obaker8 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	CMV: If all men were suddenly attractive, women would find all men attractive and not just the top 20% Yeah, but that’s not what I said.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/02/21 07:15 PM
7	CMV: If all men were suddenly attractive, women would find all men attractive and not just the top 20% You literally need money to pay a personal trainer and chef.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/02/21 07:11 PM
8	CMV: If all men were suddenly attractive, women would find all men attractive and not just the top 20% To be fair, with their status and fame comes a personal trainer, a nutritionist, likely a personal chef, a stylist, money to pay for the best hygiene and health, which go a long way in making someone attractive. Bruno Mars with a dad bod in jeans and a tshirt would be a normal guy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/02/21 07:00 PM
3	Women bully each other into hypergamy Exactly.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/02/21 11:32 PM
3	Women bully each other into hypergamy Nah, I mean I’ve definitely confided in friends about fights with my bf but they never tried to convince me to break up with him or said anything bad about him. If anything my girlfriends say too little, I remember breaking up with an ex once and my friends were all like “oh thank god, he was the worst” and I was like wut??? Turns out they didn’t like him the whole THREE YEARS we were together and none of them said anything.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/02/21 07:47 PM
5	Women bully each other into hypergamy I have, but for valid reasons, like the fact that he told me he had a job as a mechanical engineer and it turned out that he was one of 2 employees at a startup making artisanal bongs in the other guy’s shed 🤣 but in a respectful, “I want you to know that I’m concerned, but I trust and support you either way” kind of interaction. Never anything toxic like OP is explaining.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/02/21 05:38 PM
16	Women bully each other into hypergamy Yeah, I have never experienced this, and you bet if my friend group did something like this to me we wouldn’t be friends anymore.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/02/21 05:33 PM
3	CMV: Men should put effort into dates because they want to meet women more than women want to meet them Totally agree, I dated a lot of duds before I found him! I wish every heterosexual woman could find a man who didn’t have oodles of internalized sexism and ideas of what a woman should be, but tbh there just aren’t enough of them out there. If you don’t want to be a stereotypical trophy housewife you either have to be super selective or you have to put up with coaching a man to unlearn patriarchal standards. So even though I wouldn’t use your method, I can’t disagree with it because you have to …	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/02/21 08:48 PM
3	CMV: Men should put effort into dates because they want to meet women more than women want to meet them That’s exactly what I mean. I wouldn’t date someone who expected me to do any of those things, so how is it fair for me to expect him to do x and y? In my current (long term) relationship, we live alongside each other and make each other happy just because we vibe well, not because we live up to each other’s demands. If I don’t shave that’s fine, if he doesn’t spoil me that’s fine too. That makes my relationship low maintenance and if you’re into something different from that and your method wor…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/02/21 08:37 PM
2	CMV: Men should put effort into dates because they want to meet women more than women want to meet them Oh yeah it’s totally his problem and not mine if he thinks I owe him, and if I did feel that way there wouldn’t be a second date. I guess I just don’t like the idea of establishing a relationship with the expectation that he will provide for me financially. I do want him to put in effort but more in the form of kindness/interest/chivalry, not necessarily financially. But that could just be my own desire to establish equality when really if equality is an issue in the relationship, splitting the …	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/02/21 08:25 PM
6	CMV: Men should put effort into dates because they want to meet women more than women want to meet them Personally if a man paid for my meal, if anything I’d feel like now he thinks I’m indebted to him or I owe him something (sex). I’d rather pay for my share and have him prove himself to me by having a fun date. I agree that he should put in effort, but that effort should be to get to know me, to have an engaging conversation, etc., not to show interest with money. Tbh I find the whole expecting men to pay for dates thing to be just further misogyny, like he’s supposed to be the provider or finan…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/02/21 08:15 PM
0	People who went through a bad relationship and took the long road of maturing and building themselves after it, do you regret that you had to go through that and wish you remained as you were? Or are you thankful for the experience that you went through? Oof	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/01/21 11:52 AM
1	People who went through a bad relationship and took the long road of maturing and building themselves after it, do you regret that you had to go through that and wish you remained as you were? Or are you thankful for the experience that you went through? I appreciate that. It definitely took patience and commitment on his part too, I wasn’t the easiest to deal with in the beginning.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/01/21 11:52 AM
2	People who went through a bad relationship and took the long road of maturing and building themselves after it, do you regret that you had to go through that and wish you remained as you were? Or are you thankful for the experience that you went through? Thanks man, I appreciate it. Best of luck to you too!	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/01/21 08:22 AM
1	People who went through a bad relationship and took the long road of maturing and building themselves after it, do you regret that you had to go through that and wish you remained as you were? Or are you thankful for the experience that you went through? Yeah, it sucks, not gonna lie! I mean I guess I don’t necessarily regret anything, because I didn’t know better at the time, and I do think dating is worth it. I’m glad I kept trying and seeing other people. But if I could wave a magic wand and just erase that whole relationship I would.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/01/21 08:17 AM
4	People who went through a bad relationship and took the long road of maturing and building themselves after it, do you regret that you had to go through that and wish you remained as you were? Or are you thankful for the experience that you went through? As someone who has been in an abusive relationship, I disagree. After that one failed I was left with a PTSD diagnosis and no hope whatsoever. Worked on myself for a few years and now I’m 3 years into a really healthy relationship and the happiest I’ve been in my life. It might be one in a million but it was worth the chance and all the shit I went through to find the right person. Honestly there’s no better feeling than a secure bond, knowing someone will be there for you no matter what, for li…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/01/21 08:13 AM
2	People who went through a bad relationship and took the long road of maturing and building themselves after it, do you regret that you had to go through that and wish you remained as you were? Or are you thankful for the experience that you went through? Totally feel this. Not sure I know anyone who didn’t have good relationship role models who got it right on the first few tries.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/01/21 08:09 AM
4	People who went through a bad relationship and took the long road of maturing and building themselves after it, do you regret that you had to go through that and wish you remained as you were? Or are you thankful for the experience that you went through? Optimistic view, I like it. Did you always feel that there was a lesson in the pain or did it take you a long time to get to that point?	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/01/21 08:06 AM
7	People who went through a bad relationship and took the long road of maturing and building themselves after it, do you regret that you had to go through that and wish you remained as you were? Or are you thankful for the experience that you went through? Meh. Hard to say. I was in an abusive relationship for 3 years and became a much more cynical person. Also got a PTSD diagnosis out of the deal. But I learned my worth and I don’t take shit from anyone anymore, I went to therapy for 4 years and worked on my mental health, and now I’m in a healthy and happy relationship. Not sure that would have happened otherwise, but it’d be cool if I didn’t have all the baggage, you know?	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/01/21 08:05 AM
-1	She’s not different (no, really. She’s not) You trying to be funny or just a dick?	/r/MGTOW2	20/01/21 04:12 PM
53	She’s not different (no, really. She’s not) Came to ask this. Sounds like mental illness to me.	/r/MGTOW2	20/01/21 04:24 AM