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Outer Game nycthrow99999/r/seduction28/02/22 04:32 PM
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Has being unhappy done it for you?
/r/seduction02/11/22 07:04 AM
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You should broach the subject in person, ideally when you’re just hanging around. My girl did this with me a few months ago. Her approach was to say something like: so I really haven’t been interested in anyone else at all since we started talking, and I don’t see that changing… is that how you’re feeling too? Something short and light like that should be enough to get the conversation going. Good luck and I hope he says he’s super into you and was hoping you’d ask (which was my response lol).
/r/seduction01/11/22 02:32 PM
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I admittedly did not read all of this. That being said, going to college is worlds more important than some high school relationship. It’s not a question of her interest, it’s a question of her intelligence.
/r/seduction31/10/22 10:35 PM
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It’s absolutely not okay, which is why it’s critical that you use your boner hiding apparatus. In case you don’t know, you stick a tampon up your ass and tie the string around your dick. That way, if you get hard, you can rest assured it won’t be visible and no one will know. Best of luck!
/r/seduction31/10/22 03:57 PM
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Me? I have a gf lol
/r/seduction31/10/22 04:14 AM
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They’re American companies, started by Americans, owned by Americans. Probably hosted on American servers.
/r/seduction30/10/22 02:41 AM
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Could you tell us a little bit about yourself? Describe your appearance/race/education level/career?
/r/seduction29/10/22 11:40 PM
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I think there are a lot of ways to generate interest. Maintaining some mystery is one way, but I think people in serious relationships are better served by truly knowing each other (understanding of course that everyone has some secrets). I maintain interest by staying funny, trying/doing new things, and keeping myself physically attractive. I think being funny is often overlooked — constantly laughing together can be the foundation of an amazing relationship.
/r/seduction29/10/22 10:12 PM
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Lol fair point, I just assumed this was super serious stuff
/r/seduction29/10/22 09:38 PM
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Not on its own, but it’s certainly part of the overall evaluation.
/r/seduction29/10/22 08:54 PM
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Nah, disagree here. If you’re in a serious relationship and you want it to be strong, you have to know each other. Ton of value there If it’s just something short term/not serious, then I agree with this. And at any rate, it’s good advice for the early phases of anything.
/r/seduction29/10/22 07:09 PM
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This is an American website lol
/r/seduction29/10/22 06:54 PM
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Try not to worry too much, your anxiety could drive her away. Relationships inevitably become boring. Some basic tips: Plan a date, something new at least 2 to 4 times a month. Always being trying new sex positions/kinks Learn how to give her multiple orgasms if you’re not already doing that. Stand your ground and don’t comply to everything she says or asks for. Call her out on her bullshit Constantly be improving yourself. Stay fit, advance your career/income and generally try to become a bette…
/r/seduction29/10/22 06:52 PM
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No, it’s excellent advice. If you want more specific instructions on how to be witty, you’ll have to prepare a more specific question. Set the stage and describe the circumstances. Be detailed. Also, I don’t need a list of rejections to identify a pattern. The common denominator is you. You’re annoying, negative, needy, and obtuse. You ask for help and instead of being grateful to receive it, are rude. Again, that’s because you can only win by losing.
/r/seduction29/10/22 02:55 PM
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Appreciate that.
/r/seduction29/10/22 02:51 PM
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Yeah, I’m not trying to be cocky or arrogant or anything, but I’m objectively high value. I’m in great shape, I’m an attorney at one of the top firms in the world making about $500k at 33, come from an awesome family that has a ton of money. I’m funny and know how to talk to people. Physically I personally think my looks are pretty average and my hair is definitely thinning and my ears are pretty big lol but you can’t win them all. Plus I’m 6’1 and I have a big dick. I know this makes me sound l…
/r/seduction29/10/22 02:19 PM
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Also works in most cases, but I don’t think honesty is the answer if you want to portray an abundance mindset without any actual abundance.
/r/seduction29/10/22 01:46 PM
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The vagueness of the response is commensurate with the vagueness of the question. You’re literally just asking how to be witty. You’re projecting your shortcomings as a person onto the advice you poorly requested. You’re the kind of person who can only win by losing.
/r/seduction29/10/22 04:27 AM
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I’m pretty introspective as well. You have to turn that part off and just keep your eye on the prize.
/r/seduction29/10/22 02:07 AM
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No, it’s good advice. You’re just bad at taking concepts in the abstract and then applying them to specific circumstances. There’s no such thing as a personal tutorial.
