nice, but he had no confidence around women, so while he was generally ok to be around with as one of the guys, he refused to get out of his comfort zone and would either ignore or be abrupt when girls were around. Then he would moan to us about how his crush never noticed him. another guy I knew was fine around other guys but when he was around girls he would start using cheesy …	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/11/22 04:59 PM
2	Relationship with the " Bad boy " is labeled as toxic only cause the woman invest more in the relationship I’m in a similar situation in that I am on the spectrum and queer, my mom was horribly abusive even though my dad was awesome (he is likely undiagnosed autistic too), and my partner choice as well as my own personality was heavily influenced by not wanting a partner like her or behaving poorly to my partner.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/11/22 07:46 PM
1	Relationship with the " Bad boy " is labeled as toxic only cause the woman invest more in the relationship Are you also neurodivergent? Folks who are tend to be much less likely to fall into the abuse = normal due to sensory processing needs. It can often lead to being relationship avoidant or actively searching for the opposite.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/11/22 06:39 PM
8	If you could change genders, would you do it? So what happens when you age and you have no work experience and your spouse trades you for another young woman?	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/11/22 05:11 PM
7	If you could change genders, would you do it? This is often outside of competition for jobs. I’ve seen my female coworkers often talked over or have others discount their ideas in meetings even if they had a point and it seems pretty targeted. I’m still not sure if it’s just their ego and unconscious or intentional. Luckily I see less of this with younger men, but it depends on how strong the “good old boy” culture is.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/11/22 05:10 PM
4	Relationship with the " Bad boy " is labeled as toxic only cause the woman invest more in the relationship I honestly think some of it is a trauma response and some of it is an impulsivity response (ADHD is extremely underdiagnised in women and makes impulse control even harder). A lot of these people also grew up with an abusive male figure in their life, often a dad or step dad. When someone models a “normal” behavior, people tend to seek that out. Without therapy and introspection, it can be hard to sort the trauma from desire	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/11/22 04:45 PM
8	Relationship with the " Bad boy " is labeled as toxic only cause the woman invest more in the relationship It’s so funny that the dudes going on about wanting a virgin trad wife also hold this belief which seems to imply that he wishes to use her until she has faded in looks and dump her for another virgin trad wife. That sounds rather sociopathic to me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/11/22 04:42 PM
5	Relationship with the " Bad boy " is labeled as toxic only cause the woman invest more in the relationship I think most women would rather be single forever if this was the type of man they had to choose from.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/11/22 04:39 PM
1	It’s male projection that women will at least EVENTUALLY want to settle down with an Average Adam eventually. No relationship IS better than a bad or monotonous relationship, this cannot be stressed enough If you are boring and also have repulsive personality or behavior issues, people won’t stick around.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/11/22 04:44 AM
6	CMV: Statistical average don't mean jack shit when you're a man, perceived average is what matters Having a relationship with someone who goes to the gym and has a job doesn’t mean someone who shares your interests and lifestyle plan is just going to show up. You gotta do the work to get out there to find compatible. Your stats don’t mean jack shit if you aren’t going out there and making an effort to find someone you want who wants you back. Mutual interest is more important than showing up and seeming to expect that it will work like some kind of aphrodisiac to nearby women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/11/22 04:35 AM
4	casual sex isn't as fun as I thought Tbh, that’s valid.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/11/22 04:16 AM
4	casual sex isn't as fun as I thought Do you have deathgrip? Maybe you’re ace?	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/11/22 04:10 AM
2	What does Average Adam have to offer for ANYONE You are a self fulfilling prophecy. Nothing is keeping anyone from pursuing passions and hobbies they love so they can meet others who enjoy the same things, and some of those people are potential partners! If you look for reasons to fail, to make your failures inevitable and predetermined, then you’re either a high risk for something like depression or adhd (look up rejection sensitive dysphoria), or you haven’t spent enough time getting to know your own nature enough and something is subconsci…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/11/22 04:04 AM
1	What does Average Adam have to offer for ANYONE I’m reminded of Connecticut Clark and Melfina.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/11/22 03:55 AM
