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The biggest thing is what the woman is telling herself shes looking for. The HB9 sluts are going out to the bar, the clubs, or some random place filled with men looking to get picked up. Those HB7 "worthy" (notice the quotes) of an LTR that youre talking about definitely have someone on the side theyre seeing, that man they're going to that gives them the tingles that wont commit. AWALT means woman are getting as much sex as they need, giving it away to the men they want to try and lock down, as…
/r/TheRedPill06/07/15 04:45 AM
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You didnt come here to listen to people tell you what you fucked up doing or how you fucked up (unless you take alot more from the M part of BDSM than it appears). You already know what the problem was so what can you learn from this? •Women can hamster anything into something they want. •Next time anything like this comes up and they want something from you that you dont want to give, hold frame and dont agree to something that you dont or wont give to her. •at the end of the day your word is a…
/r/TheRedPill27/06/15 11:21 PM
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You hear it all the time, different words for the same thing. "The medium is the message". "What do their actions say about what they want?" "Its not what they say, its what they do". My personal favorite "If their mouth is moving they're lying, what is it they want". (the last one is talking about inmates in prison but the underlying message is still there
/r/TheRedPill24/05/15 03:04 AM
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Logged in just to comment on this. It's good that you are going out and doing your own thing, that it's her coming to places that you already are going (instead of you changing your plans to work with her), and that you are changing your hangouts in the same night. Keep in mind that women will dole out affection to their orbiters to keep them in their orbit. from everything youre describing it sounds like she is still stringing you along. You had some good advice in the TL;DR portion, learn when…
/r/TheRedPill20/01/15 01:53 AM
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Jessie has a point if the facts rolled out like he constructed his argument. You werent asking if you should hide your interactions from her boyfriend, it doesn't sound like you are putting all you attention into impressing her or anything, nor does it sound like you want anything from this girl besides what you're getting. So long as your interactions with this girl are "I'm going out to have a good time, come along and we can have some fun during and after", "I'm horny, lets meet up", or just …
/r/TheRedPill07/10/14 12:39 AM
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Your right, that attitude screams guilty conscience. and if you've spent any time over at The Rational Male you'll know the medium is the message ( http://therationalmale.com/2011/09/06/the-medium-is-the-message/ )
/r/TheRedPill03/10/14 04:32 AM
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I know zxDanKwan says it in another comment but keep in mind that "20" is what shes open about. there are lot more that don't count... The nights where she was "to drunk", that guy who wasnt hot enough so she doesnt remember, the rape (acusation(s)) in college. The list of reasons go on so by 20 she means 60+
/r/TheRedPill03/10/14 03:26 AM
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Thats not bad. It comes across as confident if a little lackluster in content. Waiting a couple days and say "I'll be at the cafe on xday at y time" would work.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/14 04:48 AM
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Don't forget unless you are the AF part of the AF/BB equation and constantly passing the shit tests she throws your way, she is eventually going to start withholding sex, pulling you in to do her thing at your expense, and just be a general pain as it goes on. Especially if she feels like she is losing control or not as secure as she was.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/14 04:38 AM
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love your flippant response, it's just to bad you got here to say it first
/r/TheRedPill29/09/14 03:08 AM
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Depends on whether you want to break up with her or if you want her to break up with you. In your case I'd go with the first option. Give her a call and tell her shes taking the relationship to a place you dont want it to go and its time to end it so both of you can move on with your lives. then cut contact with her. Any interactions with her should be on your terms or not at all. It doesn't mean you dont act civil, but after you drop the bomb and cut the chord with her she is going to be pissed…
/r/TheRedPill28/09/14 11:21 PM
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Thats the thing, he isn't cheating. Lying yes but he made no promises of exclusivity. He lied by saying he was single, Though that is a low move to get her in bed with him, he still made it clear that if something better came along he would jump on it (literally in some cases >_< ).
/r/TheRedPill22/09/14 10:49 PM
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It was good that when round 2 started you brought the relationship into your frame. As sad as it is keeping a relationship is alot more work for you than her. Its a constant battle to keep things in your frame but both of you will like the results. Always remember, dealing with a woman is like dealing with a teenager. Sometimes you'll need to treat her like one to get what you both want.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/14 12:05 AM
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With everything youve mentioned I would agree (at least partially) with hark. When it got down to brass tacks your SMV was not high enough for her to fuck you on the first date. There is a couple things said by Rollo Tomassi (over at the Rational male) which boils down to a 3 date rule and anything past that not being worth the wait. I would also mention to take a step back and look at how you are thinking about this gal, are you placing her on a pedestal? (talking about how "this girl might hav…
/r/TheRedPill13/09/14 11:36 PM
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"In this case this girl had sex with me just to keep me around as an orbiter." Sounded like its that contractual sex we hear about on red pill. The kind women give out because just like you said, they still want you around. Now you just gotta work on the great rule of thumb I heard on here recently. She can either fuck you or fuck off but you can't just turn back into one of her orbiters. Shes already shown you that she doesnt care enough to get to know you.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/14 05:11 PM
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