/r/seduction29/10/22 02:06 AM
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I’m really not sure how you expect me to answer that in a vacuum. It’s like asking me to describe a movie I haven’t seen yet. It’s so nuanced and contextual and fact sensitive.
/r/seduction29/10/22 12:08 AM
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You’re observing everything - the environment and her. You can do both.
/r/seduction28/10/22 11:50 PM
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I really can’t think of any other way to say it. You just have to understand the mindset and then put yourself in it, ignoring that it’s not true.
/r/seduction28/10/22 11:48 PM
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You think of what you or she would find fun or entertaining and then you do that thing. You observe what’s around you and have a funny thought and then vocalize it.
/r/seduction28/10/22 10:12 PM
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You make things light and entertaining. You observe things, either environmental or with respect to her/something she says, and make witty, unexpected comments. You suggest fun and entertaining things to do.
/r/seduction28/10/22 08:58 PM
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Great response. The ability to amuse yourself is huge and I never even realized that.
/r/seduction28/10/22 08:54 PM
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This is going to sound shallow, but it’s the honest answer: fake it til you make it.
/r/seduction28/10/22 08:52 PM
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Much appreciated, and best of luck!
/r/seduction28/10/22 08:51 PM
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Awesome stuff. Would never be able to wrap my head around any of that lol In my experience, the best has been through high value social circles. The girl I’m currently dating is the friend of a law school friend.
/r/seduction28/10/22 08:48 PM
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This is a good question. In my experience, I’ve met high quality women through the social circles that I’m a part of due to my own high value. For example, law school friends, colleagues, etc. Also older cousins who are high value men and have married high value women, who in turn have friends, cousins, etc. I’ve had some luck with dating apps, but you really have to parse through matches to find equivalent value. Just out of curiosity, tell us a little about your investments and business? Alway…
/r/seduction28/10/22 08:44 PM
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Agree with this. Especially that if she’s interested in you, she’ll put herself near you. And find reasons to touch you.
/r/seduction28/10/22 07:05 PM
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Women want to best, strongest mate possible. As do men. That’s a good thing.
/r/seduction28/10/22 02:46 PM
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I originally came here because I emphatically agree with your post title: shit test are a creature of men’s minds. In reality, it’s just typical banter. Laugh, be witty, don’t take it seriously, give it back. That’s all there is to it, and that’s for all interpersonal interaction, not just flirting (although banter is obviously more prevalent in flirting). But the body of your post is wild lol. Women aren’t mean or horrible or despicable. They’re just people. Some are bad, but not at any greater…
/r/seduction28/10/22 01:58 PM
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Please see a doctor Lmao
/r/seduction28/10/22 01:30 PM
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Yeah, I’m sorry to hear that. That’s rough.
/r/seduction28/10/22 12:55 PM
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If she said that to me after the first date, I’d just say I’m still getting to know her and imply I’m not sure I even like her like that. In practice, though, I’ve never had someone say that after not making a move on the first date.
/r/seduction28/10/22 11:23 AM
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Lol any particular reason you don’t? I have a hard time seeing how I’d be compatible with a partner who didn’t. It’s kind of a nice thing to do on a Saturday night. Dinner and drinks.
/r/seduction28/10/22 04:52 AM
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It happens, dude. Another time, you’ll be the one banging the intern and the other guy will be pissed about it. Probably very little to do with you; if you lived at a different train stop it might have been you. All good to feel bad about it, but don’t let it get you down. You’ll get it next time, or the time after. That being said, your coworker is kind of a cocksucker. Just keep that in mind.
/r/seduction28/10/22 03:05 AM
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I’m honestly not sure. Haven’t been in that situation. I suppose the alternative is coffee, but personally Idt I’d date a girl who doesn’t drink.
/r/seduction28/10/22 02:46 AM
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Yes, totally agree. Dinner/activities get you locked in with no escape.
/r/seduction27/10/22 08:53 PM
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Ya, excellent question. I feel it out. I’m in a relationship now, but when I was single I generally kept to a pattern: first date, nothing physical aside from the general kind of touching that’s reasonable under the circumstances. Second date, make out, typically at the end. Third date, bang. In my mind, the first date is to get a feel as to whether I’m really interested/there’s something there. As a bonus, not making any moves on the first date tends to really drive them crazy, like they can’t …
/r/seduction27/10/22 08:35 PM
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I exclusively do drinks. Pick a very cool/trendy bar. And use a location close to other bars so you can bounce around if you hit it off. Dinners are too formal, uneconomic, and require too much of a time commitment. Activities are kind of lame imo. I’m the star of the show; I’m showing myself off. I’m also getting to know her. Activities are a distraction at worse and a crutch at best. Not a bad idea for a second or third date, but I think the only moves for date one is drinks.
