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| 3 | Tips for lasting longer?Thats great advise. In addition, there are condoms or even sprays that can numb your dick for a while. Another thing MikeBaum already emphasized is to not just focus on your dick. What that also means is you have to slow down instead of going jackhammer or at least mix it up. Slow and hard is what did the trick for me and to still get some dominance into it (talking about Sex God Method). | /r/askTRP | 28/02/21 12:38 PM |
| 84 | Plate rating my SMV in excel spreadsheetLet me present you this: https://deadspin.com/the-full-duke-university-fuck-list-thesis-from-a-form-5652280 A girl made her fucklist the topic of her thesis. Maybe that one inspired OPs girl. | /r/askTRP | 02/02/21 06:37 PM |
| 3 | Failing at text gameCheck out Mr. V's Guide on texting: https://archive.is/572sI Helped me a lot with text game. | /r/askTRP | 08/11/20 09:05 PM |
| 3 | How soon to text after first tinder dateASD is not something you can just outmaneuver with some sort of strategy. It happens if the girl is second guessing if she wants to sleep with you or not, because you are not that attractive to her but kind of still good enough. It can be a shit test. It can be social pressure telling her she will be viewed by you and others as a slut by sleeping with you on the first date and so on. All this will not disappear because you didnt kiss her on the first date. Lets think about this: you had the perf… | /r/askTRP | 01/08/20 05:48 PM |
| 10 | What’s going on here?Two thoughts about this: 1. Abundance mindset. If she is attracted enough she will reach out to you or she will not. Plenty of other girls you can game so dont sweat a potential loss. 2. She's probably testing the water right now how attracted you are to her given that she seems to connect attraction with how much you respond to her texts. Be aware that this plate may break at this point if you dont initiate. So what to do? In my opinion take the initiative and ask her out on a date at your plac… | /r/askTRP | 28/07/20 10:16 PM |
| 7 | Women keeping their maiden name upon marriage (hyphenated surnames)Because you mentioned the Will Smith case let me add just one thing. In his video about it, Rollo argues that women are basically keeping or combining their family name with their husbands because inside their 'lizard brain' they feel they still can do better. In addition he says that women also dont want to be under some kind of ownership with regard to their husbands. So if she would be really attracted to the man, having kids with him etc, not having his last name would not even be something … | /r/askTRP | 26/07/20 04:36 PM |
| 3 | I don't want to become black pilled/NEET but that's what's happening. How do I stop this descent?This is what we call the anger phase. Most of us experienced it after we found the Red Pill. In your case it gets even worse because you fell into some bad habits mainly jerking off to much. This alone repeats the cycle of being unmotivated over and over again. Now, do you want to let some pictures of a random rich... girl dictate the direction that your life takes? Women are just an addition to your life. Right now they seem to be your focus. Focus on yourself! Thats the core of what TRP teache… | /r/askTRP | 25/06/20 01:46 PM |
| 2 | What’s an ideal response for this?Go for it, sounds even better this way. Glad it helped. | /r/askTRP | 17/06/20 02:48 PM |
| 1 | What’s an ideal response for this?Haha, I appreciate it. | /r/askTRP | 16/06/20 01:14 PM |
| 11 | What’s an ideal response for this?All time favorite: "You need an upgrade?" And add the cockiest smirk while saying it. Some will love it, more will hate it but thats the game. | /r/askTRP | 16/06/20 09:54 AM |
| 5 | What are some good tips to avoid oneitis?Exactly. Let me add a phrasing from Rollo: In a relationship the one who needs the other one the least has the most power in said relationship. | /r/askTRP | 30/05/20 09:48 PM |
| 5 | Girlfriend (17) of 1 year wants me to take her back after I (17) dumped her because of red flags.Seeing this list of red flags I wonder what kept you in this relationship for so long. This girl is never worth being in an ltr with you the way she treats you. She's playing hot and cold with you, which is just one way of her manipulating you. Dumping her was the right move. But taking her back right away showed her that she can continue those games without much consequences, and thats what she is doing. Sure its nice to get your dick wet at 17. But try to think realistically. This relationship… | /r/askTRP | 25/04/20 11:32 AM |
| 1 | Are collectibles for betas?Best advice. Rollo did a show on hobbies and how they can affect your game just this week too: https://youtu.be/kYxlYmqSkPA | /r/askTRP | 10/04/20 10:56 AM |
| 11 | My ltr randomly dyed her hair pink and I hate itJust to add another video to the list: https://youtu.be/90yJJbOPDHQ Rollo did an interview with Josh Fluke four month ago where he told Rollo about his failed marriage. The interesting part starts at 46:20 where he tells kind of the same story. His wife too colored her hair suddenly. Maybe this Interview helps you OP to figure some things out about your case. | /r/askTRP | 23/03/20 10:24 PM |
