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This isn't the case with a well rounded emotionally sound woman. Being distant may hurt your relationship, they have the mental maturity to find distance to be a negative aspect of the relationship.
/r/seduction12/04/24 01:41 PM
22

Where I live it's: Looks Game Status I'm in a blue collar city, so status is looked down upon by the women here, game is important but, what I've noticed is looks seems to trump all here. I've seen girls with attractive guys just because they are attractive. No job, no goals, smokes weed, kinda abrasive, tats, and they'll just take care of them like babies.
/r/seduction26/09/22 04:49 PM
31

Willingness to get rejected makes you more authentic in who you are.
/r/seduction15/09/22 08:25 PM
3

There are women out there that want to save for marriage it's just exceedingly rare now. Honestly I would try to find another woman that's as religious with you and with the same beliefs. It will absolutely be a turn-off for most women except the one that believes the same as you would be a turn on for her.
/r/seduction12/09/22 07:36 PM
16

Honestly every single point here is on par with my ex and she cheated.
/r/seduction12/09/22 04:20 AM
1

THIS
/r/seduction09/09/22 07:24 PM
6

It should be people "work with" other people for "mutual" benefits. That's what friends should be.
/r/seduction09/09/22 07:24 PM
4

Absolutely, feel bad for OP, it doesn't sound like he has real bro's that wouldn't do this to him.
/r/seduction09/09/22 07:23 PM
9

You need to find good friends, I know none of my close friends would act this way with me, because they have something called "respect".
/r/seduction09/09/22 07:21 PM
40

Well tbh I’m a lot less fun than If I had no stress at work and no worries. Dating nowadays you just live at home workout like fucking crazy, have some fad hobby, dress well and you’ll be swimming. Be a hardworking guy with bills a house and stress and you will have some opportunities but if you don’t commit to those things the same as stay at home guy you’ll never compete, and it’s a lot harder to once you have those responsibilities.
/r/seduction30/08/22 08:20 PM
2

Seriously lmao
/r/seduction02/06/22 04:29 AM
1

Right???? Like what.
/r/seduction02/06/22 04:28 AM
1

Honestly sounds like someone I don’t wanna date. I’d really prefer not having a partner that does stupid little tests like it’s high school or something.
/r/seduction02/06/22 04:27 AM
23

Very likely yes
/r/seduction07/05/22 05:11 PM
1

yep
/r/seduction11/04/22 08:26 PM
1

Yes you've got this down pretty much spot on.
/r/seduction07/04/22 04:21 AM
1

Idk anytime I've ever matched a girl they got complacent and stopped doing all the nice things they did.
/r/seduction10/03/22 09:01 PM
32

She wants to maintain that relationship and get you coming back. It's part of her job. It's very likely she's expecting you to pay for it. Escorts aren't just for sex, they usually give emotional comfort, someone to talk to, build a relationship etc. It's all for $$$$ though, don't imagine that any of that is real.
/r/seduction08/03/22 08:34 PM
25

Never fucked at work for this reason. Maybe if I'm 18 and working at McDonalds who gives a fuck, sounds like that's this guy.
/r/seduction02/03/22 01:35 PM
10

Eh until they get bored of you and want another guy.
/r/seduction02/03/22 01:31 PM
12

It's just that at 30 I don't want someone that requires provocative opinions to gain interest in me. I can be flirty and fun, but honestly just being positive is the best, I want to attract happy, fun, positive women, not insecure toxic women. Even just for sex it makes the whole ordeal not worth it. Don't let these people disturb your peace. Frame I understand, confidence is real. Improving yourself is real, not financially (women could give two fucks how much money you have, unless you're ultr…
/r/seduction01/03/22 05:29 PM
144

As a 30 year old guy, this is whole sub is comedy. 99% of this shit only works on 18-23 yo insecure college girls.
/r/seduction01/03/22 03:46 PM
5

Bro I'm 30 but fuck Canada and our lockdowns... COVID HAS BEEN HELL. But honestly it's been better for me now than ever before.
/r/seduction28/02/22 01:34 PM
63

A lot if it is just friend and social groups. Once you hit 30 the opportunity to meet women within overlapping social groups dwindles pretty fast. When I was 19 I was meeting new people all the time, it was constant.
/r/seduction21/02/22 12:19 AM
0