/r/seduction27/10/22 07:31 PM
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Dude what are you even talking about? I just stepped out for lunch and saw this chick blabbing away on the phone (sounded like some low stakes shit about lab results; girls, right?). I snatched that shit out of her hand and spiked it on the sidewalk into an explosion of glass; she was immediately soaked. I sealed the deal with a smooth one liner: “you can continue that call later, m’lady, the man of your dreams has arrived.” She immediately got on her knees and started sucking me. Three other gi…
/r/seduction27/10/22 05:02 PM
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“If she’s on the phone, talk over it and indicate for her to put it down and call them back - she could be talking to the man of her dreams, after all.” Autism: the Reddit comment. Please no one ever do this lmao
/r/seduction27/10/22 12:31 PM
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I don’t think you’re doing that. I think she lied to you.
/r/seduction26/10/22 09:27 PM
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They were dating and living together. They were absolutely fucking dude
/r/seduction26/10/22 08:57 PM
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Yeah lol she was actually really hot
/r/seduction26/10/22 11:56 AM
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This is the answer. Look for girls that fit the bill and go talk to them.
/r/seduction26/10/22 04:07 AM
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Don’t try to find a book on this. The goal is to be witty. You have to be quick and on point.
/r/seduction25/10/22 08:56 PM
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I’m 33. You’re good dude, I promise. Don’t think of things in terms of “approach” or “game.” Just think of it in terms of talking to people. Could be anywhere. I banged a girl I was on jury duty with earlier this year lol
/r/seduction25/10/22 08:52 PM
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Drinks. Always drinks for a first date. At a very cool, trendy bar. And that bar should be walking distance to other bars in case you hit it off and want to bounce around.
/r/seduction24/10/22 06:31 PM
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I can’t see your post, only the title. But I do agree with the title. Having a sister can definitely help with women, assuming you’re close with her.
/r/seduction14/10/22 02:12 PM
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Lmao exactly what I was going for
/r/seduction13/10/22 05:52 PM
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“How about we Van Gogh somewhere with a little more privacy?” “I’m not sure if you like successful guys, but you should check out my bank account; I’ve got a ton of Monet.” “I dabble in art myself but don’t worry, I’m not sketchy.” “If you tell people I forced myself on you I’ll say I’m like these paintings: framed.” “You’ll love having me on top of you, I’ve got a ton of experience to draw from.” “I bet I can get you in bed easel-y.” “Don’t mind me, I’m just your typical pickup artist.” “We can…
/r/seduction13/10/22 02:56 PM
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Lol no, this isn’t true. OP, don’t listen to this guy.
/r/seduction12/10/22 07:03 PM
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This comment isn’t meant to sound rude. But I promise no one is “intimidated by your ambition.” And I say this as someone who is truly ambitious and successful. It’s more likely that you come across as egotistical, annoying, and a little immature. Also, the third best university in the world is not located in Paris lol
/r/seduction12/10/22 03:41 PM
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This is well written and accurate. I think a lot of people in this forum would benefit from reading this (maybe a couple of times).
/r/seduction12/10/22 03:14 PM
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Lol wonder if we’ll be hearing from this guy again
/r/seduction12/10/22 03:00 PM
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People are missing the point of this comment. It’s not that you can’t learn and change; you certainly can. It’s to consider the motivation of such learning and changing. If it’s because you want to, awesome. If it’s because you want to imitate or mimic someone else in hopes of enjoying the same level of success, it will never be more than a facade. It has to come from within, not a desire to be someone else.
/r/seduction12/10/22 02:58 PM
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Lmao you’re way too easy to rattle; take the L dude. Go to work or something
/r/seduction12/10/22 06:50 AM
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https://imgur.com/a/voeBtGh 😱🤮😂
/r/seduction12/10/22 06:20 AM
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No lol they won’t ask you either; it’s not creative or funny.
/r/seduction12/10/22 04:43 AM
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Just curious, what gives you the impression that I “mass cold approach”?
/r/seduction12/10/22 01:02 AM
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You are one of the most naive people on the internet lmao
/r/seduction11/10/22 07:49 PM
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Confidence is attractive. Neediness is unattractive. When you’re just being yourself, you’re more confident. When you’re trying to make a good impression, you come across as needy. That’s why. It says a lot about you that you sat down, engaged in introspection, and came to this realization. You should def keep doing that. Try to get into a mindset of genuinely not caring. Just be chill and confident and I bet you’ll see more success.
