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SELF IMPROVEMENTnymphelle/r/RedPillWomen07/05/18 04:52 PM
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Question For Mennymphelle/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/19 07:05 PM
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LTR/MARRIAGEnymphelle/r/RedPillWomen06/06/17 12:46 AM
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I'm talking about the woman being TOO MUCH. And yes, a man said this to me. I'm guessing that concept doesn't compute in your universe so have a nice day.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/19 05:36 PM
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Okay. Then getting on his dick and riding off into the sunset. Either way, you seem to be saying that the more active a woman is, the more interested the man is. However, I'm specifically talking about a situation where the man is less motivated sexually because the woman is constantly available.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/19 05:29 PM
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I'm not seeing your point. I specifically mean taking an active role during sex and not just lying back and waiting for something to happen. Either way you seem to have a preconceived notion that women are sexually passive.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/19 05:17 PM
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Touching grabbing him, rubbing him, showing how much she wants him Flirting "I miss your big cock" Asking for sex "Please fuck me daddy?" Coming up with things to try "Can I worship your cock tonight?"
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/19 05:11 PM
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In that case by "initiating" I mean touching, flirting, asking for sex, coming up with things to try, etc etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/19 04:57 PM
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Okay, can you be more specific? What work are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/19 04:44 PM
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Being sexually open, maybe somewhat sexually aggressive.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/19 04:33 PM
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Do you experience this when you're having sex with the same woman, or different woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/19 04:23 PM
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Just sex like usual.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/19 04:21 PM
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How would you explain the opposite situation- where the woman is constantly available/initiating, and the man experiences a decline in interest bc he doesn't get the chase?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/19 04:21 PM
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We met online. He's studying computer science at a different school
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/19 02:29 AM
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I wouldn't know. I'd imagine a mix of low self esteem, impulsiveness, and need for validation.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/19 09:52 PM
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I've never used it because it sounds fake. For the right guy, there's no such thing as too busy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/19 07:56 PM
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He convinced me to think he was always right, and always knew better bc he was so much older and wiser. He would rant about my flaws and insist that he understood me more than I did myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/19 07:22 PM
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I'm not incurring any debt. I go to a public university and live with my parents instead of paying for housing. My parents are very strict on education and I do well in academics, it's a win win.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/19 07:08 PM
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When I was 16 I had sex with a guy in his mid 20s. I consider that unethical because I was an actual child. At 18 I dated a guy in his 30s, and while the sex was consensual, he definitely manipulated me emotionally. Age gaps aren't inherently manipulative, but men go for very young women for a reason. They might be hotter, but they're also completely clueless and naive.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/19 06:58 PM
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I accept drinks from guys. And I let my boyfriend pay most of the time when we go out (though I add value in other ways). I'm doing a useless degree, and not planning to be the main breadwinner when I have a family. I eschew equality for the most part and don't see anything wrong with accepting these benefits.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/19 06:56 PM
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What about men who sleep with lots of fat chicks, cougars, and trashy bar girls? I know a guy like that, and he doesn't use condoms. I'd say that's pretty slutty.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/19 06:50 PM
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My argument was that plenty of decent guys have casual sex in their youth. Real men weren't at the rave. We were at school developing all of our other potentials while we watched women like you give it all away for nothing. We tried to warn you. We tried to love you. We tried to protect you. We we're willing to provide for you. I do believe you- but this attitude suggests otherwise. You seem to have some simultaneously pedestalized and animalistic view of women. What exactly was your debate? You…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/19 06:40 PM
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May be an unpopular opinion, but I think "man brained" women tend to have larger egos and be more resistant to the captain/first mate dynamic. The plus is that being more rational means you don't hamster as hard- as long as you can be truly objective with yourself. Personally, I've always had a more feminine personality. But after a year with a masculine man, I'm noticing I've become a lot more like him. I'm less sensitive, and more assertive and outspoken. I think the key is finding your unique…
/r/RedPillWomen08/05/19 07:24 AM
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Oh come on. "Real men" didn't fuck around because they were too busy respecting whamenz? You sound like a white knight. Maybe you weren't able to have casual sex in your youth but there are plenty of decent guys who do. This sounds like some kind of revenge fantasy from a guy who didn't go to parties in college.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/19 03:06 PM
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He told you he was very sexual before, picking up girls everywhere, doing bdsm, threesomes, etc., but now he has changed and just wants to settle down. This part throws it off. Isn't that exactly what people claim women are saying? There is no male equivalent because male value is not based on sexual experience like female value is. An attractive man with options is not less attractive because he chose to remain celibate. If he didn't choose, he's probably not that attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/19 02:30 PM
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His insecurity would be a major turnoff. The fact that he felt he needed to lie might be a dealbreaker. It seems like this question is supposed to be a "male equivalent" but it doesn't really translate- why would a man want to "settle down" by having less adventurous sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/19 06:11 AM
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I googled the fogging technique- curious about how that would be used in this case?
