obstinateoranges Archive

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2	Need to get over her Keep hanging in there man. Go to they gym, get out into sunlight, Pray if you believe in God, and understand that you don't need to "kill this side of you". This side of you, is the beautiful side of humanity. The side of your humanity that allowed you to be vulnerable, allowed you to be close with someone and allowed you to trust them. That is not something you want to get rid of. That is something to be proud of, hone, and make even better in the future. Ultimately, if you want to start feel…	/r/Divorce_Men	08/01/24 05:54 PM
3	Need to get over her Remember to take perspective, you are mourning someone you love. It doesnt matter how they treated you because you still loved them through it anyways. That makes you a good man. Good men mourn when hurt. Im about a month into mine of a decade, and what I can tell you is, let yourself cry. if you feel lit, let the tears fall. You have a unique opportunity to melt alot of walls right now by doing this. But most importantly, give yourself some grace. If you were a bad guy, you wouldnt care about…	/r/Divorce_Men	08/01/24 05:29 PM