obersharky Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
9	If you ask for her number and she offers Instagram instead, don't fall for it This is not a problem if you have solid instagram	/r/seduction	01/07/26 09:21 AM
1	Got dumped after 4 dates - met on Hinge Sounds like weak chemistry and most likely not a great experience for her when you guys had sex	/r/seduction	27/05/26 07:02 PM
44	You should never ask a woman on a dating site what she's looking for. I disagree strongly. Asking what they're looking for is actually a very good screening question.	/r/seduction	05/10/25 08:43 AM
37	What are your seduction unpopular opinions and hot takes? Things you truly believe, but would get downvted? Thing is they're not really trying. They think learning some lines and watching videos will make them better by they avoid deep level change and uncomfortable questions. That's why they stay weird forever.	/r/seduction	21/09/25 09:02 PM
44	How can I seduce a milf? You don't seduce a milf. They seduce you.	/r/seduction	10/09/25 06:52 AM
1	How do you deal with FOMO and morality when it comes to casual sex? You are to me	/r/seduction	31/08/25 01:16 PM
25	How do you deal with FOMO and morality when it comes to casual sex? "Getting lays is hard unless you approach 20 women / week" dude if you get laid one out of 20 approaches (with hot girls) you're a seduction king not sure what's hard about that. In night game you will approach more than that per night... As for FOMO what exactly is stopping you from doing night game if you want?? I don't think you're a hypocrite. You probably won't find such a woman in clubs though so it's better to stick to DG and online dating.	/r/seduction	29/08/25 02:36 PM
0	How many dates do you personally take women on before you cut them off for not wanting sex. I even partially agree but OPs question was about something else	/r/seduction	06/08/25 11:43 AM
0	How many dates do you personally take women on before you cut them off for not wanting sex. How is it simp reply bro 😀 if you want to be dropping girls after 1-2 dates because they didn't sleep with you, be my guest, I know guys who do it, I think it's stupid but to each his own.	/r/seduction	06/08/25 06:51 AM
76	How many dates do you personally take women on before you cut them off for not wanting sex. This question is wrong on so many levels 😀 for me it's important the reason why sex didn't happen - was she scared/shy, bad logistics, vibe wasn't right or is she just not interested or is toying with me? For me the only reason to cut her off would be the last one, anything else and I know it's gonna happen sooner or later, it's not a set number for me.	/r/seduction	05/08/25 07:10 AM
6	Pickup with depression. Is it possible? So much pickup that I did was during times when I wasn't feeling great. It actually helps you overcome hard times by getting you out of your head and taking to people and having sex. Release fixation on outcome and go for it.	/r/seduction	31/07/25 11:32 AM
2	Should I focus on myself i.e. get better looking, before I chase women? Or both at once? Both at the same time!	/r/seduction	08/07/25 05:27 PM
7	She attempted to ghost me after two great dates. But why? What I gathered from it: you got STRONG oneitis for this girl after just 2 dates you keep planning more dates - when she calls you, when she stops texting etc. you say you escalated, that's good but from how you describe the chemistry it seems there could have been more you feel like she owes you after 2 dates (?) and write her a butthurt rant all of the above makes you seem too eager in her eyes and she pulls back Not saying she's blameless in this - for sure she's not 100% transparent and didn…	/r/seduction	16/06/25 07:10 PM
1	What am I doing wrong?? Not enough information for me to give any real advice. Common reasons that come to mind: - too platonic - too forward - not screening or testing the girls enough - not closing - not enough chemistry - the girl might be interested in getting to know you but then feels you don't have that much in common or have chemistry - inner game stuff such as being insecure, seeking validation, neediness etc - not being seen as high value enough Could be any of those things or a combination. Can't really say …	/r/seduction	08/06/25 04:52 PM