nyctrancefan Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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3	The Confidence Hack You’ve Never Heard Of you could cross the street today, get hit by a double decker bus and die/become a paraplegic. what's your point?	/r/seduction	29/03/25 06:06 PM
1	Simple but Weird Technique to Stop Putting Girls On a Pedestal No I get it. I was like that for a while and still am for certain things. I really recommend reading James Clear's book - Atomic Habits. It helped me a lot.	/r/seduction	18/02/25 10:51 PM
2	Simple but Weird Technique to Stop Putting Girls On a Pedestal Thanks bro I'm really trying but it's tough. Always a voice in my head telling me I'm not good enough, which ironically has brought me to where I am which I (if I consider it "rationally" is pretty good). I guess I need to start fighting or at least non-judgementally observing that voice in my head.	/r/seduction	18/02/25 05:12 PM
1	Simple but Weird Technique to Stop Putting Girls On a Pedestal I'm sorry that you're struggling with that. Do you want to make changes? If so I suggest starting small, like really small. Maybe one or five minutes of exercise per day in the beginning.	/r/seduction	18/02/25 05:11 PM
1	Simple but Weird Technique to Stop Putting Girls On a Pedestal what is your daily routine like?	/r/seduction	18/02/25 05:38 AM
3	Simple but Weird Technique to Stop Putting Girls On a Pedestal what if I've done a lot on paper but still don't feel good enough? I enjoy all my hobbies and whatnot and feel capable but every time I do something I always have a mental feeling of "that wasn't good enough here's what needs to be fixed" and never - I'm proud of you for doing that.	/r/seduction	18/02/25 05:37 AM
1	Total conviction that you are attractive i totally agree with you 100% - thank you for the great reply.	/r/seduction	03/01/25 06:37 AM
1	Total conviction that you are attractive tbh i have difficulty reframing things this way. For example, even if I feel attractive and confident, part of me says "oh - this girl will find me unattractive because I'm not her type (e.g. some white frat dude or whatever the type my minds invents is) and I shouldn't approach". So my mind comes up with some excuse. So instead, I try to be more outcome independent. I try my best to go into the interaction with the intention of self-amusement, and helping the other person have a good time. If I…	/r/seduction	02/01/25 02:50 AM
3	The Mindset That Attracts Women Instantly outcome independence the goal in every interaction should be self-amusement. nothing else.	/r/seduction	27/12/24 04:02 AM
1	People just want to be more Efficient meh, this feels a little reductionist. a lot of people still go out to have fun, not everything in human affairs is the solution to an optimization problem (despite what the economists might wish).	/r/seduction	25/12/24 06:10 AM
3	Biggest Turn Off For Women (And How To Get Rid Of It) how to have loads of options???	/r/seduction	03/11/24 06:37 AM
1	If you struggle with self-confidence and self-love, try starting a success journal How do you not dismiss "successes" as "ah that's something I should be doing anyways"? How do you force yourself to draw a line?\	/r/seduction	31/08/24 03:23 AM
1	"Just be yourself" Do you have actionable exercises/techniques i could practice daily for this	/r/seduction	29/08/24 01:17 AM
1	How to get friends with benefits / casual hooks ups in big city as an average at best guy Its a numbers game for all guys not just average ones. For some the odds are slightly better it worse.	/r/seduction	27/08/24 04:12 AM
5	100% success rate from cold approach didn't realize this until i started getting numbers consistently it's totally meaningless lmao.	/r/seduction	06/07/24 03:44 PM
3	The Secret Solution To 99% Of Your Dating Problems yeah that or maybe he wants to sell me a course. I appreciate his openly posting at least (even if it is an avenue to get me to sign up for something paid). The general message is solid.	/r/seduction	30/06/24 02:19 AM
10	The Secret Solution To 99% Of Your Dating Problems Any reason you can't just leave a comment here? I appreciate your help just asking.	/r/seduction	29/06/24 05:26 PM
2	The Secret Solution To 99% Of Your Dating Problems ok got it - thank you. Any techniques you know to truly internalize something like this? Like repeating it to yourself in the mirror?	/r/seduction	29/06/24 04:47 PM
11	The Secret Solution To 99% Of Your Dating Problems ok, so the fundamental question (Chicken and egg type): how to have an abundance mindset in times you don't have actual abundance? How to get abundance when you don't have abundance so you can get abundance?	/r/seduction	29/06/24 03:43 PM
-1	Don’t want to date someone I’m not attracted to, but I disqualify myself and deem myself unworthy of the ones I am attracted to, been fighting this forever. how can I fix this? more on the second paragraph?	/r/seduction	19/06/24 02:37 AM
