observantpariah Archive

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1	Feminine leadership As a male, I second this.... but I'll elaborate why. I've seen tons of feminine women in workplace management fail miserably because they don't emotionally separate criticism and being mean. Often women relate to me confusion about how men can argue heatedly at work and insult each other and then go out for beers like best friends. With feminine women you often get the two lumped together. Either she is too nice and won't criticize and gets walked over.... or she's critical to a fault, mean, and…	/r/RedPillWomen	04/07/19 01:44 AM
3	(Advice) How do you get out of nun mode? That feeling you have.... men have it too. In fact, I'd venture to say that the majority of GOOD people end up there eventually. So ask yourself, "how would a good guy find someone like you that isn't out looking?" The good men aren't looking either..... they feel just like you do. Prince charming is probably sick of meeting women that just want a free meal and has just decided to sit at his computer and browse reddit while the rest of the guys cruise Tinder. Manic Pixie Dream Boy is probably wi…	/r/RedPillWomen	04/07/19 12:54 AM
6	What are teenage boys supposed to do in a perfect world? Do what you feel is right.... men will be ok. They don't NEED unfulfilling sex. If they think they do, they probably really need something else. Men see the world from the viewpoint of always having to prove their worth. It's impressed upon them their whole lives that they have to earn their value and they have none by default. This is also why a woman's RMV lowers with a higher N count while a male's does not. He's perceived as the competitor needing to prove his worth. She's the judge deciding…	/r/RedPillWomen	04/07/19 12:28 AM
1	Help me unpack my ideas? Virgin, no dating, never kissed This +100%	/r/RedPillWomen	04/05/19 03:25 AM
1	How can you work on having a prettier heart? Truly learn what other people feel and dig three levels deep. Learn what hurts them and heals them. Ask everyone in your life how they feel about everything. Learn why. Ask them for details and shut up. Find out where the fears come from. Don't assume they are irrational and write them off. Knowing people is everything. Learn people in general and apply your knowledge in specific. Not knowing the whole story ALLOWS you to be rude and dismissive. Knowing the truth makes you do what's right. Looki…	/r/RedPillWomen	04/05/19 02:53 AM
0	How To SHUT UP You do need to let the other person talk sometimes, but you are allowed to be you. Bubbly enthusiasm will buy you SOME passes in those conversations (especially with men) because your obvious happiness and excitement with talking to them makes them feel good (they mentally take credit for making you happy.) Serious people get on your nerves MUCH more when they don't let you talk.	/r/RedPillWomen	04/05/19 02:25 AM
3	An intro, from a father looking to the future My brother has two young daughters... and you sound just like him. It's gonna be rough, but as G.I. Joe said.... "Knowing is half the battle."	/r/RedPillWomen	04/05/19 02:14 AM
3	Some advice for the teen-aged girls who read here. RP male advocate I don't stress virginity. Mainly because many women that reach a certain point suddenly become obsessed with the feeling that they are missing out if they have not had at least some outside experience. Almost like clockwork, a college-aged girl who's only really had 1 boyfriend in her life for all of high-school starts wondering (logically) what else is out there.... and keeps feeling that way if she stays with him. It's a hard edge to walk. Not enough experience to compare to…	/r/RedPillWomen	04/05/19 01:45 AM
4	Is my SO testing my sexual commitment? Even as a male, I couldn't imagine having a sex drive like that when I was 34. You'd think the non-stop dopamine would kill some receptors after a while. At least you can probably ask about it safely... I don't know a single man that would consider it an insult to be told that his sex drive is high. lol. Tell a man you don't want it.... he may get upset. Tell a guy you need more fluids and a better chiropractor and he'll walk away feeling like the king of the world.	/r/RedPillWomen	04/05/19 01:25 AM
1	Leveling up after effects You're here. That's a good start. Positive attributes that are beyond skin-deep might be hard to advertise... but you'd be surprised how rare they are. Men are so used to women that have nothing to offer but looks that they give up on finding someone with depth. I can bring up any interesting philosophical topic with my male friends and they join in and reciprocate. If I ask a female she immediately gets bored. I know of three exceptions in my non-internet life and I chase those women constantly…	/r/RedPillWomen	02/05/19 03:00 AM
1	Help me unpack my ideas? Virgin, no dating, never kissed All of those concerns have reasons... Learn the reasons instead of tenets and you can find a better way to address them. Keep in mind I only can speak for honorable and emotionally secure men. Women tend to argue from authority. Men hate this... argue from logic and he will crave your opinion. Men don't hate being challenged as much as women don't follow their normal rules for debate. The vast majority of problems (for men) with a woman that is successful are tied up with her expectations. He …	/r/RedPillWomen	29/04/19 05:56 AM
10	Is there anything you can do if your partner is distancing himself in the relationship (because he is taking me for granted)? While I disagree with the explanation I agree with the suggestion. I don't think he's playing a game. Men don't pull away because you're not doing enough. Men pull away because they want space or less pressure. I suggest doing this tactic exactly, but not because he needs to be tricked into pursuing you. Give him the space his actions say he wants. He will feel the void and look to get closer if he's still invested in you. If you give him so much space that you don't feel relevant to him anymore…	/r/RedPillWomen	29/04/19 04:29 AM
1	My hamster keeps going off about my boyfriend always checking his phone. Maybe he's always checking a subreddit ;)	/r/RedPillWomen	29/04/19 04:09 AM
18	Crying When women I've been involved with have cried I've taken it in one of two ways: 1) I'm uncomfortable because I feel like I'm responsible for it and I'm expected to concede and apologize until it stops. 2) I'm supportive because I know it has nothing to do with me and I feel honored and loved that I'm trusted enough to see her at her most vulnerable. There's nothing in between those two extremes. Crying in front of someone automatically sets up a victimhood narrative. If you're on her side of the…	/r/RedPillWomen	29/04/19 03:58 AM