oPartyInMyPants Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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11	Guys older than myself, What are some things you wish you had known about women when you were 20? finish line Death?	/r/seduction	27/09/15 10:03 PM
-1	How To Make Her Chase - 5 Key Steps Where is the TL;DR version?	/r/seduction	19/09/15 11:31 PM
4	how to keep a girl interested? You probably need work on your text game too. Proper grammar and spelling goes a long way bro. But in a school with only 20 people in your grade, you need to be open to exploring older or younger girls than yourself, which I understand can be weird in grade school, but is less awkward in high school. If you want advice for getting these girls, stop trying so hard. Just enjoy your time in school. Girls pick up on you having a good time and they will be drawn to your party. And stop caring what th…	/r/seduction	19/09/15 10:29 PM
1	[Infield Video] Easy and simple approach to overcome Approach Anxiety If you are approaching and complimenting her looks, you are in a pickup/seduction game,not the confidence game, and you sell yourself short if you bail right away. What do you think is more natural for her, you bailing before she gets to say anything or sticking around and seeing what she's about? If you are trying to get over your AA, there are better, more natural ways to do so that will naturally develop confidence and charisma. Example: you are talking to a girl for whatever reason that isn'…	/r/seduction	13/09/15 10:32 PM
1	[Infield Video] Easy and simple approach to overcome Approach Anxiety Friend zoned. Don't assume you are being inconvenient. You are taking precious time out of your life and honoring these women with that time. And f you get to that point and you get a response like some of them ("awwww" or "she is cute, huh?") you need to follow up or at least let the conversation develop. You wouldn't even need to say much ("Yeah I know I'm a hopeless romantic" or "Yeah, but you guys also seem like cool people to talk to."). Don't limit yourself to overcoming one step at a time…	/r/seduction	13/09/15 05:45 PM
1	What is the best way to use up some free time before bed? Or you could just go to sleep and wake up an hour early. Give yourself more time for whatever you may need (getting ready, meditation, working out, reading)	/r/seduction	13/09/15 09:35 AM
1	Afraid of making the first move? Help Well it sounds like your dates aren't set up very well. If you do dinner and sit across from each other, it's great for creating rapport, but terrible for escalation unless you know what you are doing. Doing something interactive where you are moving. I would recommend mini golf. Also, when I was your age and having difficulty finding women, I stopped trying. If you consciously stop trying, women will start coming out the woodworks. Women you didn't even know or didn't know you. It's like a diff…	/r/seduction	13/09/15 09:25 AM
2	Cold approaching at bars. I literally don't know what to say Ask a random ass question. Could be about something you observed, or it can be a legitimate question. One I came up with recently is something along the lines of "How much British slang do you know?" I just want to hear a girl say "Bullocks" and "Wanker" though Haha.	/r/seduction	13/09/15 09:19 AM
1	How do people manage to get their perfumes to smell from so far away One spray to the neck/upper chest and you're good. I have been using Aqua di Gio (I like it, mild scent of the ocean) but I was recommended Burberry for men by a couple women. It's a more leathery scent. Women love to critique cologne, so use it to your advantage.	/r/seduction	13/09/15 09:10 AM
1	Friendly or flirting? You messed up by not engaging. Just because you are comfortable with silence (or as you call it awkwardness) doesn't mean that's how it should be. I could tell you were picking up on something early on, and you should have trusted your gut and figured out where it went by engaging her, not waiting for her to make small talk. Bear in mind, however, depending on where she is working, she may be under pressure from her boss to engage with the customer in small talk more often. Or she just had a lot…	/r/seduction	13/09/15 09:07 AM
1	How do I stop being lazy? NSFW Well you already know that your laziness is your issue. If you aren't being seen, so won't make progress. That being said, the food service industry is highly promiscuous. Just start flirting and teasing your coworkers. Male and female alike. Control the men, you control the women. Be yourself and enjoy work and women will flock. Then boom, you get NSA sex and you didn't have to leave work.	/r/seduction	13/09/15 08:57 AM
1	What do you guys think about NoFap? I beat off to be more comfortable/relaxed talking I women. You want to be outcome independent. If you can't pay attention to anything but your raging hard-on and how she might be able to help with that, you have going to be outcome dependent. Beat off when you feel tension or are aroused, not because you feel obligated to. Then you shouldn't have a problem. And yes, if you are going into a date with the potential of sex, don't go in with a loaded gun. You will bust quicker than you would like to…	/r/seduction	13/09/15 08:45 AM
2	Can a guy's room with nerdy decorations not be a turn off to most women if it's pulled off well? You make an interesting poinYou make an interesting point	/r/seduction	13/09/15 08:38 AM
2	I can't do it. [Something of a rant] Talk to her like she was just a female coworker. Or talk to fat/ugly/older women until you get comfortable with that. Use a time when you are taking to dudes as a time to improve your game with women. Come up with funny or witty things to say with a group of guys and it will come more natural when talking to women. Hopefully one of those suggestions will help you. Just keep at it and don't get in your head. It's like diving off the deep end, do it, don't think about it.	/r/seduction	13/09/15 08:17 AM
13	PSA - Pictures are the only thing that matter on Tinder and online dating - Going from 1 match per week to 3 a day Or whose phone is about to die and you need to email her. :/	/r/seduction	11/09/15 02:41 AM
1	Getting over the feeling of shame for expressing sexual desire. Therefore society respects people who give no fucks. Sounds like high school. But I do agree with the whole post. Well put, especially the part about the sack swimmers.	/r/seduction	09/06/15 08:39 AM