oatmealisyuck Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Young Carol cannot understand why the CC is a problem for her BF Is there a rule against calling someone a thot based only on assumptions you've made about her? I did not owe him an answer to that question prior to having even met him. When asking, he said that he would not date a girl who has slept with more than 3 people, and 5 makes a woman a whore. Despite him having slept with 17 women. After having lost interest in a relationship based on this red flag, I definitely wouldn't owe him any information about my sexual history.	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	10/09/19 05:21 PM
1	Young Carol cannot understand why the CC is a problem for her BF No I didn't trickle truth him, I refused to give him information that he wasn't in a place to know. It's personal, and I hadn't even met him yet. I am fully comfortable with my choices, but why would I tell someone who would verbally abuse me over them and try to make me feel like I shouldn't be?	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	10/09/19 05:11 PM
1	Young Carol cannot understand why the CC is a problem for her BF We did meet on tinder, but he said after about a week that he would consider a relationship with me because he likes our conversations and my personality. He lives 40 minutes away and was unable to meet for a couple weeks because of personal circumstances from his end, so I was waiting to meet him so we could see if we connect. Neither of us went onto tinder seeking a relationship, but became open to the idea after getting to know each other a bit. I do agree with you that Tinder is generally a …	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	10/09/19 04:56 PM
1	Young Carol cannot understand why the CC is a problem for her BF I didn't believe that this was something I had to tell him, especially since we hadn't even met yet. Also, can anyone tell me what a CC is?	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	10/09/19 04:33 PM
1	Young Carol cannot understand why the CC is a problem for her BF Hi! We were not serious. He was pursuing me for a couple weeks after having met on tinder, but we hadn't met yet. He did directly call me a wh*re, and made crude comments about me, based on his assumption that I had slept with more than 5 people. He was verbally abusive, please see the orginal post. My comment on this thread was just to add info	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	10/09/19 04:21 PM
1	Young Carol cannot understand why the CC is a problem for her BF You too! Idk, someone messaged me a link to this post. It sounded like you had some concerns over missing information, so I wanted to clarify.	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	10/09/19 04:11 PM
1	Young Carol cannot understand why the CC is a problem for her BF Hi I'm the OP, I didn't lie to him or anything. He asked me how many guys I've slept with, and I told him that I didn't want to tell him. I did let on that it was in the single digits, but I felt uncomfortable when he said that a girl who has slept with more than 5 guys in her lifetime is a wh*re. He assumed I slept with more and began verbally abusing me. He did flip a switch, and that's why I made my post to /AskMen, to see if they had any insight on why. He was very sweet to me before this.	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	10/09/19 03:59 PM
1	Young Carol cannot understand why the CC is a problem for her BF Hi! I'm the OP. I did leave out the number, because it's not relevant to the post. I's fine that he has his limits, but no matter how many guys I've been with, the verbal abuse shouldn't have happened. He could have just been respectful and moved on. I actually didn't even tell him the number of guys, aside from that it was in the single digits. He said that he wouldn't date a girl who has slept with more than 3 guys, and said that a girl who sleeps with 5 or more is a wh*re. He assumed my numbe…	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	10/09/19 03:48 PM