I'm with you on this one.
/r/seduction17/02/22 02:36 AM
2

Literally just spit on your dick and rub it around you’ll get it in every time.
/r/seduction15/02/22 04:49 AM
-1

This used to be true before phones and before online dating, facebook, etc. The hottest women were the most insecure because guys were less likely to approach.
/r/seduction14/02/22 06:09 PM
23

We literally have zero excuses.
/r/seduction11/02/22 10:11 PM
1

Sucks bro
/r/seduction10/02/22 12:21 AM
1

I don't do shit tests either, someone you actually want to date won't fuck around like that. I've had two three year relationships, been with many other women and the ones that give out shit tests are usually toxic af. If they're playing a game, you think it's just going to stop after than one time?
/r/seduction08/02/22 08:00 PM
14

Is OP like 14?
/r/seduction08/02/22 07:56 PM
35

Basically the only good advice here is to go talk to women and get rejected, and try again, because you'll never know until you try. Be true to yourself, value yourself, improve yourself. Anything "seduction" based won't work because you're playing a game and not being yourself naturally.
/r/seduction08/02/22 03:39 PM
4

Working in IT, I can say most of the guys are like this, yes. I'm a bit of an outlier, working out, being fit.
/r/seduction07/02/22 05:12 AM
9

1000%
/r/seduction02/02/22 05:59 PM
100

The kind of women that respond to negative comments aren't the type of women you want... trust me you're gonna get F'd up by this chick. She's going to be the type that tries hard to get you, get you to like/love her, then when you are showing that likeness and love, she's going to drop off completely, 180 on you and leave you emotionally fucked up. It's a game, stay away.
/r/seduction01/02/22 07:11 PM
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He's realizing this at 23, man how many people I know at 30 that still don't have it together bro. You're fine.
/r/seduction30/01/22 02:07 AM
5

I would base too much on Online...
/r/seduction27/01/22 09:15 PM
11

This has been my problem for a long, long time...
/r/seduction27/01/22 09:15 PM
5

100%, this sounds a bit like controlling manipulative shit that girls will pull on guys when they know they have you. This will work on girls with low self esteem. I know for a fact that 3 of my happily married friends now with kids would have never pulled this, and would probably have lost them trying this.
/r/seduction27/01/22 06:58 PM
6

1000% this just drop it
/r/seduction21/01/22 04:25 PM
1

Damn
/r/seduction12/01/22 11:35 PM
25

Honestly, there are a lot of fitness martial arts classes now. They go through the same training programs, minus sparing. I did a kickboxing/Mauy Tai class, I'm pushed hard and to my limits, minus the potential for brain damage or injury due to sparing.
/r/seduction12/01/22 06:20 PM
1

Yes mb
/r/seduction23/12/21 10:06 PM
4

Also, this man did not get cheated on because he was too needy, he got cheated on because she's a cheater.
/r/seduction23/12/21 07:27 PM
1

It did motivate me, I got a better job, worked out, bought a new house, the trauma doesn’t leave me that easy tho
/r/seduction09/12/21 12:00 AM
9

Not lucky when you catch feelings and she destroys you
/r/seduction21/11/21 02:57 PM
1

SAME, it’s pure Hell.
/r/seduction21/11/21 02:56 PM
7

They’re great for fwb
/r/seduction30/10/21 05:29 PM
1

Sound’s like he’s a dismissive avoidant
/r/seduction25/10/21 10:26 PM
5

Shot is already shot, that shit’s dead bro. Girls say they just wanna be friends to make the convo easier.. they’re basically saying they don’t wanna do physical shit with u
/r/seduction18/10/21 06:17 AM
4

Just mix bodybuilding with other sports and don’t take steroids and you’ll look and feel amazing.
/r/seduction07/10/21 05:09 PM
9

Yeah when the BS is about is to not over-do it
/r/seduction06/10/21 02:30 PM
3

Another good idea is giving them your number, like on a note or something, it gives them the power of choice and it makes a big difference on whether they feel pressured or not. One thing I learned about women, they HATE feeling pressured into doing something. You're giving them a choice and it's low pressure.
/r/seduction13/09/21 05:22 PM
5

Day game It's 7-10's all day, have no issues talking to very attractive women, especially when introduced. I'm a decently attractive guy and have some good shit going for me. OLD it's a fuckton of 5-7's and some 8s/9s but they are ego'd up to the max, not even fun talking to.
/r/seduction11/08/21 06:21 PM
1