1	A woman’s past is important for men in the same way that a man’s height is important to women A lot of misogynistic men want to fuck a lot of women who haven’t had any sex because young, inexperienced women have no frame of reference on what good sex looks like and are more likely to blame themselves rather than selfish lovers for their lack of pleasure. They also tend to not want to fuck someone who has ever fucked another penis because they apparently believe in the fiction about penises making vaginas loose or potentially it’s some ridiculous extension of homophobia. Essentially, men …	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/11/22 02:27 AM
1	A woman’s past is important for men in the same way that a man’s height is important to women The problem is that a lot of guys don’t listen or don’t care to get better. I know far too many women who asked and asked and got no improvement.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/11/22 02:24 AM
1	How did your fathers example affect your dating life? My dad is pretty amazing but my mom totally sucks. Both taught me great lessons about what sort of person I want to be, but I think my grandmother probably outshone them both. She was the kind of person who always supported people but never judged. People sought her advice and she held together so many different personalities. I still have mad respect for her.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/11/22 08:27 AM
9	A woman’s past is important for men in the same way that a man’s height is important to women Honestly, I think that het women should have more partners because men are easy to please and het women need to value receiving sex that is satisfying for them. Too many of my female friends basically had sex they didn’t like or enjoy but accepted because of peer pressure or wanting to be a good girlfriend. The worst part is that men get it into their heads that they’re actually good at sex when their partner is merely accepting penetration to please them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/11/22 08:19 AM
1	Could you ever, or have you ever been attracted to someone who wasn’t your “type”? I’m sexually attracted to people by their innate scent and the sound of theirs voice. Other physical characteristics are less important. I don’t like codependent people or someone who forces me to rely on them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/11/22 08:13 AM
2	What’s your unpopular dating opinion that would get you crucified by this sub? Gotcha. You have limited to no understanding of human biology. Probably a good idea not to use your cock until you can actually read the instructions.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/11/22 07:39 AM
1	What’s your unpopular dating opinion that would get you crucified by this sub? Cocks don’t cause labor to start. It’s the chemical in semen. And there are suppositories that can do the same.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/11/22 06:20 AM
0	What’s your unpopular dating opinion that would get you crucified by this sub? What.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/11/22 06:03 AM
–	What’s your unpopular dating opinion that would get you crucified by this sub? Tbh, trans dudes don’t even have dicks most of the time, and they can still enjoy fucking.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/11/22 05:21 AM
–	What’s your unpopular dating opinion that would get you crucified by this sub? It’s important to have compatible genitals. Vaginal shape and size varies too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/11/22 05:16 AM
–	What’s your unpopular dating opinion that would get you crucified by this sub? A lot of you are looking for a status symbol to turn into a longterm relationship and not a partner who is actually compatible with who you are and this is why you are going to find yourself miserable in any longterm relationship unless you figure this shit out.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/11/22 05:13 AM
3	Your mother didn’t “lie” to you. Women didn’t lie to you. They genuinely thought they were telling you the truth….and that most girls were not they them Dude. You miss the point. The point is that most people who have pale skin in the US and are the descendants of immigrants got sweet ass deals three generations ago that allowed them to own land and build wealth with relatively little difficulty. Meanwhile you get shit like the burning of “black wallstreet” and redlining and planning highways and freeways through black communities. And that’s not even talking about the squatting on native land that was done by many now-prominent European immigra…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/11/22 05:10 AM
8	Your mother didn’t “lie” to you. Women didn’t lie to you. They genuinely thought they were telling you the truth….and that most girls were not they them That’s kinda racist but to be fair we live in a racist society and a man who passes as white (I’m guessing she means a man with pale skin, not a WASP), tends to have more social and economic opportunities simply due to how long pale skin dudes were and still are given preferential treatment as long as they don’t act like utter idiots. It really fucked me up to learn how many immigrant families from Europe built most of their middle class wealth in the Western US in the early 20th century by bein…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/22 06:45 PM
2	Fiction written by women for women proves The Red Pill I wonder if OP thinks that porn is based on real life too. That would explain a few things.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/11/22 06:40 PM