/r/seduction11/10/22 06:24 PM
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Just curious, are you basing that off of your deep, robust relationship with OP? You might be right. But you also might be wrong. It’s not worth the risk to some random girl out there that some deranged pervert who’s sickened by his own dick is gonna attack her to get off on her tears. OP should neck himself asap.
/r/seduction11/10/22 06:18 PM
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You’re disgusted by genitals and sex. And you’re turned on by crying women. Honestly just off yourself dude. You’re a tragedy waiting to happen.
/r/seduction11/10/22 05:48 PM
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Obviously it depends on the person, but I think you’re fine. I’ve said this to girls I’ve really liked before, and it usually means there’s potential for a good relationship. I’m super close with my sister. Take it as a good sign and see what happens.
/r/seduction11/10/22 05:45 PM
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I would try hitting her up one more time. Like: “hey, thinking X place around Y time. Lmk if that works for you” If she doesn’t answer, just leave it. If she does, move forward and don’t even mention this situation.
/r/seduction10/10/22 10:06 PM
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Lol here’s a useful post: if your Instagram name is the same as your Reddit name, the (few) girls you’re hanging out with are below average at best. Also, where are your eyebrows lmao
/r/seduction10/10/22 02:54 PM
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“I’ve slept with and had long term relationships with many girls” Lmao please dude save some pussy for the rest of us! Seriously, though. You’re getting this upset over a stranger on the internet saying he doesn’t get tested by women the same way you do and using the word “witty.” No wonder women fuck with you lmao you’re so easily triggered. People see you and immediately know they can fuck with you to get a reaction. It comes across as super weak and reeks of insecurity/zero masculinity. You c…
/r/seduction10/10/22 12:01 PM
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Lmao it’s absurd how cringey this is getting dude. Ya, I’ve hooked up with chicks off of Reddit before lmao. And the apps. And I’ve got a girl I met irl sitting on my couch rn (I’m taking a quick shit). You sound like an incel, and that’s not a term I use often. Not every girl is secretly testing you to see if you’re worthy of pussy. They’re just normal people who enjoy normal banter. But to the extent they are testing you, again, it’s because they can smell potential inferiority from a mile awa…
/r/seduction10/10/22 02:31 AM
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Girls, at their core, want a guy who is strong. They probably test you more than me because they sense weakness. I’m not saying this to be a jerk; it’s just an honest observation. You probably some across as somewhat high value, but not quite. I doubt we’re on the same levels irl lmao And literally most people I know use the terms “witty” and “banter” often — expand your social circles dude.
/r/seduction09/10/22 11:11 PM
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Agreed - I’d be surprised if this actually happened irl more than like 2% of the time. I’d wager most guys never experience anything even close to this.
/r/seduction09/10/22 07:08 PM
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Lmao dude I honestly couldn’t care less what you think of me. I have a feeling you’re pretty young and possibly a virgin? Low brow because you think people who use the term “witty” are weird. No one is testing you, dude. It’s just normal human interaction, which often includes banter. You need to relax and just get laid like a normal person.
/r/seduction09/10/22 03:54 PM
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Lol it sounds like you run with a pretty lowbrow crowd, then. Never met anyone who was weirder than average just because they used to word “witty.” And idk, the one sleeping next to me rn is def pretty into me. And prob like an 8 realistically. I watched one of the videos posted here; seems like “shit test” is just a dramatic take on banter. Pretty shitty takes all around, dude lmao
/r/seduction09/10/22 03:10 PM
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I think you should have been a little more apologetic given you weren’t preemptive.
/r/seduction09/10/22 02:39 AM
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Curious to know the exact words you said.
/r/seduction09/10/22 01:47 AM
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Looked kinda tan to me.
/r/seduction08/10/22 11:59 AM
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Chinese?
/r/seduction08/10/22 03:06 AM
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I’m sorry lol but I have no idea what that means.
/r/seduction08/10/22 01:55 AM
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What is your race?