I'm curious too.. many women think that it's most men.. maybe because of the internet making it easier for 10 out of 1000 guys to message 1000 girls and really amplify the idea that men are all creeps?
/r/seduction04/08/21 08:17 PM
1

Bingo
/r/seduction04/08/21 06:16 PM
1

Women never believe me when I said I never did catcall or send unsolicited pics, or weird messages in my life. It's absolutely true, I've never been this kind of person, but it's sadly so prevalent that it's like a default assumption of all men at this point, it really sucks.
/r/seduction04/08/21 06:16 PM
2

I refuse it
/r/seduction28/07/21 05:59 PM
1

I WISH I COULD I give you gold. THIS IS THE ONLY ANSWER.
/r/seduction28/07/21 05:17 PM
3

It's 100% about the person. My friend is what you describe, he's a really good cook and can play instruments, has tattoos, has a truck and is generally on paper like he should pick up girls no problem. The thing is, he lives at home, and isn't financially really responsible, I feel like women just fucking sense this shit. I don't have those hobbies, I don't really care about cooking impressive meals, I can't play any instrument, I like gaming and anime, I like fantasy, I like powerlifting and cy…
/r/seduction28/07/21 05:13 PM
2

It's true if that's ALL you do. Everyone should have downtime and gaming/programming is amazing for that. When it's winter and there's nothing to do and it's 9pm hit up the boys and game. If it's summer time get the hell outside and have fun. It's all about balance. I don't have issues with women and I'm a self-proclaimed nerd. The thing is, I spend about 1/4 of the time gaming as some of the people that complain about not getting women. You can't expect anything if after work every day you jump…
/r/seduction28/07/21 05:00 PM
5

I make decent money, but my lifestyle is modest and I actually have money saved and own a home because of it. Do shit for you. Better women will find that more attractive that you have your shit together.
/r/seduction28/07/21 04:56 PM
5

People who lift only, forget how important cardio is to their health. Whenever I was only lifting and did zero cardio, I became extremely unhealthy, I felt so tired and almost sick all the time. I barely ate anything at all and still gained fat. When I combined them, I felt my best.
/r/seduction26/07/21 03:55 PM
7

I mean, a lot of women have a type. From a relationship perspective, I see women with ALL types of guys, tall guys, short guys, skinny guys, fatter guys, ripped guys, etc. Ignore Online dating, go outside and look at everyday couples. It's so variable. With casual sex it might be different, but I've seen girls get with all different kinds of dudes. It's better to be in shape of course, but for dating just dress decent and clean up. I notice that women value that a lot in a guy. For example, I wa…
/r/seduction26/07/21 03:53 PM
2

That’s what her friend had said. Something big happened.
/r/seduction19/07/21 11:21 PM
3

Thank you for the words man
/r/seduction19/07/21 06:43 PM
1

I mean, the reason I didn't was due to our mutual friend saying she is the take it slow type. I didn't really want to kiss on the first date, I would definitely have escalated on the second, no problem.. oh well. It goes both ways, I really wasn't feeling that level yet.
/r/seduction19/07/21 06:42 PM
1

Nobody is gonna be able to tell such a small amount.. literally shoes can make up that difference..
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 05:28 AM
9

I love women that wear minimal/no makeup
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 05:25 AM
20

As a counter-argument, this is also not always the best thing. Many of the (leaders) I work with, managers, project managers, etc, are typically very stressed out all the time, they're not really in a great mood because of the stress, and tend to be less pleasant to talk to. They have social skills, but it's business-social. Outside of work they're more miserable people.. The happiest people or the best to talk to are the sales people (who have incredible social skills) or people that are like t…
/r/seduction12/07/21 04:28 PM
1

The most successful guys I know with girls... it's never been about hobbies, hobbies are tertiary to success, it's only use is to make you happy, some of them can lead to meeting women, but it shouldn't be the goal. These guys were fun, and happy, and fun to be around, and had the balls to make a move.
/r/seduction01/07/21 05:35 PM
6

Mountain biking is amazing
/r/seduction01/07/21 03:10 AM
16

I almost never talk about it either.. It's excruciatingly boring, but it's necessary for health. I lift a lot less now, in moderation to stay healthy.
/r/seduction01/07/21 03:08 AM
2