25	Fiction written by women for women proves The Red Pill Women who love stories with a violent and uber masculine man love those stories for the exact same reason why women love the Anne McCaffrey books about dragonriders. Or horse girls and their horses. Women do tend to live in a world where they are physically and economically at a disadvantage, and it gets worse the further back you go in time. The fantasy is that you live in a society full of monstrous creatures that have all the power that you’re supposed to marry and have children with, but act…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/11/22 06:36 PM
2	Women often complain about lack of male friendships and getting "fuckzoned". But the truth is, women generally just aren't as good of friends as men. If women are terrible friends to you, OP, you may consider how you choose your friends.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/11/22 05:39 AM
1	The decline in quality relationships is just a reflection of an increase in human freedom. Not necessarily a negative. I think that people who have more economic choices and reproductive control options will be less likely to just couple with the first person they shack up with. My understanding is the divorce rate is actually not increasing. It did temporarily increase once no-fault divorce was legalizes but flattened out after. Marriage rates also don’t track all manner of other relationships, or friendships. Our romantic partner really shouldn’t be our only source of societal connection. And the good news is …	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/11/22 03:01 AM
8	The same way we are slowly starting to change the expectation of young people and home ownership, should and will the expectations of the average man to find a relationship and have kids be tempered and brought up to date with modern realities? There’s a reason it’s called “late stage” capitalism. When the majority of wealth generation opportunities are only available to a very small number of people, and our systems are being held up by incestuous mega corporation conglomerates that are selling shit to subsections of themselves to create ever increasing profit indexes, it leads to a glut of over production of low quality tchotchkes that need incessant replacement by the masses when they aren’t being crushed and destroyed or dumped in …	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/11/22 06:17 PM
3	If a woman has to lower her standards for you to have a shot with her, the relationship you’ll have with her will be shaky at best To be fair, most guys will lower their standards for no strings attached sex if they are getting laid and they will compromise their standards for a longterm relationship with a woman who checks enough of the boxes they need. But that’s just life. If someone is hardcore settling for reasons that have nothing to do with the relationship (wanting to please parents, wanting to fit in), the relationship is in danger of failing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/11/22 08:27 AM
4	At least for heterosexuals, western society is going to become more sexually conservative, not less Tldr; porn is a problem if you think real life sex should look like porn.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/11/22 12:27 AM
3	Nevermind red flags, what's your biggest yellow flag? It was definitely a yellow flag back when I was a teenager. You had everything from the hardcore nerds to the socially experienced geeks. Anime is fun but anyone who only watches anime or has like a body pillow they sleep with religiously is red flag. I enjoy anime, but I’m not going to date anyone who is in love with an anime character.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/22 05:23 PM
1	At least for heterosexuals, western society is going to become more sexually conservative, not less Are you on the spectrum like me?	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/22 05:15 PM
1	At least for heterosexuals, western society is going to become more sexually conservative, not less Most of these younger men you speak of tend to be looking to date women younger than they are, though. I remember being squicked out by the number of guys I met in college who specifically refused to date girls their age. Like being older than 21 was some kind of death sentence.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/22 05:13 PM
15	At least for heterosexuals, western society is going to become more sexually conservative, not less I mean, I think that the main issues with porn are that a lot of young people look at unrealistic depictions of sex and draw their conclusions that it is what sex should be like. A lot of porn sex is uncomfortable irl but is done that way to look good on video. You can say the same for things like romance movies and books. Most of those things would be a horror story if done in real life. Having unrealistic expectations and not communicating openly during sex is a great way to train your partner…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/22 05:07 PM
2	At least for heterosexuals, western society is going to become more sexually conservative, not less If you only want to fuck heterosexual women, then those that fit that category will be increasingly conservative and religious about sex. I’ve come to the conclusion that I’m not interested in being with a full on het person ever again. All of them have been fucked up about sex due to religious beliefs or otherwise boring and selfish about giving pleasure. In the past, all the queer, pan, bi, etc people were forced by bigotry to hide themselves, and so the het community looked bigger. The truth …	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/22 04:56 PM