| 4 | Bar opener - not to look needyFirst, good job with your progress. Stay on that path. I would advise you to look into Mystery Method. He wrote a lot about group sets in clubs/bars and how to approach them. Some of his stuff may be outdated but the core of it is still pretty useful in my opinion (even tho trp seems to not talk about its roots a lot these days). For opening let me give you an example I personally like, the Style opinion opener (another one from back in the days). You go to a group and just ask them about someth… | /r/askTRP | 09/02/20 03:20 PM |
| 2 | SEXGOD METHOD BY DANIEL ROSEGoogle 'red pill book collection' and use the first link to reddit. It's in there. Edit: Libgen is a good find. I'll leave this here. Maybe some of the books spark your interest too. | /r/askTRP | 26/01/20 01:01 AM |
| 4 | Advice : Insecure GF doubting my love all the timeOh boy, look what we have here. You live with your ltr of two months and tell her you love her everyday? Those are two major fuck ups but alright this was not your question. Your right to view her behavior as manipulation. So I'll give you a suggestion: dump her asap because you can bet this wont be getting better in the future. You had two fights over this already. Is this girl worth all that bs? Think about that. There are more women out there, this one is obviously emotionally damaged. | /r/askTRP | 19/12/19 03:53 PM |
| 4 | LTR claims to not like anal although she has done it beforeI am late on this one but in 'Sex God Method' there was a chapter on how the author trained a girl to get into anal. It was something like sticking a finger up her ass when she orgasms during doggy so she will subconsciously connect the pleasure with her ass later on. Just google 'Red Pill Book Collection' and download the file. The book should be in there so you can read up on that. Edit: overlooked your update. Good to see this strategy worked. I'll leave this here in case someone may need add… | /r/askTRP | 19/12/19 08:48 AM |
| 18 | Met this girl at a bar, fucked her at her appartement and sleeped with her, now what ?Send flowers and 'I love you' text immediatly! | /r/askTRP | 11/10/19 08:29 AM |
| 32 | Girl Showed me her N Count in Powerpoint form.I knew this thing sounded familiar. Look at this https://deadspin.com/the-full-duke-university-fuck-list-thesis-from-a-form-5652280# A girl made her "Fuck List" the topic of her thesis. And I have to admit the work she put in there is kind of impressive. The link shows her presentation. | /r/askTRP | 27/06/19 07:44 AM |
| 6 | Average dick sized men, has your size ever been brought up by ltr/plate ?The size of your dick is just a psychological stimulant for a girl. And sex for women is all in their mind. So if your dick is small just try to stimulate her even more with dirty talk, emotional talk, roleplay or whatever you are into. Mix it all up and in addition make her cum with foreplay. By the time you stick your dick in shes in wonderland and the size won't matter anymore. Last but not least read Sex God Method and watch a few videos from Don of Desire. This will pump up your game a lot.… | /r/askTRP | 26/06/19 11:46 PM |
| 3 | Update to girl who blue balled me on second date - soft nexted her and now she's offering a hotel room. How should I approach?That would have been my argument. You dont drive 2h just for one girl and the possibility of easy sex (who knows if ASD will kick in again, even though it seems unlikely). That looks just needy. But you spread some wisdom here. Listen to this man OP. Edit: https://www.google.com/amp/s/therationalmale.com/2011/11/09/the-tool-of-asd/amp/ Came across this. Last two paragraphs are interesting for this question. | /r/askTRP | 25/06/19 04:40 PM |
| 8 | Update to girl who blue balled me on second date - soft nexted her and now she's offering a hotel room. How should I approach?Your playing into her frame by driving 1h to fuck her. Don't give her this victory over you, you played this game perfectly up until this point. Let her come to you. You are the price, not her. Edit: however if it is just a pump and dump I would not care. | /r/askTRP | 25/06/19 02:17 PM |
| 9 | Is it ok to stare at ass?I feel you. I am on nofap myself and ass in the gym is hard to ignore in that state. BUT I am used to ignore every girl when I am training, because they will catch you staring at their ass 100% (and I am in there to train first of all things). And at this point you giving them free validation. They put you in the postition every other dude in there is, drooling over her by always chasing her attention. Women feed from this. Now here is the interesting part. The IOIs I get in the gym (its small s… | /r/askTRP | 24/06/19 12:33 AM |
| 15 | Should I bang my ex I broke up with cause I was too beta?Let me quote Rollos Iron Rule #7 for you: It is always time and effort better spent developing new, fresh, prospective women than it will ever be in attempting to reconstruct a failed relationship. Never root through the trash once the garbage has been dragged to the curb. You get messy, your neighbors see you do it, and what you thought was worth digging for is never as valuable as you thought it was. | /r/askTRP | 23/06/19 11:24 PM |
| 3 | Any good seduction/PUA YouTubers?The Natural Lifestyles (especially the videos with James Marshall), James Tusk | /r/seduction | 19/06/19 10:25 AM |
| 2 | How to recover from an almost-relatonship that failed? I feel completely destroyed..Great advice but let me add that you should also try to avoid all contact with her even if she initiates it. It will always beat you down because as you said you still have feelings for her. I know it will hurt. But only this will keep the fire lit to forge yourself back into the guy you were before all this and hopefully an even better one. Godspeed and keep your head up. | /r/seduction | 17/06/19 10:04 PM |