/r/RedPillWomen15/04/19 05:10 AM
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Not sure about your friend, but you sound incredibly snobby (about something as trivial as drinks, no less). Maybe he was just nervous or not experienced with dating. Either way, your post doesn't tell us enough about what went wrong there.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/19 03:44 AM
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Why get married if you're just going to divorce when things start getting difficult?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/19 03:43 PM
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I know I'm the best. My SO is also my best.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/19 06:44 PM
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It is generally pretty obvious if someone's juiced. Personally I find it gross and long-term bad for hormonal health.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/19 04:16 PM
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Men will sexualize an ankle lol. If a girl wants to wear something that won't be sexualized she'd better look into burqas.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/18 11:16 PM
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I'm not saying no girls show off on social media. That's ridiculous. I'm saying that girls don't wear normal, comfortable clothing for the sole purpose of getting sexual attention. Because brands and designers put them there? Do you think the average thot decides what kind of products end up in stores?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/18 11:09 PM
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Plenty of people criticized Kavanagh for his emotional display. Who do you think is "allowing" men and women to act a certain way?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/18 10:55 PM
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Most young women don't fully realize what effect their clothing has on men. No girl wears leggings and a tank top because she's trying to make anyone's dick hard. All the clothes you mentioned are made with stretchy spandex material that is more comfortable than stiff denim or cotton. The "hole" around the chest area is literally how women's shirts are made. Why would women be to blame for what's available in stores?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/18 10:52 PM
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Thanks these are great ideas!
/r/RedPillWomen09/05/18 04:40 PM
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Thank you! :)
/r/RedPillWomen07/05/18 08:02 PM
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That sounds a lot like what I'm looking for! What education or work experience would I need to get that kind of job?
/r/RedPillWomen07/05/18 06:33 PM
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I actually hadn't considered teaching, thank you! I will look into non-profits near me.
/r/RedPillWomen07/05/18 06:30 PM
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Thanks, those are good suggestions. Most public universities don't have contemporary music or songwriting degrees but I will probably change my major.
/r/RedPillWomen07/05/18 06:29 PM
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Honestly most Lana songs do, lol
/r/RedPillWomen02/04/18 12:50 AM
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You could join a creative writing class- writing would be a good outlet if you're a fantasy-prone person!
/r/RedPillWomen28/02/18 05:06 PM
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I don't think it's wise to advise a girl that young to start a relationship with a man in his 30s or 40s. Statistically, couples with large age gaps are more likely to divorce. Even so, she could be a widow at 60.
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/18 04:02 AM
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The Fascinating Girl by Helen Andelin is hard to get a hold of these days, but worth the read.
/r/RedPillWomen25/02/18 11:59 PM
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Good luck with whatever you're dealing with
/r/RedPillWomen09/02/18 10:00 PM
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You don't have to start out with a girly frilly little dress. Skirts might be less "intimidating" at first if you have a hang-up about wearing dresses. Also there are lots of feminine clothing options that are modest and don't show skin. Don't worry so much about what others might think about you. Not to sound harsh, but if you think wearing dresses is sexist- why are you here?
/r/RedPillWomen07/02/18 07:38 AM
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I haven't read it myself, but "The Fascinating Girl" by Helen Andelin is a guide for teen girls looking for a traditional relationship. It may be a bit old-fashioned for a Gen Z kid.
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/18 06:14 PM
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That sounds more like courting, which is the norm in very devout religious communities. I don't know of any secular anecdotes of this but I'm sure it's been done!
/r/RedPillWomen24/01/18 11:23 PM
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Not really, young guys and older guys are pretty much the same deep down. Though you might need to be a little more forward and clearly signal interest.
/r/RedPillWomen24/01/18 11:21 PM
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Older men are very easy to attract! The problem is that they often assume younger women are not attracted to them.