/r/seduction08/10/22 12:51 AM
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>Pretend you’re the girl in this story >Wouldn’t you just think you made a nice new friend? As a girl, yes. But as a guy, I would be just another orbiter, which is unfair to me. >I could be wrong, you could bang her, but even then that’s a messy situation I wouldn’t want to get involved in Agree >Also, I’m confused as to how any real “feelings” could exist given the extremely limited interaction. This is something even I'm struggling to understand with. At what point of time does one know whethe…
/r/seduction07/10/22 06:43 PM
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Pretend you’re the girl in this story. You met some guy who was nice, discussed common interests, and the tone remained relatively stable after noting you have a bf. Wouldn’t you just think you made a nice new friend? That’s likely all she sees it as. I could be wrong, you could bang her, but even then that’s a messy situation I wouldn’t want to get involved in. Answers to your questions below: 1- I wouldn’t tell her at all given what I said above. Also, I’m confused as to how any real “feelings…
/r/seduction07/10/22 06:20 PM
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Lol I mean I’ve fucked girls from Reddit, but this one is from a mutual friend. And that’s fair, maybe he’ll approach you!
/r/seduction07/10/22 04:58 PM
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Lmao just messing around; kind of seeing someone. But you should talk to him! Just say you’ve noticed him there a few times before so figured you’d say hi.
/r/seduction07/10/22 04:51 PM
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I thought this might be about me until you mentioned his round, firm buttocks. Just out of curiosity, what gym? At any rate, you should say hi. Kind of a stigma against guys hitting on girls at the gym, so no issue if you initiate.
/r/seduction07/10/22 04:30 PM
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This happens sometimes, but I wouldn’t say it’s very common. More often than not, it’s probably due to something the guy did to turn her off. Side note: stop calling girls “females.” Sends a bad vibe.
/r/seduction07/10/22 04:13 PM
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Lmao wtf kind of analysis is this? OP, this guy is trying to fuck you with 2021 numbers calculated using unaudited data. The 2022 audited success rate, calculated pursuant to GAAP principles and weighted for geographical location, dick size, and the performance of the S&P 500, is 91.8%. Don’t listen to this hack.
/r/seduction07/10/22 04:00 PM
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Not surprised. I’m also 33, recently started dating a girl who is 31. She’d roll her eyes if I did that, and I’d feel like a moron.
/r/seduction07/10/22 03:16 PM
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This is pretty solid advice. You already have the in with the shared interest; ask her out. If she says yes, just play it cool. Have fun and try to be witty and lighthearted. I know this feels like a big deal but I promise it’s not. I promise when you’re 33 you won’t even remember this girl. That doesn’t mean don’t have fun and try now, it just means don’t sweat it. If she says no, you’ll be a little sad but you’ll get over it. But respect the no. Be cool about it and don’t chase her. Say hi whe…
/r/seduction07/10/22 04:34 AM
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This was a pretty cringey exchange to read, starting with “ma dear” lmao
/r/seduction07/10/22 01:42 AM
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What does that even mean, you wouldn’t have any idea what you were doing? It’s sex. What’s your ideal scenario here? To have sex before having sex for the first time? Have you ever fastened a seatbelt? Congrats, you know how to have sex.
/r/seduction07/10/22 01:24 AM
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I’m gonna be honest here. I’m 33. I’ve heard about “shit tests” all my life. I might be ignorant, but it has never happened to me. And if it did, I’d probably think the girl is a little weird. Just engage in banter. Be witty.
/r/seduction07/10/22 01:18 AM
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I’m having a hard time understanding what I just read. Your first example will generally fall flat and get little more than an eye roll from a normal, mature girl. Especially if you’re in a relationship. Your second example is to hang out with friends and then hit her up later and tell her about it. Woahhhhh wild rollercoaster dude! What’s next, stop texting your gf so much while you’re at work all day and maybe ask her how her day is going while you’re having lunch? Fucking exhilarating.
/r/seduction07/10/22 01:13 AM
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Let me get in on some side action. Betting $100 his results improve with OP’s touch ups.
/r/seduction07/10/22 01:04 AM
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Okay then yes I get that. I was just being pedantic lol
/r/seduction07/10/22 12:57 AM
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Again, don’t disagree with any of that. But the top 5% of anything can’t contain “most guys.”
/r/seduction07/10/22 12:49 AM
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It’s literally one example. I’ve hooked up with so many girls who were friends of friends or their gf’s; friends of cousins, etc. Even friends of girls I tried to hook up with but rejected me. This isn’t some kind of special game lol it’s human nature.
/r/seduction07/10/22 12:47 AM
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I don’t disagree with the post except the statement that “most guys” can become part of the top 5% of dating profiles. Only 5% of guys can achieve that.
/r/seduction07/10/22 12:34 AM
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Met a gf through social circles. Good friend from law school got married. His wife had a friend who was into me. That’s how these things play out.
/r/seduction07/10/22 12:31 AM
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Lmao
/r/seduction07/10/22 12:30 AM
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