2	Do men love women more than women love men or do men just follow and get pushed into these ideals? Naw, I think you misunderstood me. Ideally both people should pull their weight without being codependent. If you can’t tagteam your partner to step in when you’re feeling shitty or know they won’t always make you deal with the worst chores, regardless of their gender, then they aren’t in a position where you can respect them. I make my own good money. I don’t want a fellow adult who does fuck all to be my sex pet and maid.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/22 04:50 PM
4	a lot of high value men did not work for it The biggest problem with coming from money is that it is generally not your money and you end up having to kowtow to your parents’ whims and can get cut off if you don’t adhere to their wishes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/22 04:58 AM
1	How do attractive women pick a man to commit to? Behavior is a good indicator	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/11/22 10:04 PM
1	How do attractive women pick a man to commit to? A lot of super hot women are aromantic so they’re not actually looking for relationships, especially if they’re also working in any sort of sex work industry.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/11/22 04:34 PM
3	Do men love women more than women love men or do men just follow and get pushed into these ideals? Haha, if there’s an apocalypse I’m probably going to die quickly because I won’t be able to get my meds lol.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/11/22 04:16 PM
18	Do men love women more than women love men or do men just follow and get pushed into these ideals? Men who say “I would die for you” often don’t expect to do any of the life things together. Won’t help ease the mental load of running the finances or household needs. The boring daily shit that no one wants to do but must be done. “I would die for you” is useless if there is a low chance that’s ever even going to come up. How about taking care of your body and getting to the doctor when something is wrong without making your partner do it for you? How about acting like a fully grown up man inst…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/11/22 04:12 PM
1	Women aren't looking for wealthy guys, they are looking for guys that splurge Dunno about you, but I think a lot of people love having their own money that they have control over. There will always be those who love being spoiled, and a lot of young women who aren’t earning much may be more desperate, but in general, it fucking sucks to be with someone who holds money over your head. You feel like a child who has to ask for an allowance, and that sucks if you’re an adult unless that is your kink.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/22 06:44 AM
2	By being a woman, you automatically possess a significant amount of social privilege. I feel like a lot of people hang onto the word “privilege” when they feel disadvantaged. There are different sorts, though. Privilege is often meant to mean “the assumptions others have about you without you saying anything.” It’s really easy when you are lonely and horny to feel like “everyone else” has it easier, but it’s also confirmation bias. You’re looking at a couple you don’t find attractive and assuming they have a perfect relationship. That every relationship is somehow perfect. But th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/22 04:46 AM
2	For all this talk of “the Wall”, I think in big cities (certainly London in my experience), men need to be alive to the fact that there are a lot of women out there who are totally fine with remaining single well into their thirties and potentially forever I was very careful not to place blame with the man not being communicated with. What I’m trying to say here is that if we wait for a woman who can’t communicate her needs well to suddenly communicate them explicitly, you’re more likely looking at a dead bedroom situation. A lot of people are so afraid of having awkward conversations with their sex partners that they’d rather just get more sex averse and avoidant until their partner breaks up with them so they don’t have to do it. And ok, if that…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/10/22 04:33 AM
6	For all this talk of “the Wall”, I think in big cities (certainly London in my experience), men need to be alive to the fact that there are a lot of women out there who are totally fine with remaining single well into their thirties and potentially forever I don’t honestly agree with that. Most sexual women I know (not ace or gray-ace) like sex and desire it regularly. But most of them end up sex repulsed with their partner after the novelty of new sex wears off because most people are bad at communicating what they like and female pleasure in heterosexual sex is rarely prioritized. A lot of women have been taught to fake it so lots of guys who think they’re good at sex are actually sub par. In my experience, if a woman is regularly begging off se…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/22 04:26 PM
3	Daily Community Chat Megathread Yes. Abortion the day before delivery is usually the same as a birth. I know several people who basically had to go through this because they had a stillborn situation. You’re talking about a surgical abortion that rips the fetus apart, and those kinds of situations rarely happen at all, but even if they did, I would much rather a doctor actually be the one who looks at the situation and decides what will work best instead of waiting for a judge to make a decision in a 9-5 world where the courts…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/22 02:42 AM
