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2	Literally no man is “mad that women can choose their partners now.” This has absolutely nothing to do with TRP or men’s frustrations whatsoever and needs to stop being used as a deflection. Women are only free to have standards because of technological advances and some level of welfare state if you look at it from a really zoomed out POV. That's why both sides get easily defensive since there is some uncurious awareness that it is not a natural state. This has no influence on the status quo of course and is not a good or bad judgement.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/24 07:55 PM
1	The Case for Celibacy: Freedom from a Rigged Game Most of these things apply mostly in online and/or interview style dating. Best chances for men will present themselves over natural interactions and relationships. Of course it is difficult to tell someone who is looking for a partner to go out more but to not look for women intentionally, or at least not like trying too hard, but that's what will play to ones strength.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/24 07:47 PM
0	Conservative women are MUCH better to date than progressive women, and all men should avoid dating progressive women entirely. Liberal (in the classic sense, not the left) and libertarian women are best imo as much as you can generalise something like that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/24 07:42 PM
2	THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD It just depends. Women in their 30s are often very concerned with their biological clock if they want kids, can go in either direction. In my experience women in their 40s are more chill definitely. 30s is not old for a man though. Maybe a bit of a hot take but if you are in your early to mid 30s and you are clearly distinguishable from someone in their mid-late 20s you should rethink your lifestyle. Exception maybe genetically triggered balding, but that can apply to people in their 20s as well…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/24 08:27 AM
4	Feminists and TBP are addicted to victimhood because victimhood is power It is also a symptom of our societies, a bit of Master vs Slave Morality. There is too much striving for equality and with that not really much agency, self improvement to higher status and responsibility left. Otherwise victimhood is not a position of power, but if the vast majority is brought down it suddenly starts to be.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/24 09:13 AM
-2	Women are inherently predispositioned to utilizing men in a uni-directional transactional nature in female to male friendships - and this is the reason why most male to female friendships do not have implied loyalty - a hallmark of male to male friendships. Women only have a chance to access the same resources as men for maybe 100 years, historically men were the only group in charge so it makes sense, if you look at the species, that women are adapted to tapping into resources trough ways that are not rooted in a form of physical, political or economical domination. I wouldn't call this loyalty though, this is my main issue. There is some overlap but loyalty is more abstract and trust based imo. You can still have loyalty in a largely unilaterally…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/24 12:33 AM
1	CMV: The problem with dating is that women's standards are too low What is your definition of quality? One part of your text talks about effort, manners, self control, the other sounds very materialistic. What prevents an average guy of being of good moral quality? An average guy might not be very talented or overly rich or smart, but that doesn't mean that his morality lacks quality.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/24 11:38 PM
1	How to make a man feel masculine in a relationship? In my experience women also like the idea of men being emotional (as a state) more than men actually being emotional. This however doesn't mean that a man shouldn't have emotional moments, but as a man you try to pick an choose those.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/24 11:31 PM
50	Legalizing prostitution will barely change the dating world It is also safer in all ways for all sides.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/06/21 09:31 PM
2	The Recent Victoria's Secret Brand Image Shift Is A Symptom Of Female Entitlement CMV I don't know what's so relatable about the new models. I´d even argue that a super model is maybe a tiny bit more relatable than a top athlete or scientist.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/06/21 12:03 PM
3	The destruction of the family: Is it really so bad? Back in the day (50-60 years ago) the children played outside without anyone really caring too much, adults would just ignore them at times, even like smoking right next to them. Not saying everything about that was great but the overall attitude is a better one than todays overfocus.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/20 03:16 PM
5	The destruction of the family: Is it really so bad? I think the old way of the partner being the main point of focus and the kids just being there was better in terms of having a functional family. Today parents focus far too much on their kids which isn't good for any member of the family. However the primary question should be why having children at all? There is a lot that speaks against it and you definitely don't need to have children nowadays.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/20 02:58 PM
1	Has anyone else noticed that sometimes one partner is less attractive than the other? To be honest a not so attractive person can still carry himself/herself in a hot way. Aesthetic attraction and sexual attraction don‘t need to match necessarily.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/06/20 01:29 PM