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2	You are not preserving a woman’s honor by ‘taking things slowly’ or delaying sex. You’re only hurting your chances. Always escalate and avoid the White Knight mentality with sex Aww, it sounds like you have something nice that's blossoming there :) The Valentine's day sounded so lovely! She might just need a little time if she had a recent break-up, and I can understand some of her hesitations if you're in a conservative country. I think, just keep being understanding towards her and let her know she can talk to you. Also, just continue to respect that she may need a little time right now with things. There's nothing wrong with taking some things slowly. I wish you all …	/r/seduction	02/03/22 05:58 PM
2	When she asks "what are you looking for" Haha, aww, this made me smile! :)	/r/seduction	02/03/22 02:22 AM
3	When she asks "what are you looking for" Haha, indeed. It's so easy to get a bit of a sense of detachment from it all. Take care, buddy. Wish you genuinely all the best!	/r/seduction	02/03/22 02:21 AM
3	When she asks "what are you looking for" No worries! I think I didn't write out my thoughts very clearly initially. Yeah, it's important for us all to acknowledge that everyone is an individual, too. It's easy to get wrapped up in stereotypes about the sexes (stereotypes sometimes have some truth behind them, but everyone is an individual). I think respect, honesty and understanding should be the foundation upon which we all interact with each other. I enjoyed the metaphor! I wish you all the best! :)	/r/seduction	02/03/22 01:03 AM
1	I think she's intimidated by me Got'cha. Maybe the attention was her way of trying to be polite? Sometimes if a guy asks me out and I politely decline, I feel a bit bad so will be a little nicer to him for a while. But now I can see how that can also be confusing. I wish you all the best luck, and hope your course goes well! :)	/r/seduction	02/03/22 12:58 AM
5	I think she's intimidated by me Reading this as a woman – she's probably just being polite, tbh. It sounds like she isn't interested in you but is just being nice out of politeness/seeing you as a classmate. Women will often giggle at jokes out of politeness, especially around men. It's somewhat socially conditioned, I think. The fixing hair thing might also not be to do with you, it could just be a thing she does generally (it's definitely something I sometimes catch myself doing just entering a room to ensure I'm presentable…	/r/seduction	02/03/22 12:34 AM
3	When she asks "what are you looking for" I mean in terms of men gravitating towards "pick-up culture" and women being repelled by it. I agree with your sentiment regarding some opposing traits being attractive, but my worry at the moment is that I seem to see a lot of men becoming bitter towards women – and also a lot of women becoming bitter towards men. I think, probably, we're all expecting too much. We live in a world where we can have almost anything we want at the touch of a button, and I feel like we're also expecting a degree o…	/r/seduction	02/03/22 12:27 AM
1	Giving a girl from my hometown a ride back from campus. She’s super hot. How do I not make it awkward and werid? I agree, but I think an open question is good. E.g. "How're you feeling about everything going on at the moment? It's been a pretty crazy few years, huh?" This opens it up so that she can talk about anything she wants/can interpret it any way she wants.	/r/seduction	02/03/22 12:22 AM
2	Giving a girl from my hometown a ride back from campus. She’s super hot. How do I not make it awkward and werid? Hey! Female perspective, here. Ask questions. You can literally keep a conversation going just by asking lots of questions (but in a casual way, not an interrogative way – lol). The aim should be to try and get to know her and engage with a degree of enthusiasm, rather than make her feel like she's being interviewed. You could start by asking her how her week/day has been, and how she's feeling about things opening up again after the pandemic. Then, you can let the conversation flow based on her…	/r/seduction	02/03/22 12:20 AM
3	When she asks "what are you looking for" Exactly, I completely agree with just being honest about things. Sadly, I feel like a lot of women now feel this way about online dating. It's interesting to read about men's perspectives and experiences on here, too. I think honesty is always the best policy. I'm currently a bit worried about how polarized the sexes are getting. Ultimately, I think dating advice is the same for both men and women: focus on looking/feeling healthy, develop hobbies and become a good conversationalist/listener. Re…	/r/seduction	01/03/22 11:48 PM
0	When she asks "what are you looking for" 100% agree!	/r/seduction	01/03/22 11:33 PM
6	When she asks "what are you looking for" Female perspective, here. I mean, isn't it a fair question on her part? I agree with being honest. There's no point dating if you're not on the same wavelength... and it feels unfair to play girls who are genuinely looking for a relationship. You're probably also fucking things over for your brothers if you're dishonest and play girls who just want a relationship/girls who don't want to be played – it increases distrust of dating apps amongst women (and increases distrust towards men in general)…	/r/seduction	01/03/22 11:32 PM
2	You are not preserving a woman’s honor by ‘taking things slowly’ or delaying sex. You’re only hurting your chances. Always escalate and avoid the White Knight mentality with sex My honest thoughts are that either: She's less interested in you than you are in her or She's got something else going on in her life (I'm not sure how old she is, but if she lives with parents & she kept looking around before she kissed you, maybe she has super strict parents and is worried about getting a lecture/punished by parents for being out with a guy) or She has conflicted feelings about sex (society places a lot of moralistic values on sex – particularly female sexuality – so she might…	/r/seduction	01/03/22 11:15 PM
13	You are not preserving a woman’s honor by ‘taking things slowly’ or delaying sex. You’re only hurting your chances. Always escalate and avoid the White Knight mentality with sex raises teacup	/r/seduction	10/02/22 04:46 AM
17	You are not preserving a woman’s honor by ‘taking things slowly’ or delaying sex. You’re only hurting your chances. Always escalate and avoid the White Knight mentality with sex Lol, yes! Well, a lot happens when we orgasm. Serotonin and dopamine release on top of some of that sweet, sweet oxytocin. It only makes sense that there'd be increased bonding following that kind of biochemical response!	/r/seduction	08/02/22 01:07 AM
55	You are not preserving a woman’s honor by ‘taking things slowly’ or delaying sex. You’re only hurting your chances. Always escalate and avoid the White Knight mentality with sex I'm female. I think it totally depends on the situation. Personally, I'm really sick of guys trying to get into my pants on the first date. I'd love it if a guy/girl took things a bit more slowly and really took the effort to try and 'court' me a bit, before diving in and going straight for it. Though that said, I think the problem (with men) is also that I don't tend to find many that are too bothered about my orgasm. I want to bloody well cum, too. If I found someone who was willing to go down…	/r/seduction	08/02/22 12:02 AM