I wouldn't say entrepreneurial is necessary.. I believe the saying is one that keeps you fit, creative/entertained, and one that makes you money (could be your job)... In my case, Fit: Powerlifting, Cycling, Hiking, Kickboxing Creative/entertained: Gaming / HiFi / Fantasy / Anime Money: Computers (I'm a Senior Systems Analyst), Finance/Business
/r/seduction01/07/21 03:03 AM
10

This is the advice right here.
/r/seduction01/07/21 03:01 AM
4

As a 29yo guy, with a house and bills and full time job, how the hell does everyone have time for so many hobbies?
/r/seduction01/07/21 03:01 AM
5

Well.. OLD does change people standards. Just need to remind yourself that OLD does not equal reality, and there are lots of examples of real relationships out there.
/r/seduction25/06/21 06:06 PM
28

29m here. Isn't it easier not to know? I almost feel like I wouldn't even want to know or care and just treat the relationship as a fresh start. As long as they weren't hoeing around like crazy. You'll care if half the people you encounter had slept with your significant other.
/r/seduction25/06/21 05:44 PM
8

Guys think a lot of girls are just hooking up like crazy. MOST girls I know are relationship types, at most they have fwb (which is usually them wanting to date the guy). A lot have low counts, It's mostly a guy thing, bragging about how many. From what I've learned 29M, numbers don't mean anything, quality means something, and you won't remember most of the experiences anyway, especially if it was just once or a few times, it means nothing. You'll remember the more long-term sexual partners. Ev…
/r/seduction25/06/21 05:41 PM
3

Yes to everything you said
/r/seduction23/06/21 03:18 AM
2

Hell yes
/r/seduction23/06/21 03:16 AM
12

As a 29 y.o. it gets much much harder as you get older. I've got about 20+ girls, maybe more, but I never went for numbers only quality. Covid makes dating near impossible where I live, we've been in full lockdown most of the time.
/r/seduction23/06/21 12:58 AM
1

I blame disney for this
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 06:53 PM
25

As a man on OLD, It's hard enough just to find women that's similar, let alone better. Majority if women matching with are typically worse with a few that are similar or close. I'm 29 y.o., 6ft tall, I have 2 properties, a good job, lots of hobbies, competitive powerlifter. What I'm looking for are that they are healthy, reasonably attractive, and are responsible and a good person. What I get matched with a lot are single moms, overweight unhealthy looking women with shit jobs, occasionally I do…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 06:49 PM
1

IT is a great job.
/r/seduction18/06/21 07:30 PM
5

Dude as an IT person it's 100% him, I'm very social and IT is actually one of the most social corporate jobs you can get. I talk to everyone in the entire company. There are a lot of jobs out there that are totally isolating, look at accounting, look at software development. They just come to work, sit on a PC for 8 hours and leave without talking to anyone. He needs to not game when he gets home. And I'm not saying quit gaming, gaming is a passion and a lifestyle for me, just prioritise it belo…
/r/seduction18/06/21 07:28 PM
2

So what is the thing to do, not have kids as a man? haha
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 05:51 PM
23

100%, why don't the single moms and single dads just date eachother? I have a few friends that did this and they are SO happy with eachother.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 03:35 PM
31

The sad part about this is how much single mothers complain about not finding love or a man, yet they would be perfect with a single father since you're both in a similar life situation. Yet they don't even look at these men. It's kinda messed up, the ego that OLD builds.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 03:35 PM
2

Could you be checked for hyperthyroidism? It can cause someone to have an extraordinarily high metabolism, even just sitting down doing nothing. As well you're young right now, everyone I know who was skinny skinny around that age range all gained weight as they got older, many even ended up fat because of the reliance on their metabolism which can drop dramatically as you get older, they never had to watch what they eat, or exercise, so none of the skills were developed to maintain your health,…
/r/seduction15/06/21 04:26 PM
6

Just don't go too hard... I started bulking and gained a ton of muscle and fat, now I'm muscle/fat/thick and it's way way worse than just being skinny. Girls like low body fat % more than anything else. Try to put on a bit of lean muscle by lifting and eating more protein, don't just eat as much as possible to get "big" it's going to suck.
/r/seduction15/06/21 04:20 PM
0

It did happen. A lot. It’s called a strike, and it’s organized by unions. It was very successful.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 04:14 PM
1