3	How to approach and talk to girl in metro, Who's a 9 or 10? I've had great convos with people wearing headphones. Sometimes they just like listening to music (they're not wearing them to dissuade people from talking to them). Of course if they start putting their headphones back in as we are talking I'll slowly disengage.	/r/seduction	06/06/24 02:24 PM
2	Can’t stop thinking with my second head Based zero int ogre magi	/r/seduction	02/06/24 05:51 AM
3	Those of you who successfully faked it till they made it with confidence. How did you do it? What do you (you specifically or the generic you) do when you can't think of something indirect?	/r/seduction	30/05/24 02:59 PM
4	Would redditors benefit from a 15 minute conversation with an actual woman? Right now I'm a member of a weightlifting gym and compete (I'm not very good but I'm trying my best :D) I'm not sure where this is coming from though - you need to have a very good squat and pull to be a decent weightlifter. Lu Xiaojun can probably break all the (unequipped) IPF squat records in his class (ofc he's not your average weightlifter). Do you train in a commercial gym? Most weightlifters around me are serious and as a result pretty strong.	/r/seduction	19/07/22 03:04 AM
6	Would redditors benefit from a 15 minute conversation with an actual woman? I train 5 days a week olympic weightlifting	/r/seduction	18/07/22 10:55 PM
5	Would redditors benefit from a 15 minute conversation with an actual woman? But I have a ton of (male) friends. At least 15 or so with whom I hang out consistently.	/r/seduction	18/07/22 09:12 PM
1	I always see stuff about how guys are used as validation If an (attractive) stranger told me I was pretty and smart it would literally make my year	/r/seduction	13/07/22 03:43 PM
2	Cold Approach is Not For Everyone social hobbies just haven't worked for me honestly. Most likely I'm not taking enough initiative. Also I think cold approach doesn't need to be approached in a 0-100 way.	/r/seduction	07/07/22 09:38 PM
120	Social Proof (having friends about) is a night and day difference Having female friends is the key. Going out with lots of guys has consistently been a disaster for me.	/r/seduction	24/06/22 06:13 PM
4	Cold-approached and complimented a girl at the mall. What could I have done better? the best convos ive had are the ones where i didn't know the person's name at the end	/r/seduction	24/06/22 02:27 PM
7	The nerd's guide to approaching women Going from asking the time to asking how their day went seems like quite the leap honestly	/r/seduction	23/06/22 10:49 PM
0	How does vulnerability lead to non-neediness? I don't roll my eyes when a homeless person says nice shirt ... I say thank you, like I'd say to anyone else.	/r/seduction	08/06/22 08:57 PM
1	Why Do You Think You Don’t Deserve Someone? I just don't think I'm cool enough, or that I do enough. I see people on instagram going out to nice ass restaurants or partying every weekend, wearing sick clothes, and just overall being """cool""" (air quotes adde for a reason). And while I've definitely been trying to do more things like that, it just feels tough, and I always feel like I'm behind in some way or another.	/r/seduction	03/04/22 10:27 PM
2	I went out alone for the first time, and came off as a creep... >Let people approach you Bad advice imo.	/r/seduction	05/12/21 05:34 AM
2	What actually helped you overcome Approach Anxiety? I have more issues saying hi than asking for directions NGL.	/r/seduction	04/12/21 10:52 PM
1	How do I find friends who like going out? likewise!	/r/seduction	04/12/21 05:06 PM
8	How do I find friends who like going out? sup	/r/seduction	04/12/21 04:51 AM
4	How do I find friends who like going out? Sup bro	/r/seduction	04/12/21 04:51 AM
1	Having passions and hobbies is crucial for self-confidence. Don’t put women at the center of your universe What if I'm passionate about my work?	/r/seduction	04/12/21 04:51 AM
6	I don’t go out to bars much because I really don’t drink much and I hate dating apps - what do I do? How do I meet women? (28M). or drink seltzer water.	/r/seduction	14/11/21 02:03 AM
1	Any guys here who have gone from a kiss less virgin in their early 20s? Also where are you now with women? bro im from the US and im still in the same camp shits tough out here fam	/r/seduction	02/11/21 02:05 AM
8	Just Can't make myself cold approach This sort of advice will leave you a virgin forever unless you're super attractive. I've never ever had girls "communicate" with their eyes. If you don't take initiative and actually approach yourself you're doing yourself a disservice.	/r/seduction	21/10/21 07:18 PM
1	How Do I Meet More Fun And Young Single People? Well - I'm looking for friends!	/r/seduction	07/08/21 02:40 AM
2	How Do I Meet More Fun And Young Single People? nice NYC videos! Thanks for filming them.	/r/seduction	07/08/21 02:33 AM
1	How Do I Meet More Fun And Young Single People? I live in NYC and I am Young (23) Fun (I think?) Single (Male) I also work in finance but my hours aren't too bad!	/r/seduction	07/08/21 02:33 AM
1	Tips on how to meet younger people post college? Hey - I'm, 23, recent college grad and live in NYC! Would be happy to make a new friend.	/r/seduction	26/06/21 04:41 PM