7	CMV, All relationships are transactional when you boil it down. I’m trying to understand why you commented but reciprocation is different than transactional. Transactional is: I give you money, you make a coffee for me Reciprocal is: we take care of each other, and what that means may look differently. If I stop giving money to the Starbucks barista, I don’t get my coffee. If I get sick and can’t fuck for a few days, I’m not getting dumped. Transactional relationships are, at their core, relatively shallow and quick to break if one side doesn’t hold up their…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/22 02:31 AM
1	CMV: Height matters A LOT to women I think we both know you already decided to make your mind up before you posted and only was looking for people to agree with you. I mean, because if someone without a penis and height can more easily find a relationship or sex than you can, surely it means that you’d have to deal with some more difficult things to change about who you are as a person instead? The fantasy of being tall is just like the fantasy of being thin. If you spend all your time fantasizing that your entire life will chang…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/22 02:27 AM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread It is a separate being. But it can’t live outside the body on its own and has no right to usurp the host’s bodily autonomy. If you wanna argue people don’t have a right to bodily autonomy, I’m sure you’re going to love when they start trying to argue you don’t have a right to your kidney or lung or half your liver, right? After all, there’s kids out there who need them. Saddling an irresponsible person who doesn’t want a kid with a child is the prime way you get traumatized kids and abuse. A lot…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/22 02:09 AM
5	Daily Community Chat Megathread Most laws like this require you to actually accuse someone of rape and press charges, which often takes long enough that it’s past the super short period of time they allow for abortions. Often, you’d literally have to make the appointment before you knew you were pregnant. It’s not reasonable and it’s literally not how any other medical procedure is done. Most people have a fundamental misunderstanding of most medical stuff, and I don’t think anyone in politics should be able to make a legal de…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/22 02:02 AM
2	Women are not wrong in saying that the average guy is an undateable mess. The mistake they make is believing that the average woman is not. Average, schmaverage. Figure out what you like in your life, what kind of lifestyle you wanna live, and what kind of personality traits you want in your partners, short term or long term. The most important thing is to build your actual confidence rather than showboating and puffing yourself up. If you know how to take care of yourself and you can choose a partner, you’re less likely to fall into a codependent hellscape relationship.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/22 01:54 AM
1	CMV: Height matters A LOT to women They are men and often pass as shorter cis men. I live in a liberal area and know a bunch of them. They have more game than most cis dudes I know.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/22 01:50 AM
2	If you want women to give more nice guys a chance, won’t that get expensive for women who split the bill? Don’t need to go to places that cost money if you wanna get to know each other. Walks by the lake or going to the park or even hanging out to watch a movie with some friends shouldn’t cost much or anything.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/22 01:48 AM
1	CMV: Height matters A LOT to women Dunno about that. I know lots of short trans (who tend to be shorter than cis dudes in general) dudes who have no trouble getting into relationships or finding cute people to date. Thing is, most of them tend to be interesting people with developed hobbies and interests, so honestly I think that’s more likely going to be the cause.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/22 01:08 AM
4	Most promiscuous people outgrow it I think that promiscuity is often tied to how safe a person feels to be promiscuous. It also takes a lot of energy. As you get older, sex becomes less of a shiny new thing, especially if you find a specific partner who knows what you like and vice versa. It’s easier to get fun sex toys and such as well for self pleasure. Being really active in the dating world or being polyamorous etc takes lots of hours out of your day. Might be easier if you don’t have children or pets or hobbies. Not a lot of…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/22 01:02 AM
8	CMV, All relationships are transactional when you boil it down. I think that it’s less transactional, than it is an expectation of equal levels of energy or interest. What’s transactional is when someone is like “here’s a gift, now where’s my blowjob?” The worst kind of transactional thinking is the covert contract, wherein one person believes if they do something nice without telling the other person, that the other person will reciprocate in a specific manner without any other input. Any kind of healthy relationship, be it platonic, sexual, or anything in …	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/22 12:54 AM