This is Ontario Canada, Those contracts are very limited in what you can do here, and the courts heavily favour women in these situations.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 10:10 PM
15

Dude I am terrified of divorce and custody battles etc... I’ve seen what happened to some men, lost everything, their house, kids... He makes great money but is forced to rent a room and live of mac and cheese. His ex wife has the house and kids with a new boyfriend on his dollar, he was cheated on in the marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 04:26 PM
2

Most of the women I know of that were poor had multiple kids from 14-25, with multiple, different, deadbeat fathers, many in jail. Most kids now seem to come into the world in the worst possible life situations.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 07:12 PM
5

They're drinking wine with the girls or alone
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 04:16 AM
4

Would be fucking nice If we weren't still in LOCKDOWN (ontario)
/r/seduction09/06/21 07:18 PM
2

This is why I refuse to do the fully financially supported thing, I'm looking for someone that makes similar-income
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 02:59 AM
10

The husband should help with Kids I agree, he’ll need to be a father.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 10:10 PM
9

It’s good that you stand your ground on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 09:14 PM
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That Kinda describes me... now that I can afford to have a family, I lowkey want one.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 08:25 PM
32

It's funny because a lot of the women who are wanting to be stay at home don't want to do all of the housework while they are fully financially supported and get upset when the man comes home and doesn't do his share.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 07:52 PM
3

Lol, Porn and gaming have nothing to do with anything you said. Have had fulfilling relationships, also gamed, also watched porn, also am pretty successful in life, good job, work out a lot, own a few properties.. All of my friends, game, watch porn, are married, have kids. It's 2021, why are we vilifying porn? This is backwards. I could write a whole essay on why women are failing men, there are issues on both sides of the fence.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 03:41 AM
43

The funniest shit is we as millennials thought the exact same thing as the gen z'ers, now all my friends are married and have kids. All of them said they would never have kids. When you get older shit changes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 03:05 AM
1

It doesn’t ruin your hair but it ain’t doing it justice
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 04:39 AM
4

100% based on the person, I’ve yet to see a woman’s home cleaner than mine, so far. I’m ocd about cleaning and organization. 29male here.. one of my big things when looking to date is cleanliness. Everyone is different.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 04:38 AM
2

Agreed! xD But Honestly man, all this lifting, I just want to take a step back and have more fun. It's absolutely the least fun sport lol. Just pain.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 07:44 PM
2

If You're a serious natural lifter, and lift 5 days a week, you can get pretty big in about 2 years time. If you're casual, there's zero chance you'll get too big. I practice power-building, been doing it for about 3 years without missing a day and my size makes everything uncomfortable. I was an Endomorph, so muscle piles on fast. When I was medium built while doing less lifting and more MMA, I had significantly more success with women. I'm 6ft tall and after a certain point slapping on a ton o…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 07:18 PM
21

Girls like muscle, but they mostly like LEAN muscle. I promise you a non-lifting very very fit guy will get laid way, way, more than a lifting bro with 20%bf. I've noticed this more recently, the guys that are more medium, more athletically built are killing it.. enough muscle to be sexy, not too much to look like a meathead or intimidating. Being too jacked can be pretty intimidating to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 12:43 PM
1

Exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 12:34 PM
1

I do, because I, and the millions of men that use it don’t have any side effects. Dosage makes a difference, prostate treatment is 5mg, hair loss is 1mg. The science says that it’s safe and sides are rare.
/r/seduction02/06/21 10:19 PM
3

The science doesn't agree with this statement
/r/seduction02/06/21 07:57 PM
5

Yeah, my doctor said that I was an extremely strong responder to it, in the top 1-2%, I got very lucky but my thinning hair basically turned into a full, thick head of hair. I got very lucky. I love my hair and it's always been a big part of my identity.
/r/seduction02/06/21 03:46 PM
4

finasteride works, am on it
/r/seduction02/06/21 03:38 PM
3

Also got burned BAD by a girl like this. It's good for the first bit but implodes quickly and horrifically.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 10:57 PM
1

It definitely helps in white collar cities where tech workers make more than most white collar professions. It's definitely changed from what it was before.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 05:17 PM
2

Income makes a big difference in divorce. If she's making nothing and I'm making bank, I'm gonna get completely fucked in divorce. She wins no matter what in that situation. When 40% of marriages end in divorce, you bet that I'm going to be cautious.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 02:11 AM
1