| 3 | I no longer want sex. I want an affectionate LTR with a woman who makes me feel special and want to stay with her. How do I get this?I am with you. But introduced me to TRP so it wasn't that bad after all. | /r/askTRP | 17/06/19 04:45 PM |
| 13 | I no longer want sex. I want an affectionate LTR with a woman who makes me feel special and want to stay with her. How do I get this?Never. I believe it was Rollo who said a women is never capable to love a man the way he wants to be loved. | /r/askTRP | 17/06/19 06:23 AM |
| 1 | She texted that she's going clubbingGirls keep guys around to get attention and validation from them. Nothing to win for you there brother. | /r/seduction | 15/06/19 11:22 PM |
| 5 | She texted that she's going clubbingWell then why do you care? It seems not like shes your girlfriend just someone you fucked in the past. Shes free to do what she wants and so are you. Get some other girl(s) and distance yourself from this one. Not worth your time. | /r/seduction | 15/06/19 08:00 PM |
| 3 | How to handle/control aggression?Meditation. I had this problem before I came to TRP but I believe this fixed it. Try to listen to a specific, relaxing song while meditating or repeat some Kind of mantra in your head. Every time you feel you are getting angry think about it or play the song if possible. The key is to take deep breaths and focus just on breathing as well as relaxing your body. After that try to analyze why your are feeling angry. Most of the time I realize its just plain stupid to feel that way. But as I said th… | /r/askTRP | 15/06/19 04:33 PM |
| 1 | How do I stop being so insecure about my penis? It's stopping me from making sexual progress with women.https://unravelingsize.wordpress.com/ This article gives a good impression about the reality of penis sizes. I was insecure about this for a long time too. But reading about it helped me quite a bit to be more confident with what nature gave me. | /r/askTRP | 14/06/19 01:09 AM |
| 45 | How to not get too attached?In the words of AMS you have to prioritize in the following order: purpose (any lifegoals you have for example), gym, girlfriend. In addition create an abundance mindset by having options available. | /r/askTRP | 14/06/19 12:41 AM |
| 1 | Transforming a virgin into a jockIts fake to the point it hurts. But they adress some useful points like improving your style and overcoming fear of rejection. So it has some relevance, but its not that amazing for me personally. I recently discovered James Marshall on YouTube. He fits my "style" of approaching more then the RSD guys for example and has a lot of value in his videos. Edit: well, he didnt ask a question but maybe the comment helps someone if they ever come across this. | /r/askTRP | 31/05/19 04:38 PM |
| 1 | Should you fuck hard and quick or soft and long?You're welcome | /r/askTRP | 30/05/19 01:40 AM |
| 3 | Should you fuck hard and quick or soft and long?Read 'Sex God Method'. In short its a combination out of Dominance, Emotion, Variety and Immersion (DEVI) if I remember correctly. Just google Red Pill Mega book collection. Its in there. | /r/askTRP | 30/05/19 01:17 AM |
| 4 | Girl [23F] I've [25M] been dating for 1 month wants to take a breakI am surprised how similar your experience was to mine a year ago. The relationship with this girl lasted five weeks and was my introduction to TRP. In retrospect I value this experience highly and so should you. Move on, learn from it. In addition: dont fall for this "we are soulmates" and other bs you described. I know its awesome to hear it but you saw how much value it had for her. In the words of a famous fish-guy: Its a trap! | /r/askTRP | 28/05/19 08:04 AM |
| 4 | how to talk with girls without losing their interest?I recommend watching this: https://youtu.be/b-a1jXgAsQI | /r/askTRP | 12/05/19 11:10 AM |
| 14 | Hot girl you’re talking to farts- how do you handle it?Should have ripped an even nastier fart to assert the dominant frame. | /r/seduction | 03/05/19 12:21 AM |
| 34 | What Red Pill lesson did you learn the hard way?Shit tests. No wonder my first "relationship" lasted only five weeks. But got me to TRP so I am thankful for it! | /r/askTRP | 21/04/19 12:55 AM |
| 4 | Why would she do this?I think this falls under the category of a nuclear shit test. She wanted the relationship to end probably. Best thing you could have done is talking to another Girl at that party to show that you dont give a fuck about her actions and then end it with her. No need for someone that clearly does not respect you. But maybe think about what went wrong. This behaviour needs development. Have you failed her shit tests before? Could you pleasure her in bed? Think back and work on those things. Remember… | /r/askTRP | 20/04/19 04:12 PM |
| 2 | How do I stop being so damn angry all the time?Glad I can help. Not in public specifically. I do it in my room most of the time too. But I kind of conditioned my mind to calm down just by thinking about the music I listen to while meditating. | /r/askTRP | 24/03/19 09:16 AM |
| 2 | How do I stop being so damn angry all the time?I feel you man. I was like that too. But after I started meditating my mind is way more relaxed in those situations. I use music to meditate, so for me, if I get those angry feelings I just listen to this music or replay it in my head and it calms down everything. | /r/askTRP | 23/03/19 07:10 PM |
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