/r/RedPillWomen24/01/18 05:51 AM
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Appearance will draw a man in, but no high-quality man is going to invest in a girl with a bad personality. Being kind, supportive, and feminine are some really important traits that have nothing to do with physical beauty. I know how you feel- I have narrow hips and a big nose too. But you don't have to be a HB10 to be attractive, and you aren't obligated to look perfect just because you're a woman. Don't ruin your natural beauty with expensive surgeries! If you work out and eat well, take care…
/r/RedPillWomen10/01/18 02:24 AM
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That's a feminine quality in my opinion, though not a positive one. No woman is perfect.
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/18 12:46 AM
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Jessica Day from New Girl. She's feminist/liberal but very traditionally feminine. There's also the Duggar girls on Counting On if that's your cup of tea!
/r/RedPillWomen08/01/18 05:35 AM
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It's definitely hard at times feeling so misunderstood, but I wouldn't change who I am :)
/r/RedPillWomen08/01/18 05:33 AM
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I'm also INFP!
/r/RedPillWomen07/01/18 06:47 PM
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What a sweet story! Congrats!
/r/RedPillWomen03/01/18 02:46 AM
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Guys may be interpreting your introversion as disinterest. Attractive and quiet women, from experience, are intimidating to men. Smiling and open body language can help offset this. There's a post on psychological femininity that was posted a while back, maybe you'll find it useful!
/r/RedPillWomen30/12/17 07:47 PM
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My boyfriend is 47 too. At that age men can be very stubborn and set in their ways. The best thing you can do is adapt to him and be soft yet assertive. Make sure to keep your expectations reasonable- a 20+ year age gap relationship is not going to be the same as one with a guy your age, or even 10 years older. Good luck :)
/r/RedPillWomen12/12/17 01:17 AM
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I'm an INFP and my boyfriend is INTP :) I love that he stays logical, calm and collected in every situation.
/r/RedPillWomen05/08/17 10:07 PM
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I'm American but I was raised outside the US. I try to have a general idea of what I want, but keep an open mind about how it might come to me.
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/17 10:52 PM
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Well yes, "common denominator" is pretty much the correlation. I think what she meant is that while cohabitation and divorce are definitely related, cohabitation is not necessarily the cause.
/r/RedPillWomen06/06/17 09:13 PM
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"We don't want to be mentored, we want to be led" pretty much sums up exactly how I feel! I don't think I nag, my problem is that I avoid confrontation until I'm about to explode. So when I do give feedback it's overemotional, and his ultra-logical brain interprets that as criticism or just doesn't take it seriously. I will definitely try to be soft but assertive. Thank you for your insight!
/r/RedPillWomen06/06/17 03:56 AM
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You should just walk away if you haven't agreed to monogamy. Men who actively seek foreign women are usually not looking to settle down.
/r/RedPillWomen28/05/17 07:53 PM
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I haven't posted much here but I might be interested :)
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/17 07:38 PM
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I think that's a misuse of the word objectification. Having no interest in someone beyond sex is not objectification. It is definitely possible to have casual sex without degrading them "to the status of a mere object".
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/17 08:15 AM
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A woman's identity is a lot more than just how she presents herself to the world. If she's "rubbing your thigh in a bar" I think it's safe to say she's into you and not complaining about being sexualized. The women you are talking about are not the same ones who complain about catcalling, objectification, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/17 05:25 AM
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Totally agree
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/17 06:13 PM
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I've actually been thinking the same thing lately. I totally agree.
/r/RedPillWomen10/03/17 06:48 PM
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A boyfriend with the job. I'm just not a career-motivated person. I don't mind working, but I don't do well in a stressful, fast-paced environment.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/17 03:31 PM
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Face and cock. 18, mixed, southeast US, purple pill, upper middle class.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/17 07:03 AM
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Hit the nail on the head
/r/RedPillWomen18/02/17 06:24 PM
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It's fun at first but the excitement will wear off, and you'll be left with a high n count and nothing to show for it. The initial rush isn't worth it in the long run. I don't personally believe casual sex is damaging, but it's far from beneficial.
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/17 03:03 AM
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As someone who started sleeping around in high school, it's not all it's cracked up to be. I understand wanting to party and try new things, but having a high n isn't something to aspire to.
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/17 06:22 PM
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