Depends where you live. I live in a blue collar city, I have a fancy tech worker title, it's a big negative for dating here, I have more success just putting in a generic title. My brother, who is a firefighter, that's a job that gets you laid without trying.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 02:10 AM
10

Self improvement is a literal science and there are steps where you can change who you are... it just takes a long, long time to become the person you've been practicing to be, to the point where you just are that person now. When I was 16 I was 300lbs had no life prospects, never had a girl ever even show a smidge of interest in me. I got in shape at 17, and my life completely changed, I was organized, I was confident, I was fit, I was going places. I'm 29 now, I own 2 properties, lift weights …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 01:10 AM
4

Anti-aging cream is a gimmick
/r/seduction29/05/21 07:11 PM
4

I don’t think anti-aging creams work... just moisturize, exercise, don’t stay in the sun too long, and keep hydrated... that’s it.
/r/seduction29/05/21 07:10 PM
4

Cheese is life, brother
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 04:59 PM
3

Lots of guys now don't work out but they eat nothing so they stay small and still look good in clothes. Skinny fat is preferable to actually fat, and preferable to bulky muscular fat. Low Bf% is the best at any muscle size.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 04:01 PM
8

8-12% is a good number for aesthetics. 14-16 is easier to maintain if you like to eat, 15-20 is healthy, but isn't as healthy as 8-12% or 14-16%. Lower body fat % for men is more healthy. When looking at male bodybuilding, when you're on steroids and dieting to the extreme to get down to 4-5% for a show, that is very unhealthy and unsustainable absolutely. I know people who don't actually study this stuff will refute it with random articles from random websites, the amount of misinformation onli…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 03:58 PM
2

The true dad-bod
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 03:49 PM
6

Someone posted about real long term connection, you deeply care about each-other, it needs to be equal, you need to be enamoured with each-other.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 12:27 AM
19

This puppy dog stuff doesn’t last. Been there, done that. Am an attractive guy, what happens is when they know they “got you”, they revert back to their (questionably poor) personality. I’ve never seen a girl enamoured long term, not once.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 06:51 PM
2

Sad but true. Oh god I couldn't date someone with kids. It would be different if I also had kids. Single moms are obsessed with me, decent looking guy with money, I don't want anything to do with it at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 07:12 PM
20

simps are the cancer causing this shit. STOP OVERCOMPLIMENTING. I feel a big part of it is foreign men from other countries obsessing over women in North America.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 07:11 PM
2

this this this
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 02:18 AM
6

I have from all 3 before. I’ve always done them in moderation. When I had zero alcohol, I was less social and more socially anxious because I had less experience letting go in social interactions, that allowed me to become more confident in letting go during interactions without alcohol. Coffee I’ve tried to quit and get back multiple times but in the end I realize I like it more than I like when I don’t have any. Porn, the only difference is that my sex drive goes through the roof and I’m extre…
/r/seduction17/05/21 08:04 PM
0

I have from all 3 before. I’ve always done them in moderation. When I had zero alcohol, I was less social and more socially anxious because I had less experience letting go in social interactions, that allowed me to become more confident in letting go during interactions without alcohol. Coffee I’ve tried to quit and get back multiple times but in the end I realize I like it more than I like when I don’t have any. Porn, the only difference is that my sex drive goes through the roof and I’m extre…
/r/seduction17/05/21 03:01 PM
14

The most gen z thing I’ve read today. None of these has affected my ability to be social, quite the opposite actually. I’m betting social media and phone addiction are far worse since you are so encapsulated in a virtual social world and never get a chance to develop social skills outside of texting and snapchat. It’s sad when I go to a restaurant and like 5/6 people at a table are staring at their phones the whole time.
/r/seduction17/05/21 02:38 PM
2

Hopefully after covid it gets better, I think the pandemic only made it worse
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 09:17 PM
6

It feels worse than a job application. It should be mutual effort, it always was mutual effort. Not this bullshit of 2021.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 08:41 PM
3

LOL you right
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 08:40 PM
17

It used to be like this. It was the opposite of how things are right now. I have a few friends that are 40ish y.o. they told me how girls were 20 years ago, women were fun, would try to be fun, would try and put effort into talking and being with you. It's a complete 180 from reality today.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 03:23 PM
18

