oOo_a_Butterfly Archive

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12	Husband Hates Wife: CEO Edition. He refers to his wife publicly as a "sucker", she asked HIM out, they dated for 5 years before getting married. This is his anniversary post after 12 years of marriage. It’s a product that Enterprise sells to renters. Basically if you damage the rental car, they waive the right to collect any payment or file an insurance claim against you. It’s like $20 per day, so depending on your auto insurance, it can be worth having. But he’s still a dick.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/03/22 11:54 PM
124	Can we talk about how being with a porn addict seriously impacts a woman’s psyche, body, and life? Sadly I’ve had two partners who couldn’t finish during sex without watching porn. (Obviously this was in my pickme days). With one of them, it was so bizarre. Him and I were both fairly attractive people. But he liked to watch low production (think homemade) porn starring various (conventionally) unattractive women. At first he wanted to cast it to the TV screen while we were doing it, and I was so turned off I made him stop. But after that sex became almost formulaic, so he could finish in the …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/09/21 02:56 PM
3	Your preference of not dating single fathers, is valid. I’m a single mom and I wouldn’t date anyone with kids for the same reasons. Whether a woman already has kids or not, single dads will pull the same move. And I’m just not a kid-friendly person. I love my kids and niblings but that’s it. My ex’s new gf doesn’t play that game with him. They live together but she only babysits for him maybe 1x per month. She literally will go on vacation, or stay with friends or her parents house etc during chunks of his parenting time, and I think that’s really sm…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/07/21 12:25 AM
1	I'm appalled by some of the comments on Jammies' latest post. If you want to participate here, you have to respect our community. If being expected to follow subreddit rules makes you "feel unwelcome", then leave. I appreciate this update along with the original post you are referencing! I also liked the one posted from the perspective of an autistic woman with B&W thinking because I have similar problems with that (diagnosed ADHD, undiagnosed autism). I was comfortable in my relationship before, but all of the man-bashing and anti-dating/relationship rhetoric on here was making me see things a lot more negatively than they are. I was starting to take on a very “doom and gloom” perspective to the future, …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/06/21 02:38 PM
16	Old pick me VS new Queen me Exactly what I was thinking as well. And maybe this is terrible of me to say, but here in the US “men who work in the mines” are not typically the type of men who take women to fancy restaurants in the city for a first date. I really can’t speak to Aussie culture, but in my experience these blue-collar workers are looking to put in no effort while seeking a bangmaid wife.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/06/21 02:01 PM
4	What do you ladies think ? Jaysus H Crisco. Men take advantage of women with self-esteem and other MH issues then get mad when we don’t do the same lol we know the importance of getting into relationships with people who are physically and mentally healthy. If a woman wrote that people would tell her to quit being so needy, or the good ole fashioned “jUsT cOmMuNiCaTe!”	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/06/21 02:23 PM
9	At FDS, we are not SWERFS. In fact, our goal is to help as many women as possible escape the industry. Here's why. What do y’all think about the argument that “everyone sells their body in a capitalist society?” So many people use men working in the oil field as some kind of rebuttal or false equivalence to women selling their body (either in person or online). Thoughts?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/06/21 04:35 PM
1	Popular Canadian brand targeting teens suggesting a prostitution site in their advertising email headline. Has pandering to the patriarchy gone too far? If you are on the app, click on the image to open it. Once you do that you can see the email subject above the picture says “seeking (floral) arrangement.” Seeking Arrangements, or SA for short, is a prostitution website. Sure they have fine print that says you can’t sell your body on there, but nobody goes on SA to find “companionship.”	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/06/21 12:56 PM
11	world travel vs stability It’s not the world travel. It’s the drug and alcohol abuse while hopping to and from every girl’s bed they can. All while putting almost no effort in to be successful at work or keep their living quarters clean and presentable. Millennial men are teenagers with beer guts.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/05/21 12:04 PM
17	Men are most attractive in their 20s It’s true. I’m in my 30’s and I still go for guys in their 20’s if we’re just talking about looks. Older guys think they’re physically sexier when really it’s their wallet, home, experience, and stability that are attracting (some) women. Sadly we’ve been conditioned to believe older men are providers when that’s not even true majority of the time anymore.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/04/21 10:59 AM
92	Plan B, abortion, and adoption are not convenient alternatives to pregnancy Also! Plan B is ineffective (less effective?) for women over 170 lbs. Which is scary since according to the NIH, over 66% of American women are overweight or obese.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/04/21 05:56 PM
1	What Red Flags Have You Ignored That Later Became the Reason You Left He told me on our first date that he was looking for a wealthier older lady to take care of him. I realized later that he wasn’t joking.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/01/21 04:28 PM
3	So-called "petty" deal breakers That was my ex husband. I carried our insurance and he didn’t go to the dentist once in 10 years, and I never saw him brush his teeth except for really special occasions. And he was smoker. And yet he wondered why I never wanted to kiss him.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/01/21 06:42 PM