I mean this is true except this wasn't as true before OLD. So many women would date regular dudes, prefer regular dudes. The psychology of women have changed considerably since OLD/Social Media. As someone who is 29, I remember the old days before OLD/Socials. Relationships are harder than ever now with how accessible everyone is. Cheating is so rampant, I'm a decent looking guy, the amount of times a girl will message me and is married or in a relationship is just wild and questions my trust in…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 03:21 PM
6

Decisions driven by emotion.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 02:25 AM
1

All good information to have
/r/seduction28/04/21 06:34 PM
1

Would would be the proper precautions, you know, asking for a friend lol
/r/seduction28/04/21 03:10 PM
1

Redundancy
/r/seduction28/04/21 01:51 PM
1

Judging from how many guys play as women in video games, it's hard to tell sometimes haha
/r/seduction28/04/21 01:50 PM
1

Prostitutes terrify me from an STD perspective
/r/seduction28/04/21 01:49 PM
1

They're trying
/r/seduction27/04/21 07:20 PM
3

yes
/r/seduction27/04/21 07:14 PM
71

I made a suggestion about being friends first, and I get attacked by dudes saying OMG NO U GOTTA GO SEXUAL RIGHT AWAY OTHERWISE FRIEND ZONE. No dude, you get friend zoned because of your personality.
/r/seduction27/04/21 04:20 PM
4

Most of the single moms I know are actually very attractive. But then again, most guys just want to fuck them and nobody wants to date them, some do, but typically I notice the guy is usually way below what her league in pretty much every sense that would be if she didn't have kids. A lot of these girls had kids from 14-21. Knocked up in high school.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 03:17 PM
1

If you look at the seduction subreddit, it's pretty hilarious what they tell guys to do to get women, they couldn't be farther off the mark. They tell you to make it sexual as soon as possible, press for dates, do this do that. Honestly these people would be more successful if they just looked at women like a friend first and talk to them like you'd talk to anyone else. Why even make it sexual at all from the beginning? I've noticed this a lot from guys 19-23 because they think that's what the "…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/21 08:34 PM
1

Apparently LOL, like wtf is wrong with society.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/21 01:13 AM
1

I don’t like children but I like smaller women, so uh, I know girls that are 29 y.o. And like 100lbs, are their husbands pedophiles? No
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/21 11:13 PM
7

100% I'm actually laughing out loud at this. There is real science on this, steroids can do more than training alone does, it's that effective. Doing both is insanely effective.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/21 06:53 PM
5

No, they have studies on this shit, literally PED are so effective that they can actually beat out someone training consistently for muscle gain, when the PED user was sitting on the couch. When you combine PED + Training you get insanely massive very fast. Genetics have a role too ofc.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/21 06:52 PM
1

I mean, I prefer smaller women, tits and ass not required and sometimes not really aesthetic if they are already really short.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/21 06:50 PM
79

Hey man, if she's too drunk it's not worth it, even if she initiates it. Sadly though, even if you are both wasted and it's mutual, you're going to get fucked by the law because you're a guy. Anytime I sense I or her are too drunk even if she's begging for me, I'm out, I have too much to lose. I've had the exact situation as OP, but in this case she was really grabbing my dick and begging me to fuck her, it was hard (pun not intended), but I walked away from the situation.
/r/seduction19/04/21 07:36 PM
1

Thanks man
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/21 05:20 PM
7

I only sleep with women I’m decently mentally and physically attracted to. I won’t sleep with any girl just to get laid. I’d rather have 6 months no sex then to just sleep with someone I’m not that attracted to just to get laid. I have high standards and I stick to them. Having high standards had led me to date and casually date higher quality women, when you are confident you don’t settle, and that means even when you’re potentially not seeing anyone for months, I don’t lower my standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/21 03:26 PM
5

Sorry, I mean on the cringe-scale lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 10:27 PM
28

They are pretty much male eq of incels
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 09:57 PM
1

I was trolling from the beginning, black griffin is right, I’m actually fine libido wise.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 03:23 PM
25

Finasteride for me, sexy hair, no sex
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/21 08:57 PM
10

When I was 19/20, I had a fuck ton of attention in school and in bars, I was a runner/athlete, but I was also the biggest panzy, I was afraid of everything and had low self confidence. My friends at the time didn’t get much attention but they were daring and confident, got 10x the girls I did. Mind you this was pre-online dating so, girls never typically chose men on looks alone then.
/r/seduction07/04/21 03:38 PM
1

I'm sure if he had 3 paragraphs of text explaining why he was the best, nicest guy ever and why he's so amazing in his profile, while being extremely nice and super respectful, while sending 10 messages within 5 minutes would disqualify him more than this for a lot of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/21 03:12 PM
5

Nobody would ever put that in their profile, women would look at that as some real dark humour / sarcasm, which would improve his chances with women
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 05:03 AM
9

Not even just that, could be the worst thing of all: Boring, if you don’t make the convo fun in some way idc how attractive you are, most girls will turn you down.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 04:48 AM
1

You still have to do something, there are enough attractive guys that you still need to stand out in other ways. Also sexuality for women is less physical and more emotional, OLD is more competitive than IRL so looks matter more there of course. The more attractive guy merely get an opportunity to get it, but it's not guaranteed.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 04:23 AM
1

Legit
/r/seduction31/03/21 03:04 PM
8

Yeah, I mean in the context of straight insults to see how you respond.
/r/seduction29/03/21 08:05 PM
42

Sometimes this "testing" is a hard pass from me man. I'm sorry but if she's disrespecting you on the get-go, she can get go the fuck away.
/r/seduction29/03/21 03:36 PM
1

If you're looking to attract women that are at a shallow level attracted then you, sure, this can be gamed. If you're actually looking for a life partner or a strong, real, relationship you can't really game it. Humans are incredibly complex. Certain things will work at a very early stage or shallow level, but once you try to game a deep relationship everything falls apart.
/r/seduction23/03/21 05:58 PM
2

You don't want this girl
/r/seduction01/03/21 04:09 PM
5

I have a friend that is probably a god at dating, he's 40 now, been single most of his life, I don't know how many girls he's dated at this point, it's almost a game to him, but he just loves the dating game. One of the points he's made is that it's always a bad sign if a girl sends nudes before you've met and before you've done anything sexual together. It sets a precedent that hasn't been crossed yet between both people. If he's trying to hookup with someone his experience is the girls that do…
/r/seduction26/02/21 03:30 PM
2

I've heard about this happening at other workplaces, like McDonald's, but never worked anywhere where this did happen.. I've hooked up with a few girls at my work, but not all of them, and I was in all the social circles, I would have picked up on something. It also was a large workplace with 100+ employees as my first job.
/r/seduction25/02/21 07:26 PM
19

I think Covid fucked it up for a lot of us.. Probably the #1 reason at this point for me, it's a social skill
/r/seduction25/02/21 07:16 PM
2

Well, in a way yes. It's more like I've been through a lot of pain and traumatic experiences I just focus my energy into improving myself instead of wallowing in it.
/r/seduction25/02/21 06:59 PM
1

I mean, honestly there is a difference between dating and relationship. Having your shit together is far more attractive to a girl looking for a relationship, regardless of age.
/r/seduction25/02/21 06:53 PM
1

I've never worked anywhere like this lol
/r/seduction25/02/21 06:50 PM
1

My self-confidence issues stems from my childhood and is deeply rooted due to a number of factors. I'm working on it. If I can fix this I'm golden. Also where I live we're still in a hard lockdown, not much opportunity to date.
/r/seduction25/02/21 06:39 PM
3

Fellow MONK'EH. Apes stronk
/r/seduction25/02/21 05:22 PM
3

I'm 29, make 100k a year, 6'0, powerlifter, have a strong friend group. None of this means shit. I get above-average right now. My problem? Self-confidence. And after all that work, am I fun? Not really, I'm always working on myself. I'm always working out, working, connecting, improving, etc. Confidence is everything, personality is everything, women don't care about any of that shit I listed first. Women think differently than men. You're thinking logically if I do X then I get X. Not the case…
/r/seduction25/02/21 05:20 PM
20

Just gonna say I did a lot better with women when I wasn't "successful", focused most of my time on working out and social activities. I'm definitely a more rounded out person now and successful in my goals, but honestly 85%+ of women don't give a shit about that. Status means shit, but Social Status means quite a lot I've noticed. Though, to be honest, from a long term life perspective I'd rather date someone that does care about overall goals and life success (not money specifically), they're …
/r/seduction16/02/21 03:57 PM
3

Where I live everything is completely locked-down no bars right now. And no dates for me
/r/seduction16/02/21